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ThinkFIT<br />
If You Think<br />
You Can<br />
or You Think<br />
You Can’t<br />
You are Correct!<br />
By Solomon Brenner<br />
A positive attitude is one of the most valuable<br />
assets a person can have in life. So often, what<br />
people say their problem is really isn't their problem<br />
at all. The problem is their attitude, which causes<br />
them to poorly handle life's obstacles.<br />
The individual whose attitude causes him to approach life from<br />
an entirely positive perspective is someone who can be called a<br />
person who never says, “I can’t.” In other words, the person<br />
doesn't accept the normal limitations of life as most people do.<br />
He is determined to walkto the very edge of his potential before<br />
he accepts defeat. People with a positive attitude are able to go<br />
places where others can't. They do things that others can't. They<br />
are not restricted by self-imposed limitations.<br />
A person with a positive attitude is like a bumblebee. The bumblebee<br />
should not be able to fly, because the size, weight, and<br />
shape of its body in relationship to its wingspan make flying<br />
aerodynamically impossible. But the bumblebee, being ignorant<br />
of scientific theory, flies anyway and makes honey every day.<br />
This no-limit mindset allows a person to start each day with a<br />
positive disposition, as in the story of an elevator operator. One<br />
Monday morning, in a full elevator, the man began humming a<br />
tune. One passenger irritated by the man's mood, snapped, "What<br />
are you so happy about" "Well, sir," replied the operator happily,<br />
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"I have never lived this day before." The positive person understands<br />
that the journey is as enjoyable as the destination.<br />
Don’t let your children limit themselves by saying, “I can’t.”<br />
Those two words, “I can’t,” put up a mental roadblockbetween<br />
your child and what he is trying to accomplish. Once he says the<br />
words, they become true. If you say you can’t, then you are<br />
absolutely right. If you say you can, then you are also absolutely<br />
right. Each person’s success or failure lies in their own attitude<br />
towards life and its obstacles.<br />
Having a positive attitude means having an “I can” attitude. The<br />
human mind is truly amazing; why limit its potential before you<br />
even try Teach your children that they can literally do anything<br />
they put their minds to. Are there difficult math problems for<br />
homeworktonight Throwing pencils, saying that he can’t do it<br />
or that he’s not smart enough isn’t going to help your child understand<br />
the problem any better. What he should do is take a deep<br />
breath and say, “I can do this.” Getting that math problem done<br />
might mean taking a break from homework for a while, asking a<br />
parent or tutor for help, or even seeking out the teacher the next<br />
day before class begins. None of these solutions will be possible,<br />
however, unless your child opens up his mental roadblocks by<br />
replacing “I can’t” with “I can.”<br />
I’m sure there are words your children aren’t allowed to say<br />
because they are rude or offensive. Make “can’t” a bad word to<br />
say in your house. Designate a jar that gets a monetary donation<br />
every time anyone in your family uses the word can’t. Do whatever<br />
works for you and your family to eradicate negative attitudes.<br />
There are enough obstacles and trials in life already; why<br />
add to that list by making yourself one of them By having a positive<br />
attitude your children won’t see all the things in life they<br />
can’t do, be or have; they will only see the possibilities and the<br />
multitude of ways to reach them.<br />
Contributed by Solomon Brenner Author of Black belt Parenting,<br />
"The Art of Raising Your Child for Success,” Master Brenner is<br />
also offering a free evaluation lesson for anyone on the autism<br />
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