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Opposing Counsel: Diana Renteria<br />
by Kelly Henry<br />
Diana Renteria is a <strong>Riverside</strong> attorney who specializes<br />
in family law. She is a solo practitioner whose practice is a<br />
family business; Diana acts as the advocate for her clients in<br />
the emotional and often painful world of family law, while her<br />
husband acts as the firm accountant. Family is very important<br />
to Diana, to the extent that when she gets a prospective<br />
client, who is most typically seeking a divorce, often her first<br />
question is, “Do you really want to go through with this?” All<br />
too often, the answer is “yes.” A particularly uncomfortable<br />
aspect of Diana’s professional life comes after a client has<br />
turned the page on his or her marriage to the point that the<br />
individual has sought the assistance of counsel, when Diana finds out<br />
that her new client’s spouse knew nothing about any plans for divorce.<br />
This, curiously enough, is not an infrequent occurrence. This is also an<br />
example of what lies at the core of a marriage’s failure: a fundamental<br />
lack of communication, characterized by a failure to speak and a failure<br />
to listen.<br />
Diana is a native of <strong>Riverside</strong> <strong>County</strong> and went to high school<br />
at Notre Dame. She obtained her undergraduate degree from the<br />
University of California at <strong>Riverside</strong> and attended law school at Western<br />
State University College of Law in Fullerton.<br />
Diana Renteria<br />
The most important skill Diana<br />
brings to her practice is maintaining<br />
a level of civility with opposing<br />
counsel in order to represent her<br />
client to the best of her ability. This<br />
is another reason why Diana likes<br />
to practice in <strong>Riverside</strong>, as it is a<br />
relatively small legal community<br />
where reputations can be won or<br />
lost based on the tone an attorney<br />
decides to set when working on a<br />
case.<br />
Undoubtedly, the most difficult part of<br />
Diana’s job is seeing the pain that children go<br />
through when the family unit disintegrates.<br />
Many adults who are going through a divorce<br />
develop tunnel vision, and the situation<br />
becomes about inflicting pain or getting one<br />
up on the other spouse. On the other hand,<br />
the most rewarding part of Diana’s career is<br />
helping the children of divorce get through<br />
one of the most difficult periods of their<br />
young lives.<br />
If you ask Diana to represent you in a<br />
family dispute, don’t expect to get a hired<br />
gun. There are plenty of family law attorneys<br />
who will do their level best to make life difficult<br />
for opposing counsel or for their client’s<br />
spouse by generating a blizzard of discovery,<br />
making unreasonable demands and refusing<br />
to negotiate in good faith. Diana is not one<br />
of them. A potential client may ask Diana to<br />
try and make life difficult for the soon-to-beformer<br />
spouse; however, she is usually able to<br />
sit down with the prospective client and help<br />
him or her understand that the benefits of<br />
acting in good faith far outweigh the costs of<br />
fashioning a family separation with a vindictive<br />
posture. Diana firmly believes that her<br />
duty is to pursue her client’s interests in the<br />
most productive, efficient and cost-effective<br />
manner possible, but she attempts to execute<br />
her duty in the most peaceful way possible.<br />
However, when the chips are down and peace<br />
is not possible, Diana will represent her client<br />
vigorously.<br />
28 <strong>Riverside</strong> Lawyer, July/August 2008