Worship ~ Sundays at 10AM See you in church! Pastor Mike Bennett
Worship ~ Sundays at 10AM See you in church! Pastor Mike Bennett
Worship ~ Sundays at 10AM See you in church! Pastor Mike Bennett
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2012<br />
<strong>Worship</strong> ~ <strong>Sundays</strong> <strong>at</strong> <strong>10AM</strong><br />
Welcome One Another<br />
“Welcome one another,” the Apostle Paul writes, “just as Christ has<br />
welcomed <strong>you</strong>.” (Romans 15.7) From the bottom of my heart, I thank <strong>you</strong><br />
for the warm and gracious welcome th<strong>at</strong> <strong>you</strong> have extended to my family and<br />
me. From the festivities back <strong>in</strong> May, to the gre<strong>at</strong> crew th<strong>at</strong> came to<br />
Longmeadow to move my books, to all the support dur<strong>in</strong>g our time of<br />
transition, to the meals provided for our first few days, to the warm reception<br />
on my first two <strong>Sundays</strong>—it has all been wonderful.<br />
When we are strangers experienc<strong>in</strong>g welcome, we learn someth<strong>in</strong>g about<br />
wh<strong>at</strong> it feels like to be loved. When we are “the new guy” we are unsteady<br />
and potentially anxious. A hearty welcome puts us <strong>at</strong> ease and helps to be<br />
ourselves <strong>in</strong> a new place. It is no accident th<strong>at</strong> the Bible sees theological<br />
implic<strong>at</strong>ions here. When we welcome others, we are act<strong>in</strong>g as Christ acts<br />
toward us. When we receive welcome, we are rem<strong>in</strong>ded of Christ’s powerful<br />
love. Times of welcome are ripe with possibilities for love, heal<strong>in</strong>g, and<br />
acceptance.<br />
This is a gre<strong>at</strong> time for us to welcome others to experience the First<br />
Parish community. In the com<strong>in</strong>g weeks and months, why not br<strong>in</strong>g a<br />
friend? As <strong>you</strong> look around on Sunday morn<strong>in</strong>gs, be aware of the new folks<br />
and extend a warm welcome. The more we do this, the more Christ will be<br />
present among us.<br />
This is a bit unusual for a <strong>church</strong> newsletter, but I’d like to say a special<br />
thanks to several people <strong>in</strong> the wider Dover community who have made our<br />
transition smooth and fun: P<strong>at</strong>ti Kemen of ReMax Legacy Real Est<strong>at</strong>e, Ceroi<br />
Mello (coolest name ever!) of Prospect Mortgage, John Moreno of AAA<br />
Insurance, and Bob Hills of Vernay Mov<strong>in</strong>g (helped us save the <strong>church</strong><br />
several thousand dollars!). Dur<strong>in</strong>g this move, I’ve been rem<strong>in</strong>ded just how<br />
dependent we are on the assistance and help of community bus<strong>in</strong>esses. It is<br />
important to thank people properly, so I decided to do some “thank<strong>in</strong>g” right<br />
here.<br />
Special thanks, as well, to Rick and the whole <strong>church</strong> staff, and to<br />
Gordon and the search committee. You are the best!<br />
<strong>See</strong> <strong>you</strong> <strong>in</strong> <strong>church</strong>! <strong>Pastor</strong> <strong>Mike</strong> <strong>Bennett</strong>
We are <strong>at</strong> a unique time for our<br />
congreg<strong>at</strong>ion – a new senior m<strong>in</strong>ister, a new<br />
year and a convergence of challenges and<br />
opportunities – and the <strong>Pastor</strong> Parish<br />
Rel<strong>at</strong>ions Committee <strong>in</strong>vites every member<br />
and friend to help us br<strong>in</strong>g all of these forces<br />
together to form a new era <strong>in</strong> the history of<br />
First Parish Church.<br />
Officially, the role of the <strong>Pastor</strong> Parish<br />
Rel<strong>at</strong>ions Committee is “… nurtur<strong>in</strong>g the<br />
