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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Shofar</strong><br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong><br />
Celebrating our 62nd year Vol. 62 #2 October 2012—Tishri /Cheshvan 5773<br />
FROM THE RABBI’S STUDY...<br />
Maryland Elections<br />
As you read this newsletter, the November election<br />
is one month away. I’m not going to use this article to<br />
tell you how to vote, but I did want you to be aware<br />
that there are important questions on the ballot -<br />
aside from choosing to re-elect President Obama or<br />
elect Mitt Romney.<br />
In the state of Maryland there will be 7 questions on the ballot - 3<br />
of which are controversial. We will be asked to support legislation<br />
already passed to allow same sex marriages, to support building a<br />
casino at the National Harbor in Prince George’s County, and to allow<br />
children of undocumented immigrants (those children who have<br />
been raised and educated in our public schools) to pay in-state tuition<br />
at Maryland public colleges and universities. All of these questions<br />
are quite controversial and they require a lot of background<br />
study and soul searching.<br />
Each of these questions reflects Jewish concepts as well. Jewish<br />
tradition has a lot to say about homosexuality, about welcoming the<br />
stranger and about gambling. <strong>The</strong> question is, do we vote according<br />
to our Jewish conscience or do we vote according to what’s best for<br />
Maryland? We all have different ideas about what’s good for Maryland,<br />
and we could also have different ideas about what Judaism has<br />
to say on these issues. <strong>The</strong> question is which values are more important<br />
in answering these ballot questions? Do we vote based on<br />
our religion, or do we vote based on our citizenship?<br />
A popular example of this dilemma is a presidential candidate’s<br />
position vis a vis Israel. I know people who will vote solely on that<br />
issue - if the candidate is strong on Israel then the candidate will get<br />
that person’s vote. I think that’s wrong. Though it is important to<br />
support Israel - don’t get me wrong! - we live in America. We should<br />
choose a president based on our opinion on how education, the<br />
economy, health care, and a host of other issues are supported.<br />
Those should be the determining factors.<br />
But regarding these ballot questions, the issue is different. We are<br />
not being asked to support a candidate; we are being asked to support<br />
an issue. Now it is more complex because we are Jews and we<br />
are Marylanders. We want what is in our best interest for the State,<br />
yet what we want is based on our value system. Our value system -<br />
our identity - should be comprised of Jewish and civic ethical and<br />
moral ideas. In these ballot questions those appropriately overlap<br />
and we can make our decision based on that combination.<br />
To help us better understand the Jewish perspective on these ballot<br />
questions, I’ll be devoting my first Taste of Judaism program on<br />
Shabbat morning October 27 from 11-Noon on these issues. See the<br />
flyer on page 8 in this <strong>Shofar</strong> for all the dates of the Taste of Judaism<br />
programs.<br />
B’vracha,<br />
Rabbi Jonah Layman<br />
rjlayman@shaaretefila.org<br />
FROM THE PRESIDENT’S DESK<br />
As you read this, the High Holiday season of Rosh<br />
Hashanah and Yom Kippur will have ended. I am<br />
hoping each and every one of you is blessed with a<br />
happy and healthy year to come. But not to worry,<br />
we have several most enjoyable simchas and historic<br />
holidays on the <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> calendar for us<br />
all to enjoy together this coming month.<br />
First, on the evening of October 1 we welcome the holiday of<br />
Sukkot. This is one of my favorite holidays when we get to simulate<br />
a camping experience in a temporary tent-like structure. It is<br />
a very social holiday as we enjoy prayer, discussion, and good<br />
food with many guests and friends beyond our own family.<br />
During the coming weeks we will also celebrate with Stephanie<br />
and Perry Buckberg, and Ann-Joy and Stan Lieberman, as their<br />
sons Jonas Buckberg (Oct. 13) and Joshua Lieberman (Oct. 20)<br />
each become a Bar Mitzvah. <strong>The</strong>y are all most valued members of<br />
our congregation so please join me in wishing them a hearty<br />
mazel tov on these milestones.<br />
But the holiday that I most want to call your attention to is Simchat<br />
Torah. On Simchat Torah it is our tradition at <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> to<br />
honor two special members of our congregation to whom we owe<br />
considerable debt and gratitude. This year our honorees are Past<br />
President Bess Teller and long-time Board Member and Officer<br />
Judy Bresler.<br />
Bess served the last four years as our President, guiding us<br />
through the “diaspora” from Lockwood Drive to our new homeland.<br />
Without her leadership and tireless commitment we would<br />
not be in the place we find ourselves today.<br />
Judy has been a Board member for many years and now serves<br />
as our Recording Secretary. Her counsel and guidance as an attorney<br />
have enabled us to make many quality decisions over the last<br />
many years. And it was Judy’s childhood house, and old office of<br />
Dr. Arthur Bresler, where we called home for over 5 years while<br />
we were in the wilderness after selling our Lockwood Drive building.<br />
Join us as we celebrate with our Torahs, and honor our devoted<br />
congregants, Bess Teller and Judy Bresler.<br />
David Ronis<br />
YOU'RE INVITED<br />
Rabbi Jonah & Lenore Layman are pleased to<br />
invite the entire <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong> to<br />
the service and kiddush on Shabbat November 3<br />
as their son Eytan becomes Bar Mitzvah.<br />
Invitations were mailed to everyone but they<br />
found out that some haven't received it. So they<br />
want you to be sure that you know that you are<br />
welcome to attend. Just RSVP to<br />
jonahlayman@gmail.com.
