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RANCHES<br />

september <strong>2009</strong><br />

This Fall at High-Life<br />

CHANGING YET THE SAME<br />

Ordination, Hardly Ordinary<br />

KEN STUART’S ORDINATION SERVICE SEPTEMBER 6TH<br />

P R E S B Y T E R I A N<br />

C H U R C H


P R E S B Y T E R I A N<br />

C H U R C H<br />

pastor’s note<br />

KEN LEGGETT Interim Pastor<br />

BOB BRADSHAW Executive Director<br />

MELISSA PATTERSON Executive Assistant<br />

KEN STUART Associate Pastor, Children’s and Family Ministry<br />

NANCY McCREIGHT Assistant Director, Children’s Ministry<br />

DEE PETCHER Director, Nursery<br />

PAM MAYES Administrative Assistant to Children’s Ministry<br />

JAKE PATTON Associate Pastor, Youth Ministry<br />

KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant to Youth Ministry<br />

KAYLA KIMMONS Sr. High Female Director<br />

WINNIE WINFORD Jr. High Female Director<br />

JEREMY MCNEILL, Sr. High Youth Intern<br />

AARON SHAFFER, Jr. High Youth Intern<br />

BILL NASH Associate Pastor, Small Groups<br />

WILL SPINK Associate Pastor, Pastrol Care and Assimilation<br />

KAREN PARKS Director, Women’s Ministry<br />

BOB BOERNER Young Business Leaders (YBL)<br />

JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />

MARK STEARNS Mercy Ministry<br />

ALEX SHIPMAN The Village Church<br />

DALE BOWEN Lincoln Village Preservation Corporation<br />

JONATHAN BARNETTE Director, Communications<br />

PHILLIP BARRETT Graphic Designer<br />

LEN FORSYTHE Director, Facilities and Grounds<br />

DAVE WOOD Facilities<br />

SHARON DUTCHER Office Administrator<br />

CAROLINE HESS Receptionist<br />

<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

Editor-in-Chief Jonathan Barnette<br />

Designer Phillip Barrett<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

Nanette Respess<br />

Amy Gandy<br />

Jake Patton<br />

James Parker<br />

“Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!<br />

It is like the precious oil on the head, running down on the beard,<br />

on the beard of Aaron, running down on the collar of his robes!<br />

It is like the dew of Hermon, which falls on the mountains of Zion!<br />

For there the LORD has commanded the blessing, life forevermore.”<br />

–Psalm 133<br />

I love to see you engaged on Sundays! It delights my heart to no<br />

end when our people gather on Sunday for worship. Seeing you<br />

engage thoughtfully and affectionately with God and with other people in, around and through<br />

worship is the highlight of my week.<br />

From the parking lot to the pew, I enjoy seeing all the spiritual sacrifices being presented<br />

before God. I get to see you laying down your life to serve one another in love. It amazes me<br />

to see the growth that’s taken place in you from one week to the next. As you step into Sunday<br />

from your small groups where you’ve lived in authentic community, the growth is noteworthy<br />

and it affects our worship.<br />

Honestly, when you’re not there, Sundays are just not the same. The difference isn’t paralyzing,<br />

but it’s noticeable. When you’re not there, we can make it, but the room is a little less complete<br />

because of the way that only you help fill it.<br />

I’m not kidding. It’s like having all of our pastors on vacation at the same time, our Chief Musician<br />

missing or one of your Greeters not standing in the hall saying hello with a smiling face.<br />

YOU really make a difference and I delight in YOU! It’s the way your family drives into the<br />

parking lot in three separate cars. It’s the way you hold hands with your spouse walking up the<br />

sidewalk. Hey, don’t ever cut that out! It’s the way you talk to me in the hall, making me late to<br />

Sunday School. It’s the way you make coffee, teach my kids, or pass the “Friendship Register.”<br />

Or is it a “Pew Pad?” Regardless, when you’re not there to pass it to me I have to scoot down<br />

the pew and reach for it. I prefer you filling that space beside me. I love the way you sing. Did<br />

you know that sometimes I close my eyes and listen for your voice? I do.<br />

I delight in Sunday because together with all the saints I am engaged and experience the<br />