pastor, the rel<strong>at</strong>ionship between the pastor<br />
and the congreg<strong>at</strong>ion, and clarify<strong>in</strong>g the role<br />
of the pastor.” The committee fulfills th<strong>at</strong><br />
responsibility by:<br />
1. Assist<strong>in</strong>g the pastor <strong>in</strong> becom<strong>in</strong>g better<br />
acqua<strong>in</strong>ted with the <strong>church</strong>, its members,<br />
and the community.<br />
2. Assist<strong>in</strong>g the <strong>church</strong> <strong>in</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g good<br />
rel<strong>at</strong>ions between the pastor and parish.<br />
3. Serv<strong>in</strong>g as an advisory group to the pastor.<br />
4. Identify<strong>in</strong>g areas of conflict <strong>in</strong> an early<br />
stage and assist<strong>in</strong>g the parties <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong><br />
resolv<strong>in</strong>g their differences.<br />
5. Provid<strong>in</strong>g a written evalu<strong>at</strong>ion of pastoral<br />
performance for annual consider<strong>at</strong>ion by the<br />
Council and Human Resources Committee.<br />
This year’s <strong>Pastor</strong>al Parish Rel<strong>at</strong>ions<br />
Committee members are Don Beddie, Diane<br />
Fiske, Mary Norris and Krist<strong>in</strong> Simunac. As<br />
one UCC source po<strong>in</strong>ts out, one of the<br />
hardest jobs of a PPRC member is gett<strong>in</strong>g<br />
started. The committee must learn quickly to<br />
trust one another and to be honest without<br />
be<strong>in</strong>g thre<strong>at</strong>en<strong>in</strong>g or <strong>in</strong>timid<strong>at</strong><strong>in</strong>g. S<strong>in</strong>ce the<br />
committee is not a legisl<strong>at</strong>ive body th<strong>at</strong> can<br />
vote on behalf of the <strong>church</strong>, we have to rely<br />
on good and open communic<strong>at</strong>ion with all<br />
parties – congreg<strong>at</strong>ion, <strong>church</strong> governance<br />
and the pastors to build th<strong>at</strong> trust. We are<br />
blessed to have already begun a comfortable<br />
and trust<strong>in</strong>g rel<strong>at</strong>ionship.<br />
Communic<strong>at</strong>ion is the key to success of<br />
any <strong>Pastor</strong> Parish Rel<strong>at</strong>ions Committee. One<br />
of the ways we hope to keep communic<strong>at</strong>ions<br />
flow<strong>in</strong>g, open, and go<strong>in</strong>g two ways, will be to<br />
engage as many as possible <strong>in</strong> learn<strong>in</strong>g about<br />
the challenges of the m<strong>in</strong>isterial voc<strong>at</strong>ion and<br />
career, the ways <strong>in</strong> which dynamic lay<br />
leadership can support our pastoral team and<br />
the different ways of address<strong>in</strong>g the k<strong>in</strong>ds of<br />
questions which most often lead to a disconnect<br />
between pastor and parish. Keep <strong>you</strong>rselves<br />
open to learn<strong>in</strong>g and w<strong>at</strong>ch for different study<br />
opportunities this year.<br />
In the meantime, if <strong>you</strong> have any concerns,<br />
questions or ideas, please feel free to contact<br />
any of the PPRC members. We will listen and<br />
respond appropri<strong>at</strong>ely.<br />
Don Beddie, Chair of the PPRC<br />
NEIGHBORS IN NEED OFFERING<br />
This offer<strong>in</strong>g will be taken on Sunday October<br />
7 th . Neighbors <strong>in</strong> Need (NIN) is the annual<br />
offer<strong>in</strong>g to support m<strong>in</strong>istries of justice and<br />
compassion throughout the United St<strong>at</strong>es. It<br />
<strong>in</strong>cludes the Council of American Indian<br />
M<strong>in</strong>istries, justice and advocacy efforts and<br />
direct service projects funded by the UCC’s<br />
Justice and Welfare M<strong>in</strong>istries.<br />
