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Precisamente, tú vienes de un hogar monoparental. ¿Cuándo<br />
comenzaste a apreciar lo que implicaba para tu mamá enfrentar<br />
la vida sin una pareja?<br />
Yo siempre he sido muy observador y analítico, así es que<br />
desde los once años comencé a ver que en mi casa mi mamá<br />
y mi abuelita hacían muchos sacrificios para darnos un pan<br />
al día, y que si me daban dos eso significaba que ellas se<br />
quedaban sin comer.<br />
Después de una vida de sacrificios, ¿cómo has logrado<br />
recompensar a tu mamá por esa época tan difícil?<br />
No me gusta hablar de cosas materiales, pero me da mucha<br />
alegría recordar cuando pude comprarle un auto. Cuando llegamos<br />
aquí [Miami] lo que más nos daba problema era el carro, nos<br />
dejaba botados en todos lados. El ruido que hacía era tan fuerte<br />
que se podía escuchar a diez cuadras. Cuando mi mamá me iba a<br />
buscar a la escuela no podía parar el carro porque se le apagaba y<br />
costaba mucho encenderlo de nuevo, así es que yo me tenía que<br />
bajar y subir mientras el auto todavía seguía caminando. Por eso,<br />
cuando trabajé y pude comprarle un auto a mi mamá, para mí fue<br />
una gran alegría. Gracias a Dios, desde entonces no me ha faltado<br />
TACA.COM ABRIL.13<br />
I FIND MYSELF ACTING IN FILMS<br />
AND TRYING TO CHANGE<br />
THE ESTABLISHED HOLLYWOOD<br />
IMAGE OF US LATINOS.<br />
could shed some light on, especially considering that many women<br />
have to live through that.<br />
In fact, you come from a single-parent household. When did<br />
you begin to appreciate what it took for your mom to face life<br />
without a partner?<br />
I’ve always been very observant and analytical, so since I<br />
was about 11 years old I began to notice that my mom and my<br />
grandmother sacrificed a lot to give us our daily bread, and that if<br />
we were given two, then that meant they went without.<br />
After a life full of sacrifice, how have you managed to pay your<br />
mom back for that difficult period?<br />
I don’t like to talk about material things, but it makes me very<br />
happy to recall when I was able to buy her a car. When we first<br />
arrived here [Miami], the car was what gave us the most trouble;<br />
it would leave us stranded everywhere. It was so loud, that you<br />
could hear it 10 blocks away. When my mother picked me up at<br />
school, she couldn’t stop the car because it would shut off and it<br />
was nearly impossible to restart, so I would have to get on and off<br />
as the car was moving. That’s why when I started working and was<br />
able to afford it, it was really an achievement for me. Thankfully,<br />
since then I haven’t been without work and I haven’t lacked for<br />
anything. But above all, I really enjoy being with her, because I<br />
know what’s most important is not what I can give her, but rather<br />
the time we spend together.<br />
How did living without a father change the way you saw things?<br />
I learned very early on what you want from a father and what<br />
you need from him. I try to give that to my own children and to<br />
be the best father possible. I try my hardest to provide them with<br />
what they need most.