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“It was testimony to the fact that our bonding had arrived well in<br />
time.”<br />
You never know where he can surprise you, for me it was at a<br />
friends wedding where he announced his proposal to marry me.<br />
Yes, that was indeed a surprise, one that I had no hints about at all.<br />
We now owe each other a magical experience of a lifetime, for the<br />
interlude he already brought forth. The reason why I say we owe<br />
is because, an engagement isn’t a one-time affair, and it is a magical<br />
process that goes on for life. It has plenty of emotions and love<br />
in it, yet being rational at the same time, commitment wise. For<br />
my marriage, I know it is going to take a lot of maturity, love and<br />
above all patience to make it an unending love story.<br />
The engagement for me was a sneak peak to what comes ahead,<br />
the rest of our lives depended on it. We have been with each other<br />
for quite some time now, but marriage and to wed one another did<br />
raise a few questions, concerns too. Marriages bring about adjustments<br />
and compromises, and both of us have a role to play in it. It<br />
also demands, honesty and love along with compassion as well.<br />
The honeymoon was a blessing; it was a time when I left<br />
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everything, including my day job as a freelance fashion writer.<br />
When I look back, I see my husband and I went on it with an aim<br />
in mind, to understand one another and to adjust with each other.<br />
The frantic aura of the fashion world, the glitz and glamour, the<br />
fast life et al, I left them all behind, just to be with him. He left his<br />
corporate job, those phone calls and plenty of client meetings, just<br />
to be with me. What we envisioned for the honeymoon, were long<br />
relaxing moments in each others arms, dinners that spoke of intimacy<br />
and love, sex that was more emotional and attached, walks<br />
that let us hold each others hands as we moved ahead in life.<br />
We both have our own passions and desires, for him it is sports<br />
and for me, my writing. Living in London for a long time, we were<br />
both thrilled to be on a week long honeymoon at Hawaii, where<br />
he could have all of me, well for sometime I would have fashion<br />
updates from the beach strollers. Absurd I don’t think so darlings,<br />
thrills come and go as and when they have to, you just have to soak<br />
them up.