On Sunday afternoon, October 21, the DARLA<br />
(Dover Area Religious Leaders Associ<strong>at</strong>ion) group<br />
is aga<strong>in</strong> sponsor<strong>in</strong>g a Dover area family crop<br />
walk to raise funds <strong>in</strong>tern<strong>at</strong>ionally and locally to<br />
provide food for the hungry. Crop Walk is a<br />
program of Church World Service Intern<strong>at</strong>ional.<br />
Sign-up sheets to walk will be available <strong>at</strong> the<br />
<strong>church</strong> as well as the opportunity to pledge for<br />
the walkers. For those who wish to get a head<br />
start on this event, go to www.cropwalk.org and<br />
click on New Hampshire, and then click on the<br />
Dover Crop Walk. You will then be able to sign<br />
up for walk<strong>in</strong>g and for pledg<strong>in</strong>g onl<strong>in</strong>e. It is our<br />
hope th<strong>at</strong> this will be a family event and families<br />
will sign up to walk and get pledges<br />
together. For those not walk<strong>in</strong>g, we hope for<br />
<strong>you</strong>r support through pledg<strong>in</strong>g and don<strong>at</strong>ions for<br />
those who are walk<strong>in</strong>g. Er<strong>in</strong> Pender is the<br />
contact person <strong>in</strong> our <strong>church</strong> for Crop Walk.<br />
Funds raised <strong>in</strong> this years’ Dover Crop Walk<br />
will be shared between Dover Children's<br />
Home, Dover Cooper<strong>at</strong>ive m<strong>in</strong>istries, and<br />
<strong>in</strong>tern<strong>at</strong>ional needs.
SING AND RING<br />
JOYFULLY TO GOD<br />
With the start of the new <strong>church</strong> year <strong>in</strong><br />
September, all our music groups will beg<strong>in</strong><br />
anew. This is a wonderful time to jo<strong>in</strong> one of<br />
our dynamic music groups!<br />
The Youth Choir is a group of children Grades<br />
1-5 and <strong>you</strong>th th<strong>at</strong> will rehearse Sunday<br />
morn<strong>in</strong>gs from 11:00-11:30 am. For more<br />
<strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion, please contact Carol <strong>See</strong>ly, <strong>at</strong><br />
k9vet@rcn.com. FIRST REHEARSAL will be<br />
Sunday, September 16<br />
The Jo<strong>you</strong>s R<strong>in</strong>gers is a <strong>you</strong>th handbell group<br />
open to all <strong>you</strong>th Grade 5 and up. This group<br />
meets on Mondays from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. For<br />
more <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion, please contact Carol <strong>See</strong>ly <strong>at</strong><br />
k9vet@rcn.com. FIRST REHEARSAL will be<br />
Monday, September 10.<br />
The Choir Chimes is a children’s <strong>you</strong>th choir<br />
th<strong>at</strong> r<strong>in</strong>gs choir chimes open to Grades 1-4.<br />
This group meets on Mondays from 5:30 to 6:30<br />
p.m. For more <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion, please contact Kim<br />
Rh<strong>in</strong>e <strong>at</strong> 312-3009 or kimrh<strong>in</strong>e39@gmail.com.<br />
FIRST REHEARSAL will be Monday, Sept. 10.<br />
The Senior Choir is a group of s<strong>in</strong>gers, open to<br />
all ages, from high schoolers through to adults<br />
of all ages. Choir rehearsals are on Sunday<br />
even<strong>in</strong>gs from 7:00- 8:30 p.m. For further<br />
<strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion, please contact Rick Gremlitz,<br />
Director of Music, <strong>at</strong> (603) 868-1196 or <strong>at</strong><br />
rickgremlitz@yahoo.com FIRST REHEARSAL<br />
will be <strong>at</strong> the annual choir retre<strong>at</strong> on S<strong>at</strong>urday,<br />
September 8; FIRST SUNDAY EVENING<br />
REHEARSAL will be Sunday, September 16.<br />
The First Parish R<strong>in</strong>gers is open to all senior<br />
high school students through<br />
