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vermont bride FALL 2009 

Vermont Bride 

Fall 2009 ~ Contents 

Features 

8 Behind the Scenes with Moon Studio Day Spa 

By Ashley Loven 

15 Dreaming at the Sunset Ballroom 

16 Making Vermont Famous for Wine - Boyden Winery 

18 To Use or Not to Use a Professional Wedding Photographer 

By Orah Moore 

20 Love Story: Rebekah (Savard) & Brady Callahan 

28 Tourterelle (Turtledove) Inn & Restaurant 

by Tina Barry 

30 Bouquet Jewels: Sparkle of Elegance 

By Pat Esden 

34 Dashing Boutonnieres 

By Karen Sturtevant 

38 Top 10 Reasons to Hire a Wedding Coordinator 

By Kimberly Messier 

40 Traditions – Tasteful or Tacky? 

by Lauri Boyden 

47 Cover Bride Love Story: Jen (Sawrenko) & Matt Gellis 

55 Right Body – Right Dress 


60 Spa Corner - (un) Tie the Knots 

by Sara Daly 

66 A Commentary 


67 Equinox Resort Luxury Resort Spa in Manchester, Vermont 

Regular Features 

10 Inside Vermont Bride - Staff Notes 

12 Photographer Showcase 

22 Quick Quips and Helpful Tips 

45 Engagement Announcements 

54 Vermont Bride Discussion Forum 

64 Signs of the Zodiac for Fall 

69 Wedding Word Scramble 

Member of 

70 Fall Happenings: Oct/Nov/Dec 

71 Bridal Resource Guide 

74 Accommodations at a Glance 

75 More Quick Quips and Helpful Tips 

76 Vermont Bride Advertiser Showcase 

78 Your Wedding Your Way 

Real Vermont Brides, Real Vermont Love Stories

Behind the Scenes with 

She’s stunning. The gown, the hair, the make-up 

– what a glow! Somewhere inbetween the nail 

biting bundle of nerves she was the day before 

and walking down the aisle, she has undergone 

a Cinderella-like transformation to the vision of 

beauty every bride becomes. 

So how did that happen? 

Moon Studio Day Spa By 

Here at Moon Studio we are the fairy godmothers holding 

wands. It is our personal mission to make sure, to the best of 

our abilities, that all your wedding day dreams come true. Part 

of how we do that is by being up-to-date on the latest up-do 

and bridal make-up classes. 

This is how the story begins…We like to have all our brides 

come in a few weeks ahead of time for what we call a “pre-do.” 

The last thing a bride needs to worry about on her wedding 

Photography compliments of Moon 

Studio Day Spa 

day is hair and make-up, so we actually perform a run-thru of 

what she’d like to see on the big day… a “pre-do.” This takes away 

any question of whether a style suits a bride or if she has enough 

hair for the style she wants. Thanks to the addition of a full wig 

room here at Moon Studio, if a bride finds her hair is not long 

enough or thick enough for her dream “do” we now offer both 

long term and temporary extensions. Maybe she wants a few 

highlights or lowlights in her hair only on “the big day.” 

We can do that almost as easily as a wave of our 

wand. 

If our bride wants something a little more permanent, we also 

offer a full range of color services. You will find us happy to get 

you ready for your big day by painting sun-kissed highlights or 

adding radiant shine to your existing hue with a glaze. There 

is no end to what we can do. Have you ever had your eyebrows 

sculpted or your eyelashes tinted? We recommend it to all our 

brides as a way to ensure your wedding photos are flawless. 

Sometimes the bride’s wedding story includes some pampering. 

That’s why many of our wedding packages include champagne 

and chocolate. A little relaxation: that’s what every hardworking 

Cinderella could use. One of the most popular services prewedding 

is our signature Spa Pedicure: trimming and filing of 

the toenails, pushing and nipping of the extra cuticle, removal of 

calluses, a relaxing massage of feet and legs, a warm hydrating 

paraffin mask, and of course, painting. For the bride that needs 

Ashley Loven 

a little extra de-stressing we also offer such indulgent services as full 

body massage or facials. Of course, we won’t forget the hardworking 

maid of honor or groom! Moon Studio has special packages just for 

them. 

Before you know it the “big day” has arrived. As the bride and her 

attendants settle in with some coffee, tea, or even cocoa, her photographer 

is snapping a few pictures. Then comes our favorite part: 

hearing about the bridesmaids’ dresses, how the rehearsal dinner 

went, and all the other little details that bring us back to our own 

special day. When every hair is in place and everyone is happy, we 

snap a few pictures of our finished artwork and send them on their 

way. Just in case, we also offer a private dressing room for the bride 

whose limo meets her here. And that is just the beginning of the 

whole story, a perfect start to a perfect day. Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo! 

The team at Moon Studio has many years of experience creating 

fairytale endings. To see a full list of what we offer, and see some 

examples of our work look us up on Facebook or visit us at www. 

moonstudiodayspa.com. 

Real Vermont Brides, Real Vermont Love Stories www.vermontbridemagazine.com 

vermont bride FALL 2009 9

Inside Vermont Bride: Staff Notes 

Vermont is alive with the splendor of autumn’s greatest 

display of yellows, oranges, and reds. From the mountains 

ablaze with vibrant color to the cool nights, we are fortunate to have a 

front row seat to Mother Nature’s most spectacular show! Almost as 

impressive as the native maples, is this issue of Vermont Bride Magazine. 

Do you know the difference between a Swedish-style and a deep tissue 

massage? Sara Daly does; she is an expert at Untying Knots. Read 

about the massage that is best for you and your dashing groom in Spa 

Corner on page 62. And, speaking of dashing, Karen Sturtevant tells us 

that boutonnieres need not be boring, but splashy, classy, and cool in 

her article Dashing Boutonnieres. Pat Esden offers ideas for adding 

A Sparkle of Elegance with Bouquet Jewels and Laurie 

Boyden does her research to share Traditions. You decide 

whether the tried and true are tasteful or tacky. 

Acclaimed photographer Orah Moore offers views 

on choosing a wedding photographer and if 

you’re considering hiring a wedding coordinator, 

check out Kimberly Messier’s top 

10 reasons to do just that beginning 

on page 38. 

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Photo by Larry Asam Photography 

Love is in the air, the crisp 

autumn air, with Love Stories from 

local brides (in their own words). Thank 

you to all who have e-mailed us with your 

Questions for our experts. We’ve received an 

overwhelming response and are happy to share a 

few in Discussion Form. Keep those questions coming! 

One request we are honoring and introducing is Engagement 

Announcements! We want to make you a star and announce 

your engagement to the world. See submission information on page 

45, or visit online at www.vermontbridemagazine.com 

In the mood for something different for dinner? How about a little “Country 

French cooking with an American Twist?” Christine and Bill Snell 

invite you to Tourterelle. Formally Roland’s Place, the venue has been 

refurbished to reflect a romantic theme and serene atmosphere for use as 

an inn and wedding setting. Table for two? 

When you think of Vermont, wine usually 

doesn’t come to mind, until now. If you are 

familiar with the Lamoille Valley, you know that 

the Boyden Valley Winery puts Vermont on the map as serious wine 

connoisseur territory. Have you tried their Vermont Ice? A tasteful wedding 

favor. Read more beginning on page 16. 

Michael Caldwell ends the suspense of Alex and Susanna with the 

conclusion of Happily Ever After and making brides happy is what we’re 

all about with Right Body – Right Dress. Yes, there really are perfect 

dresses for non-perfect bodies. Find your just right fit on page 55. 

Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Capricorn rule the heavens in Zodiac: 

Fact, Fiction, or Fun? Here’s one sure fact: The newly 

renovated Sunset Ballroom, constructed of 80 

percent glass with vaulted ceilings, is prepared to 

host your celebration in style! Enjoy views 

of the Adirondacks, Lake Champlain, 

and magnificent sunsets. See the 

details on page 15. 

Keep an eye out for Quick Quips 

and Helpful Tips. The teams at Moon 

Studio Day Spa are professionals with 

tips to make you glow, relax, and look and feel 

your most luxurious on your special day (page 8). 

Discover what delectable treatments they offer with 

Behind the Scenes by Ashley Loven. The Equinox (page 

67) knows a thing or two about luxury with their variety of 

splendid and photogenic venues for ceremonies and receptions. 

A true experience in distinctive offerings and supreme accommodations, 

you owe it to yourself to get acquainted with this historical 

and distinguished resort and spa. Storybook weddings look like this. 

Start a glowing flame in the fireplace, cocoon with your honey and 

favorite quilt and put your wits to the test with Wedding Word Scramble 

(page 69). Get to know our Love Story couples during hot cider refills and 

enjoy the fall issue of Vermont Bride Magazine. 

Enjoy! 

Come Visit Us Online at 

www.vermontbridemagazine.com 

Real Vermont Brides, Real Vermont Love Stories 




Wedding Album 

Ayer Photography of Vermont 

www.ayerphoto.com 

Balentine Photography 

www.balentinephotography.com 

Christian Arthur Photography 

christianarthurphotography.com 

Great Impressions Portrait Studio 

www.greatpix.us 

North Country Photography 

www.northcountryphotography.com 

Polis Photography 

www.polisfoto.com 

Jeff Schneiderman 

Photography 

www.jeffschneiderman.com 

Kim Martin Photography 

kimmartinphoto.com 

Orah Moore Photography 

orahmoore.net or haymakerpress. 

com 

RaidenShine Photography, LLC 

www.raidenshine.com 

Synchronicity Photography 

www.synchronicityphotography.net 

The Portrait Gallery 

www.portraitgallery-vt.com 

Whipple Photography 

donwhipplephotography.com 

Mager Studios 

magerstudios.com 

Larry Asam Photography 

www.lasamphoto.com 

Olga McVey Photography, LLC 

mcveyweddingphotography.com 

Stina Plant Photography 

stinaplant.com 

Apache Blessing 

Author Unknown 

May the sun bring you 

new energy by day, 

May the moon softly 

restore you by night, 

May the rain wash away 

your worries 

And the breeze blow new 

strength into your 

being, 

And all the days of your 

life may you walk 

Gently through the world 

and know its beauty. 

Two souls with but a 

single thought, 

Two hearts that beat as 

one. 

- Franz Joseph von 

Munch-Bellinghausen

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Dreaming at the Sunset Ballroom 

When you think of the perfect setting for your wedding reception, what do you picture in your mind? 

• Perhaps a stunning view of the beautiful Lake 

Champlain with the Adirondack Mountains 

in the backdrop? 

• Do you envision a breathtaking sunset 

on the horizon while you and 

your guests enjoy your reception 

on the outdoor attached terrace? 

• Would you be pushing your luck 

to want all of this at reasonable 

rates and stress-free planning? 

If you are dreaming all of this then 

you are imagining the Sunset Ballroom, 

located on Route 7 in South Burlington. 

Recently expanded and renovated, the 

Sunset Ballroom boasts the most unique 

venue in the state! With over 80 percent 

glass and windows, the ballroom is so much 

more than 4 walls. With all the amenities the 


Sunset Ballroom has to offer, a site visit is a must before you 

decide on your reception location. 

As your host, Waterfront Catering Group 

specializes in wedding planning. Our “one stop 

shopping” approach will make you feel at ease 

as we help you plan the most important day 

of your life. We offer all-inclusive menu 

packages complete with centerpieces, table 

linens, and a wide variety of color choices 

for napkins. With the ballroom being able 

to accommodate 325 people, and everything 

it has to offer, it is easy to see why the 

secret is out. When the reception is over, 

the happy couple can enjoy a complimentary 

honeymoon suite at the Comfort Suites. 

For more information please call Gary at 802- 

658-3663 or visit us at www.vermontspecialoccasions.com. 


Making Vermont 

Famous For Wine 

Part of a working fifth-generation family farm in the pastoral Lamoille 

River Valley of Vermont, Boyden Valley Winery uses the finest local apples, 

fruits, and our own grapes and estate maple syrup to produce our 

premium wines. Wines range from “Big Barn Red” (a bold red), elegant 

whites, and our “Vermont Ice” which is part of Vermont’s premier line 

of Ice Wines. 

Located in a restored 1825 carriage barn 

at the intersection of Routes 15 and 104 in 

Cambridge, Vermont, Boyden Valley Winery is 

steeped in the culture and agricultural heritage 

of Vermont’s Green Mountains. David Boyden’s 

dream came to life when he opened the winery 

in 1996 after studying in France, Germany, and 

Quebec. The winery currently produces 4,000 to 

5,000 cases of wine a year, distributed across the 

state of Vermont, and can be found at farmers’ 

markets, local shops, grocery stores, and many high-end local restaurants. 

The wine can also be purchased at our showroom where 

thousands of tourists visit yearly to experience David’s passion for 

wine making. Visitors sample wine, take tours, and enjoy cheese 

plates on the terrace that overlooks one of the vineyards. 

It was as a visitor that Linda (Rondeau) met David. On a trip to 

Stowe from Montreal, Linda stopped to ask for directions when she 

saw lights on in the barn - the rest is history. After dating for almost 

two years they were married in the summer of 1999. Their wedding 

and reception were held on the family farm. Their honeymoon? 

They spent a romantic three weeks on a wine tour in 

France, of course! 

In 2007, Boyden Valley Winery introduced 

their premier wine label: “Vermont Ice.” 

This wine is made from cold frost harvested 

grapes and apples. The Vermont 

Ice lineup consists of three different 

products: Vermont Ice, Vermont Ice 

Red, and Vermont Ice Cider. Vermont 

Ice, made from the Le Crescent grape, 

displays a unique balance of acidity with 

undertones of apricot, green apple, and 

pear. Vermont Ice Red made from the 

Frontenac grape, displays a lively acid- 

ity with concentrated jam flavors of blackberry, 

plum, and hints of oak. The newest addition to 

the premier Ice line is Vermont Ice Cider, made 

from Macintosh, Northern Spy, and Empire 

apples. Barrel-aged, this wine features hints of 

oak and a fantastic concentrated apple flavor. 

The Ice Wines are limited editions and are produced 

in batches of only 300 per year. Vermont 

Ice Wines make unique and special gifts for any 

special occasion! 

The newest innovation from the winery is a 50 ml Vermont Ice 

packaged in an elegant and affordable gift 

tube. Add to gift baskets for your out of 

town visitors, display on your reception 

table as your Vermont- made wedding favor, 

or treat your bridal party to a real taste of 

Vermont! A gift that your family and friends 

are sure to appreciate and remember. 

Boyden Valley Wines are a great addition to 

your reception or rehearsal dinner. We offer 

a wide variety of white and red 

wines along with exquisite 

dessert wines that would 

compliment any wedding cake or dessert. 

Visit Boyden Valley Winery online at www.boydenvalley.com, 

Facebook, and Twitter. The winery is 

open daily May- December and Fri-Sun Dec - April, 

10:00 A.M - 5 P.M for wine tasting, and tours are 

offered daily at 11:30 A.M. and 1 P.M. For wholesale 

costing and bulk orders, please contact Mary Ingrisano 

at 802-644-8151. 

We hope to see you at the winery. Cheers!

To Use 

or 

Not To Use 

a professional 

Wedding 

Photographer 

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By Orah Moore 

j 

M 

ost everyone has a camera and loves 

taking photos of family and friends. But is 

everyone a great wedding photographer? 

Is it the right place to cut the wedding budget 

by using friends and relatives to cover a 

very special time in your life? 

