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ThinkFIT<br />

If You Think<br />

You Can<br />

or You Think<br />

You Can’t<br />

You are Correct!<br />

By Solomon Brenner<br />

A positive attitude is one of the most valuable<br />

assets a person can have in life. So often, what<br />

people say their problem is really isn't their problem<br />

at all. The problem is their attitude, which causes<br />

them to poorly handle life's obstacles.<br />

The individual whose attitude causes him to approach life from<br />

an entirely positive perspective is someone who can be called a<br />

person who never says, “I can’t.” In other words, the person<br />

doesn't accept the normal limitations of life as most people do.<br />

He is determined to walkto the very edge of his potential before<br />

he accepts defeat. People with a positive attitude are able to go<br />

places where others can't. They do things that others can't. They<br />

are not restricted by self-imposed limitations.<br />

A person with a positive attitude is like a bumblebee. The bumblebee<br />

should not be able to fly, because the size, weight, and<br />

shape of its body in relationship to its wingspan make flying<br />

aerodynamically impossible. But the bumblebee, being ignorant<br />

of scientific theory, flies anyway and makes honey every day.<br />

This no-limit mindset allows a person to start each day with a<br />

positive disposition, as in the story of an elevator operator. One<br />

Monday morning, in a full elevator, the man began humming a<br />

tune. One passenger irritated by the man's mood, snapped, "What<br />

are you so happy about" "Well, sir," replied the operator happily,<br />

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"I have never lived this day before." The positive person understands<br />

that the journey is as enjoyable as the destination.<br />

Don’t let your children limit themselves by saying, “I can’t.”<br />

Those two words, “I can’t,” put up a mental roadblockbetween<br />

your child and what he is trying to accomplish. Once he says the<br />

words, they become true. If you say you can’t, then you are<br />

absolutely right. If you say you can, then you are also absolutely<br />

right. Each person’s success or failure lies in their own attitude<br />

towards life and its obstacles.<br />

Having a positive attitude means having an “I can” attitude. The<br />

human mind is truly amazing; why limit its potential before you<br />

even try Teach your children that they can literally do anything<br />

they put their minds to. Are there difficult math problems for<br />

homeworktonight Throwing pencils, saying that he can’t do it<br />

or that he’s not smart enough isn’t going to help your child understand<br />

the problem any better. What he should do is take a deep<br />

breath and say, “I can do this.” Getting that math problem done<br />

might mean taking a break from homework for a while, asking a<br />

parent or tutor for help, or even seeking out the teacher the next<br />

day before class begins. None of these solutions will be possible,<br />

however, unless your child opens up his mental roadblocks by<br />

replacing “I can’t” with “I can.”<br />

I’m sure there are words your children aren’t allowed to say<br />

because they are rude or offensive. Make “can’t” a bad word to<br />

say in your house. Designate a jar that gets a monetary donation<br />

every time anyone in your family uses the word can’t. Do whatever<br />

works for you and your family to eradicate negative attitudes.<br />

There are enough obstacles and trials in life already; why<br />

add to that list by making yourself one of them By having a positive<br />

attitude your children won’t see all the things in life they<br />

can’t do, be or have; they will only see the possibilities and the<br />

multitude of ways to reach them.<br />

Contributed by Solomon Brenner Author of Black belt Parenting,<br />

"The Art of Raising Your Child for Success,” Master Brenner is<br />

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