adults. Rehearsals are Sunday even<strong>in</strong>gs from<br />
5:15 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. Please contact Carol<br />
<strong>See</strong>ly <strong>at</strong> k9vet@rcn.com. FIRST REHEARSAL<br />
will be Sunday, September 9th.<br />
A <strong>church</strong> wide fund rais<strong>in</strong>g and community<br />
outreach event! Get <strong>in</strong>volved with<br />
prepar<strong>at</strong>ions, make new friends and have a<br />
good time too!<br />
* For <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion about Vendor Space/Table<br />
Rental contact Jane Kennedy (749-1042)<br />
janewkennedy55@comcast.net<br />
* To make don<strong>at</strong>ions of antique or collectible<br />
items contact Jim Prue (749-6897)<br />
jeprue@comcast.net<br />
* To help with publicity contact K<strong>at</strong>hy<br />
Daniels (742-3481) shesababe@hotmail.com<br />
* For general <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion contact Margie<br />
Buck<strong>in</strong>gham (343-2631)<br />
kraftyone@comcast.net<br />
Meet<strong>in</strong>g d<strong>at</strong>es TBD will be announced <strong>in</strong><br />
Steeple Ch<strong>at</strong> and Weekly Bullet<strong>in</strong>s<br />
Apple Harvest Day S<strong>at</strong>urday, October 6, our<br />
Altern<strong>at</strong>ive Revenue Task Force is plann<strong>in</strong>g<br />
for a First Parish Church table <strong>at</strong> this annual<br />
Dover event. This will be a gre<strong>at</strong> opportunity<br />
to <strong>in</strong>crease our <strong>church</strong>’s “presence” and<br />
outreach <strong>in</strong>to the wider community. Soon,<br />
there will be an opportunity for members and<br />
friends to sign-up to assist <strong>at</strong> the FPC table<br />
th<strong>at</strong> day.<br />
Grants, anyone?? Another <strong>in</strong>iti<strong>at</strong>ive of the<br />
Altern<strong>at</strong>ive Revenue Task Force is to<br />
<strong>in</strong>vestig<strong>at</strong>e the possibility of priv<strong>at</strong>e and<br />
found<strong>at</strong>ion grant fund<strong>in</strong>g for programs and<br />
facility improvements. If <strong>you</strong> feel <strong>you</strong> have<br />
some ideas to offer <strong>in</strong> this regard, please<br />
contact Rick Gremlitz <strong>at</strong> the <strong>church</strong>.<br />
W<strong>at</strong>ch for more <strong>in</strong>fo on a new craft group to<br />
be held <strong>in</strong> the even<strong>in</strong>gs. No skills needed!<br />
Questions can be directed to Judy Edwards<br />
<strong>at</strong> 749-2130.
Special programm<strong>in</strong>g Days:<br />
Special programm<strong>in</strong>g days are <strong>Sundays</strong> th<strong>at</strong><br />
we would typically not have Sunday school<br />
because of holidays or school vac<strong>at</strong>ions. It's<br />
a 2-hour program beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>at</strong> the same time<br />
as Sunday school. D<strong>at</strong>es for this school year<br />
are: October 7 th ~ Mission Present<strong>at</strong>ion<br />
November 28 th ~ Parade cookie prep<br />
December 30 th ~ To Be Determ<strong>in</strong>ed<br />
February 24 th ~ Cocheco Valley guest<br />
April 21 st ~ Heifer Fair Crafts<br />
May 26 th ~ Children’s Sunday prep<br />
Youth M<strong>in</strong>istry<br />
Youth M<strong>in</strong>istry beg<strong>in</strong>s Sunday September<br />
16th <strong>at</strong> 11:30 <strong>in</strong> Nazareth Hall. Please jo<strong>in</strong><br />
us for a special kick off event th<strong>at</strong> ends <strong>at</strong> La<br />
Festa for pizza! Youth M<strong>in</strong>istry is for <strong>you</strong>th <strong>in</strong><br />
grades 7 through 12. Youth M<strong>in</strong>istry is<br />
mission focused, with leadership and<br />
educ<strong>at</strong>ional opportunities for all. To ensure<br />