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YOUTH GROUP NEWS FLASH!<br />
We are so excited to have held our first two<br />
successful programs for the Bonim and Machar<br />
youth groups, on September 9 and September<br />
23. Our kickoff program was a pizza party, ice<br />
breaker games, and ice-cream sundaes, ending with a parent<br />
information and registration session. On September 23,<br />
following Tashlich, we held our youth programs for Bonim<br />
and Machar at Lake Needwood. Both programs were well<br />
attended and much enjoyed by the participants.<br />
We are off to a great start and I look forward to watching<br />
both groups grow strong over the year ahead. Bonim<br />
(Building) and Machar (Tomorrow) youth groups provide a<br />
warm and nurturing environment where children of similar<br />
age groups can get together for programs and activities that<br />
focus on fun, socializing, and developing lasting friendships<br />
within our synagogue community.<br />
<strong>The</strong> leadership of Bonim and Machar Youth Groups is a<br />
partnership between our Youth Commission Chair, Stefanie<br />
Levy; our Family, Youth and Special Programs Coordinator,<br />
Lisa Arber; our youth group parents; and our youth. We<br />
thank Bryan Goodman for being the parental support for our<br />
Bonim group and Elaine Silver for being the parental support<br />
for our Machar group. We are also pleased that Melissa<br />
Felzenberg, from the Membership Committee, will be<br />
able to help support our youth groups this year. Activities<br />
and programs will take place either on-site at <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong><br />
<strong>Congregation</strong> or off-site at designated locations in the Maryland<br />
suburban community and/or DC.<br />
Most activities for both groups will take place on Sunday<br />
afternoons from 12:00 noon to 1:30 pm. Some activities<br />
may take place on Saturday evenings. Membership in the<br />
Bonim and Machar youth groups requires that you fill out a<br />
Membership Form and Medical Information/Release Form<br />
and that you pay a $25.00 membership fee per child. This<br />
fee will be used to offset administrative costs, help with upkeep<br />
of our Youth Lounge, provide snacks at youth programs,<br />
and, as available, lower the costs related to certain<br />
activities throughout the year.<br />
Being part of a Jewish youth group, from a young age,<br />
helps to provide a strong sense of Jewish identity. . Youth<br />
group members will have the opportunity to continue their<br />
youth group involvement, beyond Machar, by joining Kadima<br />
and USY in their preteen and teen years. In Kadima and<br />
USY our youth further strengthen their Jewish identity and<br />
develop important leadership skills essential to their continued<br />
involvement in the Jewish community. I am looking forward<br />
to a great year for our youth groups and also looking<br />
forward to our first Family Program on Sunday, October<br />
21st at Larriland Farm, in Howard County, where we will go<br />
on a family hayride and have a community campfire. Look<br />
for more information in the Daf, List-serv messages, fliers<br />
and group e-mails. Please contact the following individuals<br />
if you have questions about our Bonim and Machar youth<br />
programs.<br />
Stefanie Levy, Youth Commission Chair, 301-681-3388,<br />
ssmdlevy@comcast.net<br />
Lisa Arber, Family, Youth and Special Programs Coordinator,<br />
301-570-8422 arberld@aol.com.<br />
Shana Tova, Lisa Arber<br />
My Dear <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> family,<br />
<strong>The</strong> holidays are almost over and so it is time<br />
not just to think about our resolutions, but to put<br />
them into action! We will try new things, we<br />
will implement the revised family chore list, we<br />
will stop procrastinating, we will make time for ourselves,<br />
we will get to the gym, and we will be open to having new<br />
experiences! Nothing will stop us! Not even ourselves! So,<br />
in this time of renewal and rededication, I have decided to<br />
change the direction of my <strong>Shofar</strong> articles. Much of the time<br />
my articles have been about something holiday related.<br />
This year my goal will be to educate and inspire all of our<br />
community to LOVE Jewish music and prayer of ALL<br />
kinds! So, I will be alternating between “<strong>The</strong>se Are a Few of<br />
My Favorite Prayers,” “Ask the Cantor,” and “Cantor Wendi’s<br />
Top 10.”<br />
In “<strong>The</strong>se Are a Few of My Favorite Prayers,” I will<br />
tell you all about the journey of the prayer I’ve chosen<br />
for the month. We will learn the whole story of its birth,<br />
its travels, the different times and styles of music the<br />
prayer lived through, and finally, where we can find the<br />
prayer now.<br />
In “Ask the Cantor,” I will invite you all to write in<br />
and pose any question you have been dying to ask about<br />
chazzanot, prayer, Jewish music, Hebrew, chanting our<br />
holy texts, or anything else of that nature.<br />
In “Cantor Wendi’s Top 10,” I will be exposing you<br />
to Jewish music from all over the world and a variety of<br />
genres. Within this column I will recommend different<br />
groups, singers, musicians, and the like to listen to and<br />
expand your Jewish music world. Anything from Jewish<br />
rock, Yiddish music, Klezmer, Yemenite, classical,<br />
chazzanut and more will be highlighted. I will also include<br />
sound bites and suggestions for recordings to listen<br />
to online.<br />
So, stay tuned for my first column in November! In the<br />
meantime, enjoy the rest of your holidays and go out there<br />
