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FRIENDS’ SCHOOL LISBURN<br />

PAST & PRESENT 2012


CONTENTS & EDITORIAL<br />

FRIENDS’ SCHOOL LISBURN<br />

6 Magheralave Road, <strong>Lisburn</strong>, Co. Antrim BT28 3BH<br />

Tel: 028 9266 2156 www.friendsschoollisburn.org.uk<br />

CONTENTS<br />

1. FSL Old Scholars’ Association Pages 2-25<br />

2. <strong>School</strong> Record & Staff News Pages 26-43<br />

3. The Preparatory Department Pages 44-59<br />

4. <strong>School</strong> Life Pages 60-87<br />

5. Friends’ Travels Pages 88-97<br />

6. Friends’ Sports Pages 98-136<br />

EDITORIAL<br />

Welcome to the 2012 edition of Past & Present. Although the magazine follows a familiar pattern, each edition has a flavour ot<br />

its own, defined by memorable moments, events and achievements. The purpose of Past & Present also remains the same; to<br />

give a snap shot of school life over the past year, showcasing something of the spirit, ethos, energy, diversity and opportunity<br />

that exists here at Friends’. Whether it be in sports, arts, music or trips, one thing that is consistent is the high level of talent,<br />

commitment, effort and determination that lies within each pupil. The diverse range of activities available to pupils only<br />

highlights the great opportunities that Friends’ offers to every pupil, regardless of interest and age.<br />

Undertaking such a task as this would not be possible without the help of others. I am very grateful for the continued support<br />

from both staff and pupils who have contributed their time and knowledge in providing reports, articles and pictures that help<br />

make Past & Present what it is. I am thankful to the English and Art Departments for their literary and artistic contributions.<br />

Notable thanks must go to Stephen Robinson for providing countless photographs and Shona Cregan for proofreading. Thanks<br />

also to Joanne McGaffin for passing on numerous articles and Maxine Boyd for her help in the editing of the Old Scholars’<br />

section.<br />

I hope you enjoy reading Past & Present 2012.<br />

Aaron Chestnutt<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

SECTION ONE...<br />

Ruth Clarke Year 14<br />

Ashley McIlroy Year 14 Jenny Gillis Year 12<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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...OLD SCHOLARS<br />

FRIENDS’ SCHOOL OLD SCHOLARS’ ASSOCIATION<br />

6 Magheralave Road, <strong>Lisburn</strong>, Co. Antrim BT28 3BH<br />

Tel: 028 9266 2156 www.friendsschoollisburn.org.uk<br />

ANNUAL REPORT 2012<br />

Office Bearers and Committee 2011-2012<br />

President Adrienne Bell 60a Glebe Road, Anahilt BT26 6NG<br />

President Elect Colin Milliken 31 Blackskull Road, Dromore BT25 1JN<br />

Past President John Stanage 4 Drumcill Road, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 2TG<br />

Principal Elizabeth Dickson Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 3BH<br />

Hon. Secretary Joan Russell 6 Bredan Park, Magheralin BT67 0GS<br />

Hon. Treasurer Brian Mairs 8a Old Church Lane, Aghalee BT67 0EB<br />

Hon. Membership Kathleen Ferguson 1 Marnabrae Park, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 3PD<br />

Asst. Hon. Treasurer Pamela McKitterick 17 Ballyhannon Park, Portadown BT63 5SF<br />

Committee Liz Palmer 5 Magheralave Court, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 3BY<br />

Maxine Boyd 5 Clonevin Park, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 3BL<br />

David Swain 26 Pinehill, Saintfield Road, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT27 5PL<br />

Noel Clarke 11 Clontara Park, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT27 4LB<br />

Jill Conn 10 Forthill, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT28 3RB<br />

Christopher Clarke 28 Lisnastrean Road, <strong>Lisburn</strong> BT27 5PB<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

It is hard to believe that another year has passed and I find myself sifting through information and articles kindly supplied by<br />

my fellow Committee Members and Old Scholars themselves. I would like to thank all Members of the Committee for their<br />

encouragement and help, especially Liz Palmer and Jill Conn.<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> Old Scholars continue to delight with their stories of adventures and hard work from all corners of the globe and<br />

I hope you will find this year’s articles interesting and inspiring. Please also note some of the upcoming events, details of which<br />

will also be on the school website.<br />

Maxine Boyd<br />

EDITORIAL<br />

NEW LIFE MEMBERS<br />

Claire McKeag<br />

Claire Jordan<br />

Mark Brooks<br />

Suzanne Cush<br />

Richard Bradfield<br />

Sarah Faulkner<br />

Amy Broddle<br />

Raymond Gamble<br />

Dr Stuart McAuley<br />

Paula Poland<br />

David Seeds<br />

Andrew Irwin<br />

Natalie Campbell<br />

Chandra<br />

Gillian Lewis<br />

Jordan McCready<br />

Anna Martin<br />

Andrew Wallace<br />

Mark Fair<br />

Jennifer Coll<br />

Hannah Greenfield<br />

FRIENDS’ SCHOOL OLD SCHOLARS’ ASSOCIATION<br />

APPLICATION FORM<br />

NAME: (Block Capitals)__________________________________ (Née)_____________________________<br />

ADDRESS: ______________________________________________________________________________<br />

______________________________________________________________ POST CODE: _____________<br />

TELEPHONE NO: ___________________________________ MOBILE: ____________________________<br />

E-MAIL: ________________________________________________________________________________<br />

I wish to join the above Association.<br />

I was a Boarder/Day Scholar from __________ to __________<br />

I have been/was a member of staff from _________ to _________<br />

Please forward remittance to the Honorary Treasurer:<br />

Membership Subscription: Life £50.00 or<br />

£30.00 if taken out within six months of leaving <strong>School</strong>.<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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PRESIDENT’S ADDRESS<br />

Friends, Old Scholars, Guests, Head Boy and Head Girl, can<br />

I welcome you to the Old Scholars’ Annual Dinner and thank<br />

you for coming this evening. Can I apologise on behalf of<br />

the Committee who failed to arrange the correct weather for<br />

an early summer dinner, and to those who are missing the<br />

Final of Britain’s Got Talent, another oversight I’m afraid.<br />

You are of course particularly welcome back once again to<br />

<strong>School</strong>. I hope those of you who haven’t been back for some<br />

time come back with many good memories, including good<br />

memories of the Dining Hall.<br />

I would particularly like to welcome visitors from afar who<br />

have joined us. I am also aware that some of our guests<br />

tonight are not yet members of the Old Scholars’ Association.<br />

I want them to know that I know who they are, and they will<br />

be hunted down.<br />

I wanted to start, and just in case I forget to do so later due to<br />

my nervousness, by saying what an honour and a privilege it<br />

is to be asked to be the President of the Old Scholars’<br />

Association of Friends’ <strong>School</strong>. These are tough times for us<br />

all, including Grammar <strong>School</strong>s in Northern Ireland, but your<br />

support for the Association, and more importantly for the<br />

<strong>School</strong>, is invaluable. And what a <strong>School</strong> we have to<br />

support!<br />

You don’t have to take my word for this of course. The<br />

Sunday Times, the nearly 400000 visitors to YouTube, the<br />

BBC and the One Show can’t be wrong, and I think I perhaps<br />

have the easiest job of all 125 Presidents of the Association<br />

in saying, without a shadow of a doubt, that Friends’ is the<br />

best school in the country.<br />

I’d like to thank the last two Presidents, John Stanage and<br />

Adrienne Bell, and the other members of the Committee for<br />

making me feel welcome, and the many Past Presidents<br />

whose speeches I have frantically researched in old school<br />

magazines to give me help in knowing what to say. I do look<br />

forward to being President, and promise to try not to let my<br />

obvious youth and inexperience stand in my way in the next<br />

year. I do think my hair was brown when I agreed to take on<br />

the role though.<br />

Believe it or not, a number of people (I won’t name them)<br />

have asked me why I’ve agreed to be President, and, as a<br />

Psychiatrist, I’ve considered this deeply and analysed this<br />

problem very carefully. I’ll try to share some of my<br />

conclusions with you. I have worried that all three of us<br />

from the class of 1986 who left to study Medicine are now<br />

Psychiatrists; Clarke Campbell and Annette Thampi are the<br />

others. I definitely haven’t come up with any reasons why<br />

we all ended up in that noble specialty, but I’ll maybe ask the<br />

other Psychiatrist with us tonight, Michael Nicholson, to<br />

examine my mental state later.<br />

FSL Old Scholars’ Association Presidential Address<br />

I was asked to become involved shortly after watching the<br />

1st XV lose bravely and unfortunately in the <strong>School</strong>s’ Cup<br />

Quarter Final, to the eventual winners Ballymena Academy,<br />

two years ago. Anyone that remembers the less successful<br />

1st XV from 1984-86 will know I’m used to Friends’ losing<br />

at rugby, but the recent <strong>School</strong>s’ Cup defeat really was<br />

unfortunate. I felt quite exhausted and upset afterwards.<br />

Barney McGonigle would no doubt say more exhausted and<br />

upset than I appeared when I was actually playing rugby<br />

myself! I realised then how strong and important my<br />

attachment to the <strong>School</strong> is and I believe this is why most of<br />

us are here tonight of course.<br />

I wrote much of this speech shortly after watching a real<br />

man’s sport though. Unfortunately it was another brave and<br />

unlucky defeat for the Boys’ Hockey 1st XI in the Final of<br />

the Burney Cup. The best support at the Final came from<br />

Friends’ of course, and particularly from a number of people<br />

even older than me. Looking around at Lisnagarvey Hockey<br />

Club that day I saw our Principal, Elizabeth Dickson, our<br />

distinguished retired Principal, Mr Arthur Chapman, and a<br />

range of recently retired staff, all of whom looked<br />

miraculously younger than they did when they taught me. It<br />

isn’t just pupils and past pupils that have this attachment and<br />

it must mean we are attached to something special if teachers<br />

and retired teachers feel the same way.<br />

I was at Friends’ firstly in the old Prep <strong>School</strong> in Prospect<br />

House between 1972 and 1979, and then, “the Big <strong>School</strong>”<br />

between 1979 and 1986. Family connections with the school<br />

date back into the mists of time. My sister, Karen, was Head<br />

Girl and my brother, Alan, Deputy Head Boy. (I only rose to<br />

the rank of House Captain of Collin House I’m afraid).<br />

My dad was for a time on the Board of Governors, and my<br />

mum still, 40 or so years on, meets with a group of friends<br />

whose children were in my class at the Prep <strong>School</strong>. These<br />

morning meetings are still called the, “<strong>School</strong> Coffee”.<br />

Prep <strong>School</strong> memories are a pleasant mix of surprisingly<br />

small classrooms and chairs even at that age, the mobile<br />

classroom with Miss Watt out on the grass, and Sports Days<br />

on the lawn in the sunshine. I was in P4 during the endless<br />

hot Summer of 1976; the weather was always better then, or<br />

is it just me I should mention being Captain of the famous<br />

winning Sycamore team in 1979, not for me the noncompetitive<br />

approach to sport.<br />

I particularly remember enjoying P6, with Colin Gardiner,<br />

recently retired, and P7 with the late and much missed John<br />

Waring. Quite recently Colin gave me a copy of a poem I<br />

had written in P6 about a visit to a graveyard, so gloomy that<br />

my later interest in Psychiatry might have been predicted,<br />

and welcomed, even then.<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

PRESIDENT’S ADDRESS<br />

In P7 John Waring helped us proudly set up our own<br />

company, Independent Crisp Sellers, or ICS, with its own<br />

accounts and shares. I think this company would have been<br />

strong enough to withstand the current economic downturn,<br />

perhaps the only <strong>Lisburn</strong> business to confidently do so.<br />

My memories of the Grammar <strong>School</strong> are similarly happy<br />

ones. I don’t remember everything seeming as serious as our<br />

current pupils are often told that they are. I do hope that our<br />

current Head Boy and Head Girl are able to tell us in the<br />

future that they and their friends were able to work hard and<br />

play even harder.<br />

I was at school both through the so-called ‘Troubles’, but<br />

worse, through the height of the 1980s, a troubling decade.<br />

Its music and hairstyles do bring back traumatic memories<br />

and I had forgotten how startling my own hairdo and hair<br />

colour were until recent Rugby and Prefect photos were<br />

unearthed. I have both of these photos with me for anyone<br />

who wishes to see the evidence. Since my mum is here, I<br />

still maintain the startling blonde locks were naturally<br />

bleached by the sun.<br />

and Stephen Robinson who inspired and made the video, but<br />

we should remember who is in charge, and on whose watch<br />

this exciting development happened.<br />

I do think the <strong>School</strong> is now on the crest of a wave, and that<br />

