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M-Pathy<br />

<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 1<br />

THE NEWSLETTER OF<br />

SOUTHEAST MICHIGAN MENSA<br />

VOL. 49 NO. 1 <strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> <strong>Mensa</strong>Detroit.com<br />

Inside This Issue<br />

Editors’ Page 2<br />

LocSec: Monthly Musings 3<br />

RVC: reMARK 4<br />

From the GCC 5<br />

Word Search: Language 6<br />

Just Joking<br />

Puzzles<br />

7<br />

Unforgettable Memories 8<br />

I’m OK 9<br />

The Sound and the Furry 10<br />

Scholarship essays are due!<br />

SEMM Balance Sheet<br />

11<br />

Membership Notes 12<br />

Events: The SEMM Calendar<br />

15<br />

Précis of November ExComm Meeting<br />

Stay for free at SEMMantics 34! 17<br />

Monthly Calendar<br />

18<br />

Dues Subsidy<br />

Directory: Executive Committee 19<br />

This issue is dedicated to the memory of former American <strong>Mensa</strong> Chairman<br />

Gabriel Werba, and one of the founders of SEMM. Gabe, who was 82, passed<br />

away November 7 at his home in Farmington Hills, <strong>Michigan</strong>.<br />

He was the 1989 recipient of the Margot Award, and received the Distinguished<br />

Service Award in 1995 and the Chairman’s Service Award in 2004. In addition to<br />

serving as Chairman, Gabe served as First Vice Chair and Development Officer<br />

and held numerous elected positions throughout his 48 years as a <strong>Mensa</strong><br />

member.<br />

In 1980, as Chairman, Gabe proposed the annual Colloquium, saying, “I want to<br />

stimulate within <strong>Mensa</strong> a climate of intellectual excitement in which concepts can<br />

be explored, dialogues can be started and ideas can be generated that will move<br />

us in new directions.” And create a climate of intellectual excitement, he did –<br />

thank you, Gabe! You will be missed.


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From the Editor’s Desk - Kathleen Giesting<br />

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Jokes & Riddles<br />

Humor@<strong>Mensa</strong>Detroit.com<br />

Allegra Louth<br />

Puzzles:<br />

Joan Rayford, Tom Shaw, Jim Szirony<br />

New year, new beginnings (aren't all beginnings new?), new tech toys!!!<br />

OK, as I write this at the end of November, we have already acquired a 5th generation<br />

iPod (LOVE that retina screen) and are starting to plan a replacement for Spencer's<br />

desktop. Amazingly, the desktop will probably cost only a bit more than the iPod.<br />

Just not sure about Windows 8. Maybe this is the year we move even further to the<br />

Apple side of the road.<br />

And it is a road. This is clearly seen in the new Living Computer Museum<br />

(http://www.livingcomputermuseum.org/) opened in November in Seattle. It joins the<br />

ranks of the Computer History Museum (http://www.computerhistory.org/) in Silicon<br />

Valley (any competition there???) and online sites like the Obsolete Computer<br />

Museum at http://www.obsoletecomputermuseum.org/ and the History of Home and<br />

Game Computers at http://computermuseum.50megs.com/<br />

While Spencer likes to say my dad lived the evolution of modern farming -- from<br />

horses to self-propelled combines, many of us have lived the evolution of computing --<br />

from building-size computers with real bugs to palm-sized advisors on where we are,<br />

where we could be, and how to get there (thank you, Siri)<br />

I'm open to the idea of implantable computers (they're already here! Google it!), I want<br />

to make sure I don't get stuck with the equivalent of DOS -- or Siri. How about you?<br />

From the Assistant Editor - Toby Berger<br />

Happy <strong>2013</strong>! Hopefully the New Year will bring you and your family health, peace,<br />

happiness, and the time to enjoy it all.<br />

Make a resolution to attend several SEMM events during the year. Check M-Pathy’s<br />

monthly calendar of events for a variety of activities for you and your family.<br />

Speaking of resolutions, here’s something to think about for the New Year:<br />

“Let this coming year be better than all the others. Vow to do some of the things<br />

you've always wanted to do but couldn't find the time. Call up a forgotten friend. Drop<br />

an old grudge, and replace it with some pleasant memories. Vow not to make a<br />

promise you don't think you can keep. Walk tall, and smile more. You'll look ten years<br />

younger. Don't be afraid to say, 'I love you'. Say it again. They are the sweetest words<br />

