Church Fathers V3 - Fr George Grube - Saint Mina Coptic Orthodox ...

There are so many instances where we feel betrayed by life and, like Job in
the Old Testament, we cry aloud "Why me Lord, why me?" In these times of
crisis it is good to have a solid family unit on which to depend. That is why we
are called to constantly bolster our family defenses against outside influences
that may weaken its foundation. Family prayer, so neglected by most, is a way
to remind ourselves from "whence comes our help"- and that is, the Lord! In
times of good and plenty, we must prepare for times of want. When we are
"riding high", feeling sufficient unto ourselves, we cannot push God into the
background. He is not like some good suit that we take out only on occasions
of need! God must be the priority in our lives at all times, first and foremost,
not because He needs us- but because we need Him- as our only hope and
our sole source of strength.
God must be an unseen, yet real and ever- present member of our family- so
that when we need His strength we know where He is and can easily turn all
our thoughts and energy heavenward.
WRITINGS OF THE FATHERS:
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+ The state of wedlock does not estrange us from God, but rather ties us
more closely to Him, for it brings forth a greater impetus to turn to Him. Even
under a light breeze, a small boat moves forward...a light breeze will not move
a great ship...Thus, those not burdened with secular concerns have less need
of help from Almighty God, but one who has responsibilities, who looks after
his beloved spouse, his estate and children, traverses a broader sea of life,
and has greater need of God's help. In return (for that help), he himself comes
to love God even more.
- St. Gregory the Theologian
+ It is essential to call the priests to confirm, with prayers and blessings, the
couple in their life together, so that the groom's love may intensify, the bride's
chastity of mind be strengthened, and everything work to ensure that the virtues
settle into their home. In this way, the evil doings of Satan will be scattered,
and the couple, united with God’s help, will spend their life in joy.
- St. John Chrysostom
+ Marriage is more than human; it is a miniature kingdom, which is the little
house of the Lord.
- St. Clement of Alexandria
+ The husband must always remember that his deeds and words should
engender piety in his home. The wife must look after the house. However,
she must, in addition to that occupation, attend to another more pressing
concern - that the whole family strive to attain the Heavenly Kingdom.
- St John Chrysostom
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