Elizabeth deserves our thanks and our congratulations. I’m<br />

sure you all agree that the <strong>School</strong> has an absolutely<br />

outstanding Principal.<br />

Ladies and Gentlemen, thank you for the support you give<br />

the Old Scholars’ Association, but most importantly for the<br />

support you give to the <strong>School</strong>. I think that, while the Old<br />

Scholars’ Association has a number of important roles, the<br />

most important one is to support and celebrate our <strong>School</strong>.<br />

Thank you again and please enjoy the rest of your evening.<br />

Colin Milliken<br />

ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING<br />

MAY 2012<br />

It gives me particular pleasure to see Mr Arthur Chapman<br />

joining us again this evening. Mr Chapman was Headmaster<br />

throughout my inglorious stay at Friends’, and it is inspiring<br />

to see how the commitment he showed so strongly to the<br />

<strong>School</strong> then, remains undiminished today.<br />

I clearly remember Mr Chapman regularly supporting <strong>School</strong><br />

rugby matches, as Elizabeth does now. I always felt it would<br />

be wrong to lose in front of the Headmaster and particularly<br />

to Wallace. I’m glad to report that I only experienced this<br />

shame once in my seven years, a 7-3 defeat in 1980.<br />

While I remember, I think the best bit about school then was<br />

having a swimming pool. Everyone loved the pool, and I’m<br />

sure that every really good school should have one!<br />

So the <strong>School</strong> has given me the most important things in my<br />

life, good friends, a good education and, of course my wife,<br />

Julie. I’m a lucky man with much to be thankful for.<br />

It is now that is the most important though. Our two boys,<br />

James and Matthew, are finishing Year 10 and Year 8 and are<br />

thriving and happy at Friends’. Both the boys enjoyed their<br />

years at the Prep <strong>School</strong>, and while I don’t miss my close<br />

relationship with the Bursar, I’m grateful for the very good<br />

start that they got there. I know the <strong>School</strong> is better now than<br />

when I was there, and that they are at the best school in the<br />

country, we can’t do better for them than that.<br />

I must mention the famous Lipdub video, recently making<br />

the <strong>School</strong> a worldwide internet hit. We lived through this as<br />

Lipdub parents, both boys are featured, and the sense of<br />

excitement and pride in them and everyone involved in their<br />

school was really inspiring. Congratulations to Matt Good<br />

SECRETARY’S REPORT<br />

Joan, the outgoing Secretary, quite rightly made clear that her<br />

tenure in office over the five years had been rendered painless,<br />

thanks to the assistance constantly available from Joanne.<br />

Gratitude was expressed to Mrs Dickson for giving her approval<br />

to the amount of time the Association monopolise one of her<br />

staff. Thanks were also extended to Mrs Dickson, having<br />

seldom missed a Committee Meeting and never missed an event<br />

held by The Old Scholars’ Association. Both ladies were<br />

deserving of a big thank you.<br />

Various tasks were carried out during the year. The Constitution<br />

of the Association was reviewed as regards the alternating of<br />

male/female for the role of President. This had been the practice<br />

but was not required by the Constitution so Aidan Pearson<br />

would be eligible for nomination as President Elect.<br />

Miss Woolman had bequeathed a citation to the Association. It<br />

had been presented to her father when he was a member of staff<br />

at Friends’ <strong>School</strong>. Her niece was sent a letter of thanks and<br />

arrangements were made to have it framed, prior to putting it<br />

into the Archive Room.<br />

A letter of congratulations was sent to the <strong>School</strong> on having<br />

been selected as the Sunday Times Northern Ireland <strong>School</strong> of<br />

the Year 2011 and on the YouTube success.<br />

Gwen McWilliams had written to thank the Association for the<br />

90th birthday greetings she received.<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING<br />

TREASURER’S REPORT<br />

ELECTION OF OTHER COMMITTEE MEMBERS<br />

Brian supplied all present with the Income and Expenditure<br />

Account for the year ending 31 March 2012.<br />

The Life Membership Fund continues to be the main source of<br />

income.<br />

Magazine donations have still not brought in enough money to<br />

cover costs.<br />

The President’s Evening just about breaks even.<br />

Brian felt future fund raising should be going towards the<br />

<strong>School</strong>.<br />

LIFE MEMBERSHIP FUND<br />

Gerald supplied all present with copies of his report for the year<br />

ending 31 March 2012. It was thought best to leave investments<br />

intact as they do provide good refund.<br />

At this point the deficit with the magazine was discussed at<br />

length. David provided relevant facts as regards numbers in<br />

receipt of a copy each year who have volunteered to pay the £5<br />

and those members who make no contribution whatever.<br />

Further debate would follow under Any Other Business.<br />

Alec McCullagh was to be thanked for again acting as our<br />

Accountant and Auditor.<br />

Brian Moller proposed that the Reports be adopted and Mary<br />

Donnelly seconded.<br />

PRESIDENT’S REPORT<br />

Adrienne outlined the <strong>School</strong> events which she had attended on<br />

behalf of the Association during her year in office.<br />

Her planned Business Event would hopefully take place in<br />

September/October.<br />

The Poetry and Prose Evening was much enjoyed by all who<br />

had attended it. A request had been made to hold a similar event<br />

next year.<br />

She thanked the Principal, Joanne and the Committee Members<br />

for all the help and encouragement she had received. Also she<br />

wished Colin well as he comes in to office as President.<br />

ELECTION OF OFFICE BEARERS 2012-13<br />

President<br />

Past President<br />

President Elect<br />

Honorary Secretary<br />

Hon. Membership Sec.<br />

Honorary Treasurer<br />

Asst. Hon. Treasurer<br />

Colin Milliken<br />

Adrienne Bell<br />

Aidan Pearson<br />

Maxine Boyd<br />

Kathleen Ferguson<br />

Brian Mairs<br />

Pamela McKittrick<br />

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Elizabeth Dickson remains as Ex-Officio-Principal.<br />

David Swain remains on Committee until 2013.<br />

Three members have agreed to undertake another three year<br />

period: 2012-15<br />

Christopher Clarke<br />

Jill Conn<br />

Elizabeth Palmer<br />

Three members have agreed to undertake a one year period as<br />

co-opted members: 2012-13<br />

Noel Clarke<br />

Joan Russell<br />

John Stanage<br />

APPOINTMENT OF AUDITOR<br />

Alec McCullagh was prepared to remain as auditor. Gerald<br />

Crawford agreed to continue managing the Life Membership<br />

Fund.<br />

PRINCIPAL’S REMARKS<br />

Mrs Dickson provided Old Scholars’ with a wide ranging<br />

picture of Friends’ <strong>School</strong>s in the United States of America.<br />

She had attended the American Quaker Heads Fall Gathering in<br />

Philadelphia in October.<br />

Excellent examination results had been achieved. This had been<br />

publicly recognised when the <strong>School</strong> was selected as the Sunday<br />

Times Northern Ireland Secondary <strong>School</strong> of the Year. Also the<br />

video success story brought great response from the general<br />

public from far off places as well as numerous Old Scholars<br />

living abroad.<br />

The decision to provide Pre-Prep facilities was proving to be a<br />

great success.<br />

All the various clubs and societies had continued to form an<br />

important extra curricular part of <strong>School</strong> life. In particular three<br />

boys hockey teams had enjoyed success with the 1st XI reaching<br />

the Burney Cup Final, the 2nd XI winning the Dowdall Cup and<br />

the U15XI reaching the Final of the Richardson Cup. It was<br />

hoped to raise funds for an astro-turf pitch in the not too distant<br />

future.<br />

Mrs Dickson expressed pleasure in the fact that Friends’ <strong>School</strong><br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> was a happy community where pupils felt a sense of<br />

belonging. (There would have been no Old Scholars present<br />

who wouldn’t have found the <strong>School</strong> to be similar in these<br />

respects, when they were pupils).<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

ACCOUNTS<br />

FRIENDS’ SCHOOL LISBURN, OLD SCHOLARS’ ASSOCIATION<br />

INCOME & EXPENDITURE ACCOUNT<br />

YEAR ENDED 31 MARCH 2012<br />

2012 2011 2012 2011<br />

£ £ £ £<br />

INCOME:<br />

EXPENDITURE:<br />

Deposit account interest 1.82 2 Donations to school:<br />

Interest - Life Memb. Fund 1,827.99 1,750 Library 250.00 250<br />

Donations - 1980 reunion - 126 GCSE Awards 80.00 60<br />

- for magazine costs 519.50 1,765 Magazine costs 2,505.12 2,689<br />

President’s Evening 1,338.50 1,450<br />

New Life Members 500.00 840 Fundraising costs:<br />

Fundraising: Gardeners Corner - 307<br />

Sports Star Evening 540.00 - Sports Star Evening 205.48 -<br />

Coffee Morning 10.00 -<br />

Other costs:<br />

President’s Evening 1,698.85 2,025<br />

Framing 30.00 -<br />

Invested Life Membership<br />

Fund 840.00 800<br />

________ _______ ________ _____<br />

4,737.81 5,933 5,202.40 5,805<br />

Opening balances:<br />

Closing balances:<br />

Cash in hand 51.10 40 Cash in hand 31.10 51<br />

First Trust – deposit 4,378.33 4,429 First Trust – deposit 3,426.15 4,378<br />

First Trust – current 276.52 109 First Trust – current 784.11 277<br />

________ _______ ________ ______<br />

9,443.76 10,511 9,443.76 10,511<br />

======= ====== ======= =====<br />

Brian Mairs - (Honorary Treasurer)<br />

INDEPENDENT EXAMINER’S REPORT TO THE MANAGEMENT COMMITTEE OF FSLOSA<br />

Basis of Independent Examiner’s Report<br />

An examination includes a review of the accounting records kept and a comparison of the accounts presented with those records. It also<br />

includes consideration of any unusual items or disclosures in the accounts and seeks explanations from the management committee<br />

concerning any such matters. The procedures undertaken do not provide all the evidence that would be required in an audit and<br />

consequently no opinion is given as to whether the accounts present a ‘true and fair’ view and the report is limited to those matters set<br />

out in the statement below.<br />

Independent Examiner’s Statement<br />

In the course of my examination of the above accounts for the year ended 31 March 2012, no matter has come to my attention which<br />

gives me reasonable cause to believe that, in any material respect, the requirements to keep accounting records and prepare accounts<br />

which accord with those accounting records have not been met, or to which, in my opinion, attention should be drawn in order to enable<br />

a proper understanding of the accounts to be reached.<br />

Alec McCullagh - Accountant & Auditor 28 April 2012<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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ACCOUNTS<br />

