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YOU DO KnOW YOUR PURPOSE<br />

I work almost every day with people who say they don’t know what they’d love <strong>to</strong> do,<br />

but I’ve found this not <strong>to</strong> be true. I say <strong>to</strong> them, “In <strong>you</strong>r heart <strong>you</strong> know exactly what<br />

<strong>you</strong>’d love <strong>to</strong> do,but the fears <strong>and</strong> guilt in <strong>you</strong>r head s<strong>to</strong>p <strong>you</strong> from acknowledging<br />

it.” I then break it down so they can approach what they’d love without the fears<br />

paralyzing their vision. I start with the most obvious questions: “Would <strong>you</strong> love <strong>to</strong><br />

eat quality food?”<br />

“Of course.”<br />

“Great, write that down. What else is ridiculously easy <strong>to</strong> say <strong>you</strong>’d love <strong>to</strong> do?”<br />

“Well, I’d love <strong>to</strong> travel.” I build on what they know they’d love <strong>and</strong> let it unfold:<br />

“Would <strong>you</strong> love <strong>to</strong> be wealthy? How wealthy? Where <strong>and</strong> when would <strong>you</strong> love <strong>to</strong><br />

travel? Would <strong>you</strong> love <strong>to</strong> <strong>make</strong> a difference in the world? Okay, in what way? Would<br />

<strong>you</strong> love <strong>to</strong> write, paint, speak, build, or teach? What inspires <strong>you</strong> most? Would <strong>you</strong><br />

love <strong>to</strong> work with people? When we put all those criteria <strong>to</strong><strong>get</strong>her, what are the<br />

possibilities?” You may not know the details consciously, but inside <strong>you</strong>r soul, it’s all<br />

perfectly clear <strong>and</strong> just waiting for <strong>you</strong> <strong>to</strong> call on it. So start with what <strong>you</strong> do know<br />

<strong>and</strong> build. I worked with a gentleman in France who stated categorically, “I have<br />

absolutely no idea what I want <strong>to</strong> do with my life.”<br />

I <strong>to</strong>ld him, “Well, I have absolute certainty that <strong>you</strong> do, <strong>and</strong> if <strong>you</strong> don’t determine<br />

the direction <strong>of</strong> <strong>you</strong>r life, some<strong>one</strong> else will, so I’m going <strong>to</strong> decide for <strong>you</strong> right now.<br />

You’ll be a chimney sweep.”<br />

“No, that’s certainly not it.”<br />

“Great, we’ve ruled out <strong>one</strong> <strong>of</strong> 42,000 possibilities. Let’s keep going. I want <strong>you</strong> <strong>to</strong><br />

work as a prostitute in the poorest quarter <strong>of</strong> Paris.”<br />

“Of course not!” “Then <strong>you</strong>’ll sell packets <strong>of</strong> chewing gum in Mexico.”<br />

“No.”<br />

“Hairstylist <strong>and</strong> <strong>to</strong>upee salesman <strong>to</strong> bald men?”<br />

“No, no, no!”<br />

“All right, if <strong>you</strong> know what it isn’t, then <strong>you</strong> obviously know something about what<br />

it is. What is it? If <strong>you</strong> knew <strong>you</strong> could fulfill it, what would it be?” I <strong>to</strong>ok him from the<br />

ridiculous <strong>to</strong> the sublime, <strong>and</strong> out it came. He had a great dream in his heart, but he<br />

was afraid it was <strong>to</strong>o big for him. The only thing s<strong>to</strong>pping him from expressing it was<br />

his fear . . . <strong>and</strong> <strong>you</strong> may be the same. If <strong>you</strong> knew <strong>you</strong> could fulfill it, if <strong>you</strong>r fairy<br />

godmother could wave her w<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> guarantee its fulfillment, what would <strong>you</strong> most<br />

love <strong>to</strong> do with <strong>you</strong>r life?<br />

The truth is that <strong>you</strong> know what <strong>you</strong>’d love <strong>to</strong> do, but <strong>you</strong> may not know how <strong>to</strong> do<br />

it. You might be banging <strong>you</strong>r head against the wall trying <strong>to</strong> do it, or avoiding it until<br />

<strong>you</strong> eventually say, “I really wouldn’t love <strong>to</strong> do it.” When people say that they<br />

wouldn’t love <strong>to</strong> do what really inspires them, it just means they haven’t figured out a<br />

THE POWER<br />

OF PURPOSE

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