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A. <strong>What</strong> is Self-concept?<br />

This is <strong>the</strong> awareness and understand<strong>in</strong>g of who one is as <strong>in</strong>terpreted and <strong>in</strong>fluenced by<br />

one's thoughts, actions, abilities, values, goals, ideals and by o<strong>the</strong>r people. (O'Hair 1997).<br />

College students are generally at that age when peer <strong>in</strong>fluence is still very strong. <strong>What</strong> one's<br />

peers th<strong>in</strong>k is very important and students at this age seem to live for <strong>the</strong> approval of o<strong>the</strong>rs.<br />

This becomes quite complicated when th<strong>in</strong>gs don't work out as <strong>the</strong>se students expect <strong>the</strong>m to.<br />

They may end up withdraw<strong>in</strong>g and generally just feel<strong>in</strong>g sorry for <strong>the</strong>mselves. Their academic<br />

work is affected; <strong>the</strong>y are depressed, and if no help is found, some of <strong>the</strong>m s<strong>in</strong>k so deep that <strong>the</strong>y<br />

eventually loose <strong>the</strong>ir places <strong>in</strong> college. The scenario above need not necessarily happen that<br />

way. In Genesis 1:27 we are told that God created man <strong>in</strong> his own image which leads us to<br />

believe that every person is very special <strong>in</strong> God's presence, we also know of God's mercy and<br />

forgiveness. Besides be<strong>in</strong>g transformative and transcendent, <strong>Christian</strong> education is also<br />

redemptive. The Bible tells us that Christ came to save s<strong>in</strong>ners and this is why <strong>Christian</strong><br />

education can make a big difference <strong>in</strong> students' lives. I was once told a story of a student who<br />

openly said to a student counselor on campus that he was happier at college because at least<br />

people <strong>the</strong>re tried to understand him. Many a time, we are just not aware of <strong>the</strong> number of young<br />

souls who are just wait<strong>in</strong>g to be reached. Holmes (1995) tells us that <strong>Christian</strong> education should<br />

be a liberat<strong>in</strong>g experience that enlarges horizons, deepens <strong>in</strong>sight and sharpens <strong>the</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d. How<br />

can we see education as liberat<strong>in</strong>g? The word "to liberate" means to release or to set free.<br />

Indeed education liberates <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> sense that knowledge about th<strong>in</strong>gs around us enables us to<br />

<strong>in</strong>teract with those th<strong>in</strong>gs, many times, to better ourselves. Modern farm<strong>in</strong>g methods are an<br />

example <strong>in</strong> that knowledge of proper and modern methods of farm<strong>in</strong>g will yield a better harvest<br />

for <strong>the</strong> farmer.

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