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3<br />

Humility isn’t the most sought-after<br />

<strong>of</strong> virtues. But in addition to making<br />

someone much more likable, it may<br />

just have a direct relationship with<br />

happiness.<br />

“People don’t <strong>of</strong>ten talk about<br />

the emotional benefits<br />

<strong>of</strong> humility,” says<br />

UC <strong>Riverside</strong><br />

psychology<br />

graduate<br />

student<br />

Elliott Kruse,<br />

“but it’s<br />

possible that<br />

it may be<br />

one way to<br />

become more<br />

content.”<br />

Kruse, along with<br />

fellow grad student<br />

Joe Chancellor, is<br />

studying the effects<br />

<strong>of</strong> humility and how<br />

people attain that<br />

quality.<br />

Eat That Not-so-Negative<br />

Slice <strong>of</strong> Humble Pie<br />

“Humility<br />

may be<br />

one way<br />

to become<br />

more<br />

content.”<br />

“We felt that some <strong>of</strong> the popular<br />

views <strong>of</strong> humility didn’t fit well with<br />

our own experiences interacting with<br />

the humble people in our lives,”<br />

Kruse says. “Many folks assume<br />

that the humble are overly modest,<br />

perhaps boring and even<br />

weak, or that the experience<br />

<strong>of</strong> humility is somehow<br />

negative.”<br />

From that perspective,<br />

Kruse says you’d think that<br />

humility might make people<br />

unhappy, because they’re not<br />

expected to like themselves.<br />

But Kruse and Chancellor<br />

have discovered the opposite:<br />

Feeling humble is related to<br />

feeling secure—and experiencing fewer<br />

negative emotions in general.<br />

“Humility may lead to happiness<br />

[by] making it easier for people<br />

to experience gratitude,” Kruse<br />

explains. “Which may in turn increase<br />

satisfaction with life.”<br />

<strong>UCR</strong> Spring 2013 | 11

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