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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
Commemorative Edition:<br />
LODGE 10 TH ANNIVERSARY<br />
SOUTHWOOD'S<br />
VISION FOR<br />
STUDENTS<br />
what's the lodge<br />
got to do with it?<br />
a place. a people.<br />
a home.<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
contents<br />
ABOUT THIS ISSUE<br />
This is a special edition of <strong>BRANCHES</strong> celebrating the tenth anniversary of the<br />
Lodge. As we sat down to plan for this issue, the peculiarity of writing about<br />
a building quickly became apparent. This beautiful structure functions well,<br />
attracting and serving... people. If it weren’t for the students that were drawn to<br />
our youth ministry, High-Life, as well as the congregation that was bold enough to<br />
support it, the Lodge probably wouldn’t be worth celebrating.<br />
Whether you are new to Southwood or remember when shovels were put in the<br />
ground, we hope that we are able to paint a picture of why the building was built,<br />
who it has housed, how it has served, and what we hope for in the future. From<br />
all those who have enjoyed its accommodations to those that made it possible,<br />
thank you.<br />
If you haven’t had an opportunity to visit the Lodge, join us for lunch on <strong>September</strong><br />
7th. Then consider how you can connect with the ministry of High-Life. You’ll<br />
quickly see that its purpose is to foster relationships with God and others, and why<br />
so many people fondly think of the Lodge as home.<br />
<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
LODGE EDITION<br />
2 about this issue<br />
3 pastor’s note<br />
4 southwood's vision for students<br />
Where and how it all began<br />
6 perspectives<br />
Reflections on the Lodge's impact<br />
8 a place. a people. a home.<br />
Experiences of two former students<br />
10 many faces of the lodge<br />
Connected to church and community<br />
12 what's in your lodge?<br />
Its use and decor<br />
14 a decade of lodge staff<br />
A look at where they are now<br />
15 more than a building<br />
Anticipating the next decade<br />
Jonathan Barnette, Editor<br />
<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jonathan Barnette<br />
DESIGNER Phillip Lackey<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
Will Spink<br />
Chad Townsley<br />
James Parker<br />
Kim Delchamps<br />
Winnie Winford<br />
PHOTOS<br />
Jonathan Barnette<br />
Kim Delchamps<br />
Winnie Winford<br />
Southwood Staff and Members<br />
FEEDBACK!<br />
We want to hear from you! Please send<br />
your suggestions and comments to<br />
branches@southwood.org<br />
1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />
(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />
JEAN F. LARROUX, III Senior Pastor<br />
MELISSA PATTERSON Executive Assistant<br />
ADULT MINISTRIES<br />
SARAH NIEMITZ Director of Community Development/Assimilation<br />
JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />
WILL SPINK Associate Pastor/Shepherding<br />
STUDENT MINISTRIES<br />
KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />
NIÑA BANTA Director of Children<br />
NANCY McCREIGHT Assistant Director /Children/Nursery<br />
CHAD TOWNSLEY Associate Pastor/High-Life<br />
WINNIE WINFORD Assistant Director/High-Life<br />
MINISTRY SUPPORT<br />
TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />
JONATHAN BARNETTE Director of Communication<br />
PHILLIP LACKEY Graphic Designer<br />
JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />
LYNDA CLAYDON Facilities<br />
MIKE MARREN Facilities<br />
ELIZABETH BUTZ Receptionist<br />
UPCOMING<br />
EVENTS<br />
Lodge 10-Year Anniversary<br />
<strong>September</strong> 7<br />
Sr. High-Life Resumes<br />
<strong>September</strong> 7<br />
Christian Education Classes<br />
<strong>September</strong> 7<br />
Jr. High-Life Resumes<br />
<strong>September</strong> 10<br />
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PASTOR’S NOTE<br />
What's the Lodge got to do with it?<br />
When people from other churches hear that I work<br />
at Southwood, they often say to me, “Aren’t y’all<br />
the church that has that thing for youth?” I say,<br />
“You mean ‘the Lodge’?” And they reply, “Yeah,<br />
like that ski lodge thing!” I proudly respond, “Yep,<br />
that’s us!” At the end of all those conversations,<br />
people always marvel at the vision it took to build<br />
the Lodge and how much they wish their church<br />
would do something like it.<br />
Last week I got a text from a pastor who asked me<br />
to send him some pictures of our "youth room."<br />
He is talking to people at his church about their<br />
commitment to their students and how they need<br />
to be planning for the future. He knows what it<br />
would mean to have a "Lodge" at their church.<br />
As we celebrate the tenth anniversary of the<br />
Lodge, I think it is appropriate to ask the question,<br />
"What’s the Lodge got to do with it?" Why is<br />
having something like the Lodge a big deal for<br />
any church, but particularly for Southwood?<br />
First, the Lodge isn’t just a building, it is a<br />
symbol of commitment.<br />