LORD’s blessing, life forevermore. See you on Sunday!<br />

Ken Leggett<br />

Interim Pastor<br />

PHOTOS<br />

Phillip Barrett<br />

Jeanette Leggett<br />

Jonathan Forsythe<br />

Wendy Mosier<br />

feedback!<br />

Please send your suggestions,<br />

comments, and annoucements to<br />

branches@southwood.org<br />

1000 Carl T. Jones Drive | Huntsville, Alabama 35802<br />

(256) 882-3085 | www.southwood.org


putting ourselves out there<br />

by James Parker<br />

People have said to me, at one time or another, that they aren’t sure if they<br />

could ever stand up in front of a room full of people and sing. Usually they<br />

say how nervous they would feel. It’s easy to picture in your mind all of the<br />

American Idol contestants who get an ear full from Simon Cowell. NOT a fun<br />

situation to find yourself in! But it’s just like any other skill or profession. The<br />

first time, or first couple of times that you put yourself out there, it is a little<br />

scary, but the more you do it, the easier it gets.<br />

It got me thinking about some things. In many contexts, I have a lot of confidence.<br />

It’s not difficult for me to stand up in front of 500+ people and sing<br />

because at this point, I’ve done it hundreds of times. But if I put myself in a<br />

different situation, my confidence would vanish. In the past, when I’ve found<br />

myself spending time with people who I knew were hurting, and longing<br />

for something they couldn’t quite understand, I was weak and scared and I<br />

didn’t speak the truth of Jesus. I’d open my mouth, but I would so often say<br />

what they wanted to hear, and not what they needed to hear. Namely, that<br />

their longing is common to all men, and the only way to scratch their eternal<br />

itch is to embrace Jesus as Savior, Lord, and Brother.<br />

So what am I so afraid of? It’s as if, in spite of what I know, my fear of rejection<br />

and awkward conversation is trying to drown me! It’s intimidating to<br />

face it, just as it would be intimidating to face Simon Cowell and Randy<br />

Jackson (not so much Paula) and open your mouth and show them who you<br />

really are. And nothing can ease the fear besides just moving through it.<br />

I think that all of us struggle with fear and doubt to some degree, and steps<br />

of faith are often not taken because the fear seems overwhelming, even<br />

crippling. We want to be certain that if we put ourselves out there, we won’t<br />

be rejected. The hard truth is that Jesus said his disciples will be hated because<br />

of him, and he has also commanded us to take his gospel message<br />

to the ends of the earth. So, we’re supposed to put ourselves out there and<br />

show the world our true colors, knowing that people will hate us? Sounds<br />

appealing, right! But the good news is that Jesus isn’t going to leave us<br />

hanging. The Gospel story is a comedy and not a tragedy. It ends with a<br />

wedding and a dance, instead of the death of the entire cast. So we can<br />

be encouraged that, even if Simon and Randy hate us, or our friends reject<br />

us, the true Judge of men has welcomed us into the gospel comedy, and<br />

given us hope to warm us and comfort us, so that our burden becomes<br />

light, and our yoke becomes easy. The very last thing Jesus told us before<br />

he left the earth was this, “And surely I am with you always, even to the<br />

very end of the age.” So lets practice putting ourselves out there for the<br />

sake of the kingdom. My guess is that the more we share the love of Jesus,<br />

the easier it gets!<br />

ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />

Child Information Cards<br />

<strong>2009</strong>/2010 Child Information Cards will be located on tables outside the<br />

library on Sunday the 6th and 13th. Parents with children in Nursery through<br />

6th Grade are asked to complete one card per child, even if you have completed<br />

cards in the past. Children’s Ministry uses the information to better<br />

care for children and effectively communicate with parents.<br />

High-LIfe Returns<br />

Senior High-Life returns Sunday, <strong>September</strong> 13th at 7pm. We will have<br />

great fellowship, worship, an intro to what High-Life is all about, and<br />

many surprises. You don’t want to miss it!<br />

YBL Lunch<br />

Young Business Leaders invites you to our Fall Luncheon with John<br />

Croyle on Thursday, <strong>September</strong> 24; 12 Noon at the Huntsville Marriott.<br />

