Cadre Spouse Guide - TRADOC - U.S. Army

Dual military
What are some good tips for dual military couples in an IET
environment?
The balance between marriage and military can be stressful.
Both service members may be in difficult IET assignments. You
know what each other are going through so develop a schedule
that will balance your lives. The couple’s command
environments are also factors in how stressful or managed your
time will be. There must be organization when both parents are
in the military, especially when children are involved.
Helpful Tips
� Communication is very important
� Always have an approved Family Care Plan ready
� Make financial plans for all extra child-related expenses
� Make a dinner menu for the week, that will alleviate time
deciding what to serve or prepare (thawing meat, etc.)
� Iron and lay out clothes for the week, this preparation will
save some time in the weekday mornings
� Give children chores and responsibilities to lighten the load
� Make time for each other as a couple
� Go out on dates
� Put kids to bed a little early
� Create and appreciate quality time
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