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Judaism for Today<br />

In a Warm and Caring<br />

Environment<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Bulletin</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong> B’nai <strong>Israel</strong><br />

Elul 5767-Tishrei 5768 September 2007<br />

<strong>FROM</strong> <strong>THE</strong> <strong>RABBI</strong><br />

Dear Friends,<br />

As we begin the High Holidays, moving from<br />

Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur and then to Sukkot,<br />

let me share an image about teshuvah, the process<br />

<strong>of</strong> returning to our best selves, (that exemplifies<br />

these days).<br />

While taking Corey (our greyhound) for a ride a<br />

few months ago, I saw a fairly common scene: a<br />

young woman jogging with a small dog, a white<br />

terrier. She kept plugging along, headphones on.<br />

<strong>The</strong> terrier, however, had different ideas <strong>of</strong> what<br />

exactly this outing was supposed to be, and kept<br />

stopping to smell interesting things, only to be<br />

dragged forward by the woman. If she noticed<br />

anything about the dog, it really did not show in<br />

her face, as her arm kept pulling the dog. <strong>The</strong><br />

young woman had at least two good clear goals in<br />

mind: to keep fit and to walk the dog. But the way<br />

she was doing it prevented both goals from being<br />

attained in full – the dog was clearly not<br />

“walking”, unless you call being dragged by the<br />

leash over and over “walking”; and she could have<br />

had a much faster run if she didn’t have to drag<br />

the poor pooch behind her.<br />

And watching her in her struggle with her furry<br />

friend, it occurred to me that most <strong>of</strong> us live life<br />

this way.<br />

How so? Well, we usually have a set <strong>of</strong> goals in<br />

mind, and plug along without noticing anything<br />

along the way. Which, in itself, is a good quality<br />

to have: focus. Yet, when we focus too much, and<br />

singlemindedly attach ourselves to objectives,<br />

without stopping to take stock <strong>of</strong> how we are<br />

getting there, we risk getting lost. Lost in the<br />

journey, or, even worse, we lose the question<br />

“who am I” altogether. Sometimes we may lose<br />

the goal while taking shortcuts, and other times we<br />

may be blinded by getting there no matter what,<br />

and forget that how we walk the way is as<br />

important as the goal… <strong>The</strong> dog reminded me <strong>of</strong><br />

all the things that usually stand as “obstacles” to<br />

our goals: needs. Our physical needs, our<br />

emotional needs, our families, our values. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

stay our progress. And they should do that.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y should do that because life is not only about<br />

getting ahead. Granted, it is nice to get to the<br />

vision we have for ourselves. It is actually needed,<br />

if we are to have a healthy self-image. But we<br />

have other areas we have to take care <strong>of</strong>, too:<br />

family, health, relationships and our spiritual life.<br />

James Patterson wrote it nicely in his book<br />

Suzanne's Diary to Nicholas: “Imagine life as a<br />

game in which you are juggling some five balls in<br />

the air. You name them - Work - Family - Health -<br />

Friends - Spirit, and you're keeping all <strong>of</strong> these in<br />

the air. You will soon understand that work is a<br />

rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But<br />

the other four balls -- family, health, friends and<br />

spirit are made <strong>of</strong> glass. If you drop one <strong>of</strong> these,<br />

they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked,<br />

Recipient <strong>of</strong> the 2007 Solomon Schechter Silver Award for Synagogue Excellence 1


damaged or even shattered. <strong>The</strong>y will never be the<br />

same. You must understand that and strive for<br />

balance in your life.”<br />

In spiritual life, I would include the hard-todescribe<br />

area <strong>of</strong> values. So I would like to propose<br />

a few questions for all <strong>of</strong> us to ponder while we<br />

walk, or run, to our goals:<br />

≈ Are my goals mine, or did set goals<br />

that are really the expectations <strong>of</strong><br />

others?<br />

≈ Do I bludgeon every obstacle in<br />

front <strong>of</strong> me, or do I try first to learn<br />

what is this obstacle doing here?<br />

≈ Do I compromise who I am, what I<br />

stand for, in order to get to the next<br />

level in my goals?<br />

≈ Do I find myself able to<br />

compromise and maintain all the<br />

balls <strong>of</strong> my life in the air, or do I<br />

choose just some <strong>of</strong> them, and not<br />

play with the others?<br />

≈ Do I see one or more <strong>of</strong> these areas<br />

a “nuisance” that does not let me<br />

accomplish what I want in other<br />

areas?<br />

Jewish Groups Forming<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are only five questions. If we can spend two<br />

days on each <strong>of</strong> these questions during the ten<br />

days between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur we<br />

will indeed be participating in the process <strong>of</strong><br />

Teshuvah -- and on our way to return to our best<br />

selves!<br />

Warmly,<br />

R. Nelly Altenburger<br />

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<strong>FROM</strong> <strong>THE</strong> PRESIDENT<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