John was a former University of Alabama National Championship<br />

defensive end for the legendary Coach Paul “Bear” Bryant. At 19 John<br />

had a dream of creating the best children’s home in America, and<br />

since then over 1,800 children have called Big Oak Ranch their home.<br />

We invite you and a guest to hear and meet John as he shares his life<br />

story, his faith, and the life lessons he has learned from parenting 1800<br />

children. RSVP for this event is on or before Monday, <strong>September</strong> 21st.<br />

Register by calling the YBL office at 882-6003 or email us at bob@<br />

yblhsv.org. The cost is $20 a ticket or a table of 8 for $160.<br />

september <strong>2009</strong>


this fall at<br />

HIGH-LIFE<br />

by: Jake Patton<br />

I was a 9 year old boy in the Panhandle of Texas playing with G.I Joe’s when<br />

saints of Southwood were drawing a line in the sand for the youth of Huntsville.<br />

The Lodge was a dream no one had envisioned yet, the program was<br />

simple and hospitable, and on the other side of the country, I was in the<br />

woods with my make shift M-16, putting it all on the line for God and Country!<br />

But on this side of the Mississippi, there were a few soldiers who found<br />

a spiritual ‘stick in their craw.’ There were some that, in their zeal and passion,<br />

made the students of Huntsville a major ministry focus of this church<br />

even before the construction of the Lodge or the hiring of a pastor. It’s<br />

the age old question, “Which came first, the Pastor or the Youth Ministry?”<br />

For Southwood, the ministry came first only then to be followed by<br />

a youth ministry staff.<br />

Fast forward a couple decades to where the few have become many. Just<br />

last week, 80 adults challenged the carpenters who built the Warner’s patio<br />

by filling the porch to hear the Youth Ministry’s state of the union and plan<br />

for the Fall. So much has happened in the last 15 years! And when one looks<br />

from 50,000 feet, you see how the timeless values we committed to ‘back<br />

in the day’ are still here. On another note, one is forced to admit that in<br />

order to keep those values in place, we have to work smarter. We need<br />

to make adjustments that will help us effectively and winsomely reach the<br />

students of Huntsville.<br />

Over the last year, your Staff and Session have wrestled with this<br />

question, “How can we be most responsible with our staff, leaders,<br />

and programs to serve those that God brings through the door<br />

of High-Life?” Allow me to highlight 2 issues/questions that might<br />

appear in this season of High-Life and will help us answer this question.<br />

Simply put, they are 2 fallacies that usually accompany large<br />

youth ministry programs.


Fallacy #1<br />

As High-Life engages more students & acquires more<br />

staff, volunteers are less necessary.<br />

As High-Life grows within a growing church, staff are hired to do the work of<br />

the ministry BUT, more than ever, their focus now shifts to help you do the<br />

work of the ministry (Eph 4:12). The High-Life volunteer base is at the size<br />

where we need to hire a seasoned staff in order to help facilitate these volunteers.<br />

Over the past Summer, Kayla and Winnie were promoted to act as<br />

Sr. and Jr. High Directors. One of the most important aspects of their new job<br />

description is this particular issue, leadership development. Not only are they<br />

spending time with students and administrating the ministry, they are hunting<br />

YOU down, bringing YOU with them to school lunches, and helping YOU<br />

show the students of Huntsville love and significance. There are too many<br />

students coming through our doors to be reached with 5 staff members. One<br />

of the hallmarks of High-Life ministry has always been a powerful presence of<br />

the saints (you) within these walls. It captures the heart of Paul when he thanks<br />

the church of Phillipi for their Partnership (Phil 1:2)! Consider this...even now,<br />

we are looking for more small group leaders and saints who will come along<br />

side of staff to reach our covenant students and their friends this year! We<br />

are anticipating a large number of students who would like to be placed in<br />

small groups with only a few group leaders to offer. The question of the day<br />

is how can we as a congregation come along side of a wealth of students<br />

that he has already placed in our midst. The answer? We wouldn’t dream of<br />

doing it without you.<br />

Fallacy #2<br />

As High-Life engages more students and acquires more<br />

staff, you must sacrifice intimacy and closeness among<br />

staff and students.<br />

We believe that the kingdom of God is strongly advanced through relationships!<br />

