Inside This Issue - Ohel Children's Home and Family Services

Inside
This
Issue
SPECIAL FRIENDS 2
FOSTER CARE/MAYOR BLOOMBERG 3
NEW DIRECTIONS 4
J & R MUSIC/FELLOWS/AUCTION 5
IN WHOM DO YOU “TRUST?” 6
OHEL SCHOOL BASED PROGRAMS 7
SCHOOLS AND CAMPS 8-9
GOLF TOURNAMENTS 10-11
ANNUAL DINNER HIGHLIGHTS 12-13
SIMCHA PROGRAM/KADIMAH 14
LEASE ON LIFE/SAFE HOUSE OPENED 15
YOUNG COUPLES/SWISH-A-THON 16
A publication of
Ohel Children’s Home and Family Services
YOUNG LEADERSHIP/APPLE BASH 5 17
SPOTLIGHT ON ALUMNI 18
HEWLETT OFFICE OPENS 18
WRAPPY HOUR 18
VIP SEMINAR/WOMEN’S CLUB 19
FLORIDA FRIENDS 20
SUMMER 2007
Vol. 2 No. 2
GARMENT CENTER SYNAGOGUE 20
SPECIAL SUPPORTERS 21
HOLOCAUST CONFERENCE 21
BOWLING/SUPPORTED EMPLOYMENT 22
LETTERS/MARK DOWN THESE DATES 23
ANNUAL OHEL BENEFIT CONCERT 24

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FOCUS ON Special Friends of OHEL
Congresswoman
Debbie Wasserman Schultz
(D–FL 20th), the first Jewish Congresswoman ever
elected in Florida, has an impressive portfolio. A
“Cardinal” on the House Committee on
Appropriations, member of the Judiciary Committee
and as Chief Deputy Whip, Representative
Wasserman Schultz is uniquely well-positioned to
serve her constituents and greatly influence longrange
policy goals and key issues facing Congress. A
visit to her offices in Washington, Aventura or
Pembroke Pines reveals Debbie Wasserman Schultz’s
passions. This includes her family and strong advocacy
for children and women’s rights, as well as
protection of our environment.
(D–NY 4th) has served Long Island since 1996 and is
the first woman to represent Long Island.
Congresswoman McCarthy visited OHEL Bais Ezra’s
residence in Woodmere for six young women with
developmental disabilities. These women described
Christine C. Quinn
(D-District #3 NYC)
is the prominent
Speaker of the New
York City Council
and she recently
visited with OHEL
Board, Staff and
Clients to learn more
about our services
and programs.
During a recent visit, Congresswoman Wasserman
Schultz and David Mandel discussed OHEL’s work
in South Florida focusing on school-based education
and prevention from harmful involvement in drug
and alcohol abuse, eating disorders and sexual
abuse.
Congresswoman Carolyn McCarthy
NYC Council Speaker Christine C. Quinn
their work in the local community and their interests
to expand their social and learning opportunities.
Congresswoman McCarthy is well-known for her
passion on gun control, strong advocacy on behalf of
children, working to make colleges more affordable,
overseeing the financial service system and protecting
the identity of Long Islanders.
OHEL Bais Ezra services in Congresswoman
McCarthy’s district have grown dramatically with
housing, in-home habilitation and respite and schoolbased
services. Congresswoman McCarthy’s role as
chairwoman of the subcommittee on Health, Families
and Communities resonates with OHEL’s mission of
strengthening families.
Speaker Quinn with (l. to r.) Chesky Wertman, President, Bais Ezra; Speaker Christine
Quinn; Councilman Simcha Felder; Mrs. Rose Pollack; Moishe Hellman, President, Ohel;
Mrs. Breindel Lehon; Mel Zachter, Chairman, Executive Committee; Mr. Bert Gross,
President, Boro Park Parents of Young Adults with Special Needs; and David Mandel, CEO.