Life Membership Fund<br />

Invested in the Northern Ireland Central Investment Fund for Charities<br />

Report for the Year Ended 31st March 2012<br />

2010-2011 2011-2012<br />

£16,860.56 1. Total Capital Investments 31st March £17,700.56<br />

4542 2. Number of shares held at 31st March 4627<br />

£800.00 3. Amount invested during the year £840.00<br />

92 4. Shares purchased during the year 85<br />

982.36p 5. Share value at 31st March in pence per share 961.23 p<br />

£44,618.79 6. Total value of the Fund at 31st March £44,476.11<br />

39.00p 7. Distribution per share during the year in pence 40-00p<br />

£1,750.45 8. Income from the fund handed to the FSLOSA Treasurer £1,827.99<br />

£800.00 9. Life Membership subscriptions received during the year £840.00<br />

W. Gerald Crawford<br />

Honorary Treasurer<br />

Life Membership Fund.<br />

INDEPENDENT EXAMINER’S REPORT<br />

To the trustees of FSLOSA – Life Membership Fund<br />

Basis of independent examiner’s report<br />

An examination includes a review of the accounting records kept by a charity and a comparison of the accounts presented with<br />

those records. It also includes consideration of any unusual items or disclosures in the accounts and seeks explanations from the<br />

trustees concerning any such matters. The procedures undertaken do not provide all the evidence that would be required in an audit<br />

and consequently no opinion is given as to whether the accounts present a ‘true and fair’ view and the report is limited to those<br />

matters set out in the statement below.<br />

Independent examiner’s statement<br />

In the course of my examination of the above accounts for the year ended 31 March 2012, no matter has come to my attention<br />

which gives me reasonable cause to believe that, in any material respect, the requirements to keep accounting records and prepare<br />

accounts which accord with those accounting records have not been met, or to which, in my opinion, attention should be drawn in<br />

order to enable a proper understanding of the accounts to be reached.<br />

Alec McCullagh<br />

Accountant & Auditor<br />

3 May 2012<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

OBITUARIES<br />

Ken bore his long illness with customary quiet resolve and even in<br />

his last weeks and days was eager to hear news of family and<br />

friends’ triumphs and trials. He passed away peacefully at home<br />

surrounded by his family. We not only share the loss felt most<br />

keenly by Hazel, Susan, Lynn and Zoe and the wider family circle,<br />

but also draw strength from his great example of “a life well-lived”,<br />

to which we all should aspire.<br />

David Swain<br />

Alan J Finlay<br />

1957 - 2012<br />

Ken (Kenneth Robert) Boomer<br />

1943 - 2012<br />

Ken Boomer was born in 1943 to Robert and Georgie Boomer, the<br />

second of four children. Georgie was a Quaker and, although raised<br />

in the Church of Ireland tradition, Ken never forgot this side of his<br />

heritage.<br />

He attended Friends’ <strong>School</strong> between 1948 and 1959 and excelled<br />

at sport, competing in rugby, hockey and athletics at a high level.<br />

His musical talents included playing violin, guitar and harmonica<br />

and song writing. His greatest achievement at school, however,<br />

was meeting his future wife, Hazel (at school 1948 -1961), whom<br />

he married in 1966. His links with the school strengthened with<br />

two of his daughters attending and he served for many years on the<br />

Old Scholar’s Association Committee with a term as President in<br />

2006-07.<br />

After leaving school, he attended Strabane Agricultural College<br />

before acquiring Ivy Hill House in 1962 and settling down to farm.<br />

He continued his hockey career with Lisnagarvey before joining<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> Old Boys, winning an Ulster Senior Cup medal in<br />

1968 and leading the team to victory in the Anderson Cup Final the<br />

following year.<br />

He later set up Boomer Industries with his father and two brothers.<br />

His marketing work involved frequent trips to America and the<br />

Middle East and both his work and leisure brought him into contact<br />

with many people of differing backgrounds across several<br />

continents.<br />

Ken was, above all, a “people-person”. He possessed an uncanny<br />

ability to put people at ease and always saw the best in anyone he<br />

met.<br />

Although related, I really came to know Ken in 1985. We shared a<br />

love of fishing which he had inherited from his father-in-law and<br />

this took us around Ireland, to Scotland and England and on a<br />

memorable trip to Norway in 2008. I have many memories of<br />

fishing trips delayed by Ken getting into discussion with farmers<br />

about livestock and other issues as he loved the farming life. Ken<br />

delighted in the so-called “simple” things in life: his love for Hazel,<br />

children and grandchildren; the family home and farm at Ivy Hill,<br />

the house in Donegal and his multitude of friends.<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

Alan J Finlay, age 77, of Dallas, died Friday 27 January 2012 at<br />

Mercy Center, Wilkes-Barre. Educated as a boarder at Friends’<br />

<strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong>. Alan left Belfast on a cargo boat and emigrated to<br />

Edmonton, Canada in 1957 where he entered the insurance<br />

industry, joining The Royal Insurance Brokerage Firm. Alan and<br />

his wife, the former Evelyn Chancellor, their three children,<br />

Maureen, Wendy and Robert, relocated to the Wyoming Valley in<br />

1972.<br />

His first business venture was completing the development of and<br />

operating the Provincial Complex in Center City Wilkes-Barre. A<br />

noted businessman, Alan was the founder of Humford Equities, a<br />

development and management company of commercial and<br />

residential properties throughout northern Pennsylvania.<br />

Although retired, Alan remained active, along with his son Robert,<br />

who is the current president. He was an associate of the Insurance<br />

Institute of Canada, served as director of the United Penn Bank<br />

Board, the Bank Regional Board and the Committee for Economic<br />

Growth. He gave his time to the boards of the Wilkes-Barre<br />

Chamber of Commerce and Westmoreland Club, and was a<br />

founding board member of the Center for the Performing Arts. In<br />

recognition of his continued support of Arts in the region, Alan,<br />

together with his son Robert, was given the ‘Friends of the Arts<br />

Theatre Award’ by the Fine Arts Fiesta in 2009.<br />

Alan proudly served as a Trustee of Misericordia University.<br />

During his tenure he arranged for John Hume’s wife, Pat and<br />

Unionist leader David Trimble to speak at the commencement in<br />

2000 and 2002 respectively. Hume and Trimble had been awarded<br />

the Noble Peace Prize for their efforts in crafting the Belfast (Good<br />

Friday) Agreement, pursuing a peaceful solution to the conflict in<br />

Northern Ireland. In 2009, Alan and his wife Evelyn, were awarded<br />

the Misericordia Trustee Associates Award and honoured at a dinner<br />

on campus. He was a member of the Wyoming Valley Club,<br />

Huntsville Golf Club and a member of Masonic Lodge #655.<br />

Preceding him in death were brother, Garry Finlay and sister,<br />

Shirley Ainger. Surviving are his wife of 53 years, Evelyn Finlay;<br />

daughter Maureen Matia and her husband Matt, of Edmonton,<br />

Canada; Wendy Casey and her husband Terry, of Robert Finlay and<br />

his wife Stephanie, of Dallas; grandchildren, Heather and Andrew<br />

Matia, Julie and Michael Casey, Lauren and Ryan Finlay.<br />

A lifelong friendship with Alan came through Friends’ <strong>School</strong><br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> boarding when we both started out in the Cottage.<br />

Boarding was a key element in <strong>School</strong> life then, and those who<br />

shared in that experience will remember with great warmth, our<br />

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OBITUARIES<br />

‘home from home’<br />

on Prospect Hill.<br />

Firm bonds of<br />

friendship<br />

established as we<br />

progressed through<br />

<strong>School</strong> have lasted<br />

a lifetime.<br />

Much of our<br />

freetime was spent<br />

in sporting<br />

activities as we<br />

made good use of<br />

the playing fields<br />

and supported<br />

every sport in<br />

season. Alan’s<br />

special interest was<br />

rugby so what a thrill when he was elected <strong>School</strong> Rugby Captain.<br />

Our inter-school matches at that time took place in a small circle.<br />

As we all wanted to expand our world, we supported Alan’s oft<br />

expressed personal wish – to be drawn AWAY against FOYLE<br />

COLLEGE in the <strong>School</strong>s’ Cup. Alas it never happened – we had<br />

to make do with Larne!<br />

We kept in close touch through the years and Alan returned ‘home’<br />

every year because of his love for this place and its people. His<br />

arrival was the signal to gather in the Usual Suspects of WILLIE<br />

JOHN FLACK, DAVID BOYD, GLYNN DOUGLAS, WILL<br />

CORRY, GEORGE BAXTER, JOHN KENNEDY and FRANK<br />

PETTICREW when we reminisced over a lengthy meal.<br />

Alan’s generosity, his great capacity for friendship and his service<br />

to the community are right up there with his outstanding success in<br />

business.<br />

What a privilege to have had a BEST PAL in Alan.<br />

Brown Shaw<br />

Alan J Finlay<br />

John E. Kennedy (Frics)<br />

1944 - 2012<br />

John attended Friends’ <strong>School</strong> from 1944 to 1951, along with his<br />

sister Leonora. A keen sportsman, he gained honours in rugby,<br />

hockey and cricket. The highlight of his school sporting career was<br />

winning the Burney Cup under the coaching regime of Arnold<br />

Benington, alongside such other old scholars as Brown Shaw and<br />

Stanley Howard.<br />

After school he had a very successful career as a chartered<br />

surveyor. After a spell working in Nigeria in 1957-59 buying land<br />

on behalf of the government for the development of the Nigerian<br />

Railway, he ultimately became a partner for 25 years in McKibben<br />

& Co, Belfast. Having retired from the partnership in 1992, he was<br />

then retained as a consultant by several large property companies<br />

and continued to work up to November 2011.<br />

However, it was his love of sport gained while at Friends’, that<br />

became a major part of his life. Having played with distinction for<br />

many years for Lisnagarvey Hockey Club, gaining both Irish Senior<br />

Cup and Irish Junior Cup Medals, he then became the famous<br />

club’s first chairman in 1971. Subsequently, he served as a trustee<br />

and committee member for over 20 years. He was president of the<br />

Ulster Branch of the Irish Hockey Union in 1986-87.<br />

In addition, a former player at <strong>Lisburn</strong> Cricket Club, for many years<br />

he could be found on a Saturday afternoon watching cricket at<br />

Wallace Park.<br />

In later years, he turned his sporting powers to bowling, becoming a<br />

successful cup winning player at Malone Bowling Club and Hilden<br />

Bowling Club.<br />

A lifelong Old Scholar, amongst his proudest moments were when<br />

his three sons Alan, Roger, and Stephen, all attended the Prep.<br />

<strong>School</strong> and Grammar <strong>School</strong>, with all three achieving various<br />

honours including Head Boy, Deputy Head Boy, House Captain and<br />

Prefect.<br />

Sadly, after a brief illness, John passed away on 28 January 2012.<br />

He is survived by his wife Pat, his three sons and six grandchildren.<br />

Roger Kennedy<br />

BIRTHS<br />

Thomas William Boomer was born on 8 January 2012 to Chris and<br />

Christine (née McAuley) Boomer.<br />

DEATHS<br />

SANDY TINTO, a former pupil, on 27 July 2012.<br />

MARY CALWELL (WISDON) known as Nancy on 11 November<br />

2011.<br />

JOHN KENNEDY on 28 January 2012.<br />

KENNETH BOOMER on 20 September 2012.<br />

A former president of the Old Scholars.<br />

JAYNE MATHEWSON on 20 December 2012.<br />

SHAUN GILLESPIE on 24 November 2011.<br />

MARRIAGES<br />

Caroline Green OS to Robin Harris on 4 April 2012 aboard the<br />

Allure of the Seas.<br />

Siobhan Haire OS to Hugh Williams on 23 June 2012 at South<br />

Belfast Friends’ Meeting House.<br />

Julie Dillon OS to Neal Freeburn in April 2012 at Seymour Street<br />

Methodist Church.<br />

Katrina Christy OS to Captain Jamie Fraser on 14 July 2012.<br />

Elizabeth Wallace OS to Jonathan Coulter on 1 September 2012<br />

Susanna Louise Bell OS to Scott Iain Williams on 30 March 2012<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