and try something new… Make this a year to remember!<br />
B’ahava raba,<br />
Cantor Wendi Fried<br />
THE SHOFAR<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong>, 16620 Georgia Avenue,Olney, MD<br />
20832 Vol. 62 #2 October 2012, Published 10 times a year<br />
Opinions expressed herein are not necessarily representative of<br />
the <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong>, its employees, or its membership.<br />
Kosher and non-kosher supervised establishments advertise in the<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong>.<br />
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FROM SISTERHOOD-<br />
Welcome to the New Year. Sisterhood<br />
sends you our hearty wishes for a contented<br />
healthy Yom Tov filled October. It's a<br />
tradition for us to reflect on our past<br />
months. This certainly is a great way to<br />
usher in the New Year.<br />
Think about last year, when we were all sitting together at<br />
our first Friday night dinner, lovingly and efficiently cooked<br />
and catered by our Sisterhood ( thanks also to a few spouses).<br />
Now zoom in to our first of many Simchas of the year -<br />
celebrating with gusto the 90th birthday of our very dear May<br />
Savage and the B'nai Mitzvah of the Winkler siblings, Eli and<br />
Leah. Again, we all celebrated together over a delightfully filling,<br />
gorgeous looking kiddush. Now we are fully established in<br />
our well stocked kitchen, with a cadre of excellent hard working<br />
kiddush captains and congregation helpers. Remember,<br />
when Florence Lipsky calls to let you know it will be your<br />
week to assist in the kitchen, please say yes immediately. Be<br />
on time (9:30) and plan to stay until the end of the kiddush<br />
which means through cleanup.<br />
But that is not all Sisterhood does. By now you've no doubt<br />
received the mailing that we sent to you last month. If you still<br />
need one, please contact Ethel Levine to have it sent to you.<br />
Our Paid Up Membership Dinner is slated for October<br />
22. Our topic will be <strong>The</strong> Mitzvah of Organ Donation. Thanks<br />
to Bernice Goldstein for coming up with the program. Bernice's<br />
sister-in-law, Nancy Ginsburg, Rabbi Layman, Stefanie<br />
Levy and Lee Ronis will all be giving their personal perspective<br />
on this vital topic. Our committee is chaired by Karen<br />
Gross and Susan Hysen and they would welcome your volunteer<br />
help with the evening so please contact them and let them<br />
know how you would like to assist with this fabulous evening.<br />
Now that we have your attention, take the time this minute<br />
to send your membership dues and reservation to Elaine<br />
Stein. We look forward to having you join us.<br />
When shopping for your holiday needs, please remember to<br />
use scrip. <strong>The</strong> proceeds are given to the shul so the more you<br />
buy, the more we can give. It is a painless way to help with<br />
financially supporting our shul.<br />
It is a tradition to make a toast to welcome in the New Year,<br />
complete with hopes, aspirations, and wishes for good health<br />
and peace in Israel and contentment here. Consider this your<br />
L'Chaim and Shana Tova from us to all of you and yours.<br />
Ethel Levine and Fran Kensky<br />
Your Feedback is requested.<br />
I have had a strong request to reinstate the Humor Column, a<br />
page of jokes and stories provided by congregants and their<br />
friends. Would you be willing to see a page, or a column, of humorous<br />
items, somewhat similar to what was offered under one of<br />
our former editors, Susan Goldsamt?<br />
Please reply to me, by phone, by email, etc.<br />
Jack Teller, Editor-in-Chief<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong> Publications; 240.342.2352 or shofarpubs@verizon.net<br />
Thanks to All of You,<br />
<strong>The</strong>re were several wonderful folks who brought food to<br />
our house during my shivah for my mother, of blessed<br />
memory. I was not able to determine who all the bearers of<br />
the comforting platters and desserts were so I could not write<br />
you to tell you how much it meant to me and my family.<br />
Please understand and accept my apology for not acknowledging<br />
your support individually by letter. This community<br />
is so warm and consoling I cannot express it adequately.<br />
Bess Teller<br />
College Moms<br />
What are they doing now??<br />
Here is an update on our recent graduates:<br />
Amy Byer - Amy graduated from the University of<br />
Delaware with a Bachelor’s degree in Management<br />
and a minor in Leadership. She is now working as an<br />
Associate HR Consultant for the HR Cooperative.<br />
Beth Hagler - Beth graduated from West Chester<br />
University with a Bachelor’s degree in Athletic Training<br />
and is working as an Athletic Trainer in the Fairfax<br />
County schools.<br />
Ian Kolmaister - Ian graduated from the Prince<br />
Georges Community College Paramedic School and<br />
now attends Towson University.<br />
Elisheva Layman - Elisheva graduated from the<br />
University of Maryland with a Bachelor’s degree in<br />
Special Education and is now pursuing a Masters degree<br />
in Special Education from the University of<br />
Maryland.<br />
Amanda Libby - Amanda graduated from the Lab<br />
School and now attends Guilford College.<br />
Jacob Marder - Jacob graduated from UC Davis<br />
with a Master’s degree in Economics and is pursuing<br />
a Doctorate in Agricultural Economics at UC Davis.<br />
Jesse Marder - Jesse graduated in June with a<br />
Master’s degree in Mechanical Engineering from the<br />
Naval Postgraduate School in Monterey, California.<br />
He is now taking a 6 month course at the Navy Nuclear<br />
