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the Holy Qur'an, chapter 2 verse 234. A reference which is very easy to remember -<br />
2:234, just 2234!<br />
If any <strong>of</strong> you die<br />
and leave widows behind,<br />
<strong>The</strong>y shall wait concerning themselves<br />
four months and ten days:<br />
When they have fulfilled their term,<br />
there is no blame on you<br />
if they dispose <strong>of</strong> themselves<br />
in a just and reasonable manner.<br />
And God is well acquainted<br />
with what ye do.<br />
I asked the audience, "FOUR MONTHS AND TEN DAYS, do you need any<br />
interpretation!?" <strong>The</strong>y all answered in chorus, "NO!", I explained to the learned clergy<br />
the wisdom behind the period <strong>of</strong> "four months and ten days." In the preceding verses, in<br />
this Last and Final Testament <strong>of</strong> God, we were told about the period <strong>of</strong> waiting after<br />
divorce:<br />
Divorced women shall wait<br />
concerning themselves<br />
for three monthly periods ...<br />
(HOLY QUR'AN 2:228)<br />
This is in order to see that the marriage conditionally dissolved was likely to result in an<br />
issue. Whereas in the case <strong>of</strong> widowhood an extra period <strong>of</strong> one month and ten days are<br />
prescribed. Very logical everyone will agree, but what is miraculous about all this? Any<br />
wise man could have guessed these 3 months period after divorce and 4 months and ten<br />
days after the demise <strong>of</strong> the husband. Muhummed's (pbuh) guess is as good as anybody<br />
else's! This is true, but the pro<strong>of</strong> that all this healthy useful teaching is not Muhummed's<br />
(pbuh) handiwork is in the verse following the 4 months and ten days period:<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no blame on you<br />
if ye make an <strong>of</strong>fer <strong>of</strong> betrothal<br />
or hold it in your hearts.<br />
God knows that ye cherish<br />
them in your hearts:<br />
But do not enter into a<br />
secret contract with them<br />
except in terms honourable,<br />
Nor resolve on the tie <strong>of</strong> marriage<br />
till the term prescribed<br />
is fulfilled.<br />
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