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The <strong>Kurdish</strong> <strong>Globe</strong> No. 325, Saturday, October 15, 2011 9<br />

Iraqi women abused<br />

under unchanging laws<br />

Salma Jassim was beaten,<br />

kicked out of her marital<br />

home with her newborn<br />

daughter on her shoulder<br />

and then deserted by her<br />

husband. But she says<br />

the threat she faces from<br />

her own family, who feel<br />

shamed because of her dive<br />

vorce, is just as bad as the<br />

abuse.<br />

There are few places in<br />

Iraq where Jassim can turn<br />

for help. Iraqi experts bele<br />

lieve that domestic abuse<br />

has increased during the<br />

years of war and economie<br />

ic hardship since the 2003<br />

U.S.-led invasion. But atte<br />

tempts to strengthen laws<br />

to protect women have<br />

gone nowhere in the face<br />

of heavy cultural and relige<br />

gious resistance.<br />

The World Health Organe<br />

nization has estimated that<br />

one in five Iraqi women<br />

has reported being a victe<br />

tim of domestic violence,<br />

and experts say the rate is<br />

much higher. Government<br />

officials say for the time<br />

being there's little hope<br />

that laws giving men wide<br />

rights to "discipline" their<br />

wives will be changed.<br />

"There are abusive laws<br />

against women ... but we<br />

believe that in this era, this<br />

project will be rejected,"<br />

said the Human Rights<br />

Ministry's spokesman<br />

Kamil Amin. "Politicians<br />

have no will to change<br />

these abusive laws."<br />

State Minister for Wome<br />

en's Affairs Ibtihal al-Zaidi<br />

agreed.<br />

"The new reforms might<br />

raise issues against Islamic<br />

laws as well as tribal and<br />

traditional norms," she<br />

said. "It is a very sensitive<br />

issue."<br />

Al-Zaidi's ministry is<br />

working with other minie<br />

istries along with civil<br />

society organizations in<br />

coordination with the<br />

United Nations to finalize<br />

a national strategic plan<br />

for the advancement of<br />

women, combating viole<br />

lence against women, and<br />

preparing draft legislation<br />

to protect against domeste<br />

tic violence.<br />

However, al-Zaidi said<br />

she was "very hesitant" to<br />

present the draft legislate<br />

tion to parliament because<br />

of unsuccessful attempts<br />

made by Iraq's Human<br />

Rights Ministry to repeal<br />

discriminatory provisions.<br />

"The Iraqi Supreme Jude<br />

dicial Council thwarted<br />

our attempts under the<br />

pretext that the time was<br />

not right for such amendme<br />

ments which would be<br />

rejected by the Iraqi street<br />

because they conflict<br />

with religious, tribal and<br />

traditional norms," said<br />

Amin, the Rights Ministe<br />

try spokesman. "Not only<br />

male lawmakers but even<br />

some female lawmakers<br />

stood against such reforms<br />

because of their extreme<br />

religious convictions."<br />

At issue is Iraq's penal<br />

code, written in 1969, that<br />

excuses crimes "if the act<br />

is committed while exe<br />

ercising a legal right."<br />

Husbands punishing their<br />

wives, and parents and<br />

teachers punishing childe<br />

dren are considered perme<br />

missible "within certain<br />

limits prescribed by law<br />

or by custom."<br />

In Iraq, some tribes and<br />

fundamental Muslim sects<br />

believe that Islamic laws<br />

allow husbands to beat<br />

unruly wives, and even<br />

for families to kill women<br />

relatives who are accused<br />

of bringing shame upon<br />

the home, such as in cases<br />

of adultery. The authorie<br />

ity given to husbands can<br />

sometimes be exploited<br />

by their families to abuse<br />

wives as well.<br />

More often than not,<br />

women like Jassim route<br />

tinely are blamed instead<br />

of helped.<br />

Jassim said her husbe<br />

band's family, which bece<br />

came wealthy after their<br />

son started a thriving car<br />

spare parts business, was<br />

ashamed of her because of<br />

her humble background.<br />

She said her husband's<br />

sisters beat her so badly<br />

her breast milk dried up<br />

and she could not feed her<br />

baby. The sisters one day<br />

