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Connections<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>, San Jose CA<br />

Av-<strong>El</strong>ul 5773 August 2013 V. 77 No. 10<br />

August Service<br />

Schedule:<br />

Fri., August 2<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

Sat., August 3<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

Fri., August 9<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

Sat., August 10<br />

9:00 AM Baby Shabbat<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

Fri., August 16<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

Sat., August 17<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

10:30 AM Bat Mitzvah of<br />

Brooke Moorhead<br />

Fri, August 23<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

Sat., August 24<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

10:30 AM Bar Mitzvah of<br />

Justin Blumstein<br />

Fri., August 30<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

7:30 PM Clergy Suite Remodel<br />

Ribbon Cutting Ceremony<br />

Sat., August 31<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

7:00 PM Selichot Study,<br />

Reception, and Service<br />

Candle Lighting Times:<br />

August 2: 7:57 PM<br />

August 9: 7:50 PM<br />

August 16: 7:41 PM<br />

August 23: 7:32 PM<br />

August 30: 7:22 PM<br />

In this Issue:<br />

Selichot ……………………………………………Page 2<br />

2013-14 Board of Trustees Announced…….Page 3<br />

Israel Trip 2014 ………………………………….Page 4<br />

Zip Code Havdalah……………………………...Page 5<br />

Prospective Member Ice Cream Social………Page 7<br />

High Holy Days ………………………………….Page 11<br />

1010 University Avenue, San Jose, CA 95126 www.templesanjose.org Office: 408‐292‐0939 Religious School: 292‐3223 Preschool: 293‐8660 Fax: 292‐7625


Meekantor’s Kol Tuv<br />

High Holy Days - Standing at the Foot of Mount Sinai<br />

Part I: Selichot (Forgiveness) and the 13 Attributes of God<br />

Imagine yourself standing at the foot of Mount Sinai. Around you – arid, yellowish brown dunes of sand and a<br />

few scattered dry desert bushes. Though subtle, a quiet murmur can be heard, the ambient sound is eerily<br />

quiet. You are summoned, by an inner voice stronger than your ability to comprehend or understand “why,” to<br />

stand with the other people of your “tribe,” at the foot of a mountain, and wait. You are not completely sure what you are doing<br />

here. You look at other people who are congregating here with you. Some are still waking up from their sleep. Children are playing<br />

quietly, while the adults are busy “doing.” All you know is that you need to be here, to experience something you are not sure<br />

how, or if it will impact your tomorrow.<br />

At Ma’a’mad Har Sinai, the Theophany at Mt. Sinai (the Revelation of God on Mount Sinai), the Israelites were summoned to<br />

stand by the foot of the mountain. Waiting for Moses to come down, they didn’t know exactly what was about to happen; they<br />

intuitively only sensed the power of an upcoming event. According to the Jewish tradition (Exodus 19:24), this earth-shattering<br />

encounter between the Israelites and God was the defining moment of our history as a People. We consider our Torah (The Five<br />

Books of Moses) as the story of the development of the evolving, yet enduring relationships between the People of Israel and God.<br />

Now let’s travel in time a few thousand years forward from that momentous event at Sinai. Of course, in the present, most of us<br />

don’t actually stand as a community at the foot of Mount Sinai to welcome Moses, receive Torah carved in tablets, or witness<br />

God’s miracles through clouds and burning bushes. But we do get an annual opportunity to spiritually bring ourselves to a place<br />

of a gathering, begin the process of Teshuvah, an opportunity to turn inward, and engage in an honest, private conversation with<br />

God. Yes, the setting is different: instead of an open space in the desert, we come together in a synagogue or another communal<br />

gathering space. The other members of our “tribe” are friends from the synagogue or acquaintances from the larger community.<br />

Moses left quite a long time ago; now clergy serve as Klei Kodesh, holy vessels to channel sacred work. The Tablets are nowhere<br />

to be found. They were replaced by a Torah scroll, made by people, covered in a white mantel, to signify the sacredness of the<br />

occasion. God’s voice can be heard as a Kol D’mama Daka, a soft, small, yet powerful voice of silence; an inner spiritual murmur,<br />

if we allow ourselves to hear it. Our ancestors stood by the mountain as a People, they heard the voice of God calling them. While<br />

the language may be different, we can still hear it as well. Some people join the congregation for the High Holy Days, because<br />

that’s what they’ve always done since childhood; it’s a tradition they feel they want or have to keep. Some are here to teach their<br />

children. Some feel that they have to come for “the wife, you know,” and others come for the yearly “tune up,” or the “recharging<br />

of spiritual batteries.” No reason is better or worse than another. The fact is, you are here --- even if you fall asleep during the<br />

Rabbi’s sermon or the Cantor’s new version of the Hashkiveinu prayer, you are still HERE. And while asleep, your subconscious<br />

is having a private conversation with God.<br />

In our daily lives, we are all familiar with the complexity of relationships; Ma’amad Har Sinai was the first recorded testimony to<br />

such an intensity, a spiritual reflection of a relationship Bein adam La’chavero (between one person to another), and Bein adam<br />

la’Makom (between a person to a place or source of holiness, a physical manifestation of Godliness).<br />

In the Hebrew month of <strong>El</strong>ul, also called the “Month of Selichot” (Forgiveness, in plural form), observant Jews around the world<br />

pray daily to ask for forgiveness from God. In most Reform congregations, we don’t pray daily, but we do have a specific day<br />

when we get into the mode of preparation for the sacred moments to come during the High Holy Days that culminate on Yom<br />

Kippur, called Selichot, which usually occurs on the last Saturday evening before Rosh Hashanah.<br />

One of the key phrases or intense moments for this spiritual preparation is called “God’s 13 Middot Ha-Rachamim,” God’s 13 Attributes<br />

of Mercy, or Divine Attributes. During the High Holy Days (as well as the Three Pilgrimage Festivals, Sukkot, Passover<br />

and Shavuot), we utter this threefold repetition during the Torah Service: Adonai, Adonai <strong>El</strong>, Rachum, v'Chanun… Adonai<br />

(translated as Lord), Adonai, God, Compassionate and Gracious, Slow to Anger, Abounding in Kindness and Faithfulness, Extending<br />

Kindness to the Thousandth Generation, Forgiving Iniquity, Transgression and Sin …(Exodus 34:6-7).<br />

In its biblical context, the revelation of the Thirteen Divine Attributes of God are the essence of God's self, the climactic revelation<br />

to Moses after God’s having forgiven the sin of the golden calf. Moses has asked to see God as a sign of Divine favor; God refuses<br />

this request (since no person can see God and live), but shows Moses a portion of the Divine Presence by passing by him, only<br />

allowing Moses to see what trails behind God.<br />

Jewish tradition understands that God gave Moses a liturgical formula that can be used in the future to invoke Divine Pardon<br />

and Forgiveness whenever Israel sins, just as happened in the story of the golden calf. Thus, these verses came to be used as a<br />

liturgical invocation of God's mercy during the self-examination season of the High Holy Days. This powerful phrase serves as a<br />

spiritual bridge between our ancestors and our people today, and will continue to serve future generations as well.<br />

I invite you to join your clergy, members of our Makhela (choir), cellist and pianist and readers from Ritual Committee, to stand<br />

with us in front of the open ark, as we embark on our communal as well as individual journeys inward, beginning with Selichot<br />

(Saturday 8/31), through the intense High Holy Days.<br />

Adonai, Adonai, <strong>El</strong> Rachum ve’Chanun, Erech Apayim ve’Rav Chesed ve’Emet….<br />

