CONCORD ACADEMY MAGAZINE SPRING 2008Howland Hale, Lyn Hall Hejinian,Jennifer Johnson, Gill Shaw Kellogg,Jane Boynton Nahon, Caroline CravenNielsen, Mary Poole, Ann WilsonPorteus, Ellie Putnam, Judy SpeckmanRussell, Julia Terry, Merrill Hunt Tikalsky,and Helen Stuart Twiss. And BronJenney Anders adds: “One of thethings that came out of the electronicdiscussion was that those who havequick happy success stories about theirkids and grandkids are the ones whorespond in the usual way. The othersbegan to roll out their more complexstories in this more lengthy ‘reply all’electronic format. The typical responsewas a page or two long. The winter CAmagazine had a lot of our classmates’photos. As we identified the photos wecommented on the ever-present kiltsand the hairstyles. We had much discussionaround this year’s presidential primary.Most of us came from Republicanfamilies, but had already begun theswitch to the Democratic Party at CA.Many feminists felt pressure to supportClinton, but just as many have decidedto support Obama, for his charisma andmessage of change. One of us hadheard Castro in Cambridge as he wasjust coming into power in Cuba 50 yearsago! Individual discussions with classmatesbroke off from the main discussionas we recognized folks we hadn’tcommunicated with for many years.Scanned pictures from CA days weresent around. We have developed anew level of kinship for classmates notregularly heard from. With permissionfrom everyone we may put all of ourdiscourse into a booklet for our 50th.”1960Class Secretaries: Pam Prouty Ikauniks,ikaunip@hotmail.com; Eleanor NobleLinton, nlinton@rcn.comBobbie Yonts Buxton still “lovesCharlottesville, NIA class (non-impactaerobics), theatre involvement, andAlliance Française classes, events, andhelping out with their public access TVspot, trying to resurrect some degree offluency.” Bobbie went to Maui with hercollege roomie in March — for “my tropicsfix. I hope to make my annual trek toNew England sometime in the summer,to see old friends, my dear last aunt,and various cousins. My daughter Elinorand my little grandsons, Luke and Henry,are in West Haven, CT, and my sonRuss is in Raleigh. I feel very fortunate.”Margot Dewey Churchill will be moving.“Our Grafton house is for sale andwe plan to move to the Cape. We purchasedsome family-owned land to buildnear Fred’s family’s summer home inBass River. Our hope is to be there bysummer 2009. I have pretty much50retired from my social work jobs in theinterest of this move. I continue to havecreative fun in my metals studio, seeour kids and six grandchildren, and generallyplay a little more with goodfriends. Fred and I both enjoy our goodhealth and each other, which, after 45years, is a good sign down the road withMedicare.” From Nicky Churchill: “Ifinally married my 35-year significantother/partner Wally in November 2006,in time for my father to know about it.We lost Dad in March, after a long,healthy, and, I think, happy life. He wasa very special man, gentle and considerate,and I miss him and find myselfwanting very much to emulate his finequalities. I’m still full-time in corporateAmerica (technology), but trying tofigure out an exit strategy. Singing in achamber choir and working on its boardalso takes a chunk of time. I would liketo replace work with some interestsfrom CA years, such as painting,perhaps some writing. My sister JoChurchill Guerrieri ’65 is to be congratulated,however, as she left her careeras an admissions director and started anew one renovating Vermont “starter”homes with her husband Gary. Theyhave successfully sold their first projectand await the sale of number two. Wallyand I finished most of our multi-year renovationproject, and we have a realguest room now. We live in the hillswest of Palo Alto/Woodside, CA, andwould love to hear from anyone whovisits the Bay Area. Margie HornblowerJohnson says that “this has beenanother sad year for my family. LastJanuary we broke up my parents’ housein Wash ington in the wake of myfather’s death, and in April, my little sister,Nancy Hornblower Rice ’64, diedof ovarian cancer. She was serene andbrave through a long ordeal. My childrenare hale and happy: Declan in Brooklynis bringing up my two grandsons andnow the senior editor at New DirectionsPublishing; Evan, who lives in Worth -ington, MA, has just finished writing theFrommer’s Guide to Iceland. The twinsare in New York: Isaac is a case managerat the Streetwork Project (clientsare homeless teenagers) and Conradgraduates from Columbia in May with adegree in Asian studies. I am stillperched on the mountainside in Color -ado where my husband Chuck puts inlong hours as a