Like the biblical namesake, a lawyer named Noah<br />

Feldman was the center <strong>of</strong> a flood <strong>of</strong> controversy<br />

after he published an article called, “Orthodox<br />

Paradox” in the New York Times magazine last<br />

month. <strong>The</strong> cause <strong>of</strong> the deluge <strong>of</strong> commentary<br />

was his questioning <strong>of</strong> why the Modern Orthodox<br />

yeshiva he graduated from (and which he gives<br />

credit for shaping his Jewish and secular values)<br />

never includes mention nor photographs Feldman<br />

and his wife (because she is not Jewish) in<br />

reporting on alumni accomplishments. <strong>The</strong> wellwritten<br />

and philosophical piece garnered a full<br />

page <strong>of</strong> letters in the succeeding month’s<br />

magazine, as well as all sorts <strong>of</strong> buzz in Jewish<br />

journals and on the Internet.<br />

<strong>The</strong> article’s timing, with the High Holy Days<br />

only six weeks away was precipitous, for it raised<br />

issues <strong>of</strong> Jewish identity and continuity,<br />

expectations and standards, ethics and values and<br />

the constant zig and zag between tradition and<br />

modernity. None <strong>of</strong> those are exclusively the<br />

domain <strong>of</strong> Modern Orthodoxy, for the<br />

conservative movement (indeed any organized<br />

religious movement <strong>of</strong> whatever stripe) has<br />

paradoxes <strong>of</strong> its own.<br />

My goal in this article is not to unravel the web <strong>of</strong><br />

complexities that to some may strengthen religious<br />

identity and to others, may strangle it. For that you<br />

would need a much, much wiser synagogue<br />

president. Rather it is to find in the “commentary”<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Feldman article and its letter-writing<br />

“response” some simple message <strong>of</strong> clarity, a<br />

guide for someone like me, who is always<br />

perplexed.<br />

<strong>The</strong> message for me is whatever the image one has<br />

<strong>of</strong> him/her self as a Jew and however one’s<br />

Jewishness is characterized (or perhaps<br />

mischaracterized), one would feel comfortable and<br />

welcomed at congregation B’nai <strong>Israel</strong>. So<br />

whether one is Conservative, Orthodox, Modern<br />

Orthodox, Conservadox, Reform,<br />

Reconstructionist, Renewal, Humanist, Chassidic,<br />

atheist, agnostic, potential convert or non-Jew, etc.<br />

(Oy, the Roman Catholics have it easier.<br />

According to Pope Benedict, either you’re in the<br />

True Church or fuhgeddiboudit!), I hope all people<br />

are open to considering joining us at the High<br />

Holy Days and beyond and I hope we are open to<br />

welcoming them, whether they wish to join us for<br />

three days or 356.<br />

L’Shana Tova,<br />

Joel<br />

Stew Leonard’s<br />

Gift Card<br />

Fundraising Program<br />

Do your shopping at Stew Leonard’s<br />

because the synagogue receives 5%<br />

(sometimes 10%) when you shop using the gift<br />

card(s).<br />

Call Cheryl at the <strong>of</strong>fice (792-6161) for your<br />

gift card(s).<br />

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FYI <strong>FROM</strong> CBI!<br />

KOL NIDRE CHALLENGE GRANT<br />

For the third year in a row, B’nai <strong>Israel</strong> is the<br />

recipient <strong>of</strong> a Kol Nidre challenge grant, and for<br />

the third year in a row, the grant comes from a<br />

different (albeit anonymous) source.<br />

This year’s anonymous angel is <strong>of</strong>fering to match<br />

dollar for dollar any increase in giving from last<br />

year. That means that if you gave $500 last year<br />

and $750 this year, our benefactor will donate<br />

$250, since that is the amount <strong>of</strong> your increase.<br />

This ensures that every dollar you increase over<br />

your last year’s Kol Nidre donation is doubled<br />

through this matching grant.<br />

If you did not make a Kol Nidre donation last<br />

year, or if you are a new member <strong>of</strong> B’nai <strong>Israel</strong><br />

your new contribution will be matched by our<br />

donor, dollar for dollar.<br />

Our generous donor will cap his/her total<br />

matching grant at $7,200.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Kol Nidre Appeal is by far the single most<br />

