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Empathy and Understanding<br />
Men want a woman to listen to them, not someone who is far too<br />
engrossed in their own lives, or constantly moaning about their own<br />
life to spare him some time. A man will be more attracted to a woman<br />
that can empathize with him and show him the understanding that he<br />
needs, than someone who moans and nags who <strong>of</strong>fers little in the way<br />
<strong>of</strong> support or appreciation.<br />
Honesty and Loyalty<br />
Everyone man or woman wants to be in the kind <strong>of</strong> relationship where<br />
the emphasis is on honesty. No one likes the thought that they are being<br />
lied to, and a man just like a woman, appreciates a loyal and honest<br />
partner. He is looking for someone that will be faithful to him, not be<br />
flirting with his friends the minute that his back is turned, and someone<br />
that will remain by his side through the ups and downs <strong>of</strong> life.<br />
Relaxed and Easy Going<br />
Men do not like relationships that are hard work, women who are<br />
more concerned about their appearance and what other people think<br />
<strong>of</strong> them is not generally someone that he can have an enjoyable relationship<br />
with. Men like the kind <strong>of</strong> woman who doesn’t mind if she<br />
smudges her makeup, or her hair gets a little tousled. While personal<br />
care and appearance is important to him, he needs to know that she<br />
can relax and let her hair down and be laid back. This is especially<br />
important if they are looking for a long term relationship, as when it<br />
comes to commitment men are more attracted to the ‘girl next door’<br />
personality than that <strong>of</strong> a glamour model.<br />
Caring and Supportive<br />
Men like to feel that they are being cared for, while they enjoy having<br />
the status <strong>of</strong> man <strong>of</strong> the house or breadwinner, they like those little<br />
tokens <strong>of</strong> affection, small gestures that show them that they are being<br />
loved and cared for. Even something mundane as having his shirt<br />
ironed for him, or finding his sandwiches made for him before he goes<br />
to work can mean as much as a grand romantic gesture. They like to<br />
know that their girl is paying attention to them and taking care <strong>of</strong> the<br />
little things that mean a lot, a woman that does everything for a man<br />
can leave him feeling suffocated and overwhelmed, but get the balance<br />
right and you have a happy relationship. Men also like to know<br />
that they are being supported in their choices, whether it’s a career<br />
decision or a life decision they need to feel that you are by their side,<br />
able to <strong>of</strong>fer advice when required and listening to his thoughts and<br />
reasoning objectively, and supporting him in his choices.<br />
44 FOCUS <strong>of</strong> <strong>SWFL</strong> 2014<br />
1. Humor<br />
Virtually there is no man who<br />
doesn't find it attractive to see<br />
a woman with a good sense <strong>of</strong><br />
humor. After the physical appearance,<br />
it is <strong>of</strong>ten one <strong>of</strong> the<br />
first things men will notice and<br />
appreciate. It is great to be a<br />
pr<strong>of</strong>essional woman, but men<br />
need a little sense <strong>of</strong> humor to<br />
spice things up. Learn to laugh<br />
honestly and take things with<br />
joy to make yourself more attractive<br />
to men. Life is beautiful,<br />
enjoy it, be happy and allow<br />
yourself to reflect your pleasure<br />
in public.<br />
2. Intelligence<br />
A clever woman is an attractive<br />
woman, at least for most men,<br />
as not all men are attracted<br />
to "a pretty dumb doll". Many<br />
women only speak about the<br />
latest hairstyle or the latest<br />
Glee episode, it could be a little<br />
dull to many men. Many women<br />
only prioritize on their sexual<br />
appeal and pay little attention<br />
to their brain. In contrast, many<br />
men love to engage in intelligent<br />
and challenging conversations<br />
with women.<br />
3. Flexibility<br />
Maybe some man is attracted<br />
to a woman who has enough<br />
flexibility to do somersaults<br />
in the air, but they are more<br />
attracted a woman who has<br />
flexible ideas, comments and<br />
suggestions, without being too<br />
stubborn and arrogant. Men<br />
tend to have stable relationship<br />
with a woman who can adapt to<br />
the changing situations without<br />
breaking their own principles.<br />
4. Generosity<br />
Many men rated generosity<br />
and altruism as the characteristics<br />
<strong>of</strong> an attractive woman. It<br />
shouldn't be surprising, because<br />
a generous and selfless woman<br />
is clearly capable <strong>of</strong> looking beyond<br />
the present moment and<br />
see the needs <strong>of</strong> others.<br />
5. Good self-esteem<br />
Men attracted to women who<br />
seem to be comfortable with<br />
themselves. In general, men<br />
prefer women who don't feel<br />
like a garbage and behave as if<br />
they are worthless and simply<br />
lack confidence in themselves.<br />
To find self-esteem, you should<br />
trust yourself, you're a woman<br />
and therefore you need to do<br />
what it takes to be attractive to<br />
a man.<br />
6. Dynamic<br />
Impulsiveness, energy, drive<br />
and passion in a woman really<br />
attract most men. Usually,<br />
it is usually a good indicator<br />
<strong>of</strong> positive self-esteem, as the<br />
woman has the energy to deal<br />
with new challenges. If you set<br />
your eyes on something, fight<br />
for it and struggle to achieve it,<br />
this would not only make you<br />
a more successful person but<br />
also make you more attractive.<br />
7. Unique<br />
Many women with good physical<br />
appearance look bland, they<br />
just behave and talk the same.<br />
Just be yourself, but add something<br />
in your life that can convince<br />
men that you're not just<br />
an ordinary woman.<br />
8. Spontaneous<br />
Many men do things without a<br />
plan or do things not according<br />
to the plan. Occasionally allow<br />
yourself a bit <strong>of</strong> creativity, relax<br />
and release all, spontaneity<br />
inside you and give him a good<br />
surprise. Things that are done<br />
spontaneously have an enormous<br />
capacity to be really romantic,<br />
so don't hesitate to let<br />
yourself loose once in a while.<br />
9. Motherly instinct<br />
The motherly instinct is not<br />
necessarily only for raising children,<br />
there are qualities within<br />
it that can make any woman<br />
more attractive to men. Even a<br />
young woman should be able to<br />
care, comfort, cuddle, help and<br />
support her lover. Men like to<br />
be taken care <strong>of</strong>, for example, if<br />
he catches a cold, let him lie on<br />
the s<strong>of</strong>a, put a blanket over him,<br />
give him light kisses and tell him<br />
to rest while you are preparing<br />
a hot, delicious soup. You'll be<br />
highly appreciated.<br />
10. Tenderness<br />
Tenderness is a quality that is<br />
almost indispensable to the<br />
eyes <strong>of</strong> almost any man. This<br />
doesn't mean you have to be<br />
s<strong>of</strong>t and tender all the time,<br />
but at least you should know<br />
when he needs a woman who<br />
can support him. Tenderness<br />
is a feminine quality that men<br />
love just like how women like<br />
sensitive men, you have heart<br />
and feelings, use them to win<br />
his heart.