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<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

Queenith is the eldest of four siblings from her<br />

mother and father; also living with them is a<br />

half brother by their father and another<br />

woman. (A very common occurrence). About<br />

two years ago their father and mother divorced.<br />

Reputedly the father is a “drunkard” as is the<br />

local terminology. He left at the time of the<br />

split. The mother remained a scarce few months<br />

more, but also ultimately abandoned the<br />

children. As the story unfolded, I asked<br />

Queenith “Are you safe? Do you need burglar<br />

bars on your windows?” Eyes shamefully to the<br />

ground, she responded, “You must see where I<br />

am living. I need no bars, as I have no door.”<br />

We adjusted our day’s plans so that we could<br />

travel with Queenith to where the five children<br />

have been living to see for ourselves. The<br />

reality was worse than we epected; Queenith<br />

parents her four younger sibling while living in<br />

a rude shack. The building is part of the<br />

paternal homestead. This in itself this is a<br />

problem as evidently this man is trouble, as<br />

even his own mother reported, so the children<br />

fear even for what little they have. The shack<br />

is 15’ by 15’ made of mud and stick, with an old<br />

piece of corrugated iron for the roof. The walls<br />

were made just from native mud, no cement.<br />

These walls only last in the rains for 5-10 years.<br />

This dwelling was in a late stage of decay. The<br />

walls no longer reached the iron roof and indeed<br />

what was a plain slab of a wood door hung only<br />

by a single nail. The children were completely<br />

exposed to the elements, whatever they may<br />

own or indeed their own bodies were open and<br />

available to any predators, human or animal.<br />

The adjacent cook shack was unusable with<br />

walls fallen in and a grass roof so old that a live<br />

flame would surely burn the remaining poles to<br />

the ground. The inside of the “sleeping space”<br />

was a shambles. It was the worst any of us,<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong>’s included, had ever seen. There was not<br />

a dry eye among the vistors as we surveyed<br />

where five of our brightest students were trying<br />

to survive. Their only reliable food source was<br />

the feeding program that <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> provided<br />

at Matjana and that served through World Food<br />

Program at the secondary school.<br />

Inside the main sleeping space was an old bed<br />

with absolutely filthy bedding of some<br />

description. None of us would let our dogs sleep<br />

on things in this condition. Three used the small<br />

bed and two were on discarded grain sacks on the<br />

floor. Queenith, as the eldest would put the kids<br />

to bed. If she had a candle, she told us she would<br />

sleep until 2 am and then awaken and study by<br />

candlelight, sleeping again an hour or so before<br />

first light. She was in position 1 in her class<br />

three years ago and she is ashamed to say that<br />

her grades have dropped her to position 5 out of a<br />

class of 40. (I pause here for effect….) Clearly<br />

the girl is brilliant, but can you just imagine….<br />

No you can’t, don’t try. See the photos.<br />

Queenith in the building she and her four siblings use as<br />

a home (above and right). Photos: K. Burgess.<br />

The story does go on, but in the interests of a<br />

newsletter, here is what we are planning. The<br />

Wheeler Foundation has stepped up and offered<br />

to build them a home. A builder has been up, and<br />

now local council must be involved, as we are<br />

going to move the children from the paternal<br />

homestead lands, as rebuilding there may<br />

encourage the return of the father and the<br />

potential for them to be chased from their own<br />

new home is high. We will pay the local chief with<br />

a cow for land of their own. According to law, this<br />

land will belong to the eldest brother, Wandile,<br />

who is an even stronger student than Queenith,<br />

although shockingly stunted in his growth, he is<br />

about the same height as our daughter Thula who<br />

is eight years old. He is 16!<br />

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Queenith (above) and with the <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> visitors<br />