Lots of churches have youth rooms. In many<br />
churches some older house in close proximity to<br />
the church property goes for sale, is purchased<br />
"for the youth" and a key is given to the youth guy<br />
so that the kids can have Wednesday night church<br />
there. Lots of big rooms in big churches have cool<br />
signs and are decorated in cool ways for the kids,<br />
but I am not aware of any church anywhere that<br />
has invested in a building as unique and "cool"<br />
as the Lodge. The Lodge is a really well-designed<br />
and aesthetically pleasing building but it is much<br />
more. It is a monument to a church’s commitment<br />
to students. Southwood is committed to and has<br />
always been a church that believed in reaching<br />
students with the transforming news of the<br />
Gospel. The Lodge’s existence tells the story of a<br />
church that was willing to literally put their money<br />
where their heart was—with students.<br />
Second, the Lodge is not a "church" on purpose.<br />
Our commitment to students is two-fold: we<br />
have covenant kids (those who have grown up at<br />
Southwood or attend church here) and community<br />
kids (those who are connected to the student<br />
ministry at Southwood through peer or leader<br />
relationships). The Lodge provides a place that<br />
does not scream RELIGION at the non-religious<br />
nor does it carry the stigma of being CHURCH for<br />
those children who are regulars in church. Even<br />
the coolest youth rooms in churches are still in<br />
churches. The Lodge is unique. It is onsite, but<br />
offsite. It is Southwood’s but it is also the students'.<br />
It is a place where spiritual formation takes place,<br />
but it is not formally spiritual. Those elements<br />
make it a unique and safe place to allow students<br />
the freedom to consider the claims of the Gospel<br />
in a neutral context.<br />
Third, the Lodge is a perpetual gift to each<br />
generation of students.<br />
The Lodge wasn’t built with one class of students in<br />
mind. In many ways student ministry is like church<br />
planting every 4-6 years. The entire congregation,<br />
community and core group changes. The<br />
perpetual inclusion of the Lodge in our budget<br />
and the student ministry focus reiterates and<br />
underlines our passion for the current generation<br />
of kids. The Lodge has "alumni." The Lodge has<br />
future Freshman classes. The Lodge has former<br />
staff members. The Lodge has former students who<br />
have served her as staff members. The Lodge has<br />
crew members who have graduated, come back<br />
to serve and then dance at their own weddings<br />
under her roof. That is more than a youth room, it<br />
is a place of identity and ministry incubation that<br />
cannot be overestimated.<br />
Finally, the Lodge is a symbol of His Kingdom<br />
far beyond this church.<br />
An RUF campus minister once told me, “You<br />
have the only youth building in the country that<br />
YoungLife is jealous of.” Jealousy is too strong,<br />
but appreciation is certainly true. However without<br />
sister ministries like YoungLife who have camps like<br />
Windy Gap and Wilderness, dreams like the Lodge<br />
would have likely remained dreams. God has used<br />
people who currently attend Southwood, who have<br />
previously attended Southwood and who have<br />
never attended Southwood to inspire, challenge<br />
and walk alongside our people for much longer<br />
than the last decade. One of our former Student<br />
Ministries Directors, Ken Leggett, used to regularly<br />
remind me that Southwood was "in the community,<br />
for the community." The Lodge has always been a<br />
picture of that commitment because the Lodge is<br />
the result of people living out "community" in the<br />
midst of His Kingdom.<br />
For more from Jean, check out<br />
his sermons at southwood.org<br />
jean.larroux@southwood.org<br />
@jflarrouxiii<br />
Jean F. Larroux, III<br />
Senior Pastor<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
lodge edition<br />
SOUTHWOOD'S<br />
FOR<br />
In 2000-2001 High-Life Ministries consisted of around 20-25 kids who met in different<br />
homes. The youth staff was smaller and less resourced. Beginning in 2001, through the<br />
leadership of the Session and the vision, enthusiasm and faithfulness of Southwood’s<br />
newest Youth Director, Ken Leggett, High-Life experienced a tremendous amount<br />
of growth. Within a very short span of time 20-25 students grew to 100-150 students<br />
& adult volunteers. High-Life quickly began to outgrow the homes it met in. The<br />
desire for a youth facility had been present with Southwood's leadership for<br />
sometime, but now the need for a large enough space was very acute. God was<br />
doing something unique. These kids and leaders all seemed to be speaking<br />
the same language. And there was a gospel-centered transparency among<br />
the students and adults that became attractive to their friends and peers. So<br />
pursuing the construction of the Lodge got pushed to the forefront. High-Life<br />
clearly needed a bigger place to live.<br />
In 2001 a vision for a youth facility was presented to the Southwood Session<br />