Please join us for our Selichot study session, reception, and service<br />

on Saturday, August 31 beginning at 7:00 PM.<br />

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Words from the Rabbi<br />

Words from our President<br />

It is with great excitement that I have<br />

the honor of welcoming to our Senior<br />

Staff and to our Congregational Family<br />

our new Director of Congregational<br />

Learning, Josh Mason-Barkin. After a thoughtful search<br />

process beautifully chaired by Kelly Snider we unanimously<br />

agreed that Josh should oversee our Religious School,<br />

Hebrew/Tefillah program, Teen Jewish Studies, Youth<br />

programs and Adult Education. Josh is an excellent educator<br />

trained by our Reform movement. With his varied<br />

experiences and education he will bring much to our<br />

congregational table!<br />

What is a Director of Congregational Learning? He is first and<br />

foremost an educator who will help us conceptualize a plan<br />

for our entire congregation. We are a people who believe in<br />

education. We profess to have programs from 0 to 100. Josh<br />

will help us broaden and fulfill our mission. He comes to us<br />

from <strong>Temple</strong> Isaiah in Los Angeles where he has been their<br />

Director of Congregational Learning for the past three years.<br />

Here are excerpts from Josh’s blog:<br />

Professionally, I’m a Jewish educator. I earned MAs in Jewish<br />

education and Jewish communal service from HUC-JIR and a<br />

BA in politics and religion from Ripon College. Formerly, I<br />

consulted with schools and trained teachers in my role as<br />

director of school services at Torah Aura Productions. I am<br />

the author of two books, God: Jewish Choices for Struggling<br />

With the Ultimate and Artzeinu: An Israel Encounter, and I<br />

have worked in numerous synagogues in California and as an<br />

instructor at HUC-JIR in Los Angeles.<br />

I serve on the board of the National Association of <strong>Temple</strong><br />

Educators and I am a member of the Jewish Educators<br />

Association and the Society of Professional Copy Editors (a<br />

job I held before entering the field of education).<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> welcomes '13-'14<br />

Board of Trustees<br />

The <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> members voted and<br />

inducted the 2013-2014 Board of Directors at our Annual<br />

Meeting held in May. Below is the list of the<br />

outstanding individuals who will be leading our community in<br />

the coming year; please join us in welcoming them. Feel free<br />

to contact any of these volunteers to help you with any<br />

questions or concerns you may have.<br />

Executive Committee<br />

Jeff Hoffman, President<br />

Andrew Weinberg, V.P. of Administration<br />

Edgardo Laber, V.P. of Leadership & Development<br />

Shirley Lee, V.P. of Membership<br />

Mark Cahn, V.P. of Education & Youth<br />

Dan Winter, Secretary<br />

Jim Heerwagen, Treasurer<br />

Mike Cahn, Immediate Past President<br />

Board Members<br />

Rich Albert<br />

Dana Brody-Brown<br />

Maggie Cant<br />

Jeslie Chermak, Brotherhood<br />

Enrique Guadiamos<br />

Isabel Haggerty, EESY<br />

Steve Krandel<br />

Judy Levy, Sisterhood<br />

Ron Mandel<br />

Alissa Meltzer<br />

Debbie Michels<br />

Melenie Pearson, Sisterhood<br />

<strong>El</strong>eanor Rusnak<br />

Deborah Zimmer<br />

I’m also into technology, especially the role and usage of<br />

technology in Jewish organizations. I have worked on a<br />

number of Jewish websites, including the mobile-optimized<br />

sites for the 2012 NATE conference, the 2011 NATE<br />

conference in Seattle and 2012 Kallah in San Antonio,<br />

musician Noam Katz’s site, and the <strong>Temple</strong> Isaiah Religious<br />

School Blog. I serve as webmaster and tech consultant<br />

to B’nai Mitzvah Revolution.<br />

I am married to Rabbi Sara Mason-Barkin, and I’m Charlie<br />

Mason-Barkin’s dad. In my free time, I enjoy photography,<br />

writing, playing with Charlie, and closely following my beloved<br />

Los Angeles Dodgers and Chicago Bears. My favorite Beatle is<br />

George.<br />

Please join me as we welcome Josh to our family.<br />

Josh Mason-Barkin<br />

Director of Congregational Learning<br />

408-292-3223<br />

josh@templesanjose.org<br />

Front Row (from left): Debbie Michels, Alissa Meltzer,<br />

<strong>El</strong>eanor Rusnak, Maggie Cant, Deborah Zimmer, Dana Brody-<br />

Brown, Shirley Lee<br />

Back Row (from left): Edgardo Laber, Ron Mandel, Mark<br />

Cahn, Mike Cahn, Andrew Weinberg, Steve Krandel, Jim<br />

Heerwagen, Jeff Hoffman<br />

Not Pictured: Rich Albert, Jeslie Chermak, Enrique<br />

Guadiamos, Isabel Haggerty, Judy Levy, Melenie Pearson,<br />

Dan Winter<br />

3


Kama’s Corner<br />

“People often avoid making decisions out of<br />

fear of making a mistake. Actually, the<br />

fail ure to make decisions is one of life’s<br />

biggest mistakes.” – Rabbi Noah Weinberg<br />

I read this quote recently and was tickled to find it came from<br />

the mouth of a famous Rabbi. I was tickled because I have<br />

been overwhelmed by the number of decisions I find myself<br />

making as <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>’s Executive Director. And I<br />

experience fear around many of them. Reading the second<br />

sentence of this quote brought me some comfort. It’s not that<br />

I shouldn’t have feelings of fear…It’s just that I need to make<br />

the decisions anyway. And THAT is what I’ve been doing!<br />

These decisions mean change… Change for me, change for<br />

the A-Team, change for you – our congregants. And change is<br />

good. But it is often uncomfortable or unsettling. In the end, I<br />

tend to find that change is inevitable and that we adapt<br />

quickly and (we hope) gracefully.<br />

Some changes I’d like to acknowledge & share:<br />

1) MaryAnn Orlowski, who served <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> for<br />

many years as its bookkeeper, has completed her<br />

temporary assignment with us on the Administrative<br />

Team. I am deeply grateful to MaryAnn for her willingness<br />

to return to <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> in this capacity and<br />

assist me in transitioning our back-end accounting<br />

function to a solution that is based in accounting best<br />

practices. Her efforts were heartfelt as is her love for our<br />

congregation.<br />

And moving forward as we embrace this change, please<br />

join me in welcoming our newest A-Team member,<br />

Andrew Scher, our part-time bookkeeper. Andrew is an<br />

accounting major at San Jose State and will be in the<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> office three days a week. He is a wonderful<br />

addition to our Team. If you have any questions<br />

regarding your account at the <strong>Temple</strong>, please feel free to<br />

email Andrew at Andrew@templesanjose.org.<br />

2) You may have noticed slight differences in your <strong>Temple</strong><br />

account statements. We are now fully functional in our<br />

new database – ShulSuite! We are generating monthly<br />

& quarterly account statements for all our congregants<br />

from this new tool. Your statements may not look<br />

exactly the same but we ask you to join us in celebrating<br />

these infrastructure updates with the understanding<br />

that this improvement ultimately brings new efficiencies<br />

and greater accuracy to <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>’s back office.<br />

3) And finally, I want to share a change which is personal<br />

to me. I share this about me because I am quite clear<br />

that when I experience great personal change, it is<br />

obvious to those with whom I work and serve at<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>. Such is the nature of a closely<br />

connected work environment. My son, Calvin - my<br />

first- born - graduated from high school in June and will<br />

be departing this month for the University of Southern<br />

California. As I’m sure many of you can imagine (or have<br />

already experienced with your own children), I am so<br />

proud of him. And I am also so sad to see him go. I want<br />

to thank each person at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> who has<br />

assisted me these past few months around this exciting<br />

and sometimes heartbreaking transition. A special<br />

thanks to the Sr. Staff and the Administrative Team who<br />

have opened their hearts to me and have “covered” for<br />

me when it was necessary. I am blessed with their<br />

friendship and understanding.<br />

Always feel free to email me if you have questions about<br />

changes or decisions we make on behalf of the <strong>Temple</strong>. I am<br />

happy to hear your concerns and help clarify any issues you<br />

may have. And “empty nesters” advice is now greatly<br />

appreciated!<br />

Thank you for your patience as I navigate these uncharted<br />

waters – both professionally and personally!<br />

-Kama Fletcher<br />

4<br />

Ritual Committee<br />

An Adult’s Bat Mitzvah Experience 1.5 years in the making<br />

-by Lori Rush<br />

I’ve been Jewish all my life, but never realized what it really<br />

felt like to be Jewish. I went to Hebrew school for four years<br />

and learned to read and recite a couple of the standard prayers<br />

like the the Sh’ma, Kiddush, and motzi. But we were social<br />

Jews, the High Holy Days Jews, and I remember how painful<br />

it was to sit through a conservative service in Brooklyn.<br />

Fast forward several decades later, after spending a couple of<br />

years at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>, I became very interested in really<br />