doctor, although he istaking more time off for trips and familyvacations. I still commute once a monthto my job in Rockland County, NY as thehouse editor of the historical society,and go from 8,000 feet down to sealevel, where we live in our convertedgarage on pilings in the Hudson River.Tucky Frazier Jones writes that her28-month-old granddaughter (family isonly an hour away) continues to be ajoy. Daughter Sarah works in IT atSloan-Kettering, developing new softwareprograms. Tucky says she had awonderful 15 days in Spain last Octoberwith the Bilboa Guggenheim a highlight,as well as time at the Alhambra and inGibraltar. She says she will most definitelyjoin us for our 50th in 2010. MollyDuane Leland writes: “Steve and I continueto live our seasonal, cross-countrylifestyle — Massachusetts to Arizona andback. Life in six-month intervals isdefined by the old camp song ‘makenew friends but keep the old, one is silverand the other is gold.’ We have wonderfulplay- and soulmates in Scottsdale,while our East Coast family and friendsare the tap roots of our lives. We’reforced to stay flexible and organized,keeping material necessities in the trunkof our car — golf clubs and file folders . .. We’re fortunate to attend courses atArizona State University, and both of usparticipate in small study groups guidedby peers with academic careers. We’reimpressed with emerging technologies,yet concerned about the ethics (readlaws) that will regulate them. Aside fromthat, it’s golf and perpetual sunshine.”It was great to hear from LisaVolckhausen McCann: “This is the firstwinter that I am aware of painful arthritisin a number of places, but most especiallyin my hands. I guess this is reasonablefor the year one reaches 65. I’mthinking of taking the same tablets mydog takes for her joints. I feel very luckyin many ways. Johrden and I are living inthe house in Redding, CT where I grewup. My father died in 2004 and last yearmy mother moved to an assisted-livingplace in Florida. I love this property, butit is too large for us and needs a lot ofattention and $$$$. I’m teaching someclasses in contemplative practices andam also a practitioner of Mahasati meditation,a vipassana (insight) techniquethat emphasizes rhythmic, gentle movements.My teachers are Buddhist monksfrom Thailand. I love the practice andenjoy my teachers, who are funny,sweet, and incisive. Laura Smith Lynchspent six weeks with FEMA in Chehalis,WA, where the flooding from a Dec -ember storm was terrible, so many sadstories. “Last spring I was sent to NJ(Patterson and Hackensack), and in thesummer it was Madison, WI. Octoberbrought us identical twin grandgirls, whoare so precious and easygoing. I amloving my work and am excited about allthe grands. Ulli Schubert Never commentedon how fast 2007 went andsends love to all of us. She had no real“breaking news from Hamburg: keepingup her charity work for two differentNGOs for children, very much involvedwith looking after her grandson (nextgrandchild will be born in June) andpuppy, traveling (Spain, Egypt), playingtennis (realizing that there are certainbones in my body which don’t alwaysgo along.).” Sue Perry has moved toNewbury Court in Concord and is veryhappy that now someone else takescare of all the snow. She is dealing withsome health problems too, so we wishher well. Annette Shaw writes: “I amgetting into my art much more, which isinspiring and necessary. I showed 10pieces here, on Galiano, at a groupshow of miniatures in November 2007.To my great delight I sold five, all to localfolk. I will take part in a show this summertoo. Turning 65 is quite the wake-upcall. I now have a gold card so I travelfree on the ferries weekdays and getdiscounts in health food stores and thelike. We have a group on the islandcalled “The Babes of ’42.” My grandkidsare 9 and 12 and are wonderful company.I am aiming for our 50th CAreunion, if not sooner, to see you allagain. I send you my love.” MeredithBrenizer Sabol has had a tough yearhealthwise with lung surgery and a secondrotator cuff repair, which still hurts.Happily, she writes: “The negativeswere outweighed by the addition of twonew grandchildren. Peter’s sister Alicewas born in London in February. Sawyerwas born in Chicago at the end ofNovember. We had a complete familyreunion in Chicago just beforeChristmas.” I, Noni Noble Linton, waselected vice president of the residentcouncil at the Overlook in May 2007 andfind it challenging to be a member of itsfirst elected council. John and I enjoyedgardening last year and are looking forwardto more this summer. Our bignews was the arrival of a new grandsonin May. In August we had visits from allthe