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PRACTICE TALES<br />
THE<br />
EROTIC DREAMS<br />
OF A<br />
MENOPAUSAL<br />
HOUSEWIFE<br />
AND<br />
OTHER TALES<br />
FROM<br />
MEDICAL PRACTICE<br />
Dr. Warwick Carter<br />
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Preface<br />
Doctors, particularly those in general practice, are frequently the recipients of<br />
extraordinarily confidential, private and personal information about their patients, and<br />
sometimes their patients’ families. They also share experiences with their patients<br />
which vary from the hilarious to the frightening.<br />
The information from patients may be very sad, depressing and stressful; but at<br />
times doctors hear stories that are funny, unusual, tittilating, wanton, salacious,<br />
sensual, r<strong>au</strong>nchy and just plain erotic. This is a collection of such stories, all true,<br />
covering thirty years of medical practice, that will both educate and entertain.<br />
This book shows the enormous variety of attitudes of a wide variety of people, in<br />
different places and cultures to illness, disease, privacy, sex and the medical<br />
consultation in general. For very obvious reasons, the names of my patients must<br />
remain totally anonymous.<br />
I trust you will savour and enjoy this feast of lively tales.<br />
Warwick Carter<br />
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Contents<br />
The Eurasian be<strong>au</strong>ty<br />
The Reubens nude<br />
Initiation<br />
Rings and ribbons<br />
Extra-sensory perception<br />
Fall astride<br />
A wayward device<br />
From the outback<br />
Home delivery<br />
The naked lady<br />
Missed murder?<br />
Gymnastic fracture<br />
Breast popping<br />
Home visits<br />
Totem pole<br />
What blouse?<br />
Wooden ball<br />
Self portrait<br />
Permanent markings<br />
Three balls<br />
Abduction<br />
Beware of glass<br />
Educational video<br />
Anti-climax<br />
German s<strong>au</strong>sage<br />
Ambulance ride<br />
Doctor’s bag<br />
Split asunder<br />
The secretary factor<br />
The ABBA fan<br />
Size & frequency<br />
Vasectomy revenge<br />
F...ing good<br />
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Remote control<br />
What wheels?<br />
The tattoed sandwich<br />
Father’s day<br />
Living nightmare<br />
Phone fad<br />
Control freak<br />
After life<br />
Cuckold<br />
Practice pet<br />
Chastity lock<br />
Runaway<br />
Repairman<br />
Oedipus <strong>com</strong>plex<br />
Degradation<br />
The erotic dreams of a menop<strong>au</strong>sal housewife.<br />
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The Eurasian Be<strong>au</strong>ty<br />
Early in my medical career, my wife worked as a physiotherapist in the same<br />
hospital as myself, and we lived in a hospital cottage that backed onto an old house<br />
which had been converted into the psychiatric ward.<br />
We got to know many of the long term psychiatric patients quite well and chatted<br />
to them over the back fence. At times we found them wandering down the lane<br />
beside the cottage, and redirected them back to where they had <strong>com</strong>e from.<br />
As we were in the tropical North of Australia, light clothing was <strong>com</strong>mon, but in<br />
this particular story, it was taken to the extreme.<br />
The male orthopaedic ward had a six bed section that was devoted to the bikies<br />
who had exited in an inappropriate manner from their machines, and had fractured<br />
their femur (thigh bone). Treatment of this serious, but <strong>com</strong>mon bike riders’ fracture<br />
involved three or four months in hospital with the leg suspended in traction<br />
apparatus. A very frustrating experience for an otherwise healthy and virile young<br />
male.<br />
M. was a young, very attractive Eurasian woman, who did credit to the best<br />
attributes of both her races in a physical sense, but her personality had be<strong>com</strong>e<br />
rather scrambled, and she spent long periods in the psychiatric ward as a result.<br />
One hot summers day, M. decided to stroll across from the psychiatric ward to the<br />
main hospital, and as the exercise made her even warmer, she gradually discarded her<br />
clothing as she went.<br />
My wife was working in the bikie’s section of the orthopaedic ward when M casually<br />
walked in - absolutely naked.<br />
The reaction of the patients was awesome. They had been strung up like chickens<br />
for weeks or months on end with minimal female <strong>com</strong>pany, and none of their base<br />
desires had been fulfilled for some considerable time. The twisting, turning, leaning<br />
and other contortions undertaken to obtain a better view of the bronzed apparition<br />
that had entered their closed world c<strong>au</strong>sed considerable pain in the fractured bones,<br />
and probably put back their recovery by some time, but they all felt it was well worth<br />
the effort.<br />
My wife knew exactly who M was, and where she had <strong>com</strong>e from, and M. knew her.<br />
The offer from a doctor of a white coat to cover her nakedness was firmly refused by<br />
M, but she happily took my wife’s hand, and the physiotherapist in her hospital<br />
uniform, and the bare be<strong>au</strong>ty walked hand in hand out of the orthopaedic ward,<br />
through the main corridor of the hospital, past the outpatients waiting area, into the<br />
street, up the lane and into the psychiatric ward.<br />
Wherever they walked silence descended, not even a wolf whistle was heard. Every<br />
eye within a hundred metres was turned towards them, and the only sound heard was<br />
the spluttering as a significant number of flies flew into the wide open mouths of the<br />
watchers. The moment they were out of sight, an excited babble of querying voices<br />
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could be heard - the hospital staff soon learnt the story, but many a patient and<br />
visitor is still wondering was it an apparition or was she real?<br />
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The Reubens Nude<br />
Acting as a locum, filling in for another doctor while he is away, is a <strong>com</strong>mon way<br />
for a young doctor to learn general practice, and earn quite good money. In most<br />
cases, you are only working in a practice for a week or two before moving on to the<br />
next job, and so there is no continuity of care for patients, and the faces and names<br />
of patients are meaningless to the locum.<br />
I had been working for a few weeks in a large eight doctor practice when I was<br />
informed that Miss. E had phoned and asked for me in person to do a home visit. It is<br />
most unusual for a locum to be specifically requested by a patient, but on receiving<br />
her file from the practice manager, I noted that I had seen her twice for minor<br />
problems over the last couple of weeks, but I still could not recall her. I thought<br />
nothing more about it until I arrived at her home a few hours later.<br />
The front door of the two story house was open, so I knocked and called out.<br />
"Is that you doctor Wickham?" was heard faintly from upstairs, and on shouting<br />
confirmation of my identity, faint instructions to <strong>com</strong>e upstairs to the bedroom were<br />
heard.<br />
I made my way as ordered, and on entering her boudoir, found Miss E. to be a<br />
young, large, rather obese woman. She was tucked up in bed, with the covers drawn<br />
up under her chin.<br />
Turning on my best bedside manner, I placed my bag beside her bed, and my<br />
backside on the edge of the bed as I asked her what was wrong.<br />
"Doctor, you're the problem" was all I heard as the bedclothes were swept back, I<br />
was knocked to the floor, and eighty kilograms of naked female flesh landed on top<br />
of me.<br />
As this was rather unexpected, it took me a few seconds to react, by which time I<br />
found that Miss E., whose rotund appearance was straight from a Reuben's painting,<br />
was astride me and doing her best to divest me of my strides.<br />
The situation was more than a little difficult to deal with, as she weighed a bit<br />
more than me, had the advantage of the high ground and familiar territory, and had<br />
obviously planned her moves carefully in advance.<br />
With less than gentlemanly courtesy, I managed to slither free, recover my partly<br />
removed clothing, and with remarkably little dignity, grabbed my bag and waistband,<br />
and ran.<br />
Anyone observing the house would have been amazed to hear cries of anguish<br />
issuing from the upstairs bedroom, and from a dishevelled young man who was<br />
running hunched over from the front door of the house to his car. The lady's cries<br />
were of frustration, the young doctor's were of fear, initially of what further traps<br />
may befall him, and subsequently of how the disciplinary <strong>com</strong>mittee of the medical<br />
board would construe his actions if a <strong>com</strong>plaint were laid by the young lady about the<br />
quality of service provided by her general practitioner.<br />
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The situation was not helped by the gales of riotous mirth that resulted when I<br />
related my fearsome tale to the practice staff upon my still breathless return to the<br />
surgery.<br />
I still don't know what was medically wrong with her to require a home visit.<br />
Rampant nymphomania was one possibility that crossed my mind.<br />
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Initiation<br />
Young doctors, in their early years after graduation, tend to wander around the<br />
world, and for a year I worked in a primitive part of southern Africa.<br />
In this area, the vast majority of the inhabitants were subsistence farmers, there<br />
was minimal medical care available (three hospitals and twelve doctors for four million<br />
people) and a third of all children died before five years of age.<br />
All cultures have their rite of passage for girls and boys to woman and manhood.<br />
Jews have their Bar Mitzvah, for the modern Australian it is obtaining a driver’s<br />
licence, but for the young men in Africa it was circumcision.<br />
Once a year, at the <strong>au</strong>spicious time in each area, the medicine man would gather<br />
together those boys between 15 and 17 years of age who were believed to be<br />
mature enough to undergo their initiation into adult life. The evening started with one<br />
hell of a party, where copious quantities of maize beer were consumed. Although the<br />
alcoholic content of this thick porridge like beer was low, the quantity consumed<br />
made up for this deficiency, so that by the time the moon was high, so were the<br />
participants, including the witch doctor.<br />
In a strictly males only ceremony, to the beating of drums, stamping of feet and<br />
shouting of their seniors, the boys were bought forward. They knelt in front of a tree<br />
stump, and with one thumb and finger the witch doctor grasped the foreskin of the<br />
boys penis, and pulled it across the top of the stump so that the skin of the penis<br />
was stretched tight. With a single swift motion, the witch doctor bought down the<br />
machete he held in the other hand and cut off the foreskin - an effective, quick<br />
circumcision.<br />
Unfortunately, the witch doctor had sometimes had his judgment blurred by the<br />
excessive intake of beer, and a bit more than just the foreskin was cut off. In these<br />
circumstances, the western doctors were expected to do their best to repair the<br />
mutilated penis. Strangely, I never came across a witch doctor with a cut left thumb!<br />
In normal circumstances, as soon as the circumcision had been performed, the<br />
penis was heavily coated with white clay and ash, and then the rest of the boy’s<br />
(man’s) naked body was covered with the same materials. He was then sent<br />
unclothed out into the bush to live alone, fend for himself, and survive for a full<br />
month. When these new men returned, the young women of the tribe were eagerly<br />
waiting for them.<br />
The young women (any girl who had started menstruating was immediately<br />
considered a woman) had to demonstrate their fertility before marrying. The<br />
returning men, with their healed penises, had a great time trying the different young<br />
ladies of the village for a few months, until the signs of pregnancy became obvious in<br />
them. The woman then nominated which of the young men who had slept with her<br />
she believed to be the father, and amidst great celebrations over their joint<br />
fecundity, a marriage ceremony took place.<br />
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The men kept only one wife, but it was difficult to stop old habits, so continued<br />
extra marital relationships with old girl friends were more the norm than the<br />
exception, leading to the rapid spread of venereal disease, its subsequent infertility,<br />
and now even more sadly, the invariably fatal disease of AIDS.<br />
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Rings and Ribbons<br />
I had known T. for many years, looking after her through her childhood and<br />
teenage years. She was now in her early twenties, and was going through an<br />
alternate life style stage. She had be<strong>com</strong>e an urban hippy, and she dressed in loose<br />
caftans, had long flowing hair, wore no makeup and lived with a group of like minded<br />
people in an old house.<br />
She presented to the surgery bec<strong>au</strong>se she was very concerned about her heart.<br />
For no apparent reason it would start racing, and the rapid heart rate would last<br />
anything from a few seconds to a quarter of an hour before stopping. This would<br />
happen every few days, and she didn’t like her body doing such strange things.<br />
She denied any use of illegal drugs or alcohol, and when I examined her, the blood<br />
pressure and pulse were normal. I suspected that she had paroxysmal atrial<br />
tachycardia (PAT).<br />
Paroxysmal means occurring suddenly and irregularly for no apparent reason. Atrial<br />
refers to the atrium, which is the small upper chamber of the heart, and which<br />
regulates the rate at which the heart beats. Tachycardia means "rapid heart" in Latin,<br />
and indicates that the heart is beating far faster than it should.<br />
Paroxysmal atrial tachycardia is therefore a sudden rapid beating of the heart,<br />
which starts in the atrium. The diagnosis can be confirmed by performing an<br />
electrocardiogram (ECG) while an attack is present, but this is often difficult to<br />
arrange.<br />
PAT is relatively <strong>com</strong>mon in women, may be triggered by hormonal, emotional or<br />
other factors, and is not harmful. Most attacks last only a few minutes, and c<strong>au</strong>se<br />
minimal dis<strong>com</strong>fort to the victim. The main problem is often the anxiety c<strong>au</strong>sed, as<br />
many patients believe that they are having, or about to have, a heart attack.<br />
If the attacks last for longer periods, or occur very frequently, medication can be<br />
given to prevent them. The need for long term treatment depends on the severity<br />
and frequency of attacks.<br />
I started to reassure her that PAT was the most likely explanation for her problem,<br />
but suggested that I should have a listen to her heart just to make sure it was<br />
behaving properly.<br />
She was wearing a loose caftan, tied at the waist with a woven rope belt, and the<br />
broad neck was held on her shoulders by lacing at the front. She promptly undid the<br />
lacing, and let the top of the caftan fall about her waist.<br />
En route to examining her heart, my stethoscope wavered slightly from its direct<br />
course to the appropriate area immediately below her left breast. It was impossible<br />
not to note her breasts, or more precisely, the nipples.<br />
Each nipple was pierced from side to side, and through the hole was looped a one<br />
centimetre diameter gold ring. This in itself was extraordinarily unusual, but hanging<br />
from each ring was a 15 centimetre long pink ribbon.<br />
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I brushed aside the left side pink ribbon and listened to her heart. Shakily I<br />
reassured her that all was well, she had PAT, and treatment was only required if the<br />
problem worsened. Happy that her body was not letting her down too badly, she left<br />
the surgery.<br />
Neither of us made any reference to the rings and ribbons.<br />
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Extra-Sensory Perception<br />
Sarah and Peter were a happily married couple living in the suburbs. As far as Sarah<br />
was concerned, they did not have a care in the world. Money was a bit tight, but they<br />
were young and could steadily work their way up into a better position. She had a job<br />
in the city 15 km. away, while he worked from his car as a salesman.<br />
On the morning in question, Sarah left for work by train as usual, but shortly after<br />
arriving at work she had this uneasy feeling that something was wrong with Peter.<br />
She phoned home, and there was no answer, and none should have been expected, as<br />
by now he would have been out on his rounds.<br />
She still had this deep feeling that something was wrong, and despite the<br />
inconvenience, she left work, c<strong>au</strong>ght the train, walked the kilometre from the station<br />
to her home, and then found why she had been feeling so anxious all morning.<br />
I first heard about the situation when my receptionist put through a panic stricken<br />
call from Sarah. She had found Peter in the car, in the garage, the engine was running<br />
and a vacuum cleaner hose led from the exh<strong>au</strong>st to a crack in the car rear window.<br />
The car was otherwise sealed. She had called an ambulance, and stopped the car<br />
engine. What else should she do?<br />
It was only a few hundred metres from the surgery to her home and I made it there<br />
as fast as possible. Sarah had not been strong enough to drag Peter out of the car,<br />
but had opened all the windows.<br />
Together we dragged him onto the front lawn, and I gave him oxygen from the<br />
small cylinder I had grabbed as I ran from the surgery. He was bright pink, a<br />
characteristic of patients with carbon monoxide poisoning, but still breathing, and<br />
soon came around, just as the ambulance arrived.<br />
Still confused, he was unable to explain why he had taken such drastic action, and<br />
was soon on his way to hospital.<br />
His life had been saved by an in<strong>com</strong>prehensible intuition possessed by his wife, and<br />
bec<strong>au</strong>se the hose from the exh<strong>au</strong>st to the car had melted at the point where it had<br />
been forced over the exh<strong>au</strong>st pipe, and had detached. Even so, in a relatively short<br />
time, the fumes filling the closed garage would have <strong>com</strong>pleted his intended suicide.<br />
On a follow up visit a couple of days later, he still could not explain his actions,<br />
except to say that he felt he was in a dead end job and his wife was succeeding more<br />
than he was. He was very contrite, and vowed never to try such a thing again,<br />
particularly as he now knew that his wife would soon be aware of any danger he was<br />
in, and rapidly intervene!<br />
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Fall Astride<br />
She was a tall, angular woman in her early thirties, who dressed impeccably. I was a<br />
young doctor doing casual locums on the southern outskirts of London. and was in<br />
this particular practice for one day only, replacing a doctor who was ill.<br />
Her card was a blank, and had an address from another city. When told by the<br />
receptionist that she had to see a locum, she was totally unperturbed, and seemed<br />
almost happy.<br />
She came straight to the point - everything she said was to be totally confidential,<br />
as she had a very embarrassing problem. I assured her that medical ethics would<br />
prevent me from ever revealing (in a way that could identify her anyway) anything<br />
that she told me.<br />
Then she asked me if I was broadminded, as she had an extremely embarrassing<br />
problem. Again I assured her that there was no problem. I was rarely flustered by<br />
anything I was told or shown.<br />
With this introduction, I expected her problem to be a genital one, and immediately<br />
she started to relate her tale, I knew what to expect - or I thought I knew!<br />
She had been cycling, hit a pot hole, and fallen astride the cross bar of her bike.<br />
This is a relatively <strong>com</strong>mon problem, but can result in some very painful and<br />
distressing injuries to that most private part of our bodies. Adopting my most<br />
assuring tone, I ushered her to the examination couch, and asked her to expose the<br />
affected area.<br />
She was extraordinarily reluctant, and kept wanting reassurances that I would not<br />
be shocked, and would keep her problem confidential.<br />
I oozed reassurance, and finally was able to gaze upon the area between her legs.<br />
As expected there was a large, black, swollen and grazed bruise in the area - an<br />
obviously painful injury.<br />
After the first few seconds of seeing what I expected, I suddenly realised that I<br />
was not seeing what I expected. The bruise was there alright, but there was nothing<br />
else. No vulva, no vagina, no female organs of any sort!<br />
Despite all her warnings, my face obviously displayed my surprise as I stooped to<br />
examine the area more closely.<br />
“I had it cut off” she said, “and with the bruise, I can’t pee any more”.<br />
The scar had healed well, but she (he) had been operated upon some years earlier.<br />
Sex change operations are sometimes performed in two stages. The first is to<br />
remove the penis and testes, the second is to construct an artificial vagina. She/he<br />
had undergone the first part of the operation only, and had not proceeded with part<br />
two. Passing urine was normally through a small slit in the skin, but this was the area<br />
now swollen with the bruise.<br />
My <strong>com</strong>posure returned, and a solution to her/his rather unusual problem had to<br />
be found.<br />
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English doctors are not renown for the extent of equipment in their surgeries, but<br />
with the order written on a piece of paper, my patient went to a nearby surgical<br />
supply <strong>com</strong>pany and returned an hour later with a small bore catheter.<br />
With only slight difficulty, this was inserted through the urinary slit and into the<br />
bladder. It was to be left in position for a few days until the swelling subsided, and<br />
she/he could unplug the end to drain the bladder as <strong>com</strong>fort dictated.<br />
She/he was delighted with the result of a rather unusual consultation.<br />
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A Wayward Device<br />
The desires and expectations of different people with regard to sex vary<br />
enormously from one person to another. What one person considers quite normal,<br />
another will consider bizzarre. Anal sex and self stimulation are such activities, and<br />
they not limited to those who are homosexual.<br />
A wide variety of apparatus <strong>com</strong>es under the title of “marital aids”, and all are<br />
readily available at shops in certain less salubrious parts of the city, or by mail order.<br />
Mr.O. arrived at the casualty department of a major city hospital looking rather<br />
sheepish. He felt perfectly well, and had no specific <strong>com</strong>plaints, but needed to talk to<br />
a senior doctor urgently and privately. He ended up with me. Slowly his story<br />
unfolded.<br />
He had ordered by mail a device that was normally used to stimulate the female of<br />
the species. The deluxe model dildo (artificial penis) that arrived was equipped inside<br />
with batteries and a small motor to make it vibrate when a switch on the end was<br />
activated. The plastic device was covered in bumps and ridges to give added<br />
stimulation to its user.<br />
Mr.O. had intended this to be a surprise for his wife, but decided to try it on<br />
himself first. This was a serious mistake.<br />
Three days earlier he had inserted the dildo into his anus. Unfortunately, the plastic<br />
on the base of the device was smooth, and his fingers became sweaty and slippery.<br />
He lost his grip, the device slipped, and suddenly disappeared inside.<br />
He had immediately gone to the toilet, and had strained for ages to push it out,<br />
but the vibrations from the motor, and the bumps and ridges on the outside of the<br />
apparatus had the opposite effect. The dildo steadily moved further into his bowel.<br />