Power Training Command in Charleston.<br />
David Rosenberg - David graduated from the University<br />
of Michigan with a Masters degree in Aerospace<br />
Engineering and is pursuing a Doctorate in<br />
Aerospace Engineering.<br />
Willeke Sandler - Willeke graduated from Duke<br />
University with a Doctorate degree in History and is<br />
teaching courses in Imperialism, Gender Studies and<br />
Public History at Oglethorpe University in Atlanta,<br />
Georgia.<br />
Submitted by Zella Shabasson Rosenberg<br />
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<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> Cordially invites you to<br />
“Vino with Van Gogh”<br />
A very special auction of fine art, sculpture, designer leather handbags, sports and music<br />
memorabilia!<br />
Saturday Evening, November 17, 2012<br />
Preview: 7:00 pm Auction: 8:00 pm<br />
GENERAL ADMISSION: $18.00 per person (advance ticket sale) ~ $22.00 per person at the door<br />
Enjoy a glass of fine wine, cheeses and fruit as you preview<br />
magnificent artistic creations at affordable prices (Judaic collections included)<br />
Auction conducted by: Marlin Art, Deer Park, NY (www.marlinart.com) Jeanne Malone (516) 383-7665<br />
Support Your Synagogue through this great FUNdraiser!<br />
Invite your friends and acquaintances too.<br />
Need additional information? Contact Meryl Schaffer at (301)260-7428; meryl@livelyivy.me<br />
Or Cilla Grosberg at (301)452-5443; drgmrs@aol.com<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong>,<br />
16620 Georgia Avenue; Olney, MD 20832<br />
Continue your support towards <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> by making an additional donation with your<br />
admission fee.<br />
Contributions will be recognized in the evening's Auction program booklet.<br />
Donation Levels<br />
Apprentice: $ 18.00 Artist: $ 36.00 Master: $ 72.00<br />
# Tickets ($18/ea) _______ Donation Amount: ________ Total Amount: $________<br />
Name: _________________________________________________________________________<br />
Please make all checks payable to “<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong>”, place the word Art Auction in memo section<br />
Mail to <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong>; 16620 Georgia Avenue, Olney, MD 20832<br />
To pay with credit card:<br />
Credit Card #_____________________________ Exp Date_____________ Visa/MC/Discover<br />
Please respond by November 12, 2012…. and Remember to Invite a Friend or Two!<br />
WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU THERE!<br />
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GATES OF DISCOVERY-<br />
ROSE AND GEORGE TELLER PRESCHOOL:<br />
“THE BENEFITS OF MULTI-AGE CLASSROOMS”<br />
This year, we have decided to organize our students<br />
into multi-age classes rather than the more traditional<br />
age-based classes. Multi-age education is the purposeful<br />
placing of children of different ages (and abilities) in the same<br />
classroom. This practice has been shown to assist the overall development<br />
of the child within a family-like community of learners.<br />
Multi-age education is rooted in the philosophy that every child has<br />
the right to learn at his or her own pace, that learning is a continuum<br />
rather than a series of steps and that students learn from each<br />
other, not just from the adults in their lives. Goodlad and Anderson,<br />
who introduced the modern notion of the non-graded elementary<br />
school in 1959, raised our awareness of the fact that age is a crude<br />
indicator of what learning experiences children are ready for.<br />
By including different age groups, students naturally become<br />
more accepting of one another’s differences. <strong>The</strong>re is an atmosphere<br />
of nurturing and support rather than of pressure to fit within<br />
an arbitrary norm. Lillian Katz, one of the leading early childhood<br />
educators of our time, shows that children in multi-age classrooms<br />
often have a greater sense of belonging and more positive social<br />
relationships and attitudes toward school than children in sameage<br />
classrooms. Children of varying ages and developmental capabilities<br />
work and play alongside one another. <strong>The</strong>y interact with<br />
similar materials in different ways. Both younger and older children<br />
are able to benefit through these interactions.<br />
Multi-age grouping resembles family structures. In a family,<br />
younger members are given the opportunity to observe, emulate,<br />
and imitate a wide range of skills. Older family members have the<br />
opportunity to offer leadership and assume responsibility for the<br />
less mature and less knowledgeable members. Multi-age grouping<br />
differs from the family in that it offers the opportunity to assume<br />
each of these roles in different activities. Given that most children<br />
vary in competency across skills, this approach affords each child<br />
an opportunity to interact with peers and materials at an appropriate<br />
developmental level in all areas of development. Sometimes<br />
another child can word a concept in a way that an adult can't, facilitating<br />
better understanding for both children involved.<br />
In the classroom family, children can practice and develop leadership<br />
skills without the competitiveness sometimes found in sameage<br />
groups. Because of the diversity of social knowledge in the<br />
multi-age classroom, cooperation and other forms of positive social<br />
behavior marked by caring rather than competitiveness are often<br />
fostered. Older children are encouraged to aid others in their learning<br />
and remind younger children of rules. Research by Joan<br />
