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Step One: Preparebrea<strong>the</strong> like you were breathing, and feel <strong>the</strong> feelings of being totallymotivated.”Once again, Neil did what Sam said. In just a few moments, hefelt motivated. Sam asked how he felt and Neil replied, “I’m stillconfident, and now I feel motivated too.”Sam said, “<strong>The</strong> feelings you want already exist inside you. You’vehad <strong>the</strong>m before; you can use Instant Recall to bring <strong>the</strong>m up anytimeyou need <strong>the</strong>m. As easily as you can recall thoughts, you canrecall feelings and bring <strong>the</strong>m into <strong>the</strong> present. So how would youwant to feel, going into a sales meeting?”Neil answered, “Confident, relaxed, and motivated.”Sam said, “So before your meeting, find a quiet space. For each of<strong>the</strong>se feelings—confident, relaxed, and motivated—remember a specifictime you felt that way. Close your eyes, bring up <strong>the</strong> picture, stepinto it, and remember what you saw, heard, and felt. Brea<strong>the</strong> like youwere breathing. With a little practice, you could probably do all threefeelings in a minute or two. Instant Recall is easy and powerful.”“Alright, I’ll do it, Sam.”Sam said, “Master salespeople know how to put <strong>the</strong>mselves “instate”whenever <strong>the</strong>y need to, just like an actor who assumes <strong>the</strong> roleof a character before walking on stage.“Also, master salespeople are flexible enough to change statesquickly, whenever <strong>the</strong> situation requires a shift. If a prospect sayssomething that throws you off, don’t go into a negative state or second-guessyourself; just ask yourself what needs to happen next.”Sam continued, “Once you’ve recalled and installed <strong>the</strong> state youwant to be in, <strong>the</strong> next step is to focus on your desired outcome for<strong>the</strong> meeting. It may be closing <strong>the</strong> sale. If your sale requires multiplemeetings, your outcome may be having your prospect agree to <strong>the</strong>next meeting. Whatever it is, create a mental picture of achieving your 43

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