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The Editor’s Desk ©<br />

Art Sharp<br />

10<br />

Hopefully William G. Santo Did<br />

Not Die In Vain ©<br />

No one should die alone.<br />

Unfortunately, U.S. Army veteran<br />

William G. Santo did. Luckily, there were<br />

people who made sure he was not buried<br />

alone, or in complete anonymity.<br />

Not dying alone was the subject of an<br />

essay I included in one of my books,<br />

Thoughts I Thunk When I Wasn’t Thinking.<br />

I had forgotten about the essay (and the<br />

book, as did most people, since the book<br />

rose immediately to non-best seller lists<br />

everywhere) until I talked to Peter<br />

Orenski, an Associate Member of Ch 11,<br />

Danbury [CT], a couple months ago.<br />

Orenski said, “Read the story of<br />

William Santo’s burial that came up at our<br />

chapter’s meeting last night. It just tugged<br />

at my heart all evening. I thought you<br />

might find a way to have it tug at the<br />

hearts of others around the country to<br />

inspire them to similar gestures—the ultimate<br />

respect to a veteran none of the participants<br />

in the ceremony had ever met.”<br />

The story Orenski mentioned was written<br />

by Ch 11 President Brendan T. Sniffin<br />

regarding the burial service of SP4<br />

William G. Santo. Sniffin wrote:<br />

“I didn’t know William Santo, and I<br />

don’t know what circumstances in his life<br />

caused him to die at age 74 without family<br />

or friends around him. What I do know<br />

is that William served his country in the<br />

United States Army, attained the rank of<br />

SP4, and at one time was named soldier of<br />

the month in his unit. I was told he served<br />

in Korea.<br />

“I am told someone mentioned to<br />

<strong>Korean</strong> <strong>War</strong> veteran Ken Post that they<br />

had not seen William in a while; Ken did<br />

some research and found that William had<br />

been found dead and his body lay<br />

unclaimed in the Connecticut state<br />

morgue in Farmington.<br />

“Through the efforts of Ken and<br />

Danbury’s <strong>Veterans</strong> Advisor Pat Waldron,<br />

they managed to get the remains released<br />

with the help and generosity of Dan<br />

Jowdy of the Jowdy/Kane Funeral Home.<br />

William was laid to rest in the veterans<br />

section of Wooster Cemetery with a full<br />

It is our duty as veterans to make sure that<br />

we find and pay tribute to our deceased<br />

comrades who have completed their hour upon the stage<br />

in complete anonymity and then are heard no more.<br />

Members of Ch 11 pay respects to William G.<br />

Santo<br />

military service on Monday, December 3,<br />

2012. As I looked around at the sizeable<br />

gathering of veterans I was struck by the<br />

fact that none of us knew this man personally.<br />

But we do have a common bond. I<br />

hope we never forget it!”<br />

Now, admittedly, my aforementioned<br />

essay was about a cat. But, Orenski and<br />

Sniffin were talking about a human being.<br />

Yet, it was as if Santo had never existed.<br />

There is no record of his death in newspapers<br />

or on internet sites like legacy.com.<br />

He qualifies for Shakespeare’s terse<br />

description of life in Macbeth, at least the<br />

“walking shadow” part: “Out, out brief<br />

candle. Life is but a poor player, a walking<br />

shadow, that struts and frets its hour upon<br />

the stage and then is heard no more.”<br />

Certainly, Santo strutted and fretted his<br />

hour upon the stage, and then was heard<br />

no more—almost.<br />

What would have happened if Ken Post<br />

had not followed up on the report of<br />

Santo’s death? How long would William<br />

Santo have lain in the morgue until he was<br />

buried inconspicuously in some remote<br />

corner of a nondescript cemetery somewhere<br />

in Connecticut with no one in attendance?<br />

How many other veterans lie in<br />

morgues across the country awaiting discovery,<br />

burial—and recognition?<br />

There are others. Not too long ago I<br />

received a call from a coroner’s office in<br />

California. The caller told me they had an<br />

unclaimed body in their morgue that had<br />

been there for some time. They had a<br />

name and a piece of paper identifying him<br />

as a veteran, but that was all they had. I<br />

directed her to the National Personnel<br />

Records Center in St. Louis for help, and<br />

told her to get back to me if she did not get<br />

the information she needed. She did not,<br />

so I assume she got some help there.<br />

It is our duty as veterans to make sure<br />

that we find and pay tribute to our<br />

deceased comrades who have completed<br />

their hour upon the stage in complete<br />

anonymity and then are heard no more. I<br />

am not suggesting that we visit morgues<br />

across the country and ask administrators<br />

if they have any unidentified veterans in<br />

their facilities. I am suggesting that we<br />

follow the leads of concerned people like<br />

Ken Post, Brendan Sniffin, Peter Orenski,<br />

Pat Waldron, and Dan Jowdy to make sure<br />

that the William Santos of the world<br />

receive in death the recognition for their<br />

military contributions that they did not<br />

receive in life. They earned it. Those of us<br />

who are left behind can provide it.<br />

We may not have to do that for cats, but<br />

we can certainly do it for veterans.<br />

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<strong>Jan</strong>uary - <strong>Feb</strong>ruary <strong>2013</strong><br />

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