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A Jew is stubborn...and seeing how<br />
my fa<strong>the</strong>r-in-law was circulating and<br />
giving out mashke (or wine, I don’t<br />
remember exactly), and he probably<br />
held a cup in his hand, I began to get<br />
up again, in order to help him.<br />
My fa<strong>the</strong>r-in-law looked at me<br />
(with a sharp look) and I realized that<br />
I had to remain seated. I remained<br />
<strong>the</strong>re, on tenterhooks of course, but<br />
seated, until my fa<strong>the</strong>r-in-law came<br />
back and sat down in his place to<br />
continue <strong>the</strong> wedding feast.<br />
YOU HAVE TAKEN AS A SON-<br />
IN-LAW A GAON OLAM<br />
R’ Shmuel Zalmanov, who was <strong>the</strong><br />
waiter appointed to <strong>the</strong> head table at<br />
<strong>the</strong> Rebbe’s wedding, related:<br />
As a young bachur, it would not<br />
have been polite for me to stand close<br />
to <strong>the</strong> table. However, in my role as<br />
waiter, I approached <strong>the</strong> table several<br />
times, and merited to see how <strong>the</strong><br />
Rebbe Rayatz suggested to <strong>the</strong> famous<br />
gaon, Rabbi Meir Shapiro z”l, rav of<br />
Lublin, who sat near <strong>the</strong> chassan, that<br />
he speak in learning with <strong>the</strong> chassan.<br />
So Rabbi Shapiro turned to <strong>the</strong> chassan<br />
and said, “Nu, say something.”<br />
In <strong>the</strong> meantime, I had moved<br />
away from <strong>the</strong> table, to be polite, but I<br />
continued to follow what was<br />
happening from a distance. I saw how<br />
<strong>the</strong> Rebbe shlita spoke to Rabbi<br />
Shapiro for a long time. He spoke<br />
quietly and moderately, and<br />
throughout, Rabbi Shapiro listened<br />
closely and only made brief comments.<br />
This went on for a long time, and<br />
at <strong>the</strong> end, Rabbi Shapiro turned to <strong>the</strong><br />
Rebbe Rayatz and said: Lubavitcher<br />
Rebbe, you have taken as a son-in-law,<br />
a gaon olam (tremendous genius).<br />
Then Rabbi Shapiro asked <strong>the</strong><br />
Rebbe to continue and tell him more<br />
chiddushei Torah, but <strong>the</strong> Rebbe<br />
politely refused, saying: Until now, I<br />
was commanded to do so, but if I<br />
continue, that would be my own<br />
decision.<br />
SON-IN-LAW AND FATHER-<br />
IN-LAW DANCING<br />
After <strong>the</strong> meal, at about three-thirty,<br />
<strong>the</strong> guests and Admurim who had<br />
come to <strong>the</strong> simcha got up and danced<br />
toge<strong>the</strong>r in a circle (as Polish<br />
Chassidim dance). When <strong>the</strong> Admurim<br />
sat down to rest, <strong>the</strong> Rebbe Rayatz<br />
took his son-in-law and danced with<br />
him, with hands on each o<strong>the</strong>r’s<br />
shoulders, as Chabad Chassidim<br />
dance. The Admurim said <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
goodbyes and went home.<br />
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Issue Number 534 - BEIS MOSHIACH 11