effective fundraising program <strong>of</strong> our synagogue.<br />

<strong>The</strong> money raised goes to pay operational<br />

expenses; salaries, repairs, the everyday stuff that<br />

keeps the synagogue meeting the needs <strong>of</strong> our<br />

members. We have been blessed in recent years<br />

with major gifts such as this, but every member <strong>of</strong><br />

this congregation literally has a contribution to<br />

make whatever its amount. It is gratifying to know<br />

that whatever amount you increase your donation<br />

this Kol Nidre, it will be doubled!<br />

L’shana Tova,<br />

Joel<br />

CONGREGATION B’NAI ISRAEL WINS NATIONAL<br />

AWARD<br />

“Bringing Home the Magic” is the theme <strong>of</strong> the<br />

United Synagogue <strong>of</strong> Conservative Judaism’s<br />

2007 International Biennial Convention, and this<br />

year B’nai <strong>Israel</strong> will be bringing home some very<br />

special “magic” <strong>of</strong> its own.<br />

B’nai <strong>Israel</strong> has won the Solomon Schechter<br />

Silver Award for Synagogue Excellence in the<br />

Small congregations division. the award is given<br />

for “Creative strategies and proven results in any<br />

<strong>of</strong> the following areas (we seem to have covered<br />

most, if not all <strong>of</strong> them):<br />

Attracting and retaining pr<strong>of</strong>essional leadership<br />

Promoting membership growth<br />

Dealing with volunteer burnout<br />

Fundraising in a limited setting<br />

Running an effective small school/youth<br />

program.”<br />

During the award’s biennial period, we were<br />

fortunate to have hired Rabbi Nelly Altenburger as<br />

our spiritual leader, succeeded in continuing to<br />

attract 25-35 adults, plus children each week to<br />

our Shabbat morning services, created and<br />

recently celebrated our second annual Jewish<br />

SummerFest, developed innovative fundraising<br />

approaches that have enabled us to end the last<br />

fiscal year in the black, sponsored eight students at<br />

the Emunah Home, a residence for abused<br />

children in Afula, hosted a mentor-in-Residence<br />

Shabbat, and we are currently <strong>of</strong>fering free<br />

religious school tuition to any new family joining<br />

the synagogue this year.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Silver Award will be presented at the United<br />

Synagogue convention, to be held from November<br />

29-December 3, 2007 in Orlando. We are gratified<br />

and very proud to receive this national<br />

recognition. A wonderful birthday gift for a<br />

congregation that this year is 110 years young!<br />

YOUR $$$ AT WORK!<br />

Some repairs are noticeable and others remain<br />

behind the scenes, but you should be aware <strong>of</strong> how<br />

we are spending your dues and donations dollars.<br />

This past year both the heating and auxiliary air<br />

conditioning systems stopped functioning. We<br />

have replaced them both after receiving several<br />

bids. Thank you to Shalom Lampell, who did the<br />

research with Sol Berman and who had been onsite<br />

with the repairmen over the several days <strong>of</strong><br />

installation.<br />

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<strong>The</strong> primary air conditioning system has also had<br />

a facelift <strong>of</strong> sorts, again thanks to Shalom’s<br />

efforts. Acrylic deflectors have been installed<br />

under the two units. <strong>The</strong>y should do the trick in<br />

responding to complaints about the Arctic chill<br />

that blasts from overhead, especially in the central<br />

seating area <strong>of</strong> the shul. For a wile there, we<br />

resembled the climate <strong>of</strong> the Jewish District <strong>of</strong><br />

Sitka described in Michael Chabon’s new<br />

bestseller, “<strong>The</strong> Yiddish Policemen’s Union”.<br />

Shalom also initiated the repainting <strong>of</strong> Cheryl’s<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice. This was long overdue and Cheryl got to<br />

select the color: a neutral beige that complements<br />

her sparkling personality.<br />

Julie Leventon, who has done an excellent job <strong>of</strong><br />

coordinating repairs as House committee<br />

Chairperson, oversaw electrical work that has<br />

accomplished several goals. We now have Health<br />

Department required exhaust fans in the<br />

downstairs bathrooms and Julie came up with the<br />

idea <strong>of</strong> installing sensor lights in those bathrooms<br />

(where the lights had previously and <strong>of</strong>ten been<br />

left on all night) to save us money in the long run.<br />

We are considering expanding their use in other<br />

areas <strong>of</strong> the building.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are additional repairs that need to be done<br />

and likely some that we do not yet know <strong>of</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is water damage behind the upper exterior<br />

siding <strong>of</strong> the synagogue and we have seen some <strong>of</strong><br />

the results <strong>of</strong> that situation on the back wall <strong>of</strong> the<br />

sanctuary.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are numerous repairs and improvements that<br />

have been made in the last two years, and others<br />

keep popping up. After all, both the synagogue<br />

and the Rabbi’s house are not getting any younger.<br />

When things get done it is because we have the<br />

funds to do them (and the volunteers to do the<br />

legwork). <strong>The</strong>re is no mystery to this, as it reflects<br />

the general rules <strong>of</strong> success for all nonpr<strong>of</strong>its.<br />