A youth group consisting primarily of large group venues is a difficult<br />

place to form and propagate relationships. Currently, High Life is ministering<br />

to several hundred students while having a mailing list of over 600 students!<br />

So, where can a student find the time or place to be vulnerable in such a large<br />

group? Where can a student find a venue to be transparent and honest with<br />

these kinds of numbers? Where can they find authentic relationships? The<br />

answer is small groups! But wait, there’s more....(in your best infomercial<br />

voice). High-Life has engaged in small group ministry for over 10 years. In<br />

addition to this major program, you will also find healthy opportunities to<br />

share much like you would in a small group. For example, In Greenhouse (our<br />

Sunday School program), you will not find rows of chairs or couches along<br />

the perimeter for students to hide. Instead, tables and chairs are peppered<br />

thought the Lodge’s family room to help foster small group discussion and<br />

interaction. Also, during High-Life on Sunday nights, we have added an element<br />

that will help students feel more comfortable sharing their heart, fears,<br />

and struggles. This year, students will be able to text in their questions at<br />

the end of High-Life for discussion and interaction. While Greenhouse and<br />

High-Life will never be a “small group,” we have planned to add small group<br />

elements to each of our large group programs in order to foster relationships<br />

across the board.<br />

We are looking forward to a strong year in the Youth Department. As we continue<br />

to grow and act responsibly with those that God brings in, we desire to<br />

maintain the highest level of partnership with the saints to provide a place for<br />

relationships both with God and each other to prosper. May it be so for the<br />

sake of His Kingdom.<br />

Most kids think they are even cooler than Bill or Winnie. Our church is strong because of their involvement in ministry. It also benefits the leaders to be at High-Life….it keeps them young. Ha ha.<br />

-Kellyn Mahesh<br />

Ken changing positions, etc.). They are needed now more than ever. They lead small groups and really get close with the kids.<br />

always there for the kids and can keep order especially now that the youth ministries are changing (Bill leaving,<br />

them. They lead games and are involved with the kids during the games. They cook food for all of us, they are<br />

Adult leaders are HUGE in the Jr. High ministry. Jr. High Life especially would be chaos without<br />

able to smile and be cheerful during it all.<br />

-Sam Wilson<br />

or any of the other of my friends to handle. They are constantly energetic, always working and<br />

respectable way. I’ve seen them handle situations that I know would be impossible for me<br />

High Life would be chaos without adult leaders. They help maintain order in a friendly,<br />

