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There were no caves to explore where I grew up. The sandy<br />
Texas plain north of Loraine was typical of West Texas.<br />
There is only one “mountain” rising above that plain.<br />
Lone Wolf Mountain proudly bore the title of “the highest<br />
peak in Mitchell County.”<br />
Visible for miles, it rose to a majestic 800 feet above sea<br />
level. The air was no thinner on its peak than on the sandy<br />
soil below.<br />
Sand—lots of sand—produced tumble weeds, cat-claw<br />
bushes, mesquite trees, and wild plum thickets.<br />
There was a huge plum thicket on the dry creek in our<br />
pasture. The tart wild plums produced some of the best jelly<br />
I have ever tasted. Neighbors came to our farm to gather wild<br />
plums on the “halves:” a bucket for them and a bucket for us.<br />
Ours was left on the porch. No signs posted. No instructions.<br />
It was the unspoken courtesy of West Texas.<br />
The plum thicket covered nearly an acre on the creek.<br />
Under the matted limbs were trails carved by small animals.<br />
Secret places never exposed to the sun. “West Texas caves.”<br />
Our neighbors’ daughter was six and I was seven. There<br />
were no boys in her family, no girls in mine. In one of those<br />
“caves” we explored the mystery of what makes boys different<br />
from girls. The game was called “doctor.” We took turns<br />
being the examining physician.<br />
We both emerged with childhood curiosity satisfied. We<br />
might have sung with Peggy Lee, “Is That All There Is?”<br />
Wiser, we both went home.<br />
She “confessed” to her mother, who cried in anger on our<br />
front porch as she told my mother of the secret tryst, and of<br />
her daughter’s contaminated innocence and admitted guilt.<br />
I heard the car drive off.<br />
Mother entered my room. “Come with me Hal Holmes.”<br />
24 • CHRISTMAS 2004 • CHRISTIAN ETHICS TODAY<br />
The Haystack Prayer Meeting<br />
By Hal Haralson, Austin, TX<br />
Whenever she used both of my names, I knew I was in<br />
trouble.<br />
We went past the windmill, past the barn to the haystack.<br />
Mother dropped to her knees in the hay and pointed for me<br />
to do the same.<br />
She prayed and confessed my “sin” to God. She told God<br />
how disappointed she was in me; how she had prayed while<br />
pregnant with me as she had walked the dusty road; how in<br />
the pasture she had dedicated to God the child she carried.<br />
She asked God for forgiveness for herself as a mother for failing<br />
to raise her son as God would have him to be.<br />
She left me at the haystack.<br />
Deep in the recesses of my seven-year-old mind I vowed<br />
never to disappoint her—or God—again.<br />
I did not understand the impact of this experience until<br />
sixty years later. Why then? Maybe it was the cool mountain<br />
air of Taos, New Mexico. Perhaps it was the beauty of the<br />
200-year-old Mable Dodge Luhan Conference Center where<br />
I was participating in a writing conference led by Paula<br />
D’Arcy. Conceivably it was a combination of these physical<br />
stimuli coupled with the words of this inspirational woman.<br />
Paula honestly and openly shared her remembrance of the<br />
death of her husband and two-year-old daughter Sarah. The<br />
tragedy had occurred twenty years before when a drunken<br />
driver going 90 miles per hour struck their car. Her pain<br />
became her gift . . . her journal, published as Song for Sarah,<br />
sold 250,000 copies in the first six months.<br />
My recent read of Parker Palmer’s book Let Your life Speak,<br />
which suggests that many of us lead desperate lives trying to be<br />
who we think others want us to be, helped to prompt my<br />
insight. The intermingling of the words of Palmer and<br />
D’Arcy produced a personal revelation as clear as if my soul