<strong>you</strong> receive the l<strong>at</strong>est upd<strong>at</strong>es and events<br />
please ensure Beth has <strong>you</strong>r email address.<br />
Contact her <strong>at</strong> bethmart<strong>in</strong>dale@comcast.net<br />
Confirm<strong>at</strong>ion<br />
2012-2013<br />
Potential Confirmands and their parents are<br />
<strong>in</strong>vited to an <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ional meet<strong>in</strong>g with<br />
Rev. <strong>Mike</strong> and Beth on Wednesday<br />
September 5th <strong>at</strong> 6:30p.m. A light meal will<br />
be served. Please RSVP to Beth via email or<br />
text if <strong>you</strong> plan to <strong>at</strong>tend:<br />
bethmart<strong>in</strong>dale@comcast.net, 281-796-2076<br />
Adult<br />
Educ<strong>at</strong>ion<br />
We will g<strong>at</strong>her with <strong>Mike</strong> <strong>Bennett</strong> on Sunday,<br />
Sept 9 th <strong>at</strong> 9am to plan our Fall curriculum.<br />
Help save a life and receive a don<strong>at</strong>ion for<br />
<strong>you</strong>r organiz<strong>at</strong>ion <strong>in</strong> the process!<br />
Life L<strong>in</strong>e Screen<strong>in</strong>g Thursday, September 6,<br />
2012 <strong>in</strong> Fellowship Hall. Our <strong>church</strong> will<br />
host this event th<strong>at</strong> will help save lives<br />
through screen<strong>in</strong>g for health risks. Protect<br />
<strong>you</strong>r health by particip<strong>at</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> this program<br />
through the Stroke, Vascular and Heart<br />
Rhythm package, by either call<strong>in</strong>g the special<br />
Help<strong>in</strong>g Hands registr<strong>at</strong>ion number (1-800-<br />
324-9458) or by sign<strong>in</strong>g up on the <strong>church</strong><br />
bullet<strong>in</strong> board. By sign<strong>in</strong>g up for this health<br />
event, not only will <strong>you</strong> be able to receive a<br />
discount off any package of $139 or more,<br />
but the <strong>church</strong> will receive a don<strong>at</strong>ion for<br />
every member who signs up and <strong>at</strong>tends this<br />
event.<br />
Wednesday<br />
September 19 th<br />
from 1-6pm.<br />
Please consider giv<strong>in</strong>g the gift of life. The life<br />
<strong>you</strong> save just may be <strong>you</strong>r own! Ask <strong>you</strong>r<br />
friends and family if they would like to<br />
don<strong>at</strong>e! Appo<strong>in</strong>tments can be made by call<strong>in</strong>g<br />
1-800 Red Cross. Walk <strong>in</strong>'s always<br />
welcome. Teenagers age 16 and above are able<br />
to don<strong>at</strong>e with a parent present to sign a<br />
consent form. Let's be<strong>at</strong> our last drive of 34<br />
p<strong>in</strong>ts collected! Any questions, call K<strong>at</strong>hy<br />
Daniels 742-3481.<br />
Thank <strong>you</strong>, First Parish!! When we were<br />
desper<strong>at</strong>e for funds <strong>you</strong> came through<br />
quickly with an emergency check. You<br />
susta<strong>in</strong> our spirits as we provide food and a<br />
welcome to many. With much gr<strong>at</strong>itude,<br />
Sally Puth, treasurer; Dover Friendly Kitchen<br />
Dear Members and friends,<br />
I want to thank <strong>you</strong> all for the beautiful<br />
flowers received from <strong>you</strong> last week. They<br />
were so pretty and appreci<strong>at</strong>ed so much.<br />
Thank <strong>you</strong> all, Ruth Jakubowski
Is <strong>you</strong>r garden do<strong>in</strong>g well?<br />
Share <strong>you</strong>r produce <strong>at</strong> The<br />
Happy Harvest Table!<br />
Gardeners are welcome to share their extra<br />
harvest each Sunday through September with<br />
everyone <strong>in</strong> the <strong>church</strong>. The Happy Harvest<br />
Table will be <strong>in</strong> Fellowship Hall and have a<br />
