CHATTERBOX - Lochwinnoch
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From the Parish Church<br />
Christ is risen!<br />
He is risen indeed. Alleluia!<br />
The traditional Easter greeting will<br />
have been shared around the world this<br />
past weekend. Alleluias were<br />
resounding through our village as we<br />
gathered to worship at the Loch side at<br />
7.30am and then each of the three<br />
congregations gathered to celebrate the<br />
Good News of Christ’s resurrection.<br />
You will be very aware that Easter is<br />
late this year and the weather in the<br />
later part of April has been glorious.<br />
Normally during Holy Week, the<br />
weather is dreich at best, which<br />
somehow suits the mood of the sombre<br />
Bible Passages we share. This year, the<br />
sun shone through Holy Week and as<br />
we gathered at the Loch on Sunday<br />
morning, the sun was shining down<br />
upon us, reminding us of the power of<br />
God to break even the darkness of<br />
death – it was glorious indeed.<br />
While the good weather is set to<br />
continue in Scotland for a few more<br />
days (at the time of writing), the<br />
forecast for Friday 29th April, in<br />
London is to be overcast and showery.<br />
By the time you read this you will know<br />
whether or not the sun shone for Kate<br />
Middleton on her wedding day.<br />
Christians are very good at quoting the<br />
Bible. Sometimes we are very good at<br />
selectively quoting the Bible, especially<br />
for our own ends! I grew up with a<br />
misquote from Matthew chapter 5,<br />
verse 45, “The sun shines on the<br />
righteous,” my mother would proclaim<br />
every time we stepped out of the house<br />
on a sunny day. Yet the true quote is,<br />
“your Heavenly Father … makes his<br />
sun rise on the evil and on the good,<br />
and sends rain on the righteous and on<br />
the unrighteous.” So whatever the<br />
weather for the Royal Wedding, it is<br />
not a sign of anything other than the<br />
weather.<br />
I well remember one particular visit to<br />
Greenbelt, the Christian Arts Festival,<br />
held in Derbyshire in August. Being an<br />
outdoor festival, there are many<br />
similarities with music festivals held<br />
around the country – especially<br />
camping, rain and mud! On Sunday<br />
morning about five thousand people<br />
gathered for worship in the main<br />
arena. Rain was falling in Biblical<br />
proportions (pun entirely intended)!<br />
The priest leading worship began the<br />
service by looking to the heavens and<br />
declaring, “How gracious of God to<br />
pour down these blessings upon us!” I<br />
did hear that it was considered a sign<br />
of good fortune to have rain on your<br />
wedding day.<br />
There are so many superstitions<br />
surrounding weddings that one<br />
begins to wonder if there are saying<br />
with good and bad sides to any<br />
eventuality occurring on the day. I<br />
love preparing weddings with<br />
couples. One of the most important<br />
things that we do is try and put their<br />
own personalities into the service,<br />
because at the heart of a wedding<br />
service are two individuals who have<br />
chosen to spend their lives together<br />
in faithful marriage; they have chosen<br />
to make their commitments to one<br />
another in the company of their<br />
families and friends and before God,<br />
seeking God’s blessing on their union.<br />
I strongly believe that in choosing to<br />
make a public commitment to one<br />
another, a couple are also seeking the<br />
support of those they invite to the<br />
wedding. When we attend a wedding,<br />
we are being reminded that the lives<br />
of the couple are about to change and<br />
we must accept that change – fathers<br />
must let their daughters go and<br />
mothers must not interfere with the<br />
way their sons and daughters-in-law<br />
organise (or otherwise) their lives<br />
and their homes.<br />
As well as superstition, marriage<br />
seems to be a money trap. The<br />
average wedding now, allegedly, costs<br />
£20,000. No wonder so many<br />
couples claim they cannot afford to<br />
be married! Yet in truth a wedding<br />
costs £70 – which are the legal costs<br />
you must pay to the registrar.<br />
Everything else is icing on the cake<br />
(again pun completely intended). Yet<br />
even the most parsimonious of us<br />
would agree that a wedding is<br />
something worth celebrating and<br />
therefore you do want to splash out at<br />
least a little. That brings us to the<br />
question, “What is important in a<br />
wedding?” The list that answer<br />
provides will be different for each<br />
couple, for as I said earlier, each<br />
marriage is made up of two individual<br />
personalities. However, I would hope<br />
that at the top of the list, every couple<br />
would put their love for each other.<br />
Yes, I do realise that many of you will<br />
be reaching for a bucket at the<br />
moment, yet, as I share in the journey<br />
to their wedding day, I often say to<br />
couples, “When all the planning<br />
becomes a little too stressful,<br />
remember why you are doing this.” I<br />
also suggest that if the planning is<br />
becoming too stressful perhaps they<br />
are trying to be too flamboyant or<br />
have indeed forgotten the focus of the<br />
day.<br />
Please don’t misunderstand me, I<br />
love weddings, I love any excuse to<br />
celebrate: we had a big wedding with<br />
as many friends and family as could<br />
attend, yet we were also lucky that<br />
many of those friends undertook<br />
7<br />
much of the planning and preparation;<br />
many friends gave us a wedding gift of<br />
their skills and so we were able to have<br />
a “big do” without having to pay over<br />
the top for it all. For everyone reading<br />
who is planning a wedding, and for the<br />
royal couple, I pray that your focus will<br />
be on the life you will share beyond the<br />
“big day” and for those of you who have<br />
already walked down the aisle, I pray<br />
your love continues to deepen and<br />
grow.<br />
Yours,<br />
Views from the spire—Duncan Bremner<br />
The bell —Duncan Bremner