In his long career as a golfer JOHN<br />

BOYD has won many individual<br />

tournaments and represented various<br />

teams. He is a past captain of <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

and Ballycastle Golf Clubs and enjoys<br />

his holiday golf in Belmullet in Co<br />

Mayo. This summer he played his part<br />

in the success of the Belmullet team<br />

which won the Connacht Seniors<br />

Inter-club Championships.<br />

ALISTER McREYNOLDS, the former<br />

Principal of <strong>Lisburn</strong> Institute, has made a<br />

name for himself in the field of Ulster<br />

Scots studies. He has lectured<br />

extensively in the United States and has<br />

worked with the Maine Ulster Scots<br />

Project and the University of Southern<br />

Maine. He is well known locally as the<br />

author of “Legacy – The Scots-Irish in<br />

America” and is currently an Honorary<br />

Research Fellow at the University of<br />

Ulster, where he collaborated this year<br />

with Frank Ferguson, a lecturer in<br />

English and History, to edit a volume of<br />

Robert Dinsmoor’s Scots Irish poems.<br />

The Eastwood family has long had close<br />

ties with Friends’ <strong>School</strong>. DESMOND<br />

EASTWOOD Jr. has kept up the<br />

family’s sporting tradition, being a keen<br />

rugby player at school, where he also<br />

won an Irish <strong>School</strong>s’ badminton medal.<br />

This year he broke new ground to tread<br />

the boards at the Lyric Theatre in a<br />

student production of Sophocles’<br />

“Oedipus the King”. After his first year<br />

in Law at Queen’s he enjoyed working<br />

with other young actors in the Lyric<br />

Summer <strong>School</strong>.<br />

Before SANDRA BOOMER went out to<br />

Chad again to work for a second year in<br />

the Wellspring Academy Mission<br />

<strong>School</strong>, she was given a good send-off<br />

by her local school. Forthill Integrated<br />

Primary presented her with a cheque for<br />

£1150.00 for the purchase of materials,<br />

resources and equipment to help her in<br />

her work in Africa.<br />

It was good to see JONATHAN ROSS<br />

back home to make an impact on the<br />

local bowling scene. He boosted the<br />

strength of his old club Lisnagarvey in<br />

the Bangor Open Tournament. Jonathan,<br />

now resident in Scotland, is a former<br />

international bowler.<br />

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Congratulations to RICHARD<br />

CREIGHTON who this year graduated<br />

with a PhD from the London <strong>School</strong> of<br />

Theology.<br />

Swapping his rugby shirt for a cycling<br />

jersey, STEPHEN FERRIS lent his<br />

support to launch the CLIC Sargent’s<br />

Malin to Mizen Cycle Challenge 2013.<br />

The seven day event will take place from<br />

May 18-25 and Stephen is appealing to<br />

local people to go the extra 415 miles for<br />

children and young people with cancer.<br />

In his retirement, DAVID THOMPSON<br />

is kept busy in the local music scene. He<br />

is in demand as a conductor and pianist<br />

and in February his Dromore and District<br />

Male Voice Choir joined other artists in<br />

the Age NI Gala Concert in the Ulster<br />

Hall.<br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> artist CLINTON<br />

KIRKPATRICK has had the honour of<br />

being invited to display his work at the<br />

Waterfront Hall. After finishing his<br />

degree in England, Clinton moved back<br />

to Northern Ireland and almost two years<br />

ago set up his studio in Market Square.<br />

He has displayed his work in a number of<br />

galleries but felt that the exhibition at the<br />

Waterfront Hall would be the biggest to<br />

date, featuring brand new work based on<br />

his time spent in Kenya.<br />

After the enormous success of acting as<br />

Alex Higgins in his one-man show<br />

“Hurricane”, RICHARD DORMER has<br />

been in great demand as actor and writer<br />

in film and television. He has had further<br />

success playing Terri Hooley in the new<br />

movie “Good Vibrations”, about the life<br />

and times of the Belfast man who was the<br />

godfather of Northern Ireland punk and a<br />

well-known local raconteur. Not one to<br />

rest on his laurels, Richard has branched<br />

out into opera, writing a work which is<br />

based on the final moments of the life of<br />

Ulster man Blair Mayne, one of the<br />

original members of the SAS regiment in<br />

World War II.<br />

Queen’s University lecturer and<br />

enterprise expert DAVID GIBSON<br />

received an OBE for services to<br />

education in the Queen’s New Year<br />

Honours List. David has taught at<br />

Queen’s for eight years and he said he<br />

felt privileged to receive the honour,<br />

which is only one of many accolades<br />

gained by the Ballinderry man.<br />

RICHARD WILLIAMS, the Chief<br />

Executive of Northern Ireland Screen,<br />

has been very enthusiastic about local<br />

successes this year in the movie business.<br />

He was particularly thrilled by the<br />

achievement of Terri and Oorlagh George<br />

in winning an Oscar for their film “The<br />

Shore”, shot in Killough in County Down<br />

and the highly successful “Game of<br />

Thrones”, probably the largest television<br />

drama in Europe, has also been produced<br />

in Northern Ireland.<br />

In April, JULIE JORDAN was appointed<br />

as a national trustee with the Riding for<br />

the Disabled Association. Julie has spent<br />

28 years volunteering with the group and<br />

has held the post of Regional<br />

Chairperson for three years. With 500<br />

RDA groups and over 30,000 participants<br />

throughout the UK, Julie’s undertaking is<br />

no small commitment. We wish her<br />

every success with her new venture.<br />

In 2012, commemoration of the<br />

centenary of the sinking of the Titanic<br />

inspired a number of theatrical<br />

productions. These included Owen<br />

McCafferty’s “Titanic – Scenes from the<br />

British Wreck Commission’s Inquiry”.<br />

In it IAN McELHINNEY, who starred in<br />

HBO’s “Game of Thrones”, plays the<br />

court clerk, the only fictional character in<br />

a production which is based word for<br />

word on accounts passengers and crew<br />

gave to one of the official investigations<br />

into the 1912 disaster.<br />

Hymn writer KEITH GETTY and his<br />

wife Kristyn, who are well known across<br />

America working out of Nashville as a<br />

singing duo, were back in Belfast in June<br />

to give three sell-out concerts at the<br />

Waterfront Hall. Keith’s hymn “In Christ<br />

Alone” is one of the most sung praises in<br />

churches all over the world and last<br />

Christmas he dedicated a new CD to his<br />

first-born with the title “Joy – an Irish<br />

Christmas”.<br />

In June the Belfast Telegraph featured an<br />

article on KAY ROGER’S work with<br />

Oxfam. Asked about her reasons for<br />

supporting Oxfam over so many years,<br />

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Kay paid tribute to her old school: “I was<br />

educated by Quakers at Friends’ <strong>School</strong><br />

in <strong>Lisburn</strong>, which developed my social<br />

conscience.” She was even more<br />

committed to the work of Oxfam when<br />

she witnessed the problems in Africa<br />

during a visit to Tanzania.<br />

RONNIE BROOKS has proved a popular<br />

president of <strong>Lisburn</strong> Golf Club. During<br />

his term of office he was kept very busy<br />

and among his many efforts on behalf of<br />

the club was a charity event which raised<br />

over £4000.00 for the Bridgewater Suite<br />

of Belfast’s City Hospital.<br />

In the Belfast Telegraph’s series “My<br />

Greatest Memory”, ALAN SNODDY<br />

recalled the thrill of refereeing at the<br />

World Cup in Italy in 1990. He<br />

especially remembers refereeing the<br />

match between West Germany and<br />

Colombia, when he was faced with the<br />

problem of coping with a play-acting<br />

Carlos Valderrama claiming a foul!<br />

In March RICHARD MAZE and his wife<br />

Thelma of 7th <strong>Lisburn</strong> Boys’ Brigade<br />

were presented with Long Service badges<br />

and Certificates acknowledging their<br />

extensive service as officers of the Boys’<br />

Brigade. Together Richard and Thelma<br />

have given a total of 60 years service to<br />

the Boys’ Brigade in Northern Ireland.<br />

It was a proud moment for MEGAN<br />

TRIMBLE when Prince Philip awarded<br />

her the Duke of Edinburgh Gold Award<br />

at St James’ Palace. Megan left Friends’<br />

in 2010 and is now studying Education<br />

with English at Homerton College<br />

Cambridge.<br />

Our past President, ADRIENNE BELL of<br />

Success 4U keeps up her good work of<br />

teaching swimming to those who have a<br />

fear of water. Adrienne guarantees adults<br />

that they will swim on their first lesson!<br />

Earlier in the year, Dr PAUL COULTER<br />

took part in Lambeg Baptist Church<br />

Christianity Explored, an event which<br />

took place in the Old Meeting House in<br />

Railway Street <strong>Lisburn</strong>. Paul is married<br />

to a Chinese Malaysian woman and they<br />

have two children. He studied Medical<br />

Genetics and Medicine at Queen’s<br />

University and worked for three years as<br />

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a junior doctor before moving into<br />

full-time Christian work. Studying for a<br />

PhD in Theology from Aberdeen<br />

University, Paul has been lecturing part<br />

time in Belfast Bible College and<br />

preaching in various churches.<br />

PHILIP ORR is a former member of staff<br />

who made a great contribution to the<br />

<strong>School</strong>’s drama productions. Well known<br />

for his works of local historical interest,<br />

Philip has also retained his taste for<br />

theatre. This year he received very<br />

favourable reviews for the drama: “1912<br />

– One Hundred Years on”, a moving play<br />

that examines the impact of the year at<br />

the time and also its relevance to the<br />

present day.<br />

As a pupil at Friends’, STEPHEN<br />

ROBINSON always had the dream of<br />

becoming a professional footballer, but<br />

at the age of 15 he was told by medical<br />

experts in London’s Harley Street that he<br />

would never play football again.<br />

However, Stephen did not want to give<br />

up on his dream and over the next 20<br />

years he would have three back<br />

operations that enabled him to have an<br />

international career that spanned a decade<br />

and played almost 500 club games all<br />

over England. In March his commitment<br />

and experience were rewarded when he<br />

was named the new Northern Ireland<br />

under-21 Coach. Stephen sees that as a<br />

great opportunity and he is also looking<br />

forward to working with Northern<br />

Ireland’s senior manager, Michael<br />

O’Neill.<br />

It was lovely to see NORMAN<br />

PRIESTLY and his wife Norma back<br />

home in Ireland on a visit from Australia.<br />

They still have a huge circle of friends<br />

here and had a very busy time catching<br />

up with folks they know all over the<br />

province.<br />

For centuries the Scots were experts in<br />

crossing the North Channel by boat<br />

between Scotland and County Antrim,<br />

but what about other means of bridging<br />

that gap In March 2012, AL MENNIE<br />

achieved this remarkable feat by<br />

surfboard to raise funds for Northern<br />

Ireland Chest Heart and Stroke! Setting<br />

off from the Giant’s Causeway, this epic<br />

voyage took nine battling hours. Well<br />

done that man.<br />

Congratulations to South Antrim Hockey<br />

Club on celebrating their centenary in<br />

2012. Well done GARY STEWART,<br />

GEORGE GLASS, IAIN GETTY,<br />

STEWART BARNES and the brothers<br />

REDPATH – WILLIAM GEORGE and<br />

CHARLES in helping them get this far.<br />

And now to carry the club forward, the<br />

stars of tomorrow in IAN GLASS,<br />

WARD PHILIPS, ADAM GLASS,<br />

CHRIS REDPATH, JOHN SEMPLE,<br />

JACK REDPATH, ADAM<br />

MARSHALL, CHRIS MOULDEN,<br />

MARK GRAY and JONNY<br />

PATTERSON.<br />

Summer 2012, with London Olympics<br />

and Paralympics, gave us all something<br />

to cheer about. JIM KIRKWOOD, our<br />

1988 gold medallist, was thrilled to be<br />

invited to the Opening Ceremony and to<br />

sample the many happenings in the<br />

Olympic Park. Naturally the hockey<br />

tournament featured strongly. “It brought<br />

back tremendous memories, feelings and<br />

emotions”<br />

Another successful season for<br />

Lisnagarvey Hockey Club under the<br />

captaincy of JONATHAN BELL. The<br />

senior squad played through to the final<br />

stages of every competition, winning the<br />

Kirk Cup and qualifying for European<br />

Cup Championship with success in the<br />

Irish Hockey League. Friends’ <strong>School</strong><br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> and Club were delighted with<br />

