06 - Triangle Italian American Heritage Association

Triangle Italian-American Heritage Association
PO Box 20266
Raleigh, NC 27619
Newsletter
January/ Gennaio 2006
Editor: Neal Caliendo
(919) 846-2747
nealcali@yahoo.com
Officers:
FRANK FERRARO, SR., President (919) 266-9358
VINNY DORIA, Vice President (919) 266-6472
VINCE CONZOLA, Treasurer (919) 254-0120
JACK GIAMPORTONE, Secretary (919) 781-5580
VICTOR CONONI, Sergeant-at-Arms (919) 782-2876
AL CELLINI, Past President (919) 365-2209
BOB VETRANO, Communications (919) 848-1846
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Members at Large:
TONY AIELLO (919) 554-4676
MIKE KUHARCIK (919) 550-8317
ROY CORDATO (919) 639-0970
BOB CAPRIOLI (Alternate) (919) 554-1805
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Other Committees:
TONY AIELLO, Good & Welfare Chairman (919) 554-4676
VICTOR CONONI, Membership Chairman (919) 782-2876
BOB GIANNUZZI, Public Relations Chairman (919) 676-0082
FRANK FERRARO, SR., Social Chairman (919)266-9358
NEAL CALIENDO, Newsletter Chairman (919)846-2747
PETER CARI, Newsletter Assistant (919)383-2460
TONY ROMANO, Oxford Orphanage Fundraiser Co-Chairman (919) 388-1514
RON LITTLE, Oxford Orphanage Fundraiser Co-Chairman (919)821-2770
TONY AIELLO, Adopt-A-Hwy Chairman (919)554-4676
VICTOR CONONI, Scholarship Chairman (919)782-2876
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MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT:
Dear TIAHA Brothers,
When I look back on 2005 I say, “Whew!!!” When I look ahead to 2006 I say, “Wow!!!”
When you look back and reflect on it, 2005 was a pretty spectacular year for TIAHA. We were more than successful in all
of our endeavors to raise money, no matter what the purpose, or who the final recipients of the funds were. It seems like
we had some kind of affair, social event, project, gathering, of many kinds each and every month. I’d like to genuinely
thank everyone who participated in any way, shape, or manner in all the good we, as an organization, accomplished this
year:
Adopt-A-Highway, Red Cross Blood Drive, Crab & Fishing Trip, Friday Night Poker, Day at the Races, TIAHA Golf
Tournament (I know that I, for one, will never forget that day), Camp Shalom Pizza Fest, TIAHA Family Picnic, St.
Joseph’s Church Clean and Paint, Lifetime Members Recognition, Team Italy Baseball Pig Roast and Ballgames at
Durham Bulls Park, Wives and Significant Others Dinner Meeting, Board Installation Dinner, St. Raphael’s Carnival, Pot
Luck Dinners, Monthly President’s Awards to Members in recognition of Extraordinary Service, The International
Festival, Dinner Meeting at Joe Frangiosa’s House, Kids from local High School Italian Clubs participating in events,
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Italian vs. Irish Softball Game, Oxford House Christmas, The Scholarship Raffle, and our very own
www.theitalianclub.com web site.
Just reading that last paragraph and you know why I say, “Whew!!” We did a bunch last year and it is all reflected upon
you the Brothers of TIAHA. I truly believe that every one of our active members participated in at least three or more of
the events listed above and that is more than gratifying because that’s what we are all about. As it says in our membership
oath, “….I will socially and charitably offer my services to the community.” Well you, the members of TIAHA, have
certainly lived up to that and I am proud to be your brother, and more than proud to have served as your President this year.
And now the “Wow!!” It is my firm belief that we can excel even more in 2006. We saw a good growth in our
membership and welcomed about a dozen new members this past year. I’d like to, at least, double that in 2006. I truly
believe we, as members working together, can top last year’s success, and number of events, in every aspect of being a
social, charitable, and fraternal organization.
It is coming to the time for you the members to select a new Board of Officers. It is time for some of you to step up and
volunteer to be on the Board in a position where you can help us progress even further. We will select an election
committee at this month’s meeting and will have elections in February and New Board Installation in March. This club
belongs to all of us, but we will need a strong and dedicated Board to accomplish and exceed our goals. I know we can.
And above everything else I have talked about or listed in this letter. I sure had a lot of fun. Thank you from the bottom of
my heart.