I have been making a living behind a camera for 

over 30 years and specifically shooting weddings 

for over 20 of those years. My under grad 

and graduate degrees are in the field of fine art 

photography. So I have placed a high premium 

on seeing and creating artistic photos. Digital 

image making has introduced the need for a large 

degree of technical knowledge. Blending the art 

and the science is now an imperative. 

If you are considering having a friend or family 

member act as your photographer, ask some key 

questions: 

• Are there backup systems for their computer 

and camera equipment? 

• Will the photos be raw or just .jpeg and 

why? 

• Is the person adept at Photoshop and 

file management? 

• What kinds of finish albums and coffee 

table books are offered or will the photographer 

just shoot and “burn?” 

• Is there a specific list of photographs 

that will be taken? 

• What is the experience level? 

• Can references be provided? 

Not to say that a trusted friend or relative 

wouldn’t present final photos that are tasteful 

and suitable. But keep in mind, professional 

photographers have knowledge and experience 

that even the most well-meaning and kind-hearted 

best friend can’t match. 

Another area that may be harder to discern, but 

really worth exploring is: Does the person you 

hire to photograph your wedding have the right 

balance between taking charge when needed, say 

for group shots, or more intimate shots of just 

the bride and groom together, and then blending 


Photo by Orah Moore Photography 

into the background for more photojournalistic style shots. 

No one wants to have the photographer take over your party, 

but I have heard stories about just such a thing. 

Ask to see examples of a photographer’s work. Most 

reputable photographers will have a website. Make sure you 

see lots of photos. A site with just 30-40 of their best shots 

won’t tell the whole story. When possible visit their studio or 

home to see more work. 

Much of picking the right photographer is based on 

trust. You trust them to do a good job. Base that trust 

on your research and you will find the right match. 

A listing of professional wedding photographers can be 

found at Vermont Bride’s Wedding Directory at www. 

VermontBrideMagazine.com. 


Orah Moore shoots weddings, 

portraits, pets, maternity, and 

newborns from her studio in 

Morrisville, Vermont. 

Visit her website at 

www.orahmoore.net or 

www.haymakerpress.com 


Rebekah 

Savard Savard 

& 

Brady 

Callahan 

Held at the beautiful Sunset Ballroom in South Burlington, VT 

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Our Love Story 

May 15, 2009 

HOW WE MET: 

Even though Brady and I both attended the same youth group 

every Sunday night, we didn’t notice each other until 

two years later! One night at a youth retreat 

Brady approached me and introduced himself 

– from then on we were best friends. 

Throughout high school we were inseparable. 

I attended every one of his 

basketball games at Burlington High 

School and even though we both 

knew how we felt about the 

other, we didn’t want to pursue 

those feelings until we knew 

it was God’s timing. Entering 

into Brady’s senior year we 

began to date one evening after 

we prayed together and felt the 

timing couldn’t be better. The 

following year Brady went off to 

college in TN where both our 

worlds felt like they were falling 

apart, yet we held true to the 

promise of God. We toughed 

it out and although it was the 

hardest time of our lives, God 

remained faithful. To this day 

Brady recalls that one night 

at the youth retreat when he 

approached me and telling God 

“One day I will marry that girl.” 

OUR ENGAGEMENT: 

December 14th, 2008 will 

always be engraved in my 

memory as one of the happiest 

days of our lives. Brady was 

coming home for Christmas 

break and to me it was just 

another short vacation. I’d 

have to soak up as much of him 

as possible; to him it was the 

first day of the rest of our lives 

together. Brady and his parents, 

William and Mia Callahan, were 


planning to take us to see my favorite 

basketball team, the Boston Celtics, later 

that evening. Brady thought it would be 

the perfect opportunity to sweep me off 

my feet! I told him to come over that 

morning and I could cook him breakfast 

so that we were fed and ready to go to the 

game. When he arrived at my parents, 

Bernard and Kimberly Valley’s house, he 

was acting a bit strange. I ignored the 

thought and continued making pancakes, 

scrambled eggs, and toast. After breakfast 

we were getting ready to leave when he sat 

me down on my bed and got down on one 

knee. He then said, “Rebekah, you are my 

best friend and I want to spend the rest 

of my life with you. Bek, will you marry 

me?” To this day Brady claims I just stared 

at him for five minutes in shock, but I 

remember looking into his eyes and saying 

“YES!” 

x He then said, 

“Rebekah, you are 

my best friend and 

I want to spend the 

rest of my life with 

you. Bek, will you 

marry me?” 


continued on the next page 

Larry Asam 

Photography 

Blending Beauty, Spontaneity 

&Tradition for 20 years... 

802-244-7954 

Larry@Lasamphoto.com 

www.Lasamphoto.com 


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Quick Quips and Helpful Tips 

From Vermont Bride Magazine 

• Make your own wedding favors with flower bags 

filled with tulip, lily, dahlia, muscari, and gladiolus 

bulbs. A wonderful reminder of your love and commitment 

for your guests. 

• Consider hiring a Wedding Consultant. 

• Reserve venues early! 

• Final dress fitting should be done 1 week prior to 

the wedding. 

• Avoid cash-only brokers. Be aware of scammers. 

• Buy and book local whenever possible: jewelry, 

flowers, formal ware, accessories, transportation, 

catering services, favors, entertainment, 

photographers. 

• Know the 4 C’s of diamonds: carat, clarity, color, 

and cut and how the 5th C, cost relates to your 

diamond. 

• The anticipation is often the worst part of anything: 

aisle walk, speech, vows, 1st dance, being 

the center of attention. Once you get started, the 

stress seems to lose its power. 

• Saturdays are the most expensive day for weddings! 

• If you’re applying your own make-up, practice, 

practice, practice, long before the wedding day to 

achieve your perfect look. Enlist the help of your 

bridal party. 

• Double-duty flowers: Flowers used at the 

ceremony can be used again at the reception. 

Bouquets can be placed in vases or glasses to 

line the head table. Baskets, swags, arbors, and 

wreaths can be used to adorn doors and tables. 

• Is the flower girl very young or shy about walking 

the aisle by herself? Consider partnering her with 

the ring bearer or a bridesmaid. 

• Engraving has come a long way; consider special 

words or symbols in lieu of the traditional date on 

the inside of those shiny wedding rings. 

• Average cost of a wedding in 2008: $21,814.00. 

• Register for gifts at least 6 months prior to the 

wedding. 

• Extra fabric from the dress? Keep it to make a 

purse, garter, or hairpiece. 

• Extra beads from the dress? Ask your florist to 

string them and weave throughout the flowers 

in your bouquet. This adds elegance and shine. 

Feature a few in the groom’s boutonnière. 


Love Story: Rebekah (Savard) and 

Brady Callahan 

Continued from page 21 

MOST MEMORABLE DETAILS: 

Half way into the reception Brady and 

I walked out onto the balcony to look 

back at all our guests and marvel at 

God’s faithfulness. We wanted to soak 

up as much of our wedding day as we 

possibly could. While out on the balcony 

Brady wrapped me in his arms and 

danced with me. It felt as if we were the 

only two people in the world and while 

lost in his embrace, I recall feeling like a 

true princess who had been swept off her 

feet by her knight in shinning armor. 

PLANNING ADVICE TO BRIDES: 

~ Don’t spend too much time sweating the 

little things because the day of the wedding 

you don’t even notice them! 

~ Choose your matron of honor wisely! 

continued on page 24 




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Love Story: Rebekah (Savard) and Brady Callahan 


She is a huge help and needs to be even more organized then 

you! 

~ Keep your eyes focused on what you are actually doing and 

the meaning behind it. 

~ Don’t let your groom get lost in the midst of your planning; 

he should be the most important aspect of your wedding day! 

~ Take a moment at the reception to get away with your 

spouse and look at all your friends and family who have 

helped you get to that point. Remember, it is really happening, 

and soak up as much of those memories as you can. 

The Bridal Party: 

Matron of Honor: Judy Senesac 

Bridesmaids: Monika Kowaleski, Vernita Weller, Rachel 

Hooper 

Best Man: JT Leavitt 

Groomsman: Derek Trono, Lucas Trono, Chris Markley 

Ushers: Timothy Savard Jr., Isaac Tanney 

Important Thanks: Thank you to Mandi Hartman and 

Genevieve Folino, my future sisters-in-law who helped me get 

ready the day of the wedding and be the sisters I never had! 

Also a big thank you to our parents, bridal party, and all our 

friends and family who helped make our big day so special! 


The Particulars 

Ceremony and Reception Site: Sunset Ballroom 

802-658-3663, www.vermontspecialoccasions.com 

Officiant: James Brigham, Bride’s Grandfather 

DJ Entertainment: Moonlight Entertainment 

802-233-5172, www.moonlightentertainmentdj.com 

Tuxedo & Wedding Gown: Needleman’s Bridal & Formal 

800-924-Gown (4696), www.needlemansbridal.com 

Photographer: Cyndi Freeman, www.cyndifreeman.com 

Floral: Central Market Florist, South Burlington, VT 

Hair: O’Brien Training Center, Hair Designer: Pam Garcia 

Wedding Planning Resource: Vermont Bride Magazine 

802-879-3157, www.vermontbridemagazine.com 

“I definitely found Vermont Bride Magazine a useful tool 

in our wedding planning. Brady and I can remember picking 

up a copy and saying “Wow, we should really refer to some of 

these places.” Our wedding location and formal ware were actually 

discovered by using Vermont Bride Magazine. I highly 

recommend to all brides to check out the latest issue to get 

the most up-to-date wedding resources.” 



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HElPING BRIDES PlAN PERFECT WEDDINGS SINCE 1990 

Publishers: 

Vickie Karnes, Steven Karnes 

Cover By: Synchronicity Photography 

contributing PhotogrAPherS: 

Art Director: 

E. E. Weems 

SAleS/MArketing: 

Lynn Dreher, Joe Karnes 





Great Impressions Portrait 

Studio 

Mager Studios 


Olga McVey Photography 





RaidenShine Photography 

Jeff Schneiderman Photography 


Synchronicity Photography, LLC 

Whipple Photography 

Michael Thomas Studios 

Countryside Photography 

contributing WriterS: 

Pat Esden 

Michael Caldwell 

Lauri Boyden 

Karen Sturtevant 

Ashley Loven 

Mary Ingrisano 

Jen Gellis 

Rebekah Callahan 

Gary Provost 

Kimberly Messier 

Tina Barry 

Teej Weems 

coPy eDitorS: 

Vickie Karnes 

Steven Karnes 

Teej Weems 

Karen Sturtevant 

Vermont Bride • P.O. Box 143 

Westford, Vermont 05494 

vtbride@vermontbridemagazine.com 

802.879.3157 

Copyright © 2009 Vermont Bride Magazine 

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made for accuracy for all material printed herein, however the publishers of Vermont 

Bride disclaim all responsibility of liability for omissions and errors. 




BLENDING CITY SAVVY WITH COUNTRY CHARM 

WELL-SEASONED CHEF AND HOSTESS OPEN 

TOURTERELLE (TURTLEDOVE) INN AND RESTAURANT 

T O U R T E R E L L E 

In the late nineties, a beautiful event planner from Brittany, 

France met a young, American chef from New York. 

Before long they were married and their union produced 

first a daughter and then a culinary revolution in Brooklyn, 

New York. 

Locals flocked to Loulou, their first French bistro, as much for 

chef William “Bill” Snell’s lusty seafood-based cuisine as Christine 

Snell’s gracious charm. Before long, Loulou beget Cocotte, 

another French eatery that drew crowds. Other chefs 

followed, 

lining the 

streets near 

the Snells’ 

restaurants 

with all 

manner of 

eateries. 

The couple 

has now 

turned their 

sights on 

a life-long 

dream: to 

own an inn 

and restaurant 

in Vermont. 

The 

Photography by Michael Thomas Studios 

Snells have 

purchased 

the well-regarded Roland’s Place in New Haven, Vermont, 

changing its name to Tourterelle (French for turtledove) to 

reflect its romantic theme as a serene inn and wedding venue. 

The Snells have launched their new venture and invite you to 

share with them. 

“We fell in love with the historic building (from 1796), 

all the Victorian details, beautiful woodwork, and the 

views of the Adirondacks and Lake Champlain Valley are 

breathtaking!” says Christine. 

The stately home, now painted white and freshened with 

colonial blue shutters, houses a refined, 80-seat restaurant 


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v 

by Tina Barry 

decorated with period-appropriate antiques and a new fireplace, 

three guest rooms that invite long afternoon naps and a 

35’ x 80’ wooden deck where many idyllic weddings have been 

held. Just 35 minutes south of Burlington and five miles from 

Middlebury, Tourterelle is the ideal spot for skiing, biking, 

swimming, and unparalleled antique shopping. 

Visitors to Tourterelle can expect French comfort food of the 

highest caliber. Bill’s cooking has garnered raves from New 

York dining critics. David Kirby of the New York Times, 

called the Snells’ cafe, Cocotte, “My favorite restaurant on 

Fifth Avenue” (a stretch of Park Slope, Brooklyn, known for 

creative eateries), and referred to Bill’s fare as “warm, wonderful, 

and delicious.” 

Bill, who before launching his eateries, served as executive 

chef at City Wine & Cigar Company and Tribeca Grill, both in 

New York City, is excited to meet local farmers and will source 

their provisions for his “country French with an American 

twist” menu. In the restaurant, as well as his off-premise 

catering service, Bill’s seasonal, market-driven cuisine will 

include dishes such as “Red Curry Coconut Bouillabaisse” (a 

favorite of his Brooklyn customers), “Local Vegetable Tartiflette 

with Vermont Double Cream Brie” (layers of potatoes, 

bacon and cheese), and classics like “Cassoulet” (meat and 

bean stew), and “Beuf Bourguignon with Steak Frites.” “I am 

from Brittany,” says Christine, “home of original and traditional 

crepes, so we take pride in always offering crepes on our 

dinner and brunch menus.” 

The Snells, who now have three children, are thrilled to 

start their new lives in a place they love. “Vermont has a 

magical effect on us,” Christine says. “We’re so excited 

to be here.” They’re sure visitors will feel the same about 

Tourterelle. 

TOURTERELLE is located at 3629 Ethan Allen Highway, 

New Haven, Vermont. Dinner is served Wednesday 

and Thursday 5:30 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. and Friday 

and Saturday 5:30 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Sunday brunch is 

served 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Closed Sunday, Monday, 

and Tuesday evenings. For more information, contact 

Christine Snell at (802) 453-6309. 

www.Tourterellevt.com is coming soon. 


Dinner at 

Tourterelle 


CHRISTINE AND BILL SNELL 

ARE PLEASED TO INVITE YOU AND 

A GUEST TO DINNER AT 

TOURTERELLE 

(TURTLEDOVE) 

THEIR NEW INN AND RESTAURANT 

Situated between the Adirondack Mountains and Lake Champlain 

Valley is Tourterelle, an historic inn and restaurant. 

New proprietors, chef Bill Snell and his wife and manager 

Christine, invite you to a dinner featuring Bill’s seasonal, 

market-driven “Country French cooking with an American 

Twist.” Bill’s elegant fare has been called “warm, wonderful and 

delicious,” by the New York Times. 

Come see what the Snell’s have done to the inn (formerly Roland’s 

Place), meet the couple, and enjoy a spectacular meal. 

3629 Ethan Allen Highway 

New Haven, Vermont 05472-1038 

(802) 453-6309 

We look forward to meeting you! 