Gaustad shows that these behaviors enhance the self-regulation of<br />
the older children. <strong>The</strong>y may also create opportunities for more<br />
complex pretend play on the part of the younger children.<br />
Multi-age classrooms also allow children to excel. With higher<br />
level materials on hand, and an infrastructure already in place to<br />
differentiate the instruction, higher functioning students can work at<br />
their own pace with no limitations.<br />
Overall, mixed age classrooms foster a caring and cooperative<br />
environment where children are encouraged to grow at their own<br />
developmental pace. Students in multi-age classrooms show increased<br />
self-esteem, more cooperative behavior, better attitudes<br />
toward school in general, increased pro-social (caring, tolerant,<br />
patient, supportive) behavior, enriched personal responsibility, and<br />
a decline in discipline problems.<br />
For several articles that discuss multi-age educational practices<br />
and philosophy, please visit:<br />
http://www.multiage-education.com<br />
Beth Adler, Early Education Director<br />
CHAVAYA:<br />
At Chavaya this year we are advancing in several<br />
areas. We are implementing a new tefila program.<br />
We will pray together as a school on Sunday<br />
mornings. Classes will rotate leading different<br />
prayers, giving the younger students an opportunity to practice<br />
in a supportive environment. Older students will develop<br />
mastery and confidence as they work their way through the<br />
Siddur. <strong>Tefila</strong> will begin with a spirited Havdalah service. Additionally,<br />
teachers will rotate presenting a Weekly Jewish<br />
Fact. This may be a closer look at one part of a prayer,<br />
something in the sanctuary, or a moment in Jewish History.<br />
Be sure to ask your children about this when you pick them<br />
up at 12:00.<br />
We will now be using the main sanctuary as our prayer<br />
space. While this may seem obvious to some (why wouldn’t<br />
you pray in the sanctuary?), using that space has tradeoffs.<br />
As you already know, our classrooms are located downstairs<br />
in the Education Wing of the building. In order to pray in the<br />
sanctuary we have to walk upstairs every week, using precious<br />
minutes of our limited time together. Taking a broader<br />
view, however, we see that one of our goals at Chavaya is<br />
that our children feel at home in the synagogue, whether for<br />
Shabbat, holiday, or weekday services. <strong>The</strong> most beautiful<br />
space in our building can also be a place to learn about prayer,<br />
to become well versed in the Torah traditions, indeed a<br />
place to grow up in. I fully expect our Chavaya students to<br />
act with maturity and respect while in a Makom <strong>Tefila</strong> (a<br />
place of prayer). Religious School is a conduit to inspire our<br />
students through knowledge, passion, belief and actions.<br />
Entrusting the holiest space in our building to our children for<br />
prayer and Jewish learning demonstrates to them our expectations<br />
that they will be the Jewish leaders of the future.<br />
Aviva Janus, Education Director<br />
PLEASE NOTE THE DATES AND TIMES:<br />
Sukkot:<br />
Sept 30 - 6pm<br />
Oct 1 - 9am (including Hallel & marching with lulav &<br />
etrog) & 6pm<br />
Oct 2 - 9am (including Hallel & marching with lulav &<br />
etrog) & 7:30pm<br />
Oct 5 - Shabbat - 6pm<br />
Oct 6 - 9am (NOTE TIME CHANGE - service includes Hallel<br />
& Ecclesiastes)<br />
Oct 7 - Hoshana Rabbah - 8:15am - NOTE TIME CHANGE<br />
Shemini Atzeret & Simchat Torah:<br />
Oct 7 - 6pm<br />
Oct 8 - 9am (Hallel & yizkor will be recited) & 6:00pm<br />
(singing and dancing with Torah by 6:30)<br />
Oct 9 - 9am (Judy Bresler & Bess Teller are our Simchat<br />
Torah honorees! - singing and dancing with the Torahs) &<br />
7:30pm<br />
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Meet Our Bar Mitzvah - Jonas Buckberg<br />
Jonas Buckberg will celebrate his Bar Mitzvah on October 13 at <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong>.<br />
Jonas is in the 8 th grade at Rosa Parks Middle School where he excels. He enjoys cars, sports,<br />
hard rock music and traveling. Jonas has taken voice and guitar lessons at different times and<br />
earned his Purple Belt in Tae Kwon Do. Jonas is a serious Redskins fan.<br />
He likes spending time with his extended family who live nearby (and some far) and is very excited<br />
to see many friends and family who will be coming from near and far to celebrate with him.<br />
Meet our Bar Mitzvah, Joshua Lieberman<br />
Joshua will celebrate his Bar Mitzvah on October 20, 2010 at <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong>.<br />
Joshua is an 8th grade student at Rosa Parks Middle School. He enjoys playing sports such as football and golf, and<br />
spending time with his family. Joshua began studying martial arts at the age of 5 and currently holds a 1 st degree black<br />
belt.<br />
When Joshua was in 6 th grade, he began playing the French horn. As a 7 th grader, he was selected from a competitive<br />
tryout to play for the Strathmore Young Artists Orchestra.<br />
For his Bar Mitzvah project, Joshua will perform a concert playing his French horn to raise money for the Homeward<br />
Trails Rescue Shelter from where the first family dog, Bailey, was rescued. Having a close relationship with his family is<br />
important to Joshua. He is especially close with his sister, Lianna, and his cousins, Adam and Mandi. With family and<br />
friends coming from New York, Florida, Chicago, and California, Joshua is excited to share this milestone of his journey as a Jewish adult.<br />
SEPTEMBER TRIBUTES:<br />
