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The <strong>Kurdish</strong> <strong>Globe</strong> No. 325, Saturday, October 15, 2011 9<br />
Iraqi women abused<br />
under unchanging laws<br />
Salma Jassim was beaten,<br />
kicked out of her marital<br />
home with her newborn<br />
daughter on her shoulder<br />
and then deserted by her<br />
husband. But she says<br />
the threat she faces from<br />
her own family, who feel<br />
shamed because of her dive<br />
vorce, is just as bad as the<br />
abuse.<br />
There are few places in<br />
Iraq where Jassim can turn<br />
for help. Iraqi experts bele<br />
lieve that domestic abuse<br />
has increased during the<br />
years of war and economie<br />
ic hardship since the 2003<br />
U.S.-led invasion. But atte<br />
tempts to strengthen laws<br />
to protect women have<br />
gone nowhere in the face<br />
of heavy cultural and relige<br />
gious resistance.<br />
The World Health Organe<br />
nization has estimated that<br />
one in five Iraqi women<br />
has reported being a victe<br />
tim of domestic violence,<br />
and experts say the rate is<br />
much higher. Government<br />
officials say for the time<br />
being there's little hope<br />
that laws giving men wide<br />
rights to "discipline" their<br />
wives will be changed.<br />
"There are abusive laws<br />
against women ... but we<br />
believe that in this era, this<br />
project will be rejected,"<br />
said the Human Rights<br />
Ministry's spokesman<br />
Kamil Amin. "Politicians<br />
have no will to change<br />
these abusive laws."<br />
State Minister for Wome<br />
en's Affairs Ibtihal al-Zaidi<br />
agreed.<br />
"The new reforms might<br />
raise issues against Islamic<br />
laws as well as tribal and<br />
traditional norms," she<br />
said. "It is a very sensitive<br />
issue."<br />
Al-Zaidi's ministry is<br />
working with other minie<br />
istries along with civil<br />
society organizations in<br />
coordination with the<br />
United Nations to finalize<br />
a national strategic plan<br />
for the advancement of<br />
women, combating viole<br />
lence against women, and<br />
preparing draft legislation<br />
to protect against domeste<br />
tic violence.<br />
However, al-Zaidi said<br />
she was "very hesitant" to<br />
present the draft legislate<br />
tion to parliament because<br />
of unsuccessful attempts<br />
made by Iraq's Human<br />
Rights Ministry to repeal<br />
discriminatory provisions.<br />
"The Iraqi Supreme Jude<br />
dicial Council thwarted<br />
our attempts under the<br />
pretext that the time was<br />
not right for such amendme<br />
ments which would be<br />
rejected by the Iraqi street<br />
because they conflict<br />
with religious, tribal and<br />
traditional norms," said<br />
Amin, the Rights Ministe<br />
try spokesman. "Not only<br />
male lawmakers but even<br />
some female lawmakers<br />
stood against such reforms<br />
because of their extreme<br />
religious convictions."<br />
At issue is Iraq's penal<br />
code, written in 1969, that<br />
excuses crimes "if the act<br />
is committed while exe<br />
ercising a legal right."<br />
Husbands punishing their<br />
wives, and parents and<br />
teachers punishing childe<br />
dren are considered perme<br />
missible "within certain<br />
limits prescribed by law<br />
or by custom."<br />
In Iraq, some tribes and<br />
fundamental Muslim sects<br />
believe that Islamic laws<br />
allow husbands to beat<br />
unruly wives, and even<br />
for families to kill women<br />
relatives who are accused<br />
of bringing shame upon<br />
the home, such as in cases<br />
of adultery. The authorie<br />
ity given to husbands can<br />
sometimes be exploited<br />
by their families to abuse<br />
wives as well.<br />
More often than not,<br />
women like Jassim route<br />
tinely are blamed instead<br />
of helped.<br />
Jassim said her husbe<br />
band's family, which bece<br />
came wealthy after their<br />
son started a thriving car<br />
spare parts business, was<br />
ashamed of her because of<br />
her humble background.<br />
She said her husband's<br />
sisters beat her so badly<br />
her breast milk dried up<br />
and she could not feed her<br />