Several hours later he had been able to feel, with his hand on his belly, the device<br />
vibrating away in his gut. He had made another mistake in using very powerful long<br />
life batteries. By the time they had died, the dildo was beyond retrieval.<br />
He had now been unable to pass a motion for two days, and understandably, was<br />
be<strong>com</strong>ing very concerned.<br />
An x-ray with a very discrete radiographer was arrranged, and the device was seen<br />
high up in the left side of the abdomen, just below the ribs, at a point where the<br />
large bowel makes a sharp turn. Here it was stuck.<br />
At the time of this incident, the modern extra thin and flexible colonoscopes were<br />
not available, and the greatest distance that normal examination of the lower gut<br />
could proceed with the rigid colonoscope inserted through the anus was about 30cm.<br />
Mr.O’s dildo was way beyond this.<br />
A major operation was necessary to open his belly and gut to remove the device.<br />
The morning after the operation, at which I had assisted, I went to his bed, and<br />
while he watched, carefully placed a plain brown parcel in his bed side locker. It<br />
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contained the retrieved dildo, with fresh batteries, and strict instructions to use it<br />
solely in the aperture it was designed to enter, and no other.<br />
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From the Outback<br />
“I’m her <strong>au</strong>nt doctor, she’s been sent down to stay with me from out west. Will<br />
you check her over for me”. With this, the middle aged woman pushed a pretty little<br />
fourteen year old girl into my surgery, shut the door and left us alone.<br />
She sat down at my direction, hung her head shyly and said nothing. I asked her if<br />
she had any problems, and she said that her mum had sent her down from the<br />
country to stay with her <strong>au</strong>nt in the city bec<strong>au</strong>se she was getting too fat. She had<br />
tried dieting, and although she starved herself, she kept putting on weight. From<br />
where she sat, her loose smock bulged, and I had a sinking suspicion that I knew why<br />
she was continuing to expand.<br />
Lying on the examination couch, the diagnosis was obvious, she was about seven<br />
months pregnant.<br />
Gently I asked her about her boyfriend. She denied that she had one.<br />
I told her that she was not fat from overeating, but from pregnancy, and she must<br />
have had sex with someone to be in this state.<br />
Tears flooded out of her eyes, and the words rushed out as she kept crying that<br />
she couldn’t be pregnant, as she hadn’t let him kiss her, and she knew, bec<strong>au</strong>se her<br />
mother had told her, that if she never let a boy kiss her, she wouldn’t get into<br />
trouble, and wouldn’t get pregnant.<br />
I asked what he did do to her, and while choking back the tears, she explained how<br />
when they were bored, bec<strong>au</strong>se there was nothing to do in their tiny town, he would<br />
sometimes put his thing inside her. It felt good, and it helped pass the time - but she<br />
never let him kiss her.<br />
As gently as I could, and slowly over half an hour, I explained the facts of life in<br />
more detail to her. She gradually understood her situation, but at the end of our<br />
discussion, she still said that she couldn’t be pregnant.<br />
I had gone through the whole process from conception to labour and delivery. The<br />
bulging belly was obvious, and I had even used an ultrasound machine to let her hear<br />
the baby’s heart beat. At one stage she had seemed quite excited about having a<br />
baby of her own, but the tears now came flooding back as she desperately clung to<br />
an unreasonable denial.<br />
Puzzled, I asked her why she couldn’t accept her pregnancy.<br />
She explained that it was impossible, as her fifteen year old partner was her<br />
brother.<br />
Two months later, after staying in the city with a very helpful and understanding<br />
<strong>au</strong>nt, she had (very luckily) a perfectly normal little girl. In due course, the d<strong>au</strong>ghter<br />
will hopefully get a far better sex education than her mother.<br />
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Home Delivery<br />
It was 7am as I walked into the surgery and turned off the answering machine.<br />
Thirty seconds later, the phone rang.<br />
“She’s having it in the bed. Come quickly.”<br />
The panic in the male voice on the phone was obvious.<br />
“Who are you, and what’s happening”.<br />
“Its Mr.W., and she’s having the baby - now!”<br />
The name was very familiar to me. I confined thirty or so of my lady patients every<br />
year in a nearby cottage hospital. One of my patients was obviously <strong>com</strong>ing a bit<br />
earlier and faster than expected.<br />
I had undertaken home delivery of babies on a regular basis in the United Kingdom<br />
some years before, but there they had flying squads who could <strong>com</strong>e to your<br />
assistance if something went wrong. In Australia there was no such service - you<br />
were it!<br />
Delivering a baby is a very natural and normal process, that women have been<br />
carrying out with minimal assistance for hundreds of thousands of years.<br />
Unfortunately, every now and then, when you least expected it, things went wrong.<br />
There is nothing more frightening for a doctor than to deliver a normal baby, and<br />
then suddenly have the mother collapse with a massive bleed. In a hospital,<br />
resuscitation is possible, in the home situation, death was more likely.<br />
From the babies point of view, there were innumerable potential problems, varying<br />
from strangulation with a cord around the neck, to a brain haemorrhage from a too<br />
rapid delivery.<br />
Hoping for the best, I grabbed the “panic bag” off the shelf in the treatment room,<br />
ran out of the surgery, and rapidly drove the short distance to the W. residence. The<br />
eldest child was waiting at the front door for me.<br />
Even as I trotted through the entry hall, the reassuring sound of a crying baby was<br />
heard. I entered the bedroom.<br />
Mrs.W. was lying back in the centre of a king size bed, and seemed to be fine. The<br />
baby, a pink little boy with the cord still attached to the mother, was lying on a blood<br />
stained towel between her legs, screaming his head off. Mr.W. was standing beside<br />
the bed. looking both worried about the situation, and relieved at my arrival. Their<br />
three year old d<strong>au</strong>ghter looked on in wonder.<br />
It was time for the doctor to bring order to chaos, be reassuring, take charge of<br />
the situation, and exude an air of confidence. Adjusting my suit coat, I walked calmly<br />
into the room, and around to the side of the bed. Turning on my bedside charm to<br />
maximum, I started to reassure Mrs.W. that everything would be fine. Then I sat down<br />
on the king size bed.<br />
It was a king size water bed.<br />
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I had sat far enough into this huge bed to <strong>com</strong>pletely miss the edge board with my<br />
backside. I sat further and further down, <strong>com</strong>pletely losing my balance, and rolled<br />
rather ungracefully into the centre of the bed to join the new baby between mothers<br />
legs. The effect was anything but the one I had desired.<br />
Mr.W. didn’t know whether to l<strong>au</strong>gh or apologise, so he just choked quietly, while<br />
waiting for my next trick. Mrs.W. started l<strong>au</strong>ghing hysterically. Whether this was<br />
bec<strong>au</strong>se she really saw the funny side of the situation, or bec<strong>au</strong>se she was terrified<br />
by her clown of a doctor, I never determined.<br />
Extracting myself with dignity was impossible. I floundered around, until finally I<br />
gained the edge, and struggled to my feet.<br />
Mrs.W. was still in the centre of this vast bed with her new baby, and was virtually<br />
unreachable if propriety was to be observed.<br />
The solution came in a flash, the sheet was untucked, firmly grasped at one side,<br />
and Mrs.W., baby, towel and mess were all h<strong>au</strong>led into reach at the side of the bed.<br />
Some semblance of normality returned as I cut the cord, wrapped the baby in a<br />
blanket, and passed it to Mr.W. for safe keeping. Now for the placenta (afterbirth).<br />
This is normally delivered by giving an injection of drugs to contract the uterus,<br />
which then pushes out the placenta. I had no such drugs, which meant I had to<br />
rhythmically squeeze the uterus from above through the skin and muscle of the belly,<br />
while pulling on the cord from below. The rapid result of these activities that a swell<br />
arose in the water bed, and Mrs.W. rocked backwards and forwards past me, while<br />
both of us became steadily greener and more n<strong>au</strong>seated by the minute.<br />
Almost at the point of serious sea sickness for both doctor and patient, the<br />
placenta issued forth onto the newspapers Mr.W. had been asked to obtain, and calm<br />
returned.<br />
Mrs.W. had done what millions of women had done before her, deliver a normal<br />
baby.<br />
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The Naked Lady<br />
Mr.B is not the healthiest or strongest of men. He has suffered two heart attacks,<br />
undergone coronary artery bypass graft surgery, suffers from congestive cardiac<br />
failure, is overweight and occasionally develops angina. He lives alone in a small flat.<br />
One morning he noted the arrival of the mailman, and headed down to collect his<br />
letters. Meeting an elderly neighbour at the letterbox, he chatted for ten minutes or<br />
so before returning to his flat, where he proceeded to make himself a cup of tea.<br />
Just as he sat down at the kitchen table to enjoy his cuppa, he heard a noise from<br />
the bedroom, so arose to investigate. Lying on his bed was a young, nubile, naked<br />
woman.<br />
He retreated to the kitchen and thought carefully. The doctor hadn’t changed his<br />
medication in the past week, he wasn’t suffering from angina, he felt <strong>com</strong>pletely<br />
normal and therefore he didn’t think he was hallucinating.<br />
Mr. B. returned to the bedroom. She was still there.<br />
Gently, he rolled her over on to her back. She was quite limp, and her head rolled<br />
to the side. Saliva drooled from her mouth. He quite correctly decided that she was<br />
not at all well.<br />
Having little experience in dealing with naked ladies, he headed up the corridor to<br />
his elderly neighbour’s flat. Trying to convince her that he had a naked woman on his<br />
bed was not easy, but after some persuasion, she ac<strong>com</strong>panied him back to his flat<br />
and into the bedroom. There was no one there, not even a fully dressed woman!<br />
Mr. B’s neighbour chided him for teasing her, and returned to her flat. Mr. B sat<br />
down at the kitchen table again, very confused. Then he heard another noise from<br />
the bathroom.<br />
Kneeling in front of the pedestal, vomiting her heart out into the bowl, was Mr. B’s<br />
naked lady.<br />
Once again he approached his neighbour. With even greater difficulty, he<br />
persuaded her to return again to his flat. There was no naked lady in the bathroom,<br />
but they found her back in the bedroom.<br />
After a brief examination, the neighbour decided that there was nothing she could<br />
do, so <strong>com</strong>mon sense prevailed, and the ambulance was called.<br />
While awaiting the arrival of the transport, they decided that some dignity must be<br />
maintained, and so between them, Mr. B and his neighbour attempted to manoeuvre<br />
their naked lady into one of Mr. B’s dressing gowns. This stimulation awoke the young<br />
lady, and with sudden strength and agility, she eluded her helpers, and fled from the<br />
flat and down the corridor.<br />
She stumbled on the stairs, enabling her elderly pursuers to catch her, and with the<br />
help of a younger resident in the block of flats, she was returned to Mr. B’s flat, and<br />
securely wrapped in one of his dressing gowns. Shortly after, the ambulance took her<br />
away.<br />
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Mr. B sat down at the kitchen table to face a stone cold cup of tea. Fortunately,<br />
his sympathetic neighbour noted his pale face, blue lips, and the shaky hand clutching<br />
his chest. The excitement was just a little too much, but two Anginine and a good<br />
strong hot cup of tea later, he felt much better.<br />
The next morning a young man knocked on Mr. B’s door, with a neatly folded<br />
dressing gown over his arm. He thanked Mr. B profusely for looking after his live-in<br />
girl friend, who had be<strong>com</strong>e distr<strong>au</strong>ght the previous day and had taken an overdose<br />
of pills. This had led to her be<strong>com</strong>ing confused and disoriented, but she would be<br />
recover <strong>com</strong>pletely in the next few days.<br />
Mr. B arrived in my surgery later that day for a check up, and related his story. He<br />
felt it was quite interesting to have a naked young lady on his bed, but not too often,<br />
as he didn’t think his heart could stand such a shock more than once every week or<br />
two!<br />
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Missed Murder?<br />
Many years ago, when I was a young and inexperienced general practitioner just<br />
starting my own practice, I always eagerly wel<strong>com</strong>ed new patients, and tried my best<br />
to do everything possible for them.<br />
During this time, I was visited by a man in his early sixties who had a minor<br />
problem. During the consultation he mentioned that he was newly married, and had<br />
just moved into the area with his new wife who was a diabetic. Would I be able to<br />
look after her adequately? Of course!<br />
A week later I was called to the home to see the new wife. Two surprises awaited<br />
me - the home was next door to the largest medical centre in the district and the<br />
new wife was 92 years old!<br />
I felt that I couldn’t <strong>com</strong>ment on the age difference, but I did ask why they had<br />
bypassed the medical centre next door to travel the three kilometres to my surgery.<br />
My ego was further massaged when I was told that my reputation was excellent, and<br />
they felt that the extra journey was worthwhile for my superior expertise!<br />
Over the next few weeks I saw them both regularly. She had the normal heart<br />
problems of an elderly person, and was on insulin injections for her diabetes. She was<br />
also suffering from some degree of dementia, and appeared from her jewellery and<br />
clothing to be quite wealthy. He had been unemployed for some years and was an<br />
invalid pensioner, but I never did find out how he had gained such a pension.<br />
One mid-morning I received an urgent phone call from him - he thought she was<br />
dead.<br />
A quick trip to the house confirmed his fear. She was stone cold. He had gone in to<br />
take her morning tea in bed and she hadn’t responded to him. He had been talking to<br />
her at breakfast a couple of hours earlier, when she had appeared quite well, but had<br />
said she was tired and had gone back to sleep. Now she was dead, and he was<br />
literally crying on my shoulder.<br />
In the rush of coping with an apparently distr<strong>au</strong>ght husband, phoning undertakers,<br />
signing forms and with my inexperience, I didn’t doubt that she had died from natural<br />
c<strong>au</strong>ses until several days later.<br />
My concern was triggered a week after the funeral when I phoned to give my<br />
further condolences and offer any necessary support. The phone was disconnected. I<br />
drove past the house, and it had a “For Sale” sign outside.<br />
I had a sudden, cold hard feeling in my stomach, returned to the surgery and dug<br />
out my long neglected forensic pathology text. My fears were confirmed - the stone<br />
cold corpse that I had examined should not have been cold at all after only two hours<br />
at the most since death, particularly in Queensland’s summer. The marriage of a<br />
impecunious man to a wealthy woman thirty years his senior suddenly took on a new<br />
light, as did his choice of an inexperienced young general practitioner who was over<br />
eager to please.<br />
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I very sheepishly phoned the police and explained that the death certificate might<br />
just have been slightly inaccurate. Unfortunately, she was not only dead, but<br />
cremated as well, so my suspicion that she may well have died from an overdose of<br />
insulin could in no way be proved.<br />
The police made enquiries, but of a perfunctory nature, as they realised as well as I<br />
that it would at this late stage be impossible to prove anything. She had changed her<br />
will on her marriage to favour him, and despite a challenge from the relatives, after a<br />
mere ten weeks of married bliss, he inherited her fortune and disappeared leaving a<br />
bitter family and a much wiser general practitioner.<br />
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Gymnastic Fracture<br />
“Satisfaction is the first sign of decay” is an old saying, but when it <strong>com</strong>es to sex,<br />
it may be that satisfaction is safe.<br />
Many couples, particularly younger ones, seem to believe that the “missionary<br />
position” for sex is extraordinarily boring. They turn to the Karma Sutra, and its more<br />
modern equivalents - “The Joy of Sex” and “Cleo” - to find more interesting, different<br />
and gymnastic ways of performing this normally very natural act. In the process,<br />
some <strong>com</strong>e to grief.<br />
What sounds both erotic and exotic on the written page, may turn out to be<br />
difficult, dangerous or physically impossible when attempted in real life, without years<br />
of practice as a contortionist before hand.<br />
Mr.A. and his young wife had been steadily working their way through a sex manual<br />
that described an extraordinarily large number of ways of doing “it” until Mr.A’s wife<br />
phoned me in great distress one night.<br />
“I’ve broken his bone”.<br />
“Which bone?” I naturally queried.<br />
“His tool bone”.<br />
“Tool bone?”<br />
“Yes, you know, the one in his dick.”<br />
This obviously needed to be investigated.<br />
A short time later I arrived at their home. Mrs.A. greeted me with relief, hoping<br />
that I could fix everything instantly. I couldn’t.<br />
Mr.A. sat crouched in agony on a kitchen chair. He had a blanket over his<br />
shoulders, but was otherwise naked. His legs were widespread, and between them,<br />
resting on a small plate, was his penis (tool, dick etc.). It was not a pretty sight.<br />
Mr. and Mrs.A. had been enjoying a particularly vigorous episode of extraordinarily<br />
gymnastic sex (the details of which I did not investigate further), when Mr.A.<br />
experienced a sudden excruciating pain in his penis, and cried out in agony.<br />
His penis was no longer in one piece, but was bent at right angles in the middle. It<br />
had been fractured. There is, of course, no bone in the penis, but two long thin<br />
balloons that are firmly inflated with blood when the penis be<strong>com</strong>es erect. An<br />
excessive amount of lateral pressure had been applied to the penis, and these rigid<br />
balloons had cracked, releasing the high pressure blood into the tissue just under the<br />
skin of the penis.<br />
By the time I saw him, the penis was extraordinarily black with bruising, the half<br />
closest to his body had deflated and was the usual soft texture of a non erect penis,<br />
but the other half, furthest from his body, was still rigid and erect, as the blood was<br />
trapped in the remnants of the balloons. He was still in agony.<br />
Supporting his poor abused organ on a plate may have been practical, but was not<br />
at all decorous. With difficulty, he moved to the bed, and a bandage placed across<br />
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the top of his thighs acted as a sling to rest the penis. Ice packs were then applied to<br />
bring down the remaining swelling, and reduce the bruising. To top this off, a pain<br />
killing injection was given, and he was warned to rest.<br />
Then came the really bad news. No sex for six weeks until the penis had <strong>com</strong>pletely<br />
healed. In fact he should do everything possible to avoid an erection during that time,<br />
and should apply a cold pack at the first sign of one developing. Once they did start<br />
sex again, gentle was the word, until they were sure that everything had healed<br />
adequately.<br />
The A’s were not happy. The Karma Sutra would have to wait.<br />
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Breast Popping<br />
If you're Twiggy and want to be Dolly Parton - forget it! But if you're a 32A and<br />
would like to be a 34B, then plastic surgery to increase your bust may interest you.<br />
Women desiring this operation fall into two broad groups. Those who were born<br />
with small breasts, and those who have suffered a sagging or shrinkage of the<br />
breasts after breast feeding, or with age. There are also those who require breast<br />
reconstruction after its removal for breast cancer. A repositioning of the breast may<br />
be better than actual enlargement in some women.<br />
Provided the patient is healthy, will benefit from the procedure, and is willing to<br />
have the operation there are no other criteria to be met.<br />
The operation involves a two or three day stay in hospital. Techniques vary from<br />
one surgeon to another, but normally a small cut is made under each breast, and<br />
through this a plastic bag of gel (a prosthesis) is inserted to increase the size and<br />
improve the shape of the breast.<br />
Recovery is normally at home, and the patient rests for a week to ten days after<br />
the operation before returning to normal duties. After six weeks the breasts feel and<br />
look <strong>com</strong>pletely natural, and the tiny scar is hidden under the breast fold when the<br />
woman stands, so that the briefest bikini can be worn.<br />
Complications are unusual, and are normally those of other types of surgery such<br />
as bleeding and infection. The most <strong>com</strong>mon post-operative problem after increasing<br />
the breast size is capsule contraction. This occurs months after the procedure and is<br />
c<strong>au</strong>sed by the body laying down too much fibrous tissue around the implant, which<br />
results in the breast feeling firmer than normal.<br />
The treatment for this is called "popping" and involves squeezing the breast so<br />
that the fibrous tissue tears, freeing up the prosthesis and softening the breast.<br />
While waiting between cases in the surgeon’s room at a major hospital, a nurse<br />
popped her head around the door, looked around the room, and fixed her eyes on my<br />
six foot three inch frame. She asked if I could help another surgeon, and naturally I<br />
went with her to a theatre where a plastic surgeon of my acquaintance was waiting.<br />
His problem was his size, he was relatively short, and had small delicate hands -<br />
ideal for a plastic surgeon, but not this particular problem. He had instructed the<br />
nurse to find the tallest doctor available, and I fitted the bill.<br />
The patient, lying anaesthetised on the table, had developed the problem of<br />
fibrous capsule formation around the breast prosthesis that had been inserted a year<br />
earlier, and her breasts were sitting up on her chest like cricket balls, and were just as<br />
hard. The plastic surgeon had been attempting to “pop” the hard capsule by<br />
squeezing the breasts as hard as possible, but a two handed grip is not as effective<br />
as a one handed one in which the entire breast can be en<strong>com</strong>passed in the span of<br />
the hand. He had failed in his endeavours bec<strong>au</strong>se his hands were too small, thus his<br />
call for large handed assistance.<br />
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I had always thought of my large mitts as a surgical handicap, and this had been<br />
one of the (many) reasons I had not pursued a career in surgery, but on this<br />
occasion, to the cheer of the theatre staff, I enveloped one breast and then the<br />
other in my hands, squeezed hard, and was rewarded by an <strong>au</strong>dible “pop” as the<br />
capsule ruptured and the breasts became instantly soft. The post procedure<br />
inspection revealed breasts that flopped naturally on the chest, and until the capsule<br />
hardened again, would be undetectable from the real thing.<br />
I was advised by all that my hands and I had a great career ahead in breast<br />
popping, but I decided that I needed greater variety in my medical career, and<br />