WON’T YOU BE
JUDAH’S FOSTER
PARENTS?
A PLEA TO FIND A FAMILY!
“I want a family!” These are the actual words of
Judah, an 11 year old boy. He is sweet and caring. His
determination and resilience have helped him through
many trying times. He loves to read and ride his bike.
These are his two favorite hobbies.
But Judah is not your average child – he needs a loving
family because he is a foster child. After being abused and
neglected and finally abandoned by his parents who suffer
from mental illness and drug addictions, the Administration
for Children’s Services contacted OHEL who stepped in to
provide for Judah’s needs.
After spending some time in foster homes, Judah has been
living in institutional residences for the past few years,
receiving treatment for the psychiatric and emotional issues
that have followed him.
Help raise a child whose biological parents can not.
Save a life! Become an OHEL Foster/Adoptive Parent.
Judah and other children are waiting….
Mayor Bloomberg Hosts BBQ
INVITES OHEL STAFF AND CLIENTS
Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg hosted a barbeque
in honor of the Mayoral Advocacy Awards and
to celebrate the 16th Anniversary of the
Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) at
Gracie Mansion. Among the guests were staff
and Clients who were invited to represent
OHEL at the festivities. Seen left to right are
Goldie Simons; Mayor Bloomberg; Yossi Simons;
and Leah Rokeach, Assistant Director, AMHS.
There is no question that Judah has a rough road ahead of
him. He suffers from severe ADHD and has learning
disabilities. Things are difficult right now.
You see, Judah has shown much progress in the residence,
and OHEL is now working hard to reconnect him with a
home and a family — a family that will love him and give
him the security that he needs to grow, develop and learn
to trust again.
In today’s world, where the percentage of children at risk is
rising, we wonder how we can make a difference. Kol Yisrael
Arevim Zeh Lazeh. We are members of a nation that shares
responsibility for one another. Now is the time to act. We
don’t want to fail Judah and the others.
For more information,
call 718-851-6300.
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By: David Mandel, Chief Executive Officer
What do Lawrence and Cedarhurst in
the Five Towns, Brooklyn, Manhattan and
Far Rockaway have in common? These are
all communities OHEL recently opened a
new home for people with developmental
or psychiatric disabilities or will do so in the
near future. In addition to our two main
counseling centers in Brooklyn (Flatbush
and Boro Park) OHEL Bais Ezra now has
offices at 1150 Broadway in Hewlett, Route
59 in Monsey, 696 Palisade Avenue in
Teaneck, as well as Lakewood, New Jersey
and in South Florida.
School Based Services continues its expanded
focus providing information and education
to students, parents and faculty throughout
New York City, Long Island, Rockland
County, New Jersey and most recently in
South Florida. We feature herein
Congresswoman Carolyn McCarthy (NY)
and Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman
Schultz (FLA) and their important support in
OHEL’s efforts on prevention and response to
schools in their respective districts.
The summer months can be very enjoyable,
yet at times most stressful, to families with a
Moishe Hellman
President, Ohel
New Times, New Directions
Chesky Wertman
President, Bais Ezra
Ronny Hersh
President, Lifetime
Care Foundation
Our Officers
child with a disability as the daily structure
of school and extra curricular activities is
disrupted. OHEL Bais Ezra day camp, sleepaway
camp and end of summer camping
respite programs have become a lifeline for
hundreds of families every summer.
This newsletter provides you with a good
glimpse of many of OHEL’s services and
activities. We value and appreciate your
involvement as benefactors and supporters
of OHEL. We want to recognize the Young
Leadership groups involved with OHEL,
with the clients and families we serve, and
with an array of public information and
fundraising activities from Manhattan to
Riverdale to the Five Towns, Brooklyn,
Teaneck and everywhere in between. The
Big Apple Bash, Spring Fling, Chanukah Toy
Drive, Wine Tasting, Golf and many other
activities are an integral part of OHEL,
including our future plans to develop a full
summer camp.
As always, we recognize our lay leadership,
the Board of Directors for their vision,
support and encouragement of the professional
staff to achieve yet more.
Moshe Zakheim
Chairman of
the Board
Mel Zachter
Chairman, Executive Comm.,
Treasurer
OHEL OFFICERS
Moishe Hellman, President, Ohel
Chesky Wertman, President, Bais Ezra
Ronny Hersh, President, Lifetime Care Foundation
Morris J. Zakheim, Chairman of the Board
Mel Zachter, Executive Board Chairman, Treasurer
Rabbi Joseph Fischman, Vice President
Saul N. Friedman, Vice President
Chaim S. Kaminetzky, Vice President
Sol Mermelstein, Vice President
Rabbi Harry Rieder, Vice President
Rabbi Yitzchok Fleischer, Secretary
David Jacobson, Treasurer
BAIS EZRA OFFICERS
Chesky Wertman, President
Yoel Eisenreich, Vice President
Barry Picker, Treasurer
Danial Jacobson, Secretary
Honorary Presidents:
Moshe Hertz
Rabbi Philip Goldberg
David Jacobson
Dr. David Nussbaum
Honorary Vice President
Rabbi Jacob Rabinowitz
OHEL BAIS EZRA
BOARD OF
DIRECTORS
Sendy Berger
Moshe Bertram
Dr. Marcel Biberfeld
Sid Borenstein
Mark Bunim, Esq.
Shloime Dachs
Gary Eichhorn
Rabbi Yona Feinstein
Dr. Jerald S. Friedman
Sonny Ganger
Dr. Frank Goldberg
Debbie Jonas
Ari Jungreis
Jay Kestenbaum
Dr. Philip Kipust
Irving Langer
Herschel I. Langner
Louis Libin
Miriam Lubling
Gerald Mark
Arthur Marx
Chaim Mermelstein
Chaya Neuberger
Dr. Tzvi Neuberger
Marc Newman, Esq.
Naftali Perlowitz
Dr. Yale Port
Pinny Rand
Baila Sandhaus
Harry Schlachter
A. J. Schreiber
Barry Schreiber
Fred Schulman
Barry Stern
Eli Tendler, Esq.
Louis Tratner, Esq.
Max Wasser
Shaul Wasser
Moshe H. Wieder
ROSE & MAURICE
HALPERN
LIFETIME CARE
FOUNDATION
BOARD OF TRUSTEES
Ronny Hersh
President
Maurice Halpern
Honorary Chairman
Lawrence M. Gabe, Esq.
Secretary
Arnie Balsam
Moishe Hellman
Dr. Michael Kaplowitz
Philip Kerstein
Y. David Scharf, Esq
Shaul Wasser
Chesky Wertman
Mel Zachter

J & R Music And The New York
Yankees Honor OHEL At The Stadium
Current Fellows in OHEL’s
Leadership Development
Program
The Institute for Advanced Professional Training offers a Leadership
Development program which provides managers with intensive mentoring
and hands-on experiences that highlight the challenges and skills involved
in executive leadership. Individuals are also provided opportunities to
explore senior management challenges in a chosen area of specialization.
Seen are current fellows in adolescent residences in this special program
(left to right) Chaikie Travis, Residence Manager; Akiva Rudner, Residence
Manager, Bais Ezra Hewlett; and Shlomo Kalchstein, Administrative
Coordinator, AMHS.
J & R Music and Computer World, a major sponsor of the New York Yankees, designated
OHEL Children’s Home & Family Services as the charity of the evening at a recent New
York Yankee game. J & R Music World also presented OHEL with a contribution towards
its program and services.
Seen before game time are (left to right)
Rachelle Friedman, President and Co-CEO,
J & R Music World; Chien-Ming Wang,
starting pitcher for the NY Yankees; and
David Mandel, CEO, OHEL.
OHEL and the Rosenbaum
Yeshiva of North Jersey
Collaborate on Chinese Auction;
Everyone
A Winner!
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OHEL and the Rosenbaum Yeshiva of North Jersey
recently collaborated on a Chinese Auction. More than
700 friends of OHEL and YNJ joined at Congregation
Keter Torah for an “evening to remember.” There were
many happy winners of great prizes – but ultimately
the children and families
of OHEL
and YNJ were
the winners of
the evening!
Seen are some
of those who
made the
evening a success.

