<strong>Fessenden</strong> SchoolBoard of Trustees2009-2010Brian J. C<strong>on</strong>waypresidentThomas S. Robertsvice presidentJennifer L. StiertreasurerRenée E. CurtinclerkPeter W. BellMarc A. CohenGeorge F. Col<strong>on</strong>yMichael P. DanzigerBruce C. Dayt<strong>on</strong>Stephen C. DemirjianRobert M. DickeyJohn Martin Doggett, Jr.Denise M. DupréJennifer Mugar FlahertyArthur A. GosnellJennifer HinesChristopher B. HowardIan K. LoringElizabeth H. MunroV.G. NarayananJames M. NeissaChristian NolenPeter A. Palandjian ’79Neal J. ReinerRobert W. TishmanEX-OFFICIOPeter P. DrakeheadmasterF. David Taylorchief operating officerPeter C. Welch ’84alumni council chairStephanie M. Bucciparents associati<strong>on</strong> presidentEMERITUSHart <strong>Fessenden</strong>, Jr. ’41Ernest E. M<strong>on</strong>radJames J. Pallottathe fessenden school250 Waltham StreetWest Newt<strong>on</strong>, MA 02465617-964-5350www.fessenden.orgM ay 2 0 1 0editorialLindy Gruen, Director of Communicati<strong>on</strong>sElizabeth Alling Sewall, Director ofInstituti<strong>on</strong>al AdvancementdesignChristine Brooks DesignprintingFlagship Press, Inc.Lower School boys were recognized at a morning meeting for their service efforts by helping to make a positive change forothers when the Fessy Kids Who Care service program was presented with awards from the Parents Independent SchoolNetwork (PIN). Following the presentati<strong>on</strong> of awards, Lower School students read inspiring quotes that reflected an appreciati<strong>on</strong>for service. Pictured with the certificates are: back row, left to right, fourth graders Zach Katz, Noah Urell, BenCalmas, Ben Bramley, Thomas MacWilliams, Christopher Attisani and Lucas L<strong>on</strong>g. Fr<strong>on</strong>t row, left to right, Jack D<strong>on</strong>nelly,Eric Brock and Will Neissa.TABLE OF CONTENTSMessage From the Headmaster 1Transiti<strong>on</strong> to <strong>Service</strong>-<strong>Learning</strong> in America’s Schools:<strong>Fessenden</strong> Moves Toward Greater Integrati<strong>on</strong> of<strong>Service</strong>-<strong>Learning</strong> 2Remembering Edward M. Kennedy ’46 10New Trustees Serve <strong>on</strong> the Board 12Former Faculty and Staff Update 14Class Notes 18Special Announcement From Headmaster Peter Drakeand Board President Brian C<strong>on</strong>wayINSERTIn Memoriam 32Planning Ahead to Give Back: One Family’sCommitment to <strong>The</strong> Frederick <strong>Fessenden</strong> Society 35<strong>Fessenden</strong>’s Annual Fund Helps Bring Outthe Best in Boys 36Character & Community: <strong>The</strong> Campaign for<strong>Fessenden</strong>’s Endowment 37This issue of <str<strong>on</strong>g>Red</str<strong>on</strong>g> & <str<strong>on</strong>g>Gray</str<strong>on</strong>g> focuses <strong>on</strong> service. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Fessenden</strong> School is committed to inspiring service and civic engagementin boys. <strong>The</strong> missi<strong>on</strong> of <strong>Fessenden</strong> is to teach, nurture and celebrate growing boys, cultivating each student’s individualpotential and developing in balance his mind, character, heart and body in an inclusive and joyful communitythat, through rigor, friendship and service, reflects <strong>Fessenden</strong>’s traditi<strong>on</strong>al values of h<strong>on</strong>esty, compassi<strong>on</strong>, and respect.On the Cover:Left to right, sixth graders, Parker Wallace, Will Batchelder, Streett Jacobs, George Clays<strong>on</strong> and Colin Trought<strong>on</strong> deliverboxes of toiletries and handmade table decorati<strong>on</strong>s to a local shelter during the Operati<strong>on</strong> Sock Drop service day inOctober 2009. Photograph courtesy of Mark Garfinkel, Bost<strong>on</strong> Herald.Participating in the Lower School elective service group, "Fessy Kids Who Care," fourth graders, left to right, Jack Tishmanand Oliver Snow pack and organize canned goods collected by kindergarten-fourth grade boys for delivery to a local foodpantry.
