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VOLUME THIRTEEN<br />

NUMBER TWO<br />

SPRING 2006<br />

Women’s <strong>Economic</strong><br />

<strong>Empowerment</strong> <strong>Crucial</strong><br />

<strong>to</strong> <strong>Rebuilding</strong> <strong>Lives</strong><br />

Women for Women International provides micro-loans<br />

and skills training <strong>to</strong> help women earn an income.<br />

The economic impact of war has devastating<br />

consequences, particularly on women because they<br />

traditionally are the caregivers for their families. Women<br />

provide 70 percent of the unpaid time spent in caring for<br />

family members. This unpaid work is estimated <strong>to</strong> be worth<br />

$11 trillion per year, the equivalent of one-third of the<br />

aggregate global gross domestic product.<br />

Yet women’s needs are the last <strong>to</strong> be supported. In postconflict<br />

societies, farms, roads, s<strong>to</strong>res and basic infrastructure<br />

are often decimated. Food is in short supply. The prices<br />

spike for basic goods like water, soap and clothes. The least<br />

able <strong>to</strong> pay become most vulnerable <strong>to</strong> malnutrition and famine.<br />

Maternal and child mortality rates rise dramatically after<br />

war; the rates in Afghanistan and the Democratic Republic of<br />

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Inside...<br />

“Peace Baskets”<br />

Filled with Hope .................... 3<br />

Creating Peace<br />

Through <strong>Economic</strong><br />

Opportunity in Kosovo .......... 4<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s S<strong>to</strong>ry:<br />

Bringing Beauty Back<br />

<strong>to</strong> Afghanistan....................... 5<br />

One Sponsor’s S<strong>to</strong>ry ............ 6<br />

Women Who Make<br />

a Difference: Volunteer<br />

Regina Hablutzel .................. 7<br />

Mother’s Day Giving ............ 8<br />

Letter from Zainab Salbi<br />

<strong>Skills</strong>, not charity, rebuilds lives<br />

Zeynapa caught my attention<br />

the minute I entered the packed<br />

room in one of Women for Women<br />

International’s women’s centers in<br />

Bosnia and Herzegovina. She was<br />

polite, wore a white shirt, but<strong>to</strong>ned<br />

up all the way until the very last<br />

but<strong>to</strong>n, her hair was pulled in a<br />

pony tail and her face tried <strong>to</strong> hide a<br />

s<strong>to</strong>ry, a secret, a pain she did not<br />

care <strong>to</strong> reveal. As she raised her<br />

hand, her face expressed much<br />

more than the curiosity of a simple<br />

question. Zeynapa was eager <strong>to</strong><br />

join our program and was trying <strong>to</strong><br />

get all the details <strong>to</strong> understand how<br />

the program worked and how she<br />

could participate.<br />

It was 1998 when I first met<br />

Zeynapa and I have never forgotten<br />

her. Something about her—her<br />

demeanor, her anguish and her<br />

eagerness <strong>to</strong> join the program with a<br />

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Letter from Zainab Salbi<br />

