Christmas Ball 2010 - Goan Association of New Jersey
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Volume XVIII - Number 4 FALL <strong>2010</strong><br />
On the inside...<br />
<strong>Association</strong> Corner 2<br />
GOANJ Annual Retreat<br />
Collage 4<br />
People <strong>New</strong>s 5<br />
<strong>Goan</strong> Gourmet 5<br />
Garage Sale for Asro 6<br />
Reuse <strong>of</strong> Pacemakers in India 6<br />
Caring Corner 8<br />
The <strong>Goan</strong> Connection is a publication<br />
<strong>of</strong> the <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong><br />
<strong>Jersey</strong>, Inc., a non-pr<strong>of</strong>it organization<br />
established in 1991.<br />
Inquiries, membership, subscription<br />
requests, feedback and letters to the<br />
Editor may be sent to:<br />
The <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> NJ, Inc.<br />
P.O. Box 335<br />
Cranbury, NJ 08512<br />
Website: www.goanj.com<br />
Email: committee@goanj.com<br />
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The Children’s <strong>Christmas</strong> Party<br />
Sunday, December 12, <strong>2010</strong><br />
2.30 P.M. to 7.00 P.M.<br />
Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Peace Church Hall,<br />
North Brunswick, NJ<br />
GOAN ASSOCIATION OF NEW JERSEY, INC.<br />
The <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong><br />
presents<br />
<strong>Christmas</strong> <strong>Ball</strong> <strong>2010</strong><br />
Saturday , December 18, <strong>2010</strong><br />
6 p.m. to 1 a.m.<br />
Ukrainian Cultural Center<br />
135 Davidson Avenue, Somerset , NJ<br />
Get into the <strong>Christmas</strong> Spirit as you move to the<br />
sounds <strong>of</strong><br />
Prism Dance Band<br />
with DJ Brian<br />
For forms and further details, please go to our website at www.goanj.com<br />
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Who’s Who<br />
Valerie Moniz<br />
Managing Editor<br />
Louella Menezes<br />
Designer<br />
Alan Lopez<br />
Collage Designer<br />
Executive Committee<br />
Felix Menezes<br />
President<br />
Gladys Monteiro<br />
Vice President<br />
Olinda Gomes<br />
Secretary<br />
Allan D’Guerra<br />
Treasurer<br />
<strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> Of NJ, Inc.<br />
Website: www.goanj.com<br />
Email: committee@goanj.com<br />
All rights reserved.<br />
<strong>Association</strong><br />
Corner<br />
My Dear Friends:<br />
This year is almost over; I just cannot<br />
believe that we have just one month left to<br />
fulfill all our dreams and aspirations for the<br />
year <strong>2010</strong>. We just concluded our Retreat,<br />
and for those <strong>of</strong> you who attended, I am sure<br />
it was a special day <strong>of</strong> spiritual fulfillment.<br />
For starters, this year the Retreat was at a<br />
new venue, but more importantly, we had as<br />
our speaker, the renowned Fr. Bill Halbing,<br />
who has preached to large audiences all over<br />
the world. Not only is he a charismatic<br />
priest, but I was surprised to learn that he is<br />
one <strong>of</strong> the few Exorcists that are recognized<br />
by the Church. Fr. Bill has the charm and<br />
charisma that can keep an audience<br />
captivated for hours, which he amply<br />
displayed during our Retreat. So for those <strong>of</strong><br />
you who attended, I hope this was an<br />
enlightening experience, as it was for me.<br />
My sincere thanks to Dianne Nunes, Valerie<br />
Moniz and all the other Caring Committee<br />
members who helped put this together.<br />
By the time this newsletter reaches you,<br />
Thanksgiving will have come and gone. I<br />
hope all <strong>of</strong> you had an opportunity to<br />
connect with family and dear friends.<br />
Talking about family and dear friends, it is<br />
time for us, as well, to get connected in<br />
person in a big way, and, yes, we do have the<br />
opportunity to do just that. I look forward<br />
to meeting all <strong>of</strong> you at our Children’s<br />
<strong>Christmas</strong> Party which is scheduled for<br />
December 12, closely followed by the<br />
highlight <strong>of</strong> the year, our <strong>Christmas</strong> <strong>Ball</strong>, on<br />
December 18. Our very own <strong>Goan</strong> band,<br />
PRISM, is busy practicing to ensure they<br />
give you the best, as they<br />
perform along with our<br />
evergreen DJ - Brian<br />
Barreto. I would urge you to mail in your<br />