Fraternally yours,
Frank
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TIAHA GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETING MINUTES
Wednesday, December 21st, 2005 at Knights of Columbus, New Hope Road and Columbus Road, Raleigh, NC
1. Tonight’s guests are:
• Luigi Rigutto Has been in US for 39 years, in Triangle since 1966. He is from Frililli, Italy
• Greg Torsone – Rochester, NY Came to Raleigh in 1991 and works for Proctor & Gamble. Heritage is
LeFae, Italy
2. Vin Doria is acting Secretary
3. Minutes of last meeting accepted
4. The whole Oxford (Masonic) Orphanage went extremely well thanks to a great team effort lead by John Colombo and
Tony Romano
5. We “passed the bucket” with John Bono in full Santa Claus regalia and collected a very good sum of money that will
go into our general charity fund.
6. Good and Welfare. Please keep the following in your thoughts and prayers
• Jack Giamportone- Lost his Mom and her Sister in an automobile accident
• Nick Guarino – Will be going for a brain scan to determine what is the cause of his pain and discomfort
• Frank Palermo – Is doing well after surgery but still has a lot of recovery to go
• Frank Ferra – Mother in Law is going for extensive medical testing
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• Vin Lanzola was married
• Joe Larotonda – His Daughter graduated from UNC
7. Steve Laino and Ron Torsone were sworn in as new members
8. A special Board vote had been taken and passed to provide Christmas Gifts to the Following
• Ron Little- We will buy seven bikes for a group of related children who “were all dumped” at their
Grandmother’s house. TIAHA will donate $200 and Ron and June Little are providing the additional
$86 to make up the total cost
• Frank Ferraro found the Gill House and bought a CD Player and $25 gift certificate for their one child
who did not have any family to go home for Christmas to
9. The January meeting will have a guest Speaker. He is Dominic Pulera who has written a number of books and essays
on race and ethnic relations.
• WIVES AND SIGNIFICANT OTHERS ARE INVITED
• We have also invited the Sons of Italy and have put out an open invitation to the High School Italian Clubs
and will run a notice in the News and Observer
• Bob Vetrano will cook----- HE NEEDS VOLUNTEERS TO HELP
10. HOLIDAY POT LUCK DINNER----SUNDAY JANUARY 22 ND AT ODDFELLOWS LODGE
• 3:00 Start (Yes we will have TVs to watch Football playoff games)
• Every individual person bring a $5 or less gift (It can be a gag gift or anything else) and please wrap
it in Christmas paper.
• Everyone bring a dish that will serve 6 people
• A – F Main Course
• G – M Dessert
• N – Z Appetizer or Salad
11. President’s Award for December to John Colombo and Tony Romano
12. 50-50 was picked by Luigi and won by John Colombo
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13. The Raffle Drawing was held and the winners are:
• $75 Gift Certificate Dale Mancuso
• $75 Gift Certificate Neal Caliendo
• Apple iPod MP3 Player Jersey Mike
• Apple iPod MP3 Player Vince Salvaggio
• 30” Flat Screen TV Evelyn Clegg (Sold to her by Pat Cellini)
• It looks like we made a good profit on the raffle which goes to our Scholarship and general
Charity fund.
A Man Gets One Wish
A man walking along a California beach was deep in prayer. All of a sudden he said out loud,
"Lord, grant me one wish."
Suddenly the sky clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord said, "Because you
have had the faith to ask, I will grant you one wish." The man said, "Build a bridge to Hawaii, so I
can drive over anytime I want to."
The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the logistics of that kind of
undertaking. The supports required to reach the bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it
would take! I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little
more time and think of another wish, a wish you think would honor and glorify me."
The man thought about it for a long time. Finally he said, "Lord, I have been married and divorced
four times. All of my wives said that I am uncaring and insensitive. I wish that I could understand
women. I want to know how they feel inside, what they are thinking when they give me the silent
treatment, why they cry, what they mean when they say "nothing" and how I can make a woman
truly happy?"
After a few minutes God said, "You want two lanes or four on that bridge?"
Welcome to our newest members:
Bruno Pagnani
Emilio D'Arduini
Ron Torsone
Bob Cenfetelli
Steven Laino
Joe Larotonda
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TIAHA EXECUTIVE BOARD MEETING MINUTES
Tuesday, January 3rd, 2006 at Knights of Columbus, New Hope Road and Columbus Road, Raleigh, NC
F Ferraro, V Conzola, R Cordato, V Cononi
1. Good & Welfare: Guidelines were discussed as to what to send/provide in the event of a TIAHA brother’s sorrow
or grief
• Immediate Family (Spouse, Child, or Parent) $50 for flowers or donation to the charity/church as
requested by the family
• For all others we will send a card
• Upon any member finding out about such a need, he should call a Board member who shall in turn
notify the rest of the Board and Good & Welfare chairman so we may take appropriate action and
notify all brothers
2. We were profitable in all our fund raising and business endeavors this year. We have very positive balances in
our treasury as well as all of our various “specific slush funds.”