Andrea Z. Tilles Memorial Chesed Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
May Savage’s 90 th Birthday<br />
<strong>The</strong>ir 50 th wedding anniversary<br />
Jill Goldwater & Steve Prensky’s<br />
new granddaughter<br />
May Savage’s 90 th Birthday<br />
Birth of Avishai Tilles<br />
Paul Tilles’ new grandson<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Horace Sragow<br />
Holly Schotz's Father<br />
Irving "Sonny" Wollins<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
Building Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
Jay Feinstein’s well earned<br />
retirement<br />
Susan Levin’s Retirement<br />
Stanley & Marilyn Cohen<br />
Ira Kolmaister’s birthday<br />
May Savage’s birthday<br />
Jill Goldwater’s new<br />
granddaughter<br />
May Savage’s birthday<br />
Selma Rothenberg’s 85 th birthday<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Harold & Elaine Stein<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Jay & Joyce Feinstein<br />
Harold & Elaine Stein<br />
Herbert & Betsy Wolk<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Marilyn Pontell<br />
Ruth Newhouse<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Milton & Susan Goldsamt<br />
Herbert & Betsy Wolk<br />
Ira & Ethel Levine<br />
Marilyn Pontell<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> Sisterhood<br />
Milton & Susan Goldsamt<br />
Elaine Ross<br />
Ellen Reinach<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Max Kantzer & Patricia Greene<br />
William & Barbara Harkaway<br />
Zelick & Carol Waganheim<br />
David & Florence Polinsky<br />
Milton & Susan Goldsamt<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Lawrence & Ellie Alpert<br />
Max Kantzer & Patricia Greene<br />
Holly Schotz's Father<br />
Irving "Sonny" Wollins<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
Joseph Mund<br />
Mordecai Ben Yitzhak<br />
Rudy Mund<br />
William Goldstein<br />
Speedy Recovery to:<br />
Judy Rumerman<br />
Michael & Anita Froehlich<br />
Sadie Blicher<br />
William & Barbara Harkaway<br />
Saul & Sherry Cohen<br />
Michael & Anita Froehlich<br />
Gary & Betsy Morgenstern<br />
Milton & Susan Goldsamt<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Joseph Kraut & Rhea Siers<br />
Lawrence & Ellie Alpert<br />
Mark & Marjorie Fuhrmann<br />
Max Kantzer & Patricia Greene<br />
Sadie Blicher<br />
Rabbi Robert & Ruth Layman<br />
Robert & Audrey Haber<br />
Saul & Sherry Cohen<br />
Stuart & Rona Eisen<br />
William & Barbara Harkaway<br />
Elaine Ross<br />
Irving & Mildred Flyer<br />
Andrew & Marlene Sandberg<br />
Irving & Mildred Flyer<br />
Joseph Kraut & Rhea Siers<br />
Saul & Sherry Cohen<br />
D. Joseph Williamowsky Scholar-in-Residence Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
Jay Feinstein’s retirement<br />
and their new home<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Al Shayne<br />
Chaim Williamowsky<br />
Jean Rubin<br />
Education Fund<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong><br />
In honor of:<br />
Charlotte Potosky's 80th birthday<br />
Barry & Sandra Handloff<br />
Manny & Biddie Ginsburg<br />
Manny & Biddie Ginsburg<br />
Manny & Biddie Ginsburg<br />
Manny & Biddie Ginsburg<br />
David & Tammar Paynter<br />
Jack & Bess Teller<br />
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May Savage's 90th birthday<br />
Moish & Charlotte Potosky's<br />
Anniversaries<br />
Rose & George Teller<br />
Gates of Discovery Preschool<br />
Selma Rothenberg's 85th Birthday<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong><br />
<strong>The</strong> birth of Orly Michal,<br />
first grandchild for Jill<br />
Goldwater and Steve Prensky.<br />
Mazal Tov!<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Esther Ferouz<br />
Ethel Winer<br />
Gertrude Adem<br />
Gertrude Thaler<br />
Goldie Grenker<br />
Helen Kieval<br />
Holly Schotz's Father,<br />
Irving "Sonny" Wollins<br />
Ida Goldstein<br />
Ida Lipsky<br />
Jack Loesberg<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
Gilbert & Judith Beiser<br />
Jack & Bess Teller<br />
Lawrence & Ellie Alpert<br />
Saul & Sherry Cohen<br />
Maurice & Inger Margulies<br />
Marvin & Sylvia Levy<br />
Alicia Cernitz-Schwartz<br />
Ellen Zweig<br />
Albert Kliman<br />
Morton & Ina Goldstein<br />
Andrew & Marlene Sandberg<br />
Mark & Shelley Levitt<br />
Alan & Adriana Sandler<br />
Alan & Judith Gann<br />
Alan & Sara Rosenblatt<br />
Albert Kliman<br />
Ann Loeb<br />
Charles & Rhona Fink<br />
<strong>The</strong> Heller family<br />
Ross and Roberta Perry<br />
Leah Nichaman<br />
Alan & Sarah Rosenblatt<br />
Joyce Migdall and Richard Klein<br />
Elaine Ross<br />
Gilbert & Judith Beiser<br />
Iris Grossman<br />
Liane Lunden<br />
Marvin & Sylvia Levy<br />
May Savage<br />
Milton & Elsa Weinstein<br />
Morton & Phyllis Lessans<br />
Robert & Helen Solomon<br />
Roy & Michele Peck<br />
Ruth Newhouse<br />
Saul & Sherry Cohen<br />
Solomon & Rita Margolis<br />
Simon & Denise Marzouk<br />
Joseph & Anne Shuman<br />
Art & Joy Podolsky<br />
Henry & Helen Sandler<br />
Gershon & Diane Kieval<br />
Gershon & Diane Kieval<br />
Alan & Adriana Sandler<br />
Jack & Bess Teller<br />
Rose Halpern<br />
Philip Goldman<br />
Carol Brody<br />
Alan & Adriana Sandler<br />
Albert Kliman<br />
Arthur & Ruth Berlin<br />
Carol Nove<br />
David & Florence Polinsky<br />
Steve & Fran Rotter<br />
Joseph DeAngelis<br />
Rita and Aaron Weisstuch<br />
Gary & Betsy Morgenstern<br />
George & Marilyn Kessler<br />
Gilbert & Judith Beiser<br />
Harold & Elaine Stein<br />
Herbert & Kathleen Lilling<br />
Howard & Marilyn Politzer<br />
James & Diane Rosenfield<br />
Julian Rosenberg &<br />
Zella Shabasson<br />
Liane Lunden<br />
Manny & Biddie Ginsburg<br />
