PAUL TRIPP

PAUL TRIPP
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Survival Skill 15 November 29, 2006
Paul David Tripp: There is hope for us as individuals; there is hope for our families;
there is hope for our friendships; there is hope for our communities, and our cities, and
our nations. There’s hope because we live in a world where grace lives.
Kate Crowley: From Paul Tripp Ministries, this is Right Here, Right Now, connecting the
transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life. Here, now, is Paul Tripp.
PDT: I want to start the program today with a vocabulary exercise. If it was your job to
scan the entire human vocabulary for the most beautiful word in the universe, what
would you say it is? If you had to think of all the words that you’ve ever thought or
spoken, what was the most beautiful of them all? What is the most beautiful word in the
human vocabulary? The average person speaks about 7,000 words a day; that’s a whole
lot of talking. That’s 49,000 words per week. That’s 1,479,000 words per month, over
17,000,000 words per year.
Now, of all those words, which was the most beautiful word you spoke last year? Or
think about it this way. There are just under 1,000,000 active words in the English
language, 988,000 words. What, one of them, is the most beautiful? You talk all of the
time; you listen to people talk all of the time; you read all of the time; you hear words all
of the time; words are the background drone of all of our lives. And so today, what I
want to do with you is examine one word, one word that is perhaps the most beautiful
word that’s ever been spoken.
One word that is not only beautiful in its history, but it has the power to totally rearrange
you and everything that makes up your life. One essential beautiful word, one word you
do not ever want to live without, one word that you definitely want in your life now and
all of the time. What could that word be? What is the most beautiful word that’s ever
been spoken? What is that word?
Music: “Grace” by U2
Grace
She takes the blame
She covers the shame
Removes the stain
It could be her name
Grace
It's a name for a girl

It's also a thought that
Changed the world
KC: And you’re listening to Right Here, Right Now with Paul Tripp...more on “The Most
Beautiful Word,” coming up as we continue the series, “Survival Skills for a Fallen
World.” Be sure and tell your friends about Paul Tripp Ministries, Monday through
Friday, right here on WFIL at 11 A.M.
The purpose of this program is to help you find freedom in Jesus Christ right here, right
now. We invite you to check out our website at paultrippministries.org. And while you’re
there, you’ll find Paul’s latest book, Lost In The Middle and other resources on video,
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Right Now continues with Paul Tripp.
PDT: You want it; you really do; you need it; you really do. You can’t live without it, but
you can’t buy it, and you can’t earn it. It only ever comes by means of a gift. You want
it for yourself all the time, but you’ll find it hard to give to somebody else. Sometimes, it
comes in such subtle ways that you miss it. Other times, it comes loudly and
dramatically into your life. You can’t own it, and if you hoard it, you find out you didn’t
really have it in the first place.
It’s nearly impossible to adequately define, yet it is simple and beautiful, as simple and
as beautiful as anything ever was. In a fallen world, populated by selfish, lost, fearful,
and rebellious people, it’s the one thing that everyone needs. When you receive it, you
immediately realize how much you have needed it all along, and you wonder how you
could’ve lived so long without it. You can only give it to someone else when you have
first been given it yourself because you cannot give away that which you did not have.
What is this word? What is this thing that I’ve been describing, this thing that we so
desperately need, that is so amazingly beautiful, that’s so deeply needed, that is so
essential for life ever to be what it was meant to be, that is the most important ingredient
in this broken world? What is this one thing that every person living in this broken world
cannot safely live without?
Well, have I gotten your attention? Have I been driving you crazy? Have you scanned
your own personal dictionary? Have you scanned your vocabulary? Have you been
thinking about what in the world I’m talking about? Have I gotten your attention? Well,
here it is. It’s so simple to say; it’s so beautiful to behold…’grace’. Grace is the word;
grace always has God as its source, and it is always given to someone who doesn’t
deserve it. But it is something that’s needed by everyone. Grace always comes to an
undeserving person, and grace always results in things that are good.
How much do you really understand? How much do you really know about? How much
do you daily rely upon this thing called ‘grace’? How much do you consistently celebrate
its existence in your life? How much have you come to realize that of all the good things

