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City News<br />

03<br />

<strong>July</strong> 11, 2015 - <strong>July</strong> 17, 2015<br />

Seventh witness in Asaram rape case<br />

shot at in UP, seriously injured<br />

A witness in a rape case against<br />

self-styled godman Asaram<br />

Bapu was shot at and seriously<br />

injured by unidentified assailants<br />

in Shajanpur district,<br />

police said on Saturday.<br />

Kripal Singh, who is 35-yearsold,<br />

was shot at by two unidentified<br />

motorcycle-borne<br />

persons in the Puwayan area<br />

while he was on his way home<br />

on Friday night, police said.<br />

Singh, who sustained severe<br />

bullet injuries was rushed to<br />

Bareilly where his condition was<br />

stated to be critical.<br />

The Indian Express has quoted<br />

a police officer saying that a<br />

bullet hit Singh in the spine and<br />

is lodged there.<br />

In a statement given to Additional<br />

City Magistrate, Singh<br />

had alleged that people connected<br />

to Asaram Bapu had<br />

been threatening him over the<br />

last few days.<br />

Police said that Singh was an<br />

employee of a transport company,<br />

whose owner's daughter<br />

had lodged a case against the<br />

self-styled godman. The godman<br />

is accused of sexually assaulting<br />

a 16-year old girl.<br />

Singh is said to have been<br />

working as an LIC agent and<br />

has a six-year old son.<br />

In January this year, another<br />

witness who had served as a<br />

cook at Asaram's ashram, Akhil<br />

Gupta was shot dead in Muzaffarnagar.<br />

Gupta, who was said<br />

to be the prime witness in the<br />

rape case against Asaram Bapu.<br />

Before he was shot, Gupta had<br />

given a statement in a court in<br />

Gandhinagar and given incriminating<br />

evidence against<br />

Asaram.<br />

Also, in March 2014, two motorcycle-borne<br />

men threw acid<br />

on Dinesh Bhagchandani, a key<br />

witness against Asaram.<br />

The attack on Singh is the seventh<br />

such attack on a witness<br />

pic : PTI<br />

against the self-styled godman.<br />

firstpost.com ,With inputs from PTI<br />

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in a powerful explosion that<br />

