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Opinions arts domestic <strong>horace</strong> international <strong>mann</strong><br />

domestic<br />

the social phenomenon of<br />

sextingby Billie Kafner<br />

When your private life becomes public,<br />

who can you blame Could something<br />

that seemed so fun and flirty really turn<br />

dangerous Sexting is the act of sending<br />

sexually explicit messages or photographs,<br />

primarily between mobile phones. The<br />

term “sexting” became popular around<br />

2005 when teenagers aged 13-19 started<br />

sending provocative messages through cell<br />

phones. Sexing started when teenagers sent<br />

text messages on answers to test questions<br />

via cell phones, then it expanded to taking<br />

nude photographs, or sending suggestive<br />

messages. At first it seemed harmless,<br />

especially if one trusted the person on the<br />

receiving end, but a simple text message<br />

or picture can spread like wildfire. The<br />

definition of sexting is very vague and<br />

many don’t understand that even sending<br />

a suggestive text message is considered<br />

sexting. Sexting begins due to many factors,<br />

one cause may be that a girl has broken up<br />

with her boyfriend and in desperation to get<br />

him back she sends a provocative picture.<br />

Another case may be that a guy wants to<br />

impress a girl and will text her a suggestive<br />

message, or maybe send her a picture. There<br />

are different cases <strong>for</strong> many people and that<br />

is why sexting is so vague in its definition.<br />

Across the United States, 20% of teens<br />

have admitted to engaging in sexting. This<br />

percentage has been increasing throughout<br />

the years due to higher accessibility to<br />

phones and picture messaging. Although<br />

it may seem that 20% is a small number,<br />

sexting comes in all <strong>for</strong>ms. A survey released<br />

by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen<br />

and Unplanned Pregnancy shows that about<br />

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49% of teens said they had received sexts<br />

and 39% said they had posted suggestive<br />

message to each others. “The consequences<br />

of sexting can involve widespread public<br />

embarrassment and humiliation that’s tough<br />

to live down,” says Susan Lypkins, PhD. In<br />

one tragic case, Jessica Logan, a senior at<br />

Sycamore High School in Cincinnati, was so<br />

distraught after her ex-boyfriend <strong>for</strong>warded<br />

a nude picture she sent to him that she<br />

hung herself. Another girl, Hope Wistell,<br />

also committed suicide in the aftermath of<br />

a sext she had sent. She had <strong>for</strong>warded a<br />

nude image to a boy she liked, this photo<br />

found its way to other students, and soon it<br />

was circulating the whole middle and high<br />

school. Kids called her names and shouted<br />

things at her, causing her suicide about two<br />

weeks later. Hope’s death was the second in<br />

the nation as a result of sexting. Although<br />

this is an extreme case, sexting can cause<br />

many smaller problems; and affects both<br />

ends of the sext. If the teen receiving the<br />

sext passes it on, he or she could get caught<br />

and get expelled from school, as could the<br />

person who initiated the sexting. In another<br />

case, the person who began the sexting<br />

could be humiliated and embarrassed as<br />

they walked down the halls and are called<br />

names because that picture or message had<br />

spread throughout the school. Either way,<br />

one simple message causes a whirlwind of<br />

problems. In the end, sexting could seem<br />

like a small message in a way to resolve a<br />

conflict or impress another person. Sexting<br />

is well known to many schools across the<br />

nation, but whether or not they are taking<br />

action is the real question. Educators in<br />

some states have started certain programs<br />

to address the issue. Other educators have<br />

hosted workshops <strong>for</strong> parents to discuss the<br />

issue. Another issue that has been raised is,<br />

when does sexting become an issue of child<br />

pornography One situation occurred where<br />

an 18 year old man sent a nude picture of<br />

his 16 year old girlfriend to his friends<br />

and family after they had a fight. He was<br />

prosecuted under child-porn laws and now<br />

has to register as a sex offender. He wasn’t a<br />

producer of porn but his sending this one<br />

simple message got him into much more<br />

trouble than he intended. Sexting will never<br />

be prevented because in this age because<br />

technology is a bridge between people, but if<br />

you do consider sexting, think twice because<br />

you never know the true consequences.<br />

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