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From the Parish Church<br />

Christ is risen!<br />

He is risen indeed. Alleluia!<br />

The traditional Easter greeting will<br />

have been shared around the world this<br />

past weekend. Alleluias were<br />

resounding through our village as we<br />

gathered to worship at the Loch side at<br />

7.30am and then each of the three<br />

congregations gathered to celebrate the<br />

Good News of Christ’s resurrection.<br />

You will be very aware that Easter is<br />

late this year and the weather in the<br />

later part of April has been glorious.<br />

Normally during Holy Week, the<br />

weather is dreich at best, which<br />

somehow suits the mood of the sombre<br />

Bible Passages we share. This year, the<br />

sun shone through Holy Week and as<br />

we gathered at the Loch on Sunday<br />

morning, the sun was shining down<br />

upon us, reminding us of the power of<br />

God to break even the darkness of<br />

death – it was glorious indeed.<br />

While the good weather is set to<br />

continue in Scotland for a few more<br />

days (at the time of writing), the<br />

forecast for Friday 29th April, in<br />

London is to be overcast and showery.<br />

By the time you read this you will know<br />

whether or not the sun shone for Kate<br />

Middleton on her wedding day.<br />

Christians are very good at quoting the<br />

Bible. Sometimes we are very good at<br />

selectively quoting the Bible, especially<br />

for our own ends! I grew up with a<br />

misquote from Matthew chapter 5,<br />

verse 45, “The sun shines on the<br />

righteous,” my mother would proclaim<br />

every time we stepped out of the house<br />

on a sunny day. Yet the true quote is,<br />

“your Heavenly Father … makes his<br />

sun rise on the evil and on the good,<br />

and sends rain on the righteous and on<br />

the unrighteous.” So whatever the<br />

weather for the Royal Wedding, it is<br />

not a sign of anything other than the<br />

weather.<br />

I well remember one particular visit to<br />

Greenbelt, the Christian Arts Festival,<br />

held in Derbyshire in August. Being an<br />

outdoor festival, there are many<br />

similarities with music festivals held<br />

around the country – especially<br />

camping, rain and mud! On Sunday<br />

morning about five thousand people<br />

gathered for worship in the main<br />

arena. Rain was falling in Biblical<br />

proportions (pun entirely intended)!<br />

The priest leading worship began the<br />

service by looking to the heavens and<br />

declaring, “How gracious of God to<br />

pour down these blessings upon us!” I<br />

did hear that it was considered a sign<br />

of good fortune to have rain on your<br />

wedding day.<br />

There are so many superstitions<br />

surrounding weddings that one<br />

begins to wonder if there are saying<br />

with good and bad sides to any<br />

eventuality occurring on the day. I<br />

love preparing weddings with<br />

couples. One of the most important<br />

things that we do is try and put their<br />

own personalities into the service,<br />

because at the heart of a wedding<br />

service are two individuals who have<br />

chosen to spend their lives together<br />

in faithful marriage; they have chosen<br />

to make their commitments to one<br />

another in the company of their<br />

families and friends and before God,<br />

seeking God’s blessing on their union.<br />

I strongly believe that in choosing to<br />

make a public commitment to one<br />

another, a couple are also seeking the<br />

support of those they invite to the<br />

wedding. When we attend a wedding,<br />

we are being reminded that the lives<br />

of the couple are about to change and<br />

we must accept that change – fathers<br />

must let their daughters go and<br />

mothers must not interfere with the<br />

way their sons and daughters-in-law<br />

organise (or otherwise) their lives<br />

and their homes.<br />

As well as superstition, marriage<br />

seems to be a money trap. The<br />

average wedding now, allegedly, costs<br />

£20,000. No wonder so many<br />

couples claim they cannot afford to<br />

be married! Yet in truth a wedding<br />

costs £70 – which are the legal costs<br />

you must pay to the registrar.<br />

Everything else is icing on the cake<br />

(again pun completely intended). Yet<br />

even the most parsimonious of us<br />

would agree that a wedding is<br />

something worth celebrating and<br />

therefore you do want to splash out at<br />

least a little. That brings us to the<br />

question, “What is important in a<br />

wedding?” The list that answer<br />

provides will be different for each<br />

couple, for as I said earlier, each<br />

marriage is made up of two individual<br />

personalities. However, I would hope<br />

that at the top of the list, every couple<br />

would put their love for each other.<br />

Yes, I do realise that many of you will<br />

be reaching for a bucket at the<br />

moment, yet, as I share in the journey<br />

to their wedding day, I often say to<br />

couples, “When all the planning<br />

becomes a little too stressful,<br />

remember why you are doing this.” I<br />

also suggest that if the planning is<br />

becoming too stressful perhaps they<br />

are trying to be too flamboyant or<br />

have indeed forgotten the focus of the<br />

day.<br />

Please don’t misunderstand me, I<br />

love weddings, I love any excuse to<br />

celebrate: we had a big wedding with<br />

as many friends and family as could<br />

attend, yet we were also lucky that<br />

many of those friends undertook<br />

7<br />

much of the planning and preparation;<br />

many friends gave us a wedding gift of<br />

their skills and so we were able to have<br />

a “big do” without having to pay over<br />

the top for it all. For everyone reading<br />

who is planning a wedding, and for the<br />

royal couple, I pray that your focus will<br />

be on the life you will share beyond the<br />

“big day” and for those of you who have<br />

already walked down the aisle, I pray<br />

your love continues to deepen and<br />

grow.<br />

Yours,<br />

Views from the spire—Duncan Bremner<br />

The bell —Duncan Bremner

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