checks immediately, to avoid any<br />
disappointment, as invariably we always get<br />
sold out early, sometimes before the<br />
deadline.<br />
As we close this year, I want to thank our<br />
Exec. Committee, Planning Committee,<br />
Board <strong>of</strong> Directors and other sub committees<br />
for all their efforts, as well as their time in<br />
planning and executing events throughout<br />
this year. More importantly, I want to thank<br />
you all for your support and presence at<br />
these events, as it is only YOU and your<br />
enthusiasm that motivates us, and revs up<br />
our adrenaline, to help us put our best foot<br />
forward. This is YOUR <strong>Association</strong>, so feel<br />
free to make suggestions on how we can<br />
improve our current slate <strong>of</strong> events, or<br />
suggest additional events to add to the<br />
schedule.<br />
Belated Thanksgiving wishes to you and<br />
your families and best wishes for the<br />
<strong>Christmas</strong> Season.<br />
Viva Goa!<br />
Felix Menezes<br />
President<br />
NEWS YOU CAN USE<br />
Special permission to reenter India within two months - U.S. citizens born in India<br />
who possess multiple entry visas cannot reenter India within two months, unless<br />
they have:<br />
1) special permission letter or<br />
2) they possess an OCI card.<br />
This new ruling is strictly enforced. In order to obtain special permission<br />
documentation from the Indian Embassy, it is necessary to submit a) the old<br />
cancelled Indian passport b) permit to reenter India application c) necessary<br />
documentation to show the urgency <strong>of</strong> reentering India and d) U.S. passport along<br />
with the appropriate fees. This process is similar to applying for a visa. Further<br />
details can be obtained by visiting www.indiavisa.travisaoutsourcing.com.
GOANJ ANNUAL ADULT RETREAT<br />
Dr. Francis D’Mello<br />
A special thanks and God Bless to all the members <strong>of</strong> the NJ <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong>, who<br />
attended the Retreat on November 7, <strong>2010</strong>, at the Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace Center in North<br />
Brunswick.<br />
Fr. Bill Halbing, an internationally famous Charismatic speaker, was the retreat master.<br />
He was delighted to meet the <strong>Goan</strong> community <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>, and praised the efforts <strong>of</strong><br />
St. Francis Xavier's evangelizing work in Goa. He has travelled extensively, but has not<br />
been to India as yet. He very much hopes to do so in the future.<br />
Fr. Bill gave two talks on faith and the use <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit's gifts in the growth <strong>of</strong> one’s<br />
faith. He spoke passionately and gave us many tools to help us pray and get closer to God. We ended this special day with<br />
Fr. Bill celebrating Holy Mass, in which I was blessed to be able to concelebrate with him.<br />
The efforts <strong>of</strong> the members <strong>of</strong> the Committee to arrange this spiritual event is greatly appreciated. The balance <strong>of</strong> pleasure and<br />
spirituality in all the events <strong>of</strong> our <strong>Association</strong> is so valuable in helping us with our spiritual growth. May God bless all the<br />
members <strong>of</strong> this great association the rest <strong>of</strong> this year as well as the coming <strong>New</strong> Year!<br />
The <strong>Goan</strong><br />
<strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong><br />
<strong>Jersey</strong> is now on<br />
Facebook.<br />
Come join us at<br />
www.facebook.com/GOANJ<br />
and become a fan by clicking<br />
the “like” button.<br />
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People <strong>New</strong>s<br />
Wedding Notes<br />
Kingsley Barreto, son <strong>of</strong><br />
Mr. and Mrs. Cleo Barreto,<br />
married Rowena on<br />
September 18, <strong>2010</strong>. The<br />
happy couple reside in<br />
Maryland<br />
Wedding Notes<br />
Kevin, son <strong>of</strong> Mr. and Mrs.<br />
Bambino Martins married<br />
Janet, daughter <strong>of</strong> Mr. and<br />
Mrs. James Laun on<br />
October 16, <strong>2010</strong>. The<br />
happy couple reside in<br />
Boston, Massachusetts.<br />
Wedding Notes<br />
Dr. Kevin D'Mello, son <strong>of</strong> Drs. Francis and Wilma D'Mello,<br />
married Luanh Llyoid, daughter <strong>of</strong> Mr. and Mrs. Goreson<br />