wanting to take my rite of passage as a Jew… thus the adult<br />

Bat Mitzvah.<br />

I was encouraged to B’nai Mitzvah, but I did not want to wait<br />

until 2014 or later. Generously, Rabbi and Cantor supported<br />

me as a Bat Mitzvah.<br />

I did a lot of learning on my own with weekly supplements<br />

attending Minyan – religiously (no pun) and Shabbat at least 2<br />

times a month. I would be at the gym from 6 AM–8 AM every<br />

Saturday, and then race to Minyan. On Sundays I would be<br />

at the gym from 8–10:00 AM then race to Cantor’s classes in<br />

the BFR. The services and Cantor’s classes taught me what<br />

the Bat Mitzvah ritual is about. Receiving and learning my<br />

parsha was soul-searching for me. I went to the depths of my<br />

life experiences, and intertwined it with what I thought the<br />

Torah was saying. The net result was my commitment to my<br />

Jewishness.<br />

Standing on the Bimah was momentous. The spiritual energy<br />

from Rabbi, Cantor and the Torahs, was radiant. The Sh’ma<br />

was profound!<br />

The following week after my Bat Mitzvah I was at Shabbat and<br />

Minyan; this was of my own free will, imagine that!<br />

I’ve asked several relatives and friends, who were B’nai<br />

Mitzvahed as young adults, what they remember about their<br />

B’nai Mitzvah. Most of them said they do not remember and<br />

this is very sad to me. To have forgotten how great this<br />

experience is is a shame. Maybe they were too young to<br />

realize what it really means.<br />

Becoming an Adult Bat Mitzvah was an amazing learning<br />

experience, and exceeded absolutely everything I thought it<br />

would be. It’s like falling in love, that beautiful warm secure<br />

feeling.<br />

ISRAEL TRIP 2014<br />

If you have ever wanted to travel to Israel, now is<br />

the time. Rabbi Magat will be leading a trip to<br />

Israel from June 17- July 2, 2014. Join us for an<br />

informational orientation on August 21 at 6:00<br />

PM. Please RSVP to admin@templesanjose.org.<br />

Food will be provided.


Preschool Moments<br />

Babies & Bagels<br />

Our summer was a wonderful success. The children enjoyed<br />

a Splatter Paint Party, tea parties, outer space, a rain forest,<br />

and so many more adventures. It was a summer full of<br />

memories and the innocence of being a child.<br />

It is hard to imagine that we are at the beginning of our 13th<br />

year. It is our Bar Mitzvah year and we are certain it will be a<br />

year of growth and excitement. We are starting this year with<br />

a running start! Rosh Hashanah is early and already I hear<br />

the children and teachers singing their favorite Rosh<br />

Hashanah song, "Buzz Buzz Buzz." We will spend September<br />

learning about the High Holy Days and, of course, we are all<br />

looking forward to blowing the shofar with Rabbi<br />

Magat. Preschool is a special time of exploring, growing, and<br />

learning to bond with others. I am always excited to see my<br />

old friends come back and to meet so many new little people<br />

and families. I look forward to our year and the new memories<br />

we are going to create. We are already accepting applications<br />

for the summer and fall of 2014, so please contact me<br />

with any questions or to schedule a tour.<br />

This time of year I always think of a song that the<br />

preschoolers like to sing that represents not only Rosh<br />

Hashanah but also it is our hope for our preschool friends.<br />

"L'Shanah tovah tikatevu<br />

L' Shanah tovah tikatevu<br />

a good year<br />

a year of peace<br />

we wish to you".<br />

Warmly,<br />

Barbara Smead<br />

Save the Date<br />

New Program~<br />

Baby Shabbat<br />

August 10 at 9:00 AM in the Chapel<br />

A Shabbat experience designed for families with children<br />

ages 0-30 months. Little ones will enjoy a program full of<br />

Shabbat songs, Torah stories, and parachute play! We'll<br />

share the Kiddush and Motzi at a bagel oneg to follow. A<br />

wonderful opportunity to come together as a family and meet<br />

new friends! Siblings are welcome, and the program<br />

is open to the community. This program will continue on the<br />

second Saturday of each month.<br />

For more information contact Rebekah Sechrist<br />

at rdsechrist@gmail.com.<br />

Bagel oneg sponsored by <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> Sisterhood.<br />

Save the Date for Latkes and Laughs<br />

at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong><br />

on Saturday Nov 9th, 2013<br />

Join your <strong>Temple</strong> neighbors to start the new week<br />

at Zip Code Havdalah.<br />

The hosts will provide the home, the guests will<br />

provide an appetizer or dessert, and <strong>Temple</strong><br />

<strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> will provide the wine and ritual! RSVP<br />

by August 10th to havdalah@templesanjose.org.<br />

Your assigned location will be provided after we<br />

receive your RSVP.<br />

5


Religious School<br />

B’Nai Mitzvah<br />

‘Whenever you learn something new, the whole world becomes<br />

that much richer.’<br />

by Josh Mason-Barkin, Director of Congregational Learning<br />

The first thing you might want to know about me is that my<br />

favorite book is The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster<br />

(1961). I like it because it’s clever, and I like it because it’s<br />

about growing up, and I like it because it’s very funny. But I<br />

mostly like it because it’s all about the spark of wonder and<br />

amazement that happens when learning is exciting, and<br />

when it touches you deep inside.<br />

Toward the end of the book, Milo — the story’s protagonist —<br />

completes his quest to rescue the Princesses of Sweet Rhyme<br />

and Pure Reason, a quest that is really about the adolescent<br />

boy’s need to understand how adult life works. Rhyme tells<br />

him, “It’s not just learning things that’s important. It’s<br />

learning what to do with what you learn and learning why<br />

you learn things at all that matters.”<br />

Once in awhile, I re-read a paper I wrote my first year of<br />

graduate school. In it, I explained that, “I want to be an<br />

educator who keeps Rhyme’s advice in mind by imparting on<br />

my students more then just facts and feelings, but a sense of<br />

deep meaning and understanding.”<br />

What I didn’t understand at the time was that Rhyme was<br />

missing a crucial ingredient, an ingredient I should have<br />

known was missing. As an undergraduate, I studied<br />

journalism, and the first things you learn as a journalist are<br />

the six questions you always have to answer: Who? What?<br />

Where? When? Why? and How? That sixth question — the<br />

one that begins with an H — is the zinger.<br />

How can an educator help students to engage deeply with<br />

Jewish tradition and with their Jewish community? How can<br />

we teach students to find their own personal meaning in the<br />

learning they do in religious school? How can we encourage<br />

entire families to learn together and to build vibrant Jewish<br />

homes? How can we help teachers to do their best work in<br />

creating exciting classrooms?<br />

For the last several years, I’ve been working on the How. In<br />

my roles as a developer of curriculum, as a consultant to<br />

religious schools around the country, as a school<br />

administrator, and as a synagogue educator, I’ve worked with<br />

other educators, principals, teachers, and students to help<br />

empower them to create and engage themselves in excellent<br />

Jewish educational experiences. Along the way, those<br />

educators, teachers, and students have taught me lots about<br />

how to create and implement excellent Jewish education. It’s<br />

been a fulfilling and eye-opening learning journey for me.<br />

As the Princess of Pure Reason puts it, “Whenever you learn<br />

something new, the whole world becomes that much richer.”<br />

I’d add that the richness continues to grow when you have<br />

the opportunity to put learning to really good use. That’s one<br />

reason I’m excited to have been appointed to this new<br />

position. Working in concert with our dynamic and expert<br />

staff, I’m looking forward to building on the foundation of<br />

educational excellence that already exists at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<br />

<strong>El</strong>. In addition to that excitement, I’m also extremely<br />

humbled, both by the talent and warmth of the leadership<br />

team at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> of which I now find myself a part.<br />