baby. The sisters one day<br />
kicked her and her baby<br />
out of the house, even<br />
ripping her headscarf and<br />
some of her hair off, she<br />
said. Jassim's husband<br />
eventually divorced her<br />
after his sisters accused<br />
her of stealing money<br />
from them.<br />
But when Jassim, 22,<br />
returned to her family<br />
home with her baby, her<br />
brothers blamed her for<br />
the entire debacle and said<br />
she'd shamed their family<br />
by being kicked out and<br />
divorced. They refused to<br />
let her leave the house,<br />
held her at gunpoint and<br />
threatened to kill her.<br />
"I accept insult, degradate<br />
tion and abuse rather than<br />
the hellish condition I am<br />
living in now," Jassim<br />
said recently, sitting in the<br />
Baghdad office of an Iraqi<br />
aid agency that offers legal<br />
advice to such women.<br />
In September, Iraq was<br />
named among 34 countries<br />
that will share a $17.1 mille<br />
lion grant from the U.N.<br />
for programs to end viole<br />
lence against women. The<br />
U.N. says the money can<br />
be used to give women<br />
legal and medical access,<br />
provide counseling for<br />
men and women and other<br />
programs.<br />
Even small efforts to<br />
curb domestic violence<br />
short of changing the law<br />
have largely failed, office<br />
cials and experts say.<br />
Last year, the Interior<br />
Ministry opened two<br />
women's protection cente<br />
ters in Baghdad, where<br />
victims can file abuse<br />
complaints with police.<br />
The centers are sponsored<br />
by the State Ministry for<br />
Women's Affairs, which<br />
opened at least one in each<br />
of Iraq's 18 provinces.<br />
Police Col. Mushtaq<br />
Talib, who oversees the<br />
two centers in Baghdad,<br />
said women rarely file<br />
complaints because "they<br />
would end up homeless,<br />
for their families would<br />
surely reject them."<br />
At any one time, Talib<br />
said, the centers deal with<br />
less than a combined 100<br />
cases which were referred<br />
to them from court.<br />
The WHO study found<br />
that 21 percent of Iraqi<br />
women – out of the<br />
country's population of<br />
30,747,000 – reported beie<br />
ing victims of domestic<br />
violence in a survey taken<br />
in 2006 and 2007, the late<br />
est data available.<br />
Talib said the actual<br />
number of domestic abuse<br />
victims likely is far higher.<br />
A 2010 U.N. report conce<br />
cluded that while it's impe<br />
possible to gauge how ofte<br />
ten Iraq women are beaten<br />
by family members since<br />
so few report it, "the proble<br />
lem may be widespread."<br />
In its own study, Iraq's<br />
Human Rights Ministry<br />
found that domestic viole<br />
lence was a factor in the<br />
nationwide increase in<br />
divorce cases, Amin said.<br />
In 2010, 53,840 marre<br />
riages ended in divorce,<br />
compared to 52,649 in<br />
2009 and 28,800 in 1997,<br />
according to the latest<br />
available U.N. and Iraqi<br />
Supreme Judicial Council<br />
data.<br />
In previous generations,<br />
women suffering domeste<br />
tic abuse would stay with<br />
their husbands regardle<br />
less of how bad it got.<br />
But Amin said now Iraqi<br />
women are starting to push<br />
back and ask for a divorce<br />
when they're abused.<br />
These women who are<br />
"better educated, enlighte<br />
ened and aware of their<br />
rights," he said. "They<br />
are ready to sacrifice their<br />
married life for the sake of<br />
preserving their dignity."<br />
But even so, many wome<br />
en prefer to stay in abusive<br />
relationships because the<br />
social stigma of divorce<br />
isn't just embarrassing – it<br />
can put them in danger of<br />
their own families as Jasse<br />
sim's divorce did.<br />
"When divorced women<br />
leave one abusive family,<br />
they fall victims to anothe<br />
er abusive family," said<br />
lawyer Wijdan Khalaf. "In<br />
our society, women have<br />
no options. There is no soce<br />
cial protection."<br />
AP<br />
AP Photo/Hadi Mizban<br />
In this Monday, Oct. 1, 2007 file photo, Iraqi women who have been widowed, wait queue to receive aid in Baghdad, Iraq.