(continued from page 1)<br />

sense of urgency—left me curious<br />

about her. It wasn’t until years later<br />

when I visited Zeynapa at her home<br />

that I heard her s<strong>to</strong>ry.<br />

Zeynapa is a survivor of the<br />

Srebrenica massacre in 1995. Her<br />

husband was in a concentration camp<br />

for two years. By the time he was<br />

released, he was severely handicapped<br />

from the beating and <strong>to</strong>rture<br />

he endured. The war left Zeynapa<br />

vulnerable. She lost her home, her<br />

stability and the health of her husband.<br />

Zeynapa <strong>to</strong>ld me about her<br />

teenage son and young daughter. She<br />

<strong>to</strong>ld me that she was an internally<br />

displaced person when we first met<br />

years earlier at the women’s center. “I<br />

was so eager <strong>to</strong> join Women for<br />

Women International when I first<br />

learned about the organization. I had<br />

nothing at the time. My family was<br />

sleeping on cardboard. But what<br />

worried me the most was my son. I<br />

did not want <strong>to</strong> fail him as a mother. I<br />

wanted <strong>to</strong> make sure that I provided<br />

him with a decent life. I was so afraid<br />

that he would be tempted <strong>to</strong> steal if I<br />

couldn’t give him the very basics.<br />

That was my nightmare. I didn’t want<br />

my son <strong>to</strong> be a thief. I wanted <strong>to</strong> be a<br />

good mother and <strong>to</strong> provide for my<br />

children a decent life.” With tears in<br />

her eyes, Zeynapa looked at me and<br />

2<br />

Published by Women for Women International, a 501(c)3<br />

not-for-profit organization, founded in 1993 <strong>to</strong> help<br />

women overcome the horrors of war and civil strife.<br />

1850 M Street, NW, Suite 1090, Washing<strong>to</strong>n, D.C. 20036<br />

202 / 737-7705 phone • 202 / 737-7709 fax<br />

Email • general@womenforwomen.org<br />

Website • www.womenforwomen.org<br />

Copyright © 2005 Women for Women International. It is<br />

prohibited under federal law <strong>to</strong> make copies of this<br />

newsletter without the express permission of Women<br />

for Women International.<br />

Printed on recycled paper<br />

said, “Everything is okay now. Everything<br />

is okay.”<br />

After graduating from Women for<br />

Women International’s sponsorship<br />

program, she secured a loan through<br />

our microcredit program. Zeynapa<br />

bought a cow with the first loan, then<br />

a second and a third, and when she<br />

had seven cows, she was able <strong>to</strong> sell<br />

them and buy a small home. She now<br />

runs a family business with her<br />

husband, who has<br />

since recovered<br />

from his injuries.<br />

She has been<br />

working with<br />

cows, sheep and<br />

chickens.<br />

Zeynapa<br />

taught me that we<br />

can talk about aid,<br />

charity and<br />

assistance as<br />

much as we want, but at the end of<br />

the day, women want the dignity <strong>to</strong><br />

provide for themselves, <strong>to</strong> stand on<br />

their feet and <strong>to</strong> be good mothers that<br />

can provide a decent living for their<br />

children. I learned that our work is<br />

never complete if it does not include<br />

tangible opportunities <strong>to</strong> provide jobs<br />

for the women we work with. This is<br />

why business training and vocational<br />

skills training is seen as a crucial part<br />

of our work for the women we serve.<br />

The training is a major part of the oneyear<br />

program provided <strong>to</strong> each<br />

For someone who<br />

had lost loved ones, a<br />

home and a support<br />

network during war, a<br />

drop of hope of a<br />

better future means the<br />

whole world <strong>to</strong> them.<br />

OFFICERS<br />

Chair • Mary Menell Zients<br />

Treasurer • Emma Rahman<br />

President and CEO • Zainab Salbi<br />

DIRECTORS<br />

Amjad Atallah<br />

Jan Brandt<br />

Sharon Cohen<br />

Eva Haller<br />

Lekha Singh<br />

Susan E. Vitka<br />

Anne B. Zill<br />

Chief Operating Officer<br />

Karen Sherman<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Institutional<br />

Advancement<br />

Rebecca Milner<br />

Deputy Direc<strong>to</strong>r<br />

of Communications<br />

Sumana Chatterjee<br />

sponsored woman. We are also<br />

constantly exploring opportunities<br />

that can create more jobs and more<br />

income for the women we serve. For<br />

some, that means access <strong>to</strong> a<br />

microcredit loan <strong>to</strong> start a small<br />

business, for others it means being<br />

able <strong>to</strong> sell their products in a<br />

cooperative organized by the organization.<br />

Some women are saving their<br />

sponsorship funds and starting small<br />

businesses with<br />

other women in<br />

the program, be it<br />

farming on leased<br />

land in Rwanda,<br />

making aprons in<br />

Nigeria and<br />

selling them<br />

through our<br />

Virtual Bazaar or<br />

starting a flowerplanting<br />

business<br />

in Kosovo.<br />

For someone who has lost loved<br />

ones, a home and a support network<br />

during war, a drop of hope for a better<br />

future means the whole world <strong>to</strong><br />

them. This is why Women for<br />

Women International believes that we<br />

must deliver on every word we<br />

promise <strong>to</strong> help move women from<br />

victims, <strong>to</strong> survivors, <strong>to</strong> active citizens.<br />