Donations and volunteers drive success.<br />

Many thanks to the all <strong>of</strong> you who have made<br />

these repairs and improvements possible by your<br />

generous donations <strong>of</strong> time and money.<br />

SOUND AND LIGHT SHOW<br />

While the synagogue’s acoustical system does not<br />

date back to our founding in 1897, it may come<br />

close. Thanks to a generous anonymous donation<br />

from a member family and thanks to the efforts <strong>of</strong><br />

Justin Morgan, a teacher who is the auditorium<br />

manager for the Danbury Public Schools and who<br />

served as our unpaid consultant, the synagogue<br />

has entered the 21 st Century, acoustically.<br />

We now have a portable video projector that will<br />

enable us to host movie events (when’s the next<br />

Harry Potter film premiere? Maybe we can have it<br />

here). In addition, Rabbi Nelly is excited at the<br />

possibilities it can provide as a teaching tool in our<br />

religious school.<br />

We also have a new portable sound system with<br />

raised speakers, plus handheld and lapel wireless<br />

microphones. <strong>The</strong>se new additions will sharpen<br />

and broaden your synagogue experiences. Many<br />

thanks to our anonymous benefactor and to Justin<br />

Morgan for making this possible.<br />

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MITZVAH OF <strong>THE</strong> MONTH<br />

Let’s make that Lulav Shake!<br />

<strong>The</strong> mitzvah regarding the four species <strong>of</strong> Sukkot is<br />

found in the Torah. After discussing the week-long<br />

Sukkot festival, specific instructions for how to<br />

celebrate the holiday are given. Leviticus 23:40 reads:<br />

“On the first day you shall take the product <strong>of</strong> hadar<br />

trees, branches <strong>of</strong> palm trees, boughs <strong>of</strong> leafy trees,<br />

and willows <strong>of</strong> the brook, and you shall rejoice before<br />

Adonai your God seven days.”<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are the four species that form the group we call<br />

“lulav”. It is a mitzvah to shake the lulav on each <strong>of</strong> the<br />

first seven days <strong>of</strong> Sukkot.<br />

"Blessed are You, Ađønąi our God, Ruler <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Universe, who has sanctified us with His<br />

commandments and has commanded us concerning<br />

the waving <strong>of</strong> the lulav."<br />

On the first day <strong>of</strong> waving add:<br />

"Blessed are You, Ađønąi our God, Ruler <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Universe, who has granted us life, sustenance, and<br />

permitted us to reach this season."<br />

After the blessing, the etrog is inverted so that the<br />

pittam (or bottom) faces up. At this point you<br />

wave/shake the lulav (together with the other three) in<br />

following manner:<br />

1. Stand facing east.<br />

2. Hold the lulav out to the front and shake it three<br />

times. Each time the motion <strong>of</strong> shaking should be a<br />

drawing in to you - reach and draw in, reach out and<br />

draw in, reach out and draw in.<br />

1 - Etrog, Hadas/Myrtle, Arava/Willow, Lulav/Palm<br />

branch<br />

<strong>The</strong> four species are shaken in the<br />

synagogue as part <strong>of</strong> the morning<br />

service during the holiday <strong>of</strong><br />

Sukkot. <strong>The</strong>y are not waved on<br />

Shabbat because there is fear that<br />

one would carry these items, either<br />

to the synagogue or to an expert,<br />

with whom to learn how to wave it.<br />

Carrying would then violate<br />

Shabbat. It is good for each individual to have a lulav<br />

and etrog, but many synagogues leave some sets in the<br />

synagogue sukkah for the use <strong>of</strong> their members. If you<br />

cannot make to the synagogue every day <strong>of</strong> Sukkot, do<br />

shake it at home!<br />

<strong>The</strong> proper time for shaking the lulav is in the morning.<br />

Before the blessing, the etrog is held with its pittam<br />

(stemlike protrusion) pointed downward.<br />

<strong>The</strong> blessing is:<br />

3. Repeat the same motion three times to your right,<br />

behind over your shoulder, to your left, raising it up<br />

above you, lowering it down below you. It helps to<br />

imagine yourself inside a giant clock, and your motions<br />

go clockwise, and then up and down.<br />

All <strong>of</strong> these should be done slowly and deliberately –<br />

concentrating on the symbols and on the intention <strong>of</strong><br />

the mitzvah.<br />

A meditation that you may want to add before your<br />

lulav shake: As I lift up these symbols <strong>of</strong> life on<br />

Sukkot, commemorating our wanderings in the desert<br />

and the fall harvest, I reach out to You, and You are<br />

everywhere. You sustain life in each direction—<br />

across the seas, in the deserts, on mountain tops and<br />

ice caps, skyward to the clouds, deep down in the<br />

earth’s soil, and to the cosmos which frame them all.<br />

<strong>The</strong> symbols <strong>of</strong> the lulav. <strong>The</strong> Kabbalists say that the<br />