continued in general practice.<br />
An attractive bust may improve a woman's self image and esteem, but the<br />
operation should not be done for the wrong reasons. It will probably not save a dicey<br />
marriage, men will not start rushing to her door, and her sex life is not suddenly going<br />
to improve.<br />
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Home Visits<br />
Home visits three or four times a day at $100 a time (probably tax free), minimal<br />
overheads, and no training except for two overseas trips a year. That’s the life of J.,<br />
a 32 year old university graduate who is fluent in three languages and works in the<br />
world’s oldest profession. She is a call girl, servicing the sexual desires of clients in<br />
their home or hotel.<br />
J. has been a regular patient of mine for twelve years, ever since she started her<br />
career while still a university student studying social science. She did her thesis on<br />
prostitution, and decided that the only way to gain an insight to the profession was<br />
to experience it. She found by doing this, that what she had been performing as an<br />
enthusiastic amateur was very profitable, and so her business was started.<br />
Since then, she has graduated as a social worker and continued her studies, but in<br />
languages, and has studied at a Japanese university, as well as be<strong>com</strong>ing fluent in<br />
Indonesian and French.<br />
Every month she arrives at the surgery for a regular check up - vaginal swabs and<br />
blood tests for venereal disease. Every six months she has a Pap smear.<br />
She had genital herpes a few years ago, and used medication for six months at a<br />
time to prevent recurrences, but after about three years, the attacks ceased, and<br />
she has been free of this career threatening disease for over two years.<br />
Vaginal thrush (a fungal infection) is another occasional problem, but I keep her<br />
supplied with the appropriate vaginal cream, and she uses this at the first sign of any<br />
itch or discharge.<br />
J. is obsessive with her vaginal health and she douches daily. She used to do this<br />
after every client, but the vagina dried out excessively, and became irritated, until I<br />
urged her to reduce the frequency. She does not neglect her general health,<br />
exercising in a gym several times a week, and sticking to a very healthy diet.<br />
Her continuing professional education involves her in regular trips abroad. On these<br />
she visits places such as Ermita in Manila, Patpong Rd. in Bangkok, the Reeperbahn in<br />
Hamburg and the red light district in East Amsterdam. She has turned a trick in a<br />
score of countries, and she claims to know every <strong>com</strong>bination and permutation of<br />
sexual fantasy known to (wo)mankind.<br />
She makes fascinating off the cuff remarks about the prowess of various races,<br />
most of which would be unprintable in Penthouse, let alone here. In summary, she is<br />
favourably inclined towards Australian men of north European extraction, but finds<br />
those of the Orient a waste of time as far as sexual pleasure is concerned, although<br />
they are financially rewarding.<br />
It is these journeys that c<strong>au</strong>se most of J’s problems, and she invariably returns<br />
with a mixed vaginal infection, and often an ac<strong>com</strong>panying throat infection, that take<br />
a couple of weeks to settle on the <strong>com</strong>bination of antibiotics and antifungals found<br />
appropriate after culture results are received.<br />
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J. is extraordinarily relaxed about her body. She never wears any underclothes, no<br />
matter how short the skirt! Normal patients will casually point out a spot on their<br />
face or arm, but when an attractive young woman walks into the consulting room,<br />
and with only a passing “Hi doc!”, places one foot on your desk and flicks up her skirt<br />
to ask about a spot on her pudenda, it can be rather off putting. I have be<strong>com</strong>e quite<br />
used to this, but when a locum encounters her, it can be rather a shock. One elderly<br />
locum almost had a heart attack as he fell backwards out of his chair!<br />
No working girl wants to lose potentially productive days bec<strong>au</strong>se of<br />
inconveniences such as menstruation. After trying to use the oral contraceptive pill<br />
constantly, which often resulted in break through bleeds at inconvenient times, J. has<br />
settled on Depo Provera injections, every three months. These have the advantages<br />
of stopping her periods, being difficult to forget, and in her case, c<strong>au</strong>sing no side<br />
effects. She has used these shots for seven years now.<br />
J. is most certainly not your average prostitute. She is intelligent, healthy,<br />
attractive, not on drugs, well aware of what she is doing, and apparently enjoys her<br />
work. She has no intention of having children, but does have regular live-in boy<br />
friends who last for a few months or a year. I have never needed to treat her with<br />
any anti-anxiety or psychiatric medications, and her other medical problems are the<br />
run of the mill things experienced by the average woman of her age.<br />
J. is always appears happy, always pays her accounts in cash from a thick wad, and<br />
I have enjoyed being her medical advisor and confidant.<br />
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Totem Pole<br />
Over the years, a doctor is in the position to see the private parts of a large<br />
number of people. Doctors be<strong>com</strong>e quite used to this, and treat examining a penis,<br />
breast or vagina in much the same way as examining more publicly displayed parts of<br />
the human anatomy, but there are exceptions to every rule.<br />
In the same way that certain faces remain in one’s memory, so do certain other<br />
anatomical curiosities.<br />
Mr.H. was a long distance truck driver in his thirties and unmarried. Every time he<br />
attended the surgery, there seemed to be a different young woman waiting for him<br />
outside, and he was proud to boast that he had a choice of girls in every truck stop<br />
between Cairns and Perth. It was not until one particular consultation that I found out<br />
why he was so popular.<br />
The reason was his penis, Mr.H’s was memorable!<br />
This modern day Cassanova’s activities had finally c<strong>au</strong>ght up with him. He had a<br />
discharge from his penis, it hurt to pass urine, and he wanted it fixed fast, so that his<br />
sexual gymnastics could continue. On the couch, he produced his organ so that I<br />
could take a swab and start him on the correct treatment for his venereal disease.<br />
His penis, on first appearance, reminded me of an Indian totem pole -<br />
extraordinarily decorated and bumpy.<br />
The most obvious features were what appeared to be three small black feathers<br />
that were tied through holes that had been pierced around his foreskin. He called<br />
these his ticklers, and they were actually lady’s artificial eyelashes that had been tied<br />
through the holes that he had pierced himself, in order to tickle his ladies’ fancy.<br />
The next decoration was the very vicious looking, multiply barbed arrow that had<br />
been tattooed along the length of his penis, and pointed at the business end of this<br />
organ.<br />
Finally, his self titled love beads were noted. Under the skin, just behind the head<br />
of the penis, the shaft was circled by half a dozen small lumps. These, he informed<br />
me, were pearls, that had been slipped under the skin through a small cut in a series<br />
of operations that he had performed on himself. If he ever got short of cash, these<br />
could always been removed to see him out of a tight spot!<br />
He was extraordinarily proud of his handiwork, and claimed that he had never failed<br />
to satisfy any woman who had been fortunate enough to have a sexual encounter<br />
with him.<br />
Due to his extraordinary ego, and his willingness to boast about his unusual<br />
attributes, the details of his conquests and the joy they experienced were well known<br />
at Australia’s truck stops. This explained the endless queue of young women eager<br />
try out something that was most certainly unique.<br />
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What Blouse?<br />
What at one time, an individual would find totally unacceptable and outrageous,<br />
under other circumstances may be <strong>com</strong>pletely natural. Undertaking office work<br />
dressed in a bikini would be considered just as peculiar as wearing a business suit on<br />
the beach. Mrs.G. found herself in just such a situation, progressing from the<br />
acceptable to the unacceptable in a matter of seconds.<br />
She was an attractive woman in her early thirties who had <strong>com</strong>e to see me<br />
regarding numerous moles on her back and chest. She had been examined in the<br />
cubicle adjacent to my consulting room, where she had naturally removed her blouse<br />
so that I could examine her back and chest.<br />
Some of her moles were rather black and suspicious, so I advised her that it would<br />
be sensible to have a couple of the worst looking ones removed for pathological<br />
analysis. Then I went back into the consulting room and sat down to make notes in<br />
her chart.<br />
She was very concerned about her moles, and followed me back to sit beside my<br />
desk. Her mother had died from malignant melanoma, and so her concern (as well as<br />
mine) for her moles were increased ten fold, and a prolonged discussion about what<br />
should and should not be done followed.<br />
Eventually I had answered all her questions, an appointment to have the first mole<br />
removed had been made for the next day, and she was satisfied with everything I had<br />
told her. I turned to write some more information in her chart. She stood up, and<br />
most unexpectedly, opened the door and walked out of the consulting room and into<br />
the waiting room.<br />
I leapt from my chair and went to the door.<br />
“Mrs.G., your blouse!”<br />
Her reply of “What blouse?” was followed by a scream, and a rapid dash back<br />
through my consulting room, and into the examination cubicle, where she retrieved<br />
the aforesaid article of clothing.<br />
After the examination, she had sat in my desk side chair with only a bra on top, a<br />
<strong>com</strong>pletely natural situation as we were talking about, and further examining the<br />
spots on her chest. This natural situation had be<strong>com</strong>e unnatural the instant she<br />
walked out of the consulting room.<br />
With her blouse securely in place, but with a bright red face, she begged to be let<br />
out some other way, as she couldn’t face walking into the waiting room again.<br />
The fire escape door was opened, and she scurried down the back stairs, to car,<br />
home and safety, avoiding any further embarrassment.<br />
There was only one person in the waiting room, a middle aged workman. When he<br />
was called in for his consultation, he leered at me and looked carefully around for the<br />
apparition he had glimpsed a minute earlier. He spied the fire exit, l<strong>au</strong>ghed, and then<br />
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asked if my girl friend had forgotten which door to use, or had the floor show been<br />
for his entertainment.<br />
With my face now also several shades more red than usual, I got down to dealing<br />
with his problem as seriously as possible.<br />
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Wooden Ball<br />
She was a handsome, successful business woman in her early forties. Immaculately<br />
dressed in a tailored suit, wearing a subtle perfume, a gold broach at her throat, and<br />
fashionably expensive rings on several fingers, but not the left ring finger. The<br />
address on the chart was the other side of the city.<br />
Sitting in the chair by my desk, she was initially a bit flushed and flustered, but<br />
while I watched, she visibly <strong>com</strong>posed herself.<br />
“I have a very personal and embarrassing problem for which I require your strictly<br />
confidential assistance”.<br />
After assuring her that I would do my best to help her, and emphasising that all<br />
medical consultations were strictly confidential, she briefly outlined her problem.<br />
“There is something in my vagina that shouldn’t be there, and I can’t remove it.”<br />
Further enquiry elicited that what was present was a small wooden ball. It was<br />
indeed a very personal and embarrassing problem!<br />
Rather reluctantly, she climbed onto the examination couch and removed the<br />
innumerable layers of underclothing that well dressed ladies seem to wear. The<br />
vaginal speculum was inserted, and as she had stated, at the top of the vagina was a<br />
small, polished, smooth wooden ball. Coming from a small hole in the ball was a tiny<br />
fragment of frayed string.<br />
It appeared that the ball was being repeatedly popped into the vagina, and then<br />
withdrawn by the string, as a form of self stimulation - then the well used string<br />
broke.<br />
The ball’s size, shape and position made it impossible to grasp directly with any<br />
instrument at my disposal, but fortunately I was able to clip a fine artery forceps<br />
onto the remnant of string, and the speculum, forceps and ball were slowly<br />
withdrawn together.<br />
I placed the equipment on a side table. The patient arose, dressed herself, reached<br />
over and unclipped the forceps from the string, popped the ball in her handbag, and<br />
now <strong>com</strong>pletely under control and self confident again, she walked out with a curt<br />
“Thank you” as she passed me.<br />
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Self Portrait<br />
When you return to your surgery from lunch, and your staff start giggling the<br />
moment they see you, then it’s fair warning that something strange is happening. In<br />
between chuckles, I was told that there was a very special patient waiting on the<br />
couch in my consulting room. Suspiciously, I went to check.<br />
The staff were not wrong (they rarely are!). There she was, lying full length along<br />
the couch, smiling with her head propped up on one hand, and totally naked. She<br />
looked stunningly be<strong>au</strong>tiful.<br />
What in fact I saw was a magnificently executed, full length self portrait in oils of<br />
one of my regular patients, Miss G.. The painting had been propped very artistically<br />
and appropriately along the examination couch - my staff have style too!<br />
The face was a very accurate representation of Miss G., but from my recollection,<br />
the body was rather more lithe and attractive than I remembered from past<br />
examinations.<br />
Miss G. had been <strong>com</strong>ing for some months, she always seemed to have some<br />
excuse to drop into the surgery for one or other of numerous minor <strong>com</strong>plaints. On<br />
checking her record, I noted that these initially had been a mild sore throat or a<br />
bruised toe, but more recently, barely detectable breast lumps and insignificant<br />
gynaecological problems had required more detailed and personal examinations.<br />
She had confided in me that she was an artist, and trying to establish herself in the<br />
art world, but I also recalled that she was a lady of relatively poor intellect, and had<br />
gently queried her psychiatric stability. It may have been a pity that I hadn’t followed<br />
that hunch further.<br />
I had evidently expressed interest in art myself, and she had promised to bring in a<br />
picture to show me - this was it. There was no doubt that she was an excellent artist,<br />
and this one work of hers would have sold very easily in the right gallery, but my<br />
staff informed me that Miss G. intended this to be a personal gift from her to me.<br />
I had fallen into the trap she had set. She was infatuated with me, and I was in the<br />
extremely awkward situation of trying to return to her a very generous (and<br />
revealing) gift, while trying to keep both her, and the AMA’s ethics <strong>com</strong>mittee,<br />
happy. Patients’ who believe their initially wel<strong>com</strong>e (but unwanted) loving advances<br />
have been rejected by their doctor, are notorious for <strong>com</strong>plaining to ethical<br />
<strong>com</strong>mittees, medical boards and <strong>com</strong>plaint units about exaggerated and imagined<br />
incidents.<br />
Miss G. was phoned and asked to <strong>com</strong>e to the surgery. With one of my staff<br />
members present, Miss G’s artistic skill was effusively praised. She was told that her<br />
accurate representation of the human body was world class, and that she would be<br />
recognised as a great artist one day.<br />
Then came the (not so little) white lie - regulations governing the practices of<br />
doctors were very strict, and only gifts of small value could be accepted. This<br />
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painting was obviously worth hundreds, if not thousands of dollars, and was<br />
<strong>com</strong>pletely outside the limits set down by government (you can get away with<br />
blaming government for almost anything!). If she wanted to give me some fruit from<br />
her garden, some home made cakes, or even a bottle of wine, that would be<br />
marvellous, but the painting would just have to be taken back.<br />
Reluctantly, but while basking in my praise, she agreed to take the painting home.<br />
Her visits continued to be regular for a while, but a chaperone always seemed to<br />
appear during the consultation, or she was directed to the female doctor in the<br />
practice, until she suddenly stopped <strong>com</strong>ing and, like the painting, disappeared.<br />
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Permanent Markings<br />
There are some people who take a delight in permanently marking their bodies.<br />
These tattoos may be pictorial, or written messages, and their variety is as great as<br />
the human imagination. Their placement can also be quite extraordinary, and must<br />
have been quite painful when applied.<br />
A very large proportion of those with tattoos wish that they did not have them,<br />
and doctors who remove tattoos do a roaring trade. It would be appropriate for there<br />
to be a cooling off period before a tattoo is applied, so that they are not applied<br />
when the victim is drunk, as a dare, or without thought on the spur of the moment.<br />
In the last 25 years of practice, I have seen a large number of interesting body<br />
markings.<br />
I sometimes see tattoos on older people, who obviously wish that I hadn’t seen<br />
them, and unfortunately sometimes patients put off <strong>com</strong>ing to see a doctor bec<strong>au</strong>se<br />
they can’t avoid showing their markings. One example of this was the sweet little old<br />
lady who had suffered with a severe vaginal prolapse for years bec<strong>au</strong>se she was<br />
ashamed of the be<strong>au</strong>tifully tattooed rose garden she had growing out of the top of<br />
her (now scanty) pubic hair.<br />
Then there was the middle aged matron whose tattoo had not kept up with<br />
inflation. Above her pubic hair (the most <strong>com</strong>mon site for erotic tattoos in women)<br />
was her fee scale with the words “Toll $10” emblazoned in red.<br />
The younger the woman, the more titillating (or plainly pornographic) be<strong>com</strong>e the<br />
tattoos. One sweet young thing had “This way boys” and an arrow on her lower belly.<br />
A far more adventurous female (lady was not an appropriate word to use in reference<br />
to this patient) had her tattoos in a slightly different place, the crease where the top<br />
of the thigh joins the side of the pubic hair. On one side of her pubic area she had<br />
marked “Turn me over and”, and on the opposite was “try the other side”.<br />
Milder versions of lower abdominal tattoos abound, “Love nest” and “Pleasure<br />
pouch” could almost be described as romantic, but “Turn me on inside” left little to<br />
the imagination.<br />
Breasts are another site for tattoos. Nipples that form the centre of a tattooed<br />
flower are relatively <strong>com</strong>mon, as are tiny tattooed flowers on the breast itself. Some<br />
young women let her desires be known to all - in one case below one nipple was<br />
“Lick” and the other “Suck”. Yet another woman had one nipple with “Starter button”<br />
around it while the other one was neglected and bare.<br />
Tattoos are not, of course, limited to the female of the species, but men tend to<br />
wear their heart on their sleeve (or upper arm) with exotically dimensioned and<br />
unclad women adorning their biceps, often in a way that makes the tattoo art<br />
undulate in a sensuous manner when the biceps are flexed.<br />
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One rough, tough truckie unsuccessfully requested that the tetanus needle I was<br />
about to give him be placed in the anatomically appropriate part of the spread<br />
legged naked woman on his shoulder.<br />
The name, or names, of various maidens are also often tattooed on arms, but one<br />
very brave man had a series of about a dozen names tattooed along the shaft of his<br />
penis. One wonders what his new loves thought of the idea of being entered by his<br />
old loves!<br />
A more imaginative tattoo was that of a large naked woman on a man’s belly, with<br />
his navel at the spot that her pubic area would normally be seen. Another fellow in a<br />
similar vein had a voluptuous and naked tattooed maiden kissing each of his nipples.<br />
Over the years I have encountered many penises with tattoos. Those I recall<br />
include “Love knob”, “The piercer” (with an appropriate arrow), and one with a<br />
picture of a machine gun spitting bullets.<br />
Just try to imagine how some of the tattoos mentioned above will appear when<br />
the owner is eighty years old, and being looked after by young nurses in an old<br />
peoples’ home!<br />
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Three Balls<br />
Cancer of the prostate gland is a very <strong>com</strong>mon condition in elderly men, but<br />
relatively un<strong>com</strong>mon in middle age. Fortunately, the treatment is very successful, and<br />
a cure can normally be expected. When it does occur in younger men, it is often<br />
devastating to their sex life, as the treatment will require a <strong>com</strong>bination of surgery<br />
and hormone treatment that leaves them impotent.<br />
At eighty years of age, with a similar aged wife, impotence is of no great concern,<br />
but Mr.G was in his early fifties and had a wife fifteen years younger, and both wished<br />
the joys of marital bliss to continue for some time to <strong>com</strong>e.<br />
It was nearly a year since Mr.G had been operated upon for his cancer when he<br />
came to see me. He was quite distr<strong>au</strong>ght that he and his wife were unable to make<br />
love, and he feared that she may leave him for a younger man. I sent him to a plastic<br />
surgeon.<br />
Three months later, Mr.G was back again, this time with his wife. I knew from the<br />
surgeon’s letter that he had undergone an operation on his penis, but his visit was<br />
about some other matter. At the end of the consultation I asked him how everything<br />
was going now that he had fully recovered from the procedure.<br />
The smiles on the faces of both Mr. G. and his wife were a delight to behold.<br />
The penis contains two long, thin balloons that inflate with blood under high<br />
pressure to c<strong>au</strong>se an erection. Mr. G’s operation had involved two pencil shaped<br />
artificial balloons being placed into either side of his penis to replace the naturally<br />
occurring ones. A reservoir of fluid, that was the same shape and size as a normal<br />
testicle, had been placed in his scrotum (sack).<br />
To give himself an erection, he squeezed on the reservoir to pump fluid into the<br />
balloons, and the penis very obediently became instantly erect. To deflate, he<br />
pressed on a valve at the base of the penis, which let the fluid flow out of the penis<br />
and back into the reservoir.<br />
The system was working superbly, Mr.G. informed me. He could pump himself up,<br />
and delight his wife for as long as she liked, without any problems of not being able<br />
to keep it up for as long as she could take it. Sex had never been better. He could<br />
not actually ejaculate, but still had the sensation of orgasm, and all the other normal<br />
pleasurable sensations associated with sex.<br />
Then Mrs.G. spoke up, and not so coyly pointed out that he could never claim to<br />
be too tired now. All she had to do was roll over in bed, feel for the appropriate part<br />
