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tried”. So why can you not give the same respect to our<br />

first lady, a woman who was born and bred in Nigeria?<br />

She made a few simple mistakes in a language that is not<br />

her native tongue, and her own fellow Nigerians decided<br />

to use it as a weapon against her.<br />

Have you never heard Chinese Politicians attempting<br />

the English language? You can’t even understand 99% of<br />

what they’re saying and yet you will never see Chinese<br />

people insulting their leaders over their command of the<br />

English language. It is only amongst Nigerians that you<br />

find people taking the proverbial “medicine for another<br />

person’s sickness”.<br />

We have become the self appointed international<br />

watch dog for all things relating to the English language.<br />

For all the English that Nigerians are speaking I can’t see<br />

what they’re doing with it. Whilst they’re in their houses<br />

speaking good “English” the Lebanese and the Chinese<br />

are here speaking good “economics” and are taking over<br />

the country. Foreigners have taken over corporate Nigeria,<br />

and yet all that doesn’t seem to bother us, all we are<br />

concerned about is whether our leaders can speak English<br />

better than Queen Elizabeth. When you make it a<br />

point of duty to constantly pick out peoples weaknesses<br />

and shortcomings, they will become so discouraged to<br />

the point of inactivity. They will simply shut down and<br />

won’t bother to make a difference.<br />

I once heard a story about a Woman who was constantly<br />

abusing her husband and repeatedly used adjectives<br />

such as “useless” and “stupid” whilst addressing<br />

him. She kept describing him as someone who is<br />

constantly making wrong decisions. One day she came<br />

home and saw her husband looking through their wedding<br />

album, she looked at him and asked “what are you<br />

doing”? He said “oh, I am just looking at our wedding<br />

pictures and asking myself why I made such a stupid<br />

decision such as marrying you”.<br />

Perhaps she thought that by insulting her husband it<br />

would cause him to change for the better, but the opposite<br />

effect was the outcome. Words are powerful and<br />

if we concentrate on peoples strengths and praise and<br />

encourage them instead of picking out their weaknesses<br />

and amplifying those, we will get the very best out of<br />

them.<br />

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