kicked her and her baby<br />

out of the house, even<br />

ripping her headscarf and<br />

some of her hair off, she<br />

said. Jassim's husband<br />

eventually divorced her<br />

after his sisters accused<br />

her of stealing money<br />

from them.<br />

But when Jassim, 22,<br />

returned to her family<br />

home with her baby, her<br />

brothers blamed her for<br />

the entire debacle and said<br />

she'd shamed their family<br />

by being kicked out and<br />

divorced. They refused to<br />

let her leave the house,<br />

held her at gunpoint and<br />

threatened to kill her.<br />

"I accept insult, degradate<br />

tion and abuse rather than<br />

the hellish condition I am<br />

living in now," Jassim<br />

said recently, sitting in the<br />

Baghdad office of an Iraqi<br />

aid agency that offers legal<br />

advice to such women.<br />

In September, Iraq was<br />

named among 34 countries<br />

that will share a $17.1 mille<br />

lion grant from the U.N.<br />

for programs to end viole<br />

lence against women. The<br />

U.N. says the money can<br />

be used to give women<br />

legal and medical access,<br />

provide counseling for<br />

men and women and other<br />

programs.<br />

Even small efforts to<br />

curb domestic violence<br />

short of changing the law<br />

have largely failed, office<br />

cials and experts say.<br />

Last year, the Interior<br />

Ministry opened two<br />

women's protection cente<br />

ters in Baghdad, where<br />

victims can file abuse<br />

complaints with police.<br />

The centers are sponsored<br />

by the State Ministry for<br />

Women's Affairs, which<br />

opened at least one in each<br />

of Iraq's 18 provinces.<br />

Police Col. Mushtaq<br />

Talib, who oversees the<br />

two centers in Baghdad,<br />

said women rarely file<br />

complaints because "they<br />

would end up homeless,<br />

for their families would<br />

surely reject them."<br />

At any one time, Talib<br />

said, the centers deal with<br />

less than a combined 100<br />

cases which were referred<br />

to them from court.<br />

The WHO study found<br />

that 21 percent of Iraqi<br />

women – out of the<br />

country's population of<br />

30,747,000 – reported beie<br />

ing victims of domestic<br />

violence in a survey taken<br />

in 2006 and 2007, the late<br />

est data available.<br />

Talib said the actual<br />

number of domestic abuse<br />

victims likely is far higher.<br />

A 2010 U.N. report conce<br />

cluded that while it's impe<br />

possible to gauge how ofte<br />

ten Iraq women are beaten<br />

by family members since<br />

so few report it, "the proble<br />

lem may be widespread."<br />

In its own study, Iraq's<br />

Human Rights Ministry<br />

found that domestic viole<br />

lence was a factor in the<br />

nationwide increase in<br />

divorce cases, Amin said.<br />

In 2010, 53,840 marre<br />

riages ended in divorce,<br />

compared to 52,649 in<br />

2009 and 28,800 in 1997,<br />

according to the latest<br />

available U.N. and Iraqi<br />

Supreme Judicial Council<br />

data.<br />

In previous generations,<br />

women suffering domeste<br />

tic abuse would stay with<br />

their husbands regardle<br />

less of how bad it got.<br />

But Amin said now Iraqi<br />

women are starting to push<br />

back and ask for a divorce<br />

when they're abused.<br />

These women who are<br />

"better educated, enlighte<br />

ened and aware of their<br />

rights," he said. "They<br />

are ready to sacrifice their<br />

married life for the sake of<br />

preserving their dignity."<br />

But even so, many wome<br />

en prefer to stay in abusive<br />

relationships because the<br />

social stigma of divorce<br />

isn't just embarrassing – it<br />

can put them in danger of<br />

their own families as Jasse<br />

sim's divorce did.<br />

"When divorced women<br />

leave one abusive family,<br />

they fall victims to anothe<br />

er abusive family," said<br />

lawyer Wijdan Khalaf. "In<br />

our society, women have<br />

no options. There is no soce<br />

cial protection."<br />

AP<br />

AP Photo/Hadi Mizban<br />

In this Monday, Oct. 1, 2007 file photo, Iraqi women who have been widowed, wait queue to receive aid in Baghdad, Iraq.

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