The second thing you might want to know about me is that I<br />

can’t wait to meet you. Thank you for inviting me into your<br />

community and for entrusting me with the sacred task of<br />

learning with you and your children. My door, my phone line,<br />

and my email inbox are always open for you, no matter the<br />

“Rhyme” or “Reason.”<br />

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Brooke Antonia Moorhead, daughter of Lori<br />

Riggio, will be called to the Torah as a Bat<br />

Mitzvah on August 17, 2013. Brooke is<br />

entering the 8th grade at Union Middle<br />

School this Fall, where she will be a Student<br />

Body Officer. She enjoys dance and is<br />

especially excited to be a member of the<br />

Performing Company at Dance Attack this<br />

year. Her sister, Lola Moorhead,<br />

grandparents, Marcia and Joe Riggio, and<br />

extended family are excited to celebrate this important<br />

milestone with her.<br />

Justin Blumstein, son of Kristi and Ron<br />

Blumstein, will be called to the Torah as a<br />

Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, August 24th.<br />

Justin will be entering the 8th grade at<br />

Dartmouth Middle School in San Jose,<br />

where he plays Bass Clarinet in the school<br />

symphonic Band. Justin also enjoys playing<br />

soccer, swimming, acting, and Boy Scouts.<br />

For his Bar Mitzvah project, Justin has<br />

collected new stuffed animals for the Pediatric<br />

Units at Good Samaritan Hospital, so that newly admitted<br />

children can be comforted during their stay. Justin had two<br />

extended stays at Good Samaritan during his childhood.<br />

Justin is excited to celebrate this occasion with his family,<br />

friends, and the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> community.<br />

eScrip<br />

Hot eScrip News<br />

Attention all eScrip supporters!<br />

Safeway’s 10% Back to School<br />

promotion is Aug. 14 - Sept. 10.<br />

Instead of a yellow school bus tag on<br />

hundreds of participating products,<br />

look for the new logo, a red apple with<br />

a green 10% banner atop a stack of<br />

books. Cruise up and down the aisles.<br />

If you have children take them along;<br />

they will have fun hunting for food you usually buy. Use<br />

your registered Safeway Club Card and <strong>Temple</strong> will receive a<br />

very generous 10% of your purchases.<br />

Reminder! Safeway asks all eScrip groups to renew their<br />

Club Cards every August. As coordinator I will be doing the<br />

renewals for you.<br />

If you are not yet an eScrip supporter, now is the time to<br />

register your Safeway card and a credit/debit card so you<br />

can shop at merchants who do not have a club card. I use<br />

my registered Chase card when shopping at Lunardi’s. Visit<br />

www.escrip.com and follow the prompts. Our ID# is<br />

136985180.<br />

Have a super summer supporting <strong>Temple</strong>, along with our<br />

296 shoppers and eaters who last year earned almost $2,500<br />

for us. Call me if you have any questions or want help with<br />

registering.<br />

Lorie Kaplan, eScrip coordinator 408.267.4563


Brotherhood<br />

Hello! Welcome to my first Connections post as Brotherhood<br />

President. I hope you are having a great summer and are<br />

keeping cool despite the heat waves of the past months.<br />

Please consider joining Brotherhood and come to our August<br />

11th meeting as we finalize plans for the coming year. Our<br />

next event is the Pancake Breakfast we sponsor on the first<br />

day of Sunday School. Perhaps you'd like to help?<br />

Brotherhood is one of the means by which the members of<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> enrich and improve the lives of the entire<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> Family. While it's true that the summer represents a<br />

quiet time for us, with many people taking vacations and<br />

family trips, I'd like to remind you that August and the start<br />

of the school year comes all too soon. Please drop by our<br />

next meeting -- at the very least we'll give you a bagel breakfast<br />

(what else did you expect from me?) and some good company<br />

on a Sunday morning.<br />

Jeslie (the Bagel Man) Chermak<br />

President, <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> Brotherhood<br />

Rosh Chodesh<br />

Wednesday, August 7 at 7:00 PM<br />

Gordon Robinson passing the<br />

gavel to the new<br />

Brotherhood President,<br />

Jeslie Chermak.<br />

In a small friendly group we meet at the home of Lorie &<br />

Shari Kaplan. It's time to celebrate the festival of the New<br />

Moon, an ancient tradition, with ritual, music, meditation<br />

and prayer. This month we will celebrate and discuss <strong>El</strong>ul, a<br />

time to reflect, Tishrei, which occurs during the High Holy<br />

Days, and Sarah, our matriarch. Also, we reinforce our<br />

Jewish identity and deepen our spirituality. Let's honor what<br />

is special about ourselves and those around us.<br />

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<br />

Membership Memo:<br />

Membership<br />

As we approach the High Holy Days, many new families<br />

are experienceing <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> for the first time and<br />

finding it the place to make their Jewish home. Making a<br />

connection with these new members is an important way<br />

to help them feel like they belong and are part of<br />

our welcoming community of members. Here are several<br />

ways you can make a connection and help create a warm<br />

inviting synagogue.<br />

When attending Services, introduce yourself to someone<br />

new.<br />

Volunteer to share a Shabbat dinner with a new member.<br />

Offer to be part of our new mentor program.<br />

Help by serving dinner at a Tot Shabbat.<br />

Share a new idea that will give our diverse members a<br />

warm welcome.<br />

Building our <strong>Temple</strong> community and becoming partners<br />

in creating a warm place to belong, fills many mitzvot and<br />

confirms our Jewish heart. Join the Clergy, Staff, and<br />

Membership Committee in making a connection and<br />

creating a caring community of friends. Your thoughts<br />

are important to growing our Membership. Please feel free<br />

to contact me and to volunteer<br />

at membership@templesanjose.org or 408-320-2409.<br />

Pam Hoffman, Membership Chair<br />

Prospective Member Event<br />

Join us for an Ice Cream “Sunday”<br />

Sunday, August 18 from 3:00-5:00 PM<br />

Hosted by the<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong><br />

Membership Committee<br />

Future Rosh Chodesh dates: Sunday, Oct. 6, 1:30 PM Next<br />

year, 2014: Sunday, Feb. 2, 1:30 PM; Wednesday, April 2, 7<br />

PM; Thursday, June 26, 7 PM; Tuesday, Aug. 26, 7<br />

PM and Sunday, Nov. 23, 1:30 PM.<br />

We always have a wonderful time. Noshes are included. Rosh<br />

Chodesh is truly a sacred time just for women. Space is limited.<br />

So please RSVP by August 4th to Lorie, 408.267.4563.<br />

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Please join us for cold ice cream and warm conversation!<br />

Singles, couples, and families who are interested in exploring<br />

membership at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> are invited to attend. Meet<br />