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Bouquet 

Jewels 

By Pat Esden 

From the ring on the bride’s finger to the ballroom’s chandeliers, 

sparkle plays an important role in weddings. 

An inexpensive way to add that sparkle to a wedding is by embellishing the bride and 

attendants’ bouquets with jewels. This is not a new idea. For years brides have tucked 

heirloom jewelry and rosaries into bouquets as their “something old.” But now, the 

heirlooms are proudly displayed by tying them to the stems of a hand-tied bouquet or 

by draping them through the front of cascading bouquets. 

Jewelry need not be heirloom. Pins, brooches and pendants specifically made for floral 

bouquets can be purchased from specialty shops. They are easy for florists to attach to 

bouquets and double as a keepsake for the bride and gifts for the bridesmaids. They can 

be custom engraved for an extra special touch. 


Photo by Countryside Photography 

...A Sparkle of Elegance 

for any Wedding 

Jewelry not specifically designed for bouquets can also be 

used. Small prisms, shards of sparkling metal and tiny hand 

blown glass bobbles add a personal touch as well as glitter. As 

long as it’s small and shines, it can be considered. However, a 




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Bouquet Jewels 


florist should be consulted before purchasing any item to make sure it will accent and 

blend with the flowers and style of the bouquet. Also the florist will want to make sure 

that attaching the sparkle to a bouquet is physically possible. 

Sparkle is available directly from florists. Without significantly raising the cost of the 

bouquets, the florist can stud roses with rhinestones or pearls. Inexpensive crystals may 

be tucked between the bouquets’ blooms to provide a subtle glint and add an extra 

touch of coordination between the gowns and flowers. Strings of pearls can be used 

as cuffs on the satin wrap of hand- held bouquets. Likewise, pearls can stud the entire 

wrap for an Elizabethan look. The ideas are limited only by the florist’s creativity and 

the wedding’s style. 

Whether heirloom or new, the key to adding sparkle to a wedding bouquet is to make 

sure it coordinates with the jewelry the bride and attendants plan to wear as well as with 

the veil and any hair accessories. Coordinating is usually easy, since faux jewels come in 

a rainbow of colors and styles. 


Photo by Great Impressions Portrait Studio 

In addition to coordination with the bride and attendants, 

touches of the same type of jewel can be used in other wedding 

flowers to unify the wedding look. The boutonnières 

could have a fleck of glittered baby’s breath or a crystal 

studded pin that matches the bride and attendants’ bouquets. 

The mothers’ corsages might be attached to jewel or 

pearl bracelets that accent their dresses. 

But be sure not to overdo—sparkle taken to 

an extreme can look tacky. 

Here is where the bride and groom’s taste and the florist’s 

experience can work together to provide the right touch of 

glitz without going too far. 

Pat Esden: Pat has worked in the wedding industry for 

over twenty-five years. As a master floral designer and 

owner of Esden Florist in Fairfield, Vermont, she sees the 

yearly changes in wedding styles and is familiar with the 

time-honored traditions and in tune with the new conventions. 



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Boutonnières should compliment the flowers 

of the women in the bridal party 

We can thank the French for the word boutonnière. In days past a single flower 

was worn pushed through the buttonhole on a gentleman’s left lapel; today, we pin. 

Boutonnières can be as simple or elaborate as imagination will allow and are worn 

to signify people of important and the formality of the occasion. We all know the 

classic red rose with baby’s breath – always sexy against a stark black tuxedo jacket. 

Modern floral wearables often fashion natural materials of herbs, foliage, berries, 

Dashing Boutonnières 


Photo by Larry Asam Photography 


and grasses. Add a thin wire wrapped around the stem and commonplace quickly 

becomes a head-turner. Often pieces of extra fabric or beading from the wedding 

dress will be incorporated into the #1 boutonnière as a way to join to the #1 bouquet. 

Boutonnières should 

compliment the flowers 

of the women in the 

bridal party: groom to 

bride and groomsmen 

to bridesmaids. The 

groom should wear a 

flower of distinction 

whether it is a different 

variety, color, or style 

to allow the spotlight 

shine upon him. A 

general rule to follow 

is to have the central 

flower no larger than a 

medium-headed rose 

or golf ball. However, 

if the groom is the size 

of NFL linemen, the 

florist should take that 

fact into consideration 

and make the flower fit 

the physical. A sweetheart 

rose bout will be 

charming worn by a 

young ring bearer while 

the other gentleman 

may sport a larger rose. 



Photo by Whipple Photography 


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Dashing 

Boutonnières 


Floral designs, 

whether bouquets, 

corsages, or boutonnieres 

should 

always be in scale 

to the lucky carriers. 

The flowers 

needn’t overpower, 

but compliment 

and flatter. 

Who gets boutonnières? 

Besides 

the groom and his 

men, the ushers, 

ring bearer, and 

Photo by Orah Moore Photography 

fathers. Although 

not mandatory, grandfathers and brothers not in the wedding 

party would appreciate a splash of color as would individuals 

contributing to the day including readers, singers, musicians, 

and possibility the officiant (if not wearing a robe). If the 

groom’s fraternity brothers fly in from all areas of the country 

to attend the wedding, that’s a big deal and they will be 

thankful for a boutonnière – this is the call of the couple. If 

an esteemed person is absent from the wedding, he or she 

may be honored with a hand-tied bouquet or by having an 

inscribed vase filled with favorite flowers placed at a prominent 

location at the ceremony and moved to the head table at 

reception. If your beloved is a military man and wearing his 

uniform, he is off the flower hook. It is against protocol to 

have anything attached to a uniform that wasn’t supplied by 

the military. 

Delivery time should be predetermined with your florist 

and coordinated with where the men are dressing. 

Specially treated to stay fresh and vibrant as long as possible, 

keep these and all flowers in a cool place and out of sunlight 

and request that each container be labeled with first and last 

names. We wouldn’t want Uncle John wearing Brother Bob’s. 

Be sure to have the camera at the ready as pinning to lapels is 

a photo opportunity not to be missed. 

Almost any flower can be used for this symbol of honor 

with favorites being roses, calla lilies, gardenias, orchids, and 

stephanotis. Accessories include foliage, pearl strands, feathers, 

ribbon, wire, and crystals. Boutonnieres do not need to 

be the same as Fred Astaire and Cary Grant graced us with 

in the ’40s. Truly mini masterpieces, these blooms are as significant 

as the ladies’ bouquets and should reflect the unique 

personalities and tastes of the couple. 




1. Help Creating a Theme 

Do you have a vision of your dream wedding? 

A wedding coordinator can make that dream a 

reality. Your coordinator can help you create a 

theme that runs throughout your whole event. 

They will guide and assist you in making informed 

decisions. Their training, knowledge, 

and experience will turn your dreams and 

expectations into reality. 

2. Help Creating a Timeline 

A wedding coordinator will help you create a 

timeline for all the tasks you need to complete 

prior to your event. They have wedding 

expertise and can recommend appropriate 

timeframes for completion. They will keep 

you organized and provide reminders about 

important deadlines. 

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Top 10 Reasons to Hire a 

Wedding Coordinator 

3. Help Creating a Budget 

A coordinator can give you advice regarding 

your budget. They can suggest what portion 

of your money should be dedicated to particular 

areas of your event, so you can make 

informed decisions. They will work with you 

to create your wedding vision while staying 

within your price point. 

4. Help to Find the Best Vendors 

A wedding coordinator can provide you with 

many vendor options. They will have personal 

knowledge and be able to suggest quality 

vendors that will provide you with the service 

you want, at a price you can afford. 

5. Help You Save Money 

It’s no secret that weddings can be expensive! 

A coordinator will enable you to get the 

most for your money. Many vendors offer 

price discounts to couples working through a 

coordinator. (Make sure you hire a coordinator 

that passes these savings on to you.) Coordinators 

may know of inexpensive vendors that 

couples wouldn’t have found themselves. 

6. Help You Save Time 

The average wedding can take more than 

250 hours to plan. Many couples have hectic 

lifestyles and may not have the time to compare 

wedding options, get the best deals, and 

plan the fine wedding details. A coordinator 

can oversee all aspects of your wedding from 

conception to completion. 

7. Reduce Stress! 

By Kimberly Messier 

One of the most important functions a coordinator 

provides is allowing a couple to enjoy 


their engagement and wedding day. They can relax and have fun 

while being confident that all the details are being taken care of. 

8. Wedding Trends 

A coordinator will be up to date on the latest wedding trends. They 

will know what is fresh in all aspects of wedding planning from save 

the dates to flowers. 

9. Wedding Etiquette 

A coordinator will have a thorough knowledge of wedding etiquette. 

They will act as your personal advisor in all aspects of wedding 

etiquette and planning. 

10. Smooth and Seamless Event 

A wedding coordinator will help you have the smooth and seamless 

wedding event you envision. A coordinator works as your personal 

assistant to ensure your wedding rehearsal and day go smoothly. 

They will oversee all details from large to small during your special 

event. 

If you decide to hire a coordinator, conduct your search carefully and 

thoroughly. Interview potential coordinators to find someone you are 

extremely comfortable with, since you will work very closely together. 

Most will offer a free initial consultation. Ask questions. Find out 

how many clients the coordinator is currently working with- you want 

to find someone who will give your event the priority it deserves. Ask 

how the coordinator 

determines rates and 

fees, and make sure 

to ask for references. 

Congratulations on 

your engagement, and 

have an enjoyable time 

planning your special 

day! 

Kimberly Messier 

is the owner of VT 

Weddings By Kim, 

which provides 

wedding coordination, 

planning, and 

decorating services 

throughout Vermont. 

For more information, 

visit her 

website at: www. 

vtweddingsbykim. 

com. 



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We have all been to a wedding or two. We have 

seen friends, relatives, strangers engage in 

wedding stunts that can become embarrassing, 

yet are customary. 

by Lauri Boyden 

Traditions 

– Tasteful or Tacky? 

Sure, there are times when the stunned woman who 

catches the bouquet has been summoned to the 

dance floor by the droning dj to perform the whole 

garter stunt and ended up falling madly in love with 

the young man who caught the garter. In this particular 

instance, they remain happily married with two beautiful 

children. You just never know! 

However, now that you are planning your own wedding it is 

for you to decide if those customary acts will be part of your 

celebration. Are there other customs or traditions you will 

use to signify your own union and celebration. Will these 

customs carry on in your family or have they already? 

Some of the traditions listed below have been handed down 

through the years from culture to culture. Some are pure 

folklore and many stem from superstitions. Certain traditions 

are widely used in modern wedding ceremonies while 

others exist only within a certain race or culture. 



Photo by Mager Studios 

Customs and tradition should be 

binding, in a loving family way. 

The wedding is one of life’s primeval and surprisingly 

unchanged rites of passage. There are so many different 

customs, superstitions and cultural beliefs that have 

carried on through the ages. 


Photo by Mager Studios 


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Traditions: Tasteful or Tacky? 


While I hope you enjoy the following legends and lore, when 

planning your wedding I encourage you to do things your way. 

There are no rules, no ways that must be followed because 

Aunt Nellie says it must be. When it comes to your celebration 

– make it just that, your own. Add your own personalized 

flare that will make lasting traditions for your family for 

years to follow. 

The Engagement Ring: said to symbolize the 

promise of a future together; sealed with 

giving and accepting. 

The diamond engagement ring has been around since the 

early 1400’s and first found in medieval Italy. In earlier times, 

the engagement or betrothal ring was a partial payment for 

the bride and a pledge of the groom’s intentions. Historically, 

men have chosen not to wear wedding rings; it was not until 

the sixteenth century that they became fashionable. During 

World War II, the idea of the double ring ceremony became 

popular as a link for the young couples before they were sent 

overseas. 

Is it fortune or misfortune in the rings stone? Each stone signified 

with the month of the year is said to hold good or bad 

tidings for the bride. The bride who wears an engagement 

ring with her true birthstone is said to be the luckiest of all. 

Choosing a wedding day: superstitions abound as you decide 

which date to set. Many cultures have beliefs pertaining to 

the full moon or various phases of the moon and harvest 

seasons. In England, the groom’s birthday is an especially 

lucky day to marry. April is said to be hallowed by the Roman 

goddess of love, Venus. Many of the superstitions surround 

fertility and the couple’s ability to raise a loving family. If 

snow falls in December, the couple is sure to have a happy 

marriage. A good choice then for us here in Vermont! 



Bridal Showers: this event has roots dating back to Holland. When a father’s 

bride did not approve of the groom to be, he would not provide the necessary 

dowry. The bride’s friends would “shower” her with gifts so that she would have 

a dowry and still marry the man of her choice. Even with dowries long gone, 

the practice of giving gifts still remains. Showers often remain a surprise to the 

bride, who can surely expect good natured fun and games. As gifts are opened, 

folklore has it that for each broken ribbon or pot holder received; a baby will 

be welcomed to the new couple. Often times, the ribbons are collected as a 

bouquet to be used during the rehearsal or the ribbons are placed in the brides 



Photo by Polis Photography 

b 

Showers often remain 

a surprise to the bride, 

who can surely expect 

good natured fun and 

games. As gifts are 

opened, folklore has it 

that for each broken 

ribbon or pot holder 

received; a baby will 

be welcomed to the new 

couple. 


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Traditions: Tasteful or Tacky? 


pillow case for continual good luck. Bridal showers have become 

a way to strengthen the friendships between the bride and 

her friends; giving moral support and helping to prepare for the 

marriage. 

Throwing the Garter: a ritual dating back to before a woman 

wore panty hose with a garter belt. It was a chance for the single 

men to share in the good fortune of the groom. Today, it is 

believed that the man who catches the garter when it is thrown 

will be the next to marry. In the 14th century, it was customary 

for the bride to toss her garter to the men, but sometimes the 

men got too drunk and would become impatient. They would 

try to take the garter from the bride ahead of time so the bride 

would toss it and run away. 

The Dollar Dance: a tradition which began in Poland, Hawaii 

and the Philippines. Guests had to pay to enjoy a dance with the 

bride or groom. The guests would pin dollar bills to the bride 

and grooms clothes or place it in a special pouch being worn by 

the bride and groom. 

Tossing the Bouquet: this tradition hails from English roots 

and is believed that the bride could pass along good fortune to 

others. In order to obtain good fortune, spectators would try to 

tear away pieces of the brides clothing or flowers. In an attempt 

to escape, the bride would toss her bouquet into the crowd. 

Tradition says the woman who catches the bouquet is the one to 

receive the bride’s good fortune and the next to marry. 

Good Fortune: there is an old Scottish belief where a bride shall 

be met at the door after the wedding ceremony by her mother. 

Her mother then breaks a currant bun over her daughter’s head 

to symbolize her daughter’s future good fortune. 

Saw horsing: an ancient Italian tradition when the people in the 

village would set up a saw 

horse, a log, and a double 

handled saw. The newlyweds 

must saw the log 

apart with prompting and 

cheering from the crowd. 

When the job is finished 

and the log cut, it would 

symbolize the couple’s 

ability to work together in 

all of life’s future tasks. 

Toasting: an ancient 

French custom of placing 

bread in the bottom 

of a glass – a good toaster 

drained the drink to get 

to the “toast.” According 

to legend, when a bride 


and groom drank their wedding toast, whoever finished first 

would then rule the family. 

