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<strong>Mason</strong>ic Care Community<br />
kathy contino-turner,<br />
Director of Communications and Marketing<br />
<strong>Mason</strong>ic Care Commiunity<br />
continoturnerk@mccny.com<br />
Love at Wiley Hall<br />
Those of us who work at the <strong>Mason</strong>ic Care Community do<br />
a lot of talking about the benefits of living on this beautiful<br />
campus. Our residents enjoy activities and the friendship of<br />
their peers. We have many who live here alone after the death<br />
of a spouse. What you might not realize is that those who live<br />
here sometimes find love and companionship again. And that<br />
is what happened to Mary Robinson and William Abbe.<br />
Mary Robinson and her late husband Merle, a member of<br />
the Western Star Lodge in Attica, moved to the <strong>Mason</strong>ic Care<br />
Community from Batavia, NY. They made their home at<br />
Wiley Hall until Merle’s health necessitated his moving to the<br />
Master <strong>Mason</strong> Wing of the Health Pavilion. Merle passed in<br />
2012, leaving his wife of sixty-three years on her own.<br />
In 2002 Josephine Abbe, who was active in Eastern Star and<br />
lived with her husband William in Westmoreland, came to the<br />
Health Pavilion. William visited almost every day and in 2010<br />
lost his wife of sixty-nine years. William, who is a Past Master<br />
of the Clinton-Westmoreland Lodge 347 and an Eastern<br />
Star Patron, decided to come to Wiley Hall in November of<br />
2013. A <strong>Mason</strong> for seventy years, William was looking for<br />
companionship and found Mary.<br />
Mary says it all started when Bill was seated at her table in<br />
the Wiley Dining Room. She says he was a bit of a flirt. Then<br />
she noticed that when they went on bus trips Bill would save<br />
her a seat on the bus. Finally. in February of 2013, Bill invited<br />
Mary to join him at his birthday party, where she would meet<br />
a majority of his family. He finally asked her to marry him this<br />
past summer and Mary said yes. On October 4 the 97-yearold<br />
William and the 86-year-old Mary were married in the<br />
Daniel D. Tompkins Memorial Chapel.<br />
The bride was walked down the aisle by her son Frank<br />
and her daughter Sandra Norton, who also served as Mary’s<br />
Matron of Honor. The groom’s best man was his son Edwin<br />
Abbe. Mary has three children, seven grandchildren and four<br />
great-grandchildren. Two of her granddaughters sang “The<br />
Wedding Song.” William has four children, six grandchildren<br />
and eight great-grandchildren. Both families were excited<br />
about the union.<br />
In addition to their blood relatives, the couple invited<br />
all their other “family” to the nuptials—their Wiley Hall<br />
neighbors. Our Wiley Hall receptionist Cheryl Welch, who<br />
has a lovely voice, sang “I Love You Truly,” accompanied by<br />
our own Carleton Boone. A wedding reception was held in the<br />
Wiley Hall Dining Room that afternoon.<br />
The wedding was a family affair: Mary’s family, William’s<br />
family and their family of friends from Wiley Hall and the<br />
<strong>Mason</strong>ic Care Community. Mr. and Mrs. William and Mary<br />
Abbe found companionship and love at Wiley Hall. They look<br />
forward to many happy times ahead. We wish them all the<br />
best. s<br />
THE EMPIRE STATE MASON MAGAZINE WINTER <strong>2014</strong> 19