Jonathan’s selection for Ireland. A richly<br />

deserved honour.<br />

It is always nice to meet up with old<br />

school pals and recall all those youthful<br />

escapades. A local venue will usually<br />

suffice, but hold a moment, to learn about<br />

a group of young men who chose a<br />

French ski resort! This dedicated group<br />

consisted of IAIN GETTY, ROBERT<br />

WILLIAMS, UEL McKIBBEN, IAN<br />

GOURLEY, STEPHEN QUINN and<br />

RICHARD WILLIAMS. Les Gers was<br />

the venue in January so they had to do a<br />

little skiing as well!<br />

Congratulations to HELEN<br />

KIRKPATRICK on the award of the<br />

MBE in the Queen's Birthday Honours.<br />

Helen is a Chartered Accountant and has<br />

been involved in Public and Private<br />

Sector enterprises, including Invest<br />

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Northern Ireland, Kingspan plc, and the International Fund for<br />

Ireland. She is currently interim Chairman of UTV Media plc.<br />

Also awarded the MBE was JOANNE ANDREW-STEER (Née<br />

SPRAGUE). This honour was in recognition of of her long<br />

service to the Royal British Legion (Women's Section). She is<br />

currently President of the Northern Ireland District, having<br />

previously served for many years as Chairman.<br />

ZOE BOOMER is making her mark in the fashion world in<br />

London since graduation from the London College of Fashion.<br />

Her spring collection was on show at the Belfast Fashion week<br />

last March. Look out for her label - Zoe Boomer Fashions.<br />

HARRY SHIER is home from Central America with his wife<br />

and daughter to study for a couple of years for a Ph.D at Queen's<br />

University. We hope to see them at OS functions during their<br />

stay.<br />

NATALIE LE SEELLEUR (née PENROSE) has been living in<br />

Dubai for a number of years where her husband is a college<br />

lecturer. She has returned to Northern Ireland and is living in<br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> with five children all of whom are at FSL.<br />

On the popular music scene KYLE JOHN SUCKLING has been<br />

making a name for himself as a singer-songwriter. His career<br />

has taken him all over the world and he has an impressive<br />

catalogue of recordings.<br />

The talent of Old Scholar architects is apparent in new public<br />

buildings in Belfast. The Titanic Centre was designed by Todd<br />

Architects, of which PAUL CROWE is Managing Director, and<br />

the MAC, the new Arts Centre in the Cathedral Quarter, by IAN<br />

McKNIGHT's firm of Hall McKnight.<br />

Wise words on the current political and social scene in Northern<br />

Ireland are often heard on the media from ARTHUR AUGHEY,<br />

Professor of Politics at the University of Ulster and PETE<br />

SHIRLOW, Director of Education in the Law Faculty at Queen's<br />

University.<br />

JAMES SINTON is Finance Director of the Beannchor Group<br />

which includes the Merchant Hotel, Belfast. Useful to have<br />

friends in high places!<br />

JAMES DORRIAN was producer of a BBC documentary<br />

programme on the 70th anniversary of a daring Commando raid<br />

on St. Nazaire during World War II.<br />

DAVID GIBSON, Senior Lecturer in Enterprise Education at<br />

Queen's University, was named the Most Innovative Teacher of<br />

the Year in The Times Higher Education awards and received<br />

the accolade as 'the world's number one enterprise educator' at a<br />

ceremony in Georgia, USA. These citations were followed up<br />

by the award of the OBE in the New Year's Honours list.<br />

TIMOTHY SMITH has paid a wonderful tribute to his mother<br />

in compiling and publishing a book which illustrates the range<br />

of her beautiful artwork. BARBARA LOVE SMITH was the<br />

head of the art department from 1970 to 1992. Her reputation as<br />

NEWS ITEMS<br />

an artist and art teacher extends well beyond <strong>Lisburn</strong> and Ulster and<br />

her works are the envied possession of many fortunate collectors.<br />

The book, priced at £10.00 and entitled “Barbara Love Smith:<br />

Sculpture, Paintings and Drawings” is available through Amazon or<br />

from Timothy whose e-mail address is timsmith20@btinternet.com.<br />

Barbara’s former pupils, many of whom have also carved out<br />

successful careers for themselves in the world of art, will especially<br />

take great pleasure in viewing this beautiful tribute to their much<br />

admired teacher.<br />

RICHARD CUNNINGHAM is currently teaching in Bermuda and<br />

got in touch recently to express his admiration for the FSL lipdub.<br />

So impressed was he that he encouraged his students to make one<br />

of their own. http://www.youtube.com/watchv=VqBG1nsU_MI<br />

A Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong> sprinkling is to be found in most local<br />

sporting organisations. President of <strong>Lisburn</strong> Golf Club is RONNIE<br />

BROOKS and who should win the President’s Prize in 2012 IAN<br />

THOMPSON.<br />

Stuart McAuley and wife Alisa woith daughter Iona returned from<br />

Australia in June and are currently living in Aberdeen.<br />

ADVENTURES ON LEAVING FSL<br />

GAME OF THRONES<br />

In mid-September, Jack Boyd and I were fortunate enough to<br />

take part in the universal smash hit TV series ‘Game of<br />

Thrones’, created by David Benioff and D B Weiss. The<br />

American medieval fantasy, shot in Belfast amongst other<br />

locations including Malta and Iceland, has been one of HBO’s<br />

most successful productions.<br />

We each received four days work in total, split by two day<br />

filming. Each day consisted of a 5.30am-6.00pm schedule for<br />

the extras. In the early hours of the morning we arrived at ‘Unit<br />

Base’, situated across the road from the Belfast Painthall,<br />

Titanic Quarter. Greeted by friendly extra-coordinators, we<br />

entered an extremely large tent and received payment<br />

documents which are to be filled out after each day of filming.<br />

This was followed by an ‘all you can eat’ buffet for the extras<br />

which was warmly welcomed by all. Breakfast was important<br />

as ‘standing on your feet’ for sustained periods of time with<br />

heavy outfits slowly took its toll on the body. Breakfast was<br />

followed by changing into our outfits. All outfits were<br />

pre-assigned during ‘outfit fitting’ days, weeks in advance of<br />

filming. Jack and I were both ‘noblemen’, an outfit consisting<br />

of large, beautifully designed gowns, along with brown boots,<br />

darkly coloured trousers and a belt. Both Jack and I, delighted<br />

with our outfits, yet wishing for the infamous Kings Guard<br />

outfit.<br />

We then walked to the Painthall and found ourselves in the<br />

‘Great Hall’, a familiar sight to beloved watchers around the<br />

world. During the filming vast arrays of stars were present,<br />

including Peter Dinklage, winner of a Golden Globe for his<br />

portrayal of Tyrion Lannister, Lena Headey and Ballycastle born<br />

Conleth Hill.<br />

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The director during our involvement was Michelle MacLaren, a<br />

Canadian television director who has directed episodes of<br />

American TV series ‘Breaking Bad’ and ‘The Walking Dead’.<br />

During the film, extras were able to engage with one another<br />

which helped pass the time. When actually involved, it was<br />

amazing to watch the actors perform, especially with the manner<br />

of ease in which they carried out their job.<br />

The sets were extremely impressive aided by some of the best<br />

lighting and technical support in Europe. Each day was at times<br />

long, but being in the company of your friends and other extras<br />

was extremely enjoyable and informative, as many extras spoke<br />

of their previous experiences with Extras NI. As extras, we both<br />

had very enjoyable experiences and would most definitely take<br />

part again. We both now eagerly await the release of season 3,<br />

coming to screens April 2013, in an attempt to see ourselves on<br />

one of the biggest shows in the world!<br />

Dezi Eastwood<br />

CAMP LAURELWOOD<br />

It is often said that the years spent at school are amongst the<br />

most formative in a person’s life. Just a year on from leaving<br />

Friends’, and after some remarkable opportunities which I hope<br />

to give a brief insight to, I have come to realise that whilst this<br />

holds true to a point, there is still much to change in who we are.<br />

I have spent my last two summers, 2011 and 2012, working at<br />

Camp Laurelwood, a Jewish sleep away summer camp in<br />

Connecticut, USA. Having had some time for reflection on my<br />

time spent at Laurelwood, I am fortunate to come away with<br />

some remarkable memories and skills that will stay with me<br />

forever.<br />

Growing up with older siblings, the prospect of working with<br />

kids aged between 7 and 14, was somewhat daunting! What<br />

would these kids be able to do What would they know When<br />

did I stop playing with action men I really had no idea what to<br />

expect from the kids at Laurelwood, moreover, I had no idea<br />

what to expect of myself in how I would work with kids. As it<br />

turned out, this was a situation in which the only option was to<br />

learn on the job; establishing how different children responded<br />

very differently to certain situations and scenarios made the job<br />

extremely challenging from the outset. For the first time I was<br />

truly able to place myself in my old teachers’ shoes!<br />

Trying to explain camp culture to those of us in the UK and<br />

Ireland is very difficult, it simply wasn’t part of growing up for<br />

us. Indeed, few British parents (after the initial excitement at<br />

the prospect) could fathom sending their children off for 7<br />

weeks to be looked after by university age young men and<br />

women, with the only contact being old fashioned snail mail!<br />

However, to give something of an idea of what a US summer<br />

camp involves, a schedule looks something like this: flag<br />

raising, breakfast, bunk clean up, lacrosse, instructional swim,<br />

basketball, arts and crafts. And that’s all before lunch!<br />

The days were long, often extremely tiring and maintaining<br />

‘American’ levels of enthusiasm was by no means a<br />

straightforward task! However, motivation had to come from<br />

somewhere, and for me, it came from the everyday rewards only<br />

found when working with kids. On reflection, much of what<br />

was required of my role can be aptly described as ‘dad practice’!<br />

Talking 8 year olds through arguments with one another, helping<br />

them understand the importance of respect, both for others and<br />

themselves, had the effect of providing some insight into how I<br />

live my life, it held the mirror up if you will.<br />

With evening activities, we as counsellors were given slightly<br />

more leeway to leave our personal imprint on the kids’ summer.<br />

Creating activities and games, sometimes literally out of thin air,<br />

whether it be a camp wide scavenger hunt or an Alice in<br />

Wonderland themed murder mystery really brought out the<br />

counsellors’ creative sides. Within this scope for creativity, I<br />

quickly found myself passionate about teaching the kids about<br />

things I had learnt throughout my childhood, that many of them<br />

simply would not get the chance to; spending an hour a day with<br />

12 and 13 year old boys who simply wanted to ‘shoot hoops’ or<br />

head to the ropes course, to teach them about Shakespeare,<br />

making his works accessible and fun, provided one of the most<br />

rewarding episodes of my life so far.<br />

My time at Laurelwood was marked, perhaps most interestingly,<br />

by the insight into the Jewish culture in New England.<br />

Celebrating Shabbat each week, incorporating a service on both<br />

Friday night and Saturday morning and finishing with Havdallah<br />

every Saturday evening, allowed me to witness the importance<br />

of the Sabbath in a modern reformist Jewish environment.<br />

Whether it was through recognising Tish B’Av or holding<br />

specially themed ‘Israeli Days’ in which we moved from making<br />

flat breads and houmous to participating in an Israeli army<br />

styled Boot Camp, the kids were allowed to feel comfortable<br />

celebrating their inherited culture and in turn proved highly<br />

educational for us as non-Jewish staff.<br />

Whatever my political views regarding Israel’s current political<br />

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ADVENTURES ON LEAVING FSL<br />

