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<strong>of</strong> detention, not attention.”Some proponents <strong>of</strong> spirituality <strong>in</strong> schools argue that the boredom and mean<strong>in</strong>glessnessstudents experience compels them <strong>to</strong> seek excitement <strong>in</strong> danger or an outlet for their frustration<strong>in</strong> aggressive behaviour. Kessler (1998, p. 49), for example, claims that “Drugs, sex, gangviolence, and even suicide may be both a search for connection and mean<strong>in</strong>g and an escape fromthe pa<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> not hav<strong>in</strong>g a genu<strong>in</strong>e source <strong>of</strong> spiritual fulfilment.” On the flip side, Kazanjian(1998) reports that curricula which help students make connections between school<strong>in</strong>g and “reallife” are experienced as mean<strong>in</strong>gful, <strong>in</strong>spir<strong>in</strong>g, and even joyful. In particular, lessons ordiscussions that encourage students <strong>to</strong> grapple with the “big questions” at the centre <strong>of</strong> their livesare recommended as a way <strong>to</strong> br<strong>in</strong>g “soul” back <strong>to</strong> the classroom (Kessler, 1999). For those <strong>of</strong> uswho might worry that provid<strong>in</strong>g a higher purpose <strong>to</strong> learn<strong>in</strong>g will <strong>in</strong>volve impos<strong>in</strong>g some masternarrative on students, Palmer (1998, p. 8) reassures us that “spiritual men<strong>to</strong>r<strong>in</strong>g is not aboutdictat<strong>in</strong>g answers <strong>to</strong> the deep questions <strong>of</strong> life. It is about help<strong>in</strong>g young people f<strong>in</strong>d questionsthat are worth ask<strong>in</strong>g because they are worth liv<strong>in</strong>g, questions worth wrapp<strong>in</strong>g one’s lifearound.” For many advocates, then, <strong>in</strong>corporat<strong>in</strong>g spirituality with<strong>in</strong> the curricula <strong>of</strong> publicschools means creat<strong>in</strong>g opportunities and <strong>of</strong>fer<strong>in</strong>g support for students <strong>to</strong> explore the mean<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>life and correspond<strong>in</strong>g higher purposes <strong>of</strong> learn<strong>in</strong>g.Theme 2: Acceptance <strong>of</strong> Self, Compassion for OthersOn some accounts, <strong>in</strong>corporat<strong>in</strong>g spirituality <strong>in</strong> public schools will help students not onlyf<strong>in</strong>d mean<strong>in</strong>g and excitement <strong>in</strong> the regular curriculum but also learn <strong>to</strong> accept themselves andfeel compassion for others. Here, br<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g spirituality <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> the classroom means <strong>in</strong>vit<strong>in</strong>g students<strong>to</strong> encounter their “<strong>in</strong>ner selves” and the <strong>in</strong>terior lives <strong>of</strong> others <strong>in</strong> a more open, pr<strong>of</strong>ound, andcar<strong>in</strong>g way than is usually possible <strong>in</strong> schools:When soul enters the classroom, masks drop away. Students dare <strong>to</strong> share the joy and thetalents they feared would provoke jealousy. They risk expos<strong>in</strong>g the pa<strong>in</strong> or shame thatmight be judged as weakness. See<strong>in</strong>g deeply <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> the perspective <strong>of</strong> others, accept<strong>in</strong>gwhat they thought unworthy <strong>in</strong> themselves, students discover compassion and beg<strong>in</strong> <strong>to</strong>learn about forgiveness. (Kessler, 1998, p. 50)4

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