in your life, your story is a story, some way of grace? How much do you sit in and take in
the beauty of grace? Is your life driven, shaped, and motivated by grace?
Well, if you don’t know how to answer that question, ask yourself this question: What is
your life shaped and motivated by? Is it motivated by your gifts? Is it motivated by your
position? Is it motivated by your personality? What drives your life? What is that thing
that you depend on? What gets you through your day? Is your life driven; is your life
shaped; is your life motivated by this one, beautiful, essential gift, never earned, always
given—grace? How much do you understand grace?
Music: “Please Forgive Them” by Big Tent Revival
Upon the cross of Calvary
My precious Savior died for me
And for our sin, He shed His blood
And by His love, He prayed to God
Father please forgive them; they know not what they do
I will be the sacrifice for all they’ve done to You
Turn Your wrath upon me Lord, Your one and only Son
Please forgive them; they know not what they’ve done
PDT: Now, let me put this beautiful word ‘grace’ in the context of where you live, and
work, and do what you do every day. Do you know that there is always something that
you base your life on? Do you know there’s always something that defines you, that
explains why you do the things you do? There’s always something that provides for you
motivation, that provides for you purpose, that delivers to you hope of some kind.
Maybe you’re a person that’s defined by your family and all that your family is. Or maybe
you’re defined by your job, the position, the power, the success or achievement that you
have there. Maybe you’re defined by your education; you’re defined by your academic
life and the degrees that you achieved. Maybe you’re defined by your possessions.
Maybe your house is a monument to your decorous ability.
Or maybe you are defined by your relationships; you really get your personal definition by
the people and the groups who have accepted you, who respect you, who esteem you.
There’s always something in life that provides definition, direction, and motivation for
you.
Let me give you this principle: As a person, you are in the best place ever when you are
defined by the best thing ever. And the best thing ever is grace. What is this wonderful
thing called grace? Well, let me attempt to give you a definition. The problem with
defining grace is that it is, at once, very simple and yet so expansive, that it seems
almost impossible to define. Grace is: “The freely given love, forgiveness, acceptance
and help of God, even though there is nothing that I could ever ever do to earn it.”

You see, there’s hope for us as individuals. There is hope for our families. There is hope
for our friendships; there’s hope for our communities, and our cities, and our nations.
There’s hope because we live in a world where grace lives. There’s hope when you are
foolish and ignorant; there’s hope when you’re weak and unable; there’s hope for you
when you’re proud and self-sufficient; there’s hope for you in times of anger, fear, and
discouragement. There’s hope when you are eaten by envy, vengeance, and regret.
There’s hope when you’ve messed up and failed. There’s hope because God is, and God
is a God of amazing grace.
Yes, it’s true that this world is terribly broken. Yes, it’s true that we are flawed human
beings. Yes, it’s true that we fail and make mistakes all the time, but in all of that
failure, and all of that brokenness, and all of that difficulty, there is one constant thing
that we can celebrate again, and again, and again. It’s always new, it’s always fresh, and
it’s tremendously powerful. It’s grace.
You see, God’s grace is, in fact, the most powerful force in the universe. It reaches into
where you are, and it is able to take you where God wants you to be. It has the power to
do something that nothing else can do. It has the power to transform you at the causal
core of who you are as a human being, your heart.
You see, the promise of God’s grace is a radically new heart, rather than condemning me,
rather than turning His back on me, God wraps arms of grace around me and transforms
me at the core of who I am as a human being. And if you look around, if you pay
attention to the things we say and the things we do, again and again, every day, we are
people in need of transformation. We are not noble people who always do the right
thing.
The Bible is not filled with stories of noble people who always did the right thing. In
fact, Abraham, who is called in Scripture, “The Father of the Faithful,” blew it in his own
marriage. He did a horrible thing in having sexual relations with his servant girl. Why
did Abraham do that?...because he was unwilling to wait. We always need God’s grace.
So, you may be asking, “Okay, Paul, I get your definition that grace is the freely given,
love forgiveness, acceptance and help of God, even though there is nothing that I could
ever do to earn it, but I’m not sure I understand what grace looks like.”
Well, first, grace is the grace of forgiveness. You see, we all do what is wrong. The Bible
calls that sin, and that sin leaves me guilty. I need to be forgiven, and Jesus Christ went
to the cross to carry my sin, to take my punishment so I could experience radical, and
comprehensive, and complete forgiveness. In Jesus Christ, I’m forgiven for everything
I’ve ever done in the past, everything I now do in the present, everything I will ever do in
the future.
Second, grace is the grace of acceptance. God, now, not only forgives me, but He
welcomes me into relationship with Him. He invites me into His family. He adopts me
as His child, and because of that, I now have this Father-child relationship with Him
where I can come to Him. I can sit on His lap, and I can bring my needs, and concerns,