Anything less is cruel and<br />

unfair. It is necessary <strong>to</strong> address<br />

women’s economic needs in order for<br />

women <strong>to</strong> make this transition. This<br />

transition is not only for<br />

the welfare of the woman<br />

and her family, but for<br />

the ability <strong>to</strong> stabilize<br />

communities and<br />

countries, economically<br />

politically and socially.<br />

This is why we integrate<br />

rights awareness<br />

trainings with the vocational<br />

and business<br />

trainings. When women<br />

gain economic independence<br />

and access <strong>to</strong><br />

resources, it is also<br />

crucially important <strong>to</strong><br />

increase their negotiating<br />

power within the household<br />

and let them know<br />

that they have the right<br />

<strong>to</strong> make decisions that


impact their families.<br />

I am often asked why Afghan<br />

women still wear their burqas. So,<br />

every time I am in Afghanistan, I<br />

ask women that question. And<br />

each time I get the same<br />

answer: “We need jobs first. We<br />

need jobs <strong>to</strong> be able <strong>to</strong> change our<br />

social reality. We need jobs <strong>to</strong> feed<br />

our kids, <strong>to</strong> send them <strong>to</strong> school<br />

and maybe <strong>to</strong> buy a decent dress<br />

so we don’t have <strong>to</strong> wear our<br />

burqas.” I find it a humbling reminder<br />

that while the focus is so<br />

often on the exterior of what people<br />

wear, the reality is that their focus<br />

is on the interior of what they need<br />

<strong>to</strong> eat and where they can sleep so<br />

they may one day think about<br />

clothing and how they dress. The<br />

ability <strong>to</strong> buy a new dress, lipstick,<br />

a nice meal or a movie is a privilege<br />

that many of us often take for<br />

granted. It is a privilege that many<br />

of the women we serve don’t have.<br />

We can’t talk about women’s<br />

liberation without talking about their<br />

economic realities. We can’t talk<br />

about women leading nationbuilding<br />

if we give women only<br />

charity and don’t include them in<br />

microeconomic policies, as well as<br />

the macro discussion of women in<br />

the economy. The nation needs <strong>to</strong><br />

see the importance of women in the<br />

economy and women need <strong>to</strong> see<br />

the importance of the economy in<br />

their lives.<br />

We have seen time and again<br />

that once women believe in their<br />

own agency, they see the value of<br />

their roles in the household and in<br />

the community. We have found in<br />

our work that women’s realization<br />

and appreciation of their social and<br />

political roles is a critical step in<br />

their economic empowerment. As<br />

their awareness crystallizes, they<br />

become the active agents in leading<br />

changes, confronting barriers and<br />

negotiating their rights in their<br />

communities. At Women for<br />

Women International, we must<br />

ensure that we create tangible<br />

economic opportunities for women<br />

so that they become the driving<br />

forces <strong>to</strong> break down social and<br />

economic barriers. •<br />

R<br />

To build<br />

peace and<br />

earn money,<br />

Hutu and<br />

Tusti women<br />

weave<br />

traditional<br />

baskets at<br />

Women for<br />

Women<br />

International’s<br />

Rwanda<br />

Chapter<br />

office.<br />

“Peace Baskets” Filled with Hope<br />

wandan women are returning <strong>to</strong> a traditional handicraft dating back<br />

a thousand years as they reclaim and rebuild their lives 12 years after<br />

the Rwandan genocide. Side by side, these women are making traditional<br />

vessels known as “peace baskets” that are woven from sisal fibers using<br />

age-old techniques and designs. Cus<strong>to</strong>marily, women design the baskets <strong>to</strong><br />

celebrate communal harmony or tell s<strong>to</strong>ries of celebration, such as weddings<br />

or births. The baskets serve many functions in Rwandese culture, including<br />

being presented as wedding gifts <strong>to</strong> a bride and groom.<br />

Today, these peace baskets provide a source of income for hundreds of<br />

women across Rwanda and have become symbols of reconciliation.The<br />

baskets are Rwandan women’s way of recovering from the three-month<br />

genocide that devastated the country in<br />

1994 and left 800,000 people dead and<br />

about 2 million or more displaced from<br />

The peace basket<br />

their homes. Estimates indicate that cooperative has fostered<br />

reconciliation—<br />

between 250,000 and 500,000 rapes<br />

were committed during that time. By something unheard of<br />

the end of the war, women made up a dozen years ago.<br />

nearly 70 percent of the population.<br />

Many of them were alone for the first<br />

time and faced the daunting task of rebuilding their country.<br />

The peace baskets project started when a group of women, reportedly<br />

composed of formerly warring factions of Hutus and Tutsis, formed a<br />

cooperative <strong>to</strong> make and sell traditional Rwandan baskets. Although<br />

originally meant <strong>to</strong> be sold locally, the baskets quickly became popular in<br />

international markets.<br />

Women for Women International has adopted this traditional skill in<strong>to</strong> its<br />

vocational training program <strong>to</strong> help women earn an income. Many women<br />

use their new skills <strong>to</strong> join cooperatives. One such woman, Violette<br />