in the world.” Ann Landers


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 3<br />

Monthly Musings<br />

Another day, another year. How time flies. When I<br />

was in elementary school, summer seemed to take<br />

forever and I couldn’t wait to get back to class in<br />

September. A year felt<br />

like eternity. As I grew<br />

older (and hopefully<br />

wiser) each year<br />

seemed to go a little<br />

faster. Nowadays the<br />

years fly by and I<br />

wonder where they went. I suppose it’s just an<br />

example of relativity.<br />

There is still time to make plans to attend SEMM’s<br />

highlight of the season – the Winter Bash. We<br />

return again to the VFW Hall in Berkley on<br />

Saturday, <strong>January</strong> 19 from 6:00pm to 11:00pm.<br />

There will be food & beverages, fun & games,<br />

friends – what more could you ask for. Last year<br />

we had a full house so don’t delay, make your<br />

plans today.<br />

SEMM’s annual Regional Gathering (RG)<br />

committee continues to meet at the Farmington<br />

Hills Holiday Inn. Anyone can be on the<br />

committee and you can choose how large or small<br />

a role you would like to do. At the last meeting,<br />

Joan Rayford presented a wide variety of potential<br />

speakers and programs. There will also be a<br />

children’s track on Saturday at the RG – Melissa<br />

Jenkins, who has done a stellar job as our Gifted<br />

Youth Coordinator, assures us that May <strong>2013</strong> will<br />

be even better than 2012. Let Jean Becker or<br />

Whitney Hopkins know if you can help in any way.<br />

REPEATED PLUG: Jean Becker is once again<br />

leading the committee but it would be great if one<br />

of our members volunteered to apprentice this<br />

year with the thought of taking the helm for<br />

SEMMantics XXXV in 2014.<br />

by John Voymas, President (LocSec)<br />

By the time you read this I will have attend the<br />

Cincinnati Area <strong>Mensa</strong> RG. This is one of the<br />

options that members have – to attend gatherings<br />

hosted by other local groups. When I went to the<br />

Outdoor <strong>Mensa</strong> Gathering (OMG) in Central<br />

Indiana a couple of years ago, I met a lot of new<br />

friends, had great conversations, ate pizza baked<br />

in a custom-made oven on an open fire and had<br />

instant ice cream frozen by the use of liquid<br />

nitrogen – only a professional should try that one!<br />

I’ve also enjoyed meeting members of <strong>Mensa</strong> in<br />

other regions. Most recent was a trip to Hawaii<br />

where Mike Last, SIGHT coordinator, took my wife<br />

and me on a walk around the rim and across the<br />

bowl of the Kilauea Iki volcano – a four hour walk.<br />

In a race against time, we barely made it across<br />

the crater before the sun set. Mike also took us to<br />

the Black Sand beach where a sea turtle posed for<br />

us as it lay sunning itself – as a protected species<br />

we had to refrain from touching it.<br />

Besides the RG in May, we are in the early planning<br />

stages for the Summer Bash which is usually held at<br />

Kensington Metropark in July in lieu of our monthly<br />

meeting. This is a great opportunity for an aspiring<br />

leader to coordinate an event. If you have ever<br />

planned a party or even attended a party, then you<br />

have the necessary qualifications. Although it’s not<br />

rocket science to plan a picnic at the park, rocket<br />

scientists are encouraged to apply. Send me an<br />

email or give me a call (contact info on the inside<br />

back cover of this issue).<br />

We’ll see you at the Winter Bash on <strong>January</strong> 19!<br />

Until next time. Cheers! John<br />

What do you call a woman who stands between two goal posts? Annette


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reMARK<br />

Happy New Year! May it be healthy, prosperous and<br />

wonderful in every way for each and every one of you<br />

and your loved ones.<br />

I know that all who attended the Cincinnati Regional<br />

Gathering had a fabulous time; wish I had been there,<br />

but again, the American <strong>Mensa</strong> Committee met that<br />

weekend and my presence was precluded. Watch for<br />

notices of the postings of minutes of that AMC<br />

meeting. If you haven’t joined the Region 3 Yahoo or<br />

Facebook groups where I post such information, as<br />

well as Region 3 and National News, please do so.<br />

Congratulations to Region 3 winners of the Publication<br />

Recognition Program awards:<br />

Newsletter Awards<br />

Outstanding Newsletter—Medium Group, MPULSE,<br />

Dayton Area <strong>Mensa</strong>, Pat Reising, Editor<br />

Web Awards<br />

Owl Award, Dayton Area <strong>Mensa</strong>, Lonny Burger,<br />

Webmaster<br />

"Members Only" Section, Dayton Area <strong>Mensa</strong>, Lonny<br />

Burger<br />

Outstanding Web site — Medium Group, Dayton<br />

Area <strong>Mensa</strong>, Lonny Burger<br />

Contribution Awards<br />

Puzzles and Games, Jim Szirony, Cleveland Area<br />

<strong>Mensa</strong>, “Bake Sale Baffler,” Graffiti, March 2012<br />

You still have one month to run for National Office as a<br />

Petition Candidate. Petition forms, Candidate<br />

Information Forms and Acceptance of Nomination<br />

forms are available by contacting the National Office at<br />

Operations@americanmensa.org. You also can start<br />

an online, members-only petition via the Web site. All<br />

petition candidates should review the <strong>2013</strong> Code of<br />

Election Procedures before beginning the petition<br />

process. Members wishing to sign available online<br />

petitions may do so via the same link.<br />

Candidate petition forms must be received by 11:59 p.m.<br />

central time on February 1, <strong>2013</strong>. Send completed forms<br />

and petitions to: Operations@americanmensa.org, fax to<br />

817-649-5232, or mail to Elections, American <strong>Mensa</strong>,<br />

Ltd., 1229 Corporate Drive West, Arlington, Texas<br />

76006-6103.”<br />

by Betsy Y. Mark, Regional Vice Chair<br />

Dayton Area <strong>Mensa</strong> will be hosting DAMNations 26:<br />

Triskadeka Times Two (or times three because it's<br />

<strong>2013</strong>!) Talks and presentations; games and<br />

tournaments; five meals by the famous Dayton<br />

Hospitality team; music and dancing; late-night<br />

conversations and general silliness! Registration is $60<br />

by March 1, <strong>2013</strong>; $70 at the door. Ages 5-18 half price,<br />

under 5 free. MP (5): included. Checks payable to<br />

Dayton Area <strong>Mensa</strong> RG. Hotel: Wyndham Garden<br />

Dayton South, 31 Prestige Plaza Dr., Miamisburg, OH<br />

45342; call hotel 937-434-8030. Room rates ($83)<br />

guaranteed until March 15, <strong>2013</strong>. CD 18 and under, H<br />

DT CP. Visit www.dayton.us.mensa.org or contact<br />

Karren Lehman, 7039 Monte Carlo Dr., Englewood, OH<br />

45322; RG.Registrar@dayton.us.mensa.org.<br />

<strong>Southeast</strong> <strong>Michigan</strong> <strong>Mensa</strong> will be hosting SEMMantics<br />

XXXIV, May 3-5. Chocolate Orgy & morning hike.<br />

<strong>Mensa</strong>Bowl, <strong>Mensa</strong>lympics & tournaments. Top-notch<br />

speakers including John Blinke. Kid room/programs.<br />

Games by Karen Smith. Wine tasting & beer sampling.<br />

Hotel gives free drink & hot buffet breakfast. See why it<br />

is #34! Registration rate through Jan. 31 is $70; $80<br />

through April 15; $90 on-site. Daily rates are $50 for<br />

Friday and $55 for Saturday. Children under 5 are free<br />

and children 5-17 are half price. Make checks payable to<br />

SEMMantics, PayPal available to<br />

semmantics@sbcglobal.net. Hotel: Holiday Inn Hotel and<br />

Suites, 37529 Grand River Ave, Farmington Hills, MI<br />

48335; www.HolidayInn.com; 248-477-7800. Room rates<br />

are $89 + tax and are guaranteed until April 1. Contact<br />

Larry Arbanas, 24565 Glen Orchard Dr., Farmington<br />

Hills, MI 48336; 323-642-7226; larry@arbanas.org.<br />

I am looking forward to seeing you soon.<br />

LLAP and Peace,<br />

Betsy<br />

Betsy Yvonne Mark<br />

rvc3@us.mensa.org<br />

3674 Oak Drive - Ypsilanti, MI 48197<br />

734-434-5757 (Home) or 313-530-2055 (Mobile)<br />

Region 3 Website - http://www.region3.us.mensa.org/<br />

Yahoo group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AMR3/<br />

Facebook group -<br />

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=71515809887


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 5<br />

From the GCC<br />

by Melissa Jenkins, Gifted Children Coordinator<br />

RAISING GIFTED KIDS<br />

Whether your gifted child is young or old it is unlikely he/she fits the mold of the typical child. How then do you find effective<br />

techniques to raise your gifted child? Typical child-rearing methods don’t usually take into account the gifted child’s superior<br />

intellect, surprising ability to manipulate effectively at a young age and the need for early control over her/his own<br />

environment. Nor do these methods consider the gifted child’s extremely sensitive nature, compulsive need to ask incessant<br />

questions, and extreme physical activity needs. So then, where to you turn for help? Here are some general tips to help<br />