four species <strong>of</strong> the Lulav represent four different types<br />

<strong>of</strong> Jews:<br />

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1. <strong>The</strong> Etrog has a good taste and a good fragrance.<br />

It represents a person with both wisdom (Torah<br />

learning) and good deeds.<br />

2. <strong>The</strong> Hadas (myrtle) has a good fragrance, but is<br />

inedible. It represents a person who has good<br />

deeds, but lacks wisdom.<br />

3. <strong>The</strong> Lulav (date palm) is edible, but has no<br />

smell. This represents the person with wisdom, but<br />

without good deeds.<br />

4. <strong>The</strong> Aravah (willow) has neither taste nor smell.<br />

It represents a person with neither good deeds nor<br />

Torah learning.<br />

<strong>The</strong> four species must be taken together as a unit. So<br />

too, the Jewish people needs all types <strong>of</strong> Jews to<br />

survive. We need all <strong>of</strong> us.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sefer Bahir, a kabbalistic work almost 2,000 years<br />

old, describes the four species as four parts <strong>of</strong> a human<br />

being:<br />

1. <strong>The</strong> Etrog represents the heart, the seat <strong>of</strong> our<br />

emotions.<br />

2. <strong>The</strong> Hadas (myrtle) has leaves shaped like an<br />

eye.<br />

3. <strong>The</strong> Lulav (date palm) represents the spine, from<br />

where our actions emanate.<br />

4. <strong>The</strong> Aravah (willow) represents the lips, our<br />

speech.<br />

<strong>The</strong> four species must be taken together as a unit. So<br />

too, to achieve happiness, one must use all <strong>of</strong> one's<br />

faculties in unison. You cannot say one thing and feel<br />

another. We must unify our feelings, our actions, our<br />

speech and our outlook. With all <strong>of</strong> these working<br />

together, we are well on the path to self-esteem,<br />

tranquility and joy.<br />

ShariLynn Kochman, our Baal Tekiyah (sh<strong>of</strong>ar blower)<br />

extraordinaire will return to us again for the High<br />

Holidays.<br />

At this time, ShariLynn, and sons, Sidney and Isaac are<br />

living in Hamden while looking for an apartment in<br />

Danbury. <strong>The</strong>y would greatly appreciate anyone from the<br />

congregation willing to host them for meals, and/or<br />

lodging during Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. (Wed.,<br />

Sept 12th and Thursday, Sept. 13th for Rosh Hashanah<br />

and Friday, Sept 21 and Saturday Sept.22nd for Yom<br />

Kippur).<br />

SEPTEMBER EVENTS YOU WON’T<br />

WANT TO MISS<br />

Wednesday, September 5, Shehecheyanu!!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Hebrew School year is beginning!<br />

<strong>The</strong> year for the pre-bnai-mitzvah group will be<br />

centered in the book <strong>of</strong> Bereshit, Genesis, and the<br />

developing <strong>of</strong> menschlike qualities, called midot<br />

in Hebrew. This area will be primarily taught by<br />

our new religious school teacher Maressa<br />

Gershowitz.<br />

Hebrew, holidays and rituals will also be<br />

developed. This area will be taught by the rabbi<br />

with help from Sidney Kochman, and we hope to<br />

be able to teach several prayers. <strong>The</strong> goal in this<br />

area is not only to be able to read the siddur and<br />

master the melodies, but also to understand ideas<br />

and concepts behind it, making the siddur a relevant and<br />

personal text. And please notice the exciting and<br />

student-friendly new look <strong>of</strong> the downstairs<br />

classrooms.<br />

<strong>The</strong> year for the post-bnai-mitzvah will be<br />

centered in topics relevant to the middle and high<br />

school mindset, with an emphasis on the Jewish<br />

view <strong>of</strong> those questions. Self-image, sexuality,<br />

relationships, abortion, drugs, the Holocaust and<br />

the State <strong>of</strong> <strong>Israel</strong> will be part <strong>of</strong> the curriculum.<br />

As the holidays approach throughout the year, this<br />

group will have discussions that are appropriate to<br />

their level <strong>of</strong> maturity and mental sophistication.<br />

As most <strong>of</strong> you already know, due to lack <strong>of</strong><br />