of his anatomy, and pump him up, so that she could have him whenever she desired<br />
sex.<br />
Mr.G. was very quick to point out one small problem. Now that he had three balls,<br />
it was sometimes a bit of a lottery as to which one she squeezed. Provided the<br />
correct ball was chosen, everything was great, but if in the heat of the moment the<br />
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wrong ball was selected, squeezing had quite the opposite effect, and put him out of<br />
action for quite some time!<br />
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Abduction<br />
Mr. E, an airline pilot, had a most attractive, vivacious and somewhat precocious<br />
seventeen year old d<strong>au</strong>ghter, F., who had fallen head over heels in love with a man in<br />
his mid-twenties. F. was in the final year of her schooling, and Mr. E. thought that her<br />
school studies were more important than any man, let alone one whom he disliked<br />
intensely, and thought was far too old for his precious d<strong>au</strong>ghter. As a result, there<br />
was considerable friction in the home, as F. insisted upon seeing her love, regardless<br />
of parents, school or study.<br />
The day school finished, she disappeared.<br />
Her abrupt departure was reported to police, but initially F’s parents were hopeful<br />
that she had merely gone to schoolies week, but as time passed, they became more<br />
and more desperate.<br />
About six weeks after F’s disappearance, Mr. E. received a phone call in the early<br />
hours of the morning. It was his d<strong>au</strong>ghter, but the call lasted only a few seconds, as<br />
she was calling long distance and had only one coin. She was at a certain address in<br />
Melbourne’s St.Kilda, and she begged her father to <strong>com</strong>e and get her, but without<br />
notifying the police.<br />
Within minutes, Mr.E. was at the airport, and soon on a dawn flight to Melbourne.<br />
By the time a taxi had dropped him outside the St.Kilda address, he was in a fury, and<br />
being an ex-rugby second rower, he was not a small man who could be treated lightly.<br />
He had been dropped outside one of Melbourne’s notorious brothels, which at the<br />
time of this tale, were still illegal. At eight o’clock in the morning, brothels are not the<br />
liveliest of places, but Mr.E. soon changed that! He virtually tore the place apart<br />
looking for his d<strong>au</strong>ghter, but was unable to find her. He left, and despite his<br />
d<strong>au</strong>ghter’s warning, headed for the nearest police station in order to obtain further<br />
assistance.<br />
As he stormed down the street, his bedraggled d<strong>au</strong>ghter, dressed in only a T shirt<br />
(and absolutely nothing else) rushed out of a nearby park, where she had spent the<br />
night waiting for her father to appear. She was extremely frightened, hungry and<br />
cold.<br />
F. absolutely refused to go to the Melbourne police, but wanted to get out of the<br />
city as quickly as possible, so after a quick stop to buy some more clothing, she and<br />
her father were back on a plane headed home. Their first stop on arrival was my<br />
surgery, where the story unfolded.<br />
F. had been so infatuated with her smooth, but slimy boyfriend, that he had<br />
convinced her to run away with him - to Melbourne. Once there, she had been taken<br />
to the brothel, were initially he had sex with her, then his friends, and then he left her<br />
in the hands of even more frightening people, who forced her by threats and fear, to<br />
work as a prostitute.<br />
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She had not left the building since her arrival in Melbourne, until she managed to<br />
steal some coins from a client’s pocket, and fled through the front door when it was<br />
momentarily unguarded.<br />
When I saw her, F. was still shaking with fright and shock. She had been given a<br />
packet of condoms to use on her clients, but knowing little about such things, few<br />
had used them. She had not been given any other protection against pregnancy or<br />
venereal disease.<br />
Fortunately, she was not pregnant. The terror she was in may well have suspended<br />
ovulation to protect her in that way. She was not so lucky with regard to venereal<br />
disease, but her gonorrhoea and chlamydia responded to the appropriate treatment.<br />
Understandably, she became something of a home body for a while, and although<br />
the police were told her story, to the best of my knowledge, no one was ever<br />
charged over the incident.<br />
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Beware of Glass<br />
Teenagers of both sexes are known to experiment sexually, both on themselves<br />
and with each other (not necessarily to the point of intercourse). It is a natural part<br />
of growing up and learning about one’s own body, and provided it does not proceed<br />
too far, may be beneficial to the development of the individual. Unfortunately, this<br />
self experimentation can sometimes go horribly wrong.<br />
She was sixteen and lying on the couch in the hospital casualty looking extremely<br />
un<strong>com</strong>fortable. Dressed in a private school uniform, she had her legs drawn up and<br />
apart, with her skirt tucked in between her legs to preserve modesty.<br />
With pimples, straggly hair and glasses, she was not the most attractive of young<br />
women, but one couldn’t help feeling sorry for her as she lay there quietly crying.<br />
The story of her problem initially came from the teacher who had ac<strong>com</strong>panied her<br />
in the ambulance from school to the hospital.<br />
She had been in the toilets, cried out in pain, and stumbled out to the other girls<br />
present with terrible pains in her lower belly and blood streaming out of her vagina.<br />
She had been extremely distressed, and the school had not known how to cope with<br />
what appeared to be a very abnormal type of menstrual period, so an ambulance was<br />
called, and here she was.<br />
As it turns out, a woman doctor may have been more appropriate, but I was all<br />
that was available. Quietly, alone with her in the cubicle, I asked her what had<br />
happened.<br />
At first she just kept saying that she couldn’t tell me, but then she realised that if<br />
she was to get any help, I was her only chance. The story suddenly tumbled out.<br />
She had found that masturbation was pleasant, and at times, particularly when her<br />
friends were talking about the boyfriends she could not yet hope to have, she would<br />
retreat to a private place to stimulate herself. Normally she used just her finger, but<br />
a science class that morning had given her an idea.<br />
She had taken a glass test tube from the laboratory, and in the privacy of a toilet<br />
cubicle during the lunch break, had experimented on herself, using the smooth<br />
rounded glass tube as a dildo (artificial penis). Everything was great, until the test<br />
tube broke.<br />
Originally the test tube had been about fifteen centimetres long, and she had felt<br />
the outermost five centimetres suddenly disintegrate between her fingers. The rest<br />
was still inside her.<br />
As gently as possible, her vagina was examined, but almost any movement c<strong>au</strong>sed<br />
severe pain, and aggravated the steady flow of bright blood. The jagged remnants of<br />
test tube glass were digging into her vagina.<br />
A general anaesthetic was arranged, and with great difficulty, the vagina was<br />
spread open, the razor edged slivers of glass removed, and the lacerated vagina<br />
repaired.<br />
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Fortunately, the vagina, in order to recover from the tr<strong>au</strong>mas of childbirth, is one<br />
of the fastest and best healing parts of the body, and no long term problems would<br />
result from this science experiment that went extraordinarily wrong.<br />
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Educational Video<br />
Everyone has to do everything for the first time at some stage, and this includes<br />
doctors. There is the first patient to examine, the first injection to give, the first cut<br />
to sew up, the first appendicectomy to perform - and of course the first Pap smear<br />
and first breast examination.<br />
Medical students can practice interviewing patients by using each other as role<br />
models, injections are practised on oranges, foam rubber cuts are sewn together, and<br />
the appendicectomy is done under close supervision with the patient anaesthetised<br />
and unaware of the student’s presence. Pap smears and breast checks are slightly<br />
different.<br />
There is no suitable alternative to the female vagina and breasts, and it is the rare<br />
patient who would allow a medical student to fumble about with their private parts,<br />
while a supervising doctor gives instructions. Most patients are even un<strong>com</strong>fortable<br />
about having students watch these procedures.<br />
As a result of this problem, I was asked by the local medical school to prepare a<br />
video demonstrating to students how these procedures were performed. As I already<br />
worked with the media, I decided to educate not only the medical students, but the<br />
general public as well.<br />
A major television network agreed to film the entire procedure for both a Pap<br />
smear and breast examination, but broadcast only those shots that were<br />
aesthetically (and legally) permissible in a woman’s show in order to promote<br />
women’s health.<br />
I now had a doctor (myself) and a television crew, but no female subject. This was<br />
the difficult part. Previously I had no trouble obtaining patients to be filmed<br />
demonstrating their leg rash, bumpy joints or chickenpox spots, but having your<br />
most private parts ogled by medical students, and broadcast nation wide, is not<br />
something that appeals to your average young woman.<br />
Emphasising that at no stage would their face be filmed, I tentatively approached a<br />
few of my more relaxed patients (who have been wary of me ever since), my wife<br />
(yes, we’re still happily married), my receptionists (way outside their job description),<br />
and even a couple of female doctors (appealing to their sense of duty was totally<br />
ineffective). Agencies who looked after models and actresses were next approached -<br />
some were firmly polite, while others hung up in my ear.<br />
Time was running out, as the film crew had been booked for a half day the next<br />
week, when the obvious answer finally came to mind. The classified advertisements<br />
of the weekend paper provided the phone numbers for a number of escort services,<br />
and with one phone call I had a young woman who would undertake the task for an<br />
appropriate fee.<br />
At the appointed time, she arrived at the surgery, where the film crew were<br />
already busy setting up their equipment. I took Tessa into the consulting room, and<br />
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explained in detail what would be expected of her. She was disappointed that she<br />
could not show her face, or otherwise advertise her services while on camera, and<br />
was quite relaxed about the procedure, which <strong>com</strong>pared to the kinky requests from<br />
her regular clients, was quite routine.<br />
Tessa was attractive and well dressed, and we walked together into the<br />
examination room where I introduced her to the film crew of four men. She politely<br />
shook hands with them, and without further ado, and with remarkable alacrity,<br />
slipped off every stitch of clothing and hopped onto the couch.<br />
The producer was quite laid back and just enjoyed the view, the cameraman found<br />
he just couldn’t focus properly and kept rubbing his eyes, the sound man couldn’t<br />
hold the microphone steady for some minutes, but the best reaction came from the<br />
“best boy” (ie: young dogsbody). He was about seventeen, and had obviously never<br />
seen anything like this outside his wildest dreams. His chin hit his chest, his mouth<br />
stretched open, his eyes visibly bulged forward, and he became quite short of breath.<br />
He was useless for the rest of the morning.<br />
The filming proceeded, with the usual multiple takes and shots to make sure<br />
everything was perfect. Never were breasts more examined, and Tessa had more Pap<br />
smears performed in four hours than most women have in several lifetimes, but<br />
finally all was done.<br />
We were all tired, hot and sweaty (for various reasons), but Tessa was as cool as a<br />
cucumber as she rose from the couch, redressed, shook hands all round again, put<br />
the cheque in her purse and strolled out to her car. The crew retired to the nearest<br />
pub to recover over a refreshing ale.<br />
A few weeks later the producer had finished cutting the film into sections for the<br />
medical students, broadcast to the public, and the station bucks night.<br />
The University now has an excellent educational video, so that medical students<br />
can approach their first patients with confidence and less embarrassment all round,<br />
the women of Australia have received some appropriate health education, and a<br />
young “best boy” has a day he will never forget.<br />
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Anti-Climax<br />
Some days are designed to be boring in general practice, most are interesting, but<br />
some involve high drama. This day was very much of the last type.<br />
Mrs.R. phoned while I had my last patient of the morning with me. Something in her<br />
tone of voice made the receptionist interrupt the consultation with her phone call.<br />
“Doctor, I need you to <strong>com</strong>e to my place, now!”<br />
Again the tone of voice, without any further information, made me say that I would<br />
be right over. I knew that she had been having some marital problems with her<br />
temperamental husband, but couldn’t think of any other crises in her life.<br />
Mrs.R. actually lived across the road from the surgery, so as soon as the<br />
consultation finished, I grabbed my bag and walked across the street. The front door<br />
was open, and I called out.<br />
“Down the end of the hall in the bedroom, doctor”.<br />
I became uneasy, something wasn’t quite right, but I walked down the hall, and into<br />
the main bedroom.<br />
Mrs.R. was sitting on the double bed. Mr.R. was standing in the far corner of the<br />
room. He had a rifle, and he was pointing it at me. When he told me to sit on the bed<br />
beside his wife, I didn’t argue.<br />
It is quite amazing how large the muzzle of a small bore rifle appears to be when it<br />
is pointing at your head. Mr.R. was ranting and raving about his feckless and<br />
unfaithful wife, and how she confided in me, so I must be colluding with her. She very<br />
bravely (but foolishly) answered back with other insults, and there had obviously<br />
been a good argument in progress before I had arrived.<br />
I madly tried to remember the details of every crisis counselling lecture I had ever<br />
heard in years past. Unfortunately, my mind remained quite blank.<br />
Quietly talking, neither agreeing or disagreeing with him, I slowly stopped the<br />
arguing between husband and wife. Every time Mrs.R. started to speak I gave her a<br />
dig in the ribs with my elbow to make her keep quiet. She soon got the message.<br />
Eventually the conversation was a quiet one, with me sympathising with Mr.R’s<br />
many problems at home, work and with society generally. He sat on the dressing<br />
table, and with relief I noted that the rifle was now pointing at my toes rather than<br />
my head.<br />
After half an hour or so, I tentatively suggested that Mrs.R. should go and make us<br />
a cup of tea, as all this talking was thirsty work. Mr.R. didn’t disagree (in fact he said<br />
nothing), so Mrs.R. slowly walked out of the room - and then rapidly shot out the<br />
front door and across the road to my surgery. A cup of tea for me and her husband<br />
was not on her mind. Mr.R. didn’t seem to notice that she hadn’t returned as we<br />
continued our talk.<br />
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Fifteen minutes later (it seemed more like hours), I heard several sirens in the<br />
distance, that stopped just after they came within ear shot. I hoped they were a sign<br />
of help on the way.<br />
Mr.R. was crying now, and the rifle was across his knees. I kept talking in a<br />
soothing way, gradually changed my position on the bed, and eventually sat on the<br />
end of the bed so that we faced each other with our knees almost touching. Still I<br />
kept talking (I’ve no idea what about) in the quietest and most soothing tones that I<br />
could muster. I needed that cup of tea though, my throat was getting very dry and<br />
husky.<br />
Eventually I swung round, sat beside Mr.R. on the dresser, and put my arm around<br />
his shoulders. I suggested that we go out to the kitchen and make ourselves a cup of<br />
tea. With some slight urging he agreed, and as we stood, I put my hand around the<br />
barrel of the rifle, and he let me take it out of his hands.<br />
With my arm around his shoulders, we walked out to the kitchen, and I sat him at<br />
the breakfast table while I turned on the kettle. Still holding the rifle in the other<br />
hand, I clattered some cups and s<strong>au</strong>cers out of a cupboard, then as naturally as<br />
possible, just walked passed him and out the front door.<br />
One gun muzzle pointed at my head was enough, now I had half a dozen. The<br />
police SWAT team had arrived, and I was temporarily their target, as I was carrying a<br />
rifle. As I raised my hands, someone called “That’s the doctor!” and the police guns<br />
were lowered.<br />
I walked over to the nearest flak jacket clad policeman, handed him the rifle, then<br />
walked back inside to continue my talk with Mr.R.<br />
He agreed to be admitted to a psychiatric hospital, and ended up leaving in an<br />
ambulance rather than a police car.<br />
I walked back across the road to start my afternoon surgery, but the first half<br />
dozen patients kept looking at me peculiarly, and a couple asked me why my hands<br />
were shaking so much.<br />
No, it wasn’t the booze, just an anti-climax.<br />
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German S<strong>au</strong>sage<br />
When a man is sexually stimulated, the penis be<strong>com</strong>es hard and erect. The reason<br />
for this is that the penis is inflated with blood under high pressure. The veins that<br />
drain blood away from the penis go into spasm to prevent any blood from leaving it,<br />
and small s<strong>au</strong>sage-like balloons within the penis are pumped full of blood by the<br />
arteries supplying the penis, which remain open and do not go into spasm.<br />
The penis cannnot be made erect by voluntary effort, but only by an extremely<br />
<strong>com</strong>plex series of physiological actions that occur in response to the correct stimuli.<br />
The size of the penis does not affect the sexual performance of the man, but folk<br />
lore (or street law) makes most men believe that the larger the penis, the more of a<br />
man they are. As a result, techniques that purport to act upon the penis to enlarge<br />
it, prolong an erection, or allow more frequent erections, are sometimes tried, no<br />
matter how ridiculous or dangerous these techniques may be.<br />
Teenagers are notorious for boasting about their prowess in all areas of activity.<br />
Their supposed sexual conquests, and the huge size of their erect penis are not<br />
exempt from this boasting. Sometimes a young man’s bluff may be called, and this is<br />
what happened to D.<br />
In an attempt to impress his peers, he had made outrageous claims about the size<br />
of his erection, and now he had to prove his claims. He had heard that a thick rubber<br />
band applied around the base of the penis with only a mild amount of pressure may<br />
be sufficient to c<strong>au</strong>se a large erection. This technique works by closing off the low<br />
pressure veins, and allowing the penis to fill with blood through the high pressure<br />
arteries.<br />
Unfortunately, D. took the procedure too far. He used a <strong>com</strong>plex knot to tie a thin,<br />
braided nylon cord firmly around the base of his penis. This totally cut off the return<br />
of blood through the veins, and with a mild amount of sexual stimulation, he had a<br />
very impressive erection.<br />
As the penis be<strong>com</strong>es erect, it not only enlarges length wise, but in diameter as<br />
well, so the cord became buried in the flesh at the base of the penis. Blood continued<br />
to pump in, but still none could escape.<br />
After reaching its normal full erect size, D’s penis continued to enlarge, not any<br />
more in length, but in diameter. It also started to turn a dark blue colour. He had<br />
impressed his voyeuristic friends, but now he couldn’t untie the buried knot, or even<br />
get at the cord to cut it. The penis became painful, and then agonising, and was in<br />
imminent danger of being seriously damaged.<br />
He staggered into the surgery in a half crouch. The look of anguish on his face had<br />
him past the other waiting patients and into my presence in a flash.<br />
Instantly the door closed, he dropped his shorts, and he showed me what looked<br />
like a large, black German s<strong>au</strong>sage, but was really his penis almost at the point of<br />
being unsalvageable.<br />
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The nylon cord, buried deep in the swollen flesh, was only reached with<br />
considerable difficulty, and scissors couldn’t get a grip on the slippery, but strong<br />
fibre.<br />
Most doctors face a similar problem with finger injuries and rings. The finger may<br />
be<strong>com</strong>e swollen, and the ring may be impossible to remove, threatening the viability<br />
of the finger in the same way that the cord threatened D’s penis. An instrument that<br />
is normally used to cut through a ring to save a finger was called upon to save D’s<br />
manhood.<br />
The slim metal guard of the ring cutter was slipped under the cord with difficulty,<br />
then the knife edged wheel was clamped down with the cord between it and the<br />
guard. The wheel was then rotated with a small handle, and sliced through the cord in<br />
seconds.<br />
D’s sigh of instant relief was <strong>au</strong>dible, but it still took an hour in a side room with a<br />
warm pack on the penis for the organ to subside to the point where it was<br />
recognisable.<br />
He was extremely lucky that no permanent damage resulted, and will probably<br />
regard black German s<strong>au</strong>sages with horror for the rest of his life.<br />
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Ambulance Ride<br />
The call came into the ambulance depot in the coastal city at 10am in the morning.<br />
A miner had fallen down a shaft at a remote camp 150km. inland. He had been<br />
rescued, but the other miners were afraid to move him further, and an ambulance<br />
was needed to transport him out. One was promptly dispatched.<br />
An hour or so later, the conventional ambulance that had been sent radioed in that<br />
it had slid off the rough mountain track, and was severely damaged. A replacement<br />
ambulance and a tow truck were required. This time a four wheel drive ambulance<br />
was dispatched, which anyone knowing the track, would have known was appropriate<br />
in the first place.<br />
In the middle of that afternoon I was phoned by the ambulance depot. The 4WD<br />
ambulance had reached the injured miner, but he had deteriorated as they were<br />
bringing him down the mountain. They wanted to be met by a doctor to administer<br />
emergency treatment.<br />
A third ambulance, with me aboard, now headed inland along the bitumen at high<br />
speed.<br />
I had no real idea of what was wrong with the miner, but I sympathised with the<br />
ambulance driver c<strong>au</strong>tiously moving down the steep, slippery, twisting mountain<br />
track. I had explored it a few months earlier in my own Land-Rover and knew it to be<br />
extremely difficult and treacherous. The ambulance report said that he had multiple<br />
wounds, was vomiting, and semi-conscious. I kept running over in my mind the<br />
procedures necessary for the revival of acutely injured patients.<br />
The steep ranges loomed out of the plain ahead, and we soon had radio contact<br />
with the other rapidly approaching ambulance. They had reached the foot of the<br />
range, and were making good time on the flat dirt road across the plain.<br />
The bitumen petered out, so I told the driver of my ambulance to stop at the side<br />
of the road and wait for our patient while I prepared my equipment. A drip was set up<br />