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IN WHOM DO YOU “TRUST?”
By: Norman B. Gildin, Chief Development Officer
Among the definitions of the
word “trust” in the
dictionary are “to place confidence”
or “depend.” In today’s
world this word takes on added
meaning, as we often rely on, believe or commit ourselves
to others. When we are entrusted in the care of others, it
especially holds special significance.
“Trust” can also take on importance in connection with
estate planning in that it serves as an important financial
planning tool. Trusts can be very useful and help you
accomplish your tax and estate planning strategies. In
fact, there are many trusts that provide asset protection
and afford other legal and tax benefits to those who
establish them.
Trusts can be created for you, for a spouse or a significant
other, for children and for charities. Space
precludes describing every conceivable trust, however,
here are three types of trusts that are particularly
common in the not-for-profit, charitable world.
CHARITABLE REMAINDER ANNUITY TRUST
A charitable remainder annuity trust, or CRAT, provides
a donor or his/her designate(s), as the income beneficiaries,
with a fixed annuity. By law, the minimum rate of
return must be no less than 5%, and it must be a fixed
or determinable amount. The fair market value of the
property put into the trust is the basis for calculating the
beneficiaries’ income. Once established, no further
contributions can be made to it. The donor can receive
a fixed dollar amount — paid at least annually — or a
fixed percentage of trust assets. At the term of the trust,
the remainder goes to the charity. Finally, should the
trust earn less than the payout, the principal must be
invaded to make the required payment.
CHARITABLE REMAINDER UNITRUST
A unitrust, or CRUT, is similar to a CRAT, but it
provides a fluctuating annual payment based on a
percentage of the trust’s value each year. As with the
CRAT, the percentage must be at least 5% of the initial
gift amount. When the trust is created, the donor selects
the payout, and additional gifts can be made to the trust
at any time. There are also variations to the unitrust.
CHARITABLE LEAD TRUST
In the cases of a Lead Trust, the gift arrangement is
opposite that of a life income gift such as a CRAT. The
Lead Trust provides an income stream to the charity
during the term of the trust, with the remainder going
to the donor or his/her designate (s) at the end of the
trust period. As with other trusts, there are variations to
this theme that are too lengthy to explain in a short
column.
BENEFITS TO CREATING CHARITABLE TRUSTS
There are many reasons to create a Charitable Trust.
Among them:
(a) Depending on the type of Trust you choose, it can create an
income stream for you and/or your spouse for life;
(b) you may avoid significant capital gains taxes, especially if
you establish the Trust with an asset that has appreciated for
more than 12 months;
(c) it actually helps diversify your concentrated holdings;
(d) you may enjoy a significant charitable income tax deduction,
portions of which can be spread up to as many as five years;
(e) you may measurably reduce your probate and estate taxes,
which is all-important to your heirs, if any; and
(f) in most instances it helps you achieve your philanthropic
goals.
PLANNING YOUR FUTURE NOW
The well being of children and grandchildren is
frequently on the minds of donors who establish charitable
trusts. And for a good reason. With today’s
increasing tax burdens and rising costs, this concern is
legitimate. Benefiting your favorite charity during
your lifetime, or after your death, can also be
considered when planning your future and that of
your heirs, because it may benefit you and them
too! For more information, call our Toll-Free
number (888) 311-OHEL.
Remember
OHEL
in your
Will

OHEL School Based Programs
“The concepts
he stresses are
eye openers to
many of the
students and
are presented
with
sensitivity,
insight and
clarity!”
Matching Gifts can
help support OHEL
GREAT AID TO SCHOOLS, FACULTIES,
TEACHERS AND STUDENTS
The past school year has been a busy one for
OHEL Bais Ezra’s School Based programs. Staff
visited more than thirty schools and presented
seminars and workshops for staff, students and
parents to provide education and heighten awareness
of at-risk behaviors; conflict resolution;
safety from unwanted touch and more.
Students and adults are benefiting greatly from
these programs.
Rabbi Meir Mark leads many student workshops. In the
words of one school administrator “The kids literally wait on line
to speak with him! He has a great rapport with the older boys and recently
led a workshop on the potential dangers of household drugs and addictions.
The concepts he stresses are eye openers to many of the students
and are presented with sensitivity, insight and clarity!”
PROGRAMS HELD IN SOUTH FLORIDA
OHEL Bais Ezra is especially proud of the School Based Services now
operating in South Florida. This year presentations were made to
over 500 students, teachers, administrators and parents in several
Miami and North Miami Beach junior and high
schools. Topics included at risk behavior
including drug addiction, eating disorders,
building self esteem, trauma and grief
counseling, prevention of unwanted
touch and more.
Seminars can be provided to
synagogues, schools, and other
community groups and
organizations. Call
(718) 851-6300.
May we suggest your donation of
Matching Gifts and Appreciated Stock.
Thank You!
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Rabbi Steven Penn, Assistant Principal at
Yavneh Academy in New Jersey, seen accepting a
plaque in recognition of his students sponsoring a
Bar and Bat Mitzvah for OHEL foster care children.
SCHOOLS AND CAMPS
Helping OHEL
OHEL Bais Ezra has been partnering with
Bais Ezra clients.
schools in the Tri-State area to sponsor tuition scholarships
for OHEL foster children and others in our care
as well as to provide other opportunities for OHEL Bais Ezra residents.
The Hebrew Academy of Nassau County invited OHEL Bais Ezra to sing and
dance with them at their Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan concert featuring Chaim
Dovid followed by a special Rosh Chodesh luncheon.
Students in the Ramaz Lower School raised funds for OHEL Bais Ezra and
then heard an inspiring presentation from our Sofer, Rabbi Heshy Pincus,
about the mitzvah of writing a Sefer Torah. The Moriah School of
Englewood, New Jersey, dedicated the month of Kislev
for raising awareness and tzedakah for OHEL Bais Ezra.
Students from Westchester Day School collected
Chanukah gifts for OHEL Bais Ezra and came to visit
two Bais Ezra programs to personally deliver the presents.
Students at the HAFTR Middle School coordinated a
raffle campaign with the proceeds to benefit the OHEL
Bais Ezra Simcha Fund.
Students in Bnos Leah Elementary School donated the
proceeds of their daily tzedakah collection to OHEL Bais
Ezra. The Ramaz Middle School designated OHEL Bais
Ezra as their tzedakah of the year.
Yavneh Academy students receiving their
prizes from the OHEL-Thon.
Rabbi Ezra Berenholz
thanks Rabbi Jonathan
Kroll, Rabbi Noam Stein
and the students of SAR
High School for sponsoring
Chanukah gifts and a
Purim carnival for
Rabbi Yisrael
Silverman,
Associate
Principal of
Moriah School of
Englewood with
students accepting
plaque for
dedicating a
month of
tzedakah to
OHEL.
(Left to right)Rabbi Ezra
Berenholz presents a Plaque
of Appreciation to Rebecca
Jedwab, Max Cohen, Max
Kuritzky and Rabbi Yehoshua
Marchuck at HAFTR Middle
School for coordinating a
raffle to benefit the OHEL
Simcha Fund.