Hebrew School teachers in the area we changed<br />

our schedule from Tuesdays and Sundays to<br />

Wednesdays and Sundays. <strong>The</strong> times remain the<br />

same.<br />

As religious school is now on Wednesdays, Rabbi<br />

Nelly’s day <strong>of</strong>f will be Tuesdays.<br />

Please contact the synagogue <strong>of</strong>fice if you could extend<br />

hospitality on any <strong>of</strong> these dates.<br />

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Saturday, September 8 at 8:00 P.M.<br />

Community Wide Selichot Service<br />

Community Wide Selichot Service under the stars<br />

at the United Jewish Center, 141 Deer Hill<br />

Avenue in Danbury.<br />

Refreshments and Movie: Inherit the Wind (1960),<br />

starring Frederick March and Spencer Tracy.<br />

Break-out discussion groups follow: “How Do We<br />

Read the Bible?” Bonfire and Selichot Service<br />

follows in the Feinson-Dick Garden Chapel.<br />

HOLIDAY SCHEDULE<br />

Rosh Hashanah 5768<br />

Wednesday, September 12, 2007<br />

Thursday, September 13, 2007<br />

Friday, September 14, 2007<br />

Mincha/Tashlich<br />

Yom Kippur 5768<br />

Friday, September 21, 2007<br />

Kol Nidre<br />

Saturday, September 22, 2007<br />

Mincha Neila<br />

7:00 P.M.<br />

8:45 A.M.<br />

8:45 A.M.<br />

5:00 P.M.<br />

6:30 P.M.<br />

9:00 A.M.<br />

5:00 P.M.<br />

Sponsored by <strong>The</strong> Jewish Federation and <strong>The</strong><br />

Council <strong>of</strong> Jewish Pr<strong>of</strong>essionals.<br />

Sunday, September 9 from 9:00-11:00 Pancake<br />

Breakfast - All Are Welcome<br />

Sunday, September 16 at 9:00 A.M. Putting Up the<br />

Synagogue Sukkah<br />

Calling all builders, calling all builders! Volunteers are<br />

needed to help put up the synagogue sukkah. Our<br />

master builder Henry Tritter will be here erecting the<br />

sukkah and all volunteers are greatly appreciated.<br />

Please call the <strong>of</strong>fice 792-6161 and let Cheryl know<br />

that you can help.<br />

September 22 at 7:35 P.M. Break the Fast<br />

This year our Yom Kippur Break Fast is being<br />

sponsored by the Ritual Committee. As always<br />

donations are more than welcome and checks should<br />

be made payable to B’nai <strong>Israel</strong>.<br />

For those who would like to help with preparations and<br />

especially clean up please call Cheryl in the <strong>of</strong>fice<br />

(792-6161) and let her know. We are also going to<br />

need some strong helpers for setting up tables<br />

downstairs.<br />

As in the past years, there will be some snacks and<br />

drinks for the kids in the nursery. It is appreciated if<br />

parents remind their children not to touch any food laid<br />

out in the downstairs central room.<br />

We will put out all the perishables about a half-hour<br />

before the end <strong>of</strong> services.<br />

Sukkot - September 27 & 28, 2007<br />

Services begin at 9:30 A.M.<br />

Shemini Atzeret/Yizkor - October 4, 2007 Services<br />

begin at 9:30<br />

Simchat Torah - October 4, 2007 at 7:15 P.M.<br />

Come sing and dance with the Torah.<br />

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2 ND SUMMERFEST DRAWS<br />

LARGE AND ENTHSIASTIC<br />

CROWD<br />

A myriad <strong>of</strong> people enjoy activities and mouth<br />

watering gourmet foods<br />

Leon Feingold, <strong>of</strong> the Natanya Tigers, <strong>Israel</strong>’s<br />

most valued player, signs autographs<br />

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Paula, Natalie and Evelyn cheerfully dispense<br />

delicacies to our hungry guests<br />

Paul and helper refresh the crowd with HeBrew<br />

and other beverages<br />

Anna works meticulously on a<br />

Jewish craft project<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Heller Family exhibits their musical talents<br />

“I get a kick out <strong>of</strong> you” <strong>Israel</strong> folk dancing<br />