and my failures to Him, and He responds to me as a loving and kind Father. Sin once
separated me from God. God’s grace, now, has given me acceptance.
But third, there’s also the grace of God’s presence. God is not far away from me. In
fact, God is present with me wherever I am, whomever I’m with, whatever I’m doing. It’s
an amazing thing. The Bible tells us that God, in His grace, has made us now the place
where He lives. It wasn’t enough for God to forgive me. He literally unzipped me and
got inside of me by his Holy Spirit, and so He is with me all the time.
But not only the grace of forgiveness, and not only the grace of acceptance, and not only
the grace of His presence, but there’s also the grace of enablement. You see, sin leaves
me lame; it leaves me weak; it leaves me unable to be what God called for me to be and
to do what God called for me to do. And so, God’s grace gives me power; it gives me
strength. It gives me the ability to do what I was meant to do.
It’s also the grace of freedom. You see, God’s grace doesn’t just forgive me and doesn’t
just empower me; God’s grace delivers me. Sin turns me into an addict; sin turns me
into a slave; God’s grace frees me from that addiction. It gives me the power to say,
“No!” and to turn and go in a much better direction.
And then finally, God’s grace is the grace of completion. There will be a day when I will
be fully restored to what I was meant to be. There will be no more sin. There will be no
more struggle. Grace is the grace of forgiveness, the grace of acceptance, the grace of
God’s presence, the grace of enablement, the grace of freedom, and the grace of
completion. What does Peter say?...that God’s grace gives us everything we would ever
need to be what we are supposed to be and to do what we’re supposed to do right here,
right now.
Music: “There Will Come a Day” by Faith Hill
It's not easy trying to understand
How the world can be so cold
Stealing the souls of a man
Cloudy skies rain down on all your dreams
You wrestle with the fear and doubts
Sometimes it's hard, but you gotta believe
There's a better place
Where our Father waits
And every tear He'll wipe away
The darkness will be gone
The weak shall be strong
Hold on to your faith
There will come a day
There will come a day