make the process smoother for you.<br />

1. Study child-rearing techniques that are more in line<br />

with the task of raising gifted children. Here are<br />

two great resources:<br />

a. “Keys to Parenting the Gifted Child” by Dr. Sylvia<br />

Rimm. I just love Dr. Rimm’s ideas and<br />

techniques. I feel I have used them successfully<br />

on my own children. Here are some other helpful<br />

books by Dr. Rimm:<br />

http://www.sylviarimm.com/books.html.<br />

b. Love and Logic ® parenting technique:<br />

http://www.loveandlogic.com/ I love the Love<br />

and Logic ® concept of giving choices and feel<br />

that really fits the gifted child well. However, I<br />

dislike the concept of giving consequences<br />

sometimes with seemingly no warning. I think<br />

overall this is a good resource though.<br />

The main thing to remember when reading about<br />

others’ techniques is that YOU are the expert on<br />

your child. Most gifted children are very unique and<br />

the best judge of what is best for them usually falls<br />

to the parents! Actually, I cannot say that too<br />

emphatically!!<br />

2. LISTEN to your child regularly. This one sounds<br />

simple, right? How could it be effective? You’d be<br />

amazed at how effective it can be. The child who is<br />

listened to learns that his/her thoughts and emotions<br />

are valuable to you, the parent. This can lead to<br />

improved self-esteem. There are other considerable<br />

benefits to listening. When you listen to your children,<br />

you learn so much about them! You can often<br />

discern what they like to do, what is important to<br />

them, how they feel about you and others, etc. In<br />

addition, you can gain insights about what they<br />

understand and how much! This is very valuable info<br />

when you need to gauge what level of academic<br />

material they are ready for, for instance. Listening<br />

carefully is also a handy way to catch a bad problem<br />

they may be dealing with before it becomes terribly<br />

serious! Don’t be afraid to ask your child about a<br />

problem and give them the opportunity to let you help<br />

them out.<br />

3. BELIEVE your child. Don’t always think your child is<br />

trying to get away with something. This is very<br />

tempting in the case of gifted kids, because they can<br />

really get good at manipulating. Pay careful attention<br />

to their words/actions over time so that you become<br />

very good at distinguishing when they are<br />

manipulating and when they are not. Gifted kids are<br />

not surprisingly extremely sensitive to comments<br />

stating they are not believed, when they are in fact<br />

telling the truth.<br />

4. Teach your child to avoid the “black and white”, “all or<br />

nothing” mentality. To do this effectively, you must<br />

show them that they need not believe that<br />

consequences are irrevocable. What do I mean by<br />

this? You set down rules for your children, but you<br />

need not hold them to the rules like a taskmaster.<br />

This means you can bend the rules a bit occasionally<br />

to fit the circumstance. What? You say? Doesn’t<br />

that make them feel less safe when the boundaries<br />

are not firm? I’m not saying you should let them run<br />

wild; just make a compromise now and again, taking<br />

into account the circumstance and acting accordingly.<br />

If you do that, you may just find that your child gives<br />

you a break and the benefit of the doubt when you<br />

make a mistake too!<br />

5. Give your child lots of choices. We all know that the<br />

gifted child is capable of making sophisticated choices<br />

much earlier in life than the typical child. Giving her/him<br />

choices helps maintain a sense of personal control for<br />

your child. So, if there is a choice to make that is safe,<br />

let them make it! For instance, a toddler might want to<br />

choose the shirt or shoes she wears. An older child<br />

may want to help choose the family’s vacation<br />

destination or a new car for the family. Giving choices<br />

and input helps the child/youth feel like a more<br />

important and valued part of the family. It also shows<br />

the child/youth that he/she is capable and can trust<br />

his/her own judgment!<br />

6. Don’t be overly hard on your child. This one is much<br />

easier said than done. Gifted children can often be a<br />

Gifted continued on page 6


M-Pathy Page 6<br />

Gifted continued from page 5<br />

VERY BIG CHALLENGE. They are constantly pushing our<br />

limits and challenging our authority. Instead of cracking<br />

authority down on their heads to try to assert control, consider<br />

allowing them input in designing rules they will have to follow.<br />

Limit negotiation, especially in the case of an older child/youth,<br />

can help build valuable negotiation and judicial skills that will<br />

serve your child in the future. Focus on explaining and<br />

showing consequences rather than a “do it or else!” mentality.<br />

7. Be very sensitive to your child’s sensitivity. When I was a<br />

child, I sometimes felt overwhelmed by fear or sadness. I<br />

cried because getting those feelings out was the most<br />

important thing for me to do at the moment. Let them cry and<br />

express those feelings when needed, without punishment for<br />

doing so. Then teach them skills to help them calm down and<br />

face their fears, frustration, sadness, etc. and come up with a<br />

plan for managing the situation, whatever it may be. Teach<br />

them ways to manage the extreme emotions in public<br />

situations as well, since as older children and adults they will<br />

need that skill.<br />

8. Schedule lots of physical activities for your gifted child. Make<br />

sure he/she has lots of playground time as a small child and<br />

sports activities as an older child. Let your child choose<br />

his/her own sports/physical activities.<br />

9. Consider a musical instrument. Learning how to play a<br />

musical instrument can really help a child develop<br />

discipline and help shape and improve her/his selfimage.<br />

Just imagine how it must feel to go in front of an<br />

audience and play a tune you have mastered with much<br />

practice, receiving ebullient praise for your efforts!<br />

10. SHOW your children that you are proud of them and<br />

respect and love them. Praise is considered quite<br />

controversial in today’s world. It is important to<br />

realize your children need your praise to help them<br />

develop a positive and secure self-image. I like to<br />

use the rule of thumb Sylvia Rimm uses: Praise<br />

calmly and gently and give credit where credit is due.<br />

Do not praise overmuch or over-enthusiastically. If<br />

you follow these guidelines your child will be more<br />

likely to believe your praise and take it seriously. It<br />

will have the impact it should have to help your child<br />

develop a more positive self-image and believe in<br />

her/himself!<br />

11. Most importantly DO NOT BE TOO HARD ON<br />

YOURSELF! Raising gifted kids is an incredibly<br />

challenging task! As parents, we will all make<br />

mistakes along the way. Don’t waste time berating<br />

yourself when you are unhappy with your actions. Just<br />

consider it a learning experience, excuse yourself for<br />

being imperfect, and look forward to a better future<br />

response when the problem comes up again!<br />

Language<br />

by Joan Rayford<br />

W B R E V D A D G K C O M M A<br />

O R N S A E R E C R P N R E D<br />

R E O N E A N I S A O O E A J<br />

D V U E F D T E P M I M T N E<br />

S E N T E N C E G N N A A I C<br />

P R A R O A R N M O T T U N T<br />

E N E L P I A A I I L O T G I<br />

L A O S O L R T O T A P C D V<br />

L C D D S G A A H A U O N T E<br />

I U K R A M N O I T S E U Q P<br />

N L H I A T M D D O U I P I L<br />

G A D L O O I T S U N A N G A<br />

B R C N N O Z I U Q U I R K Y<br />

E X Y Y M S E M I C O L O N S<br />

E M M A B B R E V I A T I O N<br />

Word List<br />

Abbreviation, Adjective, Adverb, Antonym,<br />

Colon, Comma, Dead, Deal, Diagram, Draft,<br />

Exclamation , Gender, Homonym, Idiom, Its,<br />

Meaning, Noun, Odd, Onomatopoeia, Period,<br />

Play, Point, Punctuate, Question mark, Quirky,<br />

Quiz, Quotation mark, Real, Semicolon,<br />

Sentence, Slang, Spaces, Spelling bee, Tense,<br />

Tick, Unusual, Verb, Vernacular, Words<br />

Solution – 12 letters, answer on page 13


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 7<br />

#1<br />

Submitted by Allegra Louth<br />

Please send your jokes and comments to: humor@mensadetroit.com<br />

My wife was in labor with our first child. Things were going pretty well when<br />

suddenly, she began to shout, "Shouldn't, couldn't, wouldn't, didn't, can't!"<br />

"Doctor, what's wrong with my wife?!"<br />

The doctor replied, "Nothing. She's just having contractions."<br />

-------<br />

One day, in the shark-infested waters of the Caribbean, two prawns called<br />

Justin and Christian were discussing the pressures of being a preyed upon<br />

prawn. "I hate being a prawn," said Justin. "I wish I were a shark."<br />

Suddenly, a mysterious cod appears. "Your wish is granted," he says and,<br />

instantly, Justin became a shark. Horrified, Christian swam away, afraid his<br />

former friend might eat him.<br />

As time passed, Christian continued to avoid Justin, leaving the shrimp-turnedman-eater<br />

lonely and frustrated. So when he bumped into the cod again, he<br />

begged the mysterious fish to change him back. Lo and behold, Justin was<br />

turned back into a prawn.<br />

With tears of joy in his tiny little eyes, he swam back to the reef to seek out<br />

Christian. As he approached, he shouted out: "It's me, Justin, your old friend.<br />

I've changed ... I've found Cod, and I'm a prawn again, Christian."<br />

-------<br />

Jimmy: "Hey, Mike! How's your new pet fish doing? You told me he was really<br />

something special."<br />

Mike: "To tell the truth, I'm really disappointed in him. The guy who sold him to<br />

me said I could teach him to sing like a bird."<br />

Jimmy: "What? You bought a fish because you thought you could teach him to<br />

sing like a bird? That will never happen."<br />

Mike: "That's what you think! It just so happens that this fish CAN sing. The<br />

thing is, he's terribly off-key and it's driving me crazy. Do you know how hard it<br />

is to tuna fish?"<br />

-------<br />

During a performance for the high school drama class at the local theatre, a<br />

hole was cracked in the stage floor. Subsequent acts managed to avoid the<br />

damaged area until little Freddy, juggling bowling pins, accidentally stepped<br />

through the hole up to his knee.<br />

Puzzles<br />

By Tom Shaw<br />

#1<br />

In every super market<br />

You’re sure to see this name<br />

If your corn and peas are wilted<br />

You won’t have him to blame<br />

#2<br />

Copperfield makes things disappear<br />

He seems to do it all<br />

But can he throw a stick down<br />

And somehow make it crawl<br />

#3<br />

He exposed it to the nation<br />

The secret he had sought<br />

And wanted information on<br />

The thing that had been wrought<br />

#4<br />

Was it fact or fiction<br />

The method that he chose<br />

To show the troupes the wisdom of<br />

How far a dollar goes<br />

#5<br />

His daddy would endorse of course<br />

His untapped use of innate force<br />

Use the might behind the light<br />

When you are right you’ll win the fight<br />

Answers on page 13<br />

He apologized to the audience for his clumsiness. Then one sympathetic<br />

person in the back of the theater replied, "Don't worry, Freddy!" shouted a guy<br />

in the front row, "It's just a stage you're going through!"<br />

-------<br />

Lots of self-help tapes out there. Got one called How to Handle Disappointment.<br />

I got it home and the box was empty.