don<strong>at</strong>ion basket to contribute a small cash<br />
gift. All don<strong>at</strong>ions will go to the Dover<br />
Cooper<strong>at</strong>ive M<strong>in</strong>istries for the Food Pantry and<br />
Friendly Kitchen. So don<strong>at</strong>e <strong>you</strong>r extra crops<br />
or help <strong>you</strong>rself to some tasty produce and<br />
help others <strong>at</strong> the same time!<br />
We are fortun<strong>at</strong>e to be a Stephen M<strong>in</strong>istry<br />
Church. We currently have a team of 14<br />
Stephen M<strong>in</strong>isters <strong>in</strong> our midst available to<br />
care for <strong>you</strong>. Please contact Judy Edwards<br />
749-2130, or Beth Mart<strong>in</strong>dale 742-2419, if<br />
<strong>you</strong> are consider<strong>in</strong>g a Stephen M<strong>in</strong>ster or<br />
know of someone who is <strong>in</strong> need of care.<br />
PLEASE NOTE: There will<br />
be NO supper <strong>in</strong> September<br />
www.firstparish<strong>church</strong>dover.org<br />
First Parish Church<br />
218 Central Avenue<br />
Dover, NH 03820<br />
Email: firstparish@comcast.net<br />
Office hours: M-F 9am-3pm<br />
(603) 742-5664; Fax: 603-750-0411<br />
Rev. Michael <strong>Bennett</strong>, Senior M<strong>in</strong>ister<br />
msb@firstparishdover.org<br />
Rick Gremlitz, Church Adm<strong>in</strong>istr<strong>at</strong>or<br />
rickgremlitz@yahoo.com<br />
NH UCC: www.nhcucc.org<br />
Bullet<strong>in</strong> Deadl<strong>in</strong>e: Tuesdays by 9:00AM<br />
Chimes Deadl<strong>in</strong>e: The 15 th of every<br />
month ~ Please email bullet<strong>in</strong> and<br />
chimes <strong>in</strong>form<strong>at</strong>ion to Lisa <strong>at</strong><br />
firstparish@comcast.net<br />
To start receiv<strong>in</strong>g the<br />
chimes via email, please<br />
send an email to<br />
chimesfpc@gmail.com<br />
with the subject<br />
“eChimes”.<br />
We mourn the loss of our dear<br />
friends, called home by God to<br />
share <strong>in</strong> the everlast<strong>in</strong>g<br />
k<strong>in</strong>gdom of Heaven…<br />
Joseph McCormack<br />
longtime member<br />
August 5 none given<br />
August 12 <strong>in</strong> memory of loved ones and <strong>in</strong><br />
honor of our First Parish Church family<br />
from the Sgrignuoli’s<br />
August 19 <strong>in</strong> lov<strong>in</strong>g memory of my sister<br />
“Auntie B” and my “forever buddy” Hughie<br />
from Lorra<strong>in</strong>e Keazer and children.<br />
August 26 <strong>in</strong> celebr<strong>at</strong>ion for the life of my<br />
beloved husband Wayne Perreault from<br />
Bonnie<br />
If <strong>you</strong> would like to purchase altar flowers,<br />
please contact Jane or Lisa <strong>in</strong> the <strong>church</strong><br />
office <strong>at</strong> 742-5664.<br />
On the births of:<br />
David Marcel Laliberte<br />
born 7/4/12, son of Sharon Davis and Marc<br />
Laliberte<br />
Seveirn Arthur Auco<strong>in</strong>,<br />
born 8/3/12, the son of Lynette (Rowe) &<br />
Brett Auco<strong>in</strong>, the grandson<br />
of Barbara Rowe.<br />
Please contact the<br />
office <strong>at</strong> 742-5664<br />
or by email to be<br />
added to our email<br />
prayer cha<strong>in</strong>.<br />
Sunday: 7/29/12 186<br />
Sunday: 8/5/12 62<br />
Sunday: 8/12/12 101<br />
Sunday: 8/19/12 186<br />
At Horton Center: 23
Jo<strong>in</strong> us for family worship<br />
<strong>in</strong> Nazareth Hall @ 8:45<br />
We will celebr<strong>at</strong>e the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<br />
of Sunday school with an<br />
All Church Picnic <strong>at</strong> Henry Law Park<br />
immedi<strong>at</strong>ely follow<strong>in</strong>g morn<strong>in</strong>g worship.<br />
A sign up sheet will be posted for food<br />
to br<strong>in</strong>g and share. E-Club beg<strong>in</strong>s<br />
for the year on September 9 th !