by Ken Leggett. A building committee was formed and the Session approved<br />
money for architectural drawings in 2002. In January of 2003, Session approval<br />
was given to build the current structure and groundbreaking occurred in August<br />
2003. By late summer of 2004, the Lodge was completed. It is an incredible<br />
building and the students love it for sure, but more than that, it represents so<br />
many things that make High-Life what it is.<br />
Southwood Presbyterian Church<br />
was formed<br />
Don Admire hired as Southwood's first<br />
youth director<br />
Southwood's main building erected<br />
Jamie Sanders hired as Southwood's<br />
youth director<br />
Youth ministry meetings began in<br />
members' homes<br />
Ken Leggett hired as Southwood's youth<br />
director and visionary for the Lodge<br />
The Southwood Session approved<br />
Lodge construction<br />
Groundbreaking on Lodge Construction<br />
Lodge Grand Opening Weekend<br />
1989<br />
1993<br />
1995<br />
1998<br />
2000<br />
2001<br />
Jan. 14<br />
2003<br />
Aug. 3<br />
2003<br />
Aug. 13-15,<br />
2004<br />
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As one considers the philosophy of building the Lodge, a very important caveat needs to be<br />
made. It is common to find evangelical churches that launch building campaigns so that more<br />
new people will then want to come. Sort of like the movie Field of Dreams, when James Earl<br />
Jones delivers the famous line, "If you build it, they will come." What happened in the lives<br />
of the students that led to the construction of the Lodge was exactly the opposite of this<br />
philosophy. Ken Leggett explains, "The Lodge was an outward manifestation of what God<br />
was doing in the lives of students and adults in Huntsville, through Southwood... We did<br />
not build a building [simply] to attract students."<br />
"The Lodge was an outward manifestation<br />
of what God was doing in<br />
the lives of students and adults in<br />
Huntsville, through Southwood."<br />
There are two particular emphases<br />
that High-Life represented in the<br />
construction of the Lodge. The first<br />
is a Ministry of Presence, or, simply<br />
put, relational connectivity. The<br />
painting just inside the front door of<br />
the Lodge was made by Brian Oaks to represent the parable of the mustard<br />
seed. The mustard seed is the smallest seed in the garden that grows into a<br />
large tree, providing shade and rest for the birds of the air and the beasts of<br />
the field. High-Life has always sought to be this. The tiny seed of faith that<br />
God plants in the lives of our students will grow out and become shade and<br />
rest to the students of this city. And the Lodge is a physical representation of<br />
High-Life's outward focused, relational philosophy. It has been an amazing<br />
thing to have kids from all different schools and neighborhoods pass through<br />
the youth ministry. High-Life is common, neutral ground for students, and the<br />
Lodge helps to make this more of a reality. The Ministry of the Word has also<br />
been kept as a priority in the Lodge. High-Life has always held to the centrality<br />
of Christ and sought to be faithful in preaching and teaching the Word to<br />
students. When ground was broken for the building, a Bible was buried in<br />
the ground directly underneath the stage/fireplace area of the family room in<br />
the Lodge. This is the place where the Word is taught. The symbolism of the<br />
building physically being "built on the Word" has served as a strong reminder<br />
that Christ is the center of all that we do. Without Him, the Lodge, High-Life,<br />
Southwood, and all associated programs wouldn't really matter at all.<br />
At Southwood the students are a priority, and that can be seen through the<br />
Lodge. For the congregation and our Session and staff to take such leaps of faith<br />
requires courage and hope in what God will do. Southwood is a place where<br />
our leaders will not be content to simply "go through the motions" but rather<br />
desperately seek to see lives changed from the inside out. The Lodge is a great<br />
place, and the story behind it is an encouraging reminder of how God uses all of us<br />
to orchestrate his plans. The part that we play is small but exciting. Praise God that He<br />
is among us, moving and working in the lives of our students.<br />
August, <strong>2014</strong> Resolution from the Southwood Session:<br />
The Southwood Session praises God for the many ways He has used the Lodge to see students impacted by the gospel over<br />
the past 10 years. We are thankful to serve Christ with a congregation so committed to the youth of Huntsville that they would<br />
invest in such a facility. We want particularly to express our deep gratitude to the many adults—both staff and volunteers—who<br />
have shown the love of Christ to students within those walls. We look forward with great anticipation to the young people of this<br />
church and this city who will be transformed by their experience of God’s grace in the Lodge in the years ahead.<br />