Bachelor Party: the last chance before the wife took over 

the finances for the groom to gather his friends and gamble 

for his own future use. Ancient Spartan soldiers were the 

first to hold stag parties. The groom would feast with his 

male friends the night before the wedding. There he would 

say good bye to his carefree days of bachelorhood and swear 

continued allegiance to his comrades. This was typically 

seen as the raucous party for the groom before he was to 

settle down with his new wife. 

The wedding is one of life’s primeval and surprisingly 

unchanged rites of passage. There are so many different 

customs, superstitions and cultural beliefs that have carried 

on through the ages. That some of these barbaric rituals 

have not changed is unfortunate. Nearly all of the customs 

we observe today are merely echoes from the past. Do they 

need to be? What are the actual ties that bind so deeply the 

need for garter removal or dollar dancing? 

Old world marriage customs continue to thrive today, in 

diluted, disguised and often upgraded forms. Take time to 

reflect upon some of these wedding customs and traditions. 

Do they reflect you as a woman; do they reflect you both as 

a couple forming a partnership? New traditions or variations 

which reflect your style will continue the slight altering 

of these named customary wedding rites of passage 

Today, although the original understanding has been lost, we 

attempt to incorporate old world customs into our weddings. 

We feel these are the rituals and traditions from the 

past which should be honored. Have these rituals been altered 

over time to no longer reflect the true meaning behind 

them? As you plan your wedding, take note of the single 

men or single women attending. Is there a point to throwing 

the bouquet or 

tossing the garter? 

Creatively come up 

with something to 

replace these traditions 

of which you 

do not feel strongly 

about or just don’t 

blend in with your 

celebration. Instead 

of singling out the 

unattached men 

and women, invite 

everyone to the 

dance floor. Have a 

slow dance contest 

in which couples are 

eliminated for the 



Engagement 

Announcements 

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announce your Engagement! There is no charge for 

submitting and announcements are printed on a space 

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length of time married. The winners, for instance married 50 

years have a special chance to dance with the new bride and 

groom, offering them their secrets for long lasting love and 

marriage. Most recent brides and grooms have had an area at 

the reception to honor those from their families who could 

not be there to celebrate with them. Photos of family and 

mementos from past family times bring everyone a time of 

remembrance together. 

Customs and tradition should be binding, in a loving family 

way. 

Search yourselves for your most inner, 

personal beliefs and make those lasting 

traditions for you and your groom. 

A new union is forming so new family customs may be added 

or amended from the ancient past. 

Lauri Boyden is the 

owner and event coordinator 

for the Barn at 

Boyden Farm, Cambridge, 

VT. Surround 

yourself in the beauty 

of lamoille County 

farm land and all that a 

true Vermont Farm has 

to offer your special 

celebration. www. 

boydenfarm.com 


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Fall Cover Bride 2009 

Married: August 17, 2008 


HOW WE MET: 

Our meeting was somewhat unconventional. Matt and I 

met at a gay bar in Vancouver’s West End where they have 

a ‘straight’ night on Fridays. After a number of furtive 

glances across the room, he introduced himself to me at 

the end of a night saying “I have to leave, but I wanted 

you to know that you are the prettiest girl in here.” I said 

thanks and gave him my phone number. 

A few weeks later we met at a Herbalizer concert that we 

happened to have tickets for, discovered that we played 

ultimate Frisbee in the same league, and had several 

friends in common. It was amazing that we hadn’t met 

earlier. 

On our first date we went mountain biking, ate sushi, 

took a walk around the Stanley Park seawall (where we 

had our first kiss), and drank milkshakes at Hamburger 

Mary’s - places and pastimes that continue to be some of 

our favorites. 

OUR ENGAGEMENT: 

Matt and I regularly go on ‘date nights,’ and one day in 

early September Matt asked me out on a date. On one of 


Photos by Synchronicity Photography

Love Story: 

Jen Sawrenko 

and Matt Gellis 


those autumn evenings that 

still feel like summer, we 

set off on our cruiser bikes 

down to the beach for dinner 

at a very nice restaurant 

in Stanley Park. After 

dinner we rode through the 

park, arriving back at the 

bench where we had our 

very first kiss. We sat on the 

bench for awhile admiring 

the sunset over the water 

and then before I knew it, 

Matt was down on one knee 

asking me to marry him. 

After I said yes, we got back 

on our bikes for what I 

thought was the ride home 

but Matt had arranged for 

us to spend the night at a 

beautiful hotel overlooking 

the water. The next morning 

on our way home, my 

bike basket was filled with 

roses and we stopped for 

breakfast at our favorite 

place, Hamburger Mary’s. 

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Love Story: Jen Sawrenko and Matt Gellis 


MOST MEMORABLE DETAILS: 

When planning on a place to have our wedding, we 

both immediately thought of Matt’s parents’ home 

in St. Albans. Matt has so many memories of summers 

at the lake with his family; it’s probably his 

favorite place in the world. The first time I visited 

St. Albans I knew instantly why he loved it so much; 

it’s a beautiful place where sunsets last for hours and 

thunderstorms roll across the lake in a matter of 

minutes and a person can easily lose track of time 

swinging in a hammock with a good book. 

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Keeping the wedding informal, 

fun, and welcoming were 

important for Matt and me. 

We wanted to focus on the 

importance of close family and 

friends and the beginning of our 

future together. 

We tried not to get too caught up in the details 

which was challenging at times. The weekend began 

with a rehearsal dinner for both of our families on 

Friday evening. We spent Saturday boating, swimming, 

and barbequing at the lake. Sunday was the 

big day! 

The wedding combined both of our families’ values, 

traditions, and cultures. We really could not 

have had a wedding as beautiful and fun as we did 

without an enormous amount of support from our 

parents. 

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Floral design by Howards The Flower Shop 

All photos by Synchronicity Photography 

“Pay attention, you are getting married! It doesn’t matter where 

or how, but you are marrying the only person you want to be 

with for life. Nothing else is important.” 


THE PARTICULARS: 

Photographer: Synchronicity Photography 

So. Burl., VT, 802-238-0508, 

www.synchronicityphotography.net 

Floral Design by: Howards The Flower Shop 

St. Albans, VT, 802-524-5715, 

www.howardstheflowershop.com 

Reception Site: Barbara and Steven Gellis’ family home on 

Lake Champlain 

Wedding Gown: White gown made by my grandmother 

Susan Kheong (it was my mother’s gown) 

Alterations and red cheongsam by As you Wish Atelier, New 

Westminster, BC, Canada 

Groom’s suit: By Isaia, from Holt Renfrew, Vancouver, BC, 

Canada 

Bridesmaids dresses: The Narcissist, Vancouver, BC, 

Canada 

Earrings by: Sewly Yours and Once Upon a Bride 

Wedding Rings by: Object Designs, Vancouver, BC 

Tents and lighting by: Vermont Tent Company 

Music by: The New York Players, Albany, NY 

Make-up and Hair by: Paragon Design, Shelburne, VT 

Catering and wedding cupcakes: Cloud 9 Catering 

Wedding Favors: In lieu of wedding favors, a donation was 

made to the Canadian Cancer Society. 

Wedding Planning Resource: Vermont Bride Magazine; 

The Vermont Bride website was invaluable while planning 

our wedding from afar. Searching through the list of wedding 

resources was easy, making planning our wedding from out of 

town manageable. 

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Love Story: Jen Sawrenko and Matt Gellis 


The most memorable moments of our wedding were the quiet 

moments with our families and each other, the signing of the 

Ketubah (wedding contract), the ceremony beneath the Chuppah 

with our family and friends, and Yichud (quiet time together 

after the ceremony). Also memorable were the not so quiet 

sounds of the amazingly talented New York Players. They had 

everybody tearing up the dance floor from cocktail hour until 

morning. 

PLANNING ADVICE TO BRIDES AND GROOMS: 

Several months before the wedding Matt’s grandmother wrote us 

a letter sharing a story about her own wedding day. As she fretted 

the details, her elder 

sister admonished her 

“Pay attention, you are 

getting married! It doesn’t 

matter where or how, but 

you are marrying the only 

person you want to be 

with for life. Nothing else 

is important.” She wanted 

us to be present in the 

moment, and to remember 

that the most important 

part of our wedding 

was our future happiness, 

together as husband and 

wife. 



Questions and Answers about 

Wedding Etiquette, Solutions 

and Help from the Etiquette 

Experts at Vermont Bride 

Q. With so many bridesmaids’ dresses I don’t know 

where to start. Do they all have to be the same? 

- Beth, (Williston, VT) 

A. This is your wedding and your preferences. We’ve 

seen weddings where each bridesmaid wore a different 

style and color. There is no rule that states each 

dress needs to be the same. A few options would be 

for each dress to be in the same fabric and color but 

different in style. One may have spaghetti straps; another, 

no straps, the third may have an empire waist. 

The others dresses may have variations on hems or 

bust lines. Think of the wedding party in terms of 

photographs: as long as each dress is compatible and 

everybody looks like they belong in the same wedding, 

you’re safe. Another option would be to keep 

all the women in the same style but different colors. 

One wedding we were a part of saw the bridesmaids 

sporting satin dresses (all A-line style) each in a different 

color of brilliant orange, blue, green, and yellow 

– absolutely stunning for a lakeside summer wedding! 

Q. Is it appropriate and required to tip my vendors? 

- Nicole, (Bristol, VT) 

A. Gratuities are tokens of appreciation for extraordinary 

service. We have all experienced poor customer care 

and when we receive exception service, we remember 

and it should be rewarded. Most contracts have gratuities 

included in the final price and you are not obligated 

to tip over that agreement. However, if a vendor 

goes above and beyond with extras, an additional tip 

would be appreciated. We know of two florists who 

lent a hand at a reception to help the caterers set 

up, decorated the cake with 

flowers, placed all the floral 

arrangements, hung and 

secured the wreaths and 

swags, and 

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surprised the couple with an unexpected, beautiful floral arrangement on the gift 

table. In this particular instance, the service and setup was not part of the contract 

and the extra time taken was considered above and beyond customary. The bride 

and groom were aware of this and in their generously mailed a considerable gratuity 

with a heartfelt note upon return from their honeymoon. If you do experience 

outstanding service, consider tipping an amount of up to 15% of the total contract. 

Q. We have a guest list of almost 175 people. What’s the average invite vs. attend 

ratio? Should we invite more than our ideal number? 

- Kara, (Richmond, VT) 

A. When the reply cards are sent back, most people have every intention of attending 

a celebration. Lots can, and usually does, happen between mailing back the reply 

and the day of the wedding. A general rule is: if inviting over 200 people, expect 

between 25 – 30 percent not to attend. If the guest list is under 200 people, expect 

between 15 – 20 percent not to show. The percentage is lower with smaller 

guest lists as it often includes more relatives and close friends as opposed to coworkers 

and distant relatives. 

Q. My fiancé and I would like something different than the traditional wedding 

cake. What are alternatives? 

-Melissa, (South Burlington, VT) 

A. Think cupcake towers, strawberry cheesecake, chocolate truffles, or a fondue 

fountain with fresh fruits. Image the waitstaff serving chilled champagne glasses 

filled with layers chocolate and white chocolate mousse. Raspberry tiramisu, baklava 

and caramel flan make excellent alternatives to the traditional. Your caterer 

will be able to suggest yummy and affordable options. If you both love ice-cream, 

why not arrange ‘make your own sundae’ station? 

Whatever your choice, keep the tradition of sharing in the dessert for all to see 

(and photo). The practice of cake cutting is a symbol of unity and can be done 

whether key lime pie or chocolate dipped strawberries. Dig in! 



By Karen 

Sturtevant 

Right 

Body 

Right 

Dress ~ 

Body 

Right 

Dress ~ 

Mikaella Bridal gowns shown here available at 

Needleman’s Bridal & Formals

Remember the end of summer just before 5th grade and Mom took you shopping 

for new school clothes? 

Every pair of pants fit on the first try, blouses draped just right, and that cute Sailor-style dress hung 

just above the knee – no tailoring needed. Shopping for clothing was a pleasure, a breeze. When’s the 

last time you tried on a pair of jeans that fit so perfectly that you didn’t feel the urge to flee screaming 

from the dressing room? 

Wedding dress shopping doesn’t need to be a test in tolerance. 

Becoming aware of your specific body type and knowing that certain designs styles will compliment 

you will turn frustrating into fantastic. 

Rule #1: Know your body type 

We may want to look like super-model Gisele Bundchen, but let’s face facts, we probably don’t and no 

matter how many hours we spend on the Stairmaster, we won’t. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes 

and most of our figures fit in one of the following categories: Full-Figure, Bottom-Heavy, Pear-Shaped, 

Apple-Shaped, Petite, or Hourglass. Finding your body type is discovering the key that unlocks fashion 

challenges. 

Rule #2: Choose the correct style dress 

Based on body types, there are styles of dress to flatter and suit every woman. Gisele may look stunning 

in a Mermaid style, but the rest of womankind may find an A-Line or Empire more complimenting 

and comfortable. The A-Line, Empire, Mermaid, Column (Sheath), and Ball Gown are the most 

popular and many dresses are variations from these classics. 

Full-Figured 

For the full-figured bride the classic A-Line will flatter giving an illusion of length as attention is drawn 

away from an ample waistline. Empire conceals less than perfect waist to hip ratios. Skin is sexy; 

showing arms and necklines can make women appear slimmer. Curvaceous figures are complimented 

with deep V and scoop necks. Large busted 

women will find off the shoulder styles draw 

attention upward emphasizing shoulders while 

minimizing the chest. Wide, set apart straps will 

diminish fuller-busted figures. If opting for a 

solid fabric, 3/4 length or long sleeves will elongate 

the line of the arm. 

Bottom Heavy 

We all have cutsie names for that part of our 

anatomy: caboose, fanny, bottom, tush. For 

those of us who haven’t lost those last 10 

pounds, there are dresses to emphasis our more 

flattering features. Choose a dress that highlight 

arms, bust line, and back. An A-Line and Empire 

are safe bets. Avoid extra fabric, pleats, and 

gathers around the waist. Consider a corset (a 

secret weapon) with lacing which will highlight 

the upper body. The key to successful dressing 

(formal and informal) is keeping the clothing 

proportionate to the body. Stay away from Ball 

Gowns as extra skirt fabric will bring the eye 

south when you want all eyes north. 

Pear-Shaped 

Most women fall into this category and will find 

success with A-Lines and Empire. Ball Gowns 

can be a good choice if the fullness of the skirt is limited 

opting instead for a flat front. Sexy necklines, off the 

shoulder or strapless dresses draw attention to the upper 

body, minimizing the bottom. A Bolero jacket can help 

even top to bottom ratio. Avoid Mermaid or Column 

(Sheath). 

Apple-Shaped 

A-Line scores first, along with Empire, and V-necks, scoop 

necks and plunging necklines. Avoid Ball Gowns which 

will add unneeded fabric and bulk and any form that 

will add width using ruffles or tiered skirts. The key is to 

find dressing that will bring both body halves in proportion. 

Details draw attention. If you are busty and want 

to minimize, leave the detail for the hem only. Be sure the 

patterns (lace motif, appliqués, embroidery or attached rosettes) 

are scaled to your size. If the patterns are too small, 

the entire ratio of dress to body will seem out of scale. On 

the other hand, properly scaled details will make the dress 

appear that it was custom made for you! 

Petite 

Steer clear of Ball Gowns, dropped waists, high collars, 

overwhelming necklines and Mermaid. Best success will 

be found with Empire and A-Line (keeping the flair minimal). 