Marvin & Arlene Hoffman<br />
Robert & Helen Solomon<br />
Louis Zendel<br />
Max Blank<br />
Minnie Rosenberg<br />
Rose Marcus<br />
Ruth Longo<br />
Samuel Mellner<br />
Schmeel Wajsman<br />
Vivian Rothschild<br />
William "Bill" Goldstein<br />
Speedy Recovery to:<br />
Judy Rumerman<br />
Ila Swartz<br />
Harold Fink Israel Quest Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
Selma Rothenberg’s<br />
Special Birthday<br />
In memory of:<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
David Slade<br />
Holly Schotz's Father,<br />
Irving "Sonny" Wollins<br />
Library Fund<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Sheila Marcus<br />
Paul & Lenore Kelner<br />
Lionel & Eileen Weinstock<br />
Charles & Barbara Marcus<br />
Liane Lunden<br />
Robert & Audrey Haber<br />
Victor & Lois Seigel<br />
Helen Sandler<br />
Erle & Sharon Howard<br />
Jack & Bess Teller<br />
Marvin & Sylvia Levy<br />
Barbara Fink<br />
Barbara Fink<br />
Barbara Fink<br />
Barbara Fink<br />
Mark & Marjorie Fuhrmann<br />
Martin S. Halpern Adult Education Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
Dorothy & Larry Perkin's<br />
65th Wedding Anniversary<br />
Nathan Rubinstein Youth Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
May Savage’s special birthday<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
Speedy Recovery to:<br />
Gloria & Harold Heyison<br />
Rabbi's Discretionary Fund<br />
In honor of:<br />
Chevrah Kadisha<br />
Elisheva Layman’s Graduation<br />
from UMD<br />
Rabbi Layman<br />
In memory of:<br />
Esther Deitz<br />
Jeanette Diamond<br />
Holly Schotz's Father,<br />
Irving "Sonny" Wollins<br />
David Slade<br />
Speedy Recovery to:<br />
My Great-Granddaughter Hadassah<br />
Siddur or Chumash Dedication<br />
In honor of:<br />
Susan Goldsamt’s 70 th Birthday<br />
Cara, Max & Frankie Hedgepeth<br />
Saul Cohen<br />
Sherry Cohen<br />
In memory of:<br />
David Slade<br />
Solis James<br />
Leon I Eppel<br />
Leah S Eppel<br />
Rose Halpern<br />
Rita Rubinstein<br />
Rita Rubinstein<br />
Rita Rubinstein<br />
Ila Swartz<br />
Jack & Bess Teller<br />
Jay & Freda Krosnick<br />
Leonard Deitz<br />
Jerry & Micheline Rosenthal<br />
Joseph & Andrea Manchester<br />
Jesse & Debbie Stiller<br />
Jesse & Debbie Stiller<br />
Sylvia Potash<br />
Sylvia Potash<br />
Joyce Feinstein<br />
Ruth Newhouse<br />
Michele Peck<br />
Elaine Ross<br />
Rita Rubinstein<br />
Elaine Schenberg<br />
Bess Teller<br />
Lee & Lisa Hedgepeth<br />
Seth Cohen<br />
Seth Cohen<br />
Harriet Wiesenthal<br />
Eric & Lori Marshall<br />
Sigmund & Shirley Liberman<br />
Sigmund & Shirley Liberman<br />
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<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong> Hosts<br />
SEEDS OF SONG<br />
A Community Erev Shira<br />
in Celebration of the New Year<br />
Featuring Area Musicians and Song Leaders:<br />
Sally Heckelman, Jill Moskowitz<br />
and Teddy Klaus<br />
Sunday Evening, October<br />
28, 2012<br />
7:30 pm to 9:30 pm<br />
DON'T MISS OUT ON ALL OF THE<br />
FAMILY FUN!<br />
Sunday, October 21, 2012, 5:30 pm<br />
Youth and Family Program<br />
(K-5th Grade Families including younger and older siblings)<br />
Hayride and Campfire<br />
Group Singing fol-<br />
lowed by light refreshments.<br />
Cost: $14 per person at the door. No advance reservation<br />
required.<br />
If you love to sing, you won't want to miss this very special<br />
evening of song. Last year we held two successful events<br />
with over 100 in attendance. We have scheduled four Seeds<br />
of Song evenings this coming year with two of these special<br />
evenings being hosted by <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong>.<br />
Dear <strong>Shofar</strong> Readers<br />
This is to tell our congregation about a wonderful experience<br />
our marvelous Sisterhood members presented last month.<br />
Our very own Betty Balin and Vivienne Auerbach are to be<br />
congratulated on their arts and crafts program. <strong>The</strong>y shlepped<br />
an ironing board and iron, paints, and trays among other items<br />
for this class.<br />
As their students we benefited by taking home lovely items that<br />
beautify our Jewish homes. I thank them for their lessons and<br />
the good time well spent. I look forward to being their student<br />
again.<br />
Sylvia Potash<br />
Sharp's Farm, 4003 Jennings Chapel Road,<br />
Brookeville, Maryland 20833<br />
Please meet by 5:15 next to the Farm Store for<br />
check-in. We will leave promptly at 5:30 for the group<br />
hayride, followed by dinner and a campfire! Bring a picnic/bag<br />
dinner (dairy only), a blanket and/or lawn chair,<br />
and a flashlight. We will supply the goodies needed for<br />
S’mores!<br />
Arrive a couple of hours early and enjoy the farm with<br />
your family. <strong>The</strong>re is so much to do. Feed the animals,<br />
pick a pumpkin, make a scarecrow, or go through the Corn<br />
Maze (allow 45 minutes for this activity and let them<br />
know that you are with <strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> for a special cost of<br />
$4.00 per person). <strong>The</strong>re is also a mini-maze for the little<br />
ones. Go to www.sharpfarm.com.<br />
Cost: $10 per person; $5 for children ages 3 -6; no charge for children<br />
under age 3.<br />
RSVP required by October 15, 2012. Questions: Contact Lisa Arber,<br />
Family, Youth and Special Programs Coordinator<br />
arberld@aol.com or 301-570-8422<br />
Hayride and Campfire Registration Form<br />
October 21st, 2012, Sharp's Farm<br />
Family Name: ____________________ E-mail:<br />
_____________________<br />
# Adults in family attending: ______; # Youth in family attending:<br />
______<br />
Cost: ____$10 per person; ____ages 3-6 $5.00; ____<br />