and run through, drugs were drawn up into syringes, and almost immediately we<br />
could see the cloud of dust approaching in the distance.<br />
The 4WD drive ambulance pulled to a stop beside us. I was in the back in a flash.<br />
The patient said “G’day doc”, but I didn’t notice as I slipped in the drip and started<br />
examining him. The ambulances headed back to the city in convoy.<br />
My patient seemed to be in remarkably good cheer. He was talking normally, and<br />
replied to my questions about the accident. He had slid down a thirty metre inclined<br />
shaft, and (fortunately for him) not a vertical one.<br />
He asked to be sat up. After examining him carefully, I allowed the back of the<br />
stretcher to be raised so that he was half sitting, and could see the road rapidly<br />
disappearing through the back window of the vehicle. He almost sighed with relief to<br />
be in this position.<br />
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My examination had revealed a vast multitude of relatively minor grazes and<br />
bruises, which looked terrible, and were painful to the patient, but would all heal well<br />
in due course. He also had a tender, swollen ankle.<br />
I asked him about his vomiting, belly pains and semi-<strong>com</strong>atose state.<br />
Imagine being placed flat on a hard couch, then swung from side to side, bounced<br />
and bumped while the couch is tilted head down. The vast majority of people would<br />
be<strong>com</strong>e n<strong>au</strong>seated, vomit, have tummy pains and be<strong>com</strong>e disoriented. This is what<br />
had happened to the miner lying in the back of the ambulance while it descended a<br />
rough, steep track. He was suffering from severe motion sickness!<br />
Three ambulances and their crews, a tow truck, plus one doctor and many hours of<br />
work resulted in a patient with a sprained ankle, bruises and grazes being evacuated<br />
safely to hospital.<br />
No-one should be blamed (except the dispatcher who sent a conventional<br />
ambulance up a rough track), as the situation could have involved a seriously ill<br />
victim with back and head injuries. Many emergency evacuations end in such a<br />
manner, and no one involved in such a situation should feel guilty for over reacting.<br />
It is far better to be sure than sorry.<br />
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Doctor’s Bag<br />
In the mid-1970s, when I was barely out of nappies as a medico, I headed off to<br />
the United Kingdom to experience the big wide world and learn a bit of general<br />
practice in an environment where I could not harm my reputation too much.<br />
One of my first jobs was in one of the less salubrious parts of Portsmouth on the<br />
south coast of England. Aussie locums always ended up with the worst jobs, and this<br />
was no exception. Never the less, I was determined to make my mark, and do my bit<br />
the best way I could.<br />
The first thing any principal in general practice does, is give the locum all the jobs<br />
he doesn’t want to do - such as home visits.<br />
As I was very new at all this, I wasn’t properly kitted out, so I found myself with an<br />
<strong>com</strong>plementary airline carry-on bag full of emergency medicines, pen, torch, assorted<br />
other medical equipment and a brand new script pad, visiting the elderly and sick.<br />
This did not strike me as being very professional, so after making some enquiries<br />
from the practice manager, I found my way to a surgical supply shop in the city.<br />
On a high and dusty shelf they had one long forgotten doctor’s bag. Now this<br />
wasn’t just any ordinary bag, but one that may have well been in stock from before<br />
the world war (which one I cannot determine). It had a wooden frame, a couple of big<br />
drawers, and lots of little polished wooden drawers (one of which slid out to reveal a<br />
row of small glass bottles, whose purpose totally eluded me). It was covered in thick,<br />
shiny black leather, had locks which closed with a purposeful clunk, and weighed half<br />
a ton. If this didn’t make me look like a proper GP, nothing would.<br />
This bag has ac<strong>com</strong>panied me everywhere ever since, and is so solid it has served<br />
many other purposes. It is often used as a stool while I sit beside a patient’s bed, and<br />
on one occasion was used as a prop for a jack when I had to change a wheel in an<br />
awkward location in the middle of the Nullabor Plain. Other than a few scratches to<br />
the leather, it stood the test of time very well.<br />
Normally it resided permanently in the boot of my car, but a year or so ago it was<br />
thrown hastily onto the back seat rather than being placed in the boot, and so<br />
became visible to prying eyes. On returning to my car in the underground car park at<br />
my surgery, I found a side window of my car smashed, and the bag missing. It was a<br />
very sad day in my professional life.<br />
After reporting the theft to the police, and vaguely hoping it might turn up, I<br />
eventually succumbed and purchased a modern, light, fake leather covered doctor’s<br />
bag. It was very practical, but it didn’t have that same <strong>au</strong>ra of Victorian <strong>au</strong>thority,<br />
and you certainly couldn’t sit on it at the bedside.<br />
Almost a year later, the police at a town about 50km. from my surgery phoned.<br />
Had I lost a doctor’s bag? It seems a local fisherman, casting his line in a muddy river,<br />
had c<strong>au</strong>ght a snag, and after laboriously h<strong>au</strong>ling in, found he had c<strong>au</strong>ght my doctor’s<br />
bag. Almost all the contents were still present, although ruined, but a final analysis<br />
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revealed that a few ampoules of narcotics and benzos, and my script pad were<br />
missing. Fortunately the name on my letterheads was still legible, and the owner was<br />
found.<br />
I now had a very sorry excuse for a doctor’s bag. Full of mud, wooden frame and<br />
drawers swollen and distorted, leather stained and the little drawer of tiny glass<br />
bottles missing. It was put in the garage and forgotten.<br />
One of my d<strong>au</strong>ghters found it several months later. It had dried out, and although<br />
looking sad, could be repaired. She cleaned and polished it, put distorted bits into a<br />
bench vise for a few weeks, sanded and varnished the wood, oiled the locks, and<br />
restocked it appropriately.<br />
As a special present I have been given back my faithful old doctor’s bag, and now I<br />
feel like a proper GP again.<br />
All I need to do is keep working on those arm and back muscles so that I can carry<br />
it easily through those long nursing home corridors without sagging to one side.<br />
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Split Asunder<br />
K. didn’t just enjoy sex, she adored it, revelled in it, and lived for it! It was her<br />
reason for being.<br />
She was a small, attractive, vivacious, nineteen year old single mother, and lived in<br />
cheap rented ac<strong>com</strong>modation with her two year old d<strong>au</strong>ghter, whom she cared for<br />
and looked after well.<br />
Although otherwise sparsely furnished, on my visits to see her asthmatic d<strong>au</strong>ghter<br />
(she did not own a car), I noted the magnificent king sized water bed in the<br />
mistress’s pleasure chamber (bedroom would be a totally inadequate description).<br />
K. had frequent changes of partner, exh<strong>au</strong>sting one after another with her<br />
demands. There was always a man hanging around the house, but never the same<br />
one. These men always seemed to have a quiet smile on their faces, and K. was<br />
always forth<strong>com</strong>ing in telling me why. She felt she had to tell someone about her<br />
latest encounter, and as a person who was bound by the ethical code of medical<br />
silence, she was happy to unburden herself to me, apparently reliving the pleasures<br />
as she did so.<br />
K’s life was an erotic dream, with one sensual pleasure following another, until one<br />
fateful night when everything went horribly wrong.<br />
Her new man was endowed with a small ring through his foreskin, and this<br />
ornament added extra pleasure to an encounter that became steadily more<br />
gymnastic and athletic.<br />
Suddenly, K experienced excruciating pain that stopped all activity instantly, and<br />
this was followed by a torrent of blood that continued unabated. I was summoned<br />
from home.<br />
At the surgery, with the new boyfriend pacing nervously in the waiting room, I<br />
carefully examined K’s private (or relatively private) parts.<br />
There was a deep ragged gash about 4cm. long across her vulva and into her<br />
vagina. Blood was oozing steadily from the wound. She had effectively been given an<br />
episiotomy, the type of cut that doctors make to enlarge the opening of the birth<br />
canal to ease the delivery of the baby’s head during childbirth.<br />
During their vigorous encounter, her boyfriend’s penile ring had presumably<br />
be<strong>com</strong>e twisted in the soft flesh of the vulva, and with the subsequent thrust, he had<br />
split her asunder.<br />
Half an hour of careful suturing ensued, and eventually she was as good as new<br />
again, but I strongly suspect that she will be extraordinarily c<strong>au</strong>tious about any other<br />
boyfriends who decorate the most essential part of their anatomy (by K’s desire)<br />
with any jewellry.<br />
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The <strong>Secret</strong>ary Factor<br />
W. strode into the surgery in a very purposeful manner. A successful businessman<br />
in his early forties, he knew what he wanted, was determined to get it, and would<br />
take no nonsense on the way. He intended to treat this medical consultation in the<br />
same way as a business negotiation, as he was familiar and confidant with the latter,<br />
but not the former. The problem would be dealt with on his terms or not at all.<br />
W. came straight to the point. He had recently been on a business trip to Bangkok,<br />
and since his return had developed a yellow discharge from his penis and it hurt to<br />
urinate. He believed he had picked up some obscure tropical disease from an insect<br />
bite.<br />
Knowing the reputation of this southeast Asian flesh pot, I asked him if he had any<br />
sexual contacts while in the vicinity of the infamous Patpong Rd.<br />
He initially expressed surprise at such an intimate question. How could I suspect<br />
that he, a respectable representative of a major Australian <strong>com</strong>pany could do such a<br />
thing.<br />
Pointing out to him that 99.99% of penile discharges were c<strong>au</strong>sed by sex, and that<br />
I was not aware of any mosquito born disease that could be responsible for such a<br />
condition, bought forward a form of confession.<br />
His business partner had dared him to go with a bar girl while he was there. It was<br />
brief, business like (naturally), and not very enjoyable. Unfortunately, the degree of<br />
pleasure has no relationship to the risk of venereal disease.<br />
The offending organ was examined, a swab of the discharge was taken, and he was<br />
given a prescription for the medication that was most likely to be effective in curing<br />
the problem. I suspected he had gonorrhoea. He was also given a form for blood<br />
tests to check for more serious venereal diseases.<br />
Then came the really nasty question - “Have you had sex with your wife since you<br />
returned from Bangkok?”<br />
Of course he had, his wife had naturally needed such activity (according to him<br />
anyway) after he had been away for two weeks. Why shouldn’t he have sex with his<br />
wife?<br />
When I explained that she had probably c<strong>au</strong>ght his venereal disease too, he started<br />
to deflate. Further explanation followed. She would have to be told about his<br />
indiscretion in Bangkok, she would have to be seen by a doctor too, and she would<br />
almost certainly require the same treatment. If she did not present to a doctor for<br />
treatment, she could be<strong>com</strong>e sterile and seriously ill, and he would catch the<br />
gonorrhoea back from her the next time they had sex. There was no alternative, both<br />
partners must receive adequate treatment.<br />
In an attempt to help him I said that hopefully she would forgive him this one<br />
indiscretion. My reply was a withering stare.<br />
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With his prescription and blood test form clutched in one hand, and strict<br />
instructions to tell his wife and return for the pathology results in three days, he<br />
headed for the door.<br />
With his hand on the door knob he p<strong>au</strong>sed and turned. Plaintively he asked “Do I<br />
have to tell my secretary too?”<br />
It took a few seconds for the penny to drop in my unsuspecting brain.<br />
“Have you had sex with her?”<br />
“Yes, but only once this week”<br />
He now had two women to talk to.<br />
He left the surgery with shoulders drooping and none of the determination and<br />
bounce to his step with which he had arrived.<br />
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The ABBA Fan<br />
There are some patients whom you wish would just go away and never return. Mr.<br />
P was such a person.<br />
He was grossly obese, weighing well over the 140Kg. limit of my surgery scales,<br />
and would have shamed any Japanese sumo wrestler. His ten year old car had a<br />
permanent lean to the right, as the springs on that side had long since abandoned<br />
any hope of coping with the massive forces from above. He was also rough and<br />
strong, and doors, chairs, pens, magazines and other objects with which he came into<br />
contact in the surgery waiting room, were never the same again.<br />
Mr. P was not overly familiar with soap and water, and a <strong>com</strong>bination of heat,<br />
sweat, and obesity gave him a body odour that made most people cross the street in<br />
an attempt to avoid him. His breath was even worse, a problem accentuated by the<br />
medication he had to take on a regular basis. His problems worsened whenever he<br />
stopped his medication, bec<strong>au</strong>se Mr. P. was stark raving mad, and only a handful of<br />
pills every day kept him under some degree of control.<br />
Unfortunately, Mr. P frequently neglected to take his pills, and I would be called<br />
upon to sign the appropriate papers to have him certified, and taken away by the<br />
police to the nearest psychiatric hospital.<br />
I always felt very sorry for the police in this situation, as manhandling a massive<br />
madman into the back seat of a patrol car that was not much smaller than Mr. P, was<br />
no easy task.<br />
After he was released from hospital, back on his medication, he would storm into<br />
the surgery, send the receptionist scurrying for cover under the desk, and demand to<br />
see me.<br />
Provided the air freshener was in good supply, we actually got on reasonably well<br />
as doctor and patient, and had some quite interesting discussions.<br />
He enjoyed sex, but had to pay for it, as no woman in her right mind would go<br />
anywhere near him under normal circumstances. I admired the intestinal fortitude of<br />
the prostitutes he hired (presumably at premium rates) even more than I admired the<br />
police for their efforts with him.<br />
On one of his visits to me he asked for a very private operation - he wanted his<br />
penis enlarged by a factor of three or four times. He had been very put out the night<br />
before when his hired girl had been unable to utilise his penis under mountainous<br />
mounds and rolls of fat. He did not want this to happen again! He thought my idea<br />
that it might be easier to make the rest of him smaller, than one vital part larger, was<br />
quite stupid.<br />
Mr. P. is no longer one of my patients, and I have no idea what has be<strong>com</strong>e of him,<br />
but our last encounter was quite memorable.<br />
I was woken by a phone call from one of his neighbours at two in the morning. Mr.<br />
P was having one of his turns, could I <strong>com</strong>e and put him away again.<br />
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It was not difficult to find his home, the flashing lights of the police cars and<br />
ambulances lit up the street, every neighbour within a kilometre was curbside, and<br />
the music from Mr. P’s extraordinarily powerful tape deck was booming out across<br />
the suburb.<br />
Mr. P was having a ball, to the grossly magnified reverberations of his favourite<br />
rock group, ABBA, he was dancing on the steep roof of his two storied house - and<br />
he was stark naked.<br />
The site of those hundreds of kilos of naked flesh quivering and jiggling in the<br />
police spot light to the tune of Money, Money, Money was too much entertainment to<br />
be resisted by anyone, and the event is still recalled in awe by residents years later.<br />
It took over an hour, and the assistance of the fire brigade and the emergency<br />
rescue squad to retrieve him from the roof. When the music was turned off he<br />
became quite aggressive, and when he finally reached ground level and was in the<br />
grip of a dozen or so police and fireman, an injection into a vein of five times the<br />
normal dose of sedative finally slowed him down just enough to stuff him into the<br />
back of an ambulance which had its stretchers removed. He lay naked on the vehicle<br />
floor looking like a beached albino whale.<br />
Slowly, with creaking springs, the ambulance took him yet again to the psychiatric<br />
hospital for what I assume was a very long stay.<br />
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Size & Frequency<br />
Some people are tall, others short. Some have big noses, others small noses. The<br />
dimensions of human beings, and their various parts, can vary significantly from one<br />
person to another, and those parts of the anatomy that are used for sexual activity<br />
in both males and females, are no exception to this rule.<br />
There are some incidents in general practice which recur repeatedly, and cannot be<br />
related to any one person, time or place. The consultations I have had over the years<br />
regarding genital dimensions are innumerable.<br />
In a young woman’s mind, the perception of the erect male penis may be<strong>com</strong>e<br />
quite distorted. Sex education classes may clinically give the average dimensions of<br />
an erect penis, but school girl chatter may exaggerate this to proportions that are<br />
quite beyond the bounds of probability.<br />
The poor girl may have always had trouble using tampons, which are relatively thin<br />
and short, and she may have examined herself internally. She cannot perceive how<br />
she could ever fit a huge penis into such a small space, and she soon believes that<br />
she has an extremely short vagina, as she can feel her cervix only a short distance<br />
away from her vaginal opening.<br />
This be<strong>com</strong>es very embarrassing, and she may resist getting involved with anyone<br />
until the problem is surgically fixed, or she may fear that she is doomed to live a<br />
sexless life alone. Sometimes she has had sex once and found it painful and<br />
unsuccessful, again a relatively <strong>com</strong>mon occurrence for the first few times. This is<br />
due to lack of experience, nervousness, lack of natural lubrication (the probable<br />
c<strong>au</strong>se of pain) and the tearing of any remnant of the hymen. When you first learn to<br />
ride a bike, you tend to wobble and fall a few times, but after a short time, you can<br />
ride smoothly along a straight line. Sex can be considered in the same way - practice<br />
makes perfect.<br />
Examination of these women is essential, but almost invariably the advice is not to<br />
despair, as they are <strong>com</strong>pletely normal in size.<br />
The vagina is a very elastic and expandable pouch of tissue. It tends to be the<br />
mirror image of the penis. When sexually aroused, the male penis enlarges, and so<br />
does the female vagina. During sex, the cervix is pushed forward and out of the way,<br />
so that the vagina can expand naturally to ac<strong>com</strong>modate the penis. It is not<br />
appropriate for a woman to judge the capacity of her vagina when she is not sexually<br />
aroused.<br />
The reverse, and more <strong>com</strong>mon problem, is the sensitive concern of a young man<br />
about the size of his penis. This can be a serious issue of embarrassment and poor<br />
self-image while growing up. They all <strong>com</strong>e asking for a treatment or technique that<br />
can be used to make the penis larger. I have seen an erect penis that is only 3cm.<br />
long, but I don’t believe any claims when it <strong>com</strong>es to maximum sizes.<br />
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A small penis has no effect upon a man’s ability to father children, and continued<br />
reassurance on this point may help the patient gain confidence in their “manhood”.<br />
The size of the penis does not determine whether a man is a good lover or not.<br />
Women appreciate the foreplay and fondling as much as the sex act itself, and if a<br />
man can be<strong>com</strong>e skilled in the former, they will keep any woman happy. Even during<br />
intercourse, the most sensitive part of a woman’s sexual organs are the clitoris,<br />
which is at the outside entrance to the vagina, and the so-called “G spot” which is<br />
just inside, and on the front wall of the vagina, at a point where even the shortest<br />
penis can give stimulation.<br />
As a last resort, if they really do want to <strong>com</strong>pete with others in size, there is an<br />
apparatus available from “marital aid” shops that if used carefully, may help slowly<br />
and slightly enlarge the penis. These involve a tube that is placed over the penis, and<br />
a pump that creates a vacuum - I will leave the rest to your imagination. There is also<br />
a plastic surgery technique available, but it is very rarely used.<br />
No man, regardless of penile size, should underestimate their sexual prowess, as<br />
most will be able to satisfy the sexual appetite of any woman if she is approached in<br />
the right way.<br />
In a related vein, I recall the shy sixteen year old who presented with a cold, or<br />
some other minor problem, before she finally got around to the main point of the<br />
consultation.<br />
She was taking the oral contraceptive pill, and was having no problems, but was a<br />
little confused about one point. If she had sex with six different boys in a night, did<br />
she have to take six of the contraceptive pills, or was one still enough?<br />
I calmly (I think) assured her that one was adequate, regardless how frequently, or<br />
how promiscuously, she undertook sexual activity.<br />
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Vasectomy Revenge<br />
Most men are convinced (blackmailed?) into having a vasectomy by their wives.<br />
The woman feels that she has had the children, she has taken responsibility for<br />
contraception in the past, and now it is time for the male to do something positive to<br />
prevent further children.<br />
Most men are scared stiff of having a vasectomy, as they are not quite sure if it<br />
will affect their libido and masculinity, let alone know what happens to the hormones<br />
and sperm. Will sex still be enjoyable? Will they still ejaculate? All these questions,<br />
and more, pour forth at any consultation regarding this operation.<br />
The male hormones which establish and maintain masculinity are produced in the<br />
testicles. These hormones are not affected in any way by a vasectomy as they enter<br />
the blood stream directly from the testes and continue to function normally.<br />
The man's ejaculation is not affected either, as the seminal (sperm nourishing) fluid<br />
from the sperm storage sac (seminal vesicle) in the groin is passed as normal.<br />
The sperm continue to be produced in the testes, but as they cannot pass down<br />
the sperm tube, these microscopic particles die and are absorbed into the body<br />
without c<strong>au</strong>sing any problems.<br />
A man is not immediately sterile after the operation. Bec<strong>au</strong>se sperm are stored in a<br />
sperm storage sac above where the tube is tied, this must be emptied by about a<br />
dozen ejaculations over the few weeks after the procedure.<br />
Bec<strong>au</strong>se of this problem, after the operation the man is told to have regular sex,<br />
while taking prec<strong>au</strong>tions against conception (eg: a condom), and asked to return to<br />
his doctor in about two months to have a test done on his ejaculate, to ensure that<br />
