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of my career or my selfworth with what I actually think about myself. I have tremendous confidence that things will bounce back, that I will bounce back with great successful films. The same people did not think that I will last for even two years in this industry .But I have lasted for over a decade.These are the same people who thought that after five back-to-back hits, I had all the answers and I was hit man Hashmi and I was invincible, but they were wrong even then.So, if they didn’t know that then, then what the hell do they know now? You have no choice but to embrace the sadness and the pain when you go through something like this. The trauma becomes a part of you. The dream that you have built for yourself suddenly crumbles and you realise that it is so fragile. And there is nothing you can do to stop it, so you cope with it and fight and as much as people may think they are your bad and weakest times, you are fighting the highest at such times and there lies the resurrection and it instills in that dream more vigour and vitality and something more emerges. Something else has emerged and it will reflect in my performances over the next few months. And I want to tell my detractors in the industry , there are four phases in any celebrity’s life. The first phase when the world says, `Oh! He has potential.’ The second phase is, `Ah! He has arrived.’ The third phase, `Oh! He’s finished.’ And then comes the fourth phase, ` Ah! He is back.’ So, for the myopic morons, who don’t know anything about inner strength, wait for a couple of months. I will be back. Doesn’t failure make you doubt yourself? Where do you get your confidence from? I do get anxious if I have a flop, but I don’t lose sleep over it. I detach from things and that is true for both, success and failure. I don’t let both define me. It’s a journey , I may pop a champagne bottle for success, but I don’t start feeling cat’s whiskers or that I am invincible.Somewhere down the line, I will give you a bad flop film once in a while. Everyone does that. Even more so in my situation, as I see myself as a risktaker. I have done many films that are unconventional and out-of-thebox niche films.Always remember what Robert De Niro said while getting his lifetime achievement award. He said, `I am accepting this, but this is not the end. A lot more bad films to be made.’ That’s what filmmaking is about. As an actor, you get scripts you like and you take a swing at everything, some Who was your emotional anchor during his treatment period? Family and friends were an immense support, but I grieve alone. I don’t show my emotions and cover it up with external brava do, but there are times when you feel frail. After Ayaan’s incident, I have started praying at night which I never used to. of them turn out as gems, some of them turn out in the crash can. but every film is made with the best intent. Some are successes, but you cannot be bogged down by that. What should we expect from a Mr. X? If It’s not a superhero film. Superheroes are kind of altruistic as in they are selfless, they are the protectors of humanity and very righteous in what they do. This man is not. He is a right cop, who wants to avenge his own revenge to get his parallel justice to get back to the guys who did it to him. Yes, he is a superhero as he has superhero powers of being invincible. Mr .X promises all of that and a great love story in the middle of it. Amyra Dastur’s character is that of an ATS officer and while his ideologies have changed overnight, she still upholds the law and so they are opposite sides of the spectrum and they become enemies, but even being a coldblooded murderer, he feels for her. What is your biggest lesson from Ayaan’s incident? Even in my career, I have fallen and come back, but Ayaan has taught me a lot. I have realised that it is okay to fall. It’s okay to fail. He is very resilient and is fit now. Three months after his recovery , he started going to school and wanted to participate in sports day in a race. He was still weak and frail, had lost his thick crop of hair (which has now returned) and while we didn’t want him to run, he is competitive and was adamant. He participated and the race started. He ran three steps and fell and he got up. He again ran five steps and fell even harder this time. Again he got up and ran and he finished the race. I looked at Parveen and could not help feeling moved, as I could not control my tears. He came last and still went to everyone saying I participated. For me, it was more than any gold medal or first prize. He had given all that he had with all the obstacles he had faced and that was a big learning lesson for me.There is nothing special about me when this child after such a traumatic experience, can get up, complete the race and smile. He actually winked at me when he finished.It was too much for me to handle and I left from there. My wife went and got him. In life, it’s all about hanging in there. However shaken your feet, however much you are bruised, you crawl, hop, but get up and take that first step, that’s what I learnt from him. After every hurdle I have faced, it’s become more clear to me that we need to embrace life with all its tears, screams, the anger, the pain, the shame, because they all demand to be felt. And every time I fall, I have promised myself that however shaky my feet, I will get up. It’s only after a disaster that you are resurrected. MAY <strong>2015</strong> | WWW.CINESPRINT.COM 25
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