Mutegwamaso, joined a cooperative that earns an average of 50,000<br />

Rwandan francs each month, or about US$100, from the sale of baskets and<br />

other artisan crafts.<br />

Violette is thrilled with having money in her pocket. More importantly<br />

though, she is moved that the cooperative brings <strong>to</strong>gether all members of the<br />

village, including those victimized by the genocide and others who have<br />

confessed <strong>to</strong> genocide crimes or have family members in prison. The peace<br />

basket cooperative has fostered reconciliation—something unheard of a<br />

dozen years ago.<br />

Working <strong>to</strong>gether <strong>to</strong> make the peace baskets, Violette said, has made<br />

her and her fellow cooperative members think about Rwandan unity. “This<br />

would never have been considered before,” she said. •<br />

3


Creating Peace<br />

Through <strong>Economic</strong><br />

Opportunity in Kosovo<br />

BY HAMIDE LATIFI, DIRECTOR OR OF WOMEN FOR WOMEN<br />

INTERNATIONAL<br />

TIONAL - KOSOVO<br />

Even before the world became<br />

aware of the ethnic cleansing taking<br />

place in Kosovo in the 1990s, I<br />

witnessed a nation vanishing before<br />

my very eyes.<br />

I was a journalist back then, and<br />

I saw things that still haunt me. I<br />

investigated forced hysterec<strong>to</strong>mies, a<br />

policy used <strong>to</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p women from<br />

having children, and I talked <strong>to</strong> the<br />

women who survived it. I saw lives<br />

shattered and bodies misshapen by<br />

<strong>to</strong>rture. I saw village after village<br />

burned <strong>to</strong> the ground, homes in<br />

flames, animals burning alive. I met<br />

women raped and abused by soldiers.<br />

I saw children learning in fields<br />

because schools were closed <strong>to</strong><br />

Albanians. I saw women giving birth<br />

in open fields because hospitals<br />

were closed.<br />

Being a woman is hard, especially<br />

in war, when women are still<br />

expected <strong>to</strong> carry on their duties as if<br />

nothing has changed. A woman still<br />

must feed her<br />

children<br />

breakfast,<br />

lunch and<br />

dinner. But<br />

how She is<br />

expected <strong>to</strong><br />

wash the<br />

clothes. But<br />

how A woman<br />

is expected <strong>to</strong><br />

keep the<br />

sanctity of her<br />

body and<br />

protect the<br />

Kosovo Country<br />

honor of her<br />

Direc<strong>to</strong>r Hamide Latifi<br />

family and<br />

reviews letters and<br />

community. forms with Nazmije.<br />

But how can<br />

she when drunk and crazy soldiers<br />

attack whichever woman is in front of<br />

them<br />

I was forced <strong>to</strong> flee Kosovo with<br />

4<br />

my family, but I promised myself that<br />

I would return. It is my home. I<br />

survived the war <strong>to</strong> tell how the lives<br />

of Kosovar women, and my life, have<br />

profoundly changed.<br />

I am lucky that I discovered an<br />

organization, Women for Women<br />

International, that would allow me <strong>to</strong><br />

work with and help my fellow<br />

Kosovars rebuild from the chaos of<br />

war. Since our chapter office opened,<br />

I am proud <strong>to</strong> report that we have<br />

helped approximately 10,000 survivors<br />

of war.<br />

Although suffering from deep<br />

poverty and social exclusion,<br />

Kosovar women, especially those<br />

from rural areas, have taken the<br />

unique opportunity we offer <strong>to</strong><br />

improve their lives. We work <strong>to</strong>gether<br />

<strong>to</strong> create income-generating<br />

opportunities and become active<br />

citizens in our communities. Our<br />

experience shows that, with small<br />

investments, every women can take<br />

control of her economic life.<br />

For example, we started<br />

women’s cooperative s<strong>to</strong>res in<br />

2000. The s<strong>to</strong>res have become a<br />

gateway for rural women <strong>to</strong> access<br />

economic opportunities they would<br />

not otherwise have. Sometimes,<br />

participating in the s<strong>to</strong>res is a rural<br />

woman’s first taste of city life. Many<br />

women see this as their only way <strong>to</strong><br />

earn income in an economy where<br />

jobs are limited.<br />

I am very proud of our handicrafts,<br />

looms, greenhouses and<br />

beekeeping projects. Our flower<br />

cultivation project has blossomed<br />

for two years in Drenica, a region<br />

devastated by war. We now even<br />

export flowers from Kosovo <strong>to</strong><br />

Albania, something that was<br />

unthinkable only five years ago. Our<br />

honey production is booming as we<br />

recently won a “Golden Bee”<br />

certificate, issued after the National<br />

Speaking Woman <strong>to</strong> Woman: Nazmije’s S<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

Recently, I met Nazmije from the village of Cika<strong>to</strong>ve. In a room lit by a single<br />

candle. I saw her eyes, so shiny and full of life. I heard a voice that was proud<br />

and a s<strong>to</strong>ry that was sad. As we spoke in<strong>to</strong> the cold night, I could feel in my<br />

heart that, yes, she is like me and I am like her. We<br />

spoke woman <strong>to</strong> woman. She <strong>to</strong>ld me her s<strong>to</strong>ry:<br />