significance in the modern world, I could not dismiss the truly<br />

special celebration of culture at Laurelwood. It goes without<br />

saying that working up to 16 hour days with the same people<br />

over a two month period, the opportunity for building lifelong<br />

friendships was there to be jumped at. Indeed, the worlds of<br />

Facebook and Twitter have made it easy to keep in touch with<br />

the people that essentially made the last two summers of my life<br />

unforgettable.<br />

Rory McIvor<br />

A HOSPITAL IN AN<br />

AFRICAN VILLAGE<br />

I have spent the past year (August 2010 - August 2011) living in<br />

the small village of Zithulele in the Eastern Cape of South<br />

Africa on the Wild Coast, right in the heart of the former<br />

Transkei. This was a ʻhome landʼ in the apartheid era which has<br />

been historically deprived in many ways and is still struggling to<br />

overcome itʼs difficult past.<br />

A charity, based in the Hebridean Islands, ʻProject Trustʼ, linked<br />

me to a charity in South Africa called the ʻJabulani Rural Health<br />

Foundationʼ. It is a tiny charity established by a group of truly<br />

inspirational doctors struggling against all the odds in an<br />

extremely rural and deprived hospital. HIV is the modern day<br />

tragedy which has hit the intensely impoverished community<br />

and is currently causing widespread suffering and distress.<br />

ARVs (HIV medication) are a beacon of hope which are<br />

providing life again for many. They cannot cure HIV but they<br />

allow a person to live a relatively healthy life as long as they are<br />

taken very precisely. Unfortunately, if doses are missed, as<br />

often happens when people cannot afford to travel the distance<br />

to their nearest hospital to collect their medication, the virus can<br />

become resistant and the patient will get sick again.<br />

Along with one other girl, my job was to establish, run and<br />

expand the ARV program, from the hospital to the peripheral<br />

clinics in different villages of the area allowing our patients to<br />

collect their medication, access counselling and attend peer<br />

support meetings where they lived. Our furthest clinic was in a<br />

village that, if unable to attend, our sick patients would have to<br />

spend nearly a quarter of their monthly income on transport or<br />

walk for 6 hours each way to travel to the hospital.<br />

Throughout the year we expanded to 10 clinics, managing<br />

nearly 2000 patientsʼ treatment. It was not at all easy, but<br />

fortunately we had the help and support of an amazing and<br />

dedicated core team back at the hospital, and we have now<br />

handed over to trustworthy successors.<br />

I learnt how to drive a 4 x4 over hectic dirt roads, to have a<br />

conversation in Xhosa, that mud huts make really good homes<br />

and that no matter how difficult a situation may get, just make a<br />

new plan, follow it through and it will all work out in the end.<br />

Zithulele is a place of incredible hope, of incredible faith and of<br />

incredible perseverance in the face of nothing. I have moved on<br />

and have begun my studies at Queens’ but I know I will never<br />

forget my year of adventures in rural Africa. A wholehearted<br />

thank you to anyone who helped me fundraise.<br />

Katy Fair<br />

CHARITY HITCHHIKE<br />

TO MOROCCO<br />

When signing up for the Hitch Society at the University of<br />

Liverpool freshers fair, never did I anticipate that I would<br />

actually hitchhike to Morocco. However, when a new friend<br />

dragged me to a meeting about the trip, I left with a different<br />

attitude. With a few months to prepare, I set up a giving page on<br />

the internet for donations and set about organising my journey.<br />

Having booked a flight to London and a flight home from<br />

Agadir, all that was left was to raise the money for a charity<br />

called LINK, which does work with kids in poorer areas of<br />

Africa. People were generous in donating because the hitch was<br />

for a great cause, so all I had to worry about was making it to<br />

Agadir on time to catch my flight home.<br />

When Easter came, I got my flight to London with just a carry<br />

on bag and met my friend from university, Ellen. She and her<br />

mother picked me up from the airport and we were then dropped<br />

off at a petrol station, which was where our research had told us<br />

was the best place to get a lift. Within the first 10 minutes, we<br />

got our first hitch down to Portsmouth where we stayed the<br />

night with Ellen’s friend. The swiftness of the first lift was a<br />

massive boost and I made the mistake of thinking the whole trip<br />

would be as trouble free.<br />

The next couple of days were not as much fun as the first. The<br />

first ferry of the day, over to Caen, France at 0930, and after<br />

getting lost on the way to the ferry port, we missed this ferry and<br />

had to wait until 1600 for the next one. We got this ferry which<br />

left us in Caen at midnight. This meant pitching a tent in a field<br />

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CLASS OF ‘92 REUNION<br />

CLASS OF ‘92 REUNION<br />

20 years....where does the time go In our case, like a flash!<br />

With the Class of 1992 coming to terms with the fact that they<br />

were now in 2012 (without the assistance of time travel or<br />

teleportation), the darkened, relaxed venue of The Cardan<br />

seemed like an apt place to hold our reunion.<br />

While planning for the event started back in September 2011,<br />

we had no way of knowing that Saturday 19 May 2012 would<br />

be the date that Ulster would play Leinster in the Magner's Cup<br />

Final; or that this would also be the date of the UEFA<br />

Champions League Final. A determined bunch, we stuck to our<br />

guns, and with invites issued from a Facebook site, we waited,<br />

pensively, to see if anyone would turn up.<br />

before being directed by French Police to a campsite. The next<br />

day was spent trying to figure out road signs and looking at<br />

endless maps, and most of all trying to get on the right road out<br />

of Caen.<br />

The rest of the journey down through France was relatively easy<br />

and we were able to catch up on time lost during the first three<br />

days. From Caen, we travelled south to Niort and then onto<br />

Toulouse and then San Sebastian in northern Spain.<br />

Spain proved to be a more difficult task than France, and the<br />

weather at the time did not help. Over the next few days we<br />

barely covered half the ground we had covered in France per<br />

day, and it got to the point when I thought we weren’t going to<br />

make it to Morocco on time. I was starting to dislike the<br />

Spanish for leaving us stranded at the side of the road with the<br />

rain pouring overhead. But, one morning after a sleepless night<br />

in Salamanca, a small town in central Spain, we were saved by a<br />

man who could barely speak a word of English. He kindly took<br />

us all the way to Seville, which is almost a five hour journey.<br />

From then on it was plain sailing and sunshine in southern<br />

Spain.<br />

By 8pm, over 60 alumni had arrived from the four corners of<br />

the globe (special thanks to Jeremy Murdoch who had made<br />

the trip from the US!). The years literally rolled back, partly<br />

due to the myriad of photos capturing our seven years at FSL<br />

(school trips, sports teams, formals, the Sixth Form Centre -<br />

replete with dodgy hair-dos and "cutting edge" fashion). And<br />

thankfully, we didn't really need to use our name badges as we<br />

were able to quickly establish that we still recognised our<br />

school friends!<br />

Mrs Dickson made a guest appearance, and following an<br />

impromptu awards ceremony, it was the wee small hours of the<br />

morning before we realised what had happened. A great night<br />

was had by all, and we all owe a massive thank you to the<br />

organising committee - Alison Coyle, Sharyn Cameron, Nicola<br />

Munroe, Emma Pollock and Richard Watson.<br />

Roll on 2022!<br />

Lynne Rainey<br />

On the 8th day of travelling, we boarded the thirty-five minute<br />

ferry from Tarifa to Tangier, Morocco. On arrival in Tangier, it<br />

was clear to see that it was a completely different culture, and<br />

getting a taxi to the train station was as scary an experience as<br />

any. General “rules of the road” were not being adhered to.<br />

From Tangier we got an overnight train to Marrakech. On<br />

arrival in Marrakech we were greeted by a bustling city with<br />

beautiful buildings and an amazing culture. Setting up in a<br />

hostel with two new Australian friends, we all set out to explore<br />

the famous markets of Marrakech. The colour and energy<br />

within the small streets was incredible and it is somewhere I<br />

would love to explore again in the future.<br />

Although the trip was for charity, I had a fantastic time in<br />

Morocco and although at times the hitchhiking was difficult, it is<br />

definitely something I would advise future uni-goers to do.<br />

I had a great time and it was for a great cause.<br />

Jack Boyd<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

The Class of ‘92<br />

PAST & PRESENT - THEN & NOW<br />

As a pupil I enjoyed the school magazine. The articles devoted<br />

to those still at FSL I devoured; then to university graduates,<br />

looking for familiar names. Finally to items from Old Scholars,<br />

with memories of events from long before my time. Now I’ve<br />

reached a stage where I read every contribution and do much<br />

wondering – is the cricket hero a grandson of my classmate who<br />

was such a consistent bat Is a teacher related to one of my<br />

tormentors<br />

I look at today’s buildings, sporting and academic facilities and<br />

at the list of staff – and I marvel. So much change, so many<br />

improvements, so many innovations. When we old-timers<br />

congregate of course we reminisce. We disagree about who was<br />

best in sport or studies, but the factor we have in common is our<br />

love of Friends’. Such discussions I have missed since<br />

settling in Australia. All the schools in which I have taught have<br />

reunions, but the “tyranny of distance” makes their<br />

arranging difficult. As an example my wife and I live almost<br />

halfway between Sydney and Brisbane, our daughter in the<br />

former and our son in Newcastle. When we refer to visiting<br />

them, we refer to the journey in terms of 3 or 5 hours of travel<br />

rather than distance away.<br />

Talking of memories and old friends, when we are in Australia<br />

we refer to Ulster as home, when here, the opposite. We are<br />

fortunate in having been able to come back so often, the<br />

previous time being seven years ago. As ever it has been an<br />

absolute joy to catch up, even if briefly, with so many friends<br />

from school and college, cricket, hockey and football,<br />

ex-neighbours, the list goes on. This visit has been a mixture of<br />

delight and sadness, sadness because this is our final visit.<br />

Impressions we’ll take home are that drivers in general exceed<br />

the speed limit, that they are very considerate to other drivers<br />

joining or crossing traffic. There are many more BMWs,<br />

Mercedes and Audis than with us, such cars are much more<br />

expensive to buy at “home”. However so many more vehicles<br />

apparently come without indicators fitted – surprising!<br />

What came as no surprise was the kindness and courtesy we<br />

have experienced. EVERYONE we encountered went the extra<br />

mile to help us.<br />

A gathering held only in my imagination for many years,<br />

brought me face-to-face with former teachers during my spell at<br />

Friends’. My Physics and Chemistry teachers would not be in<br />

the least bit amazed that their subjects remain closed to me. My<br />

love of Maths would raise eyebrows. Despite six years of<br />

inglorious efforts in Latin, through it I developed a passion for<br />

word roots, this would astound. I hope that those who devoted<br />

time to teaching me cricket and hockey might contain their<br />

disbelief and rejoice that I have had a lifelong enthusiasm in<br />

these sports. My teachers of English would utterly disbelieve<br />

that it is not only my passion, but that I’m good at it.<br />

My biggest barrier at school was self inflicted. It involved all<br />

subjects and all staff. I was paralysed by shyness. Every day,<br />

just about every lesson, this cloud enveloped me. I would never<br />

offer any answer, however obvious. I refused to ask any<br />

questions, I sat silent. If the spotlight shone on me, I blushed,<br />

sweated and froze – not an easy thing to do!<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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TO GO OR NOT TO GO<br />