partly damaged the Italian consulate<br />

in central Cairo, health<br />

ministry spokesman Hossam<br />

Abdel Ghaffar said.<br />

His statement came after a<br />

medic told an AFP journalist at<br />

the scene of the blast that it<br />

had wounded two policemen<br />

and three passers-by, but<br />

Abdel Ghaffar was unable to<br />

specify if the dead person was<br />

a member of the security forces<br />

or the public.<br />

Egypt's official Mena news<br />

agency said that early indications<br />

were that the explosion<br />

One dead in blast at Italian consulate in Cairo<br />

was caused by a bomb that had<br />

been planted in a car parked<br />

near the consulate.<br />

Hundreds of soldiers and policemen<br />

have been killed in militant<br />

attacks in Egypt since the<br />

army deposed Islamist president<br />

Mohamed Morsi in <strong>July</strong><br />

2013.<br />

Over the same period, at least<br />

1,400 people, mostly Islamists,<br />

have been killed in a security<br />

crackdown on protests.<br />

The deadliest attacks against<br />

the security forces have occurred<br />

in the Sinai Peninsula,<br />

most of them claimed by the Islamic<br />

State jihadist group.<br />

But Cairo and cities and towns<br />

in the Nile Delta have also been<br />

targeted in such attacks, which<br />

have left hundreds of soldiers<br />

and police dead.<br />

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04 City News<br />

You Did It<br />

<strong>July</strong> 11, 2015 - <strong>July</strong> 17, 2015<br />

A Man Just Got Arrested For Tweeting Chief<br />

Minister Devendra Fadnavis' Family Photograph<br />

Mumbai police has arrested a<br />

person for allegedly defaming<br />

Maharashtra Chief Minister Devendra<br />

Fadnavis recently, by<br />

tweeting his family photograph.<br />

The accused, who has been<br />

identified as Ajay Hatekar, was<br />

arrested by the suburban Oshiwara<br />

police, senior police inspector<br />

of the Oshiwara police<br />

station, Subhash Khanvilkar<br />

told PTI.<br />

Hatekar had allegedly posted a<br />

photograph of the Maharashtra<br />

Chief Minister's family enjoying<br />

a vacation in Goa, in 2011-<br />

2012, on Twitter, and suggested<br />

that it is a photograph<br />

of the Chief Minister's family<br />

holidaying in the USA at present,<br />

the police officer said.<br />

Hatewar is the vice president of<br />

the social media cell of city<br />

Congress, reports Times of<br />

India.<br />

Later, a police complaint was<br />

lodged by Sanjay Pandey, a BJP<br />

worker, alleging that Twitter<br />

had tried to malign the Maharashtra<br />

Chief Minister, the officer<br />

said.<br />

Pandey, who resides in<br />

Lokhandwala Complex, Andheri<br />

(West), said that he had lodged<br />

the complaint after receiving a<br />

WhatsApp message from a<br />

friend, Raju Yadav, who had<br />

provided him the hyperlink of<br />

the tweet, Khanvilkar said.<br />

The police officer said that the<br />

tweeted photograph was of the<br />

Maharashtra CM with his family<br />

on a yacht in Goa, which was<br />

clicked in the year 2011-2012.<br />

After posting this photo on<br />

Twitter, Hatewar allegedly<br />

tweeted that the Maharashtra<br />

CM was enjoying a holiday in<br />

the USA, where he had gone to<br />

seek foreign direct investment,<br />

the officer said.<br />

Meanwhile, the accused has<br />

been booked under relevant<br />

sections of the Indian Penal<br />

Code and the Infotech Act, the<br />

police officer added.<br />

The tweet may have led to the<br />

registration of an offence<br />

against him in Mumbai, but it<br />

has also catapulted Hatewar to<br />

instant fame, giving his political<br />

career leverage like never before.<br />

But Hatewar isn't upset about<br />

getting arrested, he is in fact<br />

quite amused that his tweet has<br />

gone viral. "It was just a 'copyand-post'<br />

act from my side. I<br />

had even changed the name of<br />

the chief minister and only<br />

posted a remark regarding a<br />

picture of the family, which was<br />

already gone viral among lakhs<br />

of users," he told Times Of<br />

India.<br />

The tweet that got him arrested<br />

also gave his political career<br />

leverage like never before<br />

.huffingtonpost.with PTI inputs<br />

11/7 Mumbai Local train blasts: 9 years on, WR still has no baggage scanners<br />