Llyoid, on August 28, <strong>2010</strong>.<br />
Baby <strong>New</strong>s<br />
Tara and Marc DeBellis, along<br />
with grandparents Dianne<br />
and Christopher Nunes,<br />
proudly announce the birth <strong>of</strong><br />
their second son, Brady, who<br />
was born on Sept 11, <strong>2010</strong>.<br />
Congrats Grad !<br />
Gabriella, granddaughter <strong>of</strong> Mr. and Mrs. Lino<br />
Gomes, graduated with a Bachelors Degree,<br />
and is teaching at the Runnemede Middle<br />
School in South <strong>Jersey</strong><br />
<strong>Goan</strong> Gourmet<br />
TANDOORI CHICKEN CURRY<br />
By Vivian Lobo<br />
1 medium chicken cut up<br />
1 small can <strong>of</strong> rajan tandoori powder<br />
(not paste)<br />
½ tsp tumeric<br />
½ stick butter<br />
3 large onions (grind and set aside)<br />
2-3 medium tomatoes (grind and set<br />
aside)<br />
½-1 small can tomato sauce<br />
1-inch ginger and 4 pods <strong>of</strong> garlic<br />
(grind both)<br />
4-5 whole seeds <strong>of</strong> black pepper and<br />
cloves<br />
2 cinnamon sticks<br />
1 tsp jeera seeds<br />
½ tsp tumeric<br />
1 medium size container sour cream<br />
Lightly fry chicken parts in a pot and<br />
set aside. In same pot, add butter,<br />
then onions and fry till onions are light<br />
brown. Add jeera seeds till they turn a<br />
dark color.<br />
Add the ginger/garlic paste. Then add<br />
the pepper, cloves, cinnamon and<br />
tumeric. Fry for about 5 minutes and<br />
then add the ground tomatoes. Keep<br />
frying and then add ½ can <strong>of</strong> the<br />
tandoori powder (approx. 4-5 tbs).<br />
Then add the tomato sauce. Keep<br />
frying, till the mixture comes to a boil.<br />
Taste, and adjust spices, if necessary.<br />
Add ½ the sour cream.<br />
Taste, and add salt, if necessary. Now<br />
add the chicken parts and the<br />
remaining sour cream. Stir, cover pot<br />
till boiling, then lower heat and cook till<br />
done. Garnish with coriander.<br />
Vivian, a long time GOANJ member,<br />
lives with her husband, Joe, in West<br />
Orange, NJ. Questions regarding the<br />
recipe can be emailed to Vivian at<br />
vivflobo@aol.com.<br />
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GARAGE SALE FOR ASRO KIDS<br />
Tara DeBellis<br />
The Development we live in decided to organize a garage sale this fall. Knowing that we have some belongings<br />
that we don't need, I decided it would be a good idea to participate and donate the proceeds to a non-pr<strong>of</strong>it organization<br />
that helps people less fortunate then us.<br />
This decision to donate to ASRO was an easy one, because every day I wake up so thankful to be blessed with happy<br />
and healthy children. I realize that there are many people who yearn for the basic <strong>of</strong> necessities, while we take them for<br />
granted, because they are so readily available. Unfortunately, we live in a society that is always wanting more and more,<br />
yet there are so many people who just need a decent meal, and a comfortable place to lay their head at night. I want to<br />
help these ASRO children that are ill, and have so much less then we do. I wish that I could have been there to see the<br />
smiles on their faces when they realized the $107 and proceeds we raised at the sale, along with approx. $200 generous<br />
donations from other members <strong>of</strong> the GOANJ, was allowing them to have a wonderful <strong>Christmas</strong> party. My only hope and<br />
prayer is that these children are able to grow up healthy and happy, and be loved unconditionally.<br />
REUSE OF PACEMAKERS AND DEFIBRILLATORS IN INDIA<br />
Dr. Daniel Neville Mascarenhas, a long time member <strong>of</strong> the GOANJ, is doing valuable work in India, by<br />
providing used pacemakers and defibrillators to heart patients there. These devices have been discarded in<br />
the US, but are still useable, and are helping to prolong the lives <strong>of</strong> patients in India - patients who cannot<br />
afford these expensive devices. Dr. Mascarenhas started the pacemaker/defibrillator bank at the Holy<br />
Family Hospital in Mumbai in 2004.<br />
He is so grateful to the many helpers who carry these devices when they travel to India.<br />
They are our very own President, Felix Menezes, as well as Chris Nunes, Fr. Basilio, Dr. Deline DaCosta,<br />
Zubina Braganza, Fr. Castelino, Dr. Keith Pimenta Pereira, Dr. Jose Vincent Silva, Dr. Avril D’Souza, Conrad D’Souza,<br />