(right). Photos: K. Burgess.<br />

We will build them a modest 2-bedroom cinder<br />

block home, fence it and add a small chicken run.<br />

The community, we hope, will come together and<br />

erect for them a cook shack. We are looking for<br />

donors who would like to add to their usual<br />

annual giving, over and above to help out the<br />

children of the Mbobane family. We need only<br />

about $1,500 more than what Wheelers have<br />

offered for the main structure. This would buy the<br />

cow in exchange for the land ($500) the chicken<br />

run ($150) the chickens $10 each (need 6) we also<br />

need another solar light $80 (charges their cell<br />

phones and can be a small source of income) $300<br />

for gutters and large barrels into which to collect<br />

rain water, $50 for a gas stove.<br />

We have already stocked them with new<br />

mattresses and some clean bedding, if it does not<br />

get stolen in the interim.<br />

We also seek a sponsor ($200) for the sister,<br />

Lindelwa who is in Grade 5. We intend to<br />

provide them with a monthly food, travel and<br />

toiletries allowance of about $80/month also, if<br />

anyone feels called to provide a month or more.<br />

What we hope to do is really the least that we<br />

would want for anyone, a safe home so that<br />

Queenith and her siblings can devote their<br />

energies towards school rather than simply to<br />

their survival.


<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

March <strong>2015</strong> Trip to Build Community Center #3<br />

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In March of this year, ten Canadians (plus<br />

three Americans and one Nicaraguan)<br />

traveled to <strong>Swazi</strong>land for another community<br />

center build for the women of Gone Rural,<br />

this one in the Edlangwene region. As<br />

reported in the 2014 newsletter, these<br />

buildings are erected in partnership with<br />

Gone Rural boMake to become economic,<br />

cultural and social centers for communities.<br />

Gone Rural is a women’s cooperative that<br />

coordinates and markets woven goods highend<br />

table ware, pounded metal artifacts and ceramics<br />

from 16 groups of working women. These<br />

products are sold across the world, providing<br />

much needed employment and income in<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong>land. This was our third community<br />

center, and we have found that these<br />

buildings have a significant role beyond being<br />

a workplace for Gone Rural<br />

(www.goneruralswazi.com).<br />

They are used firstly for the women working<br />

within the Gone Rural<br />

model, they train,<br />

work, transact and<br />

socialize in the spaces.<br />

Additionally, they are<br />

meeting places for<br />

other education offered<br />

by NGO’s in the<br />

country, such as our<br />

WORTH program, HIV<br />

education, any new<br />

law changes, women’s<br />

rights and for<br />

weddings. Indeed the<br />

only event not allowed<br />

in them is funerals.<br />

In the <strong>2015</strong> trip, the<br />

volunteer group was<br />

taught by a local “ecobuilding-design”<br />

group<br />

the local technique and<br />

merits of using native soil and cement to<br />

create a brick that lasts lifetime. Then it<br />

was up the Tea Road again working on the<br />

foundation of community center #3. As we<br />

have emphasized over the past few years,<br />

these structures are proving to be of<br />

incredible value in so many ways for our<br />

families and their communities.<br />

Gone Rural women at the community center<br />

construction site in Edlangwene. Photo: K. Burgess.<br />

Gone Rural women in Edlangwene. Photo: K. Burgess.


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<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> Sponsors Travel Reflections<br />

We asked some of the participants on the <strong>2015</strong> trip to share their thoughts with us on their<br />

experience. Here’s what they said:<br />

The trip to <strong>Swazi</strong>land is easily the most<br />

worthwhile adventure that I've ever been<br />

a part of. Working side by side the<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> women and seeing their standard<br />

of living, but also their spirit was eye<br />

opening and uplifting. We had a really<br />

great group of people and I will always<br />

be grateful that I had this opportunity.<br />

Thanks for including my sister and me<br />

this year and good luck to you in the<br />

future!<br />

Bob Brown<br />

The thoughts that stick with me most:<br />

For a suppressed female society, I've<br />

been amazed at the women's strength.<br />

Emotionally, and physically strong women<br />

who have taken the steps with help, to<br />

rise above poverty for themselves, and for<br />

their children. <strong>Swazi</strong> kids and Gone Rural<br />

has provided the women a means to help<br />

themselves. Their dignity remains intact as<br />

their work provides them with a self worth<br />

that is indispensable. These are women<br />

like you and me, with hopes and dreams,<br />

willing to work for it.<br />

They just needed a direction, and <strong>Swazi</strong><br />

kids and Gone Rural has provided that for<br />

them.<br />

Thanks for the opportunity to join your<br />

group,<br />

Carol Morrissette<br />

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<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

