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COVER STORY<br />

lesson consisted of an interminable hour<br />

of tedious sermonizing on the subject of<br />

Jewish history. It seemed to me like the<br />

most boring subject on the planet.<br />

My parents dutifully escorted me to<br />

Hebrew school every Sunday and Tuesday<br />

and deposited me on the doorstep. With<br />

my hand on the doorknob I would turn<br />

and wave sweetly to them. As soon as<br />

they disappeared from sight, I made my<br />

own disappearance. I would cross over to<br />

the other side of the road and spend the<br />

time throwing pebbles into the lake and<br />

marveling at the ripples they made.<br />

On Rosh Hashanah, we attended the<br />

Conservative synagogue -- on the first<br />

day, that is. Until quite recently, I had<br />

no idea that Rosh Hashanah is actually<br />

two days. We sat there for several dreary<br />

hours. I had no idea what was going on.<br />

The program was very uninspiring and<br />

did not interest me in the least. Ditto<br />

for Yom Kippur. We went to synagogue<br />

because that’s what everyone did. We<br />

usually broke our fast at around four or<br />

five o’clock in the afternoon.<br />

On Pesach, we’d get together as a<br />

family. Somebody would read out of the<br />

Haggadah. We would laugh, goof around<br />

and have a piece of matzah. We hated<br />

every minute of it because the food wasn’t<br />

very good. There was one family member,<br />

a distant uncle, who was observant.<br />

My mom would light candles<br />

occasionally on Friday nights. There were<br />

eight presents for Chanukah, and she<br />

would make latkes and tell us, “You have<br />

to marry a Jewish girl.” And she would<br />

repeat it again and again, “You’ve got to<br />

marry Jewish.”<br />

But, aside from that, my parents rarely,<br />

if ever, spoke to us about our Judaism. It<br />

was a beaten-down religion because of<br />

the Holocaust and other factors.<br />

Judaism was never presented to me<br />

as something worthy and pleasant – as<br />

something to enjoy and take pride in.<br />

But my parents did make sure I<br />

attended football practice, encouraging<br />

me to grow up into something they could<br />

take pride in, and that “something” had<br />

nothing to do with religion and everything<br />

to do with sports.<br />

Unfortunately, like the typical<br />

American Jewish family, my bar mitzvah<br />

was more of an exit from Judaism than<br />

the acceptance of Jewish religious<br />

responsibility. My next visit to a synagogue<br />

would most likely be on the occasion of<br />

Despite all the leisure activities he had time to<br />

pursue on a daily basis, a lingering emptiness<br />

began gnawing at him.<br />

someone else’s bar mitzvah. It was not at<br />

all unusual for me to hear someone say,<br />

“You know, this is the first time in 18 years<br />

that I’ve been to synagogue. I haven’t been<br />

here since my bar mitzvah.”<br />

Simply put, the Jewish education I<br />

received growing up was unfortunately<br />

minuscule.<br />

The Little Football Player<br />

After his bar mitzvah, <strong>Alan</strong>’s parents<br />

stopped bothering him about religion and<br />

<strong>Alan</strong> found himself with plenty of free time;<br />

too much of it, in fact – and he was getting<br />

himself into some trouble.<br />

When <strong>Alan</strong> turned 14, his parents began<br />

encouraging him to take more of an interest<br />

in sports in the hope that it would keep him<br />

out of trouble. That is when <strong>Alan</strong> decided that<br />

he was going to become a football player. He<br />

was six-foot-five, but at a slight 180 pounds.<br />

His frame was far from the heavyweight<br />

physique expected of one who excels at<br />

such a sport. So, with the help of a relentless<br />

coach and a heavy dose of determination, he<br />

worked out until he had developed enough<br />

muscle for an average high school football<br />

player.<br />

However, the world of professional<br />

football was not going to accept him with<br />

open arms. At his high school graduation,<br />

he still weighed no more than 195 pounds<br />

-- still too slight of a frame for a college<br />

football player. Offensive linemen these days<br />

are typically 280 pounds or more, many<br />

weighing in at well over 300!<br />

Enter <strong>Alan</strong>’s mom. There are few things<br />

that can stand in the way of a determined<br />

Jewish mother. Mrs. <strong>Veingrad</strong> took <strong>Alan</strong>’s<br />

high school football resume and sent it<br />

to colleges all across the United States.<br />

Ultimately, the East Texas State University<br />

was the only one willing to accept him.<br />

“They flew me to East Texas State,”<br />

remembers Shlomo, “and they gave me a<br />

scholarship based on my ability to throw the<br />

discus a long way.”<br />

That was in 1981. From then on, it<br />

was strenuous work and little play for the<br />

budding football star. His coach chose him<br />

for the position of offensive lineman, and<br />

as such he was required to lift weights and<br />

work diligently on building and maintaining<br />

his physique. At the end of his sophomore<br />

year, <strong>Alan</strong> weighed 250 pounds and began<br />

developing into a pretty good football<br />

player. Still, not in his wildest dreams did he<br />

imagine he would ever find himself playing<br />

ball professionally.<br />

When his coach suggested that <strong>Alan</strong><br />

set his goal on professional football, <strong>Alan</strong><br />

thought he was being facetious. “What, me<br />

Professional football Never in a million<br />

years!”<br />

Once, back in high school, a friend had<br />

procured an orange staff shirt for <strong>Alan</strong>,<br />

which enabled him to go out to the football<br />

field and greet the Miami Dolphins up close.<br />

With a wry smile he recalls the euphoria he<br />

felt to have the “privilege” of being in such<br />

close proximity to his heroes and getting<br />

their autographs. He had seen their massive,<br />

well-built bodies from up close, and he knew<br />

that becoming a professional football player<br />

was out of his reach.<br />

“You have what it takes,” the coach<br />

encouraged him. “The pros are going to<br />

seek you out. You ought to start preparing<br />

yourself for the National Football League.”<br />

<strong>Alan</strong> took those words to heart and<br />

his practice sessions took on an increased<br />

intensity as this new goal – getting into the<br />

NFL -- became his obsession.<br />

He was a decent college football player,<br />

but from that to a membership in the NFL<br />

was a big leap. Team after team rejected<br />

him, and at a certain point he was ready to<br />

give up.<br />

However, in 1986, the Green Bay<br />

Packers hired him on a minimum contract.<br />

<strong>Alan</strong> began his career at the very bottom,<br />

and his position in the NFL team was<br />

far from secured. Months of intensive<br />

training followed. He was one of 10 players<br />

<strong>Alan</strong> <strong>Veingrad</strong> when he played for the Green Bay Packers.<br />

140 | ZMAN • July 2011<br />

ZMAN • Tamuz 5771 | 141

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