Message From the HeadmasterDear members of the <strong>Fessenden</strong> family,Up<strong>on</strong> meeting prospective families as part of the admissi<strong>on</strong>s process,I am invariably impressed by their seriousness of purpose wheninvestigating the full realm of the <strong>Fessenden</strong> program. As thoughtfulc<strong>on</strong>sumers, they are aware that their s<strong>on</strong>s’ elementary and middleschool years will form the educati<strong>on</strong>al foundati<strong>on</strong> for future learning.Prospective parents are intent <strong>on</strong> knowing whether <strong>Fessenden</strong> willinspire their s<strong>on</strong>s, thereby putting them <strong>on</strong> the road to success insec<strong>on</strong>dary school and bey<strong>on</strong>d. <strong>The</strong>re are other program nuances parentsseek as well. I find it assuring to hear how much stock they place <strong>on</strong>n<strong>on</strong>-academic elements of the program, particularly our emphasis up<strong>on</strong>character educati<strong>on</strong>.Ask any Fessy boy, day or boarding, kindergartner or ninth grader, whichthree words mean the most at school, and they will most likely declare,“h<strong>on</strong>esty, compassi<strong>on</strong> and respect.” Since the tenure of HeadmasterRandy Plummer in the 1990s, our faculty has stressed these traits, seekingto instill in our boys a lasting moral code and ethics base thatwill form their value system through the remainder of their schooling.Although there is no scientific evidence to support that our charactereducati<strong>on</strong> sticks with the boys, vignettes from teachers of their sec<strong>on</strong>daryschools indicate that the <strong>Fessenden</strong> values are evident as our boys moveinto a bigger “p<strong>on</strong>d” where they gain more independence.While at <strong>Fessenden</strong>, our boys are encouraged to embody “h<strong>on</strong>esty,compassi<strong>on</strong> and respect” in their daily interacti<strong>on</strong>s as well as through thecollaborative and shared goal by our teachers and parents to sow theseeds of community service. Moms and dads can often be seen pitchingin to support Fessy boys by cheering them <strong>on</strong> during student-ledfundraisers to help people in need; packing up and transporting collecti<strong>on</strong>sof d<strong>on</strong>ated food, clothing and toys to local service organizati<strong>on</strong>s;and assisting faculty during off-campus service projects. This partnershipand involvement dem<strong>on</strong>strates the importance of assisting those lessfortunate and sends a clear and united message about service to othersand philanthropy to the boys.Beginning in kindergarten, boys learn that good citizenship starts bylending a hand to the boy seated next to them. Our Lower Schoolfaculty ensure that good citizenship becomes a focal point of theirweekly Friday meeting. Academic progress and unselfish behavior aregiven equal billing, as <strong>on</strong>e by <strong>on</strong>e, beaming, occasi<strong>on</strong>ally self-c<strong>on</strong>sciousboys stand before their peers to be acknowledged for their dedicati<strong>on</strong> toself-improvement.In the Middle School, the principle of giving unselfishly c<strong>on</strong>tinuesthrough a network of programs, led by teachers and parents, that requiresthe students’ physical involvement in community service efforts. In thespring, for instance, through the “Little Big Dig,” boys plant flowers andbeautify the landscaping for residents in area homeless shelters and eldercare facilities.In the Upper School, the less<strong>on</strong>s in community service c<strong>on</strong>tinue. Whenour boys pitch in for the Boys & Girls Club, help handicapped skaters,or hit the sidewalks to walk for hunger, they are experiencing firsthandthe compassi<strong>on</strong> highlighted in our missi<strong>on</strong> statement. Parents <strong>on</strong>ce againprovide moral support and transportati<strong>on</strong>, not to menti<strong>on</strong> equal doses ofwater and encouragement.Our c<strong>on</strong>tinual work to incorporate principles of character educati<strong>on</strong> into<strong>Fessenden</strong>’s curriculum is affirmed when I observe boys independentlyinitiating a resp<strong>on</strong>se to alleviate the suffering of others. This was thecase when a group of boys in the sixth grade devised a fund-raisingimpetus in resp<strong>on</strong>se to the crisis in Haiti. Already having studied theregi<strong>on</strong> and its people in class, the boys worked to elevate awareness ofthe need to provide relief to the Haitian citizenry. In similar fashi<strong>on</strong> theUpper School students presented a case to their classmates, rallying themto pitch in to help the distressed victims.This outreach simply c<strong>on</strong>firmed that character educati<strong>on</strong> is alive andwell at <strong>Fessenden</strong>. In this issue of <str<strong>on</strong>g>Red</str<strong>on</strong>g> & <str<strong>on</strong>g>Gray</str<strong>on</strong>g>, we highlight the cultureof service we strive to instill in the boys and share with you reports frommany alumni who have c<strong>on</strong>tinued that service bey<strong>on</strong>d the hallways of<strong>Fessenden</strong>. It makes us—the faculty and staff—immensely proud ofour graduates.Sincerely,Peter P. DrakeHeadmasterw w w . f e s s e n d e n . o r g 1