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From the<br />

Parish Church<br />

Oh sit down,<br />

sit down next to me.<br />

Sit down, down, down, down,<br />

down in sympathy.<br />

Tim Booth<br />

Perhaps the most important part of a minister’s<br />

life, outwith leading Sunday worship,<br />

is sitting down with people who are<br />

finding life hard for a variety of reasons:<br />

bereavement; loss of a job; end of a relationship<br />

or one of the other events of life<br />

that cause us to derail for a short while.<br />

One of the things you quickly learn is that<br />

the majority of people have the resources<br />

to help themselves within their own psyche.<br />

That is not to say that people don’t<br />

appreciate the companionship of others<br />

through life’s crises; we all appreciate<br />

those who stop and sit down with us.<br />

As a child, my mother used to remind me<br />

frequently of the old adage, “A friend in<br />

need is a friend indeed.” The warning was<br />

clear, as she used to accompany this proverb<br />

with the tale of the prodigal son. This<br />

is the young man in the Bible who demands<br />

his share of his inheritance before<br />

his father is dead. He goes off and lives a<br />

play boy lifestyle, surrounded by friends<br />

and companions until the money runs out.<br />

Yet in my experience, when life is hard,<br />

friends don’t disappear. In fact it is often<br />

in times of crises that we discover that<br />

those we thought of as mere acquaintances<br />

are in reality very special friends. People<br />

are prepared to sit with one another in<br />

times of need and that is something I have<br />

witnessed on many an occasion in this<br />

village.<br />

As some of you know, at the time of writing,<br />

I am not undertaking my pastoral<br />

duties within the village. Having had minor<br />

surgery, I am under doctor’s orders to<br />

take things easy for a few weeks (honestly<br />

Dr Waterston, there is no physical effort<br />

involved in writing an article for the Chatterbox)!<br />

Being “on the sick” is not something<br />

I had much of experience of, until<br />

the summer of 2008. During that time and<br />

this, the Parish Church Manse family have<br />

been overwhelmed by the number of<br />

friends we have in this village; people<br />

who are prepared to sit down next to us;<br />

people who drop in to make sure we are<br />

ok; people who drop us an email offering<br />

to pick up shopping; people who have<br />

walked Iain to and from school.<br />

I remember when a student, being given<br />

the advice that I had to learn who in a<br />

congregation could minister to the minister.<br />

In other words, who are the people<br />

who will listen when the minister needs to<br />

talk. When you find out who these people<br />

are, you very rarely need to speak to<br />

them, as just knowing they are there is<br />

enough to give a minister the strength<br />

they need to minister to others. Being<br />

an independent person, I also have a<br />

need to know that I can stand on my<br />

own two feet. However, I have a secret<br />

to share – I can only stand on my own<br />

two feet, knowing there is a host of people<br />

around me, willing to share the burden,<br />

if and when I need to set it down<br />

for a while.<br />

In the past few weeks I have had to do<br />

just that. One sin that many ministers<br />

are guilty of is a belief that we are indispensible.<br />

Believe me when I tell you<br />

that it is good for the soul to know that<br />

village life carries on regardless of<br />

whether I am in the pulpit on a Sunday<br />

or not! Yet more than that, in the past<br />

few weeks, we have been reminded of<br />

the goodwill in this village to all villagers<br />

– incomers or not. In our community<br />

there is a desire to support one another;<br />

a desire to sit down with each other;<br />

there is genuine care for all who are<br />

suffering. Without thinking too hard, I<br />

know of several families who just want<br />

to put the past 12 months behind them; I<br />

also know they are glad they live in<br />

<strong>Lochwinnoch</strong>, because for all life has<br />

been unduly and unbearably hard for<br />

them, people have sat down with them;<br />

in this village they have found the love<br />

and support they need to face each new<br />

day.<br />

On their behalf, thank you; on behalf of<br />

my family, thank you, for all you do and<br />

continue to do for all people in need in<br />

our community. Please never underestimate<br />

the importance of sitting down and<br />

spending time with a friend, even a new<br />

friend, you just never know what burdens<br />

you are helping other people carry.<br />

God bless you and thank you.<br />

Yours<br />

Rev. Christine Murdoch<br />

BEAT THE BLUES<br />

Have a blast at the<br />

Blitz Ball !<br />

<strong>Lochwinnoch</strong> Choral Society is running<br />

a Blitz Ball on<br />

Saturday 13th February<br />

from 8pm till late at the<br />

McKillop Institute, <strong>Lochwinnoch</strong>.<br />

Dance the night away to a 17-piece<br />

swing band. Dress up in wartime<br />

costume. Eat spam sandwiches to the<br />

sound of Glen Miller.<br />

Look out for posters - get your tickets<br />

early to avoid disappointment.<br />

Beith Arts Guild<br />

Sunday Concerts<br />

Sunday 21st February<br />

at 2.30 pm<br />

in Beith Community Centre,<br />

King`s Road, Beith<br />

Featured at this concert will be the Scottish<br />

Reed Trio - a combination of oboe,<br />

clarinet and bassoon. The three instrumentalists<br />

are old friends from the time<br />

when they were students at the RSAMD.<br />

Since then they have all worked as orchestral<br />

musicians with major U.K. orchestras,<br />

and as music educators. Eighteen months<br />

ago, in 2008, they combined to form the<br />

Scottish Reed Trio, and have since performed<br />

in many venues across Scotland.<br />

They include in their programmes music<br />

from Mozart to Scott Joplin. This concert<br />

promises to be another success in this season`s<br />

outstanding series.<br />

All are welcome to attend. Prices are<br />

adults £8, concessions £6 children £1,<br />

all payable at the door. During the interval<br />

you can, for a small donation,<br />

have a cup of tea and a biscuit, and chat<br />

to your neighbours. Check future concerts<br />

on our website: www.beitharts.org

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