WHAT OUR CREW MEMBERS<br />

SAY ABOUT OUR ADULT LEADERS


the call of the crayon<br />

by: Amy Gandy<br />

In the past few weeks at Southwood, we have<br />

heard and seen a lot about “growing small.” As<br />

a large church, one of our challenges is to make<br />

sure that we as members are engaged in our<br />

church in a significant way and that as we grow<br />

small together as a body of believers, we take<br />

what we have learned and are learning out into<br />

the world and share Christ.<br />

Also in the past few weeks, we’ve seen that<br />

great “fall” occurrence, the return to school.<br />

New backpacks, lunchboxes, crayons, paper<br />

and glue have been purchased and we’ve<br />

waved our kids off to the classroom for another<br />

year of learning. To those who have ever been<br />

a teacher, they will tell you that when school<br />

starts, no matter what they are doing, the<br />

crayon calls them. Teachers and past teachers<br />

wax poetic about how when the children<br />

return to the classroom, they can smell the new<br />

box of crayons, they can hear the clicking of<br />

the new three-ring binders and they feel this<br />

overwhelming urge to stand at the chalkboard<br />

and teach!<br />

What do small groups and school starting back<br />

have in common? Nanette Respess!<br />

For three years, Nanette was a member of the<br />

church staff “small group”. While her official<br />

title may have been Administrator to the Senior<br />

Pastor, she did a lot of other things around<br />

the office too. As a member of the staff, she<br />

attended weekly staff meetings where books<br />

were read and discussed, where members<br />

shared their hearts and their goals for ministry,<br />

and where friendships, not just working relationships,<br />

were grown and developed. She<br />

was engaged with a body of believers who<br />

supported and uplifted her in her walk with<br />

the Lord. But, before Nanette worked at the<br />

church, she taught 3rd and 5th grade for 18<br />

years and every year she worked at the church<br />

she felt the “call of the crayon” when school<br />

started. This year, not only did the crayon call,<br />

but also God called Nanette back to the classroom.<br />

She is teaching 5th grade again and is<br />

the leader of her own classroom, or should we<br />

say small group?<br />

The definition of teach is, ‘to show or explain<br />

how to do something, to encourage, to give<br />

intellectual, moral and social instruction to<br />

someone.” As members of a small group we<br />

are both teachers and students. Sometimes<br />

we do the instructing and sometimes we take<br />

that instruction from others. Nanette is using<br />

the things she has learned from her body of believers<br />

and is taking it back out into the world<br />

to share with others. While she will be greatly<br />

missed at the church office, her “small group”<br />

will continue to pray for and encourage her as<br />

she goes back to the classroom and her classroom<br />

is rejoicing over their new teacher!<br />

meet our new youth interns<br />

Do you know the new people across the street? This fall we have two great new interns who will be<br />

working with the youth at the Lodge. Their names are Jeremy McNeill and Aaron Shaffer! As you see<br />

these two new additions to our Southwood family, introduce yourself and invite them to dinner! Youth<br />

interns love free food!<br />

Jeremy came to us this summer initially as a summer intern and ended up staying! Jeremy grew up<br />

in the “boonies” of Huntsville and then attended Birmingham Southern College. He says that the<br />

biggest influences on him as a youth were his father, the Beatles, “Boy Meets World” and his youth<br />

pastor! In five years he hopes to be getting ready to graduate to from Covenant Seminary. Jeremy<br />

jumped right in this summer on our “Mexico” mission trip and hasn’t looked back! If you need a youth<br />

intern or a closet-cleaner-outer, he’s your man!<br />

Jeremy McNeill and Aaron Shaffer<br />

Aaron is from Marietta, Georgia and is a graduate of Covenant College. Aaron says that one of the<br />

reasons he wants to work with youth is because even though his middle and high school years were<br />

difficult, there were always Christian adults who took time to get to know him and they made a huge<br />

impact. He credits his Father as an example of a growing believer and says he want to “be faithful in<br />

whatever God wants him to do.”


ordination, hardly ordinary<br />

Ken Stuart is almost as excited about his ordination as he is St. Patrick’s Day!<br />

<strong>September</strong> 6 will celebrate the culmination of long hours of study, tests, and<br />

oral examinations in preparation to be ordained into gospel ministry as a<br />

teaching elder in the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA), our denomination.<br />

His ordination service will be celebrated on Sunday, <strong>September</strong> 6 at the<br />

8:30a.m. worship service.<br />

Why pursue ordination now? “When I came to Southwood, I was ‘ordainable’<br />

having completed my seminary training. Part of my hire was for pursuing<br />

ordination in my role with Children/Families. The tyranny of the urgent<br />

initially won out quickly and the pursuit of ordination was put on the back<br />

burner. Self-evaluation of why God called us here, coupled with Jake and<br />

Will’s ordination last November, brought things back into focus. January<br />

<strong>2009</strong> marked the beginning of a very intentional plan to complete my ordination<br />

process by Providence Presbytery’s August 4 meeting. God has<br />

been so gracious and patient.”<br />

Ken found he enjoyed Church History as he studied. He states, “The history<br />

of Christ’s Church is full of godly men and women whose lives give us great<br />

examples to emulate. Our forefathers wrestle through many things of which<br />

we are the benefactors.” While reciting the Apostles’ Creed at a recent presbytery<br />

meeting, God impressed upon Ken an overwhelming sense of how<br />

dynamically huge God’s kingdom is and the vast scope of all the saints past,<br />

present and future who were and are a part of what God has done, is doing<br />

and will do to advance His kingdom. “Words will not adequately describe<br />

how I felt reflecting on my place in God’s big picture of advancing His kingdom,<br />

but here it goes. Reciting that ancient creed placed me in a cloud of<br />

witnesses that spans the ages and thus, makes me feel very small and insignificant<br />

and yet, very affirmed by the Father as part of a plan (His plan) that<br />

transcends time, governments or the rise and fall of nations,” Ken reflected.<br />