M-Pathy Page 8<br />

of Gabe Werba…<br />

“<strong>Mensa</strong> is greatly diminished by the death of Gabe<br />

Werba, one of the founders of <strong>Southeast</strong> <strong>Michigan</strong><br />

<strong>Mensa</strong> and one of National <strong>Mensa</strong>'s former Chairs.<br />

Gabe counseled many who were leaders locally,<br />

regionally and nationally with care to detail and pride<br />

in the organization. He set a great example and his<br />

presence will be missed.” Betsy Mark<br />

When Gordon MacDonald joined <strong>Mensa</strong> in 1963,<br />

SEMM only had 19 members. Gordon attended<br />

his first meeting at Jack and Elizabeth McIntyre’s<br />

house, where Gabe warmly welcomed him as a<br />

new member.<br />

“I knew Gabe both from <strong>Mensa</strong> and professionally<br />

from working for several Detroit area ad agencies<br />

and public relations firms. He was a super guy who did<br />

not take himself too seriously.<br />

One time I was joking around with him and told him in<br />

jest (only partly) how honored I was to be in his<br />

company. He smiled and said, "Thanks Ken. For that<br />

I'm going to allow you to kiss my ring."<br />

Last time I saw and spoke with Gabe was at the AG in<br />

Dearborn a couple years back.” Ken Haller<br />

“Having someone who had been Chair of<br />

American <strong>Mensa</strong> was a great model to me—<br />

showed that all chairs have to come from<br />

some local group.<br />

One of my favorite Gabe stories: Long ago at<br />

a SEMMERbash, a vivacious young, brand<br />

new member determined if he was AMC<br />

Chair, Gabe must be somebody important,<br />

and attached herself to him. She talked with<br />

him for a while and then, when someone else<br />

new approached the group, excitedly<br />

introduced him as the head of American<br />

Motors Corporation! Gabe being Gabe, he<br />

did not correct her in front of others. As far<br />

as we know, Gabe’s son has no plans to run<br />

for president.” Jean Becker


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 9<br />

I’m Okay<br />

By Tom Shaw<br />

Dear Concerned Citizens of America,<br />

I request my name be removed from the past<br />

election ballot as candidate for president.<br />

Since the election is now over, there should be<br />

no need to hurry.<br />

“Write in”, a name I have used infrequently as<br />

well as ‘A’ ‘B’ ‘C’ ‘Other’ and<br />

‘None of the above’ has<br />

placed me in a position in<br />

which I need to explain to<br />

those who were misled into<br />

believing that I was a viable<br />

and willing candidate. I was<br />

not viable and had I been<br />

would not have served, at<br />

least with relish.<br />

I will further explain my reluctance to those who<br />

might have insisted I serve, had I been willing,<br />

which I was not, because I realized that I could<br />

not balance the budget, restore economic<br />

growth, bring prosperity to all classes, stop the<br />

war in Afghanistan and the killings in Flint and<br />

Saginaw as the leading candidates obviously<br />

can.<br />

Perhaps, as with willing candidates, a profile<br />

would be in order.<br />

My qualifications are as follows:<br />

Personality-----------------below average<br />

Looks------------------------below average<br />

Wealth----------------------below average<br />

Education------------------below average<br />

Ambition--------------------below average<br />

Knowledge-----------------below average<br />

Ethics----------------------- snake belly<br />

Friends in high places-- non existent<br />

Language-------------------English and other<br />

As you can obviously see, I would make an<br />

excellent presidential candidate, however I do<br />

have my couch potato ways which might hinder<br />

me from becoming bosom buddies with the<br />

leaders of the 200 plus nations of the world and<br />

paying them exorbitantly for the security of our<br />

ambassadors.<br />

My forte is not smiling at people I don’t like, but<br />

rather knowing that my ambition level has flat-lined<br />

at the bottom of the graph.<br />

This is an important asset that my friends insist I use<br />

to my advantage but, sadly, it is not enough. Couch<br />

potato is a derogatory term and very unfair to me<br />

since I was forced to the couch only when my Lazy-<br />

Boy broke. But, as unflattering as couch potato<br />

sounds, it has led me to what I consider my greatest<br />

asset as candidate, if I was willing, which I am not.<br />

Once, while hammocking in the back yard, a squirrel<br />

chattered at me. Under normal circumstances I would<br />

have shooed it away and went back to sleep but it was<br />

insistent and the more I heard the more I understood.<br />

EEEERIE! VERY EERIE! I was sure he was telling me<br />

to get off my butt and save the world. Holy Graynoly! I<br />

was learning squirrel talk in only my first session.<br />

It dawned on me that if I could learn squirrel talk then<br />

why not the language of other animals as well. I went<br />

back to sleep dreaming of how I could save the world<br />

by uniting not only the people of the world but the<br />

animals too. Then when my friends reminded me that<br />

animals outnumber humans, it hit me-----KABOOM!<br />

KAZOWEE! What if I could only convince them to vote-<br />

---well!<br />

Oh yes! You can plainly see the possibilities. Now,<br />

with my unique advantage and not wanting to sound<br />

over-qualified, I will rest my case here (the poor little<br />

fellow became road-kill the very next day) and hope<br />

those who would have voted for me (had I actually<br />

continued my squirrel lessons which I could not) was<br />

elected and decided to serve will see that some<br />

situations simply cannot be. Such as: King Kong and<br />

Fay Rae, garlic and first dates, pizza pie a-la-mode<br />

and couch potato presidents.<br />

However, don’t be afraid to dream the impossible dream.<br />

I do and I’m okay.


M-Pathy Page 10<br />

The Sound and the Furry<br />

2012 Jim Szirony<br />

Sound is the transmission of a pressure wave through a medium. This medium may be a solid, liquid or gas. Hearing is the<br />

response to this wave using specialized sensory organs. Over millennia, marine invertebrates evolved chordotonal organs<br />

that respond to pressure, while mammals and other vertebrates developed the auditory system. Mammals that reentered<br />

the sea, such as dolphins, then had to modify the auditory system for survival. Use sound reasoning and see how many of<br />

the following questions about mammalian hearing you can get right.<br />

1. The hertz (abbreviated Hz) is the standard unit of<br />

measurement for frequency. The frequency range of human<br />

hearing is 20 to 20,000 Hz. One hertz is equal to:<br />

A. 100 Helmholtz<br />

B. 1 cycle per second<br />

C. 250 Baud<br />

D. 60 rpm<br />

2. Sound frequencies that are in the range of human hearing<br />

are termed “sonic.” Which two of the following statements<br />

correctly describe sounds that are beyond our hearing<br />

range?<br />

A. Sound frequencies higher than we can hear are called<br />

ultrasonic.<br />

B. Hyposonic is the term for a range of frequencies below<br />

human hearing.<br />

C. Sound frequencies higher than we can hear are called<br />

supersonic.<br />

D. Infrasound is the term for a range of frequencies below<br />

human hearing.<br />

3. Which of the following is not a bone of the human middle<br />

ear?<br />

A. Incus<br />

B. Vestibulum<br />

C. Malleus<br />

D. Stapes<br />

4. Whale ears have different function and structure than land<br />

mammals. Their lower jaw conducts sound to the inner ear<br />

components. Since Blue whales communicate using sounds<br />

below 20 Hz, their hearing is most sensitive to these<br />

frequencies. Scientists using the U. S. Navy’s Sound<br />

Surveillance System (SOSUS) found Blue whales can<br />

communicate over:<br />

A. 100 miles<br />

B. 500 miles<br />

C. 1,000 miles<br />

D. 10,000 miles<br />

5. Studies have also found that Blue whales have near perfect<br />

pitch. The “B call” of the whales is the note that marks the<br />

end of their song. It has been found that all Pacific Blue<br />

whales end their song using the same note of 16.01 Hz.<br />

This is three octaves below middle C. Since only males<br />

appear to sing, what do scientists believe is the purpose of<br />

this synchronized pitch among whales?<br />

A. To indicate the migration route of the whales.<br />

B. That whale songs have a good beat and are easy to<br />

dance to.<br />

C. To enable female whales can locate a mate by<br />

detecting the Doppler shift of this note.<br />

D. To call others to join the pod.<br />

6. Elephants share, along with whales, the ability to hear<br />

using bone conduction. This allows them to hear other<br />

elephant’s low frequency calls over many miles. Their<br />

large footprint enables them to easily sense any vibrations<br />

carried through the ground. This makes elephants great<br />

predictors of storms. The pinna, or external ear of the<br />

elephant, is also very large. These ear flaps serve many<br />

purposes; these include:<br />

A. Localizing sound<br />

B. Temperature control<br />

C. Communication<br />

D. All of the above<br />

7. It wasn’t until the late 1930’s that scientists discovered<br />

that bats navigate and hunt by emitting sounds in the 20<br />

kHz to 100 kHz range. The bats can determine the size,<br />

speed and direction of prey, while maintaining a sonic<br />

picture of its surroundings. This form of biosonar is called:<br />

A. Echolocation<br />

B. Sonic Holography<br />

C. Doppler Navigation<br />

D. Hypersonic Ranging<br />

8. Which one of the following statements regarding the bat’s<br />

auditory system is not true?<br />

A. Bats can change the shape of their pinnas to improve<br />

their hearing.<br />

B. Bats are deaf to sounds in the sonic range.<br />

C. After emitting a locating click, the bat’s ear bones<br />

separate, so its own vocalizations do not deafen it.<br />

D. The inner ear is loosely attached to the skull to<br />

prevent bone conduction of sound.<br />

Answers on Page 13


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 11<br />

[<br />

Scholarship Essays Are Due!<br />

By Phyllis Voorheis, Scholarship chair<br />

The Scholarship program is drawing to a close - essays need to be online no later than midnight,<br />