with our clergy, staff, and board members to learn more<br />

about our welcoming synagogue and our diverse community<br />

of members.<br />

RSVP by August 12 to<br />

membership@templesanjose.org<br />

For more information, contact<br />

Pam Hoffman, Membership Chair at<br />

membership@templesanjose.org


Thank You For Your Sustaining and Above Membership Pledge<br />

Thank you to the following members who have renewed<br />

their membership for the 2013-14 year and have<br />

generously pledged at, or above, the Sustaining level.<br />

Richard Albert<br />

Mark and Miriam Atlas<br />

Marvin and Bonnie Bamburg<br />

Marc and Lynda Baum<br />

Marjorie Resnick Blickman<br />

John Braunreuther and Amy Lambert<br />

Shannon Brown and Dana Brody-Brown<br />

Mark and Gail Cahn<br />

Barry and Mary Cohen<br />

Adam Cone and Katherine Jenkins<br />

Kirk Everett and Rebecca Dishotsky<br />

Chris Eaton and Michele Healey Eaton<br />

Jonathan Eisenberg<br />

Neal Eisenberg<br />

Mark and Bette <strong>Emanu</strong>el<br />

Dr. Clayton and Sandra Feldman<br />

Brian and Karen Fox<br />

Bruce and Peggy Frederick<br />

Larry and <strong>El</strong>isa Gerston<br />

Joel and Marci Gerston<br />

Michael Glickman<br />

Gary Gold<br />

Clarence Goldfinger<br />

Martin and Julia Goldstein<br />

Margie Goodman<br />

Uri and Judith Gottfeld<br />

Joan Green<br />

Roma Green<br />

Herm and Beryl Greenberg<br />

Stephen and Arlene Greenberg<br />

Marc Hanish and Michelle Nathan<br />

Robert and Rhonda Hansen<br />

James Heerwagen and Hilary Schneider<br />

David and Cheryl Heiman<br />

Leila Henderson<br />

Penni and Karen Henry<br />

Lucille Hirsch<br />

Carol Hoffman<br />

Walter and Robin Hurwitz<br />

Irwin and Laura Jacobson<br />

Deborah Jacobstein<br />

Deborah Katzman<br />

Kathryn Kolder<br />

Ruth Krandel<br />

Steven and Shari Krandel<br />

David Ledwitz<br />

Byron Lilly and Nancy Weintraub<br />

Barbara I. Lotman<br />

Jonathan and Alissa Meltzer<br />

David Mimeles and Helen Dietz<br />

Robert and Margaret Newman<br />

William Poor<br />

Lisa Pupkin<br />

Sally Ravel<br />

Joseph and Marcia Riggio<br />

Wayne and Iva Rose<br />

Sidney and Doris Rosenberg<br />

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Jay Rubenstein<br />

Michael and Annie Rubenstein<br />

Stanley and Cathy Rubin<br />

Judith D. Sapper<br />

Jason and Julie Schnitzer<br />

Dr. Judith Siegel<br />

Sally Siegel<br />

Hugh Silin<br />

Simon Silin<br />

Dr. Richard Sogg<br />

Dorjey and Karen Solpon<br />

David Soltz and Aline Cardia<br />

Lonna Smith<br />

Kotarah Thompson<br />

Douglas and Suzanne Tobin<br />

Gregory and Sharon Turetzky<br />

Roy and Rachelle Vogler<br />

Bradford Wall and Ginny Hoffman<br />

Joel and Shirley Wiesner<br />

Arlene Williams<br />

Kimberly A. Williams<br />

Dan Winter and Laura Winter<br />

Adi and Kerry Zarchi<br />

Sherman and Lois Zell<br />

Deborah Zimmer and <strong>El</strong>izabeth Shivell<br />

Selma Zinker<br />

Kevin and Ann Zis<br />

Pledges made after July 15 will be included in the next issue<br />

Thank you<br />

Our <strong>Temple</strong> relies on our members for so many tasks,<br />

projects, events, and odd jobs! This year these members were<br />

honored at our Annual Meeting held in May for their<br />

outstanding work of going above and beyond for our <strong>Temple</strong><br />

community.<br />

Volunteers of the Year 2012-2013<br />

Jake Braunstein<br />

Sharon Genkin<br />

Above and Beyond Commitment (ABC)<br />

Ken Abrams<br />

Judie Aronson<br />

Ivan Aronson<br />

Mort Berlant<br />

Stacey Dedering<br />

Jamie Gold<br />

Pam Hoffman<br />

Erik Kaeding<br />

Lorie Kaplan<br />

Matt Ghan<br />

Robin Marino<br />

Joe Rosenberg<br />

Wolf Schaechter<br />

Julie Schnitzer<br />

Sybil Sommer<br />

Kelly Snider<br />

Sherri Wiesner<br />

Laura Winter<br />

Adi Zarchi<br />

Sherman Zell


Thank You for Your Generous Contributions<br />

GENERAL FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Sheldon Singer<br />

Rick singer<br />

Rose Morris<br />

Gary Morris<br />

Nettie B. Lee<br />

Dan & Shirley Lee<br />

Gerald Gagle<br />

Dan & Shirley Lee<br />

Joseph Woron<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

Martha Rachel Levine<br />

Jean & Henry Richards<br />

Sheldon Blickman<br />

<strong>El</strong>len Terrell<br />

Sidney Greenberg<br />

Steve & Arlene Greenberg<br />

Esther Schneider<br />

Natalie & Will Mauskopf<br />

Sara Salzberg<br />

Natalie & Will Mauskopf<br />

<strong>Emanu</strong>el Mauskopf<br />

Natalie & Will Mauskopf<br />

Robert Mauskopf<br />

Natalie & Will Mauskopf<br />

Rabbi David Kane<br />

Terri & Berry Kane<br />

Irving Levy<br />

Terri & Berry Kane<br />

Dr. Philip Green<br />

James Roberts<br />

Rose Ivy<br />

Maggie & Robert Cant<br />

Nancy Wright<br />

Everett & Dishotsky Family<br />

Dr. Sidney Sogolow<br />

Michelle & Joseph Gabriel<br />

In honor of<br />

Joey, Jakob & Justin Singer<br />

Rick Singer<br />

Rita Loren’s 85 th Birthday<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

Bobbi Lotman<br />

Doris Rosenberg’s Special Brithday<br />

<strong>El</strong>len Terrell<br />

Andrew Mendlin<br />

Lori Rush’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Dianne Fisher<br />

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Irving Altman<br />

Jewel Altman & Family<br />

Bob Jaffee<br />

Dr. Bruce Steir<br />

Dr. Philip Green<br />

Hilde Schmitt<br />

Christine De Givenchy<br />

Max Boxer<br />

Suzanne Boxer-Gassman<br />

In honor of<br />

Lori Rush’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Lorie Kaplan<br />

Rita Loren & Deborah Ransier<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

Marlene Siegler<br />

Quinn Chermak’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Joy Morris & Jeslie Chermak<br />

Granddaughter’s Baby Naming<br />

Deborah & Leo Schreibstein<br />

Doris Rosenberg’s 90 th Birthday<br />

Rosalind & Carl Shapiro<br />

Get well wishes to<br />

Cherie Ravel<br />

Morton Leiter<br />

Donation<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> Sisterhood<br />

Deborah Katzman<br />

Danit & Jeilani Bismanovsky<br />

CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Frieda Friedman<br />

Carol Lerner<br />

Donation<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> Sisterhood<br />

In Honor of<br />

Cantor Simerly<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

Nancy Gerston<br />

Lori Rush’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Barbara & Morton Berlant<br />

Maggie & Robert Cant<br />

Granddaughter’s Baby Naming<br />

Deborah & Leo Schreibstein<br />

ALVIN RAVEL GARDEN FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Geraldine Levy<br />

Sally Ravel<br />

Dr. Sidney Sogolow<br />

Corinne Ravel Retchin & Fred Retchin<br />

In honor of<br />

Sally Ravel’s Special Birthday<br />

Marilyn & Morton Leiter<br />

Ruth Krandel<br />

Get well wishes to<br />

Cherie Ravel<br />

Arlene Ravel<br />

Selma Karchem<br />

CAMPERSHIP FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Ruth Rubin<br />

Pauline & Jacob Braunstein<br />

Bessie Pollack<br />

Wanda & Bob Pollack<br />

In honor of<br />

Donation<br />

Karp Family<br />

CHOIR FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Rose Uberman<br />

Maggie & Robert Cant<br />

Anna Becker<br />

Maggie & Robert Cant<br />

Stanley Kaisel<br />

Maggie & Robert Cant<br />

GAON CAMPERSHIP FUND<br />

In honor of<br />

Lori Rush’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Bernice Gaon<br />

JUDITH JURMAN OMENS CEMETERY<br />

BEAUTIFICATION FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Samuel Rudin<br />

Ilean Rudin<br />

Helen Miller<br />

Arlene & Rubin Jurman<br />

Donation<br />

Ilean Rudin<br />

MICHAEL ELMAN CAMPERSHIP FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Dr. Philip Green<br />