no sperm are still present in the seminal vesicle.<br />
Mr. L., I knew, had been persuaded over a long period of time by his rather<br />
domineering wife, to undergo a vasectomy. He had done so relatively unwillingly, but<br />
now the deed had been done. About a month later, Mrs. L. came to see me.<br />
“Doctor, I don’t think I can take it any more. I’ll just have to have my tubes tied<br />
instead.”<br />
This didn’t quite make sense in view of her husband’s recent vasectomy, but<br />
suspecting there may be some love triangle or other relationship I was not aware of, I<br />
enquired further.<br />
“Well, you know doctor, how the man isn’t sterile straight after the operation?”<br />
I agreed that this was so.<br />
“I know that he has to have lots of sex to make him sterile, but every night, night<br />
after night, week after week, it’s just too much!”<br />
It seems Mr. L. had sretched the truth slightly, or be<strong>com</strong>e confused. He told his<br />
wife that after the operation, he had to have sex every night for two months, to<br />
ensure that the sperm were <strong>com</strong>pletely drained from his body, otherwise the<br />
operation would be a <strong>com</strong>plete failure.<br />
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Delicate negotiations ensued, to reach a <strong>com</strong>promise that would protect Mr. L’s<br />
dignity, and save Mrs. L. from exh<strong>au</strong>stion.<br />
While it lasted, his revenge was sweet!<br />
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F...ing Good<br />
He had long hair, multiple ear rings, tattoos and wore a workplace boiler suit. His<br />
wife was cleanly, simply and neatly dressed, polite and had a toddler at hand.<br />
His wife explained that they had seen another doctor twice in the last week about<br />
his sore eye, but the drops and ointment he had been given had not helped.<br />
Each time I turned to the patient to ask a question, his wife answered. In an<br />
attempt to get at least some words from him, I asked him what type of work he<br />
performed. Again his wife answered, explaining that before a serious head injury at<br />
work he had been a boilermaker, and afterwards the <strong>com</strong>pany had kept him on as a<br />
labourer. Since the injury he didn’t like to talk as he couldn’t speak properly.<br />
Thinking he may have a stutter or some other speach impediment I examined his<br />
red eye. Through a magnifying loupe, the foreign body imbedded on the cornea was<br />
obvious, and soon removed.<br />
As he left, the patient turned to me and said “Your f....ing better than the last<br />
f...ing doctor. At least you f...ing well looked at me and f...ing well listened to my<br />
f...ing wife”.<br />
The lessons?<br />
• Don’t judge a book by its cover.<br />
• You miss more by not looking than not knowing.<br />
• There but for the grace of God go I.<br />
• Accept all <strong>com</strong>pliments graciously.<br />
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Remote Control<br />
R. was an enthusiastic amateur who had a great body, knew she had a great body,<br />
and enjoyed using it for the entertainment of her many boyfriends. Some lasted<br />
several months, other were a one night stand, but I suspect that none regretted the<br />
contact, however brief.<br />
Bec<strong>au</strong>se of her promiscuity, she understood the benefits of regular check ups, as<br />
she had been c<strong>au</strong>ght in the past with venereal diseases, particularly the hard to<br />
detect chlamydia. On this occasion she had attended the surgery for something<br />
<strong>com</strong>pletely unrelated to her sexual prowess or activities.<br />
After finishing the routine part of the consultation, I looked back in her file and<br />
pointed out to her that it was some time since she had been checked over for any<br />
venereal problems. Quick as a flash she was up, her shorts and knickers were off, and<br />
she headed for the couch.<br />
As her bare bottom wiggled away from me towards the examination cubicle, she<br />
appeared to remove a sanitary napkin belt from around her waist, so I called after her<br />
that if she was having a period it was rather difficult to examine her, and she should<br />
<strong>com</strong>e back next week.<br />
The examination was to be a Pap smear and swabs from the vagina for any<br />
infection, but if menstrual blood is present, it is almost impossible for a Pap smear to<br />
be read by the pathologist, and difficult for an examining doctor to take good quality<br />
swabs for VD.<br />
Some women are extraordinarily relaxed about their bodies, and l<strong>au</strong>ghing, R. turned<br />
around and came back to me (starkers from the waist down) holding out what she<br />
had been wearing.<br />
A small white cone of rubber projected from the side of a rounded box which had<br />
been held in position over her vagina by the sanitary napkin belt.<br />
“What on earth is that?” was my query.<br />
She sat down and explained the wonders of modern technology when applied to<br />
exotic erotica. What she had been wearing was a radio controlled, inflatable vibrating<br />
dildo. When her boy friend of the day though of her, he would press a button on his<br />
remote control, and a battery would power a tiny motor in the rounded box that<br />
would start the rubber cone vibrating and slowly inflate it. Provided he was in range,<br />
he could turn her on and off at will!<br />
As my slack jaw resting on my chest with astonishment, she left the device on the<br />
desk, walked over to the couch, and lay back to be examined.<br />
While mechanically going through the motions of taking the smear and swabs, the<br />
only other question that my numb mind could think of was “Where did you get it?”.<br />
She named the most appropriately titled city in the world for erotic adventure -<br />
Bangkok.<br />
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What Wheels?<br />
My surgery is situated in a <strong>com</strong>mercial centre that houses a group dental practice,<br />
chemist, physio, specialist practice, x-ray and a music school (to add a touch of<br />
class) as well as the five GPs in my practice. It is a modern, practical and attractive<br />
centre, well situated on a main road intersection, with good access and adequate<br />
parking, both in the open air and in a large underground car park.<br />
While consulting, my phone rang.<br />
“Doctor, someone’s trying to steal your car!”.<br />
A call like that is pretty much guaranteed to move you swiftly out of the presence<br />
of the patient into the immediate vicinity of your car, which was parked in the cool<br />
underground.<br />
I was stopped en route by encountering a well known, young, fit, male patient in<br />
the waiting room, who was holding a similar aged but smaller man in a very firm head<br />
lock in front of a significant number of open mouthed patients.<br />
“G’day doc, will we go outside to discuss this bastard in private?”<br />
I followed the head locker and his head lockee (don’t you just love appropriate<br />
neologisms!) out onto the wide verandah that fronts the centre.<br />
“This guy’s ripped the wheels off your car”.<br />
I still don’t think I had said anything, but sprinted down the stairs to find my car<br />
jacked up on one side, resting on the wheel hubs on the other side. Three wheels<br />
were missing and the remaining one was partly undone. I returned upstairs.<br />
The head lockee spoke - “He’s strangling me! Let me go!” (or words to that effect<br />
- the actual words would only appear in print in the deepest of underground<br />
publications).<br />
“He’s fine doc, I know just how hard to hold bastards like this.”<br />
“Where are my wheels?”<br />
The head lock tightened up a notch, and a strangled cry came from the throat of<br />
the thief along with the words “Behind the building”.<br />
I went downstairs again, and hidden in the garden I found three mag wheels and<br />
the lock nuts. So far no great loss. I returned upstairs again, and heard the rest of<br />
the story.<br />
My patient friend (this will deserve at least one free consultation for him!) had<br />
been parking downstairs to attend the physio when he noticed my car at a peculiar<br />
angle. On his way upstairs he passed the chemist, and <strong>com</strong>mented to him that there<br />
was something funny going on with a car in the car park. The chemist raced down his<br />
back stairs, while the patient walked back down the public stairs to see what was<br />
going on. The chemist saw two villains crouching beside my car, and he shouted at<br />
them, at which point they ran off in different directions. The patient, seeing what had<br />
happened, collared one of the villains, and dragged him up to my surgery.<br />
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By this stage the police had been called, and after a five minute delay they arrived<br />
on the scene, and proceeded to take the offender into custody. I heartily thanked the<br />
alert patient and chemist, called the RACQ (<strong>au</strong>to club) to return the wheels to their<br />
correct position, and returned to a long neglected and rather bemused patient who<br />
was patiently waiting by my desk.<br />
Later in the day the police returned to officially interview me, and to give me some<br />
marvellous news. The offender was well known to them, and had been previously<br />
charged 15 times, the most recently only two weeks earlier for receiving stolen<br />
goods. But he had turned 18 only two days earlier, could now be charged as an adult,<br />
and as the goods were valued at more than A$2000, the charge was a more serious<br />
one.<br />
The rest of the afternoon dragged, as all my patients had heard wild rumours, and<br />
everyone of them wanted to hear the real story, from the source. Somehow the drive<br />
home seemed slightly different as I felt the wheels roll smoothly under me.<br />
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The Tattooed Sandwich<br />
She was a new patient, in her early twenties and attractive in a rather rough way.<br />
Six or so ear rings pierced the edge of each ear, and she was dressed in jeans that<br />
appeared to have been moulded to her body. A “boob tube” tried to cover her top<br />
half, but the effect was rather spoilt by the angular appearance of a cigarette packet<br />
tucked in beside one breast. This manouvre was necessary as her jean pockets were<br />
so tightly applied to her posterior that they were totally non-functional.<br />
She rapidly came to the point of her visit, a vaginal discharge that had been<br />
present a few days. So onto the couch she hopped, and managed with amazing speed<br />
to peel off her lower clothing. She didn’t bother to use the sheet provided for<br />
modesty, and as I approached to examine her, a tattoo immediately above her pubic<br />
hair c<strong>au</strong>ght my attention - in fact it was totally impossible not to notice a message<br />
which read “Gentleman’s hole” with an arrow pointing down.<br />
Desperately trying not to be affected by the blunt invitation, I proceeded to<br />
examine her. A foul, yellow green vaginal discharge was immediately obvious.<br />
Vaginal infections can be c<strong>au</strong>sed by fungi (eg: thrush), microscopic animals (eg:<br />
trichomoniasis) or bacteria. Thrush is by far the most <strong>com</strong>mon form, and most<br />
women will develop one of these infections at some time during their life.<br />
Trichomonal infections are a relatively mild and easily treated form of venereal<br />
disease. Bacterial infections can take many different forms and may range from the<br />
purely sexually transmitted diseases such as gonnorhoea, to a mixed bag of many<br />
different types of bugs. She appeared to have the ultimate in mixed infections.<br />
As I took some swabs to be sent to the laboratory for further testing and<br />
identification of the offending organisms, I asked, half under my breath and thinking<br />
aloud, how could she catch such a gross infection. She promptly said it could have<br />
been bec<strong>au</strong>se she had a sandwich with a couple of guys the previous weekend.<br />
This sudden change of direction from the venereal to the gustatory stopped me in<br />
mid swab, as I could not in any way understand how a sandwich could result in any<br />
vaginal infection, let alone one so gross. Somewhat foolishly, I asked for an<br />
explanation.<br />
“You know doc, one guy <strong>com</strong>es in the front hole, and another in the back, and<br />
after they’ve had a good poke around, they swap over and do you from the other<br />
side.” She was the meat in the sandwich.<br />
There is probably no surer way to catch a bacterial infection of the vagina than to<br />
have anal sex and then vaginal sex, let alone doing the two together simultaneously<br />
as well as consecutively. Who knows what further germs her partners may have<br />
added to the stew.<br />
Rather courageously I suggested that as the vagina and anus had both been well<br />
used, it would be appropriate to examine and take swabs from the back passage as<br />
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well as the front, and so obligingly she rolled on her side to let me examine the other<br />
aperture.<br />
Another tattoo revealed itself centred just above the cleft of her buttocks. Above<br />
an appropriately pointing arrow were permanently placed the words “Arse hole”!<br />
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Father’s Day<br />
Sunday morning surgery is a service our practice provides, and on Father’s day, I<br />
(who work with two women and a newly married male with no children, and have two<br />
teenage d<strong>au</strong>ghters who love to pamper their dad) drew the short straw.<br />
The receptionist’s <strong>com</strong>ment on arrival that it would probably be very quiet, and<br />
that we would be away in no time, was to be fateful.<br />
Thirty seconds later our first patient, L, arrived. The last time I had seen her was<br />
two years previously when she had been admitted to an acute psychiatric hospital for<br />
severe behavioural problems. She suffered from cerebral palsy (spasticity) as well,<br />
and required a wheelchair for mobility, but has normal (?) intellect. L was<br />
ac<strong>com</strong>panied by her thirty year old twin sister who has always suffered deeply buried<br />
guilt feelings that she escaped her mother’s womb without the disabilities of her<br />
sister.<br />
L’s sister had been summoned to the nursing home where she resided, and ordered<br />
to remove her forthwith - they could no longer tolerate her behaviour. As the story<br />
was told, L became steadily more abusive, with every swear word and threat known<br />
being voiced at maximum volume. By now the waiting room was filling rapidly, and<br />
the children with snotty noses and sore ears, along with their parents, heard every<br />
word.<br />
The sister and I ignored her, so the act worsened, and throwing herself out of her<br />
wheelchair, she tore the venetian blinds from the window. Time for further action -<br />
she was wheeled into the toilet and locked in to vent her anger and abuse on an<br />
unsympathetic pedestal.<br />
This action had the effect of making everyone in the waiting room have a sudden<br />
desire to use the toilet, and so after ten minutes, and having time to obtain a<br />
sensible uninterupted history from the twin sister, L was wheeled back into the<br />
consulting room.<br />
Trying to be nice, friendly and sympathetic, we explained to L that I would have to<br />
find somewhere else for her to live. With this an even worse temper tantrum erupted.<br />
Her sister and I held her at bay with chairs as she scratched, spat, bit and smashed<br />
her way around the surgery. The sister’s skirt was torn off, which gave L the idea of<br />
how to really stir up the situation - she stripped off to be totally and <strong>com</strong>pletely<br />
naked, while still swearing at full volume that she “desperately needed a f....”.<br />
Time for definitive action. The police were called to take L to her new home - a<br />
psychiatric centre.<br />
While waiting for the arrival of the police, I decided that I would have to start<br />
seeing some of the increasing number of patients in the waiting room, and so leaving<br />
L’s twin barricading the naked L into the examination room with several chairs, I<br />
ventured out to start consulting in one of the other GP’s rooms.<br />
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Patient number one was a delightful three year old with a sore ear. The diagnosis<br />
of infection was easy, but as I wrote out the script, the prolonged wait became too<br />
much for him. He squatted and without mother or I noticing, pulled down his pants<br />
and emptied his bladder and rectum onto the surgery floor.<br />
L was still being successfully controlled by the barricade of chairs, so another<br />
consultation was started in yet another doctor’s room. Desperately hoping that it<br />
would be a simple, quick problem, I was faced with a distr<strong>au</strong>ght, tearful, shaking<br />
mother whose d<strong>au</strong>ghter had just been diagnosed as having meningitis by the local<br />
hospital. The explanations, consolations, sympathy and empathy had only just been<br />
switched on to full power when the police arrived.<br />
The presence of a very burly constable and a petite policewoman cowered L<br />
significantly, and the <strong>com</strong>manding bass tones of the male, ac<strong>com</strong>panied by the<br />
persuasions of the female of the pair, had L meekly redressing.<br />
But L couldn’t resist a parting throw away line as she was wheeled past the goggle<br />
eyed <strong>au</strong>dience in the waiting room.<br />
“I hope the doc f...s all of you as well as he f....d me!!”.<br />
So back to the hysterical mother, and many extremely curious patients as Father’s<br />
day gradually passed away.<br />
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Phone Fad<br />
The mobile phone is now ubiquitous in Australia. One in ten of every man, woman<br />
and child in the country now owns one of the 1.7 million mobile phones in use.<br />
Not to have one of these phones is almost considered socially irresponsible, and<br />
suicidal in any <strong>com</strong>petitive business. Advertisements make us feel guilty if we allow<br />
our d<strong>au</strong>ghters or wives to go out at night without a phone in their purse. If a<br />
businessman is not in his office, we expect to be able to contact them instantly on<br />
their mobile.<br />
Considering the size of Australia, and the fact that a phone must be within about<br />
10 km. of a transmitter to work, the coverage available is extraordinary. 88% of<br />
Australians live within range for use of a mobile phone, and the digital version of<br />
these phones can be taken to and used in over 20 countries without any modification<br />
or prior arrangement.<br />
In medicine the mobile phone has be<strong>com</strong>e invaluable. All doctors can now be on call<br />
all the time with minimal inconvenience if they so desire. In the old days, being on call<br />
meant hanging around at home waiting for the phone to ring. Today, the mobile<br />
phone can act as an answering machine as well as a phone. I can go to the theatre,<br />
turn off the phone so as not to disturb other patrons, and at interval, check the<br />
screen on the phone to see who has called, and then without having to find both<br />
change and a public phone, I can call them back. Some phones have a silent vibrate<br />
mode to alert you of an in<strong>com</strong>ing call.<br />
Telephone etiquette in public places is still being developed. Some business people<br />
in rest<strong>au</strong>rants love to be seen doing major deals on their mobile while tucking into the<br />
smoked salmon and sipping their chardonnay. Others more politely excuse<br />
themselves to talk outside or in a quiet corner.<br />
In moving vehicles, the use of hand held mobile phones is illegal in some Australian<br />
states, and hands free kits must be installed. The legislation is being considered in<br />
Queensland, but has been stalled by evidence that smoking while driving a car is more<br />
dangerous than using a phone. It would be political suicide at present to ban drivers<br />
from smoking, but that may <strong>com</strong>e in the future.<br />
The idea for this article was triggered by some recent experiences I have had with<br />
patients and their phones. On several occasions I have had patients during a<br />
consultation answer their mobile phones. Virtually all apologise, take a quick message,<br />
and then turn off the phone for the rest of the consultation. The phone is so much a<br />
fixture on their belt or in their purse that they just forget about it until it rings.<br />
There are always those people who have no idea of the appropriate time and place.<br />
While I was recently examining a child with asthma, his father’s mobile phone rang. He<br />
answered it and carried on a conversation as the boy’s mother and I tried to get on<br />
with the consultation. The louder the father talked, the louder the mother and I<br />
talked, until we were in a shouting match trying to hear over each other. The father<br />
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was quite offended when I opened the door and ushered him out, as he later claimed<br />
he wanted to hear what was wrong with his son, and I should have waited until he had<br />
finished his conversation.<br />
But now I have the ultimate mobile phone story, that also demonstrates the<br />
relaxed attitude of the modern woman to her body and society.<br />
This morning (about an hour before writing this), I was performing a Pap smear on<br />
a smartly dressed businesswoman in her thirties. The speculum entered only a second<br />
before her phone rang. Without hesitation, she reached across to her bag on the<br />
couch side bench, took out her phone and note book, and calmly processed an order<br />
for some stationery she was selling as I, in an equally calm manner, proceeded with<br />
that most intimately intrusive medical examination.<br />
It is indeed fortunate that the mobile phone is not yet a video phone!<br />
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Living Nightmare<br />
This story starts in a very small outback town, one of those towns that progress<br />
has <strong>com</strong>pletely bypassed, and is now inhabited by a handful of families, and a few<br />
labourers who mend the dirt road and act as roustabouts on nearby stations.<br />
Y. was born in a larger centre nearby, but had lived all her life in this tiny<br />
settlement with her parents and three brothers.<br />
She came to see me when she was in her early twenties, and her first few visits<br />
were routine. One winter morning I arrived at the surgery to find her huddled<br />
shivering in the doorway, dressed only in a nightie. All other patients waited for over<br />
an hour as she spilled out her nightmare to me.<br />
Y’s father was a hard drinking man who worked as little as possible to maintain his<br />
position as a council ganger. Her mother was described to me as a sullen, quiet<br />
woman, who never showed any affection to the children, and also drank to excess.<br />
There was little else to do in the town.<br />
When Y turned eleven, she started to mature into a woman, and for the first time<br />
in her life, her father started to show some affection towards her. In her innocence, Y<br />
did not realise where this affection would lead, but enjoyed the attention she had<br />
previously lacked. It was not long before affection became incest, and although Y felt<br />
is was vaguely wrong, her upbringing was so lacking that she was unable to resist the<br />
attention that her father lavished upon her.<br />
Soon after, Y’s mother left home. She has never seen her again.<br />
An attractive teenage girl has few, if any defences in a totally male household. The<br />
example set by Y’s father was soon followed by her three older brothers. She became<br />
a sex slave to the four of them, with no way of escape.<br />
Y recounted to me a harrowing experience she had at about fourteen. Her father<br />
and a few friends were drinking and yarning on the back verandah of their home. An<br />
argument developed, and Y was summoned from inside. In front of all, her father<br />
stripped her naked to demonstrate her be<strong>au</strong>ty to his drunken friends.<br />
This was a turning point for her, as she realised she was living in a nightmare, and<br />
her only escape was school. She took the bus an hour each way every day to school,<br />
and destitute as she was, she remembers the kindness of teachers, friends and other<br />
pupils who gave her second hand clothing, shoes, school books etc. that kept her<br />
going without having to ask her father for anything. She was a diligent pupil, who put<br />