Passengers on Mumbai’s local<br />

trains remain sitting ducks nine<br />

years after the train blasts of<br />

<strong>July</strong> 11, 2006, as the railways are<br />

still struggling to secure several<br />

entry and exit points at various<br />

stations. Shockingly, even<br />

today, the Western Railway<br />

does not have gadgets such as<br />

baggage scanners to secure its<br />

stations.<br />

While railway police officials<br />

claim that a project to secure<br />

unauthorised access points is<br />

under way, railway activists are<br />

furious at the authorities’ lackadaisical<br />

approach to security,<br />

saying it jeopardises the lives of<br />

its approximately 80 lakh daily<br />

users.<br />

In 2006, bombs exploded in<br />

seven local trains between<br />

Mahim and Bhayandar stations,<br />

killing over 189 people and injuring<br />

829 others. Following the<br />

blasts, the railways envisaged a<br />

plan to secure the 136 railway<br />

stations and their 469 platforms.<br />

As a part of the plan, railway authorities<br />

installed high-end<br />

CCTV cameras at important stations<br />

under the Integrated Security<br />

System (ISS) program.<br />

Baggage scanners were also installed<br />

at these stations, which<br />

also cater to long-distance<br />

trains. However, almost a<br />

decade after the blasts, not a<br />

single station on the Western<br />

Railway has a baggage scanner.<br />

Anand Jha, senior divisional security<br />

commissioner, Railway<br />

Protection Force (Western Railway),<br />

said, “The process of acquiring<br />

baggage scanners has<br />

been delayed for several reasons,<br />

including paucity of funds<br />

and the failure of suppliers to<br />

adhere to specifications of the<br />

Research Design and Standards<br />

Organisation (RDSO). However,<br />

tenders to acquire four scanners<br />

have now been floated and we<br />

should get them in the coming<br />

quarter.”<br />

But even if these scanners are<br />

installed soon, the railway’s<br />

security plan will continue to<br />

have glaring holes until several<br />

unauthorised entry and exit<br />

points at various stations –<br />

which allow passengers to bypass<br />

security – are plugged.<br />

Another serious issue is a severe<br />

staff crunch in the two wings of<br />

the railway police – the Government<br />

Railway Police (GRP) and<br />

the Railway Protection Force<br />

(RPF). Because of this, many stations<br />

remain insecure and vulnerable<br />

to an attack.<br />

Railway activist Samir Zaveri<br />

criticised railway authorities for<br />

not waking up despite the 2006<br />

train blasts and the 26/11 terror<br />

attack, in which several commuters<br />

died at Chhatrapati<br />

Shivaji Terminus (CST).<br />

hindustantimes.com


City News<br />

05<br />

City Buzz <strong>July</strong> 11, 2015 - <strong>July</strong> 17, 2015<br />

WhatsApp to be Banned in UK<br />

Within Few Weeks<br />

World's most popular messaging<br />

service WhatsApp might be<br />

soon banned in Britain.<br />

Prime Minister David Cameron<br />

is expected to pass a new legislation<br />

which plans ‘to stop<br />

people from sending any form<br />

of encrypted messages’.<br />

This decision comes after the<br />

recent terrorist attacks in the<br />

country and a shootout in<br />

Tunisia in which 27 Britons<br />

were killed.<br />

Besides WhatsApp, other messaging<br />

services like iMessage<br />

and Snapchat are also facing<br />

ban as they currently scramble<br />

communications between their<br />

users.<br />

"In our country, do we want to<br />

allow a means of communication<br />

between people which we<br />

cannot read? My answer to that<br />

question is: ‘No, we must<br />

not", Cameron said earlier this<br />

year.<br />

“We have always been able,<br />

on the authority of the home<br />

secretary, to sign a warrant and<br />

intercept a phone call, a mobile<br />

phone call or other media communications.”<br />

He said.<br />

However, many people have<br />

objected the decision and<br />

termed it as a breach of privacy.<br />

In a recent report from the<br />

Electronic Frontier Foundation,<br />

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Whatsapp got the worst ranking<br />

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Marital Harmony & Responsibilies<br />

I am Dr. Brenda Fernandes, a<br />

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As goes to affairs of today, in a<br />

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80% of the marriages are broken<br />

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Most relations now in this generation,<br />

have a relationship of<br />

knowing each other for 5 to 6<br />

years of going around dating<br />

but in real life when married are<br />

faced with truth and reality of<br />

married life, the compatibility is<br />

not there and there is no<br />

gelling and bonding.<br />

Every marriage counseling I<br />

have had an encounter with my<br />

day to day life, some met on<br />

matrimonial sites, some on dating<br />

sites & social networking<br />

sites, some knew each other<br />

since college days, some knew<br />

each other in office, but when<br />

they got married, that's when<br />

the trouble began.<br />

To begin with I would like to<br />

emphasize, the most important<br />

thing where a gelling & bonding<br />

takes place is when every<br />

spouse gives each other freedom<br />

of space. Nagging is the<br />

root cause of broken marriages,<br />

as no freedom and too many<br />

doubts, asking for location of<br />

the spouse, with modern<br />

means of communication like<br />

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Skype one can reach out to the<br />