When I started the program, I was 41 years old<br />

and I thought <strong>to</strong> myself that I am out of life. War has left<br />

alot of pain in me. Running and hiding from place <strong>to</strong><br />

place inside my own country was such horror. When I<br />

returned with my five children <strong>to</strong> my village after the war<br />

ended, I came back <strong>to</strong> nothing. I was heartbroken.<br />

Homeless, jobless and sick, we still had <strong>to</strong> start a life.<br />

I <strong>to</strong>ok so many medicines <strong>to</strong> recover but found no relief<br />

from my pains. The best medicine for me was Women for<br />

Women International’s program. The classes woke me<br />

up. I could not believe that one day I will be able <strong>to</strong> earn<br />

money myself and I will be able <strong>to</strong> support my family.<br />

The letters I received from my sponsor Shani,<br />

warmed my heart. I thought how a woman from far way<br />

who has never seen or met me has put her faith in me<br />

and made a commitment <strong>to</strong> change my life. If she was so<br />

committed <strong>to</strong> help me improve my life, why should I not do it for myself<br />

Each time I received a letter I read it many times, over and over again,<br />

especially when I felt low or had doubts about my future. I promised myself that I<br />

will not betray my sponsor but I will do everything I could so her investment in me<br />

is worthy and not lost. Now I see there is no way back <strong>to</strong> a life half asleep.<br />

Now I have joined a group of women in my village <strong>to</strong> work on looms. The loom<br />

work has become part of my life. Because we don’t have another space, I put the<br />

loom in the same room where my husband, five children and I sleep. I work there<br />

when I finish cleaning and cooking. The loom sounds <strong>to</strong> me like music, and it<br />

makes me feel good and calm. •


Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s S<strong>to</strong>ry: Bringing<br />

Beauty Back <strong>to</strong> Afghanistan<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on grew<br />

up dreaming of one<br />

day owning her own<br />

beauty parlor business.<br />

The Kla Klan<br />

resident unders<strong>to</strong>od<br />

that running her own<br />

business could<br />

provide a steady<br />

income that would<br />

protect her and her<br />

family from the<br />

devastation of poverty<br />

and unemployment.<br />

She dreamed of<br />

achieving self-reliance and devoting<br />

herself <strong>to</strong> work she enjoyed and was<br />

good at.<br />

War shattered Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s<br />

dreams. When the Russians invaded<br />

Afghanistan in 1978, Pash<strong>to</strong>on<br />

realized the fight for survival for<br />

herself and her family would replace<br />

her dreams of independence and<br />

<strong>Economic</strong> Opportunity<br />

in Kosovo<br />

Public Health Institute certified our<br />

honey <strong>to</strong> be of the highest quality.<br />

Kosovar women are also<br />

pushing for non-traditional jobs. We<br />

train women <strong>to</strong> become electricians<br />

<strong>to</strong> repair home equipment and<br />

technicians <strong>to</strong> repair sewing machines.<br />

Some of our women train as<br />

carpenters. It is still a challenge <strong>to</strong><br />

find employment for these women,<br />

but as long as there is a need for<br />

the skills, we see no need <strong>to</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p<br />

our training.<br />

We are committed <strong>to</strong> investing<br />

in women because we believe this<br />

will lead <strong>to</strong> a better and fairer world.<br />

Step by step, war survivors are<br />

reshaping their lives. They are<br />

gaining confidence. They are<br />

improving their skills. They are<br />

earning a living. As the women<br />

realize their potential, their voices<br />

will be heard and respected. •<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s dream is <strong>to</strong> have her own<br />

beauty parlor business.<br />

economic stability.<br />

Soldiers occupied<br />

her village and<br />

forced Pash<strong>to</strong>on and<br />

her family out of<br />

their home. They<br />

sought refuge in<br />

Afsar where life<br />

became increasingly<br />

painful. Her husband<br />

was killed in a rocket<br />

attack in 1992,<br />

leaving her the sole<br />

breadwinner for her<br />

two sons and two<br />

daughters. Pash<strong>to</strong>on also mourned the<br />

loss of three close relatives. She<br />

became the only woman left in her<br />

family <strong>to</strong> raise her motherless grandson,<br />

whose parents had died during<br />

fighting in the<br />

area. Her world<br />

was slowly<br />

unraveling.<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on had<br />

little time <strong>to</strong> grieve<br />

the tragedy of her<br />

life. She knew she<br />

could not s<strong>to</strong>p<br />

fighting for her<br />

family. Her two<br />

sons had fortunately<br />

survived<br />

and found work.<br />

But the money<br />

they made was<br />

not enough <strong>to</strong><br />

support the entire<br />

family. Every day,<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on and her<br />