A Word from Zethu<br />

As reported in the 2014 newsletter, Zethu Shabangu has been attending Brentwood College on<br />

Vancouver Island since September on a <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> scholarship. She will complete her high<br />

school diploma in 2016. Here is a letter describing her experience in Canada.<br />

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First Experience at Brentwood<br />

Being at Brentwood is a great privilege to me and even to<br />

my family. There is a lot I learn each and every day,<br />

physically and emotionally. It is hard to be away from<br />

home, friends and family but Brentwood helped me to<br />

withstand and overcome each and every circumstance<br />

that might bring any destruction on my mission. I<br />

remember my first term wasn’t easy at all: coming<br />

from a developing country with limited knowledge was<br />

the only thing that made my first term difficult. The<br />

use of technology on each class was completely knew<br />

and the teaching style too but I never gave up, instead<br />

I told myself that I can do it, because I believe that<br />

once you have a positive attitude you won’t regret.<br />

With the help of the faculty, students, Mr. and Mrs.<br />

Patel, the Johnston family and not forgetting Pam and<br />

her family, I gained strength and eager to do better<br />

than I think. I don’t remember myself crying or being<br />

homesick while in Brentwood, but all I find is joy,<br />

peace and happiness around me. That’s why even today<br />

I’m able to do well in my classes. It is indeed hard to<br />

believe all the transitions that I came across in order<br />

to adapt to Brentwood and even to Canada. I appreciate<br />

the love I get from each and everyone especially the<br />

Carlson’s family who never let me down and are always<br />

there and ready for whatever I need. I’m sure my<br />

results will be a reference as to prove how<br />

comfortable I am to be in Brentwood.<br />

- Zethu<br />

Zethu’s family with<br />

Bruce Carlson in<br />

Marsh <strong>2015</strong> (above),<br />

and Zethu and Thula<br />

on the slopes near<br />

Kelowna this past<br />

winter. (Photos by K.<br />

Burgess, P. Carlson)


<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

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PLANS FOR 2016: BRENTWOOD COLLEGE<br />

TO BUILD A SECONDARY SCHOOL<br />

On the strength of Zethu’s success and a<br />

developing relationship with <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>,<br />

Brentwood College School has decided to take a<br />

group of 16 service oriented senior students to<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong>land in 2016. Pam has been shown a build<br />

location for a needed secondary school.<br />

This school is to be in a small community, in a dry<br />

and very poor region, adjacent to one of the<br />

country’s largest big game conservation parks.<br />

Mkhaya houses a “secret number” of the most<br />

endangered species of rhino in the world. The<br />

park manager, Mick Reilly, with whom we have<br />

done several projects and, indeed, have become<br />

friends, is having ongoing problems with the<br />

members of this community poaching animals<br />

from his park. Mick was approached for help with<br />

the fundraising for this project. He has asked<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> if we could come to his aid. So you<br />

see, this project will have at least a three-fold<br />

impact. The local students and community get a<br />

school. The Brentwood students will raise funds<br />

for a school and then physically do the labour.<br />

AND Mick feels this will go some way towards<br />

gaining the allegiance of the local community with<br />

Pam, local community leaders, the local MP and Mick<br />

Reilly (of Big Game Parks) discussing plans for the new<br />

secondary school construction. Photo: K. Burgess.<br />

the benefit of improved relations with Mkyaha and<br />

the black rhinos.<br />

The animals are worth more to them alive, then<br />

poached. We are excited about this two-year<br />

project. Phase I, which we have already agreed to<br />

fund in ‘15, is a 3 room block composed of 1 office<br />

and 2 school rooms. Phase II will be funded and<br />

constructed by the group for Brentwood in ’16.<br />

Anyone interested in helping us to build a school<br />

(our first!) is welcome to direct their donations<br />

accordingly.<br />

Student Support Program<br />

In 2014, <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> raised $115,000, allowing<br />

us to support 42 elementary school students,<br />

40 high school students, and 14 post secondary<br />

students. We saw 6 high school graduates in<br />

2014, maintained school food programs and<br />

built one community center.<br />

50<br />

40<br />

30<br />

20<br />

10<br />

0<br />

Elementary<br />

Secondary<br />

Post-Secondary<br />

High School Grads<br />

Pam in her<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> office in<br />

March <strong>2015</strong>.<br />

Photo: K.<br />

Burgess.