<strong>January</strong> 15. No late entries accepted<br />

Attention, college-bound <strong>Mensa</strong>ns, dependents, friends AND interested people: The <strong>Mensa</strong> Foundation's<br />

scholarship application season runs through <strong>January</strong> 15, <strong>2013</strong>. The scholarship program bases its awards<br />

solely on essays written by the applicants; more than $70,000 was awarded to scholarship winners last year.<br />

Both members and non-members may apply using the newly streamlined online process. For more<br />

information and to apply, visit www.mensafoundation.org/scholarships.<br />

Judging will take place in <strong>January</strong>, with local results reported to regional chairs by the first of February. Local,<br />

Regional and National Scholarship awards will be announced/published/available late May or early June.<br />

<strong>Southeast</strong> <strong>Michigan</strong> <strong>Mensa</strong><br />

Balance Sheet<br />

As of October 31, 2012<br />

ASSETS<br />

Current Assets<br />

Checking/Savings $29,852.39<br />

Other Current Assets 1,004.70<br />

Total Current Assets $30,857.09<br />

Fixed Assets 805.45<br />

TOTAL ASSETS $31,662.54<br />

LIABILITIES & EQUITY<br />

Total Liabilities $113.25<br />

Equity 31,549.29<br />

TOTAL LIAB.& EQUITY $31,662.54<br />

Profit & Loss Statement<br />

May 1, 2012 to October 31, 2012<br />

Funds From National $ 4,732.10<br />

Testing 78.00<br />

Newsletter - 3,393.47<br />

Membership Expenses 4.38<br />

General Meeting 196.13<br />

Events 598.99<br />

Administration/Misc. -150.46<br />

Net Income $2,065.67<br />

The above are summary documents for SEMM’s second quarter of the current fiscal year. Anyone<br />

interested in detailed information may contact Jerry Breuer, Treasurer.<br />

John Voymas Real Estate Professional<br />

Real Estate One – <strong>Michigan</strong>’s largest broker<br />

For all your sales, purchase and leasing needs<br />

Office: 313.565.3200 ext. 165<br />

Cell: 313.434.6750<br />

Email: JohnV@realestateone.com<br />

Web: www.johnvoymas.realestateone.com


M-Pathy Page 12<br />

<strong>January</strong> Membership Notes<br />

Compiled by Iana Questara Boyce from National Office Data<br />

WELCOME<br />

Natalie Bourdeau<br />

14052 McGuire St<br />

Taylor, MI 48180-4449<br />

313-829-3032<br />

bourdean@gmail.com<br />

Heather Poucher<br />

324 W Ainsworth St<br />

Ypsilanti, MI 48197-5354<br />

734- 485-9501<br />

hkpoucher@gmail.com<br />

Marc E. Taylor<br />

502 N River St Apt 1<br />

Ypsilanti, MI 48198-2859<br />

231-510-0316<br />

taylorme27@gmail.com<br />

Zeyin Zhang<br />

526 Packard St Apt 203<br />

Ann Arbor, MI 48104-3043<br />

216-712-1199<br />

zeyinzh@umich.edu<br />

WELCOME BACK<br />

James R. Byce<br />

29229 Greater Mack Ave<br />

Saint Clair Shores, MI 48081-2751<br />

810-774-0960<br />

Lynn Marie Carter<br />

35200 Sims St Apt 212<br />

Wayne, MI 48184-1288<br />

313-748-5649<br />

Richard John Giesige<br />

5185 Merritt Rd<br />

Ypsilanti, MI 48197-6601<br />

734- 484-0721<br />

Tallmann2@comcast.net<br />

WELCOME BACK CONTINUED<br />

Dennis Nagy<br />

9912 Becker Ave<br />

Allen Park, MI 48101-3703<br />

313-908-7366<br />

John Szymkowski<br />

334 E Farnum Ave<br />

Royal Oak, MI 48067-3602<br />

(248) 990-8608<br />

jszymkowski@gmail.com<br />

MOVED IN<br />

Scott Joseph Helgemo<br />

4433 Fredro St<br />

Detroit, MI 48212-2836<br />

(313) 891-2845<br />

From Saint Petersburg, FL<br />

Eric Jarrett<br />

608 Monroe St Apt 4<br />

Ann Arbor, MI 48104-3009<br />

(248) 224-7874<br />

eric.l.jarrett@gmail.com<br />

From Washington, DC<br />

Victoria M. Knight<br />

3610 Galloway Ct Apt 2504<br />

Rochester Hills, MI 48309-2789<br />

(612) 568-3865<br />

From Somerville, MA<br />

Jerry D. Tubbs<br />

1221 Bowers St Unit 714<br />

Birmingham, MI 48012-7004<br />

(262) 853-5240<br />

tubbs_jerry@hotmail.com<br />

From Westbury, NY<br />

We extend our heartfelt sympathies for<br />

the family and friends of<br />

Gabriel Werba<br />

from Farmington Hills, <strong>Michigan</strong><br />

who passed away recently.<br />

MOVED OUT<br />

Matthew Knysz<br />

To New York, NY<br />

Silke Kraus<br />

To Boston, MA<br />

Rudolph E. Lisa*<br />

To Kirkland, WA<br />

DIRECTORY UPDATES<br />

Catherine Biondi<br />

Melvindale, MI 48122-1611<br />

Iana Q. Boyce*<br />

ianaqtpie@gmail.com<br />

Mark Edward Crane<br />

2693 Lambeth Park<br />

Rochester Hills, MI 48306-3043<br />

Daniel DeRubeis III<br />

Royal Oak, MI 48067-4220<br />

Nicholas Lesnau<br />

Farmington Hills, MI 48331-5871<br />

James D. Miller<br />

millerj713@gmail.com<br />

Rajeev Raghavan<br />

692 Rolling Rock Rd<br />

Bloomfield Hills, MI 48304-1055<br />

Terry Redman<br />

55503<br />

*indicates<br />

Estates<br />

a<br />

Ln<br />

Life Member<br />

Macomb, MI 48042-1867<br />

David Michael Vincent<br />

35850 Booth Ave<br />

Westland, MI 48186-4204<br />

*indicates a Life Member


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 13<br />

MENSA MEMBERSHIP MILESTONES<br />

[Number of years of continuous membership. Years 25 or more listed for each year; years less than 25 listed for 5-year milestones.]<br />

25+:<br />

47 Years<br />

Earl G. Swain<br />

46 Years<br />

Elizabeth B. Gregory<br />

41 Years<br />

Alison Wolfson*<br />

37 Years<br />

Ann Ruslander Burgess<br />

36 Years<br />

Ervin Larry Beyersdorf<br />

Sue Carol Spencer<br />

35 Years<br />

Michael V. Dean*<br />

34 Years<br />

Gerald J. Schloff<br />

33 Years<br />

Pauline K. Averbach<br />

Marlene Kay Bowers<br />

Edward M. Trainor*<br />

32 Years<br />

Joyce Elaine Foy*<br />

John Charles Shafer<br />

Valdemar Luther<br />

Washington*<br />

31 Years<br />

Robert L. Hetzler<br />

30 Years<br />

Robert E. Brooks*<br />

Michael S. Khoury<br />

29 Years<br />

John Michael Chmura<br />

Ann Davis Garvin<br />

Tim R. Magers<br />

27 Years<br />

Marsha Vohsen Holmes<br />

15 Years<br />

Tom Augustine<br />

10 Years<br />

David M. Austin<br />

5 Years<br />

Agnes J. Bochenek<br />

Thomas Frushour*<br />

Daniel F. Mawby<br />

As of November 1, 2012<br />

SEMM had 997 members<br />

*indicates a Life Member<br />

Win $1 Million in Chocolate!!!<br />

Who? You!<br />

What? $1 Million in Chocolate<br />

When? SEMMantics XXXIV<br />

Where? Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites, Farmington Hills, <strong>Michigan</strong><br />