Liberation came years later when I joined a world wide<br />

organization called Toastmasters, dedicated to promote<br />

self-confidence through speaking in public. In this atmosphere I<br />

flourished, to the extent that I won the NSW title three times,<br />

each of which qualified me to represent my state in the World<br />

Finals in the USA. With NSW having 280 clubs, coming first is<br />

quite an achievement.<br />

In my ‘dream’ reunion, I can just see my ex-instructors lying all<br />

over the floor, having fainted after such a severe shock brought<br />

on by this revelation.<br />

TO GO OR NOT TO GO<br />

Premise<br />

We all, to a greater or lesser extent, yearn for adventure. Some of<br />

us suppress the urge; others fuel it with books, holidays and movies.<br />

Yet few really indulge it with some kind of heart-thumping, brainwhizzing,<br />

sense-tingling activity. And fewer still embark on a true<br />

adventure, an intrepid odyssey of discovery into the unknown. We<br />

assume that such an experience is open only to those possessed of<br />

inordinate wealth, expertise or daring; not to ordinary people. This<br />

article has been written to dispel that misconception.<br />

Just in case any reader is suffering from acute shyness, and<br />

thinking, as I did, that such an affliction stays until the grave, I<br />

hope very much that you will chose a path which deals with<br />

your fear.<br />

Norman Priestley<br />

PS If former friends, or debtors, wish to contact me please do:<br />

normanpriestley@iprimus.com.au<br />

The next time the impulse for adventure stirs in your breast and<br />

begs the question: “To go or not to go” how will you answer<br />

Based on my own experience, I believe that your response should<br />

be a wholehearted “Go!”<br />

Preliminaries<br />

Take for example the idea of driving from Dromara to Togo, West<br />

Africa. You might assume that such an expedition could only<br />

happen for a very good reason and would require elaborate<br />

planning, specialised equipment and highly skilled personnel. I can<br />

attest that this is not the case.<br />

My own overland journey to Togo had its origins in the daydreams<br />

of two imaginative schoolboys in Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong>. It really<br />