A study in blue<br />

B’nai <strong>Israel</strong>’s famous “N’yets”<br />

Klezmer Band<br />

Photos courtesy <strong>of</strong> Shalom Lampell and Henry Tritter<br />

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GOOD TIMES WE SHARED<br />

Thanks to All!<br />

<strong>The</strong> second annual CBI Jewish SummerFest on<br />

Sunday, August 26 was a great success and<br />

showed <strong>B'nai</strong> <strong>Israel</strong> at its best. We should all be<br />

very proud <strong>of</strong> the efforts put forth by our amazing<br />

committee and congregants who welcomed<br />

several hundred guests.<br />

It was wonderful to take in the festive atmosphere<br />

and to see the enthusiasm on the faces <strong>of</strong> people <strong>of</strong><br />

all ages who were enjoying the food, the music,<br />

and the children's activities. I would like to take<br />

this opportunity to thank all the individuals who<br />

worked hard behind the scenes to make things<br />

happen, from schlepping tables to setting up and<br />

taking down tents, preparing and serving food to<br />

blowing up balloons and putting up decorations.<br />

I especially want to thank committee members<br />

Rabbi Nelly Altenburger, Mark Altenburger, Pam<br />

Lampell, Barbara Levitt, Joel Levitt, Julie<br />

Leventon, Mary Ohring and Paul Simon who<br />

worked hard and cooperatively as a team all<br />

summer planning and preparing the festival. I also<br />

want to take this opportunity to acknowledge the<br />

extraordinary support we received from Western<br />

Connecticut State University, who rented us a<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essional quality portable stage at minimal<br />

price and designed and printed the festival<br />

program and festival signs as well as providing<br />

microphones.<br />

UPscale DownTOWN<br />

Fast Signs<br />

Lisa Curman, DDS<br />

Western Connecticut State University<br />

John’s Pizza<br />

<strong>The</strong> Music Learning Center, Inc.<br />

Three Brothers Restaurant<br />

Infinity Printing<br />

Danbury Metal Finishing, Inc.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Gold Leaf Insurance Agency, Inc.<br />

Matz Lumber Company<br />

Pepperidge Farm<br />

We look forward to our third annual festival on<br />

Sunday, August 24, 2008 and hope that those <strong>of</strong><br />

you who couldn't attend will be able to help out<br />

and participate next year. Please pick up a Save<br />

the Date! magnet for your refrigerator when you<br />

next visit the synagogue.<br />

Peter Ohring<br />

Chair <strong>of</strong> the Festival Committee<br />

This year, for the first time, a number <strong>of</strong> local<br />

businesses sponsored the festival. We are very<br />

grateful for their willingness to support this event<br />

and the B’nai <strong>Israel</strong> community. You can find<br />

information about the sponsors in the festival<br />

program (extra copies are available at the<br />

synagogue) and we encourage you to give them<br />

your business!<br />

Body Talk<br />

Deep’s Trellis Restaurant<br />

<strong>The</strong> Carpet Fair, Inc.<br />

Edward L. Hutchings & Company<br />

Mountain Laurel Alpacas<br />

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SCHEDULE OF SHABBAT SERVICES<br />

Services begin at 9:30 a.m.<br />

Shabbat, 25 Elul, September 8, Nitzavim-<br />

Vayelekh: Choose life! How do we do that?<br />

Haftarah: Isaiah 61:10-63:9<br />

Shabbat, 3 Tishrei, September 15, Ha’azinu:<br />

Come and listen to one <strong>of</strong> the most beautiful<br />

poems in all Tanakh (Bible) Haftarah: Hosea 14:2-10;<br />

Joel 2:15-27; Micah 7:18-20<br />

Shabbat, 10 Tishrei, September 22, Yom<br />

Kippur/Yizkor<br />

Shabbat, 17 Tishrei, September 29, Sukkot<br />

Haftarah: Ezekiel 38:18-39:16 - Special Torah portion<br />

Shemot/Exodus 33:12-34:26<br />

Shabbat, 24 Tishrei, October 6, Bereshit: <strong>The</strong><br />

meaning <strong>of</strong> being created in the image <strong>of</strong> God.<br />