How? By winning the annual RG Cribbage Tournament.<br />

Is there a catch? Yes, you must be registered for SEMMantics XXXIV to enter.<br />

Don't know how to play? There will be a Cribbage tutorial session held prior to the tournament at the RG.<br />

Puzzle Answers<br />

1. Clarence Birdseye 2..Moses 3. Samuel Morse 4. George Washington 5. Luke Skywalker<br />

Word Search: Are Odd Things<br />

Jim Szirony Answers:<br />

1. B or D, 2. A and D, 3. B, 4. D Whales can communicate across entire oceans, 5. C, 6. D, 7. A, 8. B


M-Pathy Page 14<br />

HAPPY JANUARY BIRTHDAYS!<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

5<br />

6<br />

7<br />

Kumar Bhatt<br />

Walter L. LaMasters<br />

Kim S. Horger<br />

JoAnne Ingram<br />

John F. Schmidt<br />

Candace DeLattre<br />

John F. Keating<br />

Regan R. Mack<br />

Glynette S. Wolk<br />

David Keith Smith<br />

Ronald G. Chimelak<br />

11<br />

12<br />

13<br />

14<br />

15<br />

16<br />

Michael Curmi<br />

Brett Radlicki<br />

Margaret Skelly*<br />

R. Larry Arbanas<br />

M. Michele Chadwick<br />

Michael D. Hayden<br />

Bill Wisniewski<br />

Donald F. Rossin<br />

Kenneth Grundberg*<br />

Jake Heiney<br />

David Lawson<br />

Tim R. Magers<br />

Mattie Carolyn Majors<br />

23<br />

25<br />

26<br />

27<br />

28<br />

Brinton L. Butler<br />

Paul Raymon Jung<br />

Myron G. Sherer<br />

Steven O. Darling<br />

Jason D. Howson<br />

Michael S. Khoury<br />

Maria C. Leahy<br />

Marc David Manson*<br />

Katherine E. Fennimore*<br />

Marsha Vohsen Holmes<br />

Kenneth D. Johnston<br />

Thomas J. Karnosky<br />

John C. Golovich III<br />

Peter W. Shermeta<br />

8<br />

9<br />

Eric Jarrett<br />

Michael Joseph Csapo<br />

Dennis George Ganster<br />

Michael Kong<br />

Henry W. Seitz<br />

Marcella Wojtyca<br />

17<br />

19<br />

20<br />

Carol Mannino Kachmar<br />

Thomas H. Price<br />

David Louis Wilson<br />

Richard Augustine Doherty*<br />

29<br />

30<br />

Lawrence D. Dworin<br />

Clinton C. Williams*<br />

John Bejnarowicz<br />

Bettina T. Edwards<br />

Michael J. Ewing<br />

John Reed<br />

10<br />

Wayne Chadwick<br />

Anne R. Laperriere<br />

Heather Poucher<br />

22<br />

Jack Charles Beckman<br />

Kristine Marie Hawver<br />

Robert Lawrence Overmars<br />

31<br />

Penny Schultz Ettinger<br />

Lance Lis<br />

Michael M. Martin Jr.<br />

*indicates a Life Member


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 15<br />

SEMM Events Listing<br />

Events are listed by Category: Dining, Social Gatherings, Movies, Brain Food (Discussion/Working Groups), Games,<br />

and Children’s Events. Events are also listed by date in a Monthly Calendar view at the end of this section.<br />

M-Pathy is published monthly and reflects info as of the 1 st of the preceding month. For the latest events information,<br />

see www.<strong>Mensa</strong>Detroit.com. To sponsor an event, give feedback on events, or to suggest a new activity, email<br />

Calendar@<strong>Mensa</strong>Detroit.com NOTE: <strong>Mensa</strong>ns lead busy lives; it is advisable to call ahead to confirm events.<br />

DOWNRIVER MENSANS 2nd SATURDAY BRUNCH<br />

2nd Saturday, 10:45am<br />

Note: We’ve moved to the second Saturday of every<br />

month and are alternating between two restaurants,<br />

one in Southgate (even months) and one in Westland<br />

(odd months).<br />

This month: Fire Mountain, 34615 Warren Rd.,<br />

Westland, S side of the road, just E of Wayne Rd.<br />

Optional: A movie after at nearby theater.<br />

RSVP to join the distribution list, for location details -- or<br />

to suggest a movie.<br />

Host: Pauline Averbach 734-281-2726, 734-751-2304<br />

cell, semmtest@paverbach.us<br />

Optional: A movie after at nearby theater.<br />

RSVP to join the distribution list, for location details -- or<br />

to suggest a movie.<br />

Host: Pauline Averbach 734-281-2726, 734-751-2304<br />

cell, semmtest@paverbach.us<br />

Dining<br />

A3M BRUNCH (and a movie?)<br />

2nd Saturday, 10:30am<br />

Big Boy Restaurant, 3611 Plymouth Rd, NE Ann Arbor<br />

(use Red Roof Inn driveway) Breakfast bar buffet 'til<br />

2:00pm or order off the menu. Look for us in our own<br />

section!<br />

Optional: A3M 2 nd SATURDAY MOVIE after<br />

RSVP to reserve a place or for movie details.<br />

Host: Karen Smith 734-449-2359, cell phone 248-444-3813.<br />

Email karenls@ameritech.net to join the distribution list.<br />

FLINT AREA GASTRONAUTS<br />

4 th Wednesday, 6:30pm. We move around frequently<br />

as we sample local and sometimes not so local cuisine.<br />

At each monthly dinner, we decide where to go the next<br />

month, preferably within 25 miles of Flint.<br />

Hosts: Lynne & James Draper 810-744-1252. Email<br />

paradyme4@comcast.net to join the distribution list.<br />

A3M DINNER AND "NOT SO CHEAP" MOVIE NIGHT<br />

2 nd Wednesday, 5:30pm<br />

Holiday's Restaurant, 2080 W. Stadium, Ann Arbor,<br />

between Liberty and Pauline, across from the P.O.<br />

Movie at Quality 16, 3686 Jackson Rd, Ann Arbor.<br />

RSVP to reserve a place or for movie details.<br />

Hosts: Karen Smith 734-449-2359, Mike LaMoreaux<br />

734-971-2242. Email Karen karenls@ameritech.net to<br />

join her Ann Arbor distribution list.<br />

A3M EATOUT<br />

LAST Wednesday, Jan 30th, 6:30 PM<br />

Join us at Seoul Garden for Korean and Japanese cuisine<br />

to ward off the winter chill! Lots of filling Korean barbecue<br />

and hot pot dishes, plus a full sushi bar. Located on south<br />

side of Ann Arbor at 3125 Boardwalk between Eisenhower<br />

Parkway & Victors Way, just east of State St. near<br />

Briarwood.Restaurant phone:734-997-2121.<br />

Hosts: Bob Strauch, 734-973-6522, cell 734-604-3791;<br />

bstra2012@aol.com and Ann Garvin. Email Ann at<br />

agarvin224@aol.com to join the distribution list.<br />

Précis of the November 17 ExComm Meeting<br />

by Billie Lee, Secretary<br />

Attendance: 6 voting, 2 non-voting. Next Meeting: <strong>January</strong> 19, <strong>2013</strong> 5:00pm at the Winter Bash<br />

Bylaws: Come to the ExComm meeting right before the Winter Bash to join the discussion on updates to the bylaws.<br />

Voting on the changes will be done separate from the election. RG <strong>2013</strong>: We need to get younger members in the<br />

organizing group. There will be a drawing at the Saturday dinner for people staying at the hotel. The winner gets their<br />

hotel bill paid. All meals will be served in the breakfast room. The next RG meeting is <strong>January</strong> 17th. Financial Policies<br />

& Procedures: Approved unanimously to adopt the updated financial policies and procedures. The documents will be<br />

hosted on the website. SEMMer Bash: The ExComm will decide on the date, location and budget. Everything else is<br />

handled by the Chair.