Linton kids and grandkids, one familyfrom Beijing and one from Osaka. Wealso had a wonderful trip to Bermudawith friends. I had reconstructive surgeryon my right wrist in January; thanksto all of you who sent me good wishes.In the small world department, we alsohave another CA family here at theOverlook! Jim and Evelyn Parker, formerfaculty, have moved in, and we’vealready begun sharing CA stories. Bothwere very involved with the school, Jimteaching Asian and American history andEvelyn as librarian from 1961–1976.1961Class Secretaries: Judith CarpenterClark, jcclark61@verizon.net; SarahLanigan Gaitskill, sjgaitskill@yahoo.comJudy Howe Behn writes: “What a year— the Red Sox won the World Seriesand the Patriots played in the SuperBowl. We have a limited season ticketpackage to the Red Sox, so we got tomany games, including two playoff
Sallie Cross Kingham ’61 and familygames. I still spend quite a bit of timewith my mother, who is 93. Mark andLiz live on the Cape and work at WoodsHole — we are so grateful they livenearby. Mark spent three weeks lastsummer in Greenland checking on thedepth of the ice. Grandson Alex is talkingup a storm and so much fun to bewith. Bob and I had a great trip to theSouthwest coast of Ireland last June: awalking tour of Kerry, Dingle, andKillarney with another couple and a wonderfulIrish guide.” Betsy FenollosaBoege is very involved in local adultlearning programs associated withColby-Sawyer College. “I lost my positionas sewer commissioner last spring(the commission was disbanded at TownMeeting) and, strange to say, I was disappointed.It was a fascinating politicalexperience, especially dealing with thestate of New Hampshire after an unfortunatespill into Lake Sunapee in 2004.I’m enjoying the wonderful clean air, lackof traffic, and recreational opportunitiesof this region — doing some hospice volunteeringand serving on the President’sAdvisory Council at Colby-Sawyer. Lastfall Sheldon and I returned to some ofour earlier haunts in Asia — Bali andJapan, with a side trip to Vietnam. Wecouldn’t find our house, let alone theneighborhood in Tokyo, but no wonderafter 35-plus years.” Judy CarpenterClark reports: “Sincerest thanks to allwho sent news! It is great to hear whateveryone is doing. I am still running theannual fund at Lawrence Academy. Wego down to Vero Beach as much as wecan. It’s amazing how rejuvenating evena long weekend can be!” Ingrid vonDattan Detweiler writes: “Doug and Icelebrate our 40th anniversary June 15.We are enjoying our grandchildren verymuch; Carson is 6 and Alexa 3. Theylove visiting Oma and Opa (German forgrandmother and grandfather), and welove having them. Travels took us toNova Scotia, Prince Edward Island,Yosemite and Grand Canyon nationalparks, and California, where we visitedfamily and friends. In July, Gale Hurd,Peggy Williamson Merrill, and I attendedthe memorial celebration for TinaKaufman Thompson in Stowe, VT.Peggy hosted us at her home in Wood -stock, so it was a nice get-together forthe three of us.” Deborah MetcalfDresser “just saw the Glee Club picturein the latest alumnae/i magazine andrecognized quite a few familiar faces,which is in itself quite remarkable. (Wasthat picture really taken in 1958?) I keepthinking I haven’t changed much inlooks — oh, another case of denial. Well,I’m happy to be almost 65, my health isgood, and I continue to love working.I’ve been the rector of St. George’sChurch in Newburgh for 11-plus yearsnow. Although all four daughters areliving elsewhere, Bob and I hardly thinkof our home as an empty nest, whatwith dogs and parishioners coming andgoing. My Suzanna, with husbandRaphael, is in Tanzania, doing medicaltrials for her doctorate in public health.Margaret is in Chicago working as adesigner for Kmart. I’ve been doing afair amount of traveling, some of it forwork. I returned to Palestine in April, myfourth study visit. Later in June, Bob andI will be visiting Suzanna in Africa. Theelection keeps us all jumping — it’s sucha good thing that the country is so politicallyengaged.” Jane MacDougalEldredge is “still practicing law — landuse and family law. I no longer do anygeneral civil litigation. My wonderfulhusband Charlie is still the Hall Professorof American Art at the University ofKansas, where he loves his teaching,research, and writing. I belong to aSmith/Mt. Holyoke book club thatincludes women from 28 to 74 years oldand is a lot of fun. Happily, our two children,one daughter-in-law, and twograndchildren all seem to be at happyand productive places in their lives. Weare in the middle of the country andwould enjoy seeing any classmate whois driving through.” Judith