RABBI ALAN BERKOWITZ
Headmaster and Sarah Bajtner
are shown with their Plaque of
Appreciation for the Ramaz
Lower School’s participation in
the Bais Ezra Sefer Torah
project.
Students in Yeshiva Merkaz Hatorah in
Staten Island participated in the OHEL-
Thon, a special Chesed project where
students are encouraged to learn and do acts
of Chesed. They kept track of their acts of
Chesed or learning and got sponsors for
every hour of Chesed/Learning they did over
a 3-4 week period. Students from Beit
Chaverim Hebrew School in Westport,
Connecticut participated in a Bowl-A-Thon for
OHEL to sponsor a developmentally disabled
child to camp this summer. The Wisconsin
Institute for Torah Study in Milwaukee designated
OHEL BAIS EZRA as the Tzedakah of the month
for Teves. Students from the Rosenbaum Yeshiva
of North Jersey donated the proceeds from their
production of Mary Poppins to the OHEL BAIS
EZRA Simcha Fund to sponsor a foster child’s
Bat Mitzvah.
SAR High School in Riverdale invited OHEL BAIS EZRA
to join with them at their Purim Chagiga followed by a
special Shushan Purim lunch and a carnival produced
by the students. The students raised money to fulfill the
Chanukah gift wishes for some of the children of
OHEL BAIS EZRA. The Hebrew Academy of Nassau
County Elementary School in West Hempstead invited
OHEL BAIS EZRA to their Purim Carnival followed by
a special luncheon. Students at the HAFTR Lower School
dedicated the month of Adar for raising awareness and
tzedakah for OHEL BAIS EZRA.
To have your school partner with OHEL in this chesed
and learning experience, please contact Rabbi Ezra
Berenholz at 718-686-3316 or email eb@ohelfamily.org
Camps
Many camps are partnering in a Chesed program with
OHEL BAIS EZRA this summer. Campers will participate in a
Bowling or Swimming for OHEL event and help raise funds
to send a child with disabilities or a foster child to camp.
Camps will also sponsor an OHEL BAIS EZRA Day at their
Camp and invite OHEL BAIS EZRA consumers to participate
in a carnival or joint activity with the campers. To have your
school or camp partner with OHEL in this chesed and
learning experience, please contact Rabbi Ezra Berenholz at
718-686-3316 or email
eb@ohelfamily.org.
Rabbi Ezra Berenholz,
OHEL, presenting a
plaque to Rabbi
Michael Merrill,
Director of Camp Al
Haderech for participating
in Bowl for
OHEL and sponsoring
a carnival for Bais
Ezra clients.
YOU GIVE US CREDIT AND
WE GIVE YOU CREDIT
Do you know that you can use your credit card
to contribute to your favorite charity?
To charge your gift to OHEL or to receive more
information, call the Office at our Toll Free
number (888)-311-OHEL
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Rabbi Ezra Berenholz presenting a
plaque to Jack Tarzik, Director of Avnet
Country Day School for their involvement
in Bowl for OHEL.
David Slotnick, Rabbi Ezra Berenholz
and Hali Herman from the Samuel
Field Y Camp are seen with a plaque
of appreciation from OHEL for their
taking part in Swim for OHEL.

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At Press Time…
Within one week of sending out the OHEL Golf
Classic ’07 invitations for the golf event at The
Seawane Club in Hewlett Harbor, NY, the Classic
was SOLD OUT. A full field of 144 golfers were
expected for the annual tournament.
As always, we acknowledge the devoted chairpersons
and Golf Classic Committee headed by Ben
The OHEL
Florida Golf Invitational –
Doral Resort & Spa
A record 100 golfers participated
in the OHEL Invitational
that took place at the beautiful
Doral Golf Resort and Spa in
Miami and was sponsored by
Meridian Capital Group. OHEL’s
host, Milton Cohen of UKT
Tours, which hosts the Chol
Hamoed Pesach program at the
Doral, provided a delicious lunch
and refreshments all day.
OHEL 2007 SOLD OUT!
Englander, Izzy Kaufman, Mordy Schwartz and
Michelle Sulzberger.
OHEL also acknowledges the many sponsors of the
day including Marc Herskowitz, President of
Infinity Land Services LLC for sponsoring the
complimentary Taylor Made R7 Rescue Clubs
distributed to every player.