• International Festival - We made over $1500
• St. Raphael’s- This was pure profit that went into our general treasury
• Oxford House – We provided a great Christmas and still have a substantial amount in our treasury
and slush fund at the Oxford house that we will be using throughout the year for a number of
different events, etc.
• Marino Scholarship- We have such a positive balance that the Board decided to raise this year’s
Scholarship award to $1,000
• Our general Charity fund allowed us to:
a. buy the 7 bikes for needy family that Ron and June Little found,
b. Provide a very nice gift for the Gill House
c. And we still have money in the fund for other charitable events this year
• Raffle- We made over $1,000 that will be split between the Scholarship and our General Charity
Fund
3. Vince Conzola reported that dues collections are going very well and that we are way ahead of last year’s pace.
4. We must contact and charge people who have ads in the newsletter. Vince Conzola will send invoices and will
call on Bob Giannuzzi to ram rod this effort.
5. The Board approved the purchase of a small inexpensive copier that we can bring to meetings etc and will allow
us to better distribute copies of important documents, etc.
6. Jan. 18 th Meeting
• Dominic Pulera is guest speaker
• Bob V. is cooking baked ziti, salad, and sausage
• Members will still pay for dinner but all other guests are free
• We will have wine but will have someone to pour and collect money at $1.00 per glass
• Vince C to contact Bob Giannizzi re the folks at Quail Hollow book store to see if they want to bring
copies of Mr. Pulera’s books to sell
• Frank F to e-mail Mr. Pulera regarding book signing, travel arrangements, directions, etc.
7. Sunday Jan. 22 nd is Pot Luck dinner at 3:00. Each person to bring a $5 gift and food for six people
• A – F Main Course
• G – M Dessert
• N – Z Appetizer or Salad
8. We need an election committee for 2006 Board. We are supposed to have elections in Feb and installation in
March
9. All brothers who have paid dues need new membership cards. Frank to sign a bunch and forward to Vic C and
Vince C for distribution
10. Frank to put together a 2006 Calendar
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Following is a sample of what TIAHA is all about
Frank presents CD Player and Gift Certificate
to Jaquan Kennedy at The Gill House
Masonic Home For Children Christmas Party
Santa (John Bono) presenting gift at Masonic Home For Children
Greetings from the North Pole, (Boy am I exhausted) we delivered 6 bicycles and one tricycle to seven kids that could not have been
happier. All three of us (Randi, Ron, June (Little)) waited and waited for the guys to get up on Christmas Day and finally at about 9am we
heard the YAHOO's from two doors down. I rushed out to take pictures of the kids that woke up first. Since Christmas, every afternoon
when I get home they are all riding their new bikes. I'd like to take this opportunity to thank the many Santas of TIAHA for making this a
special Christmas.
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The word pasta comes from the Italian word for paste, meaning a combination of flour and water. The term pasta has
always been used on Italian restaurant menus to include all the various pasta offerings.
The Pope set quality standards for pasta in the 13 th century.
There are more than 600 pasta shapes world wide.
On record, the Chinese have eaten pasta as early as 5 000 B.C.
Tripolini ("little bows") were named to honour the Italian conquest of Tripoli in Libya.
According to legend, noodles were first made by German bakers in the 13 th century. They molded dough into symbolic
shapes, such as stars, swords and birds, which they then baked and served as bread.
All pasta is made by essentially the same equipment using the same technology. Also, independent taste tests conducted
by Consumer reports U.S. pasta was found superior to Italian imports.
According to Harry Balzer (NPD Group, Chicago), consumers enjoy pasta for dinner more than 40
times a year – approximately once a week.
According to a Wall Street Journal article, pasta is actor Leonardo diCaprio’s favourite.
Pasta existed for thousands of years before anybody ever thought of putting tomatoe
sauce on it. Cortez, a Spanish explorer, brought tomatoes back to Europe from Mexico in
1519. Even then, nearly 200 years passed before spaghetti served with tomatoe sauce
made its way into Italian kitchens.
Speaking of spaghetti … and meatballs: the
Italians only ate meat a few times a month.