her terror of home behind her when in class, and she did well.<br />
Bec<strong>au</strong>se going to school was routine, her father did not notice her absence, and<br />
she managed to progress through to grade twelve, and obtained good results all the<br />
way.<br />
Meanwhile, she tried to blank her mind to what was happening at home. Since the<br />
stripping incident, the men of the town began to expect further shows, and it was<br />
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not long before Y was sexually servicing, at her father’s <strong>com</strong>mand, a wide variety of<br />
men. Her father was supplied with more than adequate supplies of alcohol in return.<br />
Never did she tell anyone of her torment, bec<strong>au</strong>se she was so ashamed of herself<br />
and her family, but with the assistance of one of her teachers, she applied for, and<br />
won, a scholarship to a teacher’s training college in another part of the state.<br />
At eighteen years of age, when the college year started, she packed her bag,<br />
c<strong>au</strong>ght a bus, and as far as her father and brothers were concerned, disappeared.<br />
Life became relatively normal. She lived in student ac<strong>com</strong>modation near the<br />
college, but kept to herself, and understandably, avoided any boy friends. She began<br />
to relax, and even enjoy life a little.<br />
Then the nightmare started again. She arrived back at her ac<strong>com</strong>modation to find<br />
her father waiting in her room. He had tracked her down, was missing her, and<br />
wanted his “conjugal rights”. Y was too frightened, and still too insecure to do<br />
anything against her father, and she consented.<br />
Intermittently, throughout the rest of her course, Y’s father would appear for a<br />
few days, have his way with her, and then return to the bush. Y immersed herself in<br />
her studies again as an escape, and excelled.<br />
Graduation arrived without her father being aware, as she had told him she was<br />
enrolled in a four year course instead of the actual three. She tried to escape again,<br />
and took a posting not in her home state, but in a capital city on the other side of<br />
the country, as far as possible away from her father.<br />
She enjoyed teaching, and was good at her job. She lived near the school in my<br />
practice area. After eighteen months life gradually became normal, except for the<br />
total lack of any man in her life.<br />
Late one night the doorbell rang. She lived alone, and on peeking through the<br />
curtains, she saw her father outside. Terrified, she hid in the house and ignored the<br />
door bell. She heard smashing glass, and then her father was inside, and he found her.<br />
She was more mature and self confident now. She defied him, told him what she<br />
thought of him, told him to leave and never see her again. He ignored her, and used<br />
his superior strength to rape her repeatedly. In the early hours of the morning she<br />
escaped to where I found her huddling and freezing in my surgery doorway.<br />
Prolonged counselling, referral to psychologists, and police enquiries followed. Y<br />
moved again at the end of that year, and I have lost contact with her, but her father<br />
was charged with rape, and convicted. He is now serving a long prison term.<br />
I can only hope that Y continues to display the intestinal fortitude that has enabled<br />
her to survive this long, and will eventually be able to settle into a normal life, free of<br />
any threat from her father.<br />
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Control Freak<br />
Every night at 9.50pm, Mrs. J had sex. Seven days a week, 365 days a year, she<br />
knew what was going to happen at exactly that time, but she didn’t know just how it<br />
was going to happen, bec<strong>au</strong>se Mr. J was a very ac<strong>com</strong>plished and experimental lover.<br />
I had known this couple for two decades, and to all intents and purposes, they<br />
were a perfectly normal middle aged pair with two children living in average suburbia.<br />
She had a regular secretarial job in the city and he was a carpenter. What I didn’t<br />
know was that he was a total control freak.<br />
For years the control of Mrs. J by Mr. J had been steadily increasing. In the morning<br />
he got up first, made her breakfast, brought it to her in bed (he was very attentive),<br />
kissed her goodbye, and left for work. She then got up, dressed and breakfasted,<br />
slammed the door after her as she left the house, and also went to work, but she had<br />
to return from work on a specific bus. This was when the control became freaky.<br />
He met her at the bus stop, walked her the short distance home and let her into<br />
the house (she did not have her own house key) and she then cleaned, cooked, ate<br />
and ironed until 8pm. Television (his choice of programme) was watched, until 9.30,<br />
when she went and had a shower and got into bed. He followed ten minutes later,<br />
and by 9.50pm was in bed also, and they had sex.<br />
In earlier years she was told to take the pill constantly to avoid having menstrual<br />
periods, but then she had needed a hysterectomy, so there were never any missed<br />
days.<br />
On Thursday night they went shopping, and he decided exactly what they would<br />
buy, followed by a quick meal in a fast food rest<strong>au</strong>rant before home and to bed in<br />
time for the nights usual activity.<br />
Weekends were slightly different. She was allowed to use the car to play tennis on<br />
Saturday afternoon, but he noted the mileage before and after her trip, and woe<br />
betide her if there was any discrepancy. That night they went to an early movie,<br />
followed by a meal at a cheap rest<strong>au</strong>rant, and again home by 9.30pm.<br />
On Sundays, Mrs. J received a bonus with an extra session of sex. The whole family<br />
had (always) roast chicken for lunch, that was ac<strong>com</strong>panied by a bottle of cheap<br />
champagne, then to the bedroom again to finish the champagne and for another<br />
session of sex, usually of the more exotic type. The 9.50pm session was usually more<br />
sedate on Sundays.<br />
The whole scheme came unstuck one evening when the work Mrs. J had promised<br />
to finish for her boss before she went home took longer than expected, and she<br />
missed her bus. The next bus was half an hour later, so by the time she got home,<br />
Mr. J was furious and demanded explanations. Her excuses were not accepted, but<br />
instead of meekly submitting to her husband’s tirade, she took the car, and much to<br />
his increasing fury, drove off into the evening - to my surgery.<br />
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Who else could she talk to? She had virtually no girl friends, and at least the doctor<br />
would keep her confidences secret (names and professions in this story have been<br />
changed). She could not escape elsewhere as she had no money or credit cards of<br />
her own. Her pay from work had always been deposited directly into her husband’s<br />
account.<br />
Her story poured out. He was kind, generous, caring, an expert lover, but she<br />
couldn’t stand the control and lack of freedom any more. After almost an hour, she<br />
left and I faced my full waiting room. She didn’t want me to talk to her husband, or<br />
for him to even know where she had been, but agreed to return a fortnight later, or<br />
sooner if there were problems.<br />
On her return home after “driving around for a while” he accepted her back, but<br />
decided to punish her for her disobedience by moving into another bed room and<br />
denying her sex. She in response redirected her pay into a new personal bank<br />
account, started taking random buses home from work, and even drove to the shops<br />
after tennis so that the mileage on the car was too high, and she wouldn’t tell him<br />
where she had been.<br />
After only a week of this she came back again to see me, this time with her<br />
husband’s permission. She couldn’t stand it. She needed sex, she loved sex and after<br />
years of having it so regularly she wanted it back again. How could she get her<br />
freedom and her sex?<br />
A <strong>com</strong>promise was gradually negotiated over the next month. The husband never<br />
came to see me, but with an exchange of notes back and forth it was agreed that he<br />
would maintain some control of her life at certain times of the day and give her the<br />
sex she wanted, but she would be allowed the freedom to go out by herself, and<br />
spend as she liked within a budget set by him.<br />
It is still not what most women would consider to be the ideal situation, but she is<br />
thrilled with her freedom, and happy with her relationship. He in return has a happier<br />
wife who continues to look after him as he looks after her.<br />
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After Life<br />
It was bad news, very bad news.<br />
He was a new patient, who had presented earlier in the day with a persistent<br />
cough. The X-ray I was viewing showed an obvious large cancer in the lung, with<br />
spread to other areas within the lung.<br />
I turned to the patient, who was sitting expectantly by my desk, to give him the<br />
verdict, and in my usual way, started by skirting around the final diagnosis, gradually<br />
tightening the circle of my explanation, so that by the time I arrived at the<br />
conclusion, it would be obvious to the patient. He was only in his late sixties, and<br />
although a smoker, he should have expected a few more good years.<br />
“I understand” he said, “I haven’t got too long to live, and there’s nothing that can<br />
be done about it”.<br />
I started to explain how I would ensure that he wouldn’t suffer, that I could ensure<br />
a peaceful end, but part way through my dialogue he interrupted.<br />
“That’s fine doc, but you’re more upset about this than I am. I’m not afraid of<br />
dying, in fact I’m quite looking forward to it”.<br />
“Looking forward to it?”.<br />
“Let me tell you a story” he said.<br />
And this was the story he told.<br />
..........................................................<br />
“I’ve always been a heavy smoker, and this is the second time my habit has c<strong>au</strong>ght<br />
up with me. Fifteen years ago, I was a high school teacher in Mt.Isa. While teaching, I<br />
felt a sudden, crushing, severe pain in my chest, and collapsed in front of a class of<br />
15 year olds. As far as they were concerned, I was <strong>com</strong>atose, totally unconscious,<br />
but I could see everything that was going on, bec<strong>au</strong>se as I collapsed, my mind floated<br />
free from my body, and hovered on the ceiling of the classroom, and from there I<br />
continued to observe.<br />
“I saw the boys and girls run forward to me, then two of them ran for help. I can<br />
even tell you which kids were where, and which ones went for help. The teacher from<br />
the next class room was the first to arrive, and I watched as he started CPR with the<br />
help of one of the boys.<br />
“It wasn’t long before an ambulance arrived, and I watched as my body was loaded<br />
in, and the ambulance officers continued the CPR as we raced through the streets of<br />
the city.<br />
“At the hospital, I was wheeled into a cubicle in the emergency department, and I<br />
watched as the the doctors and nurses clustered around, connected me to<br />
machinery, stuck needles into me, and continued to <strong>com</strong>press my chest.<br />
“All the time I was watching, I seemed to be drifting higher and higher, but the<br />
hospital had no roof, and I could still see into the cubicle where I was being treated.<br />
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“Then I felt a presence, a warm, inviting presence, and turned around, away from<br />
watching my body and its attendants, and I saw a bright light. It was a wel<strong>com</strong>ing,<br />
pleasant light, and I wanted to go to it. I felt my future lay that way, and started<br />
drifting up, away from all my cares and towards it.<br />
“I felt I had almost reached this delightful place, when with a sudden jerk, I was<br />
forced away, rushed back to earth, and found myself in agonising pain, in a place of<br />
noise, <strong>com</strong>motion and fear. I was conscious again, and aware of being back in my<br />
body in the emergency department cubicle.<br />
“A doctor said something about a rhythm, and they stopped pumping my chest. I<br />
coughed and choked, then I was being wheeled out of there and into intensive care.<br />
“I have no fear of death doc, I’ve almost been there, and it doesn’t look to bad to<br />
me. Now if you can keep your word, and make sure I don’t suffer while I’m down here,<br />
I’m pretty sure I’m not going to suffer up there, and whatever is waiting for me, I’m<br />
sure won’t be too bad.”<br />
.......................................<br />
What could I say? I kept my word, he didn’t suffer, and within an all too short few<br />
weeks he had gone back to visit, on a permanent basis, that place he had almost<br />
reached before.<br />
Several times over the years, I (and I am sure, many other doctors) have heard<br />
vaguely similar stories from patients, but never one in such detail as this.<br />
No one will ever know till they go there, but it seems that there may well be<br />
something after life.<br />
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Cuckold<br />
“I have to see a psychiatrist.”<br />
It’s not the usual response to a doctor’s opening line of “How can I help you?”, but<br />
that’s the reply I received from this 35 year old builder whom I had never seen<br />
before.<br />
Well built, athletic, handsome and worried were my initial impressions as I asked<br />
why he needed such a referral.<br />
For some months he had been working on a project about 200km from home. He<br />
had been driving to the site on a Monday morning, and returning on Saturday<br />
afternoon, and the well paying job was almost finished.<br />
On this particular Friday, heavy rain had set in at the job site, making work the<br />
next day impossible, so rather than spend the night lonely in the on-site van he had<br />
rented for the duration of the job, he set off down the highway to join his wife.<br />
Arriving home about 11pm, all was in darkness. He quietly slipped into the<br />
bedroom, undressed, and attempted to sneak into bed beside his wife. He found<br />
someone else had beaten him to it!<br />
Leaping up, he turned on the lights to find his attractive (and formerly well loved)<br />
wife in bed with another man. All three of them were naked.<br />
In a rage he grabbed a golf club from a bag in a corner of the bedroom and started<br />
hitting the interloper as hard as he could. The boy friend was still half asleep, but<br />
struggled from the bedroom and out the front door under a rain of blows. At the side<br />
of the house he found his motor bike, struggled to start it, and as the blows and<br />
stabs from the now broken golf club continued, managed to ride off into the dark<br />
night, still naked, and without any lights as these had been smashed by the aggrieved<br />
husband.<br />
Meanwhile, his wife had been screaming to stop, and when he returned to the<br />
blood splattered house, she dressed hurriedly, and while still screaming abuse at him,<br />
packed a few belongings and drove to her mother’s house.<br />
Calming down very slowly, the builder cleaned himself up, dressed and then tried to<br />
<strong>com</strong>prehend what had happened. He vaguely remembered the boy friend’s face from<br />
somewhere, and after checking some family photos realised that it was the husband<br />
of his wife’s best girl friend. This was total treachery.<br />
About two hours after the incident the police arrived to arrest him for aggravated<br />
ass<strong>au</strong>lt. The victim had evidently managed to ride to an all night service station<br />
nearby where he collapsed naked beside the pumps. An ambulance and the police<br />
were called, and he was taken away to be treated for a fractured skull, broken arm,<br />
pierced belly and innumerable other cuts and bruises.<br />
My patient had spent an un<strong>com</strong>fortable weekend in the watch house instead of in<br />
the arms of his wife, and on release his solicitor had advised him to see a psychiatrist<br />
so that he could plead temporary insanity when the charges went to court. In the<br />
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meantime, his wife had taken out a restraining order against him so that he could<br />
have no further contact with her, and the victim’s wife had visited him in gaol,<br />
thanked him for putting an end to the affair, and had paid his bail.<br />
A psychiatric referral was duly arranged so that his crime of passion could be<br />
appropriately dealt with in court.<br />
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Practice Pet<br />
Pikelets were enjoyed for morning tea every Thursday by all the doctors and<br />
receptionists at my surgery for almost ten years. They were bought by an elderly<br />
widow whose family had long since moved away to distant places. Grown<br />
grandchildren visited occasionally, but her weekly visit to the surgery was the<br />
highlight of her week.<br />
She would sit in the waiting room chatting to the staff and any patient who was in<br />
the mood for conversation. When it was busy she would enjoy watching the bustling<br />
scene, or read the latest (two month old) Women’s Weekly from the pile of<br />
magazines.<br />
Often she would join us in the staff room for morning tea, as we buttered and<br />
jammed her delicious fresh pikelets. As the medical rep intoned the delights of the<br />
latest antihypertensive to barely interested doctors, she would have a look of intent<br />
concentration on her face, as though she was fascinated by every syllable of the<br />
medical jargon.<br />
The staff, patients and reps loved her. As I called the next patient in for a<br />
consultation, they would <strong>com</strong>ment on what a darling that sweet little old lady was,<br />
who had remembered all about the patient’s last visit two months ago.<br />
Every four weeks, regular as clockwork, she would actually book an appointment<br />
(the last before our 10.30am morning tea) to consult with me about her health.<br />
Other than her minimal dose of digoxin, she took no medication, and was<br />
extraordinarily well.<br />
Time and progress c<strong>au</strong>ght up with the practice. We moved away from the<br />
dilapidated strip shopping centre in the back streets to a modern purpose built<br />
medical centre. It was only 200 metres away, but it was uphill, and doubled the<br />
distance our "practice pet" had to walk to bring us her pikelets.<br />
She found the journey in the hot Queensland sun was be<strong>com</strong>ing more difficult as<br />
time went on, and so the roles were reversed. Once a month I would join her for<br />
morning tea and pikelets, and after our refreshment and brief consultation, I would<br />
return to the surgery with a Wedgewood china plate heaped high with pikelets for the<br />
rest of the staff.<br />
She had be<strong>com</strong>e such an institution at the surgery, that the receptionists would<br />
drop in to her home for a chat, take her shopping, and bring her up to the surgery<br />
when a favourite drug rep was due to visit. She always came to our staff Christmas<br />
party.<br />
One Sunday afternoon when I was not on call, my d<strong>au</strong>ghter interrupted my<br />
gardening to say a patient was on the phone. Instead of just giving the message of<br />
who was on call for that weekend, I went in to the phone.<br />
"Doctor, I don't feel very well".<br />
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I recognised the voice instantly. She had never called me at home before, and ten<br />
minutes later, still in my dirty gardening shorts, I was beside her as she lay on the<br />
couch in her sitting room.<br />
She was cold, blue, and dyspnoeic with a rapid, fluttering, weak pulse. Her heart<br />
failure had suddenly be<strong>com</strong>e acute. I indicated that I would call an ambulance and get<br />
her to hospital as soon as possible, but she gripped my hand as hard as she could and<br />
said with all the determination and grit she could muster that she wanted to stay<br />
just where she was, so that she could die while looking at the windows.<br />
Her long dead husband had been a master craftsman who created magnificent<br />
stained glass windows. Their home had be<strong>au</strong>tiful pieces of his art framing the sitting<br />
room window, over the front door, and set into other windows of the house.<br />
She smiled quietly at me, gazed at the windows for about five minutes, and then<br />
closed her eyes. Her grip on my hand remained as firm as ever, then a time later (it<br />
could have been anything from 5 minutes to an hour), the grip gently eased, and at<br />
the grand age of 93 she quietly passed away.<br />
It is for people, and stories, such as this that we are all what we are - general<br />
practitioners.<br />
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Chastity Lock<br />
I just love being a GP! The variety of work is incredible, as you never know (and<br />
sometimes couldn’t guess in your wildest dreams) what problem is going to <strong>com</strong>e<br />
through your surgery door with the next patient.<br />
On this particular day I had the range from the 41 year old who was thrilled to be<br />
pregnant for the first time to her 23 year old boyfriend, who seemed equally pleased;<br />
to the old gentleman who was sorry to disturb me as he knew I was very busy, but he<br />
hadn’t been able to pass urine for twelve hours and was rather un<strong>com</strong>fortable with a<br />
bladder that almost reached his umbilicus.<br />
But the patient who really took the cake, as the unique and unpredictable<br />
presentation of the year (decade?, career?) was the twenty something lass who<br />
came in with her boyfriend requesting a rather personal procedure. She was a new<br />
patient from the other side of the city, but she had heard a friend mention my name<br />
after I had done a simple excision, so she had trekked across to see me.<br />
Her husband was, she explained as her boyfriend listened and held her hand,<br />
overseas with the Australian Army, and she was missing him, and in particular, she<br />
missed the erotic pleasures he gave her regularly. So she needed to look after her<br />
needs in other ways - thus the boyfriend.<br />
The husband obviously knew his wife and her ways very well though, and had taken<br />
certain prec<strong>au</strong>tions. At a previous time she had undergone piercing of her labia<br />
majora (for what reason one can only vaguely guess), but immediately before his<br />
departure, ever loving hubbie had removed her labial rings and replaced them with<br />
something far more practical.<br />
She demonstrated her conundrum by hopping onto the couch, removing knickers<br />
and exposing the problem. A small silver padlock had been slipped through the<br />
piercings on either side, effectively closing the labia across the opening of the vagina,<br />
not at all tightly, so a tampon could easily be inserted, but in such a position that<br />
anything much larger would be very difficult, and possibly painful to manoeuvre into<br />
position.<br />
Her frustration was acute. Every stimulation imagined could be experienced, except<br />
the final one she wanted most. And hubbie held the key!<br />
My task? Could I please just cut out and repair one side of the pierced labia, then in<br />
two months, reverse the process again so that he who was away would be none the<br />
wiser. A most interesting ethical conundrum, let alone a surgical one.<br />
The scheme was an ingenious one. The absent husband thought he had all bases<br />
covered, but he had not counted on the desperation of his loved one, who had her<br />
essential needs (as she put it).<br />
The boyfriend continued to look on anxiously (eagerly?) as I pondered the dilemma.<br />
I inspected the lock more carefully. It was a very simple one, and although I was no<br />
expert, it did not seem that it would take an expert more than a few seconds to open<br />
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it. The owner couldn’t use a saw or a bolt cutter on it as the evidence would be<br />
lacking when the absent loved one returned, let alone the risk of damage to very<br />
sensitive pieces of anatomy.<br />
I could have undertaken the procedure, but it would have been painfully<br />
un<strong>com</strong>fortable for several days afterwards, and then the whole process would have<br />
to be reversed in a couple of months with similar levels of dis<strong>com</strong>fort.<br />
Looking at a problem from a different angle (no sniggering here please) can often<br />