The California Golf Classic -
Rancho Las Palmas Resort & Spa
OHEL’s
“California Classic” at
the Ted Robinson 27-
Hole Golf Course,
Rancho Las Palmas
Resort & Spa in Palm
Springs, California was
again sponsored by Chaim
Kaminetzky and “Pesach
with the Chevrah.” OHEL also extends its deep appreciation
to the many guests contributing by purchasing Aliyahs on behalf of OHEL.
OHEL thanks Mordy Sohn, Florida Chair and Ezra Birnbaum, Chesky Paneth and
Sandy Cohen - the chairmen
of the California tournament.
OHEL also thanks
“Lobo” for donating the
golf balls used in the
Florida Invitational. As
always, a good time was
had by all.
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Another Stellar Night
in Manhattan
A stellar evening distinguished this past
OHEL Annual Dinner. Dignitaries and friends
of OHEL filled the Grand Ballroom at the New
York Hilton on a night when OHEL came to pay
tribute to its finest supporters and advocates.
Honorees at the Dinner included: The Honorable
Sheldon Silver, NYS Speaker of the Assembly; Moshe
and Bryna Wieder; Moshe and Bryna are longtime,
steadfast friends and supporters with Moshe a long
standing and committed OHEL Board member;
Pamela S. Brier and Peter Aschkenasy, Pam is the
President and CEO, Maimonides Medical Center and
Peter is principal owner of Concert Foods; and Shifra
and Isaac Nutovic – our “Foster Couple of the Year”;
Shifra and Isaac have been devoted foster parents and
ardent supporters of
OHEL. Y. David Scharf,
Esq., acted as Chair for
the evening which also
included special client and
video presentations
Shown are highlights
from that evening. OHEL’s
next Annual Dinner will
be Sunday, February 10,
2008 at the New York
Hilton Hotel.

Honorable Honorable
Sheldon Sheldon Silver Silver
Speaker Speaker of
New York York State State
Assembly
Assembly
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THE SIMCHA
PROGRAM @ OHEL:
Helping Jewish Individuals With
Disabilities Build Relationships
BY: LEAH ROKEACH, ASSISTANT DIRECTOR, AMHS
The Simcha Program focuses on providing opportunities
for socialization and dating that can lead to marriage.
This past year has been very exciting for the men and
women who joined the program. We had a few socials in
restaurants and a bowling party which resulted in dates for
some of the men and women who participated. Just like all
single individuals, some couples dated a couple of times,
some only dated one time, and three couples are still dating
on a regular basis.
One of our socials took place at the very elegant and upscale
Orchidea restaurant located in Boro Park. We invited
twenty five people, thirteen men and twelve women. After
they arrived at the restaurant, they were seated at very
elegant set tables with fresh flowers at each table. There was
a board game at each table, an ice breaker to lessen the stress
of finding topics to discuss. People played games, socialized,
Kadimah Day Program
K adimah is the
Hebrew word for
‘forward’ and represents
the psychosocial club’s
commitment to assist
individuals with mental
illness to move beyond
limitations they may be
experiencing. The purpose of OHEL’s Kadimah Day
program is to provide its participants with support and a
feeling of community as well as improvement of socialization
skills in a relaxed setting that is sensitive to the diverse
cultural and multi-lingual needs of the Jewish population.
smiled and laughed. Two people asked to be introduced to
other individuals sitting at different tables.
After spending some time playing board games, the staff
introduced the speed dating game, which is used at every
single event around the country. During this game, men and
women sit across from each other and spend a couple of
minutes getting to know each other.
After the speed dating ended, everyone helped themselves to
the food prepared buffet style which also included a sushi bar.
This was a very special event. It provided the opportunity
for a few individuals who have a disability, to have a normal
experience, to be like other single people in New York, who
are invited to a social event in a restaurant. After all, it’s
bashert.
In the past few months, participants have written and
‘published’ their own newsletter, visited the New York
Aquarium, several museums, participated in Torah
learning groups, a book reading club, art classes, cooking
classes, money management groups and a weekly peer
support group. The Kol Chazan Band is part of Kadimah
and the members play at various OHEL Bais Ezra events
that are enjoyed by all in attendance.
Activities enhance the self confidence and social skills of the
individuals while empowering clients to take an active role
in their rehabilitation and ultimate recovery. If you know
an individual that could benefit from this day program,
please call Dr. Michael Jonas at (718) 851-6300.