Column (Sheath) is another choice if the bride has 




Bridal gowns shown here available from China Rose Bridal 



a balanced figure. Clean, unbroken lines without excess fabric 

will lengthen the body. Look for dresses with vertical lines (the 

secret to elongating). Avoid long trains as the length will tend to 

overwhelm your height. 

Hourglass 

Whether by birthright or by gym, this body has her pick of any 

design dress. Also consider two pieces and corset dresses. The 

bust line can be showcased by wearing Ball Gowns and corseted 

bodices. Look for dresses that showcase the tiny waist. 

Very soon all eyes will be upon you. Don’t be nervous; be prepared 

with a wedding dress that will knock the socks off your 

guests and your groom! Professionals in bridal shops are able to 

discern what style will work best for you and gently direct you 

to selections. From chiffon and crepe to silk and satin, wedding 

attire is an once-in-a-lifetime decision that shouldn’t be made in 

haste. Begin searching early, do your research, and know your 

body type. A bit of organization and preparation will be of great 

benefit in the pursuit for your perfect wedding dress. 

The Dresses 

The A-Line: Timeless & Elegant 

A sure winner for most every woman. With a fitted bodice, 

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the fabric flows gracefully giving that bridal ‘swish’ without 

clinging to hips or thighs. Drawing attention away from the 

waistline and lengthening the body while disguising fuller hips 

is its claim to fame. The A-Line gives a slimming look without 

excessive fabric or losing the full-skirt look of traditional bridal 

dressing. 

The Empire: Enchanting & Ethereal 

This dress is similar to the A-Line with a raised waistline that 

sits just below the bust. Needing to conceal a less than perfect 

hip to waist ratio and smooth a middle? This could be the style 

for you. Be aware if you are a tall bride, as this may make you 

look ‘tent-like.’ For brides with smaller busts, the Empire draws 

attention to the neckline, thus creating definition. Beading and 

accents can highlight the chest area and create an illusion of a 

fuller bust. 

The Mermaid: Glamorous & Dramatic 

For the curvaceous bride, this dress features contouring to the 

body from the chest to the knee then flaring out to the hem. 

The flair can be above, at, or just below the knee; each creating 

a different silhouette. This choice accentuates a sexy figure and 

shows every curve. Perfect for the fashion-forward hourglass- 



Mikaella Bridal gowns shown here available at 

Needleman’s Bridal & Formals

SPA CORNER 

Indulge and Rejuvenate Before Your Wedding 

(un) Tie the Knots 

Do you feel that knot in your shoulder the size of Mt. Vesuvius? 

Do you need to unravel from tension and pressure? 

Massage is one of the best ways to de-stress, rejuvenate and 

give your mind and body a chance to relax. Massage is an 

important part of a wellness inspired lifestyle. 

It can be baffling to know which massage will suit you best. 

Here is a quick guide to differentiate the massages when you 

browse thru the spa menu. 

Swedish 

A traditional full body massage with firm, 

but gentle pressure. Swedish massage 

focuses on long flowing strokes and muscle 

kneading. Most spas offer this classic massage. 

Hot Stone Massage 

Hot stones are used to further relax and 

loosen your muscles. The basalt stones are 

black volcanic rock that are smooth and 

absorb and retain heat. Your therapist holds 

the warmed stones in her hands as your 

muscles are heated and lengthened. Muscles 

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release more quickly when stones are used in combination 

with Swedish techniques. 

Aromatherapy Massage 

Essential oils are used to heighten the senses. Traditionally, a 

therapist will take you on a “smell journey” and present a spectrum 

of aromas that you like. Some oils are stimulating, while 

others are calming. You can decide where you 

want to go in your massage. Pick a citrus 

scent for a tropical escape, or sandalwood for 

an earthy feel. 

Deep Tissue or Sports Massage 

This massage style focuses on deeper pressure 

to targeted tissue for restorative benefits. 

Frequent areas of concentration are neck 

and shoulders, low back, and hamstrings. 

Stretches are often incorporated to further 

elongate the muscles. Hot towels and heated 

tables also encourage more blood and lymph 

flow in and out of the area to rehabilitate the 

muscles. Athletes prefer this massage as the 

goal is to reduce pain and enhance performance. 


Couples Massage 

A great pre-wedding or post wedding massage for the bride 

and groom. Many spas have couples suites where two 

tables are set up side-by -side and each of you will have a 

massage therapist performing a massage of your choice. 

One of our favorites is a side-by-side Warm Stone Massage 

with champagne after in the relaxation room. 

Four Handed Massage 

If you can get your hands on one of these-Try it! Two 

massage therapists will massage you at the same time in a 


x 

Massage is one of 

the best ways to 

de-stress, rejuvenate 

and give your 

mind and body a 

chance to relax. 

Massage is an important 

part of a 

wellness inspired 

lifestyle. 

coordinated Swedish style massage. It is a decadent massage 

that you will be talking about for years. 

Whatever massage you choose, here are a few practical tips 

to get the most out of your massage: 

q Be sure to give yourself enough time before and after 

your massage to relax and enjoy the entire experience. 

q Talk to your therapist. They will want to know the 

areas that are bothering you and your massage preferences. 

You can always talk to your therapist during a 

massage and request pressure changes. 

q Relax and clear your mind. The hour you are in the 


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massage has been reserved for you and it is your time. 

q Leave cell phones in your locker or in your car. 

q Undress to your comfort level. You will be properly 

draped during your massage, so removing all your clothes 

for a massage is the preferred option. 

q If you have scheduled a Swedish style massage, but decide 

you want to change it to an Aromatherapy massage, ask. 

Most spas can accommodate a menu change. 

q If it is your first time having a massage ever, let your 

therapist know. You will receive more explanations and 

will be asked more often about your comfort level. 

q Drink water after your massage. A massage releases waste 

products into your system and drinking water will encourage 

them to leave your body. 

The Essex Resort & Spa: Essex, VT, 


Visit your spa on your 

wedding weekend to untie 

your knots! 

802-878-1100, www.vtculinaryresort.com 

Vermont Bride Magazine is proud to 

recommend the following professional 

spas. The goal of these highly 

trained and qualified experts is 

to rejuvenate your mind, body, and 

soul in a calm, serene surrounding. 

The Equinox Resort & Spa: Manchester, VT, 

800-362-4747, www.equinoxresort.com 

Moon Studio Day Spa: Shelburne, VT, 

802-985-9949, www.moonstudiodayspa.com 

Waterfalls Day Spa: Middlebury, & Vergennes, VT, 

802-388-0311, www.middleburyspa.com 

For more information regarding the above Spa Services, please 

visit Vermont Bride’s website www.vermontbridemagazine.com. 

SaRa DaLY is a Physical Therapist, Massage Therapist, and 

Certified Manual Lymph Drainage Therapist. She is President 

of Waterfalls Day Spa in Middlebury, Vermont and Waterfalls 

at Basin Harbor Club on Lake Champlain. She is a frequent 

contributor to Vermont Bride Magazine and will be featured in 

the Sept/Oct 2009 edition of Massage Magazine. 

Signs of the Zodiac 

Fact, Fiction, or Fun? 


In this issue of Vermont Bride’s “Signs of the Zodiac” featured are 

the astrological signs of Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Capricorn. Believer 

or cynic, reading attributes of the Zodiac is entertaining and a 

great appetizer for conversation. 

Scorpio (The Scorpion) 

October 24 – November 22* 

The Scorpio is most extreme and dominant sign of the Zodiac. 

Known for deep emotional energy, the Scorpio parallels that of a 

dormant volcano that could turn active anytime. A partner with a 

unique personality is required to tango with the Scorpio. Fiercely 

independent, passionate, determined as a bulldog, and dynamic, 

keeping in step with this dynamo requires understanding in what 

makes this forceful persona tick. Scorpios accomplish their goals, 

are deeply sensitive, influenced by their emotion, and have a strong 

propensity for likes and dislikes. Gray areas don’t exist: only black 

and white. Incredibly intelligent and imaginative, Scorpios make 

adept investigators and thrive in an analytical capacity. With an 

inner circle of few, this talent will treat his colleagues with respect, 

loyalty, and generosity as long as no reason is given to suggest the 

trust is misplaced as jealousy and resentment is on constant trial. 

Scorpio relishes in the truth, loves being involved for the cause 

(sometimes obsessively), using the powers of persuasion, and 

believes he is responsible for his own destiny. The need for being 

in constant control translates into a sense of security. 

This strong character is complemented with the qualities of Cancer, 

Virgo, other Scorpios, Capricorns, and Pieces. Some famous-faced 

Scorpios you may have heard of: Pablo Picasso, Jamie Lee Curtis, 

Bonnie Raitt, Bill Gates, Kurt Vonnegut, and Goldie Hawn. 


Right Body - Right Dress 


shaped bride, this dress is ideal for women whose height is 

between 5’ 7” – 5’ 9.” 

The Column (Sheath): Streamlined, Modern, & Chic! 

This close cut design is more revealing that the traditional wedding 

dress as its narrow shapes flows straight from the neckline 

to hem. Body-hugging, this dress is not for the wallflower. 

Modification on the neck and waistlines can be tailored to accentuate 

best features whiling hiding others. Strapless creates 

an elegant look while long bell sleeves give a more whimsy feel. 

The Ball Gown: Romantic & Feminine 

Think princess and Cinderella. This dress features a fitted bodice 

with a full shirt. This style is ideal for concealing the lower 

body and accentuating a waistline. As with other styles, the Ball 

Gown can be modified with changes to neck and waistlines. 

Add opera length gloves for drama or a scooped neck bodice for 

added sophistication. 

Sagittarius (The Archer) 

November 23 – December 22* 

We all know them – those ‘glass half-full’ folks: filled with optimism, 

good humor, and straight forward thinking. These are members of 

the Sagittarius club. These quick thinkers are the first to tackle a new 

project and have an innate yearning to understand new concepts. 

They appreciate the laws of the land and will engage in intellectual, 

philosophical conversations to acquire a scope of the big picture before 

making a final decision. Possessing a love (and almost primal need) 

for travel and adventure, the Sagittarius needs this outlet to feed his 

broad-minded, restless nature. Not to say that a Sagittarius can’t stay 

in one place long enough to be domestic-loving, faithful partner. Quite 

the opposite: Sagittarius members tend to be devoted spouses and 

indulgent parents when finding a balance of residence and exploration. 

When something doesn’t sit well, a quick temper may flair but is gone 

as fast as it appeared. On the list of challenges: being blindly optimistic 

and irresponsible, restless and tactless, and holding a scorn for routine 

tasks. 

This spirit finds contentment with Aires, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, 

and other club Sagittarius.’ Ludwig van Beethoven, Walt Disney, Emily 

Dickinson, Steven Spielberg, and Brad Pitt are life-long, card carrying 

Sagittarius members. 

Capricorn (“Great-horned” – The Seagoat) 

December 23 – January 20* 

The Capricorn: the most serious and most stable of the Zodiac. Remember 

the honor student who sat in the first row of Algebra class? 

He knew all the answers, was the first to finish tests, and went on to 


Vermont Bride Magazine is proud to recommend the 

following professional bridal gown shops. The right Vermont 

bridal shop can save you hours of fruitless searches. The 

informed staff can assist you in choosing not just the dress 

that fulfills your imagination but the dress that best fits your 

body type. There is that perfect, make you feel absolutely 

beautiful, dress for you. They can help you find it. 

China Rose Bridal 

Westford, VT, 802-879-7274 

Needleman’s Bridal & Formals 

(3) convenient locations: 

So. Burlington, St. Albans, & Newport, VT 

800-924- Gown (4696) www.needlemansbridal.com 

For more information regarding the above Bridal Gown 

Services, please visit Vermont Bride’s website at www. 

VermontBrideMagazine.com. 

MIT? Changes are he’s a Capricorn: practical, disciplined, extremely 

cautious, reserved, and ambitious. These strong-willed individuals 

are the backbone of the company, put their family before their own 

needs, and are amazing multitaskers. Valuing tradition over innovation, 

they are deep thinkers and will explore all possibilities before 

arriving at a safe conclusion. Because of their profound outlook, 

melancholy can creep in while pessimism rears its ugly head. Many 

Capricorns are inhibited introverts and prefer to keep to themselves. 

When the heart is shared, Capricorns are exceptionally faithful and 

most remain happily married for life. Farfetched schemes and unrealistic 

views are not for the Cap; he prefers practically and reliability. 

The resourceful Capricorn finds successful love with Taurus, Scorpio, 

Virgo, other Capricorns, and Pieces. Purposeful Capricorns include 

Tiger Woods, Elvis Presley, Kevin Costner, Kirstie Alley, and Joan of 

Arc. 

Believers subscribe to the conviction that specific sun sign personalities 

are better suited to some rather than to others. Libra finds 

love with Sagittarius. Pieces find peace with Scorpio. Will Leo learn 

to love Capricorn? Aquarius in agreement with Cancer? Love is a 

powerful emotion and materializes in numerous forms. As in nature, 

love is perfect in its imperfection. The galaxy has written its own 

chapters on love. Write your own book and use the index as a guide 

only. Regardless of the sign’s representation, let your commitment 

for one another break the rules and compose your own chapters 

through life’s volumes as husband and wife. 

*Dates gives vary slightly from year to year. 


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C O M M E N TA RY 


I sincerely believe that marriage is the ultimate 

commitment, the definitive duet between two 

people. Whether heterosexual or same sex, 

it makes no matter. Love is love. Our world 

is full of heartache, tragedy, and unexpected 

crises. Having another person to share your 

most private thoughts and views is not a given 

right, it’s a privilege. Coming home to a significant 

other and knowing safety and peace are 

concessions that we strive and yearn for from 

our deepest core. This is the person we think 

of first and want to share with when that job 

promotion is offered, when good news is given, 

and when sorrow comes our way. The world is 

built for two; a sincere commitment between 

individuals makes the path less rocky, the sky 

bluer, and the fragrance of wildflowers sweeter. 

Making the commitment is a monumental 

choice; one of the most important in a person’s 

life and should be entered into only after 

meaningful consideration and contemplation 

has been explored. People in their 20s are 

fundamentally and behaviorally different than 

they will be in their 30s; same scenario with 

the decade from 30 to 40. As we age, we grow 

(or should) into our maturity. Don’t sweat the 

small stuff becomes our mantra and things 

that seem so important 5 years ago, we don’t 

give a passing thought to anymore. It’s as if 

our brains and bodies have finally come to a 

counterbalance to where we know who we are 

and accept it, know what we want and have a 

clear direction on how to get there. Plans are 

concrete and goals are met with jubilation and 

celebration. We’re bolder, smarter, and proud of 

the person we know we were meant to be. We 

see ourselves in our parents and our grandparents 

and wonder “Why didn’t I think of that 

sooner?” That’s a great idea! 

The ‘ah ha’ moments of wisdom come in 

time and only with experience and personal 

development. Learn something new every day: 

personally, professional, spiritually, emotionally, 

physically, and globally. Step out of your 

comfort zone. You’ll be a better, more rounded 

person because of it. 

Few times are as delightful as your first love: 

new and exciting. Kisses were sweet, handholding 

caused your heart to skip, and your 

biggest challenge was what to wear on the 

The ‘ah ha’ moments of wisdom come in time and only 

with experience and personal development. 

Saturday night date. Teenage ‘love’ is usually 

uncomplicated and gives us building blocks for 

adult relationships. 