Haftarah: Isaiah 42:5-43:10<br />

Shabbat, 1 Cheshvan, October 13,<br />

Noah: G-d destroys the world by flood and<br />

renews humanity through Noah. Haftarah:<br />

Isaiah 66:1-24, 66:23<br />

YAHRZEITS<br />

9 Tishrei, September 21, 2007<br />

Louis Eskowitz (Marvin Eskowitz)<br />

10 Tishrei, September 22, 2007<br />

Edythe Nackman (Joyce Shenker)<br />

19 Tishrei, October 1, 2007<br />

Yafa Boms (Abe Boms)<br />

Yetta Bat Ya’acov (Martin Waltuch)<br />

20 Tishrei , October 2, 2007<br />

Ira Lawrence Glass (Carla Paulli)<br />

21 Tishrei, October 3, 2007<br />

Louis S. Rosenberg (Alice Cahn)<br />

23 Tishrei , October 5, 2007<br />

Engeltje Smeer (Dina Essinger)<br />

29 Tishrei , October 11, 2007<br />

Rose Mendlovitz (Pat Goldman)<br />

30 Tishrei, October 12, 2007<br />

Arthur Bardack (Lester Bardack)<br />

4 Cheshvan, October 16, 2007<br />

Morris Mark (Paula Cook)<br />

CANDLE LIGHTING<br />

Sept. 7, 2007:<br />

7:00 P.M.<br />

Sept. 12, 2007: Erev Rosh Hashanah 6:52 P.M.<br />

Sept. 13, 2007: Light candles after 7:49 P.M.<br />

Sept. 14, 2007:<br />

6:48 P.M.<br />

Sept. 21, 2007: Yom Kippur/Kol Nidre 6:36 P.M.<br />

Sept. 26, 2007: Erev Sukkot<br />

6:28 P.M.<br />

Sept. 27, 2007: Sukkot Light candles after 7:25 P.M.<br />

Sept. 28, 2007: Sukkot<br />

6:24 P.M.<br />

Oct. 3, 2007: Erev Shemini Atzeret 6:16 P.M.<br />

Oct. 5, 2007: Simchat Torah 6:12 P.M.<br />

Oct. 12, 2007:<br />

6:01 P.M.<br />

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THANKS! THANKS!<br />

For the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Margo C. Reiser thank you for the Shabbat<br />

service and allowing her to say kaddish<br />

Natalie Slavin, Evelyn and Michael Weinstein<br />

refuah shlema to Lois Stein<br />

Sol Lepson and Natalie Rapoport in memory <strong>of</strong><br />

Nada’s father Manny Ashkenas<br />

Elaine Rosenthal in honor <strong>of</strong> the Goldman’s 50 th<br />

wedding anniversary<br />

Sol Berman in memory <strong>of</strong> his wife, Helen<br />

Berman<br />

For the General Fund<br />

Cheryl and Doug Koeber in honor <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Goldman’s 50 th wedding anniversary<br />

Marcia Klebanow in honor <strong>of</strong> the Goldman’s<br />

50 th wedding anniversary<br />

Pearl and Amos Turk refuah shlema to Lois<br />

Stein<br />

Pam and Shalom Lampell<br />

- Mazel tov to Lorie and Alan Mael on the<br />

birth <strong>of</strong> their granddaughter Bayla<br />

- Refuah Shlema to Lois Stein and<br />

Charles Cahn<br />

Sol Lepson and Natalie Rapoport in honor <strong>of</strong><br />

the Goldman’s 50 th wedding anniversary<br />

Herta and Ernest Gottschalk in honor <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Goldman’s 50 th wedding anniversary<br />

Rochelle and Ed Hutchings refuah shlema to<br />

Charles Cahn<br />

Sol Berman<br />

-To give thanks for Charles Cahn’s<br />

successful surgery<br />

- Appreciation and kudos to organizers and<br />

workers <strong>of</strong> the Jewish Summer Festival<br />

Rena Frankle in honor <strong>of</strong> Lester Bardack’s 70 th<br />

birthday<br />

For the Hospitality Fund<br />

Roslyn and Alex Bank in memory <strong>of</strong> Bessie<br />

Bank and Donald Bank<br />

For the Kay and Harry Robinson Children’s<br />

Book Fund<br />

Dorothy Silvernagel in memory <strong>of</strong> Kay<br />

Robinson<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Bert Mitchell in honor <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Goldman’s 50 th wedding anniversary<br />

Barbara and Joel Levitt<br />

- Refuah Shlema to Charles Cahn and<br />

Lois Stein<br />

- Mazel tov to Lorie and Alan Mael on the<br />

birth <strong>of</strong> their granddaughter Bayla<br />

- In honor <strong>of</strong> Lester Bardack’s birthday<br />

Sol Lepson and Natalie Rapoport in honor <strong>of</strong><br />

Fran and Chris Kimaball’s wedding anniversary<br />

For <strong>The</strong>ir Generous Kiddush<br />

Doreen Waver<br />

Chris Kimball in honor <strong>of</strong> Fran’s Birthday<br />

<strong>The</strong> Markind Family<br />

Betty Feldman in memory <strong>of</strong> her husband Lester<br />

and sister Rhoda<br />

Rabbi Judy Frankle in honor <strong>of</strong> husband<br />

Lester’s birthday<br />

Marcia Klebanow and Pearl and Amos Turk<br />

<strong>The</strong> Tritters<br />

A special thanks to Susan and Henry Tritter<br />

for the beautiful flower arrangement<br />

for the High Holy Days<br />

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