PDT: I came across a wonderful statement of grace in World Magazine; it’s actually a
statement by Bono of U2. An interviewer asked him, “…doesn’t he think appalling
things happen when people become religious?”
Bono counters, “It’s a mind-blowing concept that God who created the universe might be
looking for company, a real relationship with people. But the thing that keeps me on my
knees is the difference between grace and karma.”
The interviewer asked, “What’s that?”
Bono says, “At the center of all religions is the idea of karma. You know, what you put
out comes back to you, an eye for an eye, a tooth for tooth; or in physics and physical
law, every action is met by an equal but or opposite one. And yet, along comes this idea
called ‘grace’ to up end all of that. Love interrupts, if you like, the consequences of your
action, which in my case,” he says, “is very good news indeed, because I’ve done a lot of
stupid stuff.”
The interviewer asked, “Like what?”
“Well,” Bono says, “that’s between me and God. But I’d be in big trouble if karma was
going to finally be my judge. It doesn’t excuse my mistakes, but I’m holding out for
grace. I’m holding out that Jesus took my sins onto the cross because I know who I am,
and I hope I don’t have to depend on my own religiosity.”
The interviewer marvels, “The Son of God who takes away the sin of the world. I wish I
could believe in that.”
“The point of the death of Christ is that Christ took on the sins of the world so that what
we put out did not come back to us, and that our sinful nature does not reap the obvious
death,” replies Bono. “It’s not our own good works that get us through the gates of
heaven.”
The interviewer marvels some more. “That’s a great idea, no denying it. Such great
hope is wonderful, even though it’s close to lunacy in my view. Christ has His rank
among the world’s great thinkers, but the Son of God, isn’t that far-fetched?”
Bono comes back, “Look, the secular responses to Christ’s story always go like this: He
was a great prophet, obviously a very interesting guy, had a lot to say along the lines of
other great prophets, be they of Elijah, Mohammed, Buddha, or Confucius; but, actually,
Christ doesn’t allow you that. He doesn’t let you off the hook. Christ says, ‘No, I’m not
saying I’m a teacher; don’t call me a teacher. I’m not saying I’m a prophet; I’m saying
I’m the Messiah; I’m saying I’m God incarnate.’ So what you’re left with is either Christ
who was who He said He was, the Messiah; or a complete nutcase. The idea that the
entire course of civilization, for over half of the globe, could have its fate changed and
turned upside down by a nutcase, for me, that’s far-fetched.”

How would you assess or describe your life? Have you come to realize that every good
thing in your life is the result of grace? What is the sure sign that you are celebrating
grace? That sure sign is joyful humility. Paul says it in Romans 5…If what we have is
what we’ve been given and not what we’ve earned, then there’s no reason for boasting.
You see, when I really realize that I’m the object of grace, that all of the good things in
my life are not things that I’ve achieved, but things that I’ve been given by the gracious
hand of God, then what I live in is a joyful, restful humility. And what I do is, I get up
every day, and I celebrate the most important thing in my life, the one thing I could’ve
never earned. I celebrate God’s great grace.
(Music Interlude)
PDT: Well, we’ve talked today about the most beautiful thing that exists in all of the
universe, the most beautiful word in human language. We’ve been talking about grace,
and maybe you are asking yourself, “Okay, Paul, I get it, but how do I avail myself; how
do I enter in; how do I get this grace that you’ve been talking about?”
You see, you have got to understand this…that when you convince yourself that your
greatest problem in life exists outside of you rather than inside of you, you quit becoming
a seeker after God’s grace. If your biggest problem is your circumstances, if your biggest
problem is your relationships, if your biggest problems are all those things that go on
outside of you, then you don’t seek after grace. It’s only when you begin to grasp and
humbly admit that God’s grace really does free you from you because your greatest
problem is you. Your greatest problems in life exist inside of you and not outside of you,
and when you get that, God’s grace gives you something you desperately need. Then,
you start being excited about seeking the resources that God has provided in the Lord
Jesus Christ.
You see, it’s only when you admit that your most significant problem is inside of you, not
outside of you…that you begin to get excited about God’s grace. Isn’t it wonderful to
know that you can stand before God and be completely honest about whom you are, and
what you’ve done, and be completely unafraid? Isn’t it wonderful to know that there’s
never a location or situation where you will ever be alone? Isn’t it wonderful to know that
you have been given God’s grace?
KC: A good reminder from Paul Tripp as he continues his look at “Celebrating Grace”
from the series, “Survival Skills for a Fallen World.” And Paul will continue with more
from the same series tomorrow on Right Here, Right Now.
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