give a different solution to a problem. Had they considered a locksmith?<br />
They looked at each other, and then she said “But he’ll see everything down<br />
there”. That was certainly true, but I felt that a locksmith would be able to open such<br />
a simple device in seconds, and at minimal dis<strong>com</strong>fort. They felt the idea had merit,<br />
and at the risk of embarrassment, but at the saving of dis<strong>com</strong>fort, they decide that it<br />
was worth a try. It also removed an interesting ethical dilemma from my conscience.<br />
Obviously the local shopping centre key booth was not appropriate, so I mentioned<br />
the name of a locksmith in the industrial suburb behind the surgery.<br />
They left happy with my suggestion, but I just wish I could have been a fly on the<br />
wall of the locksmith’s shop when the problem was presented to him. The look on his<br />
face would be really something to behold. Next time he’s in, I just might ask him if<br />
he’s had any interesting lady customers lately.<br />
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Runaway<br />
The first booked patient of the day was a few minutes late.<br />
Within seconds of unlocking the surgery door in the morning there was a<br />
<strong>com</strong>motion that I could hear at the end of the hall in my consulting room. I walked<br />
out to find a mother and her twelve year old d<strong>au</strong>ghter arguing vociferously, and not<br />
making much sense. I invited them in to my room to try and sort out the problem.<br />
The d<strong>au</strong>ghter stormed in and sat on the floor in a corner of the room with her<br />
knees on her chest and her forehead resting on her knees, not looking at anyone, and<br />
trying to ignore the verbal torrent of despair <strong>com</strong>ing from her mother.<br />
“She won’t behave, she’s disobedient, she runs away, she won’t help at home, I<br />
can’t cope with her, she ran away this morning and a neighbour had to bring her<br />
back”. GPs have heard similar stories before, and as the torrent eased to a mere<br />
deluge of words I suggested that the mother have a nice cup of tea with the<br />
receptionist while I had a talk to her d<strong>au</strong>ghter.<br />
She remained defiantly on the floor in the corner, wanting nothing to do with a<br />
middle aged man whom she was sure would side with her mother. I c<strong>au</strong>ght her looking<br />
at an old map hanging on the surgery wall, so I started talking about it and its<br />
history. She showed some interest, and when I explained that Australia had originally<br />
been called Beach (actually pronounced bee-ark) by the 16th. century Dutch<br />
cartographers, she actually saw the joke, considering our hedonistic sun drenched<br />
modern culture.<br />
I had broken the ice and then it came pouring out. She had just moved from<br />
primary to high school, she had no friends, she was slow at school, her single mother<br />
was too busy for her, and her younger <strong>au</strong>tistic brother took all her mother’s<br />
attention. Her mother didn’t trust her, told her to do things, but didn’t ask. Again it<br />
was fairly typical of a mother not wanting to let go bec<strong>au</strong>se she felt insecure with no<br />
husband to help her at home, while the near teenager was testing the limits of what<br />
she could do in society, and experiencing the stresses of puberty and relationship<br />
changes.<br />
Mum was invited back, and some bargains were made. Mum would say please and<br />
trust her d<strong>au</strong>ghter, on the other hand the d<strong>au</strong>ghter promised not to run away again.<br />
Just as the consultation was about to end, the mother’s mobile phone rang and a<br />
second saga took a dramatic centre stage.<br />
“I’m sorry about this doctor - I’ll just get rid of them - Hello?”<br />
I couldn’t hear the other side of the consultation.<br />
“I’m at the doctors, I’ll call you back”<br />
A moments silence.<br />
“The police - what’s happening?”<br />
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A confused conversation followed, of which I continued to hear just the one side,<br />
but the mother was obviously talking to a police officer. I was then handed the<br />
phone.<br />
“Doctor speaking”.<br />
I was then interrogated by the policeman at the other end, was the d<strong>au</strong>ghter with<br />
me, what was my full name and address, could they phone me at the surgery?<br />
I hung up on the mobile and a few seconds later the receptionist put through the<br />
same police officer on the surgery phone. Again they confirmed who I was and that<br />
the d<strong>au</strong>ghter was safe, thanked me for my time, and hung up. What on earth was<br />
going on? The mother explained.<br />
When she found that her d<strong>au</strong>ghter had run away at 7am that morning, she set out<br />
to search. Her neighbour was just driving off to work, and she explained to him what<br />
had happened, and asked him to watch out for the girl on his way.<br />
It so happened that the neighbour did see her, he stopped and tried to persuade<br />
her to get in his car to be taken back to her mother. She resisted, and getting late<br />
for work, and frustrated with her obstinacy, he had grabbed the girl, shoved her in his<br />
car and driven off, back to her home, calling her mother en route on the mobile to let<br />
her know he had found her d<strong>au</strong>ghter. He handed still screaming and abusive d<strong>au</strong>ghter<br />
to mother at home, and headed for work, rather later than planned.<br />
Half an hour after reaching his office, three policemen barged in and demanded to<br />
see him. What had he done with the girl? What had he been doing for the last hour?<br />
A passing motorist had seen the confrontation between the girl and the neighbour,<br />
had assumed that she was being abducted, took down the car registration number<br />
and phoned the police. The rest can be imagined.<br />
The poor man had no idea where she was, but assumed the mother would have<br />
taken her to school. The school was phoned by the police. No, the girl had not<br />
arrived. There was no answer at the girl’s home, and in desperation he retrieved the<br />
mother’s mobile number from his own mobile phone -thus the phone call to the<br />
surgery.<br />
The air was cleared, the mother was still upset, the girl actually felt a bit<br />
embarrassed, arrangements were made for a follow up visit in two weeks, and after<br />
seeing them out I invited my first booked patient of the day to leave a crowded<br />
waiting room and <strong>com</strong>e into the consulting room, forty minutes late.<br />
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Repairman<br />
An interesting person with an unusual character, is the phrase that best describes<br />
Mrs. Mac. She has been a patient of mine for 25 years, and I have seen her through<br />
the loss of her husband, the diagnosis of maturity onset diabetes, falling downstairs<br />
and breaking her hip and not being found for 36 hours, the loss of her home and<br />
independence, her establishment in a retirement village unit and the onset of evolving<br />
dementia.<br />
Most people cannot stand her very abrupt and aggressive manner, let alone her<br />
thick Scottish brogue that she hasn’t lost despite half a life-time in the antipodes.<br />
After knowing her for so long though, I get along with her reasonably well, giving<br />
back as much as I get in a friendly verbal banter. On the other hand, the other<br />
residents, and staff, at the retirement village avoid her as they find her to be<br />
uncooperative and confrontational. As a result she is, and always has been, a loner.<br />
When phoning the practice, her manner is usually abrupt in the extreme. “I want<br />
the doctor” is shouted down the line, with no name or introduction. The staff know<br />
her so well that they merely acquiesce, and reply that the doctor will <strong>com</strong>e at a<br />
particular time. The response to this is usually “Can’t he get here sooner!” even if the<br />
time is in five minutes. With an answer in the negative, she finishes the call with<br />
words such as “Well I’ll just have to suffer until then I suppose”.<br />
Last Tuesday was just one of those days. The appointment book looked as though<br />
a demented ink covered spider had crawled across it, and the entire district had a<br />
prolonged power failure, which meant that some internal rooms were pitch black, Pap<br />
smears were done with a pen torch, and the phone system was down.<br />
Just after the power came back on the phone call came from Mrs. Mac, and the<br />
usual dialogue followed. She was told that the doctor (none of the five women<br />
doctors in the practice were qualified in Mrs. Mac’s eyes, so it was always me) would<br />
call after surgery.<br />
Dutifully I arrived at the huge 500 unit <strong>com</strong>plex in which she lived, fought my way<br />
through the multiple security gates and doors that closed after hours, and eventually<br />
arrived at her room.<br />
“You’re late!” was the peremptory <strong>com</strong>ment made when I walked in. It was 8pm by<br />
this stage, as the surgery had run overtime, I was very tired, and rather hungry, my<br />
last food being an early lunch a 11.30am.<br />
My brief apology was followed by a query as to how I could help her.<br />
“Fix the TV”. Please and thank you were not in her vocabulary, but I knew, deep<br />
down, in her heart of hearts, she really wanted to say those words - I think!<br />
“Okay, but how can I help you?”<br />
“Nothing! Just fix the TV!”<br />
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She was madly clicking on a remote control that she was pointing at a dead<br />
television. The power failure had switched off the set, and since the power had<br />
returned, she couldn’t operate her TV.<br />
I reached over, clicked on the power switch on the set, and the frantic clicking of<br />
the remote suddenly had a response.<br />
“I always knew you were clever, now get out of here so I can watch The Bill”.<br />
“Did you just call me to turn on your TV?”<br />
“Well you seem to know everything, and the electrician here won’t <strong>com</strong>e after<br />
hours, and you’re a lot cheaper too.”<br />
I was certainly cheaper, as a pensioner she was direct billed to Medicare, and my<br />
visit cost her absolutely nothing.<br />
She was watching the screen intently as I asked tongue in cheek if there was<br />
anything else she wanted fixed.<br />
“The clock’s wrong”.<br />
I corrected the time on her electric clock, said a perfunctory goodbye that was not<br />
acknowledged, and left.<br />
At last I knew that general practitioners were truly Jacks of all trades.<br />
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Oedipus Complex<br />
The sister, Kay, came in first. I had known her for a decade, she was in her late 40s<br />
and an attractive, vivacious, intelligent and happily married woman, but she had no<br />
children. She told her story.<br />
Her brother, John, had arrived the day before from a major city 1000 km. away. He<br />
was 42 and she hadn’t seen him since she left home to marry the first man she met<br />
at age 18. There had been minimal <strong>com</strong>munication between her and her family in the<br />
intervening 30 years, but now the family needed help, and she was expected to give<br />
it.<br />
John had been threatened by thugs and to escape, he had gone into hiding with his<br />
sister. But this was only the very tip of an extraordinary iceberg. After she briefed<br />
me, the brother attended for his prolonged consultation a few hours later.<br />
John had always lived at home, had left school at 17 despite having excellent<br />
marks, had never worked, never driven a car, never travelled, never flown, had no<br />
friends and owned nothing. He wore his father’s cast off clothes, and his father had<br />
now been dead for five years.<br />
He appeared scruffy and immature, with the social graces of a six year old, but had<br />
a very intelligent and well read mind. His mother was extremely wealthy, and money<br />
was no problem, but the mother was possessive and manipulative to the extreme.<br />
Kay had escaped her clutches, but John had not been successful. After learning from<br />
her mistakes on Kay, the mother had fine tuned her approach with John, and he was<br />
now totally unable to cut the apron strings. He was a puppet who danced entirely to<br />
his mother’s tune, an extreme example of the Oedipus <strong>com</strong>plex.<br />
He not only lived in the same house as his mother, but slept in the same bed. Their<br />
intimacy crossed all bounds of decency. But his mother realised that he had further<br />
needs, and she obviously had fantasies of her own, so she employed prostitutes to<br />
satisfy his urges, and she watched the action through a peephole.<br />
One of the prostitutes had realised he was a soft mark, and gradually turned on<br />
the financial screws, and used emotional as well as physical blackmail to obtain<br />
steadily larger sums from John and his mother until the demands became just too<br />
much. When they b<strong>au</strong>lked at her demands, the thugs were called in, and John decided<br />
it was time to disappear for a while to the safety of his long lost sister.<br />
Kay was keen to break him away from his mother, and was prepared to take on his<br />
social education, and gradually return him to functioning normally in society, but after<br />
42 years of being excessively loved and protected by his mother, the idea of being<br />
independent in the big wide world was far too frightening for him.<br />
He came a second time, for a further long discussion of what he wanted and how<br />
he felt, but he was already starting to de<strong>com</strong>pensate in the absence of his mother,<br />
and the fiercely independent Kay, who had turned her back on the family fortune to<br />
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gain her independence, was as far removed from his mother in achievement and<br />
attitude as any woman could be.<br />
After a month, he felt it was safe, and returned to his mother’s arms. But she will<br />
not live forever, and what will be<strong>com</strong>e of him in another decade or so when he is<br />
finally and ultimately totally alone is something he cannot bear to contemplate.<br />
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Degradation<br />
I had known Helen for over 20 years as a patient. Her husband was a successful<br />
businessman, she had two delightful d<strong>au</strong>ghters and she lived in a magnificent home in<br />
a desirable suburb. She had everything that she could possibly want, but she<br />
destroyed it all slowly and surely over many years to be<strong>com</strong>e the most degraded<br />
human being I have ever seen.<br />
She was fine for months at a time, but then she would start drinking, and drinking<br />
and drinking. She became aggressive, irresponsible and abusive.<br />
She travelled the world with her husband on his business trips, but if she started a<br />
binge, he had to abandon the trip and get her back to the security of her home until<br />
the episode passed. On one trip when she started drinking in Moscow she was<br />
arrested for shoplifting. A short stint (short only thanks to the payment of a large<br />
bribe) in a Russian prison sobered her up faster than any private clinic.<br />
Private clinics cost her family a fortune. She tried them all - expensive retreats,<br />
intensive treatment as an inpatient, and regular sessions with Alcoholics Anonymous.<br />
When she was good she was very very good, but when she was bad she was horrid.<br />
Her children refused to see her and moved interstate. She lost all her friends,<br />
became a loner and this only reinforced her poor self esteem and desire to drink more<br />
to relieve her boredom and frustration.<br />
Her normal binges lasted a week or two and eventually her husband was able to<br />
control the situation, but a call from her long suffering husband one morning begging<br />
for help had me at their home a few hours later.<br />
I was told that Helen had been drinking for two months non-stop - a five litre cask<br />
of wine every day, with no food. She was irrational and incontinent, but if the wine<br />
was withheld she became violent and started convulsing with delirium tremens.<br />
When I arrived at the large home I was taken to the guest quarters. I saw the most<br />
degraded human being I have ever encountered.<br />
Helen was naked, covered in weeping sores and faeces. She was lying on a faeces<br />
and urine soaked bed, the carpet was similarly affected, and windows and wall plaster<br />
had been smashed. The room had been stripped of all other furniture. She was<br />
bedraggled and looked more like a cornered wild animal than a human. The smell was<br />
overpowering.<br />
Merely walking into the room my shoes squelched in the urine and faeces. She<br />
threw faeces at me - fortunately missing - as an indication of her displeasure at<br />
having her binge interrupted. There was no way in which I could reason with her, and<br />
being left unattended, she would soon die from either alcohol poisoning, septicaemia<br />
from her infected sores, or delirium tremens if her alcohol was ceased. She<br />
desperately needed hospitalisation.<br />
I hosed my shoes in the garden as I left.<br />
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To add to the <strong>com</strong>plications it was 6pm on 23 December when I saw her, and at<br />
Christmas time, none of the normal services seem to work properly.<br />
Christmas Eve morning I was arranging the documents to have her regulated and<br />
forcibly removed to a “place of safety” (ie. a hospital). The documents signed,<br />
hospitals notified, ambulances, police and mental health workers coordinated and that<br />
afternoon the team swung into action, dressed in gowns, masks, boots and caps to<br />
protect themselves.<br />
Helen did her best to dissuade them from their intended purpose, but she was<br />
wrapped in a sheet and bundled into an ambulance to be taken away for a thorough<br />
cleaning, detoxification and treatment of her sores.<br />
She came to see me again in the surgery three weeks after her admission, and the<br />
transformation was remarkable. She was still very nervous and anxious, but dressed<br />
in a fashionable suit, appropriate make-up and she was ready to cooperate (yet<br />
again) with any treatment I re<strong>com</strong>mended.<br />
The big question was, how long would it be before her next bender, and would she<br />
survive it?<br />
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The <strong>Erotic</strong> <strong>Dreams</strong> of a<br />
Menop<strong>au</strong>sal Housewife<br />
“It’s those pills doctor, you’ve got to do something about them. My husband’s<br />
getting worn out!”<br />
Mrs. C had always been an outgoing, vivacious, no nonsense type of person who<br />
came very quickly to the point. Her point was her dreams.<br />
She had originally presented with symptoms of the menop<strong>au</strong>se - hot flushes,<br />
irregular periods, dry vagina and poor libido. In her early fifties, her symptoms were<br />
not unusual, and she was started on the normal dose of hormone replacement<br />
therapy (HRT). The Americans tout these pills containing oestrogen and<br />
progesterone (the female hormones) as the pill of youth, but that normally is a slight<br />
exaggeration.<br />
HRT will certainly slow the aging process by maintaining skin elasticity (therefore<br />
fewer wrinkles), preventing breast sag, lubricating the vagina, strengthening bones,<br />
and if desired, returning a woman’s regular periods, but old age eventually catches all<br />
of us.<br />
The husbands of these women are frequently surprised to find that their wives<br />
develop a renewed interest in intimate marital relationships, at a time in life when<br />
they had almost given up all hope of any further activity. Libido (sexual desire) is<br />
both a state of mind and a level of hormones. Most women are more interested in sex<br />
in the middle of the month at the time of ovulation, but when the hormones<br />
disappear with menop<strong>au</strong>se, so may the libido.<br />
Mrs. C’s dreams were erotic. Her oestrogen pills were having not only their normal<br />
physical effects, but were giving her very vivid, and enjoyably salacious dreams.<br />
The stories spilled out of her as she sat beside my desk in the surgery.<br />
The Mongol hordes had surrounded the nomadic encampment of her family. She (in<br />
her dream) was a young, be<strong>au</strong>tiful, virginal d<strong>au</strong>ghter of the tribal headman. After a<br />
prolonged and valiant battle, in which she played a significant part lassoing the legs<br />
of the charging Mongol horses to make them fall, her family and friends were<br />
sl<strong>au</strong>ghtered around her, and she was carried off as a prize for the handsome, virile<br />
son of Genghis Khan.<br />
She was swept up onto the back of a horse, and her captor galloped away with her<br />
across the vast plain until the Prince’s encampment came into view. She was taken to<br />
his yurt, flung through the door, and landed in a huge pile of luxurious silks and furs<br />
that covered the floor of the yurt, and decorated its walls.<br />
The prince strode into the tent, bare to the waist, his muscled chest glistened with<br />
sweat after the exertion of his ride. He undressed her with his eyes, and then ordered<br />
her to prepare herself for him. Her desire for him was as great as his was for her. She<br />
nestled into the furs and waited for him to penetrate her.<br />
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Then she woke up, and such was her ardour that she had to have someone, so her<br />
husband was wakened, and told in no uncertain terms to honour her with his body.<br />
This was all related in a very matter of fact way, with barely a break for breath, as<br />
a follow on to the sentence that starts this story.<br />
As Mrs. C’s speech rate slowed to indicate the end of her tale, I broke in to ask her<br />
if she felt her hormone tablets were having any other effects.<br />
“No doctor, just these extraordinary dreams. I’ve not enjoyed dreaming so much<br />
for years”.<br />
She l<strong>au</strong>nched into another dream.<br />
This time she was a Hell’s Angels bikie’s moll. Dressed in skin tight leather, she<br />
clung to him on the back of a Harley Davison as they swept across the country side<br />
at death defying speeds, terrorising other motorists as they travelled, and shop<br />
keepers wherever they stopped. The vibrations of the bike sent thrills up her spine,<br />
she clasped herself as closely as possible to her man, and thrilled to the adrenalin of<br />
speed.<br />
At any time, or place, he would have his way with her, and she always responded<br />
eagerly to keep him pleased. But he became too pleased, and boasted of her sexual<br />
prowess to the others in the gang. This raised the interest of their leader, who<br />
wandered over to give her a close inspection. This inspection became quite detailed<br />
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as he brutally unzipped the front of her leather jacket, ripped the flimsy blouse she<br />
wore underneath, and examined her feminine attributes. This naturally angered her<br />
current man, and a challenge ensued.<br />
She was seated with her back to a tree, and in her semi naked state, watched the<br />
two bikies duel over her with chains and knives. The gang leader was victorious, and<br />
grabbing her around the waist, threw her over his machine, and penetrated her in<br />
front of the assembled gang to demonstrate his dominance and possession.<br />
“And doctor, just as I was about to climax, I woke up again, and my poor husband,<br />
he just didn’t know what had <strong>com</strong>e over me. Two nights running was almost too<br />
much for him”.<br />
It was tempting to leave her on the tablets to hear what further tales would be<br />
forth<strong>com</strong>ing, but I decided she was right, her husband’s health had to <strong>com</strong>e first, and<br />
to avoid him succumbing to total exh<strong>au</strong>stion, heart failure and shock, the dosage of<br />
her oestrogen was lowered just a little bit - but not too much!<br />
© Warwick Carter<br />
www.medwords.<strong>com</strong>.<strong>au</strong><br />
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Dr. Warwick Carter a medical practitioner based in Brisbane, Australia<br />
and holds a post as an Associate Professor in the School of Health Sciences and Medicine<br />
at Bond University in Queensland.<br />
He has written 24 books on medical topics,<br />
as well as over 3000 magazine and newspaper articles.<br />
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