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✶ COMMENCEMENT 2004PHOTOS: HIGHPOINT PICTURES Class speaker Willy Oppenheim ’04reminds his classmates not to dwell on thepast but to look ahead to the future. Friends Lauren Malaspina, Tumelano Gopolang, Patricia Garcia, Jessica Durkee, EugeniaSaunders, and Rebecca Duffettpossibilities. We have marked ourterritory, and now it is time to go takeon the next terrain. And every timewe visit we are welcomed home by agreeting engraved on red brick stone.We graduate with more than a diploma,with more than memories, butwith that distinctive flame that yearnsfor the inspiration from the journeysahead of us, to help our sparks burnbrightly. Now it is time for us to let thislittle light of ours shine. Good Luck.WILLY OPPENHEIM ’04, class speakerIn a few hours, when the campus is quietand the cars are packed and we have allgone our separate ways, this entire ceremonywill seem like one big blur. <strong>The</strong>sun will be setting by then, and thisfine May <strong>day</strong> will be coming to its ordinaryend. We will be ambivalent, I’msure, as we watch night approach—wewill be giddy with excitement but unableto ignore the small sad void in ourchests, the touch of nostalgia, the unspokendesire to cling somehow to this<strong>day</strong>, to <strong>Taft</strong>, to all that is changing inthe world and hold it against our heartsforever. We will remember this moment,right now, here in the courtyard,together as a class and a community forthe last time, and somewhere in ourtired, tangled thoughts, we will knowthat we don’t need to be sad. We willknow that we loved it all as best wecould, and we will smile.I want to talk about what it meansto say goodbye, to leave a place that hastouched you, to feel the force of changelike the wind on your back, pushing youforward into a future unknown.At times like these it is easy to startbelieving that we have no control over ouremotions. We can’t erase the quiet sadnessthat rides along with all the pride and joyand triumph of this <strong>day</strong>, but I think it isimportant to point out that we are notpowerless. We can’t stop the force ofchange—no one can—but we can controlthe way that we respond to it.Essentially, we have two choices: wecan fight against change, or we can tryto embrace it. Fighting change is prettyfutile. Nothing lasts forever, no matterhow hard we try to preserve it. Ourschool changes constantly, and so do ourlives. We grow older; we meet newpeople and learn new things. Change ispart of life, and it can’t be avoided. Ifwe graduate to<strong>day</strong> and we can find solaceonly in the fact that some thingsmight stay the same, I think we will inevitablybe disappointed.We should start celebrating the factthat we have shared something beautifulenough to make us hate saying goodbye.I have certainly had some feelings of nostalgiaover the past few weeks, but I amcomforted by my knowledge that I washere and that I loved this place.<strong>Taft</strong> doesn’t need to lead to anythingin order to have been worthwhile. Weleave behind the bricks and the pond andthe dorms and the people, but we take<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Summer 200445

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