children struggled<br />

simply <strong>to</strong> feed<br />

themselves.<br />

In December<br />

2004, Pash<strong>to</strong>on<br />

learned that Women for Women<br />

International was giving aid and<br />

support <strong>to</strong> socially excluded women<br />

living in and around Kabul. Pash<strong>to</strong>on<br />

soon discovered that the Afghanistan<br />

Chapter offered beauty parlor training.<br />

She was elated. She hoped that<br />

learning these skills would bring<br />

Beauty Parlor<br />

Training: More Than<br />

Just a Makeover<br />

Beauty Parlor Training is a favorite<br />

among participants at Women for<br />

Women International’s<br />

Afghanistan Chapter. In the past,<br />

working in a beauty parlor was<br />

considered socially unacceptable.<br />

But 180 women have broken<br />

cultural barriers <strong>to</strong> participate in<br />

this program in Kabul, Parwan<br />

and Kapisa provinces. With these<br />

new vocational skills, the<br />

participants will be able <strong>to</strong> work<br />

interesting and steady jobs while<br />

generating income <strong>to</strong> improve the<br />

lives of their families and the<br />

stability of their communities.<br />

employment and end all the years of<br />

impossible struggle. Her family<br />

would have food; her grandson, a<br />

child born during horrifying destruction,<br />

would have a future.<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s new-found joy and<br />

enthusiasm is apparent <strong>to</strong> anyone<br />

who sees her working with other<br />

women in the program. In joking<br />

with her friends, she laughs and<br />

says, “You are so young. Oh don’t<br />

think that I seem old and have no<br />

interest in beauty parlor! See I do!<br />

And you will soon see me with my<br />

own shop. This is my hope and<br />

pride.”<br />

Having survived the war,<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on’s dream meant more <strong>to</strong><br />

her than before. Now, after years of<br />

carrying the weight of war and the<br />

exhaustion of being the sole<br />

provider for those she loved, she<br />

could dream of moving beyond<br />

survival <strong>to</strong> self-sufficiency. Hope for<br />

survival had kept her going, but<br />

hope for a<br />

vibrant future<br />

was something<br />

she had nearly<br />

forgotten. For<br />

the first time in<br />

a long time, she<br />

renewed her<br />

ambition and<br />

the passion of<br />

her past. Her<br />

dream was alive<br />

again.<br />

Pash<strong>to</strong>on<br />

has changed<br />

dramatically<br />

since joining<br />

Women for<br />

Women<br />

International<br />

and participating<br />

in rights<br />

awareness and<br />

job skills<br />

training. She is<br />

now aware of the strength and power<br />

behind her own choices.<br />

“Now, I know that women can<br />

learn about their rights which have<br />

been ignored by society. These<br />

rights can get women out of calamity.<br />

This makes me so hopeful for<br />

my future.” •<br />

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One Sponsor’s S<strong>to</strong>ry<br />

