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TERAPROOF:User:jaycarcioneDate:27/10/2010Time:16:45:46Edition:29/10/2010<strong>Feelgood</strong>XH2910Page:7<br />

Zone:XH<br />

XH - V1<br />

Stretching out<br />

Olivia Kelleher on dealing with the challenge of her son’s developmental disorder<br />

Learning curve<br />

7<br />

GETTING your child ready<br />

for his first day of junior<br />

infants is a milestone for<br />

any parent. Uniforms are examined,<br />

book lists are double-checked. The<br />

days of sleepless nights and nappies are<br />

behind you and there is an expectation<br />

that your little one will breeze through<br />

the school system.<br />

Complete with glasses and unruly<br />

hair my son Alex, now six, resembled a<br />

junior Harry Potter as he made his way<br />

in to his class in the first week of<br />

school in September 2008.<br />

The first few days centred around<br />

play and getting to know the other<br />

pupils. Then week two came and the<br />

children were assigned homework. The<br />

class quickly moved on from using<br />

crayons to pencils and inexplicably my<br />

son started to struggle with colouring<br />

in pictures or tracing a line.<br />

Alex couldn’t hold his pencil with<br />

ease. Homework<br />

became stressful. I<br />

scanned his homework<br />

sheet in the<br />

car every day after<br />

school to see if it<br />

involved penmanship.<br />

If it didn’t we<br />

rejoiced and a trip<br />

out of the house<br />

was on the agenda.<br />

If there was so<br />

much as a line involving<br />

penmanship<br />

we trudged home<br />

and the crying began.<br />

Mainly the<br />

crying involved me<br />

having a quiet<br />

weeping session<br />

when Alex went off<br />

to watch television<br />

after completing the<br />

horrors of homework.<br />

But on a few<br />

occasions, my<br />

bright and cheerful<br />

little man ended up<br />

in tears because he<br />

couldn’t write the<br />

letter B or colour within the lines.<br />

In early 2009 we approached his class<br />

teacher who agreed Alex needed to be<br />

assessed by a registered occupational<br />

therapist. He attended the Sunflower<br />

Clinic in Cork and following a comprehensive<br />

and sensitively carried out<br />

assessment, was diagnosed with developmental<br />

co-ordination disorder<br />

(DCD). Over the years, DCD and dyspraxia<br />

have been used to describe the<br />

same condition, which was previously<br />

termed “clumsy child syndrome”.<br />

DCD affects a child’s performance of<br />

everyday tasks. A difficulty in motor<br />

planning makes new movements and<br />

actions harder to do.<br />

Children with the condition are often<br />

highly intelligent. The challenge<br />

lies in overcoming difficulties relating<br />

to penmanship, concentration and organisation.<br />

My son is a capable child in many<br />

ways. It just takes him a little longer to<br />

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do activities which other children take<br />

for granted. Dressing himself for<br />

school, which was once a mind-boggling<br />

task, has now become easier, give<br />

or take the odd top button in a shirt.<br />

Using cutlery and cutting food is another<br />

uphill struggle and general organisation<br />

can be challenging.<br />

Alex is now in first class and with resource<br />

hours from his school and the<br />

benefits of occupational therapy his<br />

handwriting has improved immensely.<br />

His handwriting can be devoid of<br />

proper spacing at times but that doesn’t<br />

stop him from getting full marks in<br />

spelling in his weekly handwritten test.<br />

Alex has to work that little bit harder<br />

than other children to produce the<br />

same results on the page. A bundle of<br />

happiness, self-esteem could become<br />

more of an issue in his teenage years.<br />

Skills such as driving a car can be difficult<br />

for people with dyspraxia. However,<br />

it is possible<br />

with<br />

patience and<br />

perseverance.<br />

As a parent<br />

I am<br />

torn when it<br />

comes to<br />

sporting activities.<br />

It is<br />

vital that<br />

Alex stay<br />

physically<br />

active.<br />

However,<br />

no mother<br />

wants to see<br />

their child<br />

get upset<br />

when they<br />

are the last<br />

to be picked<br />

for teams.<br />

Alex’s occupational<br />

therapist,<br />

Juanita Galloway<br />

O’Regan,<br />

says it is important to get a child with<br />

my son’s condition involved in multiple<br />

activities to find out what he excels in.<br />

“We have had children come in with<br />

black belts. It can be done,” she says.<br />

Harry Conway, development officer<br />

at the Dyspraxia Association of Ireland,<br />

currently organises activities for children<br />

with the condition. A<br />

Dublin-based football camp has been<br />

particularly successful.<br />

Mr Conway says the camp is not<br />

about developing a sense of otherness<br />

but instead allows children to develop<br />

their skills surrounded by their peers.<br />

“It started off with five kids but we<br />

now have 32. It gives them confidence<br />

to go out and play with other children.<br />

It is heartbreaking when a child isn’t<br />

being picked for a team or is finding it<br />

hard to keep up. Kids with dyspraxia<br />

need a bit of accommodation. These<br />

kids can be so bright. They just need a<br />

little bit of extra help.”<br />

SYMPTOMS of DCD and dyspraxia<br />

include:<br />

■ Poor balance<br />

■ Poor fine and gross motor co-ordination<br />

■ Poor posture<br />

■ Difficulty with<br />

throwing and catching<br />

a ball<br />

■ Poor awareness<br />

of body position in<br />

space<br />

■ Poor sense of direction<br />

■ Difficulty in hopping,<br />

skipping or<br />

riding a bike<br />

■ Slow to learn to<br />

dress or feed themselves<br />

■ Difficulty with writing<br />

■ About 5 to 7% of the population is affected<br />

with DCD or dyspraxia and it affects<br />

males at least three to four times<br />

more than females.<br />

FRIDAY, OCTOBER 29, 2010<br />

BRIGHT SPARK: Occupational therapy has<br />

helped Alex, whose handwriting has<br />

improved; left, Alex at the Sunflower<br />

Clinic. Picture: Cillian Kelly

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