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In 1995 I began working at Southwood at the front desk doing a variety<br />
of administrative things, including youth administration. Through the years of 1995-2004, the youth<br />
ministry at Southwood began to grow and with that growth came more opportunities for me to assist<br />
the different youth directors that came on staff. My experience with the Lodge started at the very<br />
beginning stages when it was just a dream of a handful of people. I remember coming into work on<br />
Monday and Thursday mornings and seeing pictures taken from the night before at either a Sr. or Jr.<br />
High meeting. Sr. High met in homes of different families and Jr. High met upstairs filling up their<br />
classroom. Both locations were always packed, but this is a good problem to have! Because of continued<br />
growth in attendance, there was a definite need to create a space for the teenagers of Southwood<br />
and their friends. Much thought was put into how this space would look. Southwood went<br />
above and beyond in creating a welcoming building for our teenagers. During the last ten years, I<br />
have seen many students walk through the doors into a comfortable, non-threatening, home-awayfrom-home<br />
to hang out with their friends as well as youth staff and adults who care about them. They<br />
have been nourished through food, song, conversation and the word of God. The goal of building<br />
The Lodge was to reach and teach students of Huntsville. That original goal has been lived out in<br />
the hundreds of kids’ lives who have entered its doors. By God’s grace and blessing, the goal will<br />
continue to be pursued as lives of junior high and high school students will be nourished inside her<br />
doors for many years to come.<br />
I felt God calling me to volunteer in Youth Ministry in 1998, when the youth<br />
group at Southwood included only a handful of students. I was placed with a group of 8th grade girls,<br />
and I had no idea how God was about to change my life. At that time the youth group (which had no<br />
name) met in the Ascent room upstairs during Sunday School. The Sunday night gathering met in<br />
members’ homes. As we slowly outgrew these homes (including mine), God continued to bring more<br />
students into our ministry, which caused us to ask Him where we could possibly put them all! When<br />
we were consistently filling William and Leesa Stroud’s home with over 100 students, we knew God<br />
had something great in store. We all know how God provided for these needs through the Lodge.<br />
The building is still beyond anything I could have personally envisioned or hoped for. That’s how God<br />
does things. He calls believers together for a larger purpose, a Kingdom purpose. When I look at the<br />
Lodge, I see God’s vision for us as His people if we will just trust Him. As a member of the Building<br />
Committee for the Lodge, I was involved in the details of planning and construction. It was difficult<br />
and tiresome at times, but extremely rewarding. When we did the final walk-through, there was a<br />
small detail that I felt was very noticeably unfinished. It really bothered me, and I complained about<br />
it for months after the building was finished, hoping to get it fixed. I now look at that spot and think<br />
that is God reminding me that I too am broken and I can only look to Him for healing. This side of<br />
Heaven, none of us will ever be unbroken.<br />
The Lodge and I have what I would call... a complicated history. In the early<br />
days I was a part of the dreaming and marketing of the youth building and watched it transform<br />
from blueprint into the structure it is today. I marveled as shovel wielding elders, deacons, and families<br />
helped break the red ground. I remember Adam Hess and I weaving through the skeleton framing<br />
one evening while having good conversations. I recall devoting the efforts of project S.W.E.A.T.<br />
that summer to helping move the youth belongings into the building, crafting the signage, and adding<br />
the finishing touches to what would be our first year in the Lodge. And here’s where things got<br />
complicated... Paige and I left for seminary... the week it opened! Little did we know that years later<br />
we would be blessed to come back and enjoy the ministry that took place in such a special place.<br />
As a structure, the building is visually awesome and attractive, but what gratifies us most is what it<br />
houses. Greater than Ken, Bill, Kayla, Chad, Winnie and myself, more antiquated than the chiseled<br />
stone, and more valuable than the forest of trees that had to die to supply wood for the Lodge are<br />
the countless High-Life sermons on Christ, the innumerable Greenhouse lessons on history, culture,<br />
and the disciplines, and immeasurable life-long relationships formed through small groups. To have<br />
played a part, I count myself blessed. May the love of the Father, the work of Jesus Christ, and the<br />
saving power of the Holy Spirit always be the centerpiece of High-Life and the Lodge. May it always<br />
point to the One who is preparing a place for us in His Father’s house... the likes of which we cannot<br />
even fathom.