Philip Kumin<br />

Harry Popkin<br />

Joyce Donahoo<br />

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Robert Leiter<br />

Marilyn & Morton Leiter<br />

Ernesto, Esther & Raul Schkolnick<br />

Catalina & Mario Schkolnick<br />

Rafael, Regina & Jose Messina<br />

Catalina & Mario Schkolnick<br />

Esther Weiner<br />

Marilyn & Morton Leiter<br />

Sheldon Blickman<br />

Bette & Mark <strong>Emanu</strong>el<br />

In appreciation of<br />

6 th Grade Class<br />

Janet & David Berg<br />

In honor of<br />

Janet & David Berg’s 50 th Wedding<br />

Anniversary<br />

Bette & Mark <strong>Emanu</strong>el<br />

Arlene & Steve Greenberg<br />

Lori Rush’s Bat Mitzvah<br />

Yvonne & John Nemec<br />

BETTY RINSLER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL<br />

In memory of<br />

Dorothy B. Davis<br />

Mark Lutvak<br />

Sandra Medler<br />

Mark Lutvak<br />

Ben Woron<br />

Bette & Mark <strong>Emanu</strong>el<br />

Jack Rotofsky<br />

Mark Lutvak<br />

In honor of<br />

Confirmation Class<br />

Bobbi Lotman<br />

Donations received after June 30 will appear in the next Connections<br />

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Generous Contributions (continued)<br />

ENDOWMENT FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Dr. Sidney Sogolow<br />

Pauline & Jacob Braunstein<br />

In honor of<br />

Syd Levin’s Birthday<br />

Joan & Marvin Fox<br />

Get well wishes to<br />

Cherie Ravel<br />

Iva & Wayne Rose<br />

SHANK-ROCKMAN SOUND SYSTEM FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Helen & Bert Gates<br />

JoAnn Shank<br />

SUSANNE C. BLICKMAN ARTS & CRAFTS FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Sheldon Blickman<br />

Bobbi Lotman<br />

In honor of<br />

Lori Rush<br />

Ginny & Manfred Siegler<br />

We Remember<br />

PRAYERBOOK TRIBUTE FUND<br />

In memory of<br />

Irving Altman<br />

Reeva Perr<br />

TORAH COVER FUND<br />

In honor of<br />

5773 Confirmation Class<br />

Deborah Zimmer<br />

Donation<br />

Lori Rush<br />

BUILDING FUND<br />

Donation<br />

Ruth & Robert Fox<br />

Those who have died recently<br />

Lorraine Actor, mother of Gail Cahn<br />

Geraldine Levy, mother of Deborah Ostin, Doug Levy & Caroline Wagner<br />

Grace Migdol, mother of Michael Migdol and grandmother of Kayleigh & Will<br />

Donald Heiman, father of David Heiman<br />

Dr. Sidney Sogolow, husband of Rosalie Sogolow<br />

Martin Schneider, uncle of Harry Schneider<br />

<strong>El</strong>sa Gordon, mother of Marc Gordon, Jo Carol Hiatt, Jenifer Cohen & Joe Gordon<br />

Judson Thurston, father of Jennifer Wandruff<br />

And those we have lost in years past:<br />

Aug 2 (6:30 PM)<br />

Mark Bach, Lottie Berman, Rose Blickman, Natalie Borts,<br />

Alfred Brenner, Isidor Farber, Dora Fischer, Sam Fishoff,<br />

Fred Shalom Friedman, Samuel Gerstley, Freida Lehr Heidorn,<br />

Pat L. Hunter, Morris Jacobs, Rueven Jeffe, Julius<br />

Katzman, Helen Kerr, Daniel W. Kraus, Bertha Krystal,<br />

Janice Leshay, Victor Levine, Naomi Mayer, Rebecca Muscatel,<br />

Joseph Pintoff, Jerry Prizant, Mildred Rakovsky, Sarah<br />

Richards, Claire Rosenberg, Henry Rosensweig, Aaron Rosenthal,<br />

Abraham Salzberg, Pauline Shine, Helen Siegel, Alan<br />

Siegel, Dr. Solomon S. Sogg, Mary Sokolov, Hippolito Soto,<br />

Harry Arnold Stern, Allen I. Stoll, Nathan Treister, Jeanette<br />

Waxman<br />

Aug 9 (6:30 PM)<br />

Nathan Aronoff, Miriam Ayllon, Larry Berman, Maurice A.<br />

(Don) Berman, Leonard W. Bloom, Millie Brisken, Marcus<br />

Brooks, John W. Christian, Eileen Judith Cohen, Solly Cohen,<br />

Fanny <strong>Emanu</strong>el, Peggy Forbes, Sarah Frieberg, Mimi<br />

Lewis Fuller, Ben Gambord, Charles Goldberg, Nettie Goldman,<br />

Henry Stadler Hammer, Esther Hoffman, Irma Silbiger<br />

Karpel, Betty Lichtenstein, Conceicao M. Machado, Francisco<br />

P. Machado, Florence Marcus, Aaron Adair Markham, Edna<br />

Novak, Morris Rinsler, Ernest Rott, Dora Rubin, Rose Greenberg,<br />

Albert Saltzman, Irving Satler, Fritzi Schaechter, Joseph<br />

Tannenbaum, Joseph Tannenbaum, Louise Friedland Weis,<br />

<strong>El</strong>eanor Zurakov<br />

Aug 16 (6:30 PM)<br />

Sarah Asher, Dora Blaustein, Ethel Brody, <strong>El</strong>i Enten, Marilyn<br />

Friedlander, Joseph Gitin, Irving Hoffman, Madeline Louise<br />

Kaufman, Howard Kraten, Eva Leve, Morris Lovy, Yankel Lutvak,<br />

Sumner Magat, Meyer Polock, David T. Press, Pauline<br />

Prizant, Jackie Radwin, Max Roberts, George Rosen, Freda<br />

Segal, Barbara T. (Bobbie) Shulkin, Lena Kasner Silverman,<br />

Samuel Weinstein, Gigi Green Wicks, Jean Wiesner<br />

Aug 23 (6:30 PM)<br />

Benjamin Alfred Abelson, Esther Apte, Harvey Asher, <strong>El</strong>eanor<br />

Berman, Jacob Berman, Irving M. Bernstein, Shirley Blauner,<br />

Suzanne Blickman, Rebecca Borts, Robert Joseph Boxer, Ann<br />

Orloff Cahn, Lillian Chermak, Shlomo Cintz, Benjamin Fisher,<br />

Sydney Fox, Fania Galperin, Jennie Goldberg, Muriel Goldberg,<br />

Annette Goldstein, Ethel Harkavy, Shlomo Hertz, Ruth<br />

E. Jeffe, Anne Kaplan, Harry Kessler, Sophie Krown, Pasha<br />

Land, Mimi Lasner, Kathryn Loeffler, Manjeet Makhni, Sarah<br />

Marcus, Isadore Messinger, Harry Meyerson, Murray Moss,<br />

Jack Port, Bessie Renkosinsky, David H. Rosenthal, Marvin<br />

Rubenstein, Sarah Ruby, Isadore Schreibstein, Dr. Albert<br />

Sheinbaum, Fran Shussett, Arthur Silverman, Abe Taitelman,<br />

Dorothy Unell, Samuel B. Weinstein, Goldie Zasloff, Edith Ziff<br />

Aug 30 (6:30 PM)<br />

Jay Aronson, Anne Barnett, Leonard J. Block, Mary Brenner,<br />

Belle Brown, Morris Chusid, Nathan J. Citron, Herbert Cohen,<br />

Lillian E. Davis, Nathaniel Davis, Edward Fox, Thomas Fox,<br />

Edward Gold, Dora Golob, Shelley Gustason Malcolm, Sheila<br />

Heiman, Naji Ezra Helali, Joan J. Hersch, Frederic Kakis, Fred<br />

Karpel, Evangeline Kaufman, Isadore Koltun, Rose Koster,<br />

Joel Landau, Edythe Litman, Susan Moore, Nathan Primack,<br />

Eva Reznikov, Roberta Mendel Rivera, George Rosenberg, Lillian<br />

Satler, Sophie Schatten, Sylvan Siegler, Florence Silverman,<br />

Darlene Smilek, Raymond Sommer, Pauline Kessler<br />

Stein, Charles “Bud" Sweet, James N. Walker, Bliema “Billie"<br />

Walters, George Weintraub, Benjamin Weiss, David Werba,<br />

<strong>El</strong>se Wolff<br />

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High Holy Days News<br />

Have you renewed your membership<br />

for the 2013-2014 year?<br />

We would like to remind you that one of the many benefits of<br />

membership at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> are complimentary tickets<br />

