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Opposing Counsel: Diana Renteria<br />

by Kelly Henry<br />

Diana Renteria is a <strong>Riverside</strong> attorney who specializes<br />

in family law. She is a solo practitioner whose practice is a<br />

family business; Diana acts as the advocate for her clients in<br />

the emotional and often painful world of family law, while her<br />

husband acts as the firm accountant. Family is very important<br />

to Diana, to the extent that when she gets a prospective<br />

client, who is most typically seeking a divorce, often her first<br />

question is, “Do you really want to go through with this?” All<br />

too often, the answer is “yes.” A particularly uncomfortable<br />

aspect of Diana’s professional life comes after a client has<br />

turned the page on his or her marriage to the point that the<br />

individual has sought the assistance of counsel, when Diana finds out<br />

that her new client’s spouse knew nothing about any plans for divorce.<br />

This, curiously enough, is not an infrequent occurrence. This is also an<br />

example of what lies at the core of a marriage’s failure: a fundamental<br />

lack of communication, characterized by a failure to speak and a failure<br />

to listen.<br />

Diana is a native of <strong>Riverside</strong> <strong>County</strong> and went to high school<br />

at Notre Dame. She obtained her undergraduate degree from the<br />

University of California at <strong>Riverside</strong> and attended law school at Western<br />

State University College of Law in Fullerton.<br />

Diana Renteria<br />

The most important skill Diana<br />

brings to her practice is maintaining<br />

a level of civility with opposing<br />

counsel in order to represent her<br />

client to the best of her ability. This<br />

is another reason why Diana likes<br />

to practice in <strong>Riverside</strong>, as it is a<br />

relatively small legal community<br />

where reputations can be won or<br />

lost based on the tone an attorney<br />

decides to set when working on a<br />

case.<br />

Undoubtedly, the most difficult part of<br />

Diana’s job is seeing the pain that children go<br />

through when the family unit disintegrates.<br />

Many adults who are going through a divorce<br />

develop tunnel vision, and the situation<br />

becomes about inflicting pain or getting one<br />

up on the other spouse. On the other hand,<br />

the most rewarding part of Diana’s career is<br />

helping the children of divorce get through<br />

one of the most difficult periods of their<br />

young lives.<br />

If you ask Diana to represent you in a<br />

family dispute, don’t expect to get a hired<br />

gun. There are plenty of family law attorneys<br />

who will do their level best to make life difficult<br />

for opposing counsel or for their client’s<br />

spouse by generating a blizzard of discovery,<br />

making unreasonable demands and refusing<br />

to negotiate in good faith. Diana is not one<br />

of them. A potential client may ask Diana to<br />

try and make life difficult for the soon-to-beformer<br />

spouse; however, she is usually able to<br />

sit down with the prospective client and help<br />

him or her understand that the benefits of<br />

acting in good faith far outweigh the costs of<br />

fashioning a family separation with a vindictive<br />

posture. Diana firmly believes that her<br />

duty is to pursue her client’s interests in the<br />

most productive, efficient and cost-effective<br />

manner possible, but she attempts to execute<br />

her duty in the most peaceful way possible.<br />

However, when the chips are down and peace<br />

is not possible, Diana will represent her client<br />

vigorously.<br />

28 <strong>Riverside</strong> Lawyer, July/August 2008

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