According to www.dictionary.com, Love is 

defined as: 

A profoundly tender, passionate affection 

for another person. 

A feeling of warm personal attachment or 

deep affection. 

Sexual passion or desire. 

In layman’s terms, your marriage partner 

should be one you like, love, and desire; your 

best friend, sounding board, and be trusted 

with your most personal wishes and needs. 

The next time you’re among a crowd, look for 

the couple that has had their ‘ah ha’ moments 

and grown together. She will lovingly adjust the 

collar of his jacket and he will take her hand as 

they stroll. The twinkle still shines in their eyes 

– this is the goal of every married couple: to 

keep the like, love, and passion alive year after 

year, decade after decade. Indeed, a noble 

ambition. 

Reliable statics report between a 41 – 50 

percent divorce rate for first marriages; 60 – 67 

percent for second marriages, and 73 – 74 percent 

for third marriages. These are scary stats. 

Watch Dr. Phil, read Dr. Ruth, listen to Oprah 

– you will arrive at one similar conclusion: If 

there is any doubt, wait. Be 110 percent certain 

that you are willing to commit to and work with 

this particular person rather than enter into this 

life-long role half-hearted. There are no coincidences. 

You two have been brought together 

for a reason: life partner, life friend, lessons to 

learn. Love is hard to find and if you are both 

willing to make the commitment to cultivate, 

make the promised pledge, and work at it every 

day. Put your marriage on Priority One status. 

Becoming complacent could prove fatal. 

Do your utmost to become that elderly couple 

strolling down Church Street on a breezy 

autumn afternoon. One hand will be holding 

your purse with pictures of Grandchildren while 

the other tenderly adjusts the collar of your 

husband’s fall jacket. 


Photos by Polis Photography 

The Equinox, a Luxury Collection Resort & Spa, 

in quaint Manchester Village, Vermont, is one of 

New England’s most luxurious leisure destinations. 


It offers the perfect timeless setting for an 

unforgettable wedding celebration. 

The Equinox has a variety of stunning venue options, 

complete with gorgeous outdoor gardens nestled in 

the shadow of the beautiful Green Mountains, allow 

bride and groom to exchange vows among Southern 

Vermont’s idyllic countryside. 

Established in 1769, The Equinox is one of the 

country’s most historically significant resorts. 

“Serving the Republic since before there was a Republic,” the hotel 

has been a meeting place for the fathers of the American Revolution 

and American presidents (including Taft, Grant, Harrison and Teddy 

Roosevelt), and has served as a favorite vacation destination for wellheeled, 

well-traveled visitors looking to experience the year-round 

offerings of New England’s most scenic location. 

In 2008, the iconic 195-room resort underwent a $20 million restoration 

including new luxury amenities, accommodations, dining options and 

lounges. The Equinox brought in renowned designer Geoffrey Bradfield, 

widely known as one of the foremost designers of his generation and 

consistently recognized by Architectural Digest as one of the top 

designers in the world, to helm the refurbishment. Bradfield specializes 

in creating daring, graceful and opulent spaces that incorporate fine art 

and antiques. His sophisticated transformation of The Equinox blends 

New England charm with contemporary luxury and upholds the resort’s 

legacy as an American classic. 


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These gorgeous 

indoor and 

outdoor venues, 

totaling 18,500 

square feet of 

event space, can 

accommodate 

more than 300 

guests. 


The Equinox, which has always been 

among the notable culinary hotspots in 

the region, has recently added two new 

venues to its renowned dining options. 

The brand new Falcon Bar offers an extensive 

collection of single malt scotches and a 

comprehensive wine list, as well as a menu of 

locally sourced cheeses and delectable Knipschildt 

chocolates, rated among the top three chocolates 

in the world by Gourmet Magazine. The new 

Chop House steakhouse has comfortable leather 

banquettes, a warm color palette and oversized 

tables to accommodate large parties and typically 

oversized steak house fare. The resort also offers 

the Marsh Tavern, the Dormy Grill, and the 

Colonnade, which all provide elegant settings for 

formal and relaxed celebrations. 

The resort offers wedding parties a variety of 

stately and photogenic venues for ceremonies and 

receptions including the crystal-chandeliered 

Colonnade, authentic Pond Pavilion, lush 

Lincoln Gardens, elegant Rockwell Ballroom, 

the stately 1811 House and its Terraced Gardens, 

and the Taconic Tent in the shadow of the 

Taconic Mountains. These gorgeous indoor and 

outdoor venues, totaling 18,500 square feet of 

event space, can accommodate more than 300 

guests. 

A dedicated wedding concierge assists the 

bride with planning each detail of her special 

day. Whether the wedding is a formal affair, 

an intimate gathering of family and friends, 

or a relaxed, vibrant celebration, the Equinox 

provides distinctive touches like a horse-drawn 

carriage, unique menu concepts from the 

superb in-house culinary team, and guidance on 

every phase of the event, from venue selection 

to honeymoon departure, provided by the 

resort’s expert wedding planners. 

The resort’s wedding coordinators recently 

orchestrated a seamless three-day wedding 

reception, beginning with a Friday-evening 

soiree at the Pond Pavilion, which provided 

breathtaking views of Mount Equinox. The 

wedding party enjoyed a Saturday evening 

cocktail reception on the lawns of the Lincoln 

Gardens following the ceremony and an 

elaborate dinner in the stunning Colonnade 

Ballroom. The celebration ended Sunday with 

a farewell brunch on the classic wrap-around 

porch of the Dormy Grill. 

Both the ceremony and reception included 

unique and personalized touches. Tables were 

numbered by year, with each year representing 

an important time in the couple’s lives. 

Snapshots of the bride and groom identified 

each table. The Equinox wedding planners also 

set up mini-chalkboards around the tent for the 

reception, each one displaying a different quote 

about love. Upon arrival, each guest received a 

welcome bag and a list of suggested activities 

and offerings available at The Equinox. Friends 

and family could spend their time lounging 

at the indoor pool, enjoying massages at The 

Spa, experiencing the sport of falconry and the 

excitement of the Land Rover off-road driving 

school, hiking and playing golf, or wandering 

through designer outlets in nearby Manchester. 

The 195-room Equinox includes the main hotel, 

the all-suites Charles Orvis Inn, the quaint 

1811 House, and townhouses enabling varied 

accommodation options for any wedding party. 

The Equinox is the perfect allseason 

destination where bride 

and groom and wedding guests 

alike can create memories to last 

a lifetime. 


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The average planning time for a wedding is between 200 – 250 hours. Start preparing now! 


2009 

Fall Happenings | October/November/December 

See more Vermont Fall Happenings by going to www.vermontbridemagazine.com 

October 3- 4 

Lake Champlain Antiques Show 

60 quality antique dealers most 

displayed in room settings. 

Sheraton Hotel 

Burlington (781) 862-4039 

www.neantiqueshows.com 

October 3 -4 

Sam Mazza’s 13th Annual Harvest 

Festival 

Hay rides, pumpkin picking, food and 

cider, pony rides, petting zoo, corn 

maze. 

Colchester, (802) 655-3440 

www.sammazzafarms.com 

October 9 -11 

Stowe’s 28th Annual Foliage Arts 

Festival 

200 fine art and contemporary craft 

artists exhibit their works. Food, wine 

tasting, and children’s entertainment. 

Topnotch Field, Stowe 

info@craftproducers.com 

Image by Kim Martin Photography 

October 17 

Storytelling and Harvest Festival 

Storytellers and musicians present 

Lake Champlain history. Field trips and 

water excursions. 

Lake Champlain Maritime Museum, 

Basin Harbor Club, Vergennes 

(802) 475-2022 

www.lcmm.org 

October 24 

Church Street Marketplace Halloween 

Parade & Festival 

Calling all spooks and goblins! Children 

are invited to trick or treat on the 

marketplace. 

Parade, family activities 

www.churchstreetmarketplace.net 

November 12-14, 19-22 

You Can’t Take it with You 

UVM Theatre Presents the Pulitzer 

Prizewinning comedy by George 

Kaufman. 

(802) 656-2094 

www.uvmtheatre.org 

November 27 

Church Street Marketplace Santa 

Parade and Holiday Lighting 

Holiday tree and decoration lighting, 

family activities, food and seasonal 

festivities. 

www.churchstreetmarketplace.net 

November 21 – Dec 23 

Learn how to make your very own 

candy cane - a time-honored tradition. 

Laughing Moon Chocolates, Stowe 

(802)253-9591 

www.laughingmoonchocolates.com 

December 2-6 

The Toys Take over Christmas 

UVM Theatre celebrates the holiday 

season with this favorite. 

(802) 656-2094 

www.uvmtheatre.org 

December 31 

First Night Burlington 

Burlington’s 27th Annual Festival of 

Arts. Presentations, shows, food, family 

activities. Noon – midnight. 

www.firstnightburlington.com 

First Night Rutland 

Rutland brings in 2010 with fireworks, 

festivities, and presentations. 

www.rutlanddowntown.com 

First Night Montpelier 

Montpelier ushers in 2010 with activities 

for all, shows, fun, and food. 

www.mdca.org 

New Year’s Eve Fireworks and 

Torchlight Parade 

Torchlight will start at 6:45pm, Fireworks 

at 7:00pm 

www.sugarbush.com 

The Vermont Bride Magazine 

Bridal Resource Guide 

for Fall 2009

The Vermont Bride Magazine Bridal Resource Guide for Fall 2009 

ALTERATIONS 

The Sewing Basket 

325 N. Main St., Barre, VT 

802-476-8389 ...& 

159 Pearl St., Essex Jct, VT 

802-878-7181 

Jagarden@aol.com 

See our ad vermontbridemagazine.com 

BEAUTY & WELLNESS 

Colonial Styling Center, Inc 

802-524-5630 

146 N Main St, St. Albans, VT 

CSC.VermontBrideMagazine.com 

Mary Kay 

802-425-3768 

valmullin@gmavt.net 

marykay.com/valmullin 

Moon Studio Day Spa 

802-985-9949 

4070 Shelburne Rd,Shelburne, VT 

moonstudio@myfairpoint.net 

moonstudiodayspa.com 

The New You Salon 

802-864-3700 

127 Porters Point Rd, Colchester, VT 

Thenewyousalon@aol.com 

thenewyousalon.org 

n Cosmetic & Aesthetic 

Services 

LUMINA 

Nancy Carlson Fisher, MD 

802-861-0200 

1775 Williston Rd, So. Burl. VT 

nancyfishermd.com 

Laser Therapy of Vermont 

Noelle Thabault, MD, LLC 

368 Dorset St. Suite 2, So. Burl. VT 

802-862-7555 & 

215 Stratton Rd, Rutland, VT 

802-775-2700 

n Spa Services 

Equinox Resort & Spa 

800-362-4747 

3567 Main St., Rt. 7A 

Manchester Village, VT 

spa@equinoxresort.com 

equinoxresort.com 

Moon Studio Day Spa 

802-985-9949 

4070 Shelburne Rd, Shelburne, VT 

moonstudio@myfairpoint.net 

moonstudiodayspa.com 

Red Clover Inn & Restaurant 

800-752-0571 

7 Woodward Road. Mendon, VT 

innkeepers@redcloverinn.com 

redcloverinn.com 

Waterfalls Day Spa 

802-388-0311 

14 Court House Square, Middlebury, VT 

waterfallsdayspa@gmail.com 

middleburyspa.com 

BRIDAL SHOPS 

China Rose Bridal 

802-879-7274 

11 Audry Lane, Westford, VT 

See our ad VermontBrideMagazine.com 

Needleman’s Bridal & Formal 

800-924-Gown (4696) 

(3) convenient locations... 

38 N Main St., St. Albans, VT 

One Main St., Newport, VT 

570 Shelburne Rd. Suite 2, Burl. VT 

info@needlemansbridal.com 

needlemansbridal.com 

BRIDAL GOWN PRESERVATION 

The Sewing Basket 

325 N. Main St., Barre, VT 

802-476-8389 ...& 

159 Pearl St., Essex Jct, VT 

802-878-7181 

Jagarden@aol.com 


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CAKES & PASTRIES 

Angel’s Cakes 

802-881-2218 

410 Farrel St. #105, So. Burl. VT 

amy@angelscakes.biz 

angelscakes.biz 

Bakery at Junior’s (Junior’s Italian) 

802 655-5282 

85 So.Park Dr., Colchester, VT 

noelbakeryatjuniors@gmail.com 

juniorsvt.com 

Ben & Jerry’s 

802-882-1240 (Ext. 2285) 

30 Community Drive So. Burl. VT 

Amy.Weller@benjerry.com 

benjerry.com 

Delicate Decadence 

Pastry Shop & Cafe 

802-479-7948 

15 Cottage St. Barre, VT 

finecakes@verizon.net 

DelDec.vermontbridemagazine.com 

La Brioche Bakery & Café 

(NECI) 

802-229-0443 

89 Main St., Montpelier, VT 

necidining@neci.edu 

necidining.com 

Contact: Chef Adrian Westrope 

Snaffle Sweets 

802-434-2400 

2921 East Main St, Richmond, VT 

snaffle.sweets@gmail.com 

snafflesweets.com 

CATERING 

The Abbey 

Toll-free: 800-696-4748 

212 VT Rte 105 Enosburg Falls, VT 

Rachel@abbeygroup.net 

abbeygroup.net 

Café Provence 

802-247-9997 

11 Center Street, Brandon, VT 

rbchef@cafeprovencevt.com 

cafeprovencevt.com 

Junior’s Long Island Catering 

Company. (Junior’s Italian) 

802-655-5555 

85 South Park Dr. Colchester, VT 


juniorsvt.com 

Kosher Cravings 

800-303-0107 

howardfleisher@charter.net 


New England Culinary Institute 

802-225-3333 

89 Main St. Montpelier, VT 


neci.edu 

State Street Catering 

802-229-6788 

8 State St., Montpelier, VT 

carol@statestreetcatering.com 

statestreetcatering.com 

Waterfront Catering Group 

802-658-3663 

1712 Shelburne Rd. So. Burl. VT 

gary@vermontspecialoccasions.com 

vermontspecialoccasions.com 

Wetherbee’s Catering 

802-878-3743, 

Toll-Free: 800-974-6102 

467 Depot Rd. Colchester, VT 

WFW06@comcast.net 

wetherbeescatering.com 

DESIGNER OUTLETS 

Manchester Designer Outlets 

802-688-8900 

Madison Ave. N, Manchester VT 

manchesterdesigneroutlets.com 

ENTERTAINMENT 

n DJ’s - Entertainers 

Corey Neil Gottfried 

802-893-7685 

PO Box 2022 Colchester, VT 

corey@lincoentertainment.com 

lincoentertainment.com 

Gerry Lawrence 

802-655-7534 

PO Box 5547, Essex Jct., VT 

accurite@sover.net 


Hp Entertainment 

802-862-5082 (c/o Hector Cobeo), 

70 Pleasant Ave, Burl, VT 

info@hpbands.com 

www.hpbands.com 

Ken Fox’s DIAL-A-DJ 

800-974-7116 

lumar@together.net 


Peak Entertainment 

802-888-6978 

email@peakdj.com 

peakdj.com 

Supersounds DJ 

802-899-2823 

PO Box 214 Underhill, VT 

ssounds@myfairpoint.net 

supersounds.com 

n Fireworks - Wedding 

Displays 

Celebration Fireworks 

of Vermont 

802-524-7063 

PO Box 2007, Georgia, VT 

jmsbyn@aol.com 

celebrationfireworksvt.com 

n Musicians 

Bella Dolce 

802-917-1957 

magic@belladolce.org 


Classic Consort 

802-849-6900 

PO Box 67 Fairfax, VT 

clarcell@classicconsort.com 

classicconsort.com 

DYAD 

Burlington, VT 

marymtheo@yahoo.com 

dyadstrings.com 

Hp Entertainment 

802-862-5082 (c/o Hector Cobeo) 

