CHATTERBOX - Lochwinnoch
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From the<br />
Parish Church<br />
Oh sit down,<br />
sit down next to me.<br />
Sit down, down, down, down,<br />
down in sympathy.<br />
Tim Booth<br />
Perhaps the most important part of a minister’s<br />
life, outwith leading Sunday worship,<br />
is sitting down with people who are<br />
finding life hard for a variety of reasons:<br />
bereavement; loss of a job; end of a relationship<br />
or one of the other events of life<br />
that cause us to derail for a short while.<br />
One of the things you quickly learn is that<br />
the majority of people have the resources<br />
to help themselves within their own psyche.<br />
That is not to say that people don’t<br />
appreciate the companionship of others<br />
through life’s crises; we all appreciate<br />
those who stop and sit down with us.<br />
As a child, my mother used to remind me<br />
frequently of the old adage, “A friend in<br />
need is a friend indeed.” The warning was<br />
clear, as she used to accompany this proverb<br />
with the tale of the prodigal son. This<br />
is the young man in the Bible who demands<br />
his share of his inheritance before<br />
his father is dead. He goes off and lives a<br />
play boy lifestyle, surrounded by friends<br />
and companions until the money runs out.<br />
Yet in my experience, when life is hard,<br />
friends don’t disappear. In fact it is often<br />
in times of crises that we discover that<br />
those we thought of as mere acquaintances<br />
are in reality very special friends. People<br />
are prepared to sit with one another in<br />
times of need and that is something I have<br />
witnessed on many an occasion in this<br />
village.<br />
As some of you know, at the time of writing,<br />
I am not undertaking my pastoral<br />
duties within the village. Having had minor<br />
surgery, I am under doctor’s orders to<br />
take things easy for a few weeks (honestly<br />
Dr Waterston, there is no physical effort<br />
involved in writing an article for the Chatterbox)!<br />
Being “on the sick” is not something<br />
I had much of experience of, until<br />
the summer of 2008. During that time and<br />
this, the Parish Church Manse family have<br />
been overwhelmed by the number of<br />
friends we have in this village; people<br />
who are prepared to sit down next to us;<br />
people who drop in to make sure we are<br />
ok; people who drop us an email offering<br />
to pick up shopping; people who have<br />
walked Iain to and from school.<br />
I remember when a student, being given<br />
the advice that I had to learn who in a<br />
congregation could minister to the minister.<br />
In other words, who are the people<br />
who will listen when the minister needs to<br />
talk. When you find out who these people<br />
are, you very rarely need to speak to<br />
them, as just knowing they are there is<br />
enough to give a minister the strength<br />
they need to minister to others. Being<br />
an independent person, I also have a<br />
need to know that I can stand on my<br />
own two feet. However, I have a secret<br />
to share – I can only stand on my own<br />
two feet, knowing there is a host of people<br />
around me, willing to share the burden,<br />
if and when I need to set it down<br />
for a while.<br />
In the past few weeks I have had to do<br />
just that. One sin that many ministers<br />
are guilty of is a belief that we are indispensible.<br />
Believe me when I tell you<br />
that it is good for the soul to know that<br />
village life carries on regardless of<br />
whether I am in the pulpit on a Sunday<br />
or not! Yet more than that, in the past<br />
few weeks, we have been reminded of<br />
the goodwill in this village to all villagers<br />
– incomers or not. In our community<br />
there is a desire to support one another;<br />
a desire to sit down with each other;<br />
there is genuine care for all who are<br />
suffering. Without thinking too hard, I<br />
know of several families who just want<br />
to put the past 12 months behind them; I<br />
also know they are glad they live in<br />
<strong>Lochwinnoch</strong>, because for all life has<br />
been unduly and unbearably hard for<br />
them, people have sat down with them;<br />
in this village they have found the love<br />
and support they need to face each new<br />
day.<br />
On their behalf, thank you; on behalf of<br />
my family, thank you, for all you do and<br />
continue to do for all people in need in<br />
our community. Please never underestimate<br />
the importance of sitting down and<br />
spending time with a friend, even a new<br />
friend, you just never know what burdens<br />
you are helping other people carry.<br />
God bless you and thank you.<br />
Yours<br />
Rev. Christine Murdoch<br />
BEAT THE BLUES<br />
Have a blast at the<br />
Blitz Ball !<br />
<strong>Lochwinnoch</strong> Choral Society is running<br />
a Blitz Ball on<br />
Saturday 13th February<br />
from 8pm till late at the<br />
McKillop Institute, <strong>Lochwinnoch</strong>.<br />
Dance the night away to a 17-piece<br />
swing band. Dress up in wartime<br />
costume. Eat spam sandwiches to the<br />
sound of Glen Miller.<br />
Look out for posters - get your tickets<br />
early to avoid disappointment.<br />
Beith Arts Guild<br />
Sunday Concerts<br />
Sunday 21st February<br />
at 2.30 pm<br />
in Beith Community Centre,<br />
King`s Road, Beith<br />
Featured at this concert will be the Scottish<br />
Reed Trio - a combination of oboe,<br />
clarinet and bassoon. The three instrumentalists<br />
are old friends from the time<br />
when they were students at the RSAMD.<br />
Since then they have all worked as orchestral<br />
musicians with major U.K. orchestras,<br />
and as music educators. Eighteen months<br />
ago, in 2008, they combined to form the<br />
Scottish Reed Trio, and have since performed<br />
in many venues across Scotland.<br />
They include in their programmes music<br />
from Mozart to Scott Joplin. This concert<br />
promises to be another success in this season`s<br />
outstanding series.<br />
All are welcome to attend. Prices are<br />
adults £8, concessions £6 children £1,<br />
all payable at the door. During the interval<br />
you can, for a small donation,<br />
have a cup of tea and a biscuit, and chat<br />
to your neighbours. Check future concerts<br />
on our website: www.beitharts.org