people all over the world, it has<br />

no boundaries. This is misused<br />

too much as familiarity breeds<br />

contempt.<br />

So what brings marital harmony<br />

and what's the responsibility of<br />

each spouse and their children.<br />

The answer is simple. First and<br />

foremost in every marriage<br />

there should be faithfulness,<br />

most men visit networking sites<br />

and chat with women of a bad<br />

reputation all because of sex,<br />

and spends money on women,<br />

there are so many sites on<br />

Google to surf & meet women<br />

online, exchange mobile numbers<br />

and meet each other, but<br />

that goes for 1 or 2 times and<br />

then they start to look for more<br />

variety, as for most men variety<br />

is the spice of life.<br />

For a stable marriage the one<br />

most important thing is to be<br />

frank with each other and have<br />

respect and dignity for each<br />

other and most important give<br />

each other his/her space freedom<br />

and most of all time.<br />

Doubt is the main cause of the<br />

crack in a marriage. You can<br />

clear doubts by asking each<br />

other directly the matter that<br />

troubles them, a strong bond<br />

can be formed with each other<br />

and discuss their problems with<br />

each other, without any conditions.<br />

There are some things<br />

which cannot be tolerated, I<br />

think spouses should learn to<br />

compromise even if it’s a sacrifice,<br />

and you can compromise<br />

only if you love that person.<br />

A wife plays an important role<br />

and does a lot of sacrifices, but<br />

husbands think he is providing<br />

money so why bother and he<br />

looks for greener pastures and<br />

chemistry between them is<br />

gone. Another factor wives at<br />

home rattle out all the grievances<br />

when the husband comes<br />

home from work. In fact, times<br />

have not changed but we have<br />

changes our mindset of thinking<br />

that we are modern and we<br />

are imitating the west.<br />

Another factor among wives,<br />

they like to compare that the<br />

other friend has beautiful sari<br />

/dress or gold ornaments or<br />

better luxury lifestyle, they want<br />

foreign trips for holidays like<br />

Bangkok, Pattaya, Singapore,<br />

etc. but each wife should realise<br />

how much pay package husband<br />

brings home and then<br />

only have luxury trips.<br />

What can be done to bring<br />

marital bliss, the couple should<br />

understand their responsibilities.<br />

For a husband, his wife<br />

should be his first priority and<br />

his parents should be treated<br />

with love, respect and dignity<br />

as when you marry the guy, you<br />

marry his family too. Next important<br />

thing is PRAY. We often<br />

forget to pray as a family.<br />

Prayers do not change GOD but<br />

change the one who prays.<br />

Prayers can make miracles so<br />

praying together daily is very<br />

important.<br />

Remember children are the victims<br />

of all fights between husband<br />

and wife. They become<br />

insecure, They are disturbed<br />

with the fights, parents many a<br />

times compensate their children<br />

by giving them latest<br />

gadgets, but that's not the end.<br />

If the child sees parents happy<br />

loving, their mental frame is<br />

stabilised but if they see parents<br />

fighting amongst themselves.<br />

They are psychologically<br />

affected in every way, mentally,<br />

physically, and academically<br />

too. Children are the leaders of<br />

tomorrow, what we make of<br />

them and mould them they get<br />

moulded like clay, but if the<br />

child is brought up in an atmosphere<br />

of fights, disharmony<br />

among parents, they grow up<br />

as unstable children and get<br />

drifted away.<br />

So marital harmony and responsibilities<br />

towards children<br />

and spouse go hand in hand in<br />

making a better future and<br />

world a better place to live in.<br />

- Dr.Brenda Fernandes<br />

M.A, M.E.D, PHD<br />

Psychologist (Marriage<br />

& Relationship)<br />

Mob. : +91 9833374400<br />

Ph. : +91-22-28954705


Career<br />

Sports<br />

07<br />

<strong>July</strong> 11, 2015 - <strong>July</strong> 17, 2015<br />

The Sad state of India's Olympic preparations<br />

An athlete puts his heart and<br />

soul into his effort once he feels<br />

valued. India, in that sense, is a<br />

lucky country. There are not<br />

many medals to show, not<br />

much support for every athlete.<br />

But the intent and the endeavour<br />

is never lacking. Still, if our<br />

athletes don't win much, it's<br />

not entirely because they aren't<br />

skilled. What it is then? You will<br />

know by the time you finish<br />

reading this piece.<br />

The aim of this story is not to<br />

pass judgements, but provide<br />

the athletes a forum to speak,<br />

to let India know why we fall at<br />

the final hurdle at the biggest<br />

stage of all. Why a gold medal<br />

is still elusive? Why we always<br />

have to stay contend with a<br />

handful of silver and bronze?<br />

Any win, any feat, even qualification<br />

for a big event is a moment<br />

of pride to every Indian.<br />

None of the Indians, except the<br />

one who is the source of that<br />

pride, knows the inside story.<br />

Rather, the athlete who has<br />

gone through things his fans<br />

can't even imagine is burdened<br />

