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<strong>No</strong> <strong>Regrets</strong><br />

<strong>Emotional</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Relational</strong> <strong>Consequences</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Casual</strong> <strong>Sex</strong> Among<br />

College Students<br />

Student Researcher Maggie Tinsley<br />

UNCG Wellness Center Intern<br />

We at UNCG do not want to<br />

be outdated in our<br />

approach<br />

Problem Statement:<br />

Researchers who have investigated the “hook<br />

up” culture on college campuses have all<br />

given a common call to action to college<br />

administrators <strong>and</strong> anyone involved with<br />

college students.: we need to talk (provide<br />

guidance) about sex, romance <strong>and</strong> hooking<br />

up during the college years. College life<br />

<strong>of</strong>fers new freedoms <strong>and</strong> choices for many<br />

college freshmen who are <strong>of</strong>ten ill prepared<br />

to adequately access the possible lifelong<br />

consequences <strong>of</strong> those choices—this is<br />

especially true for sexual exploration.<br />

Besides the risk <strong>of</strong> STD’s <strong>and</strong> pregnancy,<br />

more attention needs to be given to the<br />

emotional, mental <strong>and</strong> marital downfalls <strong>of</strong><br />

engaging in casual sex during the college<br />

years.<br />

The following is a brochure that UNCG provides<br />

to students:<br />

’Bring a sense <strong>of</strong> discovery to the things you’re<br />

learning. You might be surprised! Many people<br />

have a period <strong>of</strong> exploration before they decide<br />

on a firm sexual style or identity”<br />

“Rather than judging your thoughts <strong>and</strong> feelings –<br />

keep your focus on choosing actions that work for<br />

you”<br />

“Make choices that fit your moral beliefs<br />

Some only have one partner‐ others have multipleboth<br />

are normal<br />

Some may have one partner at a time others have<br />

several different in the same given period‐ both are<br />

normal”<br />

Students hear conflicting messages<br />

<strong>No</strong>rmal implies “OK” to students<br />

Vital information is missing<br />

Between 79% <strong>and</strong> 85% <strong>of</strong> US college students report that they<br />

have engaged in at least one hook‐up<br />

(Paul <strong>and</strong> Hayes 2002).<br />

Intervention strategies:<br />

2 Dating Game Events<br />

Student Discussion form<br />

Development <strong>of</strong> class room<br />

curriculum<br />

College class presentations<br />

Website development<br />

Internship included the following:<br />

Research <strong>and</strong> literature review <strong>of</strong> casual sex in relation to<br />

population<br />

Assess secondary <strong>and</strong> primary data<br />

Plan <strong>and</strong> implement intervention strategies<br />

Evaluate program effectiveness<br />

The<br />

<strong>Consequences</strong><br />

<strong>Casual</strong> <strong>Sex</strong>:<br />

Regret: 74% <strong>of</strong><br />

college students<br />

experience regret (1).<br />

<strong>of</strong><br />

Oxytocin is a female bonding<br />

hormone secreted during sex which<br />

causes feelings <strong>of</strong> attachment(2).<br />

Reputations for women <strong>and</strong> men are<br />

damaged (4).<br />

Ability to bond may be harmed (4).<br />

Correlation between having premarital<br />

sexual relations with other than future mate<br />

may double the likelihood <strong>of</strong> divorce (5).<br />

Keeps men in “boy mode” where they do<br />

not have to provide, protect or pursue<br />

(6).<br />

Increases depression in women (7)<br />

References<br />

1.Eshbaugh, Elaine M., Gute, Gary.Hookups <strong>and</strong> <strong>Sex</strong>ual Regret among College<br />

Women. Journal <strong>of</strong> Social Psychology, Feb2008, Vol. 148 Issue 1, p77<br />

2.Ross, Heather E., Young, Larry J. (2009) Frontiers in Neuroendocrinology,<br />

Volume 30, Issue 4, P.52<br />

3. Glenn, N.,Marquardt,E. (2001) Hooking up, Hanging out <strong>and</strong> Hoping for Mr.<br />

Right. College Women on Dating <strong>and</strong> Mating Today. Institute for<br />

American Values. page 16<br />

4. Garcia, L. (2006). Perceptions <strong>of</strong> sexual experience <strong>and</strong> preferences for dating<br />

<strong>and</strong> marriage. Canadian Journal <strong>of</strong> Human <strong>Sex</strong>uality, 15(2), 85‐94.<br />

5. Teachman, J. (2003). Premarital <strong>Sex</strong>, Premarital Cohabitation <strong>and</strong> the Risk <strong>of</strong><br />

Subsequent Marital Dissolution Among Women. Journal <strong>of</strong> Marriage<br />

<strong>and</strong> Family, 65(2), p. 456<br />

6. . Glenn, N.,Marquardt,E. (2001) Hooking up, Hanging out <strong>and</strong> Hoping for Mr.<br />

Right. College Women on Dating <strong>and</strong> Mating Today. Institute for<br />

American Values. Pg. 16<br />

7. Amy L., G., & Kathryn A., K. (2004). Associations Between Insecure<br />

Attachment <strong>and</strong> <strong>Sex</strong>ual Experiences. Personal Relationships, 11(2),<br />

249‐265. doi:10.1111/j.1475‐6811.2004.00081<br />

.


Prevalence<br />

• Between 79% <strong>and</strong> 85% <strong>of</strong> US<br />

college students report that they<br />

have engaged in at least one hookup<br />

(Paul <strong>and</strong> Hayes 2002; Paul et al. 2000).<br />

• 30% <strong>of</strong> the casual sex encounters<br />

involve intercourse (Burdette, Ellison, Hill & Glenn, 2009 p.<br />

540)


stude<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

•<br />

Goals<br />

To provide opportunities for<br />

college students to talk about<br />

sexual decisions <strong>and</strong> their<br />

future<br />

To provide support Services for<br />

students who want to explore<br />

the issues related to casual sex<br />

To make every student aware <strong>of</strong><br />

how casual sex may harm<br />

relational abilities<br />

To inform UNCG students fully<br />

about sexual impacts on<br />

relationships

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