<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> <strong>2015</strong><br />

Student Updates<br />

In the interests of not having this letter become a book, I<br />

will summarize our students this year. In a word, everyone<br />

is AWESOME! I am humbled by the progress of these<br />

young people. Our junior school kids, at Matjana, are<br />

getting fed, uniformed, guided and educated. They all are<br />

graduating into the local high schools. With few exceptions<br />

(and there always are a few) our high school kids are<br />

completing. The education system is tough enough that not<br />

all graduate with grades strong enough for post secondary<br />

education, this is a <strong>Swazi</strong>-wide reality, but plenty do. And a<br />

few choice ones are stars. We have three students this year,<br />

waiting to hear about government scholarships.<br />

Our post-secondary students, this year number ten. We<br />

had four young adults complete and graduate from their<br />

courses in 2014. I am thrilled to report that 3 of them are<br />

well employed and the 4 th continues his job search. At this<br />

point, Joseph and I support them with professional skills<br />

development including resume writing, interview skills, a<br />

contacts list, help this personal presentation and dress, etc.<br />

I am confident that all will be earning an income within<br />

this year.<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> student Qondile. Photo: K. Burgess.<br />

Phindile<br />

She has now completed all 4 years of her nursing plus a diploma in midwifery. She is a full time nurse<br />

at the Good Shepherd Hospital in Siteki. She is renting a lovely apartment and living on her own. She<br />

has begun to invest in a pension and is dating a lovely young man! Who could ask for anything more? I<br />

love this girl for who she is and for how she has set the bar high for our other students to follow. She<br />

has never veered off her course.<br />

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An Update on Joseph<br />

Joe works for <strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong>, is a father of 3, a<br />

devoted husband, a full time teacher and the<br />

pastor at his own church. On TOP of that!!<br />

(pause for affect) during the last 3 years, Joe<br />

has completed his Masters Degree in Public<br />

Health through an American University,<br />

online. Joe, you amaze me! I note he now<br />

seems to have quite a few colds and flus so the<br />

rigours of the past few years are catching up to<br />

him. He is working on switching careers from<br />

teaching to this work with NGO’s in the<br />

country. This would more than double his<br />

annual salary, be very interesting work for<br />

him and vastly broaden his horizons. Thank<br />

you John and Susie McIntyre for supporting<br />

Joe through his education!<br />

At the government half-way house in Manzini. Photo: K. Burgess.


<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong>. Editors: A. Martindale & P. Carlson <strong>2015</strong><br />

Reach Out<br />

Our ongoing efforts to improve the lives of children<br />

in <strong>Swazi</strong>land require significant funds. We thank all<br />

of you who so generously donate to our projects.<br />

Donations to specific projects are welcomed:<br />

- Secondary School Construction Project<br />

- Elementary Student ($200/year)<br />

- High School Student ($500/year)<br />

- School Uniform ($75)<br />

- School Shoes ($35)<br />

- Playground Structure ($5,000)<br />

- Community Centre ($15,000)<br />

Send a cheque/e-transfer (preferable as there are<br />

no transaction costs to the charity) payable to<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> or visit www.swazikids.org to donate<br />

online via PayPal.<br />

swazikids@shaw.ca<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> photographer and<br />

long time sponsor, Karin<br />

Burgess. (Photo: P. Carlson)<br />

<strong>Swazi</strong> <strong>Kids</strong> Society<br />

4415 Swaizland Rd., Kelowna BC V1W 2X2<br />

Canada

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