took shape six years later when one of these two volunteered to join<br />

the “Africa Mercy” medical ship in Togo. Considering his travel<br />

options, Joel sent me a text message and the adventure began from<br />

there (“I’m thinking of driving to Togo in the Caravelle – care to<br />

join me”). His brother Gregg required more persuasion, but the<br />

addition of his practical skills made the plan much more feasible.<br />

Our expedition equipment was equally improbable. We did not<br />

own a Land Rover or a safari truck and did not have the funds to<br />

buy one. What we did have was the aforementioned Caravelle: a<br />

grey-blue Volkswagen combi of uncertain vintage, held in great<br />

affection by Joel’s family whom it had served as a faithful runabout<br />

for over two decades. Now in the twilight of its career, a one-way<br />

trip to Togo would be its final glorious hurrah.<br />

The Caravelle was reconfigured as a camper van by replacing the<br />

rear seating with a discarded bed and fitting the windows with<br />

wendy-house curtains crafted by Joel’s mum. Following a policy of<br />

minimal expense (so that in a crisis virtually everything could be<br />

considered expendable) we loaded it with a few canisters for spare<br />

petrol and water, a box of assorted minor vehicle spares and<br />

bedding plundered from an old sofa. Victuals cost a total of £70<br />

from the Tesco value aisle. In-car entertainment consisted of the<br />

Caravelle’s decrepit tape deck and a tub of miscellaneous cassettes.<br />

The only specialist items purchased were a Haynes manual, a<br />

European roads update for the satnav and a Michelin No. 741 road<br />

map (Africa – North and West).<br />

It is possible that ours was the cheapest expedition of this kind ever<br />

mounted. It made for rather rudimentary living conditions, but<br />

whoever heard of a comfortable adventure<br />

Norma & Norman Priestly<br />

Predictions<br />

Reader take note: if an optometrist, a public policy researcher and a<br />

dairy farmer can drive to Togo in a veteran Volkswagen, then<br />

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TO GO OR NOT TO GO<br />

ladder. Togo also boasts a belt of dense tropical rainforest complete<br />

with precisely timed daily thunderstorms - a dramatic change for<br />

travellers accustomed to skeletal baobab trees clawing at an empty<br />

dust-blanched sky.<br />

anybody can. Many readers will in fact be far likelier candidates<br />

than the three of us were, so perhaps the feasibility of such a trip is<br />

not your prime consideration. Perhaps you require proof that an<br />

adventure of this sort is worth having. If you were to drive a<br />

camper van from Dromara to Togo, what could you expect to<br />

encounter along the way<br />

Precipitation<br />

For starters, weather might not be as predictable as you think,<br />

especially if you travel in winter as we did. Bitter cold in France<br />

was disconcerting; severe blizzards in Spain were really quite<br />

alarming. After battling torrential rain on the ironically named<br />

Costa del Sol and flooded roads in Morocco, I was forced to<br />

reconsider my hasty dismissal of motherly advice (“Have you<br />

packed an anorak” “Don’t be daft Ma, I’m going to the Sahara”).<br />

Phenomena<br />

Such meteorological impediments are nothing new to Northern<br />

Irish natives. For the Togo-bound traveller the real adventure, the<br />

experiences which captivate the senses and rouse the imagination,<br />

come after exiting Europe and penetrating Africa proper. The route<br />

may be straightforward - it follows a single highway - but it is<br />

punctuated with unforgettable spectacles.<br />

Consider for example the brooding medieval citadels of Morocco,<br />

their encompassing battlements spiked with minarets. Or the Atlas<br />

mountains, sweeping down to the sea in a manner very different to<br />

the Mournes. Imagine crossing the Tropic of Cancer, the precise<br />

position of that invisible latitude marked by a dilapidated signpost,<br />

with nothing but dead straight road or dead flat desert visible in any<br />

direction.<br />

Where the roadside scenery is featureless, geographical monotony<br />

is relieved by anthropological curiosity. Fascinating, infuriating,<br />

inspiring, perplexing and amusing, the people of West Africa make<br />

an indelible impression. Occupations are diverse, from pensive<br />

Moroccan goatherds watching their flock graze among the branches<br />

of a nearby tree, to raucous fishmongers proffering their wares at<br />

Nouakchott’s sunset fishmarket. Transport is eccentric, ranging<br />

from improbably overloaded minibuses to antiquated river ferries.<br />

Architecture is eclectic, whether that be the dilapidated colonial<br />

splendour of St Louis or the martian appearance of mud-built<br />

Djenne and its celebrated mosque. Hospitality is often humbling –<br />

we dined with locals in a chapel compound in Senegal, and watched<br />

TV with villagers in a garage forecourt in Mali; we ate homemade<br />

scones with American missionaries and drank Coke with British aid<br />

workers.<br />

Fellow travellers are even more colourful than local residents, if<br />

that were possible. They are after all those who have yielded to<br />

their inner impulses and embraced the adventurous ideal. These<br />

people include, in our experience at least, an intrepid Dublin<br />

businessman traversing the Sahara in a catering van, and zany<br />

German pensioners doing it on a motorcycle and sidecar. Retired<br />

Italian sunchasers congregate in motorhome encampments in the<br />

heart of the desert, and cheery Irish cyclists pedal the highway for<br />

charitable purposes. This company made our presence in deepest<br />

Africa seem perfectly reasonable and should provide conclusive<br />

inspiration for any readers still unsure of their own candidacy for<br />

adventures of this kind.<br />

Predicaments<br />

Minor mishaps are hard to avoid in Africa; if you choose to follow<br />

the Jess-Somerville model of overland travel they are inevitable.<br />

As long as they are only minor this is no hardship, for an adventure<br />

where nothing goes wrong is no adventure at all.<br />

Grinding to an unscheduled halt on the most remote stretch of the<br />

trans-Saharan highway counts as a minor mishap, provided you<br />

have a knowledgeable mechanic on board. Not that we had, but we<br />

did have a dairy farmer with sufficient technical know-how to<br />

As you traverse the interminable Sahara and its near-cousin the<br />

interminable Sahel, the route is not ‘scenic’ in the usual sense. But<br />

where exceptional terrain does exist, it tends to be truly<br />

extraordinary. Mali’s Bandiagara Escarpment is a rugged plateau of<br />

sandstone cliffs soaring out of the surrounding wilderness.<br />

Exploring this fantastical landscape and the indigenous culture of<br />

its isolated inhabitants feels like a visit to an entirely different<br />

planet. Although closer to the beaten track, Togo’s Nano caves are<br />

scarcely more accessible – our casual visit required personal<br />

authorization from the local chief, guidance from a posse of<br />

villagers and a heart stopping descent down a cliff on a rickety steel<br />

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TO GO OR NOT TO GO<br />

diagnose the cause of engine overheating and bodge a repair with a<br />

sliver of rubber and a hose clamp.<br />

The magnitude of the mishap may be determined by circumstances.<br />

Total brake failure is never good, particularly while trying to cross<br />

an international frontier and negotiate a busy city in the dark. But<br />

judicial use of the handbrake should suffice temporarily, and at least<br />

in the city there are plenty of local repairmen to hand. A flat tyre is<br />

usually far less serious, unless you happen to be in the absolute<br />

middle-of-nowhere with the Bandiagara Escarpment on one side<br />

(following a hair-raising hairpin descent), forty miles of desert all<br />

around and no road whatsoever (its sudden termination in a ditch<br />

having caused the prang). It is even more serious if the only<br />

spanner in your inventory is short, wrung and, in hindsight,<br />

manifestly unfit for purpose. In our case this ordeal ended after two<br />

very fraught days: one culminated in a wheel change with the<br />

assistance of an aggressive local mechanic, the next was spent<br />

ploughing through sand dunes behind a hired guide on a moped.<br />

It was a very chastening episode.<br />

Diplomatic mishap can also occur if travellers disregard the<br />

vagaries of African bureaucracy. Imagine negotiating an unmarked<br />

minefield to reach a border checkpoint staffed by stern Mauritanian<br />

policemen sporting handlebar moustaches and sidearms. Then<br />

imagine showing up, as Gregg and I did for convoluted reasons,<br />

with a Moroccan exit stamp in a British passport and a Mauritanian<br />

visa in an Irish one. The Chef de Police was unimpressed by this<br />

irregular documentation and unwilling to let us enter the country<br />

until it was sorted out. Since it was already late and the Moroccan<br />

gate was closed until morning, our options appeared to be a night in<br />

Mauritanian cells or camping in the minefield.<br />

One of those colourful fellow-travellers - a shifty-looking<br />

Dutchman in native robes - suggested offering a moderate bribe to<br />

grease the cogs of officialdom, but we were inexperienced in such<br />

matters. How does one bribe an officer of the law After an hour<br />

of watching us stand gormlessly and mutter “Should we ask him<br />

now” every time he walked past, the Chef cut his losses and<br />

processed our passports. Not that we left him empty-handed – our<br />

obsequious gratitude yielded a bag of glacier mints and a pot of jam<br />

for the guardroom larder.<br />

We had another altercation with Mauritania’s finest while trying to<br />

leave the country. This time the problem was a policeman with a<br />

blatant conflict of interests (“you cannot cross the border until you<br />

have purchased insurance from my associates”). We eventually<br />

ascertained that the insurance was genuine and paid a reasonable<br />

price for it, but only after several hours of deliberately failing to<br />

comprehend his demands in French or English (“Regardez notre<br />

passports, monsieur - nous sommes Irlandais et parlons Irlandais<br />

seulement”). By the time we were done the man was glad to be rid<br />

of us - I’m afraid we left the Mauritanian constabulary with a very<br />

low opinion of the Irish intellect.<br />

Pratfalls<br />

Provided your sense of humour survives the predicaments<br />

unscathed, an African road trip provides plenty of amusement. The<br />

facial expression of the passport official at the Cherbourg ferry<br />

terminal: “Ou venez-vous, messieurs” “En Afrique.” The sight of<br />

Gregg explaining his occupation to a Moroccan policeman (who, as<br />

it transpired, actually spoke English): “Fer-meer! Moo! Mooooo!”<br />

The bashful giggles of a rotund lady hitchhiker. The guffaws of<br />

villagers as an assertive mother compelled me to babysit her infant<br />

daughter. The difficulty of convincing an enthusiastic trader that<br />

the shirt he is trying to sell me is actually three sizes too small.<br />

These are simple, naive pleasures, yet they resonate long in the<br />

memory.<br />

Payoff<br />

The Dromara-Togo expedition is merely one example of an<br />

adventure which is quite feasible and deeply rewarding.<br />

Undertaking an odyssey of this kind fulfils the adventurous impulse<br />

and resolves those nagging “what-if” and “could-I” questions. It<br />

also leaves a personal legacy of confidence and contentment; of<br />

pride in achieving a feat which others balk at, and satisfaction at a<br />

considerable challenge accomplished.<br />

To go or not to go – the answer should be obvious. So what are<br />

you waiting for Perhaps the next adventure story in these pages<br />

will be yours...<br />

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Matthew Jess<br />

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CLASS OF ‘72 REUNION<br />

Pupils and teachers who attended and worked in FSL from<br />

1958-1972 attended a grand reunion on 1 September 2012.<br />

Ann McCullagh, Robert McCullagh and Bronwen Haire traced<br />

over 100 pupils and staff and invited them to the reunion. It<br />

seemed a daunting task to start. However, the many lovely<br />

conversations and renewed friendships made it very worthwhile.<br />

Teachers who might have seemed terrifying when we were 14<br />

years old, turned out to be charming now that we are nearing<br />

retirement!<br />

The day started with coffee and locally sourced Brown Bean<br />

scones which went down a treat. Friends’ never stands still and<br />

on this occasion we met in the current staff room where, in our<br />

day, RE and Maths lessons were taught by Sydney Stewart and<br />

Paddy Shier.<br />

The atmosphere was relaxed and informal but the excitement<br />

began to build as each person arrived. Some people, who had<br />

not been able to attend the last reunion in 2002, had not met for<br />

more than 40 years. Some were instantly recognizable, others<br />

were more difficult to identify. However, the astonishment on<br />

people’s faces when they realized who they were talking to was<br />

priceless!<br />

Elizabeth Dickson gave generously of her time and led us round<br />

some of the newer buildings, finishing up in the Archive Room.<br />

Arthur Chapman, our former headmaster, had unearthed lots of<br />

photos and information on the years when we were in school.<br />

He achieved this despite the whole archive collection having<br />

moved location in the previous week.<br />

It was hard to tear people away after two and a half hours.<br />

Arthur invited everyone to return to the FSL Archive Room on<br />

any Thursday afternoon to peruse the archives at their leisure.<br />

The school looks amazing, both inside and out – a place to be<br />

proud of. Certainly it is a school to which we would want to<br />

send our grandchildren, if they lived in the area.<br />

In the evening we gathered again at Dunmurry Golf Club, where<br />

more former pupils and teachers joined us for drinks and dinner.<br />

The room buzzed with conversations and laughter. After an<br />

excellent dinner it was time for the more formal introductions –<br />

each person was given just a minute to update everyone on their<br />

last 40 years, or to remind us of some funny anecdotes from our<br />

school days.<br />

Although unfortunately, some were unable to attend, many<br />

pupils and teachers had made great efforts to come from distant<br />

places including Nicaragua, Illinois, Toronto, London, Devon,<br />

Oxford, Sussex, Glasgow, Manchester, Orkney, as well as from<br />

counties Antrim, Down, Armagh and Londonderry.<br />

Perhaps we won’t wait another 10 years before meeting again<br />

Bronwen Haire<br />

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REFLECTIONS<br />

Reflections on Friends’ <strong>School</strong>, <strong>Lisburn</strong> (FSL) &<br />

beyond<br />

My cousin Christopher Clarke, himself an old scholar from FSL,<br />

asked me if I’d write some thoughts and recollections from my<br />

years at FSL1957-1964 and beyond. This has not been a<br />

particularly easy task since it’s a very long time ago, the<br />

memory fades & quite honestly I’ve done little over the years to<br />

keep the memories alive or to stay in touch. I don’t ‘do’<br />

Facebook! Here goes, I promise I’ll keep it brief.<br />

It wasn’t easy for me starting off at FSL in the 2nd Form in a<br />

<strong>Lisburn</strong> school where I knew no one, having come from a small<br />

rural primary school where I knew everyone and was the<br />

proverbial big fish in a little pond. I made friends however and<br />

as the years passed I felt I was an integral part of FSL. Some<br />

memorable teachers along the way helped enormously, inspiring<br />

me to open my mind and horizons by instilling a love of foreign<br />

languages and other lands. Those who spring to mind are my<br />

first French teacher Miss Olive Tate who always entered her<br />

classroom muttering these words: avez-vous vos devoirs<br />

aujourd’hui, my second French teacher Miss Joan Gault who<br />

somehow brought glamor and excitement to the French<br />

language, Mr Noel Clarke, my German teacher who encouraged<br />

me to spend a term in a German high school living with a<br />

German family and Mr Hugh Gillespie my Geography teacher<br />

who inspired me to be curious about the big world beyond the<br />

borders of the UK.<br />

After Friends’ I attended Queen’s University graduating in<br />

French and German. Not long after graduation I married a<br />

Ghanaian doctor & lived in Ghana, West Africa for 3 years. My<br />

son Damian was born there. Eventually I ended up in California<br />

where my daughter Sonya was born. I subsequently married my<br />

second husband Daniel and have lived in Los Angeles since the<br />

early 1980s, longer than I lived in Northern Ireland. I’m happily<br />

retired now from my job in corporate America working on the<br />

fringes of the entertainment industry in Hollywood providing<br />

film/video/digital content to TV shows, movies, documentaries<br />

etc. Retirement is particularly satisfying since it allows me time<br />

to practice and teach yoga at my daughter’s yoga center, as well<br />

as to spend time with my new grand daughter Jasmine.<br />

I still have close family in Northern Ireland whom I visit once a<br />

year or so, along with some dear friends in France. California<br />

has been home for a long time and I wouldn’t trade it for<br />

anywhere else. However, I still seem to have retained a degree<br />

of an Ulster accent, because many Americans still hear it and<br />

comment on “how cute” it sounds! It’s a proud reminder to me<br />

of my Ulster roots.<br />

Joan Sargent (née Kirkpatrick)<br />

The Archive<br />

Room<br />

During the summer holidays the Archives moved to a new<br />

location - a fine, bright room on the former 'Blue Corridor'<br />

which has easy access for all visitors. Despite apprehension<br />

about the move the exercise was carried out superbly by the<br />

maintenance staff and nothing was damaged or lost during the<br />

transfer. Settling in to a new abode often takes some time but<br />

prompt and efficient help was given by Maxine Boyd and Jill<br />

Conn and at a later stage by Brown Shaw.<br />

Gifts of memorabilia are always welcome and it was good to<br />

receive from Frank Pettigrew a fine collection of photographs of<br />

school life in the 1950s - sports teams, drama productions,<br />

overseas trips, etc. - and also an old Old Scholars blazer.<br />

(Donations of <strong>School</strong> uniform would be welcome, as there is<br />

now more space for exhibits)<br />

Gwen McWilliams donated an Old Scholars Treasurer's book<br />

from the days when she and Gerald occupied that position and<br />

lists of members made interesting reading.<br />

The son of the late Dorothy Anderson (née Tyler) presented a<br />

series of group photographs from 1931 until 1936 and also a<br />

couple of albums in which she and her school friends feature.<br />

Visitors on Thursday afternoons are sparse but it was good to<br />

welcome one day the Rankin family, Hilary, David and Joyce.<br />

Hilary was specially interested to see the Trans-World <strong>School</strong>s<br />

Quiz trophy, as she was a member of the FSL team who shared<br />

it with a school in Australia.<br />

During their reunion tour of the <strong>School</strong> on 1 September<br />

members of the Class of 1972 spent much time poring over<br />

magazines, scrapbooks and photographs of their school years<br />

and recalling among other things pranks and escapades.<br />

Elizabeth Swindle (née Frame), who now lives in<br />

Northumberland, enquired about memoirs of school life in the<br />

1800s which her grandfather, Joseph Hobson, had written for<br />

Neville Newhouse to aid him in his compilation of the History<br />

of <strong>Friends'</strong> <strong>School</strong>. She was intrigued when she received a<br />

photocopy of the document, in her own handwriting, which she<br />

had done as a child to assist her aged grandfather.<br />

A special afternoon for Old Scholars is planned for 30<br />

November to have a look at some of the treasures in the<br />

collection. It is too late to advertise this event, but don't forget<br />

Thursday afternoons during term time or arrange a visit at<br />

another suitable time.<br />

Arthur Chapman<br />

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Past & Present 2012<br />

RECENT GRADUATES<br />

THE QUEEN’S UNIVERSITY BELFAST<br />

Barbra Fleming BSc (S) Accounting<br />

Christina McDonald BSc (S) Accounting<br />

Mark Williams BSc (S) Agricultural Tech<br />

Sarah Bell BSc (S) Land Use and Env Man<br />

Corinna Hoey BSc (S) Land Use and Env Man<br />

Elizabeth Magowan BSc (S) Biological Sciences<br />

Amy Traynor BSc (S) Biological Sciences<br />

Jonathan Maxwell BSc (S) Biomedical Science<br />

Ruth Farrell PGCE (T) Science<br />

Jonathan Agnew BA (S) English<br />

Rose Bradford BA (S) English<br />

Nikki Durrant BA (S) English<br />

Conor Auld BSc (S) Environmental Planning<br />

Hannah Jess BA (JD) French<br />

Claire Woods BA (JD) French<br />

James McCullough BA (MM) History<br />

Katherine Buchanan LLB (MM) Common & Civil Law<br />

Emma Cochrane LLB (S) Law<br />

Sarah Wilson LLB (S) Law<br />

Gerard Killough BEng (S) Product Design & Dev<br />

Louise Greer BSc (S) Business Management<br />

Caroline McArdle BSc (S) Business Management<br />

Andrew Carlisle MSci (UM) Applied Maths<br />

Richard Bailie BSc (S) Music Technology<br />

Samuel Colville BSc (O) Ordinary Degree<br />

Luke Eastwood Dip (PD) Prof Legal Std - Bar<br />

Stephanie Annett MPharm (UM) Pharmacy<br />

Alan McKee MPharm (UM) Pharmacy<br />

Judith Maze BSc (S) Psychology<br />

Lily Price BSc (S) Psychology<br />

Nichola Beggs BSW (S) Social Work<br />

Jonathan Davidson BTh (MM) Theology<br />

Christopher Weir BTh (S) Theology<br />

John Wilson BSc (S) Marine Biology<br />

Andrew Frazer PhD Biological Sciences<br />

Sarah Ann Macartney PGCE (T) English<br />

Amy Brackenridge PGCE (T) Modern Lang<br />

Shelley Edgar PGCE (T) Science<br />

Hazel Phillips PGCE (T) Science<br />

Louise Miskelly MB (S) Medicine<br />

Richard Morrison MB (S) Medicine<br />

Amy Wethers MB (S) Medicine<br />

Caroline McGuigan Dip (PD) Mental Health<br />

Deborah Smith Dip (PD) Mental Health<br />

Holly Lyons Dip (PD) Prof Legal Std – Sol<br />

UNIVERSITY OF ULSTER<br />

Graeme Alister BSc Hons Business with Marketing FT<br />

Ian Carlisle BA Hons International Politics FT<br />

Nathan Conn BSc Hons Marketing FT<br />

Cheryl Conway BSc Hons Human Nutrition FT<br />

Ian Harbinson BSc Hons Prop Invest & Dv DIS FT<br />

Louise Henry BSc Hons Business with Marketing FT<br />

Kathryn Holland MSci Prop Invest & Develop FT<br />

Friends’ <strong>School</strong> <strong>Lisburn</strong><br />

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RECENT GRADUATES<br />

Siobhan Hughes BA Hons English with Media Std FT<br />

Suzanne Jackson BSc Hons Busn with Spanish FT<br />

Louie Johnston BSc Hons Business FT<br />

Danielle McCullough BSc Hons Marketing FT<br />

Stuart McQueen MEng Civil Engineering FT<br />

Ian Murphy BA Hons Med Stds & Product FT<br />

Sarah Skelton BSc Hons Psychology FT<br />

Rachel Sloan BSc Hons Geography FT<br />

Philip Tran BSc Hons Comp Game Dev FT<br />

UNIVERSITY OF ABERDEEN<br />

Ashleigh Walker MA Language and Linguistics<br />

NEWCASTLE UNIVERSITY<br />

Roisin Duffy BSc Hons Speech and Language Sciences<br />

Alistair Kennedy BA Hons Marketing and Management<br />

Nicola McGarel MMath Hons Mathematics and Statistics<br />

UNIVERSITY OF SHEFFIELD<br />

Adam Tinson BSc Hons Politics and Economics<br />

UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE<br />

Victoria Jordan BSc Veterinary Science<br />

UNIVERSITY OF LIVERPOOL<br />

Rebecca Martin BSc Veterinary science<br />

HERIOT-WATT UNIVERSITY<br />

Peter Beatty BSc Real Estate Management<br />

Sarah Bingham BSc Actuarial Science<br />

Josh Cregan BSc Structural Engineering with<br />

Architectural Design<br />

MANCHESTER UNIVERSITY<br />

Rosalind Haire BSc Medicine<br />

UNIVERSITY PRIZEWINNERS<br />

Adam Tinson YouGov Prize Best Dissertation<br />

Victoria Jordan Pugh Memorial Prize Best Combined Performance<br />

Well done all our Graduates!<br />

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