Daughter Celebrates<br />

Mother’s Love, Gains Sister<br />

Just as we ask the women in our<br />

program <strong>to</strong> tell us how Women<br />

for Women International has<br />

affected their lives, we ask our<br />

sponsors <strong>to</strong> share their s<strong>to</strong>ries,<br />

as well. Here is a letter from one<br />

our sponsors, Tracey Manne:<br />

I lost my mom in 2004. She was<br />

my best friend and her death<br />

devastated me more that I could<br />

ever put in<strong>to</strong> words. My mother<br />

believed in the power of women and<br />

always felt that if the treatment of<br />

women around the world was ever<br />

going <strong>to</strong> change, that change would<br />

have <strong>to</strong> be made by women. Her<br />

life’s message <strong>to</strong> me was that I was<br />

a beautiful, strong woman, that I<br />

could achieve my dreams and, most<br />

importantly, that I was loved.<br />

When I heard about the women<br />

in the Democratic Republic of the<br />

Congo and other<br />

countries on The<br />

Oprah Winfrey<br />

Show, I knew that I<br />

had <strong>to</strong> share my<br />

mother’s message<br />

with other women.<br />

I became a<br />

sponsor through<br />

Women for<br />

Women<br />

International and<br />

the journey<br />

began. I was<br />

introduced <strong>to</strong> my<br />

new sister<br />

through a letter<br />

and pho<strong>to</strong>. Her<br />

6<br />

I will start a new<br />

journey with a new<br />

sister and I can only<br />

hope that I can give her<br />

a fraction of what<br />

Anvarite has given me.<br />

name, Anvarite Shabuli, is<br />

forever etched in my<br />

memory. I sat down <strong>to</strong> write<br />

Anvarite a letter and my life<br />

changed.<br />

I thought it was going <strong>to</strong><br />

be me who did the giving,<br />

but I was the one who truly<br />

received the gift. I <strong>to</strong>ld<br />

Anvarite how beautiful she<br />

is and what a strong woman<br />

she must be <strong>to</strong> be raising so<br />

many children. I <strong>to</strong>ld her that<br />

she is my sister and that<br />

there is a woman on the<br />

other side of the world who<br />

loves and believes in her. As<br />

I shared these words with<br />

Anvarite, I realized for the<br />

first time that my mom was still with<br />

me. It was the beginning of healing.<br />

Then, in my mail a few months<br />

My mother, Juanita Babineau, holds Benjamin, my youngest child, while my<br />

husband Neil, our daughter Talia and I smile for the camera.<br />

later, there was a package from<br />

Women for Women International. In<br />

it was a letter from my sister,<br />

Anvarite, her words, written in her<br />

own handwriting. I read it and<br />

began <strong>to</strong> cry. There was hope, love<br />

and strength in her words. I was<br />

<strong>to</strong>uching the paper that she<br />

<strong>to</strong>uched. Geography seemed<br />

nonexistent. A<br />

There was connection<br />

hope, love and was made <strong>to</strong><br />

her in that<br />

strength in her<br />

moment that<br />

words. I was will remain with<br />

<strong>to</strong>uching the me always.<br />

paper that she<br />

Now, when<br />

life presents a<br />

<strong>to</strong>uched.<br />

challenge or<br />

Geography obstacle that<br />

seemed<br />

seems<br />

nonexistent. A insurmountable,<br />

or when<br />

connection<br />

sadness<br />

was made <strong>to</strong><br />

begins <strong>to</strong> fill<br />

her in that my heart, I<br />

moment that close my eyes<br />

will remain and say her<br />

name over and<br />

with me<br />

over. Anvarite<br />

always.<br />

Shabuli,<br />

Anvarite<br />

Shabuli,<br />

Anvarite Shabuli. She gives me<br />

strength. Her love is power. She is<br />

my sister.<br />

I will miss her letters<br />

when our year <strong>to</strong>gether has<br />

been completed, but I<br />

know that she is beginning<br />

a new journey full of hope<br />

and promise thanks <strong>to</strong><br />

Women for Women<br />

International. With or<br />

without letters, she will be<br />

with me forever. I will start<br />

a new journey with a new<br />

sister and I can only hope<br />

that I can give her a<br />

fraction of what Anvarite<br />

has given me.<br />

Today is my mom’s<br />

birthday. I began the day<br />

expecting <strong>to</strong> be filled with<br />

sadness at the thought of<br />

not being able <strong>to</strong> celebrate with<br />

her. In sharing my s<strong>to</strong>ry, I now feel<br />

that I have celebrated with her. I<br />

am filled with joy knowing that<br />

others now know about her dream<br />

of a world of women united and<br />

what a beautiful, strong and loved<br />

women she was. The gift<br />

continues.•


<strong>Economic</strong> <strong>Empowerment</strong><br />

(continued from page 1)<br />

the Congo currently are among the highest<br />

in the world.<br />

Women’s needs are often met last<br />

during war and conflict. Women and girls<br />

face serious health consequences, such as<br />

vitamin and iron deficiencies. Women of<br />

child-bearing age face reproductive health<br />

complications when there are not enough<br />

doc<strong>to</strong>rs or hospitals available.<br />

Many women, especially at the<br />

grassroots level, rely on the informal<br />

economy <strong>to</strong> sell their goods or services.<br />

According <strong>to</strong> the 2005 Millennium Development<br />

Goals Report released by the United<br />

Nations, women are 22 percent less likely<br />

than men <strong>to</strong> hold paid and regular jobs and<br />

more often work in the informal economy,<br />

which provides little financial security and<br />

no social benefits. Worldwide, 62 percent of<br />

people working in family enterprises are<br />

women. “This work is also unpaid, often<br />

little valued and not reflected in national<br />

production statistics,” the report states.<br />

More than 50 percent of the participants<br />

in the Women for Women International<br />

programs report they have no source<br />

of income. A lucky few report they are<br />

marginally involved in small trading activities<br />

but they do not provide enough money<br />

<strong>to</strong> meet their daily needs.<br />