70 Pleasant Ave, Burl, VT 

info@hpbands.com 

www.hpbands.com 

Lisa Carlson 

802-229-9901 

lisa@lisaflute.com 

lisaflute.com 

Love That Duo 

802-899-2833 

17 Metcalf View, Underhill, VT 

charlottebrodie@comcast.net 

lovethatduo.com 

Sheefra: Celtic Harp & Concertina 

802-223-9103 

PO Box 522, Montpelier VT 

tim@sheefra.net www.sheefra.net 

Vermont Symphony Orchestra 

802-864-5741 (ext. 11) 

2 Church St.,Suite 19, Burl, VT 

rebecca@vso.org 

www.vso.org 

Contact: Rebecca Kopycinski, 

(Ensemble Coordinator) 

Toll-free: 800-VSO-9293 

FAVORS 

Angel’s Cakes 

802-881-2218 

410 Farrel St. #105, So. Burl. VT 

amy@angelscakes.biz 

angelscakes.biz 

As the Crow Flies 

802-524-2800 

58 N. Main Street, St. Albans, VT 

asthecrowflies@together.net 

asthecrowfliesvt.com 

Boyden Valley Winery 

802-644-8151 

64 Vt Route 104, Cambridge, VT 

info@boydenvalley.com 

boydenvalley.com 

Carman Brook Farm 

888-84-maple (6-2753) 

1275 Fortin Rd, Swanton, VT 

thefolks@cbmaplefarm.com 

cbmaplefarm.com 

Delicate Decadence 

Pastry Shop & Cafe 

802-479-7948 

15 Cottage St. Barre, VT 

finecakes@verizon.net 

DelDec.vermontbridemagazine.com 

The Store 

800-639-8031 

Route 100, PO Box 118, Waitsfield, VT 

info@vermontstore.com 

vermontstore.com 

Snaffle Sweets 

802-434-2400 

2921 East Main St, Richmond, VT 

snaffle.sweets@gmail.com 

snafflesweets.com 

VT Mountain Syrup 

802-888-5811 (Michael Caldwell) 

1831 Morey Hill Rd, North Wolcoltt, Vt 

mcaldwell@vtlink.net 

FINANCIAL PLANNING 

THE VERMONT AGENCY 

802-864-6819 

354 Mountain View Drive, Suite 200 

Colchester, VT 

Vermont_Agency @nlvmail.com 

www.vermontagency.com 

FLORIST - FLORAL DESIGNS 

Betty’s Flower Basket 

802-524-4146 

46 N. Main St., St. Albans, VT 

bettysflowerbasket@yahoo.com 

bettysflowerbasket.com 

Claussen’s Florist & Greenhouse 

Toll-free: 800-287-2361 

187 Main St., Colchester, VT 

retail@claussens.com 

claussens.com 

Esden Florist 

802-827-6160, 

Route 36, Fairfield, VT 


Howards The Flower Shop 

800-371-5715 

81 N. Main St., St. Albans, VT 

info@howardstheflowershop.com 

howardstheflowershop.com 

Peck’s Flower Shop 

Toll-free: 800-540-2336 

27 Winter St, Morrisville, VT 

brownpfs@pshift.com 

pecksflowershop.com 

Uncle George’s Flowers 

Toll-free: 800-624-0099 

638 So. Main St. Unit 7, Stowe, VT 

unclegeorgesflowers.com 

Village Green Florist 

802-879-7980 

60 Pearl St., Essex Jct., VT 

jenmikell@myfairpoint.net 

thevillagegreenflorist.net 

GIFT’S & BRIDAL 

REGISTRIES 

As the Crow Flies 

802-524-2800 

58 N. Main Street, St. Albans, VT 

asthecrowflies@together.net 

asthecrowfliesvt.com 

Bead Crazy, LLC 

802-288-9666 21 Taft Corners 

Shopping Ctn., Williston, VT 

info@beadcrazyvt.com 

beadcrazyvt.com 


802-644-8151 




Danforth Pewter 

800-222-3142 (x249) 

Workshop & Store, Middlebury,VT 

info@danforthpewter.com 

danforthpewter.com 

Manchester Designer Outlets 

802-688-8900 

Madison Ave. N, Manchester VT 

manchesterdesigneroutlets.com 

The Party Store 

802-878-1571 

Towne Marketplace, Essex Jct., VT 

802-773-3155 

120 Strongs Ave., Rutland, VT 

603-543-1795 

17 Washington St., Claremont, NH 

nafparty@aol.com 

thepartystores.com 

The Store 

800-639-8031 

Route 100, PO Box 118,Waitsfield, VT 

info@vermontstore.com 

vermontstore.com 

HONEYMOONS 

Island Travel Plus 

802-343-0331 

splittle@comcast.net 

www.islandtravelplus.com 

Travel N Leisure PLUS 

802-324-9997 

travelnlplus@gmail.com 

www.travelnleisure.com 

INVITATIONS 


802-878-1571 


802-773-3155 


603-543-1795 




JEWELRY 

Bead Crazy, LLC 

802-288-9666 

21 Taft Corners, Williston, VT 

info@beadcrazyvt.com 

beadcrazyvt.com 

Eaton’s Fine Jewelry 

802-524-4055 

30 North Main St., St. Albans, VT 

service@eatonsjewelry.com 

eatonsjewelry.com 

Ferro Estate & Custom Jewelers 


Toll Free: 800-538-9641 

802-457-1901 

11 Central St., Woodstock, VT 

woodstock@ferrojewelers.com 

802-253-3033 

91 Main St., Stowe, VT 

stowe@ferrojewelers.com 

802-760-4718 

Stowe Mountain Lodge, 

7412 Mountain Rd., Stowe, VT 

sml@ferrojewelers.com 

www.ferrojewelers.com 

JK Jewelry 

802-985-9909 

2989 Shelburne Rd., 

Shelburne Bay Plaza, Shelburne, VT 

info@jkvt.com 

www.jkvt.com 

Katies Jewels 

802-229-4353 

4 State St., Montpelier, VT 

katiesjewels8@aol.com 

katiesjewels.com 

Precious Things Jewelers 

802-933-4503 

349 Main St., Enosburg Falls, VT 

ferlands@myfairpoint.net 

PTJ.vermontbridemagazine.com 

Stowe Gems 

802-253-7000 

70 Pond St. Stowe, VT 

sales@stowegems.com 

stowegems.com 

Vermont Hook Bracelet 

802-229-2949 

423 Brazier Rd, E. Montpelier, VT 

jim@vermonthookbracelet.com 

VermontHookBracelet.com 

LODGING 

Arlington Inn 

800-443-9442 

Historic Route 7A, Arlington, VT 

stay@arlingtoninn.com 

arlingtoninn.com 

Brandon Inn 

800-639-8685 

20 Park St., Brandon, VT 

brandoninn@hotmail.com 

historicbrandoninn.com 

Capitol Plaza Hotel & 

Conference Ctn 

800-274-5252 

100 State St, Montpelier, VT 

info@capitolplaza.com 

capitolplaza.com 


800-362-4747 

3567 Main St. Route 7A, 


Reservations@equinoxresort.com 


Essex Resort & Spa 

800-727-4295 

70 Essex Way, Essex, VT 

innfo@vtculinaryresort.com 

vtculinaryresort.com 

Golden Eagle Resort 

800-626-1010 

511 Mountain Rd, Stowe, VT 

info@goldeneagleresort.com 

goldeneagleresort.com 

Hampton Inn 

802-655-6177 

42 Lower Mountain View 

Dr.,Colchester, VT 

burlingtonvt.hamptoninn.com 

Hilton (Burlington) Hotel 

802-658-6500 

60 Battery Street, Burlington, VT 

sara.weiskotten@hilton.com 

burlington.hilton.com 

Holiday Inn Burlington 

802-419-6218 

1068 Williston Rd,So. Burlington, VT 

sabrina@innvermont.com 

Lilac Inn 

800-221-0720 


innkeeper@lilacinn.com 

www.lilacinn.com 

Middlebury Inn 

877-584-6550 (ext. 280) 

14 Court Square Middlebury, VT 

guy@middleburyinn.com 

middleburyinn.com 


Montgomery House Inn 

802-326-3269 

Route 118, Montgomery Village, VT 

montgomeryhouseinn.com 

Mountain Top Inn & Resort 

800-445-2100 

195 Mountain Top Rd, Chittenden, VT 

khele@mountaintopinn.com 

mountaintopinn.com 

Ponds at Bolton Valley Resort 

877-9BOLTON 

4302 Bolton Access Rd, 

Bolton Valley, VT 

info@thepondsvt.com 

thepondsvt.com 


800.752.0571 

7 Woodward Road. Merton, VT 



Stables & Inn at Pigeon Hill Farm 

802-933-2719 

286 Montgomery Rd., E.Berkshire, VT 

pigeonhill@pigeonhillfarm.com 

pigeonhillfarm.com 

Sunset Ballroom - 


802-658-3663 

1712 Shelburne Rd., So. Burl, VT 



Super 8 Burlington 

802-985-8037 

2572 Shelburne Rd., Shelburne, VT 

sales@super8vt.com 

www.super8vt.com 

Tourterelle Inn, Dining & Events 

802-453-6309 

3629 Ethan Allen Hwy, New Haven,VT 

www.tourterellevt.com 

Trapp Family Lodge 

800-826-7000 

700 Trapp Hill Rd, Stowe, VT 

rh@trappfamily.com 

trappfamily.com 

Vermont Inn 

800-541-7795 

Route 4, Killington, VT 

relax@vermontinn.com 

vermontinn.com 

Waybury Inn 

800-348-1810 

PO Box 27, East Middlebury, VT 

info@wayburyinn.com 

wayburyinn.com 

Wilburton Inn 

800-648-4944 

River Rd. Manchester Village, VT 

wilbuinn@sover.net 

www.wilburton.com 

Ye Olde England Inne 

800-477-3771 


englandinn@aol.com 

englandinn.com 

OFFICIANTS 

Rev. Dr. Michael Caldwell 

802-888-5811 

1830 Morey Hill Rd, Wolcott, VT 

michael.caldwell.75@alum. 

dartmouth.org 

www.coachingcenterofvt.com 

Susan Davidson 

802-746-8076 

P.O. Box 522, Pittsfield, VT 05762 

shoshanahd@myfairpoint.net 

Jan Salzman 

802-457-3556 

P.O. Box 202, N. Pomfret, VT 

jansalz@sover.net 

PARTY SUPPLIES 


802-878-1571 


802-773-3155 


603-543-1795 




PHOTOGRAPHERS 


802-338-9193 

85 Midnight Pass, Colchester, VT 

Info@AyerPhoto.com 

www.ayerphoto.com 


802-524-3510 

30 Freeborn St., St. Albans, VT 

Ed-and-Sharon@ 

BalentinePhotography.com 

balentinephotography.com 


802-373-3994 

Huntington, VT 

chris@christianarthurphotography.com 

christianarthurphotography.com 

Great Impressions Portrait 

Studio 

802-782-6561 

351 N River St., Swanton, VT 

greatpixs@gmail.com 

www.greatpix.us 

Jeff Schneiderman 

Photography 

802-878-0769 

2393 Oak Hill Rd., Williston, VT 

jsphotos@aol.com 

jeffschneiderman.com 


802-598-4007 

Jeffersonville, VT 

kim@kimmartinphoto.com 

kimmartinphoto.com 


802-244-7954 

149 Grove Lane, Waterbury Ctr., VT 

Larry@Lasamphoto.com 

lasamphoto.com 

Mager Studios 

802-355-6177 

24 Steeplebush Rd, Essex Jct, VT 

amager1@comcast.net 

magerstudios.com 


802-524-0916 

126 Fox Lane St, St. Albans,VT 

info@northcountryphotography.com 

northcountryphotography.com 

Olga McVey Photography 

802-309-4004 

P.O. Box 1436, St. Albans,VT 

Olgamcveyphotography.com 

mcveyweddingphotography.com 


888-888-3133 

84 Lower Main St., Morrisville, VT 

haymaker@principia.edu 

orahmoore.net or.... 

haymakerpress.com 


518-854-9923 

ddcpolis@earthlink.net 

polisfoto.com 


800-286-4418 

1500 Hinesburg Rd. So. Burl, VT 

pgallery@comcast.net 

portraitgallery-vt.com 

RaidenShine Photography 

802-598-9186 

128 Sandra Circle, Burl., VT 

customer_service@raidenshine.com 

raidenshine.com 


802-524-5700 

42 South Main St., St. Albans VT 

stinaphotos@gmail.com 

stinaplant.com 

Synchronicity Photography 

802-238-5666 

409 Farrell St. Unit 109, So.Burl. VT 

info@synchronicityphotography.net 

synchronicityphotography.net 

Whipple’s Studio 

802-334-8138 

387 Union St, Newport, VT 

drwhip@kingdomcolor.com 

donwhipplephotography.com 

RECEPTION SITES - 

WEDDING VENUES 


800-696-4748 

6212 VT Rte 105, Enosburg Falls, VT 



Arlington Inn 

800-443-9442 




Barn at Boyden Farm 

802-644-6363 

44 VT Route 104 Cambridge, VT 

threefarmgirls@pshift.com 


Brandon Inn 

800-639-8685 




Burlington Country Club 

802-864-4683 (ext. 103) 

568 South Prospect St., Burl.,VT 

annep@burlingtoncountryclub.org 

burlingtoncountryclub.org 

Capitol Plaza 

Hotel & Conference Center 

800-274-5252 




Catamount Country Club 

802-878-7227 

1400 Mtn.View Dr, Williston, VT 

alex@catamountgolf.com 

catamountcountryclub.com 

Dancing Sail Banquet Room 

802-334-9100 

47 Landing St., Newport, VT 

dancingsails@surfglobal.net 

See our Ad VermontBrideMagazine.com 

ECHO at Leahy Center 

802-864-1848 (ext. 124) 

One College St, Burlington, VT 

vschueler@echovermont.org 

echovermont.org 


800-362-4747 

3567 Main St. Route 7A, 


rwhitelaw@equinoxresort.com 



800-727-4295 





800-626-1010 




Hampton Inn 

802-655-6177 

42 Lower Mountain View Dr. 

Colchester, VT 



802-658-6500 




2008 


802-419-6218 

1068 Williston Rd,So. Burlington, VT 

If you are a Vermont Wedding Professional, then you need to be in Vermont Bride Magazine, call 802-879-3157 or vtbride@vermontbridemagazine.com 



Jeudevine Falls Event Center 

802-472-5486 

2259 Craftsbury Rd, Hardwick, VT 

bat409@kingcon.com 

waterfallswedding.com 

Junior’s Italian 

802-655-5555 



juniorsvt.com 

Lilac Inn 

800-221-0720 



lilacinn.com 


877-584-6550 (ext. 280) 





802-326-3269 




800-445-2100 

195 Mountain Top Rd., Chittenden, VT 



New England Culinary Inst. 