to do more, to go that extra<br />

mile - the ultimate glory being<br />

an Olympic medal.<br />

Meet Lalita Babar, India's latest<br />

Olympic qualifier in the 3000m<br />

Steeplechase event. The 26-<br />

year-old long-distance runner,<br />

for whom drought is a more<br />

common sight than water in<br />

the Mohi village of Maharashtra,<br />

has broken barriers and<br />

shifted disciplines to find herself<br />

in Ooty training for the<br />

World Championships followed<br />

by her big day at the Rio<br />

Games.<br />

The problem is Lalita has to buy<br />

running spikes on her own. The<br />

government doesn't pay for it.<br />

And it costs over Rs. 10,000 per<br />

pair.<br />

"The government doesn't provide<br />

us with shoes, we have to<br />

buy on our own. One pair costs<br />

over Rs 10,000 and lasts just<br />

one month. They don't give us<br />

equipment during training or<br />

competition. We have to buy<br />

shoes, which is our only equipment,<br />

on our own," she said.<br />

And the Steeplechase specific<br />

spikes are not available in<br />

India."In India, we don't get<br />

special shoes for Steeplechase.<br />

We have to order from abroad.<br />

One spike lasts only one<br />

month. We order 5-6 pairs (Rs<br />

50,000-60,000) at one time because<br />

we can't take a chance.<br />

We have to alternate between<br />

pairs. In a week, we alternate<br />

between three pairs so that<br />

they last long," Lalita explained.<br />

The help finally came but not<br />

from the government.<br />

"Anglian Medal Hunt has come<br />

to my help. Since last month<br />

(June), they are paying for my<br />

shoes by depositing Rs. 30,000<br />

in my bank account," said the<br />

three-time winner of Mumbai<br />

Marathon, Asian Games bronze<br />

medallist and recently the winner<br />

of gold at the 2015 Asian<br />

Championships.<br />

"Our government should bear<br />

it [cost of the shoes]. I have<br />

qualified for world championships<br />

and Olympics. So they<br />

should bear the cost. The government<br />

can at least do this<br />

much for us," the champion<br />

athlete said as her voice<br />

choked.<br />

If Lalita's story is an eye opener,<br />

brace yourself up to hear the<br />

apathy of Soumyajit Ghosh, the<br />

promising 22-year-old Table<br />

Tennis player from Siliguri.<br />

Soumyajit trains in Sweden for<br />

6-8 months to chase his India<br />

and Olympic dreams. While<br />

that sounds exciting, you will<br />

drop your jaw hearing what the<br />

young paddler has to say.<br />

"I train in Falkenberg, Sweden,<br />

for 6-8 months. I am here [in<br />

Siliguri] for a break. There I<br />

have a personal coach who<br />

charges Rs. 1 lakh per month.<br />

The federation just gives us the<br />

permission; they don't reimburse<br />

this amount. My parents<br />

and I have to manage these<br />

payments. My dad is employed<br />

in a job and mom is a housewife,"<br />

Soumyajit revealed.<br />

What eases some of his burden<br />

is his job with Bharat Petroleum<br />

and playing for a local league in<br />

Falkenberg, but still it's not<br />

enough to pay the coaching<br />

fee.<br />

"I play club league during my<br />

stay in Sweden and the club<br />

takes care of my food and<br />

lodging. There is also some<br />

help from my employer. They<br />

pay for a couple of my foreign<br />

trips a year and provide ticket<br />

for training at overseas venues."But<br />

I would like my government<br />

to support my training<br />

and provide me a personal<br />

coach all the time since the national<br />

coach is available only if<br />

there is a training camp or a<br />

tournament India is playing,"<br />

he said.<br />

And quite understandably,<br />

Soumyajit feels weighed down.<br />

"This is a weight on me, it's a lot<br />

of problem. There is no support<br />

from the government because<br />

TT is not on priority list," he<br />

said before hanging up.<br />

Our quest to find a happy athlete<br />

among the not-so-popular<br />

sports in India took us to the<br />

pool, where we contacted<br />

Sandeep Sejwal, the 2014 Asian<br />

Games bronze medallist swimmer.<br />

Sandeep is the closest of Indian<br />

swimmers to Olympics berth,<br />

just 1.5 seconds away from an<br />

A qualification and ticket to Rio.<br />

And he hopes to achieve that at<br />

the coming World Championships.<br />

But there is one lingering<br />

grudge: no help from the<br />

authorities.Awarding performance<br />

comes easy, because you<br />

don't have to identify who to<br />

award. The difficult part is raising<br />

champions, nurturing them,<br />

harnessing their talent. For that,<br />

the first pre-requisite is building<br />

a relationship. It matters in<br />

sports. Make your athletes feel<br />

valued. Provide them with the<br />

best and in return get the best.<br />

India needs a committed sports<br />

administration, a government<br />

that's serious towards contributing<br />

in an athlete's development,<br />

in helping him better<br />

his skills and put the country on<br />

the podium.<br />

Once that mutual belief is in<br />

place, results will follow. Until<br />

then, we will continue to come<br />

across such stories of discontent.<br />

Still, all the best for Rio, India!<br />

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