Once war breaks out, manning a cart in<br />

the open-air market becomes <strong>to</strong>o dangerous.<br />

The increased military activity wipes<br />

out the marketplace. While some women<br />

may have had marketable skills in a prewar<br />

economy, post-conflict societies may<br />

not have viable economic options for<br />

women. If a woman was a baker before the<br />

war, but now her home and village have<br />

been razed, how does she earn a living <strong>to</strong><br />

support her family<br />

Training women is integral <strong>to</strong> post-war<br />

reconstruction. Yet, when women enter the<br />

Women for Women International program,<br />

88 percent of them say that they have not<br />

had prior access <strong>to</strong> any type of job skills<br />

training.<br />

To help women gain skills and work<br />

<strong>to</strong>ward financial independence, Women for<br />

Women International offers training <strong>to</strong><br />

strengthen women’s existing skills and <strong>to</strong><br />

introduce new skills. We want women <strong>to</strong> be<br />

able <strong>to</strong> get jobs, earn a living and support<br />

their families in the traumatic aftermath and<br />

economic devastation of war. •<br />

Women Who Make a<br />

Difference: Volunteer<br />

Regina Hablutzel<br />

Outreach interviewed long-time supporter and volunteer<br />

with Women for Women International, Regina Hablutzel:<br />

Q How and when did you start volunteering with Women for<br />

Women International<br />

A I have been involved with Women for Women International since<br />

its first year, 1993, when Zainab Salbi founded the organization<br />

after learning about the rape camps in Bosnia and Herzegovina<br />

during the war. I was outraged by the suffering and crimes<br />

committed against the women. They were losing their lives<br />

along with their husbands, brothers, daughters and sons but<br />

also suffering in rape camps! I especially wanted <strong>to</strong> do<br />

something about this because crimes against women in general<br />

and during war in particular are often ignored and swept under<br />

the rug by the international community.<br />

Q How was your experience in the first years of Women for<br />

Women International as a volunteer<br />

A In the first years, we used <strong>to</strong> do the mailings during the<br />

weekends in one of the volunteer’s houses on Saturday<br />

afternoons and some Sunday mornings. We would order pizza<br />

or someone would cook, and we would sit on the floor<br />

addressing letters and preparing packages <strong>to</strong> be sent <strong>to</strong> Croatia<br />

and Bosnia. We worked side by side like a family with a unified<br />

vision and mission.<br />

Q How has Women for Women International<br />

changed over the years<br />

A It has grown tremendously! At the beginning, it was simply a<br />

sponsorship program as we did not have the funds <strong>to</strong> provide<br />

other services <strong>to</strong> the women. Now, with the human rights<br />

education component as well as the vocational skills training<br />

program, this program has grown and now enables women <strong>to</strong> be<br />

self-sufficient and <strong>to</strong> stand on their own two feet.<br />

Q What has made the most impact on your life as a<br />

volunteer with Women for Women International<br />

A Personally, it has been a very enriching experience knowing<br />

Zainab, who is like a daughter <strong>to</strong> me. I have developed<br />

wonderful friendships with very good people through this<br />

organization. I have also learned incredible things about our<br />

sponsors and our participants.<br />

The generosity, spirituality and<br />

gratefulness that our sponsors<br />

show through their letters are<br />

immense. It is amazing <strong>to</strong> see the<br />

ways that the participants cope<br />

with tremendous suffering and the<br />

strength and faith they have.<br />

I have noticed how all of us<br />

women throughout the world have<br />

the same concerns—our families<br />

and our children! We are really all<br />

the same, all human. •<br />

Women for Women<br />

International appreciates<br />

the generosity of our<br />

volunteers. If you would<br />

like <strong>to</strong> volunteer in the<br />

Washing<strong>to</strong>n, D.C.,<br />

headquarters office,<br />

please go <strong>to</strong> http://<br />

www.womenforwomen.org/<br />

voluntr.htm for more<br />

information.<br />

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For Mother’s Day<br />

this year, help a mother<br />

rebuild her life after war.<br />

Claudine, a participant in the Women for Women<br />

International program in Rwanda, proudly shows off her<br />

newborn child.<br />

In Rwanda, un<strong>to</strong>ld numbers of women adopted children orphaned<br />

by the genocide and became mothers <strong>to</strong> build peace and<br />

reconciliation. In Afghanistan, where the infant mortality rate is one of<br />

the highest in the world, women face the threat of losing a child before<br />

they even have a glimpse at motherhood. Women in southern Sudan<br />

are more likely <strong>to</strong> die during childbirth than they are <strong>to</strong> complete<br />

primary school. In Kosovo, 94 percent of the women in our program<br />

are unemployed and support an average of eight family members –<br />

making it extremely difficult for them <strong>to</strong> provide for their families.<br />

Everyday, mothers in these and other post-conflict countries like<br />

Bosnia and Herzegovina, Colombia, the Democratic Republic of the<br />

Congo, Iraq and Nigeria encounter staggering obstacles.<br />

Women for Women International is providing these mothers,<br />

and other women who are struggling <strong>to</strong> rebuild their lives after war<br />

and conflict, with the <strong>to</strong>ols and resources they need <strong>to</strong> provide a<br />

better life for their children, families and themselves.<br />

Today, you can help a mother while honoring a special woman<br />

in your life. Visit our website at www.womenforwomen.org <strong>to</strong> find out<br />

how you can honor a special woman in your life and change a<br />

mother’s life <strong>to</strong>day.

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