So, when they came to America, where
meat was plentiful, they incorporated meat
into their cooking more often, making
meatballs an American invention.
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TIAHA ANNUAL SCHOLARSHIP
Because of the success of the raffle and other fund raising, this years Scholarship has been
raised to $1,000 (In previous years it was $500 - $750). The requirements are that the
applicant must be 1/8 Italian, submit an application with all associated and required
information, and must be already attending, or as a High School Senior, accepted to, any
accredited institution of higher learning. The funds can go towards tuition, books, housing,
or any other costs associated with education.
There is an application in this newsletter so get them to your candidates ASAP. All
applications must be in by April 15 th at the latest. The selection committee (Made up of
TIAHA Board members and Academic Faculty/Educators in Wake County) will then review
all applications, transcripts, etc. and we will announce this year’s recipient at our May
meeting.
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Italian American Heritage Association
Fostering the Growth of Italian-American Heritage
Through Service and Fellowship
APPLICATION FOR SCHOLARSHIP
Academic year: 2006 – 2007
Deadline: April 15 th Notification: May 15 th
Part I :
Full Name : _________________________________________________________________
Permanent Home Address : _____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
Telephone Number : _____________________ Date of Birth : _____________________
Name of parents/guardians : ____________________________________________________
School you plan to attend or presently attend : ______________________________________
Present or intended field of study : _______________________________________________
Honors : ____________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________
Other points of consideration, e.g. extracurricular activities, service, interests, sports, etc. :
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
Please provide a copy of your transcript (HS or college) and SAT/ACT scores (where applicable)
to secure the completion of this application.
Part II :
Please provide an essay (500 words or less) for each of the following questions. Your answers
should be on separate sheets of paper, typed and double-spaced.
(1) What are your plans for the future, and what has been a significant experience in your past
that has helped you decide this course of action for yourself?
(2) How has your Italian-American heritage affected you, and what part will it play in your
future?
Signature of applicant : ______________________
Date : ______________________
Upon completion, this application plus any additional information should be mailed to:
Triangle Italian-American Association
PO Box 20266, Raleigh, NC 27619
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Southern Italian Immigration
By Nicola Colella
Can you imagine what it was like to say goodbye to your family, your
home and your friends? To leave for a strange country, not knowing the
language, and with little or no money? Who would do such a thing?
Why would anyone do something so drastic?
The following is not "pretty story." It is however a TRUE STORY that
ends well, and it needs to be told, and told again and again, lest future
generations forget. It is the history of our families emigration to America....why they came and what it was like
when they got here.
Going to America
Most Italian immigrants never planned to stay in the US permanently. There is even a special phrase that was
coined for Italians: "Birds of Passage" since their intent was to be migratory laborers. Even though about 75% of
Italian immigrants were farmers in Italy, they did not wish to farm in the US (as it implied a permanence that
did not figure in their plans). Instead, they headed for cities where labor was needed and wages were relatively
high. Many Italian men left their wives and children behind because they expected to return (and many, many
did). In any event, for many Italian immigrants, migration could not be interpreted as a rejection of Italy. In
fact, it is a defense of the Italian way of life, for the money sent home helped to preserve the traditional order.
Rather than seeking permanent homes, they desired an opportunity to work for (relatively) high wages in the
city and save enough money to return to a better life in Italy. Very commendable considering the difficult
conditions that characterized life in southern Italy in those times. These conditions were a result of many
different factors.
The History
The vast majority of immigration came from the former Independent and Sovereign State of southern Italy, the
Kingdom of the Two Sicilies. It included all continental southern Italy from Abruzzi, to Calabria and Puglia, and
Sicily. It was occupied in 1860, without a declaration of war, by the northern Piedmontese Kingdom ruled by the
House of Savoy (Kingdom of Sardinia). A ten-year bloody civil war followed, and, as a result, about one million
people, Neapolitans and Sicilians, were murdered by the Italian Army of occupation. The National Treasury of
the Two Sicilies was robbed and appropriated by the invaders. Even machines
from Neapolitan factories were moved to the North. Severe economic depression
followed.