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SOTS—SOUTH OAKLAND TAVERN SOCIALIZERS<br />

Every Friday, 6:00pm<br />

Wrap up your week and help audition new taverns.<br />

Lively conversation, entertaining company.<br />

Host: Lee Helms 248-895-6389, email<br />

leehelms@wideopenwest.com to join distribution list or<br />

call Lee for info.<br />

A3M 1 ST WEDNESDAY ART FILM (QUIRKY MOVIE)<br />

1 st Wednesday, 5:30pm<br />

Mr. Greek's Coney Island, 215 South State, Ann Arbor.<br />

Movies at <strong>Michigan</strong> Theatre and/or the State Theatre.<br />

RSVP to reserve a place or for movie details.<br />

Hosts: Rich Bury 734-929-2066, rdbury@gmail.com &<br />

Karen Smith 734-449-2359, karenls@ameritech.net<br />

A3M DINNER AND "NOT SO CHEAP" MOVIE NIGHT<br />

2 nd Wednesday, 5:30pm (see above)<br />

A3M 2 nd SATURDAY MOVIE<br />

2 nd Saturday, after the Brunch (see above)<br />

Quality 16, 3686 Jackson Road, Ann Arbor. Discount<br />

prices are in effect at this time.<br />

RAM—ROCHESTER AREA MENSA<br />

2 nd Sunday, 5:00pm<br />

Somewhere in the Rochester area.<br />

Let’s talk about science!<br />

Host: John Blinke 248-659-8438, johnb44221@cs.com<br />

Call for location and directions – or to suggest a topic.<br />

Social Gatherings<br />

Movies<br />

Brain Food - (Discussion/Working Groups)<br />

THE BREWERY CIRCUIT<br />

See us at the Winter Bash on <strong>January</strong>19!<br />

Host: JohnVoymas 313-434-6750, email<br />

johnvoymas@yahoo.com to join distribution list.<br />

RSVP to reserve a place or for movie details.<br />

Hosts: Karen Smith 734-449-2359, Mike LaMoreaux<br />

734-971-2242. Email Karen karenls@ameritech.net to<br />

join distribution list.<br />

FRIDAYS AT THE DETROIT FILM THEATRE<br />

Fridays, 6:55pm, by Exit 2 (not aisle 2)<br />

Detroit Institute of Art, 5200 Woodward Ave, Detroit. For movie<br />

schedule, see www.dia.org/detroitfilmtheatre/14/DFT.aspx<br />

RSVP (Leave a description if we haven’t met)<br />

Host: Sharon Suhrie 313-563-8609, sharonsuhrie@earthlink.net<br />

Optional: Convene after the movie at http://www.trafficjamdetroit.com<br />

U of M SATURDAY MORNING PHYSICS<br />

LECTURES/BRUNCH<br />

Returning in February! Plan ahead to celebrate the<br />

physics of Acoustics on Feb 2 in Hill Auditorium – and its<br />

100 th year! See www.saturdaymorningphysics.org<br />

Host: Rick Bollinger 734-645-7170, richard.bollinger@ieee.org<br />

GAMES IN HIGHLAND (Shelby Township)<br />

NEW DATE! 2nd Saturday, 1:00pm to whenever, 1950<br />

Crystal Lake Court West, Bldg C, Apt. 46, Shelby<br />

Township. RSVP appreciated. Smoke and alcoholfree,<br />

fun for all. Are you a games person? Just want to<br />

socialize? Please stop by. We have a variety of games<br />

to play, such as Outburst, Quirkle, Word on the Street,<br />

Settlers of Catan, or cards for Hearts and Euchre, or<br />

BYOG (Bring Your Own Game). Non-alcoholic<br />

beverages and snacks provided or BYO to share.<br />

Games<br />

Host: Phyllis Voorheis 313-719-1696, PhyllisVoorheis@yahoo.com.<br />

LONDON, ONTARIO GAMES NIGHT<br />

2nd Saturday, 7:00pm. Drop by anytime after 7:00pm to<br />

play games or just socialize. Hosts have a wide variety<br />

of games, but feel free to bring your own favorites.<br />

Location: 35 Scottsdale Street in Lambeth (SW area of<br />

London). Hosts: Lois and Pete Fuchs 519-652-0282,<br />

petefuchs@bell.net<br />

Your Game Here<br />

What would a SEMMantics RG be without games? Have a favorite game that you’d like to play tournament<br />

style? Contact Joan Rayford, rayfordj2002@yahoo.com or 734-788-2922 with your suggestions.<br />

Come to SEMMantics XXXIV and have fun with old and new friends! See you there!


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Kid’s Events<br />

Please Note: These events are coordinated by Gifted in <strong>Michigan</strong>. RSVPs are critical!!! A leader/facilitator<br />

will be present at all events. See www.giftedinmichigan.com for more details, to RSVP, to identify event<br />

leaders, to volunteer, or to see the cancellation policy. If it is difficult to find the group at an event (due to a<br />

crowded/busy location, for example), please call the leader at the phone number provided so that s/he may<br />

help guide you to the group.<br />

Host: Melissa Jenkins gifted_in_mi@sbcglobal.net<br />

Henry Ford Museum Lego Architecture: Towering Ambition<br />

Saturday, <strong>January</strong> 5, <strong>2013</strong>, 3:00 PM, Dearborn, MI<br />

MSU Brain Bee and Neuroscience Fair<br />

Saturday, <strong>January</strong> 12, <strong>2013</strong>, 1:00 PM, East Lansing, MI<br />

Gifted In <strong>Michigan</strong> Potluck Games Night<br />

Saturday, <strong>January</strong> 26, <strong>2013</strong>, 5:00 PM, Berkley, MI<br />

DIA Celebration Masks and Artist Demonstration<br />

Sunday, <strong>January</strong> 27, <strong>2013</strong>, 12:00pm, Detroit, MI<br />

Learn about Puzzle Parties for Kids,<br />

see https://sites.google.com/site/puzzleparty2011/ Host: Hiren Bhatt, ghbhatt@gmail.com<br />

Stay for free at SEMMantics 34 (May 3-5, <strong>2013</strong>)<br />

by Jean Becker, RG Chair<br />

We encourage our members and their friends and family who come to SEMMantics to stay in the hotel. There are a number<br />

of reasons why it is the best way to experience a Regional Gathering, including being able to pop back to your room for a<br />

nap or to change into your swim suit, and not having to worry about getting home if you overstay in the hospitality room. But<br />

you may not know that one of the reasons the RG registration is so inexpensive is that the cost of our hospitality and games<br />

suites and speaker rooms are reduced, depending on the number of sleeping rooms our registrants occupy.<br />

At our first meeting recently, the RG team decided to offer a bribe (we admit it!) At dinner Saturday night May 4 th (included<br />

in the registration), we will draw a name and we will then pay the hotel bill for one lucky person. We will pay the room<br />

charge and taxes that person is registered for: one or two nights. You need not be in the room for the drawing---we know<br />

there are always multiple things going on in every time slot—but you must be registered for the RG and hotel before your<br />

name is drawn.<br />

Register now to become eligible to win a free hotel stay during SEMMantics! Call 248-477-7800 for reservations or go<br />

online at www.HolidayInn.com using the code SEM. We are at the Holiday Inn Hotel and Suites in Farmington Hills,<br />

<strong>Michigan</strong>.<br />

More about SEMMantics in the next several Issues of M-Pathy. Or better yet, join us at our upcoming meetings to be part of<br />

brainstorming new RG activities. Our remaining meetings are: Jan. 17, Feb. 21, Mar. 14, April 4 & 18.


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<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />

SUN MON TUE WED THU FRI SAT<br />

1 2<br />

3 4<br />

5<br />

5:30pm A3M<br />

Art/Quirky Movie<br />

6 7 8 9<br />

13<br />

5:00pm<br />

Rochester Area<br />

<strong>Mensa</strong><br />

20 21 22 23<br />

27<br />

12:00pm Kids<br />

DIA<br />

Celebration<br />

Masks and<br />

Artist<br />

Demonstration<br />

5:30pm A3M<br />

Dinner & NSC<br />

Movie<br />

10 11<br />

14 15 16 17 18<br />

28 29 30<br />

6:30pm Flint Area<br />

Gastronauts<br />

6:30pm A3M<br />

EatOut<br />

24 25<br />

31<br />

6:00pm SOTS<br />

6:00pm SOTS<br />

6:00pm SOTS<br />

6:00pm SOTS<br />

3:00pm Kids!<br />

Henry Ford Museum Lego Architecture<br />

12<br />

10:30am A3M Brunch (& movie?)<br />

10:45am Downriver Brunch-Southgate<br />

1:00pmKids!<br />

MSU Brain Bee & Neuroscience Fair<br />

1:00pm Games-Highland (Shelby<br />

Township)<br />

7:00pm London Games Night<br />

19<br />

6:00pm-11:00pm Winter Bash!<br />

26<br />

Dues Subsidy Program, by Spencer Wolff, Dues Subsidy Administrator<br />

It’s that time again. Time to pay those pesky annual dues. Having a little trouble with finances<br />

this year? Could you use a little help?<br />

SEMM will subsidize up to 75% of the annual dues payment to National for members in good<br />

standing who can demonstrate a need for such a subsidy.<br />

For information about this program please write to:<br />

Spencer Wolff, Dues Subsidy Administrator<br />

2947 Philadelphia Dr., Ann Arbor, MI 48103 - or - ceewolff@ameritech.net<br />

There is a small bit of paper work, and a deadline for official requests of February 15, <strong>2013</strong>, so<br />

contact Spencer real soon to get complete details on the policy and its associated procedures.