“I can’t believe you built this for our kids!” said the woman from the<br />
Jones Valley neighborhood, through her tears. This woman's daughters were involved in High-Life,<br />
but as a family they attended a different church. “I can’t believe you let a Methodist kid be on Crew”<br />
was another comment from a mom at our Senior Banquet as the kid's dad stood beside me with<br />
tears in his eyes. The Lodge to me is really almost a metaphor about how a church can affect a community,<br />
not with a building but with a vision and the ability and desire to execute that vision. The<br />
original vision for the building was the same; “build it and they will come” wasn’t really the idea. The<br />
vision, rather, was “build it so we have a place to care for ours and gather others in.” High-Life has<br />
always been about caring for the ones God has given us, but also recognizing there are children in<br />
our community who have yet to experience the love of Christ. Sally Lloyd Jones at a recent conference<br />
said, “Home is not a place to stay, but a place to go out from;” I wholeheartedly agree. The<br />
Lodge for many students, leaders, staff and pastors is that “home” to go out from, to experience<br />
and express grace.<br />
In the early, early years of Southwood, we had a clinical adolescent psychologist<br />
come for a short weekend on "parenting your adolescent." Ken Wilgus, said that if the local<br />
church doesn’t provide a place for adolescents to come and hang out, hear the Truth through song<br />
and teaching, and see Christ lived out in the lives of adults, we will continue to see the culture take over<br />
our adolescents’ hearts and minds. He stressed that after parents, the local church is the next safety<br />
net for teenagers. Then the culture will grab them. Our youth program grew through a variety of youth<br />
staff members, with Ken Leggett, Jake Patton, and energetic youth interns helping to build relationships<br />
with more high school students and their friends. Many were praying for a place to replace a<br />
kid-packed basement at the Strouds each Sunday night. Mike Honeycutt, the senior pastor, along with<br />
the session, Ken and Jake, began to cast the vision for funding a youth space and the dialogue was<br />
vigorous as many members wanted to pay off the main building debt, not add to it. I remember standing<br />
in the field where The Lodge now sits as the first shovels of dirt were turned and thinking that he<br />
had bigger plans for this beyond a building. Years before, we had stood across the road doing the very<br />
same thing for the main building trusting him to provide beyond our imaginations. And he did. I always<br />
smile when I am in The Lodge at how many different ways this space has ministered beyond the bounds<br />
of our youth—women’s bazaars, church dinners, concerts, Christmas programs, community meetings,<br />
missions housing for Lincoln Village workers, session dinners, and so much more. What began with a<br />
desire for our youth has been a bridge to our community. What a privilege.<br />
So much life happened in the Lodge during my high school years—<br />
I see myself sitting in the back of Traci Taylor’s parked Xterra crying after a breakup; curled up in<br />
the Coop reading God’s word and having “ah-ha” moments about the gospel; sitting on the back<br />
porch on Sunday nights, truly understanding the sweetness of the Church body. These snapshots,<br />
and millions more, are a picture-book Ebenezer of the Lord’s goodness to me. When considering<br />
the countless ways God’s sovereignty envelopes my life, in hindsight I’m overwhelmed by his neverceasing<br />
protection and provision. Today I find myself on a grand adventure in Philadelphia, married<br />
to a 2nd year Westminster seminarian, and looking ahead to a future in ministry for our family. Chase<br />
(my husband) and I often laugh and ask ourselves, "how did we end up here?!" By the grace of God,<br />
High-Life was the catalyst that changed the trajectory of my story. There are too many people, too<br />
many sermons, too many retreats and too many memories to name them one-by-one, but God’s<br />
faithfulness to weave them together so intricately and personally for my own salvation makes it feel<br />
like he built High-Life just for me. Of course, I know dozens of other people who share my story,<br />
which is only to say the Lord’s plans are brilliant beyond the scope of human plans or understanding.<br />
What would my life look like if Weston Smith hadn’t invited me to High-Life at the Stroud’s when I<br />
was 14? It’s a question worth considering, if only to point out the intricacies and faithfulness of our<br />
Divine Author. He used High-Life to “lead me to the waters, where I’m free,” and has been leading<br />
me to the waters ever since.
y Chad Townsley<br />
High-Life has seen hundreds of students come through the ministry. Each of these students has<br />
had a unique story and experience in the ministry as well as leaving a unique impression on<br />
the staff, volunteers and fellow students who spent time with them. From this wonderfully<br />
energetic, passionate and fun-loving group of alumni, I recently sat down with two former<br />
students of High-Life Ministries, Nadia Niakossary and Barnes Heyward. The following is<br />
a synopsis of their stories, experiences and impressions. We discussed what the Lodge<br />
represents in their lives and how they have been changed because of their time spent<br />
there.<br />
What made the Lodge so significant to you when you were a student?<br />
Nadia and Barnes, like many other High-Life students, have hundreds of fond<br />
memories from the Lodge including viking feast food fight nights, inspiring<br />
worship, and the starting and ending point for lots of great winter retreats. Nadia<br />
often thinks back on the importance of the invitation she received to attend High-<br />
Life for the first time from the Warner family. That invitation was the introduction to<br />
a very special community of people. People who, in her words were, “obviously<br />
close and always worked to make sure she felt welcomed.” For Barnes, the<br />
sentiment was similar as the Lodge represents family to him. “The Lodge was a<br />
physical representation of the community of Southwood. The Lodge was home<br />
base for me—it was where I had great meals and great laughs, but also where I<br />
had deep conversation and shared tears with others.”<br />
Nadia shared about her experience as a student-leader while in High-Life. This<br />
service/leadership opportunity, called Crew, allowed Nadia the chance to serve<br />