Main Street Grill 

802-223-3188 


necidining@neci.edunecidining.com 

Old Lantern 

802-425-2120 

3260 Greenbush Rd., Charlotte, VT 

rolands@gmavt.net 

oldlantern.com 


877-9BOLTON 

4302 Bolton Access Rd, Bolton Valley, VT 




800.752.0571 




Spirit of Ethan Allen III 

802-862-8300 

348 Flynn Ave.,Burlington, VT 

spirit@soea.com 

www.soea.com 


802-933-2719 






802-658-3663 

1712 Shelburne Rd, S. Burl., VT 




802-985-8037 

2572 Shelburne Rd. Shelburne, VT 


super8vt.com 


802-453-6309 


www.tourterellevt.com 


800-826-7000 





800-541-7795 

Route 4 Killington, VT 



Waybury Inn 

800-348-1810 




Wilburton Inn 

800-648-4944 

River Rd., Manchester Village, VT 


wilburton.com 


800-477-3771 



englandinn.com 

REHEARSAL DINNERS 


800-696-4748 

6212 VT Rte 105, Enosburg Falls, VT 



Arlington Inn 

800-443-9442 




Barn at Boyden Farm 

802-644-6363 

44 VT Route 104 Cambridge, VT 

threefarmgirls@pshift.com 


Brandon Inn 

800-639-8685 




Burlington Country Club 

802-864-4683 (ext. 103) 

568 S Prospect St., Burl.,VT 

annep@burlingtoncountryclub.org 

burlingtoncountryclub.org 

Café Provence 

802-247-9997 

11 Center Street, Brandon, VT 

rbchef@cafeprovencevt.com 

cafeprovencevt.com 

Capitol Plaza 

Hotel & Conference Center 

800-274-5252 




Catamount Country Club 

802-878-7227 

1400 Mtn.View Dr, Williston, VT 

alex@catamountgolf.com 

catamountcountryclub.com 

Dancing Sail Banquet Room 

802-334-9100 

47 Landing St., Newport, VT 

dancingsails@surfglobal.net 


ECHO at Leahy Center 

802-864-1848 (ext. 124) 

One College St, Burlington, VT 

vschueler@echovermont.org 

echovermont.org 


800-362-4747 

3567 Main Street Route 7A, 


rwhitelaw@equinoxresort.com 



800-727-4295 





800-626-1010 




Hampton Inn 

802-655-6177 

42 Lower Mtn View Dr. Colchester, VT 



802-658-6500 





802-419-6218 

1068 Williston Rd, So. Burl., VT 


Junior’s Italian 

802-655-5555 



juniorsvt.com 

Lilac Inn 

800-221-0720 



lilacinn.com 


877-584-6550 (ext. 280) 





802-326-3269 




800-445-2100 

195 Mountain Top Rd, Chittenden, VT 



New England Culinary Inst. – 

Main Street Grill 

802-223-3188 



neci.edu 

Old Lantern 

802-425-2120 

3260 Greenbush Rd. Charlotte, VT 

rolands@gmavt.net 

oldlantern.com 


877-9BOLTON 

4302 Bolton Access Rd Bolton Valley, VT 




800.752.0571 




Spirit of Ethan Allen III 

802-862-8300 

348 Flynn Ave.,Burlington, VT 

spirit@soea.com 

soea.com 


802-933-2719 






802-658-3663 

1712 Shelburne Rd., S. Burl., VT 




802-985-8037 

2572 Shelburne Rd. Shelburne, VT 


super8vt.com 


802-453-6309 


tourterellevt.com 

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The Vermont Bride Magazine 

Accommodations 

Facility 

Maximum 

Party 

If you are a Vermont Wedding Professional, then you need to advertise in 

Vermont Bride Magazine, call 802-879-3157 or vtbride@vermontbridemagazine.com 

Catering 

Provided 

Choice of 

Caters 

Guest Rooms 

on Premises 

at a glance information guide 

Separate Area 

for Ceremony 

Months to 

Plan Ahead 

Reception 

Area 

Outside 

The Abbey 200 Y N N Y 1-6 Y Y 

Arlington Inn 200 Y N Y Y 3-6 Y Y 

The Barn at Boyden Farm No Limit N Y N N 1-12 Y Y 

Brandon Inn 200 + Y N Y Y 3-12 Y Y 

Burlington Country Club 200 Y N N Y 6-12 Y Y 

Cafe Provence 200 Y N N Y *(7) 6-8 Y *(7) Y *(7) 

Capitol Plaza Hotel & Conference Center 350 Y N Y Y 9 N Y 

Catamount Country Club 200 Y Y*(8) N*(9) Y 3-6 Y Y 

Dancing Sail Banquet Room 200 Y N N Y 3-12 Y Y 

Echo at Leahy Center 750 N Y N Y 3-6 Y Y 

Equinox Resort & Spa 350 Y N Y Y 3-6 Y Y 

Essex Resort & Spa 250 Y N Y Y 8.12 Y Y 

Golden Eagle Resort 50 Y Y Y Y 3-6 N Y*(10) 

Hampton Inn 300 Y N Y Y 1-60 Y Y 

Hilton Burlington Hotel 500 Y N Y Y 6-12 Y Y 

Holiday Inn Burlington 130 Y N Y Y 1-6 N Y 

Jeudevine Falls Nature & Event Center 200 N Y N Y 4 Y Y 

Junior’s Italian 50 Y N N Y 3 N N 

Lilac Inn 130-250 Y N Y Y 3-6 Y Y 

Middlebury Inn 125 Y N 75 Y 6-9 Y Y 

Montgomery House Inn 30(12)45(13) Y Y Y Y 1-6 N Y(4) 

Mountain Top Inn & Resort 300(16) Y N(17) Y Y 3-12 Y Y 

New England Culinary Institute Main St Grill 40 Y N N N 3-6 N N 

The Old Lantern 350 N Y N Y 2-6 Y Y 

The Ponds at Bolton Valley Resort 400 Y N Y Y 1-12 Y Y 

Red Clover Inn & Restaurant 200 Y N Y Y 3-12 Y Y(4) 

Sheldon Casino 400 Y N N Y 6-9 Y Y 

Spirit of Ethan Allen III 500 Y N N Y 3-6 Y Y 

Stables & Inn At Pegon Hill Farm 150 Y N Y Y 6-12 Y Y 

Sunset Ballroom 225 Y N Y Y 3-6 Y Y 

Super-8 Burlington Hotel 75 Y Y Y N 6-12 Y Y 

Tourterelle Inn, Dining & Events 200 Y N Y Y 3-12 Y Y 

Trapp Family Lodge 100 12 500 13 Y N Y Y 4 Y Y 

The Vermont Inn 200 Y N Y Y 6-12 Y Y 

Waybury Inn 200 Y N Y Y 6-12 Y Y 

ye Olde England Inne 140 Y N Y Y 6-12 Y Y 


Dance Floor 

Notes: 3) Catering arrangements can be made upon request. 4) Arrangements for a dance floor rental can be made. 5) Arrangements for a wheelchair accessible portable restroom can be made. 6) Off-site catering available 

November-April. 7) An Offsite premise can be arranged - please call for details. 8) Subject to extra fees. 9) Will assist making arrangements with local Hotels (Shuttles Available). 10) This is provided as a rental item. 11) 

Optional for smaller functions. 12) indoor capacity 13) outdoor capacity 14) Call for details 15) Note: Additional Cost 16) Max Party Size is 300 (tented) and 100 (inside) 17) Possible exceptions depending upon the season. 

*PLEASE NOTE, WITH REGARD TO several OF THE ABOVE LISTED PARTY SIZE (CAPACITY) NUMBERS; THESE CAN EASILY BE INCREASED WITH THE OPTION OF A TENT RENTAL. Be sure to inquire for availability. 


Bridal Resource Guide for Fall 2009 



800-826-7000 





800-541-7795 

Route 4 Killington, VT 



Waybury Inn 

800-348-1810 




Wilburton Inn 

800-648-4944 

River Rd. (off Historic Rt.7A) 



www.wilburton.com 


800-477-3771 



www.englandinn.com 

WEDDING COORDINATORS - 

EVENT PLANNERS 

VT Weddings by Kim 

802-988-4730 

275 Cemetery Rd, North Troy, VT 

info@vtweddingsbykim.com 

vtweddingsbykim.com 

What’s The Occasion? 

802-734-6377 KelRivers@aol.com 

TRANSPORTATION 

Apollo Limousine 

800.696.7433 

666 Riverside Ave. Burlington, VT 

info@apollo-limo.com 

apollo-limo.com 

Burlington Limousine & Car Service 

800-666-3471 

265 Aviation Ave., So. Burlington, VT 

limo@sover.net 

burlingtonvtlimo.com 

Middlebury Transit 

800-388-1002 

P.O. Box 423, Middlebury, VT 

transit@middlebury.net 

middleburytransit.com 

Notch Above Tours 

800-639-2367 

P.O. Box 367, Jeffersonville, VT 

info@notchabovetours.com 

notchabovetours.com 

Vermont Chauffeured Transportation 

800-388-0150 

limo@limovermont.com 

limovermont.com 

Quick Quips and Helpful Tips 


TENTS & RENTALS 

Champlain Valley Tent Rentals 

802-524-0990 

81 N. Main St. St. Albans, VT 

info@champlainvalleytentrentals.com 

champlainvalleytentrentals.com 

Claussen’s Florist & Greenhouse 

Toll-free: 800-287-2361 

187 Main St., Colchester, VT 

retail@claussens.com 

claussens.com 

Dundon’s Portable Restroom Services 

802-948-2082, 

PO Box 100 Orwell, VT 

dundonph@shoreham.net 

dundonplumbing.com 

Weddings, Tents & Events 

888-898-3839 

155 Carroll Rd., Waitsfield, VT 

amyw@weddingstentsevents.com 

weddingstentsevents.com 

TUXEDOS 

Needleman’s Bridal & Formal 

Toll free: 800-924-Gown (4696) 


38 N Main St., St. Albans, VT 

One Main St., Newport, VT 

570 Shelburne Rd. Suite 2, Burl. VT 

info@needlemansbridal.com 

needlemansbridal.com 

VIDEOGRAPHERS - 

WEDDING VIDEOGRAPHY 

Goochiano Productions, LLC 

802-310-9193 

PO Box 532, Winooski, VT 

customerservice@goochiano.com 

goochiano.com 

Passport Video 

800-871-8374 

104 Cornerstone Dr. 

Tafts Farms Village Center, Williston, VT 

passportvideo@aol.com 

Time Capsule Video Productions 

802-524-3633 

rlarocque@timecapvideo.com 

timecapvideo.com 

Video-Vermont.com 

802-895-4295, PO Box 219, Morgan VT 

photos@photosvermont.com 

video-vermont.com 

WINERIES - VINEYARDS 


802-644-8151 




From Vermont Bride Magazine 

• Make your own wedding favors with flower bags filled 

with tulip, lily, dahlia, muscari, and gladiolus bulbs. A 

wonderful reminder of your love and commitment for your 

guests. 

• Don’t be afraid to ask for help from friends, close 

co-workers, and family. Wedding planning is monumental. 

Your inner circle will want to help and hearing other 

opinions can be refreshing. 

• Consider boutonnières or corsages for readers, 

photographers, Master of Ceremonies, band/DJ, and 

videographers. Although not required, the thought will be 

appreciated. 

• Wearing a strapless dress? Remember this when your 

at the beach or sunbathing and the top has straps! Think 

strapless! 

• Floating candles in a variety of glassware creates interesting 

visual beauty without breaking the budget. 

• Attend tastings and keep in mind that presentation is as 

important as flavor. 

• Personalize bouquets with extra fabric from dresses 

wrapped around stems. 

• Ask to see portfolios of vendor’s work. 

• If your reception is outside, make sure to have a Plan B 

in case of inclement weather. 

• Incorporate the season with your wedding: use acorns, 

maple leaves, gourds and pumpkins as decoration in the 

autumn. For summer: potted plants and herbs, fresh fruits 

and vegetables, and anything beach. 

If you are a Vermont Wedding Professional, then you need to advertise in Vermont Bride Magazine, 

call 802-879-3157 or vtbride@vermontbridemagazine.com 

Watch for our Winter issue 

coming in January 2010 

Vermont Bride Magazine: Available throughout Vermont and by mail throughout the United States. 

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Vermont’s First and Foremost Bridal 

Magazine now in its 19th year. 


Your Wedding Your Way 

Happily Ever After Part 2 

by Michael Caldwell, Partnership Center of Vermont 

In the last issue, in the story of Alex and Susanna, Alex 

confronted his urge to stray from his marriage vows. When the 

honeymoon was over only about a year after their marriage, 

he took himself to the pastor’s office to deal with it. The short 

story: he realized where his urges were coming from and righted 

himself in the nick of time. His only question was 

whether and how to talk to Susanna about it… 

Alex went back again to the pastor who had 

married him and Susanna. He was torn about 

talking with her about his “stuff.” If he did, 

she might over-react. If he didn’t, the secret 

seemed like it might remain and fester. He 

laid out his ambivalence in the office. 

“I feel damned if I do and damned if I 

don’t… talk to her. I can’t decide.” 

“What would be good in it for Susanna?” 

“I’m not sure it would do any good. 

Short term, she’d be furious. She might 

eventually appreciate my honesty, especially 

since nothing happened, but I’m not sure it’s 

worth the risk.” 

“Didn’t she have some issues, before you 

were married, with staying faithful in her last 

relationship? How do you know she doesn’t struggle 

too?” 

“I don’t, but that’s true; I might not be alone in this. That could 

be key. Maybe if we came in here together… maybe that would 

give me the courage to talk about it with her.” 

Alex called Susanna from the office to set up the appointment, 

to address it right away. She was surprised and apprehensive, 

but agreed to the meeting. When the time came, they sat down 

together on the couch. The pastor reminded them that all 

couples have ups and downs and thanked them for being willing 

to come in. Then, he asked Alex to share with Susanna directly 

what had precipitated the meeting. He’d coached him enough so 

that he relaxed into his sadness about his hiding his urges from 

her. From that place of grief, he was able to tell her about his 

struggle. Susanna listened, wincing. She took deep breaths as he 

spoke, looking him in the eye. 

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When he finished, she spoke. 

“Is it me?” She clearly needed some reassurance. 

“It’s not at all about you, love. I love you as much – no more, now 

– than I ever did. It’s from the compulsiveness that ruined 

things before for me. This time, I caught it before it 

went too far.” 

“Are you sure? How can you be sure?” 

“I’ve never talked about it before. Somehow 

the talking gets me beyond it. If we’re tight 

and talking, it doesn’t need to be an issue.” 

“Maybe I might need to talk too.” 

“Huh?” 

Rev. Dr. Michael Caldwell 

(whose parishioners call “Rev 

Michael”) runs the Partnership 

Center of Vermont (www. 

coachingcenterofvt.com) from his 

home in North Wolcott, VT. 

Along with his ministry in 

New England’s Congregational 

tradition, he coaches couples 

preparing for marriage, and 

officiates ceremonies all over 

Vermont, indoors or outside. 

“Maybe you’re not the only one that needs 

to talk about stuff like this…” 

Alex smiled. Somehow he knew things 

would be okay now, if they could just keep 

talking. 

Contact Michael for a free consultation at 802-888-5811 

michael.caldwell.75@alum.dartmouth.org 

Website: www.coachingcenterofvt.com 

Photo of wedding couple by lucas DeSousa 


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