( Above paragraph and map courtesy of: Associazione Culturale Due Sicilie )
Although southern Italy's troubles can be attributed to exploitation by their own
people, I don't believe it is fair (or historically accurate) to attribute all the
suffering to northern Italians alone. In fact, for centuries in all of Italy the entire
peninsula was divided into feuding states, with foreign powers often ruling one
or several states. In this chaotic situation, the feudal system ruled the economic
system. Specifically, the feudal system allowed hereditary land possession to
determine one's political power and social status, so many poor Italians had
almost no opportunity to improve their lives. But it is true, that southern Italians
suffered more hardships than those in the North. The Italian government was
dominated by northerners, and southerners were hurt by high taxes and high
protective tariffs on northern industrial goods. Additionally, much of southern
Italy's problems can be attributed to it's lack of coal and iron ore which was
needed by industry; extreme scarcity of cultivatable land, soil erosion,
deforestation, and overpopulation. For the North, their higher level of industrialism meant less poverty and
agricultural difficulties. On top of all of that, several natural disasters rocked southern Italy during the early
20th century: Mt. Vesuvius erupted burying an entire town near Naples, Mt. Etna's eruption, the 1908
earthquake and tidal wave that swept through the Strait of Messina, which killed more than 100,000 people in
the city of Messina alone.
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Ellis Island
(The following text is from "The World's Work"
written in 1902)
I welcomed Florio Vincenzo when he came over to become
one of us. He had no doubts of the future for he wooed the
Goddess of Good Fortune boldly. Florio is fourteen; he
came from Palermo. He traveled light. When he opened his
cheap paper valise, it was apparently empty, save for a pair
of discredited and disreputable old shoes. Florio bowed,
cap in hand, and his white teeth flashed as he smiled
suavely:
There was an odor that an old inspector knew. He picked
up one of the shoes and extracted from it, after some
manipulation, a creased and crumpled hunk of Bolog na sausage. The other shoe was stuffed with a soft, sticky
and aggressively fragrant mass of Italian cheese. These articles and a sum of Italian money equivalent to about
$1.80, and the clothes he stood in, formed the basis on which Florio expected to rear his fortune.
Pietro Viarilli was gray-haired, round-shouldered, and weazened. He, too, had come make his fortune. His
impedimenta consisted of one padlocked canvas valise lined with paper and containing two striped cotton
shirts, one neckerchief of yellow silk blue flowers and edges, one black hat (soiled and worn), one waistcoat, two
pairs of woolen hose of gay design, one suit of underwear, one pint of olive oil and about half a peck of hard
bread biscuits. Until his arrival the list included a quart of Vesuvian wine of the rich purple hue one may buy in
cheap cafes in Naples. Carelessly Pietro had slung his valise from his shoulder, and had smashed his bottle,
drenching his store of biscuits. He and his companions had munched them greedily until the supply was
exhausted.
Money Brought by the Immigrants
At the examination the immigrants are asked to show their money. Some craftily fail to show it all; others
willingly display their whole petty hoardings. The money is carefully counted, and, after a record has been taken,
restored to them. Later, they are asked if they wish any money changed. Many refuse for fear of being cheated;
others stop before the busy money-changers' booth at the end of the long examination room.
Last year the 388,931 immigrants showed $5,490,080, an average of $14.12 The French led all the others with
an average of $39.37. The Hebrews stood at the foot of the list bringing on an average $8.58. The Germans
followed the French with an average of $31.14. The other nationalities stood in the list as follows:
Race Average per Capita
Italians(Northern) $23.53
Bohemian and Moravian $22.78
Scandinavian $18.16
Irish $17.10
Ar menian $15.75
Croation and Dalmation $ 15.54
Greek $15.10
Slovak $12.31 Magyar $10.96
Italian(Southern) $8.67
Roughly speaking, the North-of-Europe people make better citizens than those from the South of Europe. The
better class go to the country and the worst to the cities. Greeks are considered about the least desirable of all;
the Italians from the southern portion of the peninsula also make poor citizens; but those from the northern
part of Italy rank with the Swiss and other desirable nationalities.
At Work
In an open ditch, red and raw under a broiling sun, sixty-five Italian immigrants, stripped to the necessities,
toiled silently with shovel and pick. A hard-faced, red-necked man, their taskmaster, walked up and down the
trench, and wherever he stopped the men worked with feverish speed. Temporarily, at least, this will be the fate
of thousands of the other immigrants who flowed in through Ellis Island in this year's spring flood, the greatest
in twenty years.