The “New Lease on Life”
Program Offers Hope and…
A New Lease on Life
Janice W. has been suffering from chronic mental illness since her
teenage years. Now at age 32, she still lives with her parents and
hasn’t been able to do much to move ahead with her life.
Janice registered for college a few
times, but ends up feeling overwhelmed.
Mr. and Mrs. W know
that she needs to be in a residential
rehabilitative setting, but everywhere
they have looked is unappealing.
The environments bear
little resemblance to the Jewish
home they provide for their
daughter. As the years go by, they
see how her Jewish identity is deteriorating,
as many of her peers
move on in life. She is becoming
more and more marginalized.
The W.’s heard about OHEL in New
York, and decided to visit. It was
very encouraging to learn about the range of psychiatric residential,
vocational and outpatient services available in a cultural context that
was sensitive and respectful to Jewish practices. Unfortunately
though, they also learned that these services are only available to residents
of New York. In addition, even if the W’s moved to New York,
the residential placements have a long waiting list. Time is ticking by
and Janice is not getting the help she needs. What can the W’s do?
There is an answer.
The “New Lease on Life” Program initiated by The Rose and Maurice
Halpern Lifetime Care Foundation allows persons to move to New
York and enter into a living arrangement while receiving expert
psychiatric rehabilitative services. This program works with families
who are from outside of New York, or who are on a waiting list for
funded housing, to develop a plan where they can purchase case
management and residential services, while combining it with many
funded programs, allowing the possibility of rehabilitation at an
affordable level.
For more information, call the Lifetime Care Foundation at
(718) 851-8906 or email LCF@OHELfamily.org.
Recent Opening
of the Third
Safe House
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Last year OHEL fielded 100 incidents
of domestic domestic abuse, either on an outpatient outpatient
basis or through through three shelters shelters or safe
houses created created for this purpose. purpose. OHEL
recently recently opened opened a third shelter in response response
to the great need for additional additional beds to
accommodate accommodate women women and their children. children.
OHEL has been serving serving the community
community
with this service service for nearly a dozen years.
Seen affixing affixing a Mezuzah Mezuzah at the recent
opening opening of the third safe house are Manny Manny
Wertman, Wertman, COO, and Esther Katz,
Coordinator Coordinator of the Domestic Domestic Abuse
program program at OHEL. OHEL.

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Rabbi Yonason Meadows with
Five Towns Young Couples
Wine Tasting event hosts
Rachel and Jonathan Marks.
Aliza and Jared Solomon,
enjoying their raffle prize.
Just in time for Pesach, Rachel
and Jonathan Marks hosted a memorable
and enjoyable evening of wine tasting!
More than 125 friends and relatives from
the Five Towns area joined to learn more
about and support OHEL BAIS EZRA’s
camping programs that integrate campers
into sleep away programs in various camps
in the Catskills and Poconos and day
OHEL Swish-A-Thon
3-ON-3 BASKETBALL TOURNEY – OCTOBER 21ST
RESERVE NOW!!
Calling all hoops fans & players! Here’s your chance to
score points and make them count!
On Sunday, October 21st, OHEL is taking over The Cromwell
Recreation Center in Staten Island for the day and hosting an
exciting and competitive citywide 3-on-3-basketball tournament.
Teams and individuals at all talent levels are invited to
play and participate in what is expected to be the biggest
Jewish charity basketball tournament this fall.
Young Couples from
5 Towns Join OHEL for
Wine Tasting Before Pesach
Rachel and Jonathan Marks with the Event Committee .
programs in Brooklyn and Long Island.
Rachel and Jonathan are good friends to
the children and families of OHEL and are
volunteering their time and resources to
help the children and families of OHEL. At
the same time, they have been instrumental
in spearheading an effort to establish a
Young Couples from the 5 Towns group on
behalf of OHEL.
OHEL BAIS EZRA’s camping programs
allow foster children or children and young
adults with disabilities to make new
friends, run through a country field, swim,
participate in arts and crafts and learn
valuable social skills!
OHEL thanks Rachel and Jonathan for
opening their hearts and home for this
wonderful event! You can still participate
in this event by calling (718) 686-3214.
Honorary Chairmen for the event will be Dr. Jonathan
Halpert, head coach of the Yeshiva University Men’s
Basketball team and former New York Knick Charles Smith.
Planning has begun for the tourney and OHEL is seeking
corporate sponsors, players and volunteers for this unique
event. For information or to sign up, please contact Ezra
Berenholz at: (718) 972-9338 or via email at:
eb@ohelfamily.org

OHEL’s growing Young Leadership broke new ground
this past year. Events such as the 4th Annual Chanukah Gift
Drive and Chagiga and Career Night actively engaged them
with OHEL on many fronts.
Here is a quick rundown of the latest successful OHEL
Young Leadership and Affiliate Groups
events.
4th Annual Chanukah Gift Drive
and Chagiga at OZ –
Chanukah at OHEL is always a special
time. This year’s Chanukah gift drive
fulfilled the wishes of hundreds of
OHEL Bais Ezra consumers. In addition,
this year’s Chanukah party
brought smiles and happy faces to
hundreds of OHEL Bais Ezra residents
and friends, young and old alike.
The annual Big Apple Bash 5 is set to take place this year on
Thursday, September 6th. A record 650 people attended last year’s
event at the landmark Apple Bank for Savings on the Upper West
Side of Manhattan where it will again take place.
This event is OHEL Young Leadership’s
biggest fundraiser and is a remarkable
gathering for young professionals
to network and socialize and
enjoy great entertainment, fun activities and
sumptuous food. Watch for more details to
come and an exciting theme for the evening!
We look forward to seeing you at the Bash on
September 6th.
Gathering around to enjoy the camaraderie
of the Chanukah Chagigah is this group
posing for the camera.
HOLD THE DATE!
The Big Apple Bash 5-
Thursday, Sept. 6th
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OHEL Young
Leadership Update
Clients, families, staff and friends joined together to share
in music, latkes and fun. In another celebration, OHEL’s
Young Leadership Committee hosted a Chanukah party at
Congregation Ohab Zedek for OHEL Bais Ezra clients in
which gifts were exchanged, picture frames were painted
and an enjoyable
time was had by
all. The event was
chaired by Rebecca
Fishman, Jay
Lipsey and Nava
Silton.
Welcoming clients and
guests to the Chanukah
Chagiga is this august
group of Young
Leadership members.