Cosme Coutinho, Dr. Rosemary D’Souza, Dr. Joyce Sequeira, Dr. Vinette D’Costa, Rosario D’Costa, and his niece Althea, as well<br />
as members <strong>of</strong> Dr. Neville’s family.<br />
This program, which Dr. Mascarenhas has started, was presented by his collaborators at the <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> American Cardiologist<br />
<strong>of</strong> Indian Origin (AACIO) and at the American Heart <strong>Association</strong> Convention in Chicago, on November 14 and 17, and was<br />
enthusiastically received by the audience. It was also reported on MSN news, as well as Reuters. The GOANJ congratulates Dr.<br />
Mascarenhas in his efforts, and wishes him much success with it.<br />
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5 course lunch buffet Tues thru Fri - 10% <strong>of</strong>f<br />
Early bird special 5:30 pm – 6:30 pm<br />
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Dinner Specials Sunday thru Thursday – 15% <strong>of</strong>f.<br />
Groups <strong>of</strong> 10 or more – 15% <strong>of</strong>f every day with reservation.<br />
On & Off premises catering and party rooms from 25 to 100 available.<br />
See www.fusionon22.com for details.<br />
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The Sting <strong>of</strong> Peppercorns is a dazzling first<br />
novel that presents the life <strong>of</strong> a family in<br />
Goa, against the background <strong>of</strong> Goa’s fall to<br />
India in 1961, after centuries <strong>of</strong> Portuguese<br />
rule. This tale <strong>of</strong> love and tragedy is<br />
written by Antonio Gomes, a goan<br />
cardiologist at the Mount Sinai Medical<br />
Center in <strong>New</strong> York.<br />
The book is available on the following website:<br />
http://goa1556.goaindia.org/index.php?page=jan-30-<strong>2010</strong>-inphotos<br />
or www.amazon.com.<br />
For faster, delivery please send check ($19.95)<br />
to: JA Gomes, 3-Park Lane, SI, NY-10301
Dianne Nunes<br />
ASRO BED PROJECT<br />
ASRO is a place where orphaned children from parents afflicted with HIV/AIDS,<br />
play, interact, get schooled, and reside amongst themselves in a lovely and<br />
picturesque setting in Tivim, Goa. The Sisters <strong>of</strong> Mercy, under Caritas-Goa, take<br />
care <strong>of</strong> the children and live with them as one big family. Interaction with the<br />
outside world is fairly nominal, so communication is limited to mainly visits from<br />
teachers, doctors, and a few caring visitors, apart from the occasional trip that takes<br />
them away from their premises from time to time. A new building is nearly<br />
completed that will house up to 52 children and GOANJ has partnered with ASRO<br />
to supply the beds and mattresses for these children. The targeted cost <strong>of</strong> the project<br />
was $5000. So far, we have donated $3482. The funding source is mainly drawn<br />
from the nominal funds available to GOANJ through excess monies from costcutting<br />
measures at some larger social functions, raffle sales, mass collections at<br />
picnics, as well as private donations from members. Creative venues such as<br />
garage sales, selling nearly new items via the internet, etc., are some ideas the<br />
GOANJ is considering to boost this total to achieve the final goal. So until this<br />
$5000 goal is realized, the charity projects and other very worthy outreach projects<br />
in Goa, will be put on hold until we have the available funds to do so. In the<br />
meantime, the children at ASRO sleep on new and sturdy beds, with clean and<br />
comfortable mattresses – all thanks to the generosity and compassion <strong>of</strong> GOANJ<br />
members. ASRO has agreed to put the GOANJ name on these beds, so your<br />
generosity is stamped for everyone to see.<br />
PRAYER CHAIN<br />
Caring Corner:<br />
OUTREACH PROGRAMS<br />
FOR GOANJ MEMBERS<br />
The Prayer Chain members are continuing to intercede on your behalf, so don't<br />
hesitate to send your prayer requests to either Dianne at diannenunes@verizon.net<br />
or Valerie at valerie1moniz@optonline.net. If you are interested in joining these<br />
prayer warriors, please let us know, so you can be included in the email notification<br />
when a prayer request comes in.<br />
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12 Children’s <strong>Christmas</strong> Party<br />
18 <strong>Christmas</strong> Dance<br />
MAY<br />
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