These Greeks and the Southern Italians, however, who live by selling fruit from the push carts in the city streets,
earn considerable sums of money. An old Italian was detained at Ellis Island, preparatory to being deported
because he had arrived here penniless. He sent for his son, a push-cart man, who had been in this country just
one year. The boy (he was not more than twenty) brought his book showing deposits aggregating $250. This
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money represented the sum he had saved. He impressed upon the inspectors his ability to support his father,
and the old man was admitted. The boy said his expenses were about $7.00 a week, and that he did not work for
a padrone, but was an independent merchant.(End of text from "The World's Work" written in 1902)
Life In A New World
And so... to America we came, hundreds upon hundreds of thousands until we were more than four million. We
faced overwhelming prejudice, poverty and the isolation of being in a strange and unfriendly country. The
majority came to the US when they were very young with high hopes for a better future for themselves and their
families. They found that not only were the streets not paved with gold but that they were expected to pave
them. We soon discovered that we were here to do the dirty work that nobody else wanted to do. We came to a
place that considered us and treated us as less than equal. (Read the comments written above.) We were
regarded as low class, stupid and inferior.
We had to learn how to hide our foreignness. We had to learn how to fit in and to adapt and so we did. However,
we still held our heads high and we were still proud of where we came from and of who we were. The
mainstream of society tried to humbled us, but we refused to believe that they were better than us and we
refused to be treated as inferior. We learned to speak English, we found jobs, we started our own businesses. We
joined unions and we even formed our own unions. We bought our own homes and we succeeded in spite of the
prejudice, discrimination, and less than friendly welcome we received in the US.
We stuck together and even managed to preserve the Italian way of life back in Italy by sending home a great
deal of money. In the US, Italians mobilized to preserve their culture. In Italian neighborhoods, Italian shops
and other businesses sprung up. Italians made it a habit to buy from other Italians. We kept the money in the
community and we prospered. I remember my father would never buy from a 'mericano' (American) if he could
by it from an Italian. Italian-American newspapers were published in major cities, immigrant-aid and fraternal
societies were formed --i.e., Sons of Italy etc. All of this greatly helped the continuously arriving immigrants who
in addition to the strong Italian work ethic, brought dance, music and food! In fact, Italian food is now a staple
of the American diet.
Little Italy New York City Circa 1905
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ON A PERSONAL NOTE:
PRAYERS AND CONCERNS:
Jack Giamportone lost his mom and her sister in
an automobile accident.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO:
NONE THIS MONTH
Nick Guarino has been diagnosed with a tumor
behind one of his eyes.
Frank Palermo is recovering from surgery.
Frank Ferraro’s mother-in-law, Mary Metzger,
will be undergoing extensive medical tests.
Bill Macario has been admitted to the rehab
section of Cary Health & Rehab on Tryon Road
Dale Mancuso's wife, Lorraine is having back
surgery Jan. 16th at Rex Hospital
Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers.
BIRTHDAY WISHES TO:
M EMBERS
Chris Palmisano
Vince Salvaggio
SIGNIFICANT OTHERS
Vickie Christofaro
Rosa D’Arduini
Ann Marie Doria
Carole Frangiosa
Sherry Salvaggio
EDITOR:
I s something newsworthy?
Let us know, send it to
Neal Caliendo: nealcali@yahoo.com
CONGR ATULATIONS
Joe Larotonda’s daughter graduated from UNC.
If you know of an illness, birth, death, marriage, etc., of
a TIAHA member or member’s family, please contact:
Neal Caliendo: nealcali@yahoo.com
(919)846-2747
and/or
Tony Aiello: taiello1@nc.rr.com
(919)554-4676
If your e-mail and/or home address changes, please
notify Vince Conzola, at (919) 878-7976,
conzola@us.ibm.com .
The deadline for submitting input to the newsletter
is the second Wednesday of the month.
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Triangle Italian-American Heritage Association
P.O. Box 20266, Raleigh, North Carolina 27619
TIAHA UPCOMING EVENTS
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December 21st (Wednesday), 6:30 PM - GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETING Knights of Columbus, New Hope
and Columbus Roads, Raleigh.
January 3rd (Tuesday), 6:30 PM – EXECUTIVE BOARD MEETING: Knights of Columbus, New Hope and
Columbus Roads, Raleigh.
January 18th (Wednesday), 6:30 PM - GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETING Knights of Columbus, New Hope
and Columbus Roads, Raleigh.
January 22nd (Sunday), 3:00 PM – POT LUCK DINNER Odd Fellows Lodge, 7805 Six Forks Road, Raleigh
February 7th (Tuesday), 6:30 PM – EXECUTIVE BOARD MEETING: Knights of Columbus, New Hope and
Columbus Roads, Raleigh.
February 15th (Wednesday), 6:30 PM - GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETING Knights of Columbus, New Hope
and Columbus Roads, Raleigh.
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