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The Tboli, also known as T'boli, Tiboli, and Tagabili, are an old ...

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abortion for various re<strong>as</strong>ons, such <strong>as</strong>: her husb<strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> h<strong>as</strong> ab<strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong>oned her <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> refuses to<br />

give support; she h<strong>as</strong> more children th<strong>an</strong> c<strong>an</strong> be fed adequately; her honor h<strong>as</strong> been<br />

stained; she merely w<strong>an</strong>ts to be sp<strong>are</strong>d the difficulties of delivery. <strong>The</strong> wom<strong>an</strong> goes<br />

to the tao matunga or abortionist who gives her concoctions. Failure of the latter<br />

usually results in dr<strong>as</strong>tic me<strong>as</strong>ures such <strong>as</strong> mutilation or walking around with heavy<br />

stones tied to the womb. <strong>The</strong> extreme abortion technique is suicide.<br />

<strong>The</strong> moment the mother-to-be experiences labor pains, a monkey’s intestines <strong>are</strong><br />

placed on her abdomen in the belief that this will e<strong>as</strong>e childbirth, because monkeys<br />

always have e<strong>as</strong>y deliveries. <strong>The</strong> husb<strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> <strong>as</strong>sists the midwives during his wife’s<br />

delivery, <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> he places personal items, like his tok (sword) or kafil<strong>an</strong> (long knife) by<br />

her side <strong>as</strong> desu or offering to the gods in supplication for e<strong>as</strong>y childbirth. Another<br />

tok is used to cut the baby’s umbilical cord. This tok h<strong>as</strong> a mystic life-bond with the<br />

child <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> must never be lost, lest the child die.<br />

<strong>The</strong> mother wraps the child in her luwek or tube skirt <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> allows no dressing to be<br />

applied on the newly severed umbilical cord. Henceforth, she resumes her normal<br />

routine, free from the lii (taboos) that governed her pregn<strong>an</strong>cy. <strong>The</strong> child is allowed<br />

to remain naked until it decides to emulate its elders <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> dresses accordingly.<br />

<strong>The</strong> child is usually given a name according to its physical characteristics at birth,<br />

such <strong>as</strong> bukay (white or light-skinned), udi (small), or bong (big). Sometimes, the<br />

child is named after import<strong>an</strong>t <strong>an</strong>cestors, forces of nature, or <strong>an</strong>imals. If the child is a<br />

first-born, the p<strong>are</strong>nts <strong>are</strong> identified by the child’s name. Thus, the p<strong>are</strong>nts of a child<br />

named Fok come to be <strong>known</strong> <strong>as</strong> Ma’Fok (Father of Fok) <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> Ye’Fok (Mother of Fok).<br />

Disrespect or disobedience to p<strong>are</strong>nts may result in the child being bartered, a<br />

practice <strong>known</strong> <strong>as</strong> habalo. Destitute p<strong>are</strong>nts may <strong>also</strong> resort to this to meet their<br />

credit obligations. Filial obligation, however, dictates that the relatives of the p<strong>are</strong>nts<br />

buy the child themselves, or buy back the latter should he/she be s<strong>old</strong> to a non-relative.<br />

Once s<strong>old</strong>, the child ce<strong>as</strong>es to have all relations with the original family.<br />

<strong>Tboli</strong> upbringing is not strict. <strong>The</strong> indoctrination of the child into the rigid rules of<br />

<strong>Tboli</strong> society is subliminally <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> relentlessly pursued through the numerous folktales<br />

<strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> beliefs that <strong>are</strong> t<strong>old</strong> <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> ret<strong>old</strong>. <strong>The</strong>se didactic exercises contain various lii. Among<br />

the beliefs expressed <strong>are</strong> a whole cl<strong>as</strong>s of injunctions against eating: bedak or l<strong>an</strong>gka<br />

growing against the br<strong>an</strong>ch, so that the children will not grow up to be rebellious <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong><br />

insubordinate; the head of a pig, to prevent hardheadedness; frogs’ heads, to prevent<br />

talkativeness; burnt rice sticking at the pot bottom, to prevent laziness <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> unruliness;<br />

chicken wings, <strong>as</strong> the boys will be unable to build a house <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> the girls unable to<br />

weave; <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> rats, so that the children will not grow up to be thieves.<br />

Succession is exclusively reserved for men. When the father dies, his responsibilities<br />

<strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> rights go to his eldest son or, if he h<strong>as</strong> no son, to his eldest brother. Daughters <strong>are</strong><br />

generally considered inferior to the sons <strong><strong>an</strong>d</strong> do not inherit property.

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