for High Holy Days services. Members who have renewed and<br />

are in good standing will automatically receive tickets by mail<br />

for each family member over age 13 included in your<br />

membership. Members may purchase individual tickets for<br />

parents and adult children who reside elsewhere online or by<br />

mail.<br />

We encourage you to visit our website, www.templesanjose.org,<br />

to register for childcare (ages 2-5) or our Gesher program for<br />

children in kindergarten through grade 4. These programs<br />

are complimentary for members and are offered for a nominal<br />

fee for non-members.<br />

We also hope that you will consider placing a New Year’s<br />

greeting in the September Connections (see the form below)<br />

and purchase a Yizkor book listing.<br />

If you have any questions or concerns navigating the<br />

preparation for High Holy Days, please do not hesitate to<br />

contact the administrative staff at admin@templesanjose.org or<br />

(408) 292-0939<br />

We could not do it all without our<br />

wonderful volunteers!<br />

If you would like to help with ushering, ticket taking, etc.,<br />

please contact the administrative staff at<br />

admin@templesanjose.org or by phone at (408) 292-0939.<br />

There will be a volunteer training meeting on Tuesday,<br />

August 27 at 6:00 PM and dinner will be provided.<br />

Thank you!<br />

Have a seat?<br />

If you can provide transportation<br />

to High Holy Days<br />

Services, or if you are a<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> Member in need of<br />

transportation to High Holy<br />

Days Services, please<br />

contact Caring Committee<br />

Chair, Robin Hurwitz<br />

at caring@templesanjose.org or 408-257-2583.<br />

Start the New Year with a Mitzvah!<br />

GREETINGS IN CONNECTIONS<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> offers you a way to wish your fellow<br />

congregants a happy, healthy and fulfilling new year by<br />

including your name in our bulletin on the Rosh<br />

Hashanah Greetings page. Think of it as a New Year’s<br />

greeting card to your entire <strong>Temple</strong> address book! By<br />

making a minimum tax-deductible donation of $36 per<br />

family unit, you will be wishing us all a new year filled<br />

with sweetness and joy, and at the same time, supporting<br />

your synagogue.<br />

This year we will also be offering the chance to wish your<br />

fellow congregants a happy Passover as well in the<br />

Passover issue of Connections. By making a minimum<br />

tax-deductible donation of $65 per family unit, you will<br />

be wishing us all a new year filled with sweetness and joy<br />

and a happy and healthy Passover, while at the same<br />

time, supporting your synagogue.<br />

PLEASE RETURN THE FORM AND PAYMENT TO THE<br />

TEMPLE OFFICE OR REGISTER ONLINE AT<br />

WWW.TEMPLESANJOSE.ORG BY AUGUST 12, 2013<br />

Your name:___________________________________________________<br />

Your name/family’s name as you would like it to appear:<br />

______________________________________________________________<br />

Total Enclosed $ ________________Check #______________________<br />

Or<br />

VISA/MC# ___________________________________________________<br />

Expiration Date<br />

3 Digit Security Code ____________<br />

(We appreciate your adding an additional 3% to cover<br />

transaction fees.)<br />

Total Amount to be charged:$___________________________<br />

YOU MAY ALSO REGISTER FOR HIGH HOLY DAYS<br />

CHILDCARE AND GESHER PROGRAMS, PURCHASE<br />

ADDITIONAL TICKETS AND YIZKOR BOOK LISTINGS<br />

ONLINE AT WWW.TEMPLESANJOSE.ORG<br />

Signature ____________________________________________________<br />

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If you would like to advertise in <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>‐<strong>El</strong>’s Connections, contact Kama Fletcher at kama@templesanjose.org.<br />

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New Programs<br />

Mazel Tov and Todah Rabah<br />

Coming this Fall is a wide variety of new programs for our<br />

members. Watch for more information coming in the Adult<br />

Education brochure which will be mailed in September. Also,<br />

visit Lehrhaus Judaica at http://catalog.lehrhaus.org/<br />

series/2013/fall/H400-TE/ for registration of our Speaker<br />

Series Catalysts for Change: Exploring Jewish Contributions<br />

Past and Present.<br />

Mazel Tov to Suellen Brandman Haggerty for being honored<br />

as a Public Health Employee Excellence Award Nominee<br />

2013.<br />

Todah Rabah to the following Brotherhood members who<br />

moved and set up the clergy’s temporary offices so the clergy<br />

suites could be remodeled: Uri Gottfeld, Wolfgang Schaecter,<br />

Bob Levy, Andrew Weinberg, Jeslie Chermak, David Hirsch,<br />

Philip Schwarz, Randall Shev, and David Resiner.<br />

All classes open to new students. No prior experience<br />

necessary. Class meets at 7:30 PM on Tuesdays, August 6<br />

and 20, September 3 and 17.<br />

Oneg Sponsors<br />

6/7/2013<br />

The Braunreuther/Lambert Family in honor of Henry Braunreuther's<br />

Bar Mitzvah<br />

6/14/2013<br />

Lori Rush in honor of her Bat Mitzvah<br />

Karen Lea Medina in honor of Lori Rush's Bat Mitzvah<br />

Sandra Rosenberg in memory of her husband, Larry<br />

Sisterhood Bakeshop<br />

6/21/2013<br />

The Benninghaus/Squarer in honor of Andrea Beninghaus'<br />

Bat Mitzvah<br />

6/28/2013<br />

Marc & Lynda Baum in memory of Carol Kaufman<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong> Sisterhood in honor of Sisterhood Shabbat<br />

Pauline and Jake Braunstein in honor of their 49th wedding<br />

anniversary and in memory of Pauline’s mother, Ruth Rubin<br />

Valarie and Herbert Pomarantz<br />

7/5/2013<br />

Bobbi Lotman, Bill and Janet Wood and the Sisterhood<br />

Bakeshop.<br />

7/12/13<br />

Sisterhood Bakeshop<br />

7/19/13<br />

Dr. Richard Sogg in honor of his Bar Mitzvah, Adi & Kerry<br />

Zarchi, Lois and Sherman Zell, and the Sisterhood Bakeshop<br />

7/26/13<br />

Arthur and Kathryn Zwern, Lori Rush, and the Sisterhood<br />

Bakeshop<br />

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Sisterhood presents:<br />

BIG FUN…<br />

FOR A SMALL PRICE<br />

Sunday, August 18<br />

7:00 PM<br />

Sisterhood<br />

Bring your Mah Jongg Card in case we can make a game!<br />

Member prices $ 2.50 per person/ $ 5 per couple/ $ 10 per<br />

family. PLUS bring a snack to share.<br />

Cold drinks, coffee and tea, and dessert will be provided by<br />

Sisterhood.<br />

You may bring other liquid refreshment.<br />

Mitzvah Opportunities<br />

Don’t Throw Away Your Empty Printer Cartridges!<br />

Bring them to <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong><br />

Our <strong>Temple</strong> has launched a fundraising project with the help of<br />

Empties4Cash. <strong>Temple</strong> will receive up to $4.00 (only on select<br />

items) for each cartridge. This will directly benefit our <strong>Temple</strong>, not<br />

to mention it is great for the environment. So far we have made<br />

over $150!<br />

You can help! Any inkjet cartridge with a print head or laser<br />

printer cartridge can be recycled, regardless of<br />

brand or type.<br />

For more information contact the office at<br />

admin@templesanjose.org!


