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HOW DO I KNOW WHETHER THIS IS ‘IT’<br />
It is all very well to talk and think about love in<br />
theory. Even Romeo and Juliet’s love would have<br />
settled into an everyday relationship given more<br />
time.<br />
Marriage is THE most important relationship of<br />
one’s life. It is important that one embarks on it<br />
with some knowledge of each other’s attitudes and<br />
expectations. Most people do not talk about their<br />
attitudes and expectations simply because they<br />
themselves do not know what they are. This might<br />
sound absurd but most of our basic views about<br />
life have been developing since childhood without<br />
us even thinking about them. Because they are<br />
part of us, we assume that everyone else thinks in<br />
the same way and it is not even worth mentioning<br />
them. Some however, we do not even recognise<br />
until we question ourselves.<br />
All of our ideas about men and women, husbands<br />
and wives, parents and children are built up<br />
through our experiences and will affect how we<br />
relate to our spouse and the sort of life we want.<br />
Sometimes our background and upbringing creates<br />
unconscious expectations. Because these ideas are<br />
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