under 3 free<br />
Total Amount Enclosed: $ ______________.<br />
Please drop by or send to the office. See you on the Farm!!<br />
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Did you Know…?<br />
SO, what did you do this summer?<br />
Al Kliman's granddaughter Shoshie graduated<br />
from high school up in Newton, MA. this past<br />
June and is now getting ready to go to UMD, where she will<br />
be enrolled in the engineering program.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Buckbergs, Stephanie, Perry,et al, went to Israel,<br />
and had a marvelous time. Ask them about their trip.<br />
We are delighted that Florence Gersug Lipsky is out of the<br />
hospital and back with us. We saw her at the September Friday<br />
Night Back-to-Shul dinner and she looked wonderful.<br />
Way to go Florence!<br />
Check out our October Bar Mitzvahs (found elsewhere in<br />
this issue). It is delightful to observe these young people and<br />
we look forward to their taking on leadership roles in our<br />
congregation in the future.<br />
Ethel and Ira Levine are planning another tour of duty in<br />
SAR-EL, the Israeli Volunteer Corps, which relieves an Israeli<br />
reservist from having to perform support work .<br />
My column is short this month as I have received very few<br />
news flashes from you all. Hopefully, I will hear from you<br />
after the Holy Days.<br />
Hag Sameach,<br />
Jack Teller<br />
shaarepubs@verizon.net<br />
Pleased Hold the Dates:--<br />
Bonim and Machar Youth Programs :<br />
Saturday, November 10, 2012 Youth Program:<br />
Havdallah, Movie & Pajama Party<br />
Sunday, January 13, 2013 Youth Program TBD<br />
Sunday, March 10, 2013 Youth Program TBD<br />
Sunday, May 19, 2013 Youth Program TBD<br />
Family Programs for K-5th Grade<br />
Families:<br />
(older and younger siblings welcome)<br />
Sunday, October 21, 2012 Family Program:<br />
Hayride and Campfire<br />
Saturday, January 26, 2013 Family Program:<br />
Havdeli and Games Night<br />
Sunday, March 17, 2013 Family Program :<br />
Mitzvah Bowling<br />
April/May (date TBD) Family Program:<br />
Maccabiah Sports Day<br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong> Invites You<br />
to Join Us for <strong>The</strong>se Saturday Morning<br />
Programs - 11am -Noon<br />
<strong>The</strong> main service these mornings will be<br />
A Taste of Judaism: Song<br />
Come and enjoy a musical and<br />
instrumental journey into<br />
prayer. Cantor Wendi Fried<br />
will use uplifting tunes,<br />
wordless melodies and chants<br />
to enhance our prayer<br />
experience.<br />
November 10, 2012<br />
December 1, 2012<br />
January 5, 2013<br />
May 4, 2013<br />
held from 9am-11am<br />
A Taste of Judaism: Study<br />
Come and participate in a<br />
discussion led by Rabbi Jonah<br />
Layman on some Jewish values,<br />
upcoming holidays, Shabbat,<br />
or issues from the weekly<br />
Torah reading.<br />
October 27, 2012<br />
November 24, 2012<br />
December 22, 2012<br />
February 2, 2013<br />
March 2, 2013<br />
May 18, 2013<br />
Job Search for Seniors:<br />
Your Future Begins October 15! That’s when <strong>The</strong> Career<br />
Gateway, JCA’s innovative and highly successful job<br />
search training program, kicks off its next session. Featuring<br />
small classes, individualized attention, 30 hours of instruction<br />
over five class days, and long-term mentors, <strong>The</strong> Career Gateway<br />
is open to job seekers age 50 and over who want to turbocharge<br />
their resumes, hone their interviewing skills, network<br />
more effectively, discover the hidden job market, and develop<br />
personal job search plans. Classes are held at the Ann L.<br />
Bronfman Center, 12320 Parklawn Drive, Rockville MD. For<br />
more information, call 301-255-4200 or visit our web site,<br />
www.AccessJCA.org.<br />
YOUR MEMBERSHIP IS THE CORNERSTONE OF OUR<br />
EFFORTS<br />
MEMBERSHIP in MERCAZ is important to support Conservative<br />
[Masorti] congregations in Israel and around the Jewish<br />
world. Right now, the only religious institutions which<br />
were and still are recognized and funded by the Israeli government<br />
are Orthodox institutions. If it can grow stronger membership<br />
numbers, MERCAZ will have stronger voting clout in<br />
the World Zionist Organization and the Jewish Agency for Israel,<br />
which can then translate into significant Jewish communal<br />
funding for our Conservative/Masorti congregations in Israel<br />
and worldwide.<br />
YOU can join MERCAZ by using your congregation’s MER-<br />
CAZ check-off membership mechanism.<br />
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SHAARE TEFILA<br />
16620 Georgia Avenue<br />
Olney, Maryland 20832<br />
301 593 3410<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Shofar</strong><br />
<strong>Shaare</strong> <strong>Tefila</strong> <strong>Congregation</strong><br />
301-593-3410<br />
www.shaaretefila.org or info@shaaretefila.org<br />
Rabbi<br />
Cantor<br />
Rabbi Emeritus<br />
Cantor Emeritus<br />
President<br />
Executive Director<br />
Education Director<br />
Early Education Director<br />
Family, Youth and<br />
Special Programs Director<br />
Youth Director<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong> Editor-in-Chief<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong> Editor<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong> Editor<br />
<strong>Shofar</strong> Advertising Manager<br />
Jonah Layman<br />
Wendi Fried<br />
Martin S. Halpern, Z”L<br />
Gershon E. Levin<br />
David Ronis<br />
Jill Goldwater<br />
Aviva Janus<br />
Beth Adler<br />
Lisa Arber<br />
Lynn Berk<br />
Jack Teller<br />
Doreen Bonnett<br />
Jesse Stiller<br />
Julie Mintz