Ken’s desire is to act upon God’s will for his life. Ken, a giant leprechaun, is<br />

drawn towards all things Irish and most things Celtic in general. He wonders<br />

whether God would eventually place the Stuarts in Ireland as missionaries.<br />

What Ken is certain of—the present and the heart God has given him for<br />

ministry to children and their parents. Ken dreams of writing a children’s book<br />

and birthing/refining curriculum for children’s Sunday School classes.<br />

Many in the body have helped Ken reach this point. While Karan has kept<br />

things going at home, Ken’s time has been spent in his office studying days,<br />

nights and weekends. Mike Honeycutt mentored Ken through the process,<br />

encouraged him and lovingly, yet firmly, helped him keep his focus. Ken Leggett’s<br />

role as iPastor and friend were outward and silent encouragements.<br />

“Both he and Mike treated me much like they would one of the pastors<br />

even before this process began. Their leading affirmed and helped set my<br />

course.” Pam Mayes and Nancy McCreight took many things off Ken’s plate<br />

The Stuart Family<br />

which enabled Ken to give greater attention to study and preparation. Ken<br />

Newberry assumed much of the missions responsibilities. The Children’s<br />

Committee members, the session, and the other pastors were encouraging,<br />

helpful, and affirming.<br />

Being ordained as a teaching elder in Children/Family Ministry is beginning<br />

to take place more and more as churches see the importance of ministry to<br />

children as something far more than “Sunday child care” and ministry to families<br />

as the “God ordained unit” for the primary discipleship of their children.<br />

“Our ministry to children is not to supplant their parent’s role in discipleship<br />

but to come alongside of them.” Ken’s desire is to make Sundays uniquely<br />

endearing to children as they learn of Christ’s love for them, what it means to<br />

respond to that love and realize how they have been blessed to be a blessing.<br />

Ken is sure that he has just scratched the surface as he walks into a new<br />

phase of ministry.<br />

Ken’s ordination service is just around the corner. Family and friends, both<br />

biological and spiritual from out of town, will be celebrating Christ together.<br />

Joe Novenson, the Sr. Pastor at Lookout Mountain Presbyterian<br />

Church in Tennessee, is preaching. Ken served there prior to coming to<br />

Southwood. He is a dear brother in Christ and friend whom God used to<br />

help shape Ken personally and in ministry. Join the Stuarts as part of their<br />

family on <strong>September</strong> 6.<br />

september <strong>2009</strong>


General<br />

worship@southwood.org<br />

branches@southwood.org<br />

High-Life<br />

kim.delchamps@southwood.org<br />

Children<br />

pam.mayes@southwood.org<br />

Women<br />

karen.parks@southwood.org<br />

Singles<br />

singles@southwood.org<br />

<strong>September</strong><br />

Sun 06<br />

Wed 09<br />

Thu 10<br />

Sat 12<br />

Sun 13<br />

Wed 16<br />

Thu 17<br />

Sun 20<br />

Wed 23<br />

Thu 24<br />

Fri 25<br />

Sun 27<br />

Worship<br />

8:30a and 11:00a<br />

Jr. High-Life<br />

6:00p Lodge<br />

Morning and Evening Edition<br />

9:15a and 6:30p<br />

Helping Hands<br />

8:00a Southwood<br />

Worship-Communion<br />

8:30a and 11:00a<br />

First Senior High-Life<br />

7:00p Lodge<br />

Singles-Connections<br />

7:00p in room 2303 (Community Builders 1.0 room)<br />

Jr. High-Life<br />

6:00p Lodge<br />

Morning and Evening Edition<br />

9:15a and 6:30p<br />

Worship<br />

8:30a and 11:00a<br />

Senior High-Life<br />

7:00p Lodge<br />

Jr. High-Life<br />

6:00p Lodge<br />

Morning and Evening Edition<br />

9:15a and 6:30p<br />

YBL Lunch<br />

Noon at the Huntsville Marriott<br />

Jr. High-Life Fall Retreat<br />

25 -27th at Camp Skyline<br />

Worship<br />

8:30a and 11:00a

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