and develop relationships with younger students in the ministry. As an older High-<br />
Life student, she saw the significance of the Lodge being a place not only where<br />
she could learn more about the Bible and grow in her relationship with the Father,<br />
but where she could also help to be a part of that same process for others.<br />
Even while students in the ministry, Nadia and Barnes saw the value of community.<br />
They knew that the Lodge was a place designed with relationships in mind. They<br />
understood that the Lodge was a place to make amazing memories, but that it was<br />
also a place where their relationship with the Father and his people would be fostered.<br />
What biblical principle have you taken away from your time in the Lodge and what<br />
makes it significant to you?<br />
Nadia explained how the Lodge was a place where she learned, “the value of the deep<br />
truths of God the Father and of the Bible.” She also described how as a college student it<br />
is difficult to keep one’s faith. The Lodge reminds Nadia of all of God’s promises, especially<br />
as she faces difficult situations in college and in early adulthood. Being the place where she<br />
engaged more in worship than she had before in her life, Nadia sees the Lodge as the place<br />
where she learned how to sing to the Father. Worship is different for her now, because of all of the<br />
amazing experiences she had at High-Life events. “The Lodge is the place where I came to love and<br />
appreciate worship, and that is really important.”<br />
For Barnes, the Lodge was a place where he experienced, “what it looks like for the gospel to be<br />
lived out and poured out into the lives of others.” For him, the Lodge was the place where he<br />
Nadia Niakossary (Grissom High, ‘12) is a sophomore<br />
at Auburn University where she is studying Public Relations<br />
and Computer Science. She began attending<br />
Jr. High-Life as a seventh grader and was a High-Life<br />
student and leader throughout Jr. and Sr. High.
learned the importance of surrounding yourself with people who love Christ. Additionally, Barnes says that the<br />
Lodge taught him, “the importance of hospitality, giving oneself and the necessity of showing others truck<br />
loads of grace.” Barnes understands now that not only did he need grace from others while in high<br />
school, but that he still needs it greatly today.<br />
The Lodge has been a training ground for many of these types of lessons for our students.<br />
Nadia and Barnes confirm the important work of investing in students as they prepare<br />
themselves for the unique challenges of college and beyond. I am so encouraged by ways<br />
these former students value a community of believers, and that they desire to expose<br />
other students to the gospel. It has been the desire of the ministry of High-Life that<br />
students would learn things about their faith that would stay with them a lifetime. Nadia<br />
and Barnes embody this.<br />
What is your greatest hope for the next 10 years of the Lodge?<br />
As you might imagine, Nadia and Barnes both hope for more of the same for the<br />
Lodge in the next decade as in the previous one. Nadia’s desire is to see student’s lives<br />
impacted in the same way that her life was impacted. For her, the ministry setting of<br />
the Lodge was one where she found a home. It was a place where she found eternal<br />
truth and it was a place where she could think about people other than herself. Not<br />
having grown up in the church, the Lodge was the place where she met Jesus. Plain and<br />
simple, that is what she wants for other people too.<br />
Barnes’ hope is that the expanse of the ministry’s impact would grow further and further.<br />
He has a desire to see the gospel reach beyond school lines, popularity ranks, social/<br />
economic backgrounds, etc. to reach as many lost students as possible. Of striking<br />
importance was Barnes’ hope that ministry in the Lodge would be done with humility and<br />
self-awareness. It is Barnes’ hope, as well as my own, that High-Life would be a ministry<br />
where students learn more about self-sacrifice and submission to the Father and to others.<br />
The ministry of the Lodge should grow in its awareness of self, never lose sight of the<br />
mission of God as well as always see the need to reform.<br />
What would you say to the people who dreamed of, planned for and built the Lodge?<br />
With sweet laughter, Nadia and Barnes, both say, "thank you!" Both also expressed a<br />
sentiment that those who dreamed up the Lodge wouldn’t believe just how many people<br />
have come through the building. “You created a place that felt like home and it has helped<br />
the ministry grow in ways that many never imagined.... Your creativity and big dreams helped<br />
create a place that has been a home for so many students,” shared Barnes. These two students<br />
represent hundreds who would certainly offer their thanks to the people who invested so much<br />
to make the Lodge a reality. For Nadia and Barnes, they both view themselves as small pieces in<br />
the much larger picture of students that have now been changed because of the hard work of so<br />
many ten years ago.<br />
In conclusion, Barnes was also very encouraging in his belief that even if the Lodge wouldn’t<br />
have been here, great things would have still come out of this ministry. This point is one<br />
which cannot be overstated as we celebrate this special marker in Southwood’s history. As<br />
a congregation and ministry, we must remember that no grand scheme, major donor or<br />
architectural creation guarantees God’s blessing and continued provision for His church.<br />
What is sure to solicit God’s care and prosperity is the faithful preaching of His Word and<br />
an active heart for people. This is why and how this ministry has had such an amazing ten<br />
years in the Lodge. It is through these things only that we can expect growth ahead. I<br />
speak for these two students and for all the others when I say thank you most of all<br />
to God our Father who has guided, progressed and kindly preserved messy<br />
people like us as we minister in His name. I cannot wait to witness the<br />
stories of what God does for students in the next ten years.<br />
Barnes Heyward (Huntsville High, ’06) is a graduate<br />
of Ole Miss and lives in Huntsville. Barnes grew<br />
up at Southwood, moved away, then returned his<br />
junior year of high school. Barnes is now married<br />
to Cappy, also a former High-Life student.
