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don’t take responsibility for your actions, and bequick <strong>to</strong> blame others for your problems. A doc<strong>to</strong>ronce <strong>to</strong>ld me he preferred treating patients whohad endured the World War II era. He said thosepatients were s<strong>to</strong>ic, grateful, and self-reliant.Many people <strong>to</strong>day are quick <strong>to</strong> complain and <strong>to</strong>blame. The American personality had once beena force that forged ahead westward, enduredhardship without much complaint, and was selfreliantand independent.But I digress.After buying the shirt I went <strong>to</strong> an Internet café<strong>to</strong> check my e-mail. One of the messages wasfrom Katie, who had been my girlfriend before Istarted the journey. We had known each otherfor eighteen months. She loved me and wanted apermanent relationship. Prior <strong>to</strong> my journey Ibelieved that if I met a lady whom I loved I wouldgladly follow that path. However, with Katie Imade a conscious decision <strong>to</strong> pursue my travelplans. Katie had said several times that sheloved me more than I loved her. And although weended our relationship before I left, I somehowfelt she would still be there for me. As my journeyin Mexico evolved, I decided <strong>to</strong> return <strong>to</strong>California in April <strong>to</strong> visit some good friends, andhad asked Katie if I could spend the week withher. In her e-mail, she <strong>to</strong>ld me she would lovefor me <strong>to</strong> visit, but that she had become involvedwith someone else. Katie was perfectly right inher pursuit—she wanted <strong>to</strong> have a loving partnerat her side and I had no right whatsoever <strong>to</strong> denyher that. But, yet I still felt a loss. Did I make amistake leaving her? Or should we have tried <strong>to</strong>reach some sort of arrangement where I couldpursue my journey and at the same time

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