PhelpsFelton continues “with artistic endeavorsand has fallen in love with workingwith fabric. John is studying to becomethe new (70-year-old) Ezio Pinza and isdoing very well. Our children are nowmiddle-aged (yikes!) and doing well professionallyand personally. Rebecca isteaching troubled kids in Vermont andFred is an award-winning corporate chef.We have one perfect 9-year-old granddaughter!My mother, Edith Phelps, continuesto decline, which is very sad forher and her family.” “It has been themost exciting year for me,” says DinnyForbes. “I met my match, at last, onlinelast winter. I’m madly in love with aman named Pan Vera, who moved toVermont from Seattle to live with melast June. Pan teaches non-violent communication(Marshall Rosenberg), theancient arts of Tantra, and builds commercialWeb sites. My new Web site isgetting more fabulous all the time,check it out: georginaforbesart.com.”Jill Harken Hall writes that “SandraWillett Jackson helped organize a CAbook group — including Anne GaudTinker ’63, Amy Dunbar ’74, and LucyMcFadden ’70 — so I see Sandra regularly,which is fun. Among my passionsare our three grandchildren. Our sonAlden has two — Khuan-Yu, 5, andJosephine, 3, and our other son Taddyhas one — Penelope, 2. They are totallywonderful. I started a design consultingbusiness, Planning Works, to help busyhomeowners organize and streamlinetheir house renovation/construction projects.Besides house projects, I coordinatedthe refurbishment of a library in aDC public elementary school. I am havinglots of fun with this work, and itgives me flexibility to see children andgrandchildren, travel with Ridge, and dovolunteer work — at a DC public charterschool and for Obama, whom I trulyhope is our next president.” (See page19.) From Chrissy Griffith Heyworth: “Iam retiring from teaching and coachingat Greenwich Country Day School inJune. My jobs at GCDS for 16 yearshave been awesome and varied, butwhile I’m still in good health, I want totry doing some writing, traveling abroad,taking Spanish and calligraphy courses,and being with Jim and our grandchildren(three boys and a girl in Seattle andNYC). So the exciting process of reinventionbegins. We have already bookedour first trip to China in October, so theearly fall will be busy with reading andcramming in some useful Mandarinphrases; maybe I won’t miss the classroomand kids too much.” Katie MotleyHinckley writes that “2007 was a scaryhealth year for me, but I’m pretty muchover the fright of suddenly losing halfthe sight in my left eye through somekind of unexplained damage to theretina. I was on a horrid high dose ofsteroids all summer, which made melook even more froggish than usual, butwhich brought back half of the lost sightso was probably worth it. I can live withthe three-quarters left just fine. Danretired at the end of February. We wentto Ethiopia to visit my daughter, AnnePfitzer ’85, her husband, Emil Parker,and my two under-3 grandsons, Andréand Theo. Anne is running a nonprofitinternational health organization affiliatedwith Johns Hopkins University. Sixty-fiveEthiopians work for her, training nursesand midwives to give better care tomothers and small children. Ethiopia isan unusual place. It’s the seat of theAfrican Union, with a modern shiny airportand flights to every African capital.Many people speak some English, andare welcoming to visitors. . . . We spentthe whole summer in Small Point, MEwhere my son, Marc Pfitzer ’87, and hisfamily join us for part of the summer.Marc and Anke’s three children do twothirdsof their year’s growing in theweeks that they are there. It is reallyquite extraordinary what Maine air andlobster seem to do! In October, wejoined two of my cousins in Turkey for aweek’s cruise on the Lycian coast . . .Hope that we all work hard to put amore responsible government in placenext year.” Sandra Willett Jacksonloves “serving as a CA trustee withsuch a committed, smart group of directors.I’m thrilled to see the school gettingeven stronger in academicexcellence, creative arts, and athleticswith a unique relevance to today’s globalchallenges. Neal has retired (we say“rewired”) from NPR and we are havinga ball completing our farmhouse on aneastern Maryland creek. My internationalpractice is slowing down to make roomfor volunteering for Hillary Clinton, whichhas brought me in closer touch withother Hillary activists and with Obamasupporters Lynn Adler and Jill HarkenHall.” (See page 20.) Hester ParkerJeswald says: “It’s a good thing Iretired! Joe spent June–September inthe ICU with an illness resulting from amisdiagnosed perforated bowel. 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