SOUTHWOOD<br />
lodge edition<br />
If you walk out of the Southwood church building and head across the street<br />
to the Lodge, you’ll see the sign “Southwood Lodge” out front. Above the<br />
other main entry door to the Lodge, facing the Lodge parking lot, hangs<br />
a sign reading “High-Life Lodge.” This was no construction mistake but<br />
rather an intentional design to communicate something important<br />
about this unique building.<br />
OF THE LODGE<br />
While the intent in building the Lodge was certainly to create a<br />
place for students that was uniquely theirs, the desire has never<br />
been to isolate students from the broader church body. The<br />
door facing the main church building sends students to the<br />
church and welcomes adult volunteers over to the Lodge,<br />
where many of them have found a home as well<br />
So, who lives at the Lodge? Intentionally and undeniably,<br />
it has been the students of Southwood and Huntsville who<br />
have most regularly called the Lodge home. Junior high and<br />
high school students have enjoyed large-group worship and<br />
teaching, small-group fellowship, parties, leadership training,<br />
Sunday School classes, Senior Banquets, photo ops, hang-out<br />
time, and much more. They have built relationships, met Jesus,<br />
played games, and made life-long memories.<br />
But the Lodge has been loved by many beyond the<br />
students who call it home. The Lodge has hosted the<br />
young and the old, the church and the community,<br />
over the last 10 years. The relaxed atmosphere<br />
has made a home for the youngest Southwood<br />
members to watch animated movies<br />
and the oldest Southwood members to<br />
share lunch and prayer. Session meetings,<br />
conferences, churchwide lunches,<br />
small group leader training, and silent auctions<br />
to support missions have all taken place within the walls.<br />
More recently the Lodge has lent its name to a beloved<br />
Christmas program, Fa-La-Lodge, a wonderful night to<br />
celebrate Christmas with friends of all ages.<br />
The Lodge has also been in high demand from many<br />
groups outside Southwood and has become a great open<br />
door to the community. Sports teams have held end-ofyear<br />
banquets, ministry partners have hosted fundraisers,<br />
college students have stayed during spring break while serving<br />
locally, and many groups have even spent the night.<br />
Perhaps a quick overview of the wide range of people in<br />
the Lodge over the last ten years helps make sense of the<br />
dual names for the building. The “Southwood Lodge”<br />
would never have reflected the heart of Southwood without<br />
all the High-Life students who have called it home. The “High-Life<br />
Lodge” would never have reflected the heart of our student ministry without also<br />
being intimately connected to the church and community where God has placed<br />
it. Many people have already found a home at the Lodge in its first ten years, and<br />
both doors remain open for many more.<br />
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special edition<br />
SOUTHWOOD<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
WHAT'S IN<br />
YOUR<br />
Wouldn't be home<br />
without great food!<br />
Meetings, classes and<br />
receptions held here.<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
Small Groups meet here<br />
throughout the week.<br />
From basketball to<br />
Jr. High Sunday School,<br />
it's multi-purpose.<br />
The main event, the<br />
Word, worship, and<br />
excessive silliness!<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
lodge edition<br />
Chad Townsley (2010-Present)<br />
Chad is currently an Associate Pastor<br />
and Director of Youth Ministry at Southwood<br />
and lives in Huntsville with his wife<br />
Annaliese and children Lyla and Teller.<br />
Winnie Winford (2007-Present)<br />
Winnie is currently living in Huntsville<br />
where she works as the Assistant Director<br />
of Youth Ministry at Southwood.<br />
Ken Leggett (2001-2012)<br />
Ken is the Pastor of Missional Living at<br />
Christ Presbyterian in Franklin, Tennessee<br />
where he lives with his wife Jeanette<br />
and their three children Ayers,<br />
Addie Grace and Keller.<br />
Jake Patton (2000-2004, 2008-2012)<br />
Jake is now the Assistant Pastor at<br />
Downtown Presbyterian Church in<br />
Greenville, South Carolina where he<br />
lives with his wife Paige and their four<br />
children Lacy, Luke, Aubrey Claire and<br />
Brooke.<br />
Hayden Howell (2010-2012)<br />
After working in youth ministry in Memphis,<br />
Tennessee she now lives in Norfolk,<br />
Virginia as the Director of Youth<br />
Ministry and Director of Mercy and Justice<br />
Ministries.<br />
Emily Purnell Huensch (2004-2006)<br />
After working in youth ministry in Birmingham,<br />
Emily recently graduated<br />
Covenant Seminary in St. Louis where<br />
she lives with her husband and two children<br />
Sam and Rosemary.<br />
Adam Steverson (2006-2008)<br />
After graduating from Fuller Seminary<br />
in California, Adam now lives in Chicago<br />
with his wife Sarah where he is working<br />