August 2013 ~ Av-<strong>El</strong>ul 5773<br />

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

6:00 PM Ritual Comm.<br />

Meeting<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat<br />

Shabbat Patio Service<br />

4 5 6<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

7<br />

7:00 PM Rosh Chodesh<br />

8 9<br />

9:00 AM Babies and Bagels:<br />

Stroller Fitness<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Baby Shabbat<br />

10<br />

7:00 PM Board of Trustees<br />

Meeting<br />

7:30 PM Israeli Dance<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

11<br />

9:00 AM Brotherhood<br />

Meeting<br />

12 13<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

14<br />

12:00 PM Lunch & Learn<br />

7:00 PM Brotherhood<br />

Poker Game<br />

15<br />

16<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat<br />

Morning Minyan<br />

17<br />

1:00 PM Sisterhood<br />

Meeting<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat<br />

Shabbat Patio and Tot<br />

Shabbat<br />

7:00 PM Tot Shabbat<br />

Potluck<br />

10:30 AM Bat Mitzvah of<br />

Brooke Moorhead<br />

18<br />

3:00 PM Ice Cream<br />

Social for Prospective<br />

Members<br />

7:00 PM Sisterhood<br />

Game Night<br />

19 20<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

7:30 PM Israeli Dance<br />

21<br />

12:00 PM Lunch & Learn,<br />

Megillat Kohelet<br />

6:00 PM Israel Trip 2014<br />

Orientation<br />

7:00 PM Tikkun Olam<br />

Meeting<br />

22 23<br />

9:00 AM Babies and Bagels:<br />

Stroller Fitness<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat<br />

Patio Service<br />

24<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

10:30 AM Bar Mitzvah of<br />

Justin Blumstein<br />

7:00 PM Zip Code<br />

Havdalah<br />

25 26 27<br />

9:00 AM Babies & Bagels:<br />

Stroller Fitness<br />

6:00 PM High Holy Days<br />

Volunteer Meeting<br />

28<br />

12:00PM Lunch & Learn,<br />

Torah Study<br />

29 30<br />

9:00 AM Babies and<br />

Bagels: Stroller Fitness<br />

6:30 PM Kabbalat<br />

Shabbat Patio Service<br />

7:30 PM Ribbon Cutting<br />

Ceremony and Tour of the<br />

Clergy Office Remodel<br />

31<br />

9:00 AM Shabbat Morning<br />

Minyan<br />

5:00 PM EESY Meeting<br />

7:00 PM Selichot Study,<br />

Reception, and Service<br />

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Dana Magat<br />

Senior Rabbi<br />

rabbimagat@templesanjose.org<br />

Meeka Simerly<br />

Cantor<br />

meekantor@templesanjose.org<br />

Adult Education Bob Levy adulted@templesanjose.org<br />

Membership Commitment Dan Lee dues@templesanjose.org<br />

Membership Pam Hoffman membership@templesanjose.org<br />

Facilities Uri Gottfeld facilities@templesanjose.org<br />

Marketing Edgardo Laber marketing@templesanjose.org<br />

Ritual Maggie Cant ritual@templesanjose.org<br />

Tikkun Olam Rich Albert to@templesanjose.org<br />

Leadership Development Edgardo Laber leadership@templesanjose.org<br />

Religious School Committee Suellen Haggerty rscommittee@templesanjose.org<br />

Caring Committee Robin Hurwitz Caring@templesanjose.org<br />

Fundraising Committee Carol Hoffman fundraising@templesanjose.org<br />

Endowment Committee Marvin Fox endowment@templesaanjose.org<br />

Kama Fletcher<br />

Executive Director<br />

kama@templesanjose.org<br />

408-292-0939 ext. 233<br />

Stephanie Pollock<br />

Communications and Facility<br />

Director<br />

stephanie@templesanjose.org<br />

408-292-0939 ext. 234<br />

Clergy<br />

Joseph Gitin, D.D. (z”l)<br />

Rabbi Emeritus<br />

Committee Chairs<br />

Operating and Tribute Funds:<br />

High Holy Days Campaign<br />

General Fund<br />

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Cantor’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Executive Director’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Alvin Ravel Garden Fund<br />

Beverly Jordan <strong>Temple</strong> Beautification Fund<br />

Judith Jurman Omens Cemetery<br />

Beautification Fund<br />

Capital Campaign Fund<br />

Lollie Brickner Media Center Fund<br />

Lou and Clara Juren Library Fund<br />

Ralph Goldeen Library Fund<br />

Endowment Fund<br />

Religious Funds:<br />

Harold Cahn Prayerbook Fund<br />

Herbert Marchick High Holy Day Fund<br />

Kenneth Gordon Children’s Prayerbook Fund<br />

Susanne & Maurice Tucker High Holy<br />

Day Music Fund<br />

Ida F. Kragen Consecration and Caring Fund<br />

Barbara Smead<br />

Preschool Director<br />

barbara@templesanjose.org<br />

408-293-8660<br />

#434404443<br />

Marina Ostraukhov<br />

Administrative and Clergy Support<br />

marina@templesanjose.org<br />

408-292-0939 ext. 201<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> Leadership<br />

President Jeff Hoffman president@templesanjose.org<br />

Imd. Past President Dr. Mike Cahn pastpresident@templesanjose.org<br />

VP Administration Andrew Weinberg vpadmin@templesanjose.org<br />

VP Membership Shirley Lee vpmembership@templesanjose.org<br />

VP Leadership Devel. Edgardo Laber vpleadership@templesanjose.org<br />

VP Education & Youth Mark Cahn vprey@templesanjose.org<br />

Secretary Dan Winter secretary@templesanjose.org<br />

Treasurer Jim Heerwagen treasurer@templesanjose.org<br />

Rich Albert Maggie Cant Ron Mandel<br />

Dana Brody-Brown Steve Krandel Alissa Meltzer<br />

<strong>El</strong>eanor Rusnak Debbie Michels Enrique Guadiamos<br />

Deborah Zimmer<br />

Brotherhood President Jeslie Chermak brotherhood@templesanjose.org<br />

Sisterhood<br />

Co-Presidents<br />

Staff<br />

Youth Funds:<br />

Religious School Fund<br />

Religious School Enrichment Fund<br />

Betty Rinsler Religious School<br />

Endowment Fund<br />

Weintraub Religious School Scholarship Fund<br />

Campership Fund<br />

Leonard and Bernice Gaon Campership Fund<br />

Michael <strong>El</strong>man Campership Fund<br />

Milton Fox Campership Fund<br />

Phyllis Matzner Campership Fund<br />

Israel Scholarship Fund<br />

Susanne C. Blickman Arts and Crafts Fund<br />

Cultural Funds:<br />

Choir Fund<br />

Andrew Apte <strong>Temple</strong> Historical Fund<br />

Phyllis Omel Junior Choir Fund<br />

Bertram Berns Music Fund<br />

Shank-Rockman Family Sound System Fund<br />

Chai Society– Young Adults<br />

Programming Fund<br />

Board of Trustees<br />

Auxiliaries<br />

Judy Levy/Melenie<br />

Pearson<br />

wote@templesanjose.org<br />

EESY President Isabel Haggerty youthgroup@templesanjose.org<br />

Josh Mason-Barkin<br />

Director of Congregational Learning<br />

408-292-3223<br />

josh@templesanjose.org<br />

Andrew Scher<br />

Bookkeeper<br />

andrew@templesanjose.org<br />

408-292-0939 ext. 235<br />

Wayne Rose<br />

Cemetery Administrator<br />

408- 674-5867<br />

cemetery@templesanjose.org<br />

Community Funds:<br />

Facilities for the Aged Fund (Chai House)<br />

JoAnne Salman-Tehrani Homeless Fund<br />

Other Tribute Opportunities:<br />

$36 - Prayerbook Tribute<br />

$218/$500/$750 - Tree of Life<br />

Leaf/small/large rock<br />

$500 - Sanctuary Chair Plaque<br />

$750 - Memorial Plaque (in sanctuary foyer)<br />

Opportunities in Levin Learning Center:<br />

$5,000 - Stair Plaque<br />

$10,000 - Library Column Dedication<br />

$25,000 - Room Dedication<br />

Contact the office for additional opportunities.<br />

Making a contribution to one of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Emanu</strong>-<strong>El</strong>’s many funds is a wonderful way to honor your friends and family. You may<br />

make contributions in honor of a birth, birthday, brit milah, baby naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, confirmation, graduation,<br />

engagement, wedding, anniversary, promotion, new home, special occasion or just because. You may also make contributions<br />

for get-well wishes, condolence, remembrance and yarzeits.<br />

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