<strong>January</strong> <strong>2013</strong> Page 19<br />

Executive Committee of <strong>Southeast</strong> <strong>Michigan</strong> <strong>Mensa</strong><br />

President (LocSec) John Voymas locsec@mensadetroit.com 313-434-6750<br />

Vice President Harley Berger VP@mensadetroit.com 248-210-3563<br />

Secretary Billie Lee Secretary@mensadetroit.com 248-535-8524<br />

Treasurer Jerry Breuer Treasurer@mensadetroit.com 734-459-1886<br />

Co-Vice Presidents<br />

Ann Arbor Area<br />

Co-Vice Presidents<br />

Northeast <strong>Michigan</strong><br />

Kathleen Giesting AnnArbor@mensadetroit.com 734-327-4884<br />

Betsy Y. Mark AnnArbor@mensadetroit.com 734-434-5757<br />

Bob Strauch AnnArbor@mensadetroit.com 734-973-6522<br />

James D. Draper Flint@mensadetroit.com 810-744-1252<br />

Lynne A. Draper Flint@mensadetroit.com 810-744-1252<br />

Judy Johnson Flint@mensadetroit.com 810-240-3801<br />

Derald R. Schnepp Flint@mensadetroit.com 810-694-3560<br />

General Representative Pauline Averbach genrep1@mensadetroit.com 734-281-2726<br />

General Representative Katie Jeffries genrep2@mensadetroit.com 248-961-1444<br />

Appointed Officers-Voting<br />

Regional Gathering Chair Jean Becker semmantics@mensadetroit.com 810-229-2113<br />

Membership Kurt Love membership@mensadetroit.com 586-293-1456<br />

Newsletter Editor Kathleen Giesting Mpathy@mensadetroit.com 734-327-4884<br />

Appointed Officers—Non-Voting<br />

Arbitrator and Ombudsman David Brown ombudsman@mensadetroit.com 734-458-1194<br />

Archivist Edward Becker Archivist@mensadetroit.com 810-229-2113<br />

Chuck McQueen AuditCom@mensadetroit.com 586-468-7096<br />

Audit Committee<br />

Geoffrey Vasquez AuditCom@mensadetroit.com 248-346-1614<br />

Felecia Studstill AuditCom@mensadetroit.com<br />

Budget Committee<br />

Jerry Breuer BudgetCom@mensadetroit.com 734-459-1886<br />

James D. Draper BudgetCom@mensadetroit.com 810-744-1252<br />

Community Volunteer<br />

Coordinator<br />

Lynn Broniak-Hull Volunteers@mensadetroit.com 734-451-7278<br />

Dues Subsidy Administrator Spencer Wolff DuesSubsidy@mensadetroit.com 734-327-4884<br />

Gen-X/Gen-Y Coordinator Katie Jeffries genxy@mensadetroit.com 248-961-1444<br />

Gifted Children Coordinator Melissa Jenkins GiftedCoord@mensadetroit.com 248-586-9926<br />

Music In the Schools Pauline Averbach MusicInSchools@<strong>Mensa</strong>Detroit.com 734-281-2726<br />

National Testing Day<br />

Coordinator<br />

Pauline Averbach Testing@mensadetroit.com 734-281-2726<br />

Newsletter Publisher Brenda Lewis publisher@mensadetroit.com 313-835-3454<br />

Parliamentarian Edward Becker Parliamentarian@mensadetroit.com 810-229-2113<br />

Proctor Coordinator Pauline Averbach Testing@mensadetroit.com 734-281-2726<br />

Project Inkslinger Vacant Inkslinger@mensadetroit.com<br />

Publicity Vacant PR@mensadetroit.com<br />

Recruitment Officer Gary Rimar Recruitment@mensadetroit.com 248-338-7867<br />

Scholarship Chair Phyllis Voorheis Scholarships@mensadetroit.com 248-437-1509<br />

SEMMer Bash Chair John Voymas SEMMerBash@mensadetroit.com 313-434-6750<br />

SEMM Forum Moderator Steve Goodhall ForumMod@mensadetroit.com 248-334-9073<br />

SIGHT Judy Johnson SIGHT@mensadetroit.com 810-695-5553<br />

Web Master Billie Lee webmaster@mensadetroit.com 248-535-8524<br />

Winter Bash Chair Harley Berger winterbash@mensadetroit.com 248-210-3563<br />

Assistant Newsletter Editor Toby Berger Mpathy@mensadetroit.com 248-851-3563<br />

editorial policy<br />

<strong>Mensa</strong>, as a group, holds no opinion on<br />

any subject. Its members do. All opinions<br />

expressed in M-pathy are those of the<br />

individual authors. The editor will consider<br />

for publication all materials submitted by<br />

SEMM members. Anonymous material will<br />

not be printed, but names will be withheld<br />

upon request. Anything libelous and/or<br />

obscene will not be printed. The editor<br />

reserves the right to edit any submission<br />

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and the author are required. A courtesy<br />

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Written permission to reprint must<br />

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M-Pathy accepts prepaid ads either<br />

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Copy and payment must arrive at the<br />

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Rates for members: full-page $55; half<br />

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card $7. For non-members: full page $75;<br />

half-page $42; quarter-page $22; business<br />

card $10. Make checks payable to SEMM.<br />

membership<br />

<strong>Mensa</strong> is an international society whose<br />

only membership requirement is a score at<br />

or above the 98thpercentile on any of<br />

several, standard IQ tests. <strong>Mensa</strong> is notfor-profit<br />

and its only purpose is to serve<br />

as a means of communication and<br />

assembly for its members. <strong>Mensa</strong> is not<br />

affiliated with any other organization. For<br />

membership information, call (800)66-<br />

MENSA, write to American <strong>Mensa</strong>, Ltd., at<br />

the address below, or email<br />

American<strong>Mensa</strong>@mensa.org. Prospective<br />

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Send address changes to:<br />

M-Pathy c/o American <strong>Mensa</strong>, Ltd.<br />

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M-Pathy<br />

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SOUTHEAST MICHIGAN MENSA’S<br />

Winter Bash<br />

The coolest party of the year!<br />

Saturday, <strong>January</strong> 19, <strong>2013</strong><br />

6:00pm - 11:00pm<br />

Berkley VFW Hall<br />

3025 Coolidge (Between 11 and 12 Mile Road)<br />

Berkley, MI 48072<br />

Plenty of free parking!<br />

Salad Pizza Beverages Munchies Cards Rock Band<br />

Board Games Pool Table Music Darts<br />

In advance through <strong>January</strong> 11:<br />

$12 for ages 12 and up<br />

$6 for ages 11 and younger<br />

Children 4 and under: Free<br />

At the door:<br />

$14 for ages 12 and up<br />

$8 for ages 11 and younger<br />

Children 4 and under: Free<br />

Please fill out the form and mail with check made payable to SEMM to:<br />

Harley Berger, 7269 Creeks Bend Court, West Bloomfield, MI 48322<br />

To use PayPal, go to www.PayPal.com, and click on the "Send Money" tab. Enter email address:<br />

semmantics@sbcglobal.net and your payment amount. If registering more than one person, enter<br />

each registrant’s name in the Comments section on the confirmation page.<br />

Any questions? Call 248-210-3563 or email: winterbash@mensadetroit.com<br />

Name:<br />

Address:<br />

City/Zip:<br />

Number of Tickets: ages 12 and over:<br />

ages 11 and under:<br />

$12 each $6 each

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