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Verbal Communication in the Classroom: What Christian ... - Circle

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Transformative because we believe that by God's grace, all th<strong>in</strong>gs are possible, we also<br />

believe that Christ died on <strong>the</strong> cross to save s<strong>in</strong>ners. Transcendent because <strong>Christian</strong> education<br />

goes beyond certificates, diplomas and degrees to concern itself also with character mold<strong>in</strong>g for<br />

eternity. In this connection, Rasi(1998) makes <strong>the</strong> follow<strong>in</strong>g observation, character is what helps<br />

us to connect what we learn with what we do, it is <strong>the</strong> bridge that takes us from knowledge to<br />

ethical choices, it is <strong>the</strong> glue that br<strong>in</strong>gs coherence between what we believe and how we behave<br />

<strong>in</strong> private or <strong>in</strong> public. Thus, <strong>the</strong> importance of character mold<strong>in</strong>g cannot be over emphasized.<br />

There are practical examples of parents whose children have excelled academically and have<br />

qualified to study <strong>in</strong> prestigious universities, but have opted for <strong>Christian</strong> education <strong>in</strong> some<br />

humble <strong>Christian</strong> <strong>in</strong>stitutions just because of this po<strong>in</strong>t. This is <strong>the</strong> reason why, as <strong>Christian</strong><br />

educators, we must realize and appreciate <strong>the</strong> responsibility that we have towards <strong>the</strong> young<br />

people entrusted to our care.<br />

III.<br />

Self-Concept <strong>in</strong> communication:<br />

It is a normal human feel<strong>in</strong>g to seek <strong>the</strong> approval of those that we care for. Small babies<br />

are well settled <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> arms of <strong>the</strong>ir mo<strong>the</strong>rs when <strong>the</strong>y can sense approval and content usually<br />

communicated via body language, a hug or a smile. When young children <strong>in</strong>volve <strong>the</strong>mselves <strong>in</strong><br />

attention ga<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g activities, <strong>the</strong>y are look<strong>in</strong>g for approval or acceptance. In all human endeavors,<br />

learn<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>cluded, one feels good when <strong>the</strong>y know that <strong>the</strong>ir efforts are recognized and valued by<br />

o<strong>the</strong>rs. The Bible calls it love and <strong>the</strong> book of John tells us about this love; how Christ loved us<br />

that he died for us. In any classroom context, <strong>the</strong> student with a positive self-concept is better<br />

geared towards <strong>the</strong> learn<strong>in</strong>g process than that with a negative self-concept.

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