in the field of insurance.<br />
Traci Taylor Jones (2002-2005)<br />
Traci now resides in Atlanta with her<br />
husband Judson where she is completing<br />
her education to become a physicians<br />
assistant.<br />
Jeremy McNeill (2009-2011)<br />
After graduating with his Master of Divinity<br />
from Covenant Seminary in St.<br />
Louis, he is now ministering full-time in<br />
New Jersey with his wife Mary.<br />
Aaron Shaffer (2009-2011)<br />
After completing his degree in counseling<br />
from Reformed Seminary in Orlando,<br />
Florida Aaron has moved back to<br />
Huntsville where he is establishing his<br />
counseling practice.<br />
Kayla Stanfield (2007-2012)<br />
Kayla now works as a marketing director<br />
for a local business in Huntsville.<br />
She and her husband Robert continue<br />
to serve High-Life as adult leaders.<br />
Bill Harritt (2005-2009)<br />
After graduating from Covenant Seminary<br />
in St Louis, Bill is now a youth pastor<br />
at Church of the Good Shepherd in Durham,<br />
North Carolina where he lives with<br />
his wife Janet and their daughter Janet.<br />
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y Chad Townsley<br />
Receiving the opportunity to do youth ministry in the Lodge has been and will be one of the greatest privileges and blessings of my<br />
ministry. When I consider (as you have read in this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong>) all the ways God has worked in and through this building, I am overwhelmed<br />
by His faithfulness and care of our students and families. It is my great hope that through all the incredible testimonies, endearing<br />
stories and witnesses to God’s orchestration of details which led to the construction of the Lodge, that we as a congregation would stand<br />
back and thank the Lord for all he has provided.<br />
However, as we celebrate ten years of ministry in the Lodge, to focus solely on a what God has done and not look forward to what he<br />
will do is both short-sighted and misses the original purpose of the Lodge. Through artwork, photos and even old nametags from High-Lifes<br />
gone by, memories are left by many of the people who have come through the building. The fingerprints that we anticipate now, however,<br />
are ones from those pictured above. For the Lodge to continue in its original purpose, we cannot look back without also looking forward.<br />
We look with great anticipation to see what other amazing things God might do in the Lodge through the covenant children currently in our<br />
midst. Rising up at Southwood is a large and energetic generation of students who desperately need the gospel. The Lodge must continue<br />
to be a place where students' lives can be changed.<br />
As a church and youth ministry we want the Lodge to continue to be a place where students feel welcome, connected and regularly fed<br />
by the living word of God. The only way this can be done is for you as a church to continue to pour into the ministry as you so faithfully have<br />
the past decade. Here are two ways in which you can primarily contribute to the work of God in the Lodge:<br />
1. Pray for the students of Southwood and Huntsville. Many of my friends and ministry partners marvel at the scope, scale and impression<br />
the Lodge has had in Huntsville. It is their assumption and my tendency that we can lean upon the Lodge to attract and present students<br />
to the church and to Jesus. To state the obvious, if we don’t continue to offer the gospel first and primarily in this building, than<br />
students won’t be attracted to and impacted by what can actually transform their lives. We must never, ever forget that we will create<br />
our own Lodge-shaped white washed tomb unless we all fervently pray for the ministry and prioritize the proclamation of the Jesus in<br />
and through it.<br />
2. Continue to support the work of Southwood in the Lodge. One of the indelible principles of youth ministry is that your impact is normally<br />
only as large as the health and scale of your volunteer base. The adult leaders who have ministered in the Lodge have made a lastly<br />
impact on hundreds of students. We need more and more adults to now step into these influential roles in the lives of students. Whether<br />
it is serving by cleaning the Lodge on a church workday, preparing food for High-Life or committing to be a small group leader for a<br />
bunch of rambunctious 9th graders, there are many opportunities - please consider how you might contribute.<br />
In conclusion, know that your generous giving to Southwood has and will continue to help support a work that exists, “across the street”<br />
and of which many of you see very little. It is my hope that this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong> as well as our 10th Anniversary Celebration will be an<br />
indicator of the steady and heaven-minded work that is being done at High-Life. Thank you, Southwood, for believing in youth ministry—now<br />
join me as we charge on toward ten more amazing years!
THANK YOU<br />
SOUTHWOOD FOR<br />
10 YEARS<br />
IN THE LODGE<br />
From all the students<br />
and adult leaders of High-Life!