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Spotlight on
Alumni
Judy Judy Landau Fulda
From 1981-1986 I worked at
the 52nd Street home of Bais
Ezra as a Shabbos counselor just
about every other weekend as
well as yomim tovim. I also
worked on many Sundays. The
women taught me so much about
enjoying and appreciating life
and I really had positive experiences
during those six years. I
also worked with some
wonderful staff members, some
of whom I’ve remained friends
with until today.
I went on to obtain my MS in
School Psychology and have had
various jobs in schools and agencies
(UCP, Board of Ed, Moriah
School of Englewood, Tikvah-
New Hope Guild, etc.) I am
currently on staff at the Kiryas
Joel Public School in Monroe, NY
and I know that much of what I
learned at Bais Ezra 20 years ago
helps me in my work today!
If you would like to be featured
in the next Spotlight on Alumni
please contact us at
eb@ohelfamily.org or fax us at
(718) 686-4316.
Wrapping presents for children in OHEL
Bais Ezra Summer Camp Programs
OHEL in the Five
Towns/Far Rockaway
OHEL is opening a new office in Hewlett at 1150
Broadway (diagonally across from the Hewlett Woodmere
Library). Barry Horowitz, LCSW will be leading this
office, serving the Five Towns, South Shore, Far Rockaway
and Bayswater with community education, school based
services, parent support groups and outpatient counseling.
Since 2001, Barry has been the Director of Counseling at
HANC, also serving as a clinical consultant to
Tikvah@OHEL and maintaining a private practice.
From 1997-2001, Barry was coordinating OHEL’s addiction
and sexual abuse treatment services. This breadth of
experience, working with adolescents, families, schools
and community leaders makes him uniquely qualified to
lead OHEL’s efforts in the community.
Wrappy Hour to Help Children of
OHEL Bais Ezra
Announcing a raffle winner.
Eighty-five (85) young
professionals from the New
York metropolitan area
recently met in Manhattan to
wrap hundreds of gifts and
supplies for developmentally
disabled children in OHEL
Bais Ezra summer programs. Attendees
brought a gift to wrap and learned about
the myriad of programs OHEL Bais Ezra
provides to the community. There also
was a raffle for VIP seats at a New York
Yankee game.
Friends in Solidarity with OHEL.
If you are interested in coordinating an
event to benefit the children and families
of OHEL Bais Ezra please contact Rabbi
Yonason Meadows, OHEL’s Associate
Director of Development at 718-686-
3214 or ym@ohelfamily.org.

OHEL Hosts VIP Seminar –
“The Essentials of Estate Planning”
OHEL BAIS EZRA hosted a VIP Estate Planning Seminar on “The Essentials
of Estate Planning” presented by Martin Shenkman, Attorney at Law. A standing
room only crowd from the Bergen County and Rockland County areas
recently gathered at OHEL’s Northern New Jersey office and learned
about the Halachic Will, Living Will, the benefits of establishing
durable power of attorney and how advance planning is beneficial.
OHEL Bais Ezra plans to host similar VIP
Seminars throughout the greater New
York and New Jersey metropolitan areas
during the coming year. To receive a
personalized FREE calculation on how
advanced planning might fit your
personal and philanthropic
plans, call Rabbi Yonason
Meadows at (718) 972-9338.
Seen at right are Martin
Shenkman, Esq., (left) being
congratulated by Rabbi Yonason
Meadows for a great seminar.
Judith Cooper, LCSW, has initiated
a very innovative and successful
Women’s Club held monthly in
OHEL’s Northern New Jersey Offices,
696 Palisade Avenue, Teaneck, NJ.
Held in the Community Room, the
program is for women interested in
inspirational learning and socializing.
The room is often filled to capacity. It
has become “the” place to go.
A full array of special speakers have been featured in this
ongoing new program. Among those who were featured
thus far include: Rabbi Daniel Feldman in January; Rabbi
Dr. Abraham Twerski in February; Rebetzin Meira Mintz in
March; Rabbi Zvi Sobolofsky in April; Rabbi Chaim Marcus
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in May; and Rachel Lerner in June.
In some instances, the programs
have incorporated music and
singing. It has been a very inspired
and leibedig get together. During
Rabbi Dr. Twerski’s address on
“Raising a Mentsch in the 21 st
Century,” a discussion also followed
with the preview of Stephen Z.
Friedman’s film documentary “Leap
of Faith.”
This program has become an ongoing and engaging activity
for all women. If you are interested in participating, since
space is limited, contact Judith Cooper at (201) 692-3972 or
e-mail Judith_Cooper@ohelfamily.org.

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Florida Friends of OHEL Thanked
David Jacobson, (left)
member, OHEL Board of
Directors, visits with
Maurice Halpern, (right)
Honorary Chairman of
the Board of The Rose and
Maurice Halpern Lifetime
Care Foundation.
The Garment Center Congregation in
Manhattan has a long tradition of service to the
community. It has also had a big heart when it
comes to the children of OHEL Children’s Home
& Family Services and it has been involved with
OHEL’s summer camp programs for many years.
OHEL has many good friends and supporters
in the South Florida area. In recent months, we
have visited with Michael Kanoff, Baruch Halpern,
Maurice Halpern, Honorary Chairman of the
Board of The Rose and Maurice Halpern
Lifetime Care Foundation and the Meridian
Capital Group in Boca Raton.
Members of the Meridian Capital Group
in Boca Raton were thanked for their
participation in the OHEL Florida Golf
Invitational during Chol Hamoed Pesach.
Garment Center Synagogue
Recognized For Special
Kesher With Ohel
A special tribute took place recently at the
Garment Center Congregation to recognize the
great good that the Shul has demonstrated to the
families and children of OHEL. Seen receiving a
Plaque of Recognition are (left) Jack Ratusch,
President, and Rabbi Norman J. Listokin.
Seen receiving Rabbi Yonah Weinrib’s
artwork entitled “Hallel” as a member
of the OHEL Family Circle is Michael
Kanoff of Miami Beach, FL. With Mr.
Kanoff is Norman B. Gildin, Chief
Development Officer.
Baruch Halpern of Bal Harbour, FL,
also a member of the OHEL Family
Circle is joined by Norman B. Gildin.

Left to right
are Brochie
Kleinman, Elly
Kleinman,
President and
CEO, the
Americare
Companies
and Norman
B. Gildin.
Above left to right are Howard Jonas, founder and Chairman of the
Board, IDT Corporation; Norman B. Gildin, OHEL Chief Development
Officer; and Rabbi Yonason Meadows, Associate Director of Development.
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OHEL Recognizes
Special Supporters
The overall success of OHEL Children’s Home & Family
Services is attributable to many factors including – a
devoted Board of Directors, skilled and dedicated staff
and ardent supporters in the community. Among those
recently recognized for their philanthropy on behalf of
OHEL include Howard Jonas, Elly and Brochie
Kleinman and Eugen Gluck .
Left to right are Eugen Gluck, Owner and CEO,
Armitron Corporation and Jay Kestenbaum, long
standing member of OHEL’s Board of Directors.
OHEL-Nachas Conference Draws 500 in Boro Park
OHEL provides short and long-term psychiatric care
for Survivors of the Holocaust. Our trained therapists are
sensitive to their needs. OHEL and Nachas Healthnet also
collaborate on services to Survivors. This program is
funded in part by the Conference on Jewish Material
Claims Against Germany, Inc.
Seen at a recent program co-sponsored by OHEL and Nachas are
(left to right) Shoshana Halpern with her mother Mrs. Leah
Jacobowitz; and Manny Wertman, COO, OHEL.

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OHEL's Consumer Advisory,
which is comprised of a cross-section of clients (Bais Ezra
and OHEL, residential and non-residential) and a number
of staff, hosted an agency-wide bowling event at Maple
Lanes in Brooklyn. The idea of the event was borne during
the Group's meetings, in which a number of clients recommended
that we focus on increasing socialization opportunities
for clients.
The members of the Group were instrumental in planning,
organizing, and running the event. Approximately 130
clients from across the agency, along with 40 staff, participated.
Three client members of the Group welcomed all of
Supported Employment:
A SPECIAL SERVICE FOR OHEL CLIENTS AND CONSUMERS
The staff of OHEL’s Supported Employment Program
provides pre-employment counseling, resume writing and
interview preparation, job placement job and coaching to
people with mental illness and other disabilities that are
ready to enter the workforce. The program helps guide
participants as they begin to explore more challenging
undertakings.
Chaim is a 23 year old individual living in OHEL’s
supported Housing Apartments. He works full time in a
distribution center for a major retail company. Chaim
found the job with the help of the Employment Program
Director, Leah Landau. For the past year, he has been
Consumer
Advisory Group
Hosts Bowling Event
the attendees and encouraged other clients to participate in
future meetings of the Group.
Shlomie Dachs sang at the event, in which a number of
clients and staff were dancing in the lanes. Food and
refreshments were served as well.
Every year the agency recruits and involves a new group of
clients for this Consumer Group. In past years the group
hosted a BBQ in one of our LI residences which was
attended by 100 clients. This group also recommended that
the agency create a shidduchim program for clients (see
page 14—The Simcha Program.)
helped by a job coach
and counseled as
needed. Chaim
travels to his job on a bus and his independence and selfconfidence
has soared. Chaim recently told the OHEL
Board members about his job experience and, with great
pride, told everyone at the meeting – “I am just like
everyone in this room – I work, get paid and even have my
own credit card!”
If you need help finding a job or are seeking a new
employee in your business, please call Leah Landau at
(718) 686-3183.

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xxxxxxx
Lichovod R’ Moshe:
I’m enclosing a letter that I sent to Dr. Kaplowitz, M’s
psychiatrist. I thought it important that you and David
Mandel know that the care your people give is
outstanding. At the same time I would like to mention
to you that everyone from Bais Ezra, who is involved
with M, is indeed a “shaliach tov” from the Ribono Shel
Olam. This is how I have to look at it in order to live
with myself. I have such tremendous “Hakoras Hatov”- I
just wish I were able to express it in more than just
words. From the House Manager, Berel Volinsky, to every
counselor that I have contact with and everyone in
between – they are extremely dedicated
and caring substitute parents. Donny
Hollander, his psychologist…for whom I
have no words. Maybe one day I’ll
explain in person. Mrs. Hollander,
the nurse, (no relation) Melissa, his
case manager - everyone, everyone
– they are absolutely wonderful. I
feel that my words will be inadequate
no matter what I say,
so I better stop here.
All the best!
Dear Ms. Lewitter,
I am writing this letter to let you know that since my son and our family have
become part of the Bais Ezra Res/Hab Medicaid Waiver program, our quality of
life has improved tremendously. The person who deserves the credit for this is our
service coordinator, Melissa Zegerman.
From the very beginning, she has accepted every challenge given to her
with grace and professionalism. She has always responded in a very timely fashion
and no task has been too difficult for her. When she shows up for her monthly
visits, it seems that everything has been taken care of, and then a whole slew of
new problems or concerns or questions comes up and she never tires of trying to
help.
She is also such a pleasant person to deal with. It seems like she has the
patience of a saint when it comes to listening to my problems. When I feel that I
have reached a brick wall, she seems to always come to the rescue. I
know that this all sounds as if she is too good to be true, but she
really is an exceptional human being.
Before hooking up with Bais Ezra, I was with another
agency. I dreaded the required visits from the service coordinators
and everything always took such a long time to be taken
care of, and there were many concerns that could not be
handled by them. Now I know that I have someone in my
corner and it makes facing the trials and tribulations that
come with being the parent of a handicapped child that
much easier.
I